On today's Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I are talking about moving your body, and more specifically, starting small when you’ve been injured or you’ve got out of the habit of taking exercise.

Polly and I talk about what our exercise routines look like when we’re taking it easier than usual, which can include some simple stretches or 10 minutes on a rebounder. We also touch on nasal breathing and why it’s so helpful for our overall health.

The main thing to take from this conversation is that even the smallest amount of movement is better than nothing.

We really hope you’ll find something useful in here.

Love,
Polly & Lucy x

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My guest on this week's episode of Thrive Solo is the fabulous Akosia, an Australian singer-songwriter who is also an actor and a voiceover artist. Akosia is single, doesn’t have kids, and lives in Melbourne, Australia. Her music defies genres with its raw mix of pop, jazz, soul, dance, and R&B. 

In our conversation, Akosia and I talk about her career, how her late father influenced her music, her religious upbringing, as well as an abusive relationship that she managed to walk away from. We also talk about how she no longer wants to make men her central focus, some of the questionable conversations on Steven Barlett’s podcast, The Diary Of A CEO, relationship red flags, solo travel and much, much more. 

03:54 Akosia's Musical Journey

06:09 Influence of Akosia's Father

07:24 Overcoming Personal Struggles

10:14 Navigating the Music Industry

15:25 Acting Career Highlights

17:53 Focus on Single Life

21:17 Abusive Relationship Insights

30:54 The Importance of Quality Time in Relationships

31:32 Introducing the Feedback Wheel

32:00 Discussing Alarming Statistics on Abuse

33:56 The Peace of Being Single

37:58 Navigating Modern Dating Challenges

44:22 The Complexities of Parenthood Decisions

51:34 Final Thoughts and Reflections

Follow Akosia on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iam.akosia/

Check out her music on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/0Oe5XB0pjnOZZo8snWSHoL

Read the books Akosia mentioned, 'Fierce Intimacy' and 'Why Does he Do That?'

Read ‘Why Does He Do That’: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Why-Does-He-That-Controlling-ebook/dp/B000Q9J0RO

Read ‘Fierce Intimacy’: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Fierce-Intimacy-Standing-Another-Love/dp/1683641574 

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  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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On this week's minisode, I'm talking about how one of the hardest parts of being single can be a quiet grief for the life you expected: the culturally prescribed path of meeting someone, marrying, and having kids. This particular kind of grief is often an understated pang triggered by friends’ family milestones, but can coexist with genuine happiness, independence, and peace in a single, child-free life. Grief can also signal transition, and letting go of an outdated future while building a meaningful life that fits your present.

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On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I are talking about how the amount of good things in your life depends on your ability to notice them.

With so much fear and negativity in the news right now, it’s easy for your attention to be pulled towards what feels heavy and overwhelming. That’s why being intentional about where you place your focus matters more than ever.

This conversation is a gentle reminder that you can train your brain to look for more of what’s uplifting and good. It’s not about ignoring reality — it’s about strengthening your capacity to see the positive alongside it.

We hope you find something that resonates in here.

Love,
Polly & Lucy x

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  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

My guest this week is Poorna Bell, an award-winning author, journalist, public speaker and former executive editor at the Huff Post. Her sixth book, (and fourth non-fiction book) She Wanted More, came out just last month, and shines a much-needed spotlight on the lives of women in their 40s, 50s, 60s and beyond, challenging the stagnation narratives that society tries to force upon us. The book explores various themes including the distinction between motherhood and otherhood, diving into the reality that women can be childfree and still live lives of purpose and meaning. 

Our conversation includes: the tragic loss of Poorna's husband Rob; how society still sees marriage as the superior path; her thoughts on the viral Vogue article, 'Is Having A Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?'; Poorna's current outlook on dating; decentering men, i.e. removing them as the focal point in our lives; the impossible standards placed on women when it comes to ageing; and Poorna's new book, She Wanted more. 

05:28 Poorna’s Story: Losing Her Husband & Rethinking the 'Life Script'

09:25 10 Years On: Grief, Healing, and Finding Joy & Peace Again

16:06 From Wife to Widow to Single: Status, Stigma, and Solo Travel

22:23 Dating Pressure

25:25 Viral Vogue article ‘Is Having A Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?’ + Why Women’s Lives Get Harder with Men

34:20 Why She Wrote ‘She Wanted More’: Aging, Reinvention, and Rejecting the Decline Narrative

38:13 Older Women Athletes & Rewriting the ‘Frailty’ Narrative

40:07 Aging as Liberation: Social Media Role Models in Their 60s

43:17 Letting Go of the Male Gaze

47:53 Desire, Menopause & the Many Realities of Midlife Sex

49:49 Heidi Clements, HRT, Money & Why Friendship Matters More Than Romance

52:54 Decentering Men: Putting Yourself Back at the Center

55:50 Are We Escaping the Patriarchy? Measuring Progress (and What’s Missing)

59:50 Dating Burnout, Quitting Drinking & Dipping a Toe Back Into Dating

01:05:12 Online Dating Reality Check: Hybrid Dating, Expectations & Efficiency

01:08:46 Final Words of Advice

Buy Poorna's book, She Wanted More: https://www.amazon.co.uk/She-Wanted-More-space-dream/dp/1785122835

Follow Poorna on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/poornabell/?hl=en

Follow Poorna on TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@poornabell

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And thank you so much for listening!

On today's minisode, I'm talking about the backlash to my social media content which — like the podcast — celebrates and advocates for single, childfree life — especially comments from coupled people telling me to stop 'going on about' being single. 

My message has always been that singlehood is not better than marriage and children, but also that it is not worse, and it deserves equal validity. There is no question that society continues to stigmatise single women in a multitude of ways, not least through the intrusive questions implying we are lonely, incomplete, or left behind, while married people are not similarly interrogated about things such as regret, divorce, or lost independence. By naming the benefits of single life, and necessarily pointing out the trade-offs of marriage and parenthood, my aim is to correct the long-standing cultural imbalance, reduce shame, and help younger women see multiple legitimate routes to a meaningful life.

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On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I talk about all manner of things including where we’re at with our goals and habits, the importance of staying present in the moment, and how crucial awareness is if we want to make any kind of change in our life.

We hope you’ll find something useful in here!

Love,
Polly & Lucy x

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  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

It’s a very special episode today because my guest is someone I really do love, even though I’ve only known him for a matter of weeks. His name is Einar Thorsteinsson, and he was the wonderful, wonderful guide on my recent trip to Iceland in January. 

This trip was a first for me, not only because I’d never been to Iceland before, but also because I was hosting the trip - having partnered with Explore Worldwide for a Thrive Solo trip for single women. There were 13 of us from the UK, the Netherlands, and the US, and we had a truly fabulous and really quite special 5 days, not least because we had Einar as our most brilliant, brilliant guide. 

To put it in context, Einar is a 67 year old, very happily married man with five adult children, and he was given us lot as his group - but I like to think that he loved us as much as we loved him!

In this conversation, Einar talks about how and why he became a tour guide for Explore in his retirement years, he talks all about Iceland and why he loves it, and he describes the trip that we did in the south of the country which included waterfalls, beaches, and the Northern Lights. Einar also dishes the dirt on what it was like to be in charge of an unruly group of single women! I bloody love this man, and I know you will too.

02:15 Special Guest: Einar Thorsteinsson

04:58 Einar's Background and Career

07:48 The Iceland Trip Experience

13:03 Exploring Iceland's Natural Wonders

24:58 Group Dynamics and Reflections

31:09 The Magic of the Northern Lights

33:47 Magical Night Under the Northern Lights

35:25 Managing Expectations for the Northern Lights

38:11 Exploring Iceland's Natural Wonders

40:59 The Wild Beauty of Iceland's Black Beach

44:11 Final Day Adventures and Reflections

45:22 Looking Forward to Future Iceland Adventures

57:39 Conclusion and Farewell

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  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

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  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I are talking about breaking the cycle of negativity.

We explore how easy it is to get caught in those negative spirals where one thought leads to another and suddenly we're knee-deep in a full-on wallow, feeling pretty rubbish about everything.

We chat about how the way we feel most of the time becomes the energy we're putting out into the world — and how that energy attracts more of the same right back to us.

We also share some of the practical things we both use to gently interrupt a negative spiral and shift our state when we notice ourselves heading down that familiar path.

We hope that you enjoy this conversation.

Love, 

Polly & Lucy x

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  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

My guest this week on Thrive Solo is British country singer-songwriter, Harley Moon Kemp, who also happens to be the daughter of Spandau Ballet’s Martin Kemp, and Shirlie Kemp of both Pepsi and Shirlie, and Wham. 

Harley Moon appeared in last year’s Celebrity Race Across The World with her brother, Roman Kemp, and not only did they appear in it, but they won it. I’m sure many of you will have seen it and subsequently heard Harley Moon mention her happily single status. 

In this episode, Harley Moon and I talk about how she ended up getting into country music in particular and what she loves most about that genre; we talk about how she is absolutely loving single life right now; we talk about how her parents very happy marriage has impacted what she wants and expects from a relationship. We also discuss the shift in the dating scene in her generation, how people are no longer going out to meet people in the way they used to, and how dating as a high profile person can present its own challenges. 

02:15 Meet Harley Moon Kemp

03:45 Harley Moon's Musical Journey

06:00 Discovering Country Music

14:47 Embracing Single Life

23:49 The Modern Dating Scene

31:07 The Inspiration Behind 'My Girls (Love Me Better)'

32:45 Reflecting on the song 'I Know What Good Looks Like'

35:12 Personal Reflections on Relationships

38:43 Living with Intention and Positivity

47:29 The Adventure of 'Race Across the World'

54:43 Final Thoughts and Farewell

Follow Harley Moon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/harleymoonkemp

Listen to Harley Moon on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/7lTrAtvHlfVsJZgXMMR05X

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  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

Support the show

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  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I are talking all about the patriarchy.

This social system that historically centres white men as the default holders of power, money, status and authority, is woven into the very fabric of society.

It shows up in a million subtle - and not so subtle - ways: women playing small because they’ve been taught to be pleasing, quiet, polite and accommodating; women taking on the ‘invisible load’ of housework and kid-min; women being put down at work or at home because of the inherent and subconscious belief that men are somehow superior.

In this conversation, Polly and I talk about how the patriarchy has shown up in our own lives, as well as how things are so much worse for women in other countries and cultures. And this is exactly why women need to start speaking up and standing up for both themselves, and the many, many women who are less fortunate than those of us in western cultures.

We hope you’ll find something interesting in here.

Love,
Polly & Lucy x

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  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

My guest on this week's episode of Thrive Solo, is the gorgeous Sarah Bennett, a single and childfree sober coach living in Hertfordshire. In her 30s, Sarah felt under huge pressure to find a partner and have children. As friends settled down and started families, she often felt left behind. In trying to numb the loneliness and deep sense of inadequacy she felt, Sarah’s drinking steadily increased. But instead of helping, it left her feeling lower and more depressed, with hangovers that made her feel even more alone, and a growing sense of shame and being out of control. 

Sarah is now 54 and in a very, very different place. She had already come to terms with being childless (although these days she calls herself childfree), but after her last relationship ended a couple of years ago, she decided to stop drinking. This has transformed her life in ways she couldn’t have imagined, and she is finally comfortable in her own skin, and has learnt to love and accept herself exactly as she is, without feeling like she needs a relationship or children to validate her life. Last year, Sarah trained with The Sober Club and became an accredited sober coach, and she now runs The Sobriety Society, supporting women who want to change their relationship with alcohol. She’s worked with women in many different situations, but her heart is very much with those who are single and childless.

02:06 Guest Introduction: Sarah Bennett's Journey

02:19 Sarah's Struggles and Transformation

03:17 The Sobriety Society and Coaching

05:07 Sarah's Single Life and Reflections

17:35 Challenges of Drinking and Finding Clarity

32:19 The Benefits of Quitting Alcohol

33:40 Social Pressures and Reactions to Quitting

37:54 Personal Experiences and Challenges

43:59 Coaching and Helping Others

52:37 Health Risks and Statistics

56:45 Final Thoughts and Resources

Check out Sarah's website: https://www.thesobrietysociety.co.uk/

Follow Sarah on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesobrietysocietyuk

Find Sarah on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesobrietysocietyuk

Support the show

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  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

Support the show

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  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I talk about what it really means to shift out of the background and into the lead role of your own life.

We chat about how easy it is, especially for women, to unconsciously slip into a supporting role, putting everyone else’s needs first, waiting for the “right time,” or playing small out of habit rather than intention.

We explore how being the main character doesn’t mean being loud or dramatic. It simply means taking up space in your own life. And it doesn’t require a big, sweeping change — sometimes it’s just one small moment where you back yourself and remember that you’re allowed to take the lead and want more.

We hope you find something useful in here.

Love,
Polly & Lucy xx

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  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

My guest this week is one of those people that I just fell in love with because she is completely divine and she has the best energy — not to put too fine a point on it, but I bloody loved her! 

Her name is Hannah Frankson, and she is a 37 year old Peloton Instructor living in London, totally rocking her solo life. That said, she is also dating and very much open to a relationship with the right guy. 

From a very young age, Hannah was mad about athletics and it was her dream to go to the Olympics - she worked incredibly hard at athletics for years, also working as both a model and personal training in order to pay the bills. But life had other plans for Hannah and, having broken up with the man she was supposed to marry, she discovered indoor cycling and realised she absolutely loved it. She was subsequently headhunted by Peloton - by the end of this episode you'll understand why they wanted her - and the rest is history. She’s been one of Peloton’s instructors for 6 years. 

In our conversation, Hannah and I talk all about her life as a single woman without kids in London town, we talk about her amazing career, we talk dating, we talk self worth, and much, much more. 

02:15 Guest Introduction

02:48 Hannah's Athletic Journey

07:19 Modelling and Personal Training

16:43 Discovering Peloton

19:35 The Peloton Experience

26:26 Single and Thriving

33:50 Challenging the Narrative: Single Women and Happiness

34:32 The Movement of Single Women

35:21 The Importance of Reframing Single Life

37:03 Addressing Misconceptions on Social Media

38:16 Empowering Single Women Through Fitness

40:34 Navigating Dating and Self-Worth

49:03 Creating a Fulfilling Single Life

51:56 Incorporating Fun and Community into Single Life

54:17 Advice for Women on Fitness and Self-Care

01:02:36 Final Thoughts and Farewell

Follow Hannah on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hannahfrankson/?hl=en

Fid Hannah at Peloton: https://www.onepeloton.com/en-GB/instructors/ImFranktheTank

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This week's minisode is a fiery pep talk for your wildest dreams: I unpack the quote “One life. Just one. Why aren’t we running like we are on fire towards our wildest dreams,” and get honest about fear, perfectionism, and waiting for permission. This is a nudge to choose aliveness over hesitation — pick a direction, take the tiniest step, keep it consistent, and stop treating your real life like a rehearsal.

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On today’s Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I are talking about the power of intentionally tuning into nature during crazy times.

Most of us would agree that the state of the world right now is…alot. It can feel overwhelming and scary, to say the least, and it’s easy to feel completely out of control.

One of the best ways to put things into perspective - not to mention regulate our overstimulated nervous systems - is to remember that we are a part of something much, much greater than ourselves.

Sometimes a walk in nature is all we need to feel calmer; a cuddle with our cat can bring us back to joy; and noticing the beauty of the flowers or the birds can make us feel more grounded.

So if you’re feeling upset, scared, or horrified by what’s happening in the world, one of the best things you can do is surround yourself with nature - whether that’s a walk along the coast, or just popping into your local city park.

We sincerely hope you’ll find something helpful or interesting in here.

Love,

Polly & Lucy x

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My guest on the podcast today is Gurds Hundal. A former journalist, Gurds is a Trauma Coach & Inner Work Expert, who has more than a decade of experience in trauma healing, boundaries and inner child work. Many of her clients have discovered their purpose, entered healthy relationships, created stronger boundaries, reconnected with their inner child and learnt to love themselves better, and her signature approach comes down to holding the space for her clients to feel, deal with and heal their trauma in a safe and understanding environment...allowing them to heal quicker.  Gurds has extensive experience in coaching, medical journalism and healthcare and has helped many women to transform trauma and infinitely trust themselves, so they can powerfully move forward in their life. 

She is also the host of her own podcast, The Inner Light Project, which is how I met Gurds because I was a guest on her podcast and we had such a great conversation that I decided I had to get her on mine. In this conversation, Gurds tells me how she went from being a “hot mess” and collapsing in her office, to a cancer stare, to discovering she had kidney disease…to turning her life around and finding her purpose and joy.

The conversation delves into the power of healing childhood and ancestral trauma, understanding intuition, and living a life true to oneself. Practical advice is given on how to start the journey of self-discovery and healing, and the episode wraps up with insights into breaking free from victimhood and feeding the positive aspects of life.

02:15 Guest Introduction

03:26 Gurds' Journey: From Collapse to Cancer Scare

07:05 The Turning Point: Embracing Self-Love and Healing

09:19 Discovering Coaching and Transforming Trauma

13:04 The Power of Intuition and Healing

20:37 Finding Purpose and Living Intentionally

31:17 Letting Go of Fear and Embracing Abundance

32:31 The Power of Intuition and Self-Trust

33:54 Challenges Faced by Single Women

35:33 Self-Love and Mirror Work

40:09 Understanding and Healing the Inner Child

47:00 Breaking Free from Victimhood

53:04 Living an Awesome Life and Embracing Your Gifts

Check out Gurds' website: https://gurdshundal.com/

Check out her podcast, The Inner Light Project: https://gurdshundal.com/podcast/

Follow Gurds on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamgurds/

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Today's minisode is a punchy reminder that your energy comes first. I break down 'mind, mouth, mood' — your thoughts, your words, and the emotional climate you live in — as the cause, with life as the effect. Master these three (most of the time, not perfectly) and you stop reacting to life and start creating it. What signal are you sending out today?

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On this weeks Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I are talking about how our hardest times and biggest “failures” often become our greatest lessons.

We talk about how difficult seasons can shape us, clarify what really matters, and guide us onto the right path.

A reminder that nothing is wasted – and if you’re in a tough chapter right now, sending you loads of love and hope this may be of a little help to you.

Love ,

Polly & Lucy x

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*** TRIGGER WARNING *** Domestic abuse and sexual abuse are mentioned in this episode.

My guest on the podcast today is Melanie Hamlett, a comedian, journalist, public speaker, and storyteller based in France. She's written dozens of articles for publications like Harper’s Bazaar, The Washington Post, Glamour, The Daily Beast, Slate, Cosmo, The Guardian, Playboy, and The Huffington Post. Her viral article for Harper's Bazaar called ‘Men Have No Friends and Women Bear the Burden’ has been referenced in dozens of podcasts, books, and publications including GQ, The New Yorker,  Oprah, and Slate, and was also the inspiration for the sketch Man Park on Saturday Night Live, according to Vanity Fair.  

I came across Melanie on social media, and it’s her TikTok and YouTube pages where she's doing most of her storytelling, culture criticism, and journalistic work these days — and she is HILARIOUS. She is a real force of nature, and you will hear that loud and clear in this conversation, so buckle up and be prepared for more swearing than usual. 

Melanie herself is actually married to a Frenchman — hence she lives in France — but she has very strong views about men, the patriarchy, and how women have been conditioned to essentially abandon themselves for the sake of romantic relationships. She is childfree. 

In our conversation, we delve into Melanie's past as an outdoor guide, her experiences in male-dominated environments, and her viral article 'Men Have No Friends and Women Bear the Burden.' We discuss societal issues, the impact of patriarchy, and the importance of fostering genuine communities and dating oneself. We also talk about Scott Galloway who Melanie is not a fan of, the need for women to centre their own well-being and build strong, supportive networks, and much more.

Follow Melanie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melhamlett?lang=en

Follow Melanie on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRW66WXeQGNdV1NtyAIv0Cg

Watch one of Melanie's reels about Scott Galloway: https://www

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This week's minisode is a gentle reset for a noisy world. I'm talking about staying informed without being consumed, and why your real power is in tending your corner of the world: your mind, your words, your energy. Choose presence, protect your inputs, and be the calm that ripples outward.

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On today’s Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I are talking about that ‘back to school’ feeling that so many of us feel after Christmas and New Year.

If you’re feeling low following the festive season, now is the time to make finding joy a priority. Because like so many things in life, we have to get intentional about choosing it.

Polly and I also talk about being aware of our thoughts, how our inner world creates our outer world, and why being truly present in the moment is the key to living a joyful life.

We hope you’ll find something useful in here.

Love,
Polly & Lucy x

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My guest on this week's episode is the completely divine Rosalie Minnitt, a comedian, writer and performer, who made her Edinburgh Fringe debut with her critically acclaimed character comedy show ‘Clementine’, a Jane Austen parody that meditates on girlhood, romance and everything in between and inverts the Austen image of "spinsterdom". Described as ‘delirious, demented stuff’ in Chortle, listed in the Telegraph’s Funniest Shows at the Fringe and one of the British Comedy Guide’s Top Reviewed Shows, Rosalie has sold out multiple runs at Soho Theatre, including the main space, and was in the Guardian’s Top Ten Comedy shows of 2023. 

Rosalie was a total delight and it was so interesting talking to a younger single woman — she’s 28 — about all things relationships, men, comedy, life, patriarchy, the state of dating, and so much more. Our conversation includes the complexities of modern romantic relationships, societal expectations, and the importance of self-belief and community among women. Rosalie also talks about her inspirations, her journey in the comedy world, and her outlook on dating and personal growth. 

02:15 Guest Introduction

03:50 Rosalie's Journey into Comedy

05:35 Creating 'Clementine': Inspiration and Process

13:52 Exploring Themes of Romance and Feminism

24:04 Challenges and Reflections on Feminism

35:34 The Ingrained Sexism in Society

36:29 Finding Support and Belief in the Industry

38:26 Navigating Single Life and Dating Challenges

40:18 The Struggle of Maintaining Authenticity in Relationships

47:48 The Complexities of Modern Dating

51:19 The Need for Connection and Community

57:37 Exciting Projects and Future Plans

01:01:21 Final Thoughts and Farewell

Follow Rosalie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rosalieminnitt/?hl=en

Get tickets to Rosalie's show, Clementine: https://linktr.ee/rosalieminnitt

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On this week's minisode, I'm sharing a trio of things that will significantly lower your stress levels when you incorporate them all into your life. You're welcome. 

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On today’s Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I are talking about maintaining a positive mental attitude even when life throws us a curveball.

Last week, Polly injured her knee on the last day of her skiing trip, and is currently on crutches while she waits to find out how serious the injury is.

She talks about how she’s feeling and how she’s been trying to stay positive and expect the best possible outcome. Because, as Polly and I have discussed here before, two people can experience the exact same circumstances in two very different ways - depending on their thinking.

We hope you’ll find something useful in here!

Love,
Polly & Lucy x

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My guest on Thrive Solo this week is the wonderful Gail Rice, a Canadian born psychologist and writer based in Sydney, Australia. 

Gail’s work explores how the stories we carry can hold us back...or call us forward. Her writing shines a light on the unspoken stories around aging, desire, and reinvention, and she’s also currently writing her memoir. 

Gail recently wrote an essay for The Times, also featured in the New York Times Modern Love podcast, entitled ‘I hired a male escort for my 70th Birthday’. Because that’s exactly what she did. In fact, Gail didn’t hire just one escort, she hired two, because the first experience was, shall we say, sub-par. 

As well as talking about her experience of hiring an escort at the age of 70, Gail and I also talk about some really important topics around ageing, including how so many women start to feel invisible the older they get, the particular kind of urgency that Gail feels as she moves into her later life, and the importance of mindset around ageing.

02:15 Guest Introduction: Gail Rice

02:46 Gail's Story: Hiring an Escort at 70

05:35 The Experience and Its Impact

09:05 Reflections on Ageing and Visibility

17:18 Exploring Tantra and Self-Discovery

20:28 Romantic History and Singlehood

25:42 Regret and Life Choices

33:58 Perspectives on Ageing and Urgency

36:01 Reflecting on Ageing and Gratitude

37:19 The Impact of Mindset on Ageing

38:46 The Power of Female Community

43:34 Embracing Singlehood and Overcoming Loneliness

54:24 The Pressure of Anti-Ageing Culture

01:00:33 The Importance of Touch and Companionship

01:04:49 Celebrating Independence and Self-Discovery

01:06:18 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Listen to Gail's piece: https://podcasts.apple.com/vg/podcast/i-hired-a-male-escort-for-my-70th-birthday-the-sunday-story/id1501716010?i=1000734694214

Follow Gail on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gailrice.psych.writes/?hl=en

Join Gail's Substack: https://gail263.substack.com/

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I turned 50 on New Year's Day. How this happened, I have no idea. 

But anyhoo...I've put together a list of 50 bits of advice / things I've learnt / words of wisdom, and I'm sharing it with you here. I sincerely hope that some of these nuggets might help you make the most of your journey in this crazy thing we call life. 

HAPPY NEW YEAR! xxx

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On this week’s Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I are getting intentional about 2026.  Because any change you want to make starts with you, and now is the moment to begin living life by design, rather than by default.

We chat about why clarity of direction matters, and how real change happens when you start becoming, and embodying, the future version of yourself now.

We hope you find something useful in here.

Love Polly & Lucy x

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The wonderful Chanté Joseph, writer of the viral British Vogue piece, ‘Is Having A Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?’ is back for Part 2 of our conversation. If you haven’t already listened to Part 1, I highly recommend you go and do that first, and you're then going to want to come back and listen to this part, too!

In this second half of our conversation, Chanté talks about how she’s started being totally upfront with men she’s dating, rather than holding back for fear of losing someone; she talks about a book called The Tragedy of Heterosexuality by Jane Ward, which has really transformed the way that Chanté thinks about relationships and dating; we also talk about polyamory and non-monogamy, the question of whether human beings are even built for long-term relationship, as well as 'Strangers In The City', an event series that Chanté started with her best friend which brings solo people together. 

02:38 The Tragedy of Heterosexuality

02:58 Polyamory and Non-Monogamy

06:04 Emotional Dominance in Relationships

11:39 Questioning Long-Term Relationships

19:05 The Fear of Being Alone

21:20 Cultural Perspectives on Singledom

22:59 The Irony of Singledom for Women

23:56 Scott Galloway and the Masculinity Crisis

24:56 Encouraging Men to Step Up

27:07 The Role of Community in Relationships

29:22 Reflections on Societal Pressures

34:19 Chanté's Personal Journey and Career Focus

36:52 Strangers in the City: Chanté's Event Series

Read Chanté's Vogue piece: https://www.vogue.co.uk/article/is-having-a-boyfriend-embarrassing-now

Follow her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chantayyjayy/?hl=en

Book a 'Strangers In The City' event: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/o/strangers-in-the-city-81942438803

Follow Strangers In The City on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/strangersinthecityevents/?hl=en

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In this end-of-year minisode, I’m sharing a loving-but-direct wake-up call before 2026: being single is not the problem — feeling directionless is. 

I talk about how the real fix for feeling stuck isn’t finding a partner, it’s finding something meaningful to move towards: a project, a purpose, a path that lights you up from the inside out. I share honestly from my own life about how direction filled the void I once thought a boyfriend would fix, and I invite you to choose one thing you want to build in 2026 so you stop waiting for your life to start and begin creating it instead.

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On today’s Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I are talking about one of my favourite topics…enthusiasm!

Enthusiasm is one of the highest vibration emotions there is; and if we’re not feeling enthusiastic about anything in our life, that’s a sign that something needs to change.

But just like joy and gratitude, enthusiasm is something that we have to choose, to prioritise, to cultivate. And the more we cultivate it, the more things we’ll find to be enthusiastic about.

We really hope you’ll find something of value in this conversation.

Love,
Polly & Lucy x

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I'm super excited that my guest on Thrive Solo this week (and next) is the fabulous Chanté Joseph, writer of the viral British Vogue piece, ‘Is Having A Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?’ 

If you haven’t heard of Chanté or this piece, you’ve probably been living in a cave for the last month or so because when I say this article went viral, I mean VIRAL — globally. I’ve heard so many people talking about it — people you would never expect to even come across this kind of content, which just speaks to how this piece has really hit a nerve. 

Chanté is hear to tell us all about the rollercoaster that has been the last couple of months, and this conversation truly is a must-listen — not just for single women, but for everyone. Chanté and I talk about how she came to write the article, the people she interviewed and why she ended up asking the question 'Is Having A Boyfriend Embarrassing Now’ in the first place; we talk about the hate and abuse she’s received online since writing the piece, how the fantasy of the fairytale is starting to fade, as well as the movement that is happening when it comes to single women. We also talk about how women often put up with sub-par behaviour from men because they’re scared of somebody walking away if they're honest about their needs and desires in the relationship. 

Make sure you come back next week for Part 2 because you're not going to want to miss it!  

02:19 The Viral Article: 'Is Having A Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?'

04:08 Chanté's Journey and Insights

06:52 The Impact of the Article

12:51 Reactions and Reflections

14:41 The Bigger Picture: Solo Movement

16:28 Chanté's Personal Experience

20:35 Unexpected Viral Fame

20:54 Navigating Newfound Responsibility

21:35 The Pressure of Public Expectations

22:59 Dealing with Online Hate

24:52 Personal Attacks and Misunderstandings

32:37 Responding to Young Men's Concerns

35:50 Setting Boundaries in Dating and Relationships

Read Chanté's Vogue piece: https://www.vogue.co.uk/article/is-having-a-boyfriend-embarrassing-now

Follow her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chantayyjayy/?hl=en

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And thank you so much for listening!

In Week 10 of my mini series ‘10 Weeks To A Joyful Christmas’, I’m talking about remembering that, despite the fanfare, Christmas is just one day.

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  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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This week, Polly and I are diving into Christmas — the bits that feel magical…and the bits that feel a little wobbly.

Because for so many of us, this season can stir up old stories, tricky family dynamics, or that familiar mix of sadness and joy sitting right next to each other.

We hope you find something useful in here.

Wishing you a very Happy Christmas! 🎄

Love,
Polly & Lucy xxx

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  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

This week is Part 2 of my conversation with the wonderful, funny and fabulous Bronwyn, one of my Thrive Solo membership community members, who I absolutely LOVE. 

If you haven’t listened to Part 1 yet, I recommend you do that first, and then come back to this half, because you’re going to want to hear the whole conversation. 

In this half of our chat, we discuss everything from the need to feel like we’ve been ‘chosen’, the idea that our self-worth has to come from being in a relationship, the sense that we sometimes feel like we need to say yes to someone even if we’re not that in to them, just in case they’re the last person who’s ever going to want to be with us! 

We also talk about changing subconscious beliefs, finding direction in life, as well as our journalling and affirmation practices. 

You’re going to love the second part of this very honest and totally untamed conversation. 

Enjoy!

Email Bronwyn: whizzlebetty@gmail.com 

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• Buy my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book

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And thank you so much for listening!

In Week 9 of my mini series ‘10 Weeks To A Joyful Christmas’, I’m talking about all of the reasons we have to be grateful for being single at Christmas.

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• Download my FREE PDF 'Top 10 Comebacks for the Most
  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

On today's Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I are diving into some of our favourite non-fiction personal development books — the ones that have genuinely shifted how we think, feel, and show up in the world.

If you’re craving a change for the better, want to keep growing, and you’re naturally curious, these books will give you a nudge in the right direction.

Have you read any of our favourites?

And tell us — what would you add to the list? We love discovering new ones.

Love,
Polly & Lucy x

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• Download my FREE PDF 'Top 10 Comebacks for the Most
  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

This was one of my favourite, most authentic, most conversational episodes of the podcast that I’ve ever recorded, and I loved every minute of it because my guest is the totally brilliant Bronwyn — a beloved member of my Thrive Solo membership community. 

Bronwyn also happens to be very cool, very smart, and very funny, and we laughed ALOT in this conversation, so much so that I pretty much forgot I was recording. 

Bronwyn usually lives in Ohio, US, but is currently living in Kazakhstan where she teaches Eglish as a foreign language. She was married for 14 years, but has been separated for two, and she loves being single — although she still sometimes suffers from those feelings of unworthiness that we can all relate to when it comes to being chosen by a man. 

We covered so many things in our conversation so it was longer than usual, and because of that I’ve decided to put it out in two parts because I really want you to listen to the whole thing, and I know how life gets in the way and sometimes we don’t finish episodes that are an hour and a half long. I’m hoping that by dividing it into two halves, you’ll listen to the whole thing over the next two weeks because it’s really worth listening to the very end. 

In this first half, Bronwyn talks about how difficult and heartbreaking it was to end her marriage of 14 years, how she simply doesn’t want to be married and found the obligations and expectations of marriage really hard, even if she was putting them on herself. 

We also talk about the sacrifices that are required in order to be in a romantic relationship, as well as how we both struggle to separate sleeping with someone from subsequently wanting more than just sex!

You will absolutely LOVE this episode. Enjoy!

Email Bronwyn: whizzlebetty@gmail.com

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And thank you so much for listening!

In Week 8 of my mini series ‘10 Weeks To A Joyful Christmas’, I’m talking about the importance of boundaries, and protecting your energy, at this time of year. Particularly when it comes to those intrusive questions about our single status...

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And thank you so much for listening!

In this episode of Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I are talking about releasing and letting go as we move towards 2026.

We cover releasing through breathwork, letting go of the judgement of others, as well as how perfectionism can sometimes be procrastination in disguise.

We hope you’ll find something useful in here!

Love,
Polly & Lucy x

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• Buy my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book

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• Download my FREE PDF 'Top 10 Comebacks for the Most
  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

I am beyond excited about my guest on the podcast this week because she's someone I've been wanting to interview for a loooong time! A New York Times bestselling author, Ivy League women's rights lawyer turned life coach, and host of the Unfu*k Your Brain podcast, she is none other than Kara Loewentheil. 

In our conversation, Kara shares her journey from law to life coaching, and emphasises the significance of thought work and self-compassion in overcoming societal pressures and internalised shame. We explore confidence as a crucial skill set for creating a life that aligns with one's true desires, rather than conforming to limiting societal norms. Kara also talks about why she prefers the term persistence to consistency in the realm of personal development, and we also explore the importance of cultivating a strong relationship with oneself. This episode is packed with practical advice and insights for anyone looking to embrace and thrive in their single life.

05:25 Kara's Journey from Lawyer to Life Coach

09:45 The Impact of Society on Single Women

14:41 Understanding and Overcoming Shame

18:18 The Power of Thought Work

20:53 Consistency vs. Persistency in Thought Work

23:26 Affirmations and Repetition

26:29 Thoughts Are Not Facts

29:37 The Importance of Inner Work

30:38 Embrace Friction in a Tech-Driven World

31:30 The Importance of Self-Reflection and Personal Growth

32:46 Navigating Relationships and Self-Worth

34:17 The Reality of Marriage and Emotional Availability

35:59 The Illusion of Achieving Happiness Through Milestones

37:34 Cultivating Contentment and Emotional Availability

39:03 The Challenges and Rewards of Intimacy

47:38 Empowering Women to Live Their Best Lives

50:48 The Core of Confidence and Self-Actualisation

53:31 Final Thoughts and Words of Wisdom

Sign up for 'Create More Confidence', Kara's Pop-Up event on 8-10 December: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/confident/

Check out Kara's website: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/

Buy Kara's book, Take Back Your Brain: https://www.takebackyourbrainbook.com/

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• Buy my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book

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• Download my FREE PDF 'Top 10 Comebacks for the Most
  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

In Week 7 of my mini series ‘10 Weeks To A Joyful Christmas’, I’m talking about solo traditions — and why you don't need a partner to make them joyful.

Support the show

• Buy my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book

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• Download my FREE PDF 'Top 10 Comebacks for the Most
  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

On this week’s Monday Motivation, Polly and I are talking about how it doesn’t matter how much personal development work we do if we don’t actually do the thing.

You can learn and reflect endlessly, but real change only happens when insight becomes action.

We dive into how growth takes time and consistent practice. It asks for patience, repetition and putting in the reps, even when progress feels slow or subtle.

We also challenge the belief of “I don’t have time”. Because often, it’s not time we’re lacking… it’s prioritisation. And when something truly matters, we do find a way to make space for it.

This episode is a reminder that only you can create the changes you’re longing for — and yes, there’s a little tough love in there, but only because we know action is what works.

We hope there’s something in here that supports you this week.

Love,

Polly & Lucy x

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• Buy my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book

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  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

My guest on Thrive Solo this week is the fabulous Meghan Keane. 

Full disclosure, Meghan is in a relationship — in fact she’s engaged — BUT don’t switch off because she’s also the author of the wonderful book, ''Party of One: Be Your Own Best Life Partner', plus she spent a large chunk of her life single, hence writing the book in the first place because she was single when she began writing it. 

Meghan is full of wisdom, super bright, and this is a conversation that you’re going to love. Aside from being an author, Meghan has an amazing day job as the founder and supervising editor of NPR's (National Public Radio in the US) Life Kit, which brings listeners advice and actionable information about personal finances, health, parenting, relationships and more. 

In this conversation, Meghan and I talk about everything from her own experience of being single, to negative self talk, shame, mindfulness techniques, and of course Meghan’s wonderful book. 

03:51 Meghan's Journey & NPR Career

07:27 Writing 'Party of One'

09:56 Overcoming Negative Self Talk

14:21 Mindfulness and Self-Regulation

27:29 The Hedonic Treadmill & Values

33:21 The Diversity of Connections

34:35 Reframing Romantic Relationships

37:00 The Misconception of Loneliness

40:04 Navigating Singlehood and Relationships

52:01 The Reality of Being in a Relationship

55:26 Final Thoughts and Advice

Check out Meghan's website: https://www.meghanvkeane.com/

Buy The Book: https://hyperurl.co/PartyofOne

Follow her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/damekeane/?hl=en

Support the show

• Buy my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book

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• Download my FREE PDF 'Top 10 Comebacks for the Most
  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

In Week 6 of my mini series ‘10 Weeks To A Joyful Christmas’, I’m talking about why resting is a power move, especially at this time of year — and why it's a necessity, not a reward.

Support the show

• Buy my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book

• Join my membership community for single women, Thrive Solo: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/thrivesolo

• Download my FREE PDF 'Top 10 Comebacks for the Most
  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

On today’s Thursday's Thoughts, Polly and I are talking about the difference between thoughts and thinking, thanks to a book that Polly has been reading called 'Don’t Believe Everything You Think' by Joseph Nguyen.

We all have thoughts - between 60,000 and 70,000 each day - but we get to choose which of those thoughts we want to entertain into actual thinking, and which of those we don’t.

Polly and I talk about how we’ve both worked hard on our own thinking over the last few years. We also discuss some of the practical steps you can take in order to become more aware of what’s going on between your ears, including getting into a wonderful ‘flow state’ that gets us out of our thinking brain and into the present moment, and moving your body to shift your energetic state.

We really hope you’ll enjoy this conversation.

Love,
Polly & Lucy x

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• Buy my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book

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  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

My guest on the podcast today is the gorgeous Emma Duval. 

Emma is an author and illustrator whose first book, Unwed & Unbothered: The Defiant Lives of Single Women Throughout History, shines a light on the overlooked history of single women without kids, celebrating their lives, achievements, and legacies. Emma is also the founder of the first virtual museum dedicated to women without children, which can be viewed online at www.childfreehistory.com 

Emma herself is married, but she is childfree by choice, and during our conversation we talk, among other things, about what motivated her as a married woman to write a book all about single women. We also talk about how she has come up against serious pressure from her family about her choice not to have kids, and how she they don’t even know about her book. 

Emma’s book is full of such interesting stories of amazing women throughout history including Jane Austen, Florence Nightingale, the Beguines, and many, many more, and I know that you guys will find this episode so interesting.

02:14 Guest Introduction: Emma Duval

03:42 Emma's Journey and Inspirations

04:52 Challenges and Pressures of Being ChildFree

06:56 Writing 'Unwed and Unbothered'

20:05 Online Communities and Support

23:32 Historical Context of Single Women

31:10 The Beguines Movement in Medieval Europe

32:47 Chosen Families and Intentional Communities

34:34 Margaretta Forten: An Unsung Heroine

39:14 Prioritising Pursuits Other Than Marriage

46:02 Women with Gumption: Stories of Defiance

51:47 Illustrating History: Bringing Women to Life

55:07 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Buy Emma's book: https://www.simonandschuster.co.uk/books/Unwed-Unbothered/Emma-Duval/9798881600037

Buy the book: https://uk.bookshop.org/p/books/unwed-unbothered-the-defiant-lives-of-single-women-throughout-history-emma-duval/7892978

Check out the first virtual museum dedicated to women without children, which Emma founded: http://www.childfreehistory.com/

Follow Emma on Instagram: @MillennialEmma

Support the show

• Buy my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book

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• Download my FREE PDF 'Top 10 Comebacks for the Most
  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

In Week 5 of my mini series ‘10 Weeks To A Joyful Christmas’, I’m talking about how money, gifting and comparison can send us spiralling at this time of year — but they don't have to.

Support the show

• Buy my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book

• Join my membership community for single women, Thrive Solo: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/thrivesolo

• Download my FREE PDF 'Top 10 Comebacks for the Most
  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

On this week’s Monday Motivation, Polly and I are talking about not waiting for the wake-up call before you begin living in a way that truly supports your wellbeing.

We discuss how the simple choices you make every day shape your health, your energy and your sense of aliveness.

And how change doesn’t have to be dramatic - it can start with one small choice at a time.

This is a gentle reminder that you don’t have to reach burnout, a crisis or rock bottom to choose differently. You can start right now. 🙌🏻

We really hope you'll find something useful in here.

Love,

Polly & Lucy x

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It’s a solo episode from me this week which is actually a recording from a 3-Day webinar I did a few weeks ago. On Day 2, I talked all about one of my favourite topics — mindset — as well as some of my favourite mindset hacks. 

Now, I know I talk about mindset ALOT, but these are the kinds of things we need to be reminded of every damn day — myself included — otherwise we forget, we go unconscious, and we fall back into our old patterns. 

The things I’m talking about in this episode are essential when it comes to cultivating a more empowering mindset, and subsequently living a better life. They're things I’ve been learning about and practicing for five years, and honestly, they’ve changed my life for the better. 

So get comfy and have a listen to this episode, because when you shift your mindset, you shift your life. Enjoy!

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And thank you so much for listening!

In Week 4 of my mini series ‘10 Weeks To A Joyful Christmas’, I’m talking about your Connection Plan — curate your diary now with a few nourishing plans so December feels intentional, not overwhelming.

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And thank you so much for listening!

On today’s Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I are talking about how long we allow ourselves to dwell on things that aren’t serving us; in other words, where we’re placing our attention.

How often do you actually notice where your mind is at any given moment? And how often do you find yourself ruminating on something that isn’t making you feel good? Perhaps you had an argument with a friend, or maybe you’re worried about an email from your boss. Are you still thinking about it three days later?

Polly and I talk about why it’s so incredibly important to bring more awareness to our thoughts, and to consciously choose to shift our focus onto something else, rather than obsess over things that are completely out of our control.

Of course we need to feel our feelings - and of course some things are much bigger and more serious than others - but in the day to day of life, how long do you tend to dwell on a conversation, event, or incident that is making you feel bad?

We hope you’ll find something useful in here.

Love,
Polly & Lucy x

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And thank you so much for listening!

In this week's episode of Thrive Solo, my guest is Rebekah Buege. 

Rebekah lives in Minnesota, USA, and while she works a corporate 9 - 5 job, she’s also a body neutrality coach, a writer, and she posts all about her single life on TikTok and Instagram. In this conversation, Rebekah and I talk about pursuing life over relationships, the state of modern dating, overcoming societal pressures, and the liberating experience of changing her appearance with a short haircut. Rebekah emphasises the importance of living life fully without waiting for a partner, investing in friendships, and understanding one's own identity. She also discusses the benefits and challenges of single life, and how single life is often conflated with loneliness. The episode concludes with Rebecca's thoughts on how to thrive as a single person by living authentically and proactively.

02:36 Rebekah's Life and Career

04:23 Living in London

07:30 Dating and Relationship Insights

14:49 The State of Modern Dating

18:29 The Impact of Technology on Relationships

24:21 Personal Reflections on Single Life

30:21 Embracing the Present Moment

32:42 Challenging Societal Norms

33:23 Practical Tips for Enjoying Singleness

36:29 The Power of Personal Choices

44:55 The Joys and Challenges of Single Life

51:05 Debunking the Single and Lonely Myth

56:02 Final Thoughts and Farewell

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• Buy my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book

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  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

In Week 3 of my mini series ‘10 Weeks To A Joyful Christmas’, I’m talking about habits and momentum — two months is plenty of time to make shit happen. Pick one tiny daily anchor and one small finish-by-New-Year goal, and let simple actions lead your mood.

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  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

On this weeks Monday Motivation, Polly and I are sharing our thoughts about meditation.

We’re diving into what meditation really is - why it’s not about ‘switching off your mind’, and why meditation has been such a game changer for both of us.

We also share some simple ways to start your own practice. Because meditation is a practice - the benefits feel subtle at first, but over time, they’re absolutely life-changing.

We hope you find something useful in here.

Love, 

Polly & Lucy x

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And thank you so much for listening!

My guest on the podcast today is the wonderful Helen Taylor. 

Helen is 77 years old, a retired academic, and the author of Childless By Choice: The Meaning & Legacy Of A Childfree Life. It was absolutely fascinating to talk to a woman who went against the grain at a time when motherhood was not only expected, but really was seen as totally central to the lives of women. 

From a very young age, Helen decided not to have children, and in her new book she shares her reasons for choosing to remain childfree as well as the very complex feelings that have accompanied her choice. In our conversation, Helen tells me all about how her own mother’s attitude towards motherhood impacted her choice to not have kids; we also talk about the issue of regret, we talk about how women without kids are still often seen as outliers, we talk about how families can come in all shapes and sizes, and Helen also shares her thoughts about the later stages of a child-free life. 

02:15 Guest Introduction: Helen Taylor

04:51 Helen's Early Life and Decision

07:26 Impact of Societal Expectations

11:39 Contraception and Abortion

19:05 Challenging Family Pressures

27:51 Redefining Family and Friendships

30:45 The Legacy of a ChildFree Life

31:08 Exploring Fulfillment Without Children

35:13 Regret and the ChildFree Choice

37:33 Grandparenting and Childcare Challenges

39:33 Writing 'Childless by Choice'

40:56 Reactions to the Book

52:28 Alternative Families and Friendships

54:16 Final Thoughts and Future Outlook

57:54 Wrapping Up and How to Connect

Buy Helen's Book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Childless-Choice-Meaning-Legacy-Childfree/dp/1917523300

Check out Helen's website: https://www.helen-taylor.co.uk/

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And thank you so much for listening!

In Week 2 of my mini series ‘10 Weeks To A Joyful Christmas’, I’m talking about embracing autumn — soaking up the light, the cosy routines and solo joys, and deliberately looking for beauty instead of letting your brain spiral towards negativity around the upcoming festive season.

Support the show

• Buy my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book

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On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I are talking all about the perils of social media…and screens in general.

The global average daily time spent on social media is approximately 2.5 hours - shocking when you really think about it. And as we doom scroll through our feeds, it’s worth noting that we aren’t actually living our lives during that time - we’re watching the lives of others.

The truth is that social media is highly addictive, and it’s up to us to bring awareness to our own consumption. So ask yourself: how much of your time and attention are you giving away to it? And how does a 60 minute scroll actually make you feel?

We hope you’ll find this conversation useful.

Love,
Polly & Lucy x

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My guest on this week's episode of Thrive Solo is the wonderful Cindy Sheehan.

In 2016, Cindy was a married Mum of four when she took a leave of absence from her office job in Colorado and joined two friends to go backpacking on The Kerry Way in Ireland. Little did she know at the time that that trip would be the beginning of a brand new life. By the end of 2017, she had quit both her job and her marriage to become a full-time traveller, and she has since travelled to nearly 50 countries. Cindy has settled in Palermo, Sicily for now, although who knows where life might take her next. Now while she lives a largely solo life, Cindy has a French, paraglider boyfriend — otherwise known as The Frenchman — who lives in France, and although the two of them spend more time apart than they do together, they meet when they can for travelling adventures. 

I know that you will love hearing all about Cindy’s solo life and travels. In this conversation she shares her transformative experience of leaving a 30-year marriage to travel the world, settling temporarily in various countries, and eventually obtaining an EU passport through Italian ancestry. She talks about the unique relationship dynamics with her French partner, the challenges and rewards of solo travel, and the profound sense of freedom it brings. 

Tune in for inspirational stories, advice on overcoming fears, and a celebration of living a joyful, independent life.

04:54 Cindy's Life Transformation

11:47 The Decision to Leave a 30-Year Marriage

14:35 Support from Family and Solo Travels

17:03 Meeting the Frenchman: A Unique Relationship

23:49 The Joys and Challenges of Solo Travel

28:39 Making Connections While Traveling

31:13 Multi-Generational Friendships

32:11 The Joys of Solo Travel

34:44 Memorable Travel Destinations

36:40 Settling in Europe: Portugal and Sicily

37:29 Navigating EU Residency and Citizenship

44:39 Living in Palermo, Sicily

48:29 Overcoming Solo Travel Fears

54:07 Thriving Solo: Tips and Reflections

57:23 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Follow Cindy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/postsfromaflashpacker/

Check out Cindy's website: https://postsfromaflashpacker.com/

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In Week 1 of my mini series ‘10 Weeks To A Joyful Christmas’, I’m talking about a Mindset Reset — reframing autumn-into-Christmas as a season you design (not a test), and choosing what you’ll notice so the next ten weeks don’t become a downhill slide.

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On this week’s Thursday's Thoughts, Polly and I are talking about stillness.

We explore what really happens when you pause — how your nervous system softens, your clarity returns, and life begins to feel a little more spacious again.

But stillness isn’t just about sitting cross-legged in silence. Sometimes it’s a quiet walk without your headphones, where your mind finally gets a moment to be still.

We also chat about how meditation doesn’t just calm your mind — it’s scientifically proven to boost your health and spark moments of real inspiration.

The truth is, we only perceive a tiny slice of reality… and stillness helps us sense that there’s so much more available to us — beyond what we can see, do, or measure.

We hope you find something useful in here.

Love 

Polly & Lucy xx

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My guest on this week's episode is the absolutely fabulous Marianne Power.

Marianne was on the podcast back in the summer of 2024, so I encourage you to go and listen to those episodes if you haven’t already (I split them into 2 because we talked for so long!), and if you don’t know who she is, then you need to. 

She is the author of the phenomenal book 'Love Me! One Woman’s Search For A Different Kind Of Happy Ever After', which I urge you to read if you haven't already. She’s also the author of 'Help Me!', as well as being a journalist. 

This conversation came off the back of a phone call that Marianne and I had several weeks ago where we talked about everything from how vulnerable it feels to put a book out into the world, to our very different experiences of sex in the past and in the present, to the wonderful things about being single and not having kids; and at the end of that chat we decided she needed to come back on the podcast to try out best to recreate our conversation for you! 

You’re definitely going to want to listen the whole way through — trust me. We cover all manner of things from the vulnerability of writing personal stories, to the importance of connection, and the challenges and joys of navigating singlehood. This engaging conversation touches upon key themes like societal expectations, the need for self-validation, and the broader spectrum of relationships that can fill our lives with meaning and joy.

04:50 Marianne's Journey and Book Insights

10:36 Societal Expectations and Personal Validation

28:14 The Importance of Connection

36:22 Exploring Conscious Sexuality

43:47 Finding Joy in Being Single

43:56 The Importance of Touch and Connection

44:47 Breaking Relationship Norms

45:47 Discussing Our Books and Public Perception

46:44 Marianne's Mortifying Festival Talk (that turned to be a roaring success)

48:58 Overcoming Shame and Embracing Honesty

53:23 Audience Reactions and Validation

57:54 The Struggle of Public Vulnerability

01:12:01 The Importance of Self-Validation

01:13:50 Wrapping Up and Future Plans

Buy Marianne's book, Love Me!: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Love-Me-womans-search-happy/dp/1529057884

Sign up to Marianne's Substack: https://helpmenewsletter.substack.com/

Follow Marianne on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marianne_power_writer/?hl=en

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And thank you so much for listening!

Today is Part Six of a new mini series, 6 Steps To Move Out Of Fear & Into A Life You Love, which is all about the steps I myself have taken to change my life over the last five years. 

In Part 6, I’m talking about aligned action. Mindset is the foundation – but action builds the life you want. This episode brings all six steps together so you can take intentional, values-led action towards the future you deserve.

Support the show

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On today's Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I are talking about the importance of having fun.

Fun is essential for living a good life, especially with everything that's going on in the world at the moment. But fun can look very different for everyone (Polly and I have very different ideas of what fun is!), and that's ok.

Whether fun for you is a work 'away day' playing rounders in the park, or a quiet dinner with your bestie, it all matters. And we need to be intentional about incorporating more of it into our lives.

We hope you'll find something useful in here!

Love,

Polly & Lucy x 

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  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

My guest on the podcast today is the fabulous Krista St-Germain, a Master Certified Life Coach, single mum, grief expert, widow, and host of The Widowed Mom Podcast. 

When her husband was killed by a drunk driver in 2016, Krista’s life was completely flipped upside down. And while it would have been easy to believe her best days were behind her, thankfully Krista discovered Life Coaching and Post Traumatic Growth and was able to move forward and create a future she could get excited about. Now she coaches and teaches other widows so they can love life again, too. Now although Krista works primarily with widowed mums, she is an expert in grief in general, and this conversation is no doubt interesting for anyone who has experienced grief, or is currently experiencing it, not to mention that we will all experience it at some point. Krista and I talk about the loss of her husband, Hugo, how she ended up getting into life coaching and subsequently grief coaching; we talk all about grief and how it is anything but linear, we also talk about post traumatic growth and how it is possible to take your experience of grief and use it to intentionally build a better life for yourself. You guys will all find something of value in this conversation.

03:23 Krista's Journey Through Grief

07:58 Understanding Grief: Beyond the Five Stages

11:31 The Dual Process Model of Grief

15:08 Grief in Childlessness and Secondary Losses

21:16 Redefining Happiness and Self-Love

29:58 Navigating Early Stages of Grief

30:44 Societal Reactions to Grief

32:32 The Loneliness of Grief

36:31 Understanding Post-Traumatic Growth

40:43 Personal Reflections on Grief and Healing

43:49 Current Relationship Status and Reflections

50:19 Final Thoughts and Advice for the Grieving

Check out Krista's website: https://www.coachingwithkrista.com/

Listen to The Widowed Mom Podcast: https://www.coachingwithkrista.com/podcast/

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• Buy my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book

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And thank you so much for listening!

Today is Part Five of a new mini series, 6 Steps To Move Out Of Fear & Into A Life You Love, which is all about the steps I myself have taken to change my life over the last five years. 

In Part 5, I’m talking about fear, discomfort, and courage. Growth comes with a side of fear and discomfort – it’s unavoidable. But courage is the bridge between where you are and where you want to be. Here’s how to move forward with fear in the passenger seat.

Support the show

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And thank you so much for listening!

On today's Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I are talking about making decisions.

There is nothing worse than the pain of indecision. You go back and forth, driving yourself crazy by not deciding. And the truth is that you're never going to know if you've made the 'right' or 'wrong' decision until you've actually made it.

In this conversation, Polly and I talk about our own experiences of decision making, how making decisions quickly is a skill, and why ultimately, whatever decision we make, we will always learn and grow. Plus, even if we make a so-called wrong decision, nothing is set in stone and we have to power to change things.

As with so many things, fear is often what's holding us back from making a decision; but when we find the courage to move through the fear and take action, we move forward. Whereas indecision only keeps us standing still.

We hope you'll find something useful in here!

Love,

Polly & Lucy x

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My guest on the podcast this week is the completely wonderful Bibi Lynch.

Bibi is a journalist, writer, broadcaster, podcaster and live event host. She’s had columns in GQ, Red, New Woman and Grazia; written for most of the Nationals (currently the Guardian, The Independent, The Times and Metro); presented radio shows and interview series for BBC Radio London, BBC Radio Sussex and Soho Radio; co-hosted metro.co.uk's Good Sex Bad Sex pod and fronted the Let’s Get Frank podcast — where she dated people called Frank. 

As well as her writing and broadcast work, she hosts panels and interviews — at Saatchi, The Hoxton, the Barbican and, with her Dirty Talk series, at the Groucho Club in Soho. She co-wrote Graham Norton’s ITV late-nite comedy quiz, Carnal Knowledge; she created WHIPs (Women who are Hot, Intelligent and in their Prime – or Primark if times are tough); and HuffPost voted her one of the ‘50 Funniest Women on Twitter’. #RIP. (She is currently tracking the other 49 down.) She’s a World Childless Week ambassador and a Storyhouse Childless contributor. 

In this conversation, Bibi and I delve into — among other things — the societal stigma associated with singlehood and childlessness, the grief that comes with not having children, the importance of community, reframing the societal narrative, hidden homelessness, and the vitriol that she has received off the back of her writing about childlessness. 

We also talk about Bibi's exciting future plans, the joy and fulfillment that can be found in embracing life's unexpected paths, and the power of shifting your mindset.

04:24 Bibi's Background and Career

06:49 The Challenges and Joys of Adult Friendships

12:40 Aging and Confidence: WHIPs

26:07 The Reality of Being Single and Childless

42:05 Facing Grief and Public Scrutiny

44:17 Unexpected Hate Mail

45:31 Accusations of Misogyny

46:38 The Struggles of Being Childless

48:48 Hidden Homelessness and Resilience

55:34 Finding Stability and Reframing Life

57:56 Future Aspirations and Success Redefined

01:07:19 Navigating the Dating World

01:10:23 Final Thoughts and Words of Wisdom

Follow Bibi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bibilynch/?hl=en

Check out Bibi's website: https://bibilynch.com/

Support the show

• Buy my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book

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  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

Today is Part Four of my new mini series, 6 Steps To Move Out Of Fear & Into A Life You Love, which is all about the steps I myself have taken to change my life over the last five years. 

In Part 4, I’m talking about reprogramming your beliefs. Your beliefs shape your reality – so if they don’t match your vision, you’ll keep getting the same old results. This episode shows you how to uncover and rewire the beliefs holding you back.

Support the show

• Buy my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book

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  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

On this week’s Thursday's Thoughts, Polly and I are diving into the idea of taking up space, something so many of us women have been conditioned not to do.

But the truth is shrinking doesn’t serve us. When we apologise for existing, second-guess what we say, or dim our brilliance, we hide the very magic that makes us who we truly are.

We talk about the subtle, everyday ways this “shrinking” shows up, and how we can start reclaiming our space with confidence and authenticity.

We hope you find something useful in here.

Love 

Polly & Lucy x

Support the show

• Buy my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book

• Join my membership community for single women, Thrive Solo: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/thrivesolo

• Download my FREE PDF 'Top 10 Comebacks for the Most
  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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My guest on the podcast today is the absolute force that is Angela Gentile. 

Angela is both single and childfree. She’s an elder millennial, speaker, story teller, disruptor and the host of The Empowered Millennials Podcast. Angela has dedicated her life to helping single and childfree women find their community and empower them to live a life they love.

In our conversation we discuss, among other things, the challenges and nuances of maintaining friendships, the financial realities of single life, and breaking away from societal norms to create a fulfilling, intentional, purposeful life. Angela also tells me about her The Single, Childfree Network, a community that supports women living similar lifestyles. 

03:11 Angela's Journey: Loss and Transformation

05:10 The Power of Dreaming and Self-Discovery

08:20 Breaking Free from Societal Expectations

10:50 Living Authentically: Challenges and Growth

22:47 The Role of Anger in Self-Realisation

30:54 Redefining Relationships and Self-Worth

41:13 Choosing Not to Have Kids

44:58 Finding Peace in Singlehood

49:03 Financial Sacrifices and Autonomy

56:13 Navigating Friendships

01:04:24 The Single Child-Free Network

01:12:46 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Follow Angela on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theangelagentile

Follow Angela on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theangelagentile

Join The Single, Childfree Network: https://www.theangelagentile.com/scfnetwork

Support the show

• Buy my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book

• Join my membership community for single women, Thrive Solo: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/thrivesolo

• Download my FREE PDF 'Top 10 Comebacks for the Most
  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
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And thank you so much for listening!

Today is Part Three of my new mini series, 6 Steps To Move Out Of Fear & Into A Life You Love, which is all about the steps I myself have taken to change my life over the last five years. 

In Part 3, I’m talking about deciding what you want. You can’t get what you want if you don’t know what it is. Here’s how to get crystal clear on your vision so you can start moving towards it with purpose and confidence.

Support the show

• Buy my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book

• Join my membership community for single women, Thrive Solo: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/thrivesolo

• Download my FREE PDF 'Top 10 Comebacks for the Most
  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
• Go to: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/comebacks

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And thank you so much for listening!

In this week’s Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I are diving into the topic of commitment. 

We chat about why committing can feel so hard sometimes, especially when it comes to the promises we quietly make to ourselves.  

And we explore a few simple ways to start moving forward again, gently but meaningfully. Because it's often those small, consistent commitments that help you feel stronger, more grounded, and so much better in your own skin.

Have a listen if you need a little nudge today — or if you’re ready to trade the cycle of complaints for real change. 

We hope you find something useful in here.

Love, 

Polly & Lucy x

Support the show

• Buy my book, SHINY HAPPY SINGLES (UK) / THRIVE SOLO (US & Canada) at: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/book

• Join my membership community for single women, Thrive Solo: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/thrivesolo

• Download my FREE PDF 'Top 10 Comebacks for the Most
  Annoying Questions Single Women Get Asked'
• Go to: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/comebacks

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And thank you so much for listening!