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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text As I stand at a crossroads, grappling with the complex symphony of life's challenges, I find solace in the unwavering presence of faith. This episode is a heartfelt reflection on the transformative power of belief through life's tumultuous seasons. With Chanel by my side, we've navigated the bittersweet decision to put our beloved podcast on a shelf as we journey through personal and professional growth. I share the intimate details of recent trials, the warmth of divine intervent...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text As the vibrant heartbeats of our communities, the stories of Black Generations are rich with triumph, resilience, and innovation. Alongside my co-host Shennelle, who brings her passion and insight into our conversation, we peel back layers of history to share a narrative that resonates beyond a single month. This episode is a journey through the struggles, the victories, and the unyielding spirit of a people whose contributions have shaped our nation, yet often remain unsung. As w...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>As the vibrant heartbeats of our communities, the stories of Black Generations are rich with triumph, resilience, and innovation. Alongside my co-host Shennelle, who brings her passion and insight into our conversation, we peel back layers of history to share a narrative that resonates beyond a single month. This episode is a journey through the struggles, the victories, and the unyielding spirit of a people whose contributions have shaped our nation, yet often remain unsung. As we commemorate Black History Month, we underscore the imperative of weaving these narratives into the educational tapestry all year round, fostering a deeper appreciation and understanding of a heritage that is a cornerstone of American culture.<br/><br/>We stand on the shoulders of giants like Marcus Garvey., whose dreams have paved avenues of equality and respect that we continue to traverse today. In our dialogue, we not only spotlight the icons of civil rights but also embrace the personal victories and everyday grace that define the Black experience. It&apos;s about stoking that inner flame of pride and ensuring that the legacy of Black people is not relegated to the sidelines but celebrated as part of the continuous story we all share. So, tune in for an episode filled with heart, soul, and an unwavering commitment to the truth of our past, as we strive for a brighter, more inclusive future. Much love, and let&apos;s remember to always treat one another with the honor that is rightfully ours.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text When the unspoken bonds of trust within a family fray, what's left behind? Join me as I recount a deeply personal tale involving my brothers, where the fragile threads of loyalty were tested by secrecy and misunderstandings. We unravel the complexities of familial trust, revealing how easily it can be shaken and the profound consequences that ensue. As I share my journey of navigating these turbulent emotional waters, you'll gain insights into the importance of privacy and the pow...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>When the unspoken bonds of trust within a family fray, what&apos;s left behind? Join me as I recount a deeply personal tale involving my brothers, where the fragile threads of loyalty were tested by secrecy and misunderstandings. We unravel the complexities of familial trust, revealing how easily it can be shaken and the profound consequences that ensue. As I share my journey of navigating these turbulent emotional waters, you&apos;ll gain insights into the importance of privacy and the powerful role of direct communication in repairing the delicate tapestry of sibling relationships.<br/><br/>The path to reconciliation is often lined with the dual stones of forgiveness and memory. In this episode, we grapple with the nuanced task of rebuilding sibling bonds after they&apos;ve been compromised. I reflect on the intricate dance of forgiving without forgetting and the indelible marks left by familial strife. My story serves as both a cautionary tale and a beacon of hope for anyone wrestling with similar issues. Together, we celebrate the power of open dialogue to foster understanding and respect, leaving you with a sense of hope as we journey through the complexities of life as a family.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Navigating life's tumult can often leave us gasping for air, yet it's in these moments that the true test of our resilience emerges. Join me as I share my journey through recent personal challenges, from the joyous anticipation of family birthdays to the stark reality of a loved one's illness. Life throws a multitude of curveballs, and in this episode, I open up about the ways I've learned to catch them with grace. Together, we'll explore the importance of a sturdy support network...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Navigating life&apos;s tumult can often leave us gasping for air, yet it&apos;s in these moments that the true test of our resilience emerges. Join me as I share my journey through recent personal challenges, from the joyous anticipation of family birthdays to the stark reality of a loved one&apos;s illness. Life throws a multitude of curveballs, and in this episode, I open up about the ways I&apos;ve learned to catch them with grace. Together, we&apos;ll explore the importance of a sturdy support network and the solace found in connecting with someone who truly gets the rough seas we&apos;re traversing.<br/><br/>As waves of uncertainty threaten to pull us under, the lifeline of faith and prayer becomes our buoy. I recount the wisdom imparted by a dearly missed cousin who reminded me of the power of divine timing, a lesson that has become a beacon during my own stormy times. Renovations, personal trials, and caregiving have all been part of my story, but as I reassure you with each tale, it&apos;s about taking life one measured step at a time. We&apos;ll discuss self-care strategies, cultivating a positive mindset, and the transformative impact of gratitude. So, as we sail into the heart of life&apos;s overwhelm, remember that this conversation is our shared harbor, offering a message of enduring hope and camaraderie.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Navigating life&apos;s tumult can often leave us gasping for air, yet it&apos;s in these moments that the true test of our resilience emerges. Join me as I share my journey through recent personal challenges, from the joyous anticipation of family birthdays to the stark reality of a loved one&apos;s illness. Life throws a multitude of curveballs, and in this episode, I open up about the ways I&apos;ve learned to catch them with grace. Together, we&apos;ll explore the importance of a sturdy support network and the solace found in connecting with someone who truly gets the rough seas we&apos;re traversing.<br/><br/>As waves of uncertainty threaten to pull us under, the lifeline of faith and prayer becomes our buoy. I recount the wisdom imparted by a dearly missed cousin who reminded me of the power of divine timing, a lesson that has become a beacon during my own stormy times. Renovations, personal trials, and caregiving have all been part of my story, but as I reassure you with each tale, it&apos;s about taking life one measured step at a time. We&apos;ll discuss self-care strategies, cultivating a positive mindset, and the transformative impact of gratitude. So, as we sail into the heart of life&apos;s overwhelm, remember that this conversation is our shared harbor, offering a message of enduring hope and camaraderie.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text When you tuck in for the night, the furthest thought from your mind is the possibility that it could be your last sleep. Yet, this was the grim reality for Melissa Silvira, whose death was shrouded in a web of deceit and violence. In a poignant episode that exposes the darkest corners of the human heart, I, Lav, narrate the chilling tale of betrayal that unfolded in Jamaica, shedding light on the tragic end Melissa met at the hands of her husband, Jolyan Silvera. Ballistic evidenc...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>When you tuck in for the night, the furthest thought from your mind is the possibility that it could be your last sleep. Yet, this was the grim reality for Melissa Silvira, whose death was shrouded in a web of deceit and violence. In a poignant episode that exposes the darkest corners of the human heart, I, Lav, narrate the chilling tale of betrayal that unfolded in Jamaica, shedding light on the tragic end Melissa met at the hands of her husband, Jolyan Silvera. Ballistic evidence linked the bullet fragments found in Melissa&apos;s body to Jolyan licensed firearm, unravelling what was first believed to be death by natural causes into a cold-blooded murder.<br/><br/>The walls of the crime scene whisper secrets of a sinister cover-up, as revealed by the drastic alterations to the room where Melissa&apos;s life was claimed. We explore the aftermath of this heinous act, the transformation of a once familiar space into an arena of false serenity. As we grapple with the sorrowful fate of the couple&apos;s young children, now left without their mother&apos;s embrace and with their father behind bars, this episode is a harrowing reminder of the ongoing struggle for the protection and safety of women. Join me as we honour Melissa&apos;s memory and question the societal norms that continue to fail the innocent.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>When you tuck in for the night, the furthest thought from your mind is the possibility that it could be your last sleep. Yet, this was the grim reality for Melissa Silvira, whose death was shrouded in a web of deceit and violence. In a poignant episode that exposes the darkest corners of the human heart, I, Lav, narrate the chilling tale of betrayal that unfolded in Jamaica, shedding light on the tragic end Melissa met at the hands of her husband, Jolyan Silvera. Ballistic evidence linked the bullet fragments found in Melissa&apos;s body to Jolyan licensed firearm, unravelling what was first believed to be death by natural causes into a cold-blooded murder.<br/><br/>The walls of the crime scene whisper secrets of a sinister cover-up, as revealed by the drastic alterations to the room where Melissa&apos;s life was claimed. We explore the aftermath of this heinous act, the transformation of a once familiar space into an arena of false serenity. As we grapple with the sorrowful fate of the couple&apos;s young children, now left without their mother&apos;s embrace and with their father behind bars, this episode is a harrowing reminder of the ongoing struggle for the protection and safety of women. Join me as we honour Melissa&apos;s memory and question the societal norms that continue to fail the innocent.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Ever found yourself in a cold sweat at the sight of a spider lurking in the corner? You're not alone. Join me as we unravel the tapestry of our deepest fears, from the eight-legged creatures that make our skin crawl to the daunting prospect of aging and the loss of self-reliance. With candid confessions and a splash of humor, we navigate through the peculiar and profound anxieties that bind us, sharing personal episodes that might just make you chuckle or nod in agreement. I'll ev...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Ever found yourself in a cold sweat at the sight of a spider lurking in the corner? You&apos;re not alone. Join me as we unravel the tapestry of our deepest fears, from the eight-legged creatures that make our skin crawl to the daunting prospect of aging and the loss of self-reliance. With candid confessions and a splash of humor, we navigate through the peculiar and profound anxieties that bind us, sharing personal episodes that might just make you chuckle or nod in agreement. I&apos;ll even let you in on my newfound unease when peering down from great heights, illustrating how fears can evolve and surprise us over time.<br/><br/>But there&apos;s light in the darkness of our trepidations. This heart-to-heart isn&apos;t just about airing our fears; it’s about the strength we muster when we confront them. We&apos;ll discuss the sanctuary of self-care and the liberation found in leaning on faith or a friend&apos;s empathetic ear. I open up about the jarring moments of panic and the &apos;giants&apos; of anxiety, while offering a gentle reminder that imperfection is part of the human condition. There&apos;s no quest for flawlessness here, just the raw courage to face what scares us, and the collective comfort in knowing we&apos;re not alone on this journey.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Ever found yourself in a cold sweat at the sight of a spider lurking in the corner? You&apos;re not alone. Join me as we unravel the tapestry of our deepest fears, from the eight-legged creatures that make our skin crawl to the daunting prospect of aging and the loss of self-reliance. With candid confessions and a splash of humor, we navigate through the peculiar and profound anxieties that bind us, sharing personal episodes that might just make you chuckle or nod in agreement. I&apos;ll even let you in on my newfound unease when peering down from great heights, illustrating how fears can evolve and surprise us over time.<br/><br/>But there&apos;s light in the darkness of our trepidations. This heart-to-heart isn&apos;t just about airing our fears; it’s about the strength we muster when we confront them. We&apos;ll discuss the sanctuary of self-care and the liberation found in leaning on faith or a friend&apos;s empathetic ear. I open up about the jarring moments of panic and the &apos;giants&apos; of anxiety, while offering a gentle reminder that imperfection is part of the human condition. There&apos;s no quest for flawlessness here, just the raw courage to face what scares us, and the collective comfort in knowing we&apos;re not alone on this journey.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Navigating the murky waters of midlife dating can feel like a solo voyage in uncharted territory. Chanel and I, with laughter as our compass, chart a course through the often tumultuous sea of romance after 50. Our latest Real With Love episode is a lighthouse for listeners, casting a bright beam on the complexities of seeking companionship during life's second act. We unfurl our own stories, candidly sharing the trials and triumphs of dating in a world where the once vibrant nigh...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Navigating the murky waters of midlife dating can feel like a solo voyage in uncharted territory. Chanel and I, with laughter as our compass, chart a course through the often tumultuous sea of romance after 50. Our latest Real With Love episode is a lighthouse for listeners, casting a bright beam on the complexities of seeking companionship during life&apos;s second act. We unfurl our own stories, candidly sharing the trials and triumphs of dating in a world where the once vibrant nightclub scene has given way to the serene, though sometimes dreary, landscape of modern communication.<br/><br/>Dating over 50 comes with a backpack of challenges, from stale suitors believing they&apos;re still &apos;players&apos; to unraveling the ties of past relationships. We delve into the underbelly of dating apps, discussing how to gracefully swat away the unwanted advances that sometimes feel like an endless game of whack-a-mole. Our conversation becomes an anthem of empowerment, arming you with insights to recognize red flags and embrace the joys of solitude and self-discovery. With wisdom peppered with humor, we offer up our lived experiences as a guide for navigating the search for romance with eyes wide open and hearts guarded by self-respect.<br/><br/>Wrapping up this heart-to-heart, Chanel and I extend a warm invitation to our fellow over-50s to join the dialogue and share their own tales of love and life. As we bid adieu, we remind our listeners that happiness is a solo project, and finding contentment within oneself is the greatest love story of all. Tune in for a blend of real talk and laughter, and let&apos;s journey together through the intricacies of midlife romance, celebrating the days ahead with love, care, and a touch of independence.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Navigating the murky waters of midlife dating can feel like a solo voyage in uncharted territory. Chanel and I, with laughter as our compass, chart a course through the often tumultuous sea of romance after 50. Our latest Real With Love episode is a lighthouse for listeners, casting a bright beam on the complexities of seeking companionship during life&apos;s second act. We unfurl our own stories, candidly sharing the trials and triumphs of dating in a world where the once vibrant nightclub scene has given way to the serene, though sometimes dreary, landscape of modern communication.<br/><br/>Dating over 50 comes with a backpack of challenges, from stale suitors believing they&apos;re still &apos;players&apos; to unraveling the ties of past relationships. We delve into the underbelly of dating apps, discussing how to gracefully swat away the unwanted advances that sometimes feel like an endless game of whack-a-mole. Our conversation becomes an anthem of empowerment, arming you with insights to recognize red flags and embrace the joys of solitude and self-discovery. With wisdom peppered with humor, we offer up our lived experiences as a guide for navigating the search for romance with eyes wide open and hearts guarded by self-respect.<br/><br/>Wrapping up this heart-to-heart, Chanel and I extend a warm invitation to our fellow over-50s to join the dialogue and share their own tales of love and life. As we bid adieu, we remind our listeners that happiness is a solo project, and finding contentment within oneself is the greatest love story of all. Tune in for a blend of real talk and laughter, and let&apos;s journey together through the intricacies of midlife romance, celebrating the days ahead with love, care, and a touch of independence.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Embracing the Marathon of Progress: A New Year&#39;s Conversation on Persistence and Renewal</itunes:title>
    <title>Embracing the Marathon of Progress: A New Year&#39;s Conversation on Persistence and Renewal</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Ever felt like no matter the flip of the calendar, you're running the same, exhaustive race against your personal hurdles? Ringing in 2024 on the Be Real With Lav Podcast, we unpack the gritty truth about carrying over last year's challenges and resolve into a fresh 365. With a heart-to-heart about the interminable journey toward our dreams, we confront the reality that progress isn't always a sprint but often a marathon that tests our tenacity and faith. Let's face it—the road to...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Ever felt like no matter the flip of the calendar, you&apos;re running the same, exhaustive race against your personal hurdles? Ringing in 2024 on the Be Real With Lav Podcast, we unpack the gritty truth about carrying over last year&apos;s challenges and resolve into a fresh 365. With a heart-to-heart about the interminable journey toward our dreams, we confront the reality that progress isn&apos;t always a sprint but often a marathon that tests our tenacity and faith. Let&apos;s face it—the road to success isn&apos;t paved with ease, and today&apos;s conversation is an honest reflection on why it&apos;s essential to stay the course, even when the going gets tough.<br/><br/>This first episode of the year isn&apos;t just about the hurdles; it&apos;s about the incredible strength found within and the divine assistance that lifts us from our darkest corners. Tackling the silent struggles so many of us endure, we delve into the power of self-worth in thankless situations and toxic environments—hinting that sometimes, the workplace is the battlefield where these dramas unfold. Join us as we contemplate how a little &apos;closet organization&apos; of our aspirations and capabilities can arm us with the resilience and optimism needed to navigate familiar waters with a fresh perspective. It&apos;s a new year, yes, but it&apos;s also time for a renewed you.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Ever felt like no matter the flip of the calendar, you&apos;re running the same, exhaustive race against your personal hurdles? Ringing in 2024 on the Be Real With Lav Podcast, we unpack the gritty truth about carrying over last year&apos;s challenges and resolve into a fresh 365. With a heart-to-heart about the interminable journey toward our dreams, we confront the reality that progress isn&apos;t always a sprint but often a marathon that tests our tenacity and faith. Let&apos;s face it—the road to success isn&apos;t paved with ease, and today&apos;s conversation is an honest reflection on why it&apos;s essential to stay the course, even when the going gets tough.<br/><br/>This first episode of the year isn&apos;t just about the hurdles; it&apos;s about the incredible strength found within and the divine assistance that lifts us from our darkest corners. Tackling the silent struggles so many of us endure, we delve into the power of self-worth in thankless situations and toxic environments—hinting that sometimes, the workplace is the battlefield where these dramas unfold. Join us as we contemplate how a little &apos;closet organization&apos; of our aspirations and capabilities can arm us with the resilience and optimism needed to navigate familiar waters with a fresh perspective. It&apos;s a new year, yes, but it&apos;s also time for a renewed you.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Solutions to Winter-Induced Anxiety: Our Personal Experiences</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text As winter descends, and sunlight becomes a rare commodity, have you ever wondered why you start to feel unusually tired, low on energy, and anxious? Imagine if you could tackle these seasonal mood changes head-on, using simple yet effective techniques. Through our personal journeys, let Shennelle and I walk you through how to navigate the rough winter terrains of mental health. We delve into everything from exercise to meditation and breathing exercises, and I even share about my ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>As winter descends, and sunlight becomes a rare commodity, have you ever wondered why you start to feel unusually tired, low on energy, and anxious? Imagine if you could tackle these seasonal mood changes head-on, using simple yet effective techniques. Through our personal journeys, let Shennelle and I walk you through how to navigate the rough winter terrains of mental health. We delve into everything from exercise to meditation and breathing exercises, and I even share about my personal encounter with anxiety and how yoga and meditation have become my lifeline. This isn&apos;t just about us though; we want to inspire you to find what works best for you and make mental health a priority this winter.<br/><br/>We&apos;ve been on an incredible journey this past year, and none of it would have been possible without you, our dedicated listeners. We&apos;ve shared our raw and real life stories, and we hope that through them, we&apos;ve left a lasting impact on your lives. As we close out the year and gear up for 2024, we want to express our deepest gratitude for your unwavering support. Exciting times lie ahead, and we can’t wait to bring you more insightful and impactful episodes. We promise, we&apos;re just getting started. So, stay tuned, stay connected, and above all, keep it real with us.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>As winter descends, and sunlight becomes a rare commodity, have you ever wondered why you start to feel unusually tired, low on energy, and anxious? Imagine if you could tackle these seasonal mood changes head-on, using simple yet effective techniques. Through our personal journeys, let Shennelle and I walk you through how to navigate the rough winter terrains of mental health. We delve into everything from exercise to meditation and breathing exercises, and I even share about my personal encounter with anxiety and how yoga and meditation have become my lifeline. This isn&apos;t just about us though; we want to inspire you to find what works best for you and make mental health a priority this winter.<br/><br/>We&apos;ve been on an incredible journey this past year, and none of it would have been possible without you, our dedicated listeners. We&apos;ve shared our raw and real life stories, and we hope that through them, we&apos;ve left a lasting impact on your lives. As we close out the year and gear up for 2024, we want to express our deepest gratitude for your unwavering support. Exciting times lie ahead, and we can’t wait to bring you more insightful and impactful episodes. We promise, we&apos;re just getting started. So, stay tuned, stay connected, and above all, keep it real with us.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>E085: Is Friendship Important in Your Culture?</itunes:title>
    <title>E085: Is Friendship Important in Your Culture?</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen to this latest episode by our host, Lav!  Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast   Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen to this latest episode by our host, Lav!<br/><br/>Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast<br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen to this latest episode by our host, Lav!<br/><br/>Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast<br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Family is not everything....God Love and Peace is.....Family are just relatives. Join us on this episode while we have a real open discussion about family.  Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Join us as we discuss the lost sub 1600 ft below and how the tragic loss of just making one decision can end your life.... Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen to this episode about tips on balancing your busy life.....Always remember that you come first....... Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen to this episode about tips on balancing your busy life.....Always remember that you come first.......</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
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    <title>E071: The Changes &amp; Challenges of Life</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we talk about how to deal with the changes and challenges in our lives by accepting reality...  #Motivation #Love #Challenge #Goal #Inspiration #Mindset Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we talk about how to deal with the changes and challenges in our lives by accepting reality...<br/><br/>#Motivation #Love #Challenge #Goal #Inspiration #Mindset</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we talk about how to deal with the changes and challenges in our lives by accepting reality...<br/><br/>#Motivation #Love #Challenge #Goal #Inspiration #Mindset</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 13 Jun 2023 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>E70: Accepting Death</itunes:title>
    <title>E70: Accepting Death</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Acceptance can be hard, death is the surest part of life, be grateful, be thankful, and show love because we don't know...Join me in this episode when we talk about the positive side of accepting the surest part of life... #death #life #faith Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Acceptance can be hard, death is the surest part of life, be grateful, be thankful, and show love because we don&apos;t know...Join me in this episode when we talk about the positive side of accepting the surest part of life...<br/>#death #life #faith</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Acceptance can be hard, death is the surest part of life, be grateful, be thankful, and show love because we don&apos;t know...Join me in this episode when we talk about the positive side of accepting the surest part of life...<br/>#death #life #faith</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>E069: What would you change at 50&amp;Beyond</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text You lived 5 decades and counting with your strong self...Join us while we talk about making changes @50 and Beyond...  #over50 #health #bodybuilding #over50and fabulous #googlepodcasts #Spotify  Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>You lived 5 decades and counting with your strong self...Join us while we talk about making changes @50 and Beyond...<br/><br/>#over50 #health #bodybuilding #over50and fabulous #googlepodcasts #Spotify </p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>You lived 5 decades and counting with your strong self...Join us while we talk about making changes @50 and Beyond...<br/><br/>#over50 #health #bodybuilding #over50and fabulous #googlepodcasts #Spotify </p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>E068: Mental Health Month</itunes:title>
    <title>E068: Mental Health Month</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text We have so many mental health in our society.  We must remind ourselves that not everyone has the same will power.  Empathy don't cost a thing join us on this episode while we talk about the struggles of mental health... Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>We have so many mental health in our society.  We must remind ourselves that not everyone has the same will power.  Empathy don&apos;t cost a thing join us on this episode while we talk about the struggles of mental health...</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>We have so many mental health in our society.  We must remind ourselves that not everyone has the same will power.  Empathy don&apos;t cost a thing join us on this episode while we talk about the struggles of mental health...</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Life is beautiful enjoy each moment because we don't know if we will see tomorrow. The unknown is a reminder of how powerful God is join us while I tell you about my unfortunate situation.... Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Life is beautiful enjoy each moment because we don&apos;t know if we will see tomorrow. The unknown is a reminder of how powerful God is join us while I tell you about my unfortunate situation....</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Life is beautiful enjoy each moment because we don&apos;t know if we will see tomorrow. The unknown is a reminder of how powerful God is join us while I tell you about my unfortunate situation....</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Has society changed for the better or for the worse? Listen to some of the challenges we will discuss in this episode... Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Has society changed for the better or for the worse? Listen to some of the challenges we will discuss in this episode...</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Has society changed for the better or for the worse? Listen to some of the challenges we will discuss in this episode...</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>E065: Relationship Boundaries</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text We all have to go through the experience of learning the difference between balance and boundaries in a relationship..... Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>We all have to go through the experience of learning the difference between balance and boundaries in a relationship.....</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>We all have to go through the experience of learning the difference between balance and boundaries in a relationship.....</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 25 Apr 2023 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <title>E064: Reconnect or Disconnect</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Join me as I share my thoughts and my decision on reconnect or disconnect.....The family that never cared...  Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join me as I share my thoughts and my decision on reconnect or disconnect.....The family that never cared...<br/><br/>Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join me as I share my thoughts and my decision on reconnect or disconnect.....The family that never cared...<br/><br/>Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text "C" You are like no other we love and cherish you and the wonderful memories you left with us....Appreciate and Love your parents.  Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>&quot;C&quot; You are like no other we love and cherish you and the wonderful memories you left with us....Appreciate and Love your parents.<br/><br/>Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>&quot;C&quot; You are like no other we love and cherish you and the wonderful memories you left with us....Appreciate and Love your parents.<br/><br/>Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Taking time for yourself from your significant other is healthy but some disagree...Join me in this episode on With or Without Him/Her  Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Taking time for yourself from your significant other is healthy but some disagree...Join me in this episode on With or Without Him/Her<br/><br/>Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Taking time for yourself from your significant other is healthy but some disagree...Join me in this episode on With or Without Him/Her<br/><br/>Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>E061: Stress, Work, No Play</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Work stress...is it worth it? Let's have a real discussion about the world of stress in the workplace.... Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Work stress...is it worth it? Let&apos;s have a real discussion about the world of stress in the workplace....</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Work stress...is it worth it? Let&apos;s have a real discussion about the world of stress in the workplace....</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join us in this episode where we talk about how to walk away from an abusive and toxic family....</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
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    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p> I am who I am...A black person that strives to be me...Black history and the future of the black race....listen to our episode on the importance of Black History.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p> I am who I am...A black person that strives to be me...Black history and the future of the black race....listen to our episode on the importance of Black History.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Mental health is important at every stage of life, from childhood to the teenage years and through our adulthood...Take time to listen, take time to care...  Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast Edited by @theintconn Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Mental health is important at every stage of life, from childhood to the teenage years and through our adulthood...Take time to listen, take time to care...<br/><br/>Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast<br/>Edited by @theintconn</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we talk about the reality of disconnecting with your adult son/daughter that chooses to continuously disrespect their parents. Join me in this sensitive but real discussion...  Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast  Edited by @theintconn Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we talk about the reality of disconnecting with your adult son/daughter that chooses to continuously disrespect their parents. Join me in this sensitive but real discussion...<br/><br/>Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast<br/><br/>Edited by @theintconn</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we talk about the reality of disconnecting with your adult son/daughter that chooses to continuously disrespect their parents. Join me in this sensitive but real discussion...<br/><br/>Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast<br/><br/>Edited by @theintconn</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Welcome 2023 Join us in this episode where we talk about you... We just want to thank you and let you know we appreciate you all. A reminder to you is it's a new year but we still have challenges within another new year, love yourself and take good care... Let's talk... Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Welcome 2023 Join us in this episode where we talk about you...<br/>We just want to thank you and let you know we appreciate you all. A reminder to you is it&apos;s a new year but we still have challenges within another new year, love yourself and take good care... Let&apos;s talk...</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Welcome 2023 Join us in this episode where we talk about you...<br/>We just want to thank you and let you know we appreciate you all. A reminder to you is it&apos;s a new year but we still have challenges within another new year, love yourself and take good care... Let&apos;s talk...</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text This episode is about realistic goals...stop setting New Year's resolution and take it one hour at a time... Let's talk...  Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast  Edited by @theintconn Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>This episode is about realistic goals...stop setting New Year&apos;s resolution and take it one hour at a time... Let&apos;s talk...<br/><br/>Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast<br/><br/>Edited by @theintconn</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>This episode is about realistic goals...stop setting New Year&apos;s resolution and take it one hour at a time... Let&apos;s talk...<br/><br/>Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast<br/><br/>Edited by @theintconn</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>E047: What is Christmas?</title>
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    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>What does Christmas mean to you?<br/>What are we teaching our kids about the holidays and their meaning...Let&apos;s be real about this time of the year... let&apos;s talk!<br/><br/>Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast<br/><br/>Edited by @theintconn</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
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    <itunes:title>E046: The Narcissist</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Join me in this episode in discussing The narcissist...manipulative, disrespectful, selfish...  Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast  Edited by @theintconn Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join me in this episode in discussing The narcissist...manipulative, disrespectful, selfish...<br/><br/>Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast<br/><br/>Edited by @theintconn</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join me in this episode in discussing The narcissist...manipulative, disrespectful, selfish...<br/><br/>Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast<br/><br/>Edited by @theintconn</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>E045: Recession is Depression</itunes:title>
    <title>E045: Recession is Depression</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Join me in this episode where I talk about the reality of feeling at a loss with our struggles in society... Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join me in this episode where I talk about the reality of feeling at a loss with our struggles in society...</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join me in this episode where I talk about the reality of feeling at a loss with our struggles in society...</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2022 05:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>E044: Act Your Age...</itunes:title>
    <title>E044: Act Your Age...</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text This episode is about 50 and Beyond do we act our age...take a listen...  Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>This episode is about 50 and Beyond do we act our age...take a listen...<br/><br/>Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>This episode is about 50 and Beyond do we act our age...take a listen...<br/><br/>Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>E043: Shennelle&#39;s Q&amp;A with Mom</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Sometimes we are shy to ask our mother personal questions and listen to the courageous questions and answers between mom and daughter!  Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Sometimes we are shy to ask our mother personal questions and listen to the courageous questions and answers between mom and daughter!<br/><br/>Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Sometimes we are shy to ask our mother personal questions and listen to the courageous questions and answers between mom and daughter!<br/><br/>Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>E042: Neglectful Father&#39;s</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Your neglect helped to shape me into who I am today not scared anymore... Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Your neglect helped to shape me into who I am today not scared anymore...</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Your neglect helped to shape me into who I am today not scared anymore...</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>E041: My Special One</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text  In this episode, I will share something special about my special one.  Hang with me while I open up about my special one... Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p> In this episode, I will share something special about my special one.  Hang with me while I open up about my special one...</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p> In this episode, I will share something special about my special one.  Hang with me while I open up about my special one...</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>E040: Can you start over @50 &amp; Beyond?</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Age is just a number don't waste time on the most important thing that God gave you... It is Life  Follow us on Instagram @berealwithlavpodcast Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Age is just a number don&apos;t waste time on the most important thing that God gave you... It is Life<br/><br/>Follow us on Instagram @berealwithlavpodcast</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Age is just a number don&apos;t waste time on the most important thing that God gave you... It is Life<br/><br/>Follow us on Instagram @berealwithlavpodcast</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>039: Loneliness @50&amp;Beyond</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Hey, beautiful hang out with me in this episode you don't have to feel alone.  Let's face it... Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Hey, beautiful hang out with me in this episode you don&apos;t have to feel alone.  Let&apos;s face it...</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Hey, beautiful hang out with me in this episode you don&apos;t have to feel alone.  Let&apos;s face it...</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Sun, 23 Oct 2022 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <title>E038: Is it Transaction or Sweat Shop</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text The reality of this is we fall into the trap of doing things so we can get the love that we give but sometimes it just doesn't work out in your best interest...  Edited by @theintconn  Follow us here Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>The reality of this is we fall into the trap of doing things so we can get the love that we give but sometimes it just doesn&apos;t work out in your best interest...<br/><br/>Edited by <a href='https://www.instagram.com/theintconn/'>@theintconn</a><br/><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>Follow us here</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>The reality of this is we fall into the trap of doing things so we can get the love that we give but sometimes it just doesn&apos;t work out in your best interest...<br/><br/>Edited by <a href='https://www.instagram.com/theintconn/'>@theintconn</a><br/><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>Follow us here</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text This week we did something special with our editor Jag Sandhu. We decided to appear as guests on his podcast, The International Connection.   In this episode, we talk about our journey so far with Be Real with Lav and where we see this podcast in the future. Through an interesting back &amp; forth of questions &amp; answers, we share our motivation and vision behind this very special podcast. So, press the play button &amp; let's get started.   Follow Jag Sandhu  Ed...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>This week we did something special with our editor Jag Sandhu. We decided to appear as guests on his podcast, The International Connection. <br/><br/>In this episode, we talk about our journey so far with Be Real with Lav and where we see this podcast in the future. Through an interesting back &amp; forth of questions &amp; answers, we share our motivation and vision behind this very special podcast. So, press the play button &amp; let&apos;s get started. <br/><br/>Follow Jag Sandhu <br/>Edited by @theintconn<br/><br/>Our Website <br/>Follow us</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>This week we did something special with our editor Jag Sandhu. We decided to appear as guests on his podcast, The International Connection. <br/><br/>In this episode, we talk about our journey so far with Be Real with Lav and where we see this podcast in the future. Through an interesting back &amp; forth of questions &amp; answers, we share our motivation and vision behind this very special podcast. So, press the play button &amp; let&apos;s get started. <br/><br/>Follow Jag Sandhu <br/>Edited by @theintconn<br/><br/>Our Website <br/>Follow us</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>E036: Black Men: Intimidated?</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text We've heard black men say that Black women often come across as if they don't want to be bothered. Join us in this episode as we will talk about the facts about Black men and their intimidation issues... Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>We&apos;ve heard black men say that Black women often come across as if they don&apos;t want to be bothered.<br/>Join us in this episode as we will talk about the facts about Black men and their intimidation issues...</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>We&apos;ve heard black men say that Black women often come across as if they don&apos;t want to be bothered.<br/>Join us in this episode as we will talk about the facts about Black men and their intimidation issues...</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>E035: My Grey Hair Journey</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Does having grey hair mean you are old? how do you feel with your grey hair? Listen to our tips and my experience in my grey hair journey. Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Does having grey hair mean you are old? how do you feel with your grey hair? Listen to our tips and my experience in my grey hair journey.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Does having grey hair mean you are old? how do you feel with your grey hair? Listen to our tips and my experience in my grey hair journey.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>034: When Your Kids Dislike Your Boyfriend/Husband</itunes:title>
    <title>034: When Your Kids Dislike Your Boyfriend/Husband</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Will you break up or will you ignore the issues?  Let's talk.  Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast edited by @theintconn Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Will you break up or will you ignore the issues?  Let&apos;s talk.<br/><br/>Follow us <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'><b>@berealwithlavpodcast</b></a><br/>edited by <a href='https://www.instagram.com/theintconn/'><b>@theintconn</b></a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Will you break up or will you ignore the issues?  Let&apos;s talk.<br/><br/>Follow us <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'><b>@berealwithlavpodcast</b></a><br/>edited by <a href='https://www.instagram.com/theintconn/'><b>@theintconn</b></a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>E033: Baby Mother vs Girlfriend</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Know your boundaries, respect both ways and be transparent with your feelings. Stop the drama... Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Know your boundaries, respect both ways and be transparent with your feelings. Stop the drama...</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Know your boundaries, respect both ways and be transparent with your feelings. Stop the drama...</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>It controls your movements, It controls your thoughts, and it shatters your emotions and your mental health let&apos;s step into their world and join me in this episode of sharing my experience.<br/><br/>ConnexOntario provides treatment service information if you have problems with gambling, drugs, alcohol or mental health. You can call toll free: 1-866-531-2600.<br/><br/>Follow us on Instagram <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>It controls your movements, It controls your thoughts, and it shatters your emotions and your mental health let&apos;s step into their world and join me in this episode of sharing my experience.<br/><br/>ConnexOntario provides treatment service information if you have problems with gambling, drugs, alcohol or mental health. You can call toll free: 1-866-531-2600.<br/><br/>Follow us on Instagram <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>E031: 5 Qualities You Are Looking for in A Man</itunes:title>
    <title>E031: 5 Qualities You Are Looking for in A Man</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Does he have these qualities? let's talk...  edited by @theintconn  Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Does he have these qualities?<br/>let&apos;s talk...<br/><br/>edited by <a href='https://www.instagram.com/theintconn/'>@theintconn</a><br/><br/>Follow us <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Does he have these qualities?<br/>let&apos;s talk...<br/><br/>edited by <a href='https://www.instagram.com/theintconn/'>@theintconn</a><br/><br/>Follow us <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>E030: Mother-in-law vs Daughter-in-law</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we will have the real talk about mother-in-law vs daughter-in-law do's and don'ts. Have a listen!  Follow us on Instagram @berealwithlavpodcast Edited by @theintconn Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we will have the real talk about mother-in-law vs daughter-in-law do&apos;s and don&apos;ts. Have a listen!<br/><br/>Follow us on Instagram <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a><br/>Edited by <a href='https://www.instagram.com/theintconn/'>@theintconn</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we will have the real talk about mother-in-law vs daughter-in-law do&apos;s and don&apos;ts. Have a listen!<br/><br/>Follow us on Instagram <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a><br/>Edited by <a href='https://www.instagram.com/theintconn/'>@theintconn</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>E029: Tired of Being Tired</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Tired of being tired normal? Let me have that real motivating conversation with you all.. Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Tired of being tired normal? Let me have that real motivating conversation with you all..</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Tired of being tired normal? Let me have that real motivating conversation with you all..</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Sun, 14 Aug 2022 11:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>E28: Dating Younger Men @ 50 &amp; Beyond</itunes:title>
    <title>E28: Dating Younger Men @ 50 &amp; Beyond</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text The joy and challenge of dating a younger man at 50 &amp; Beyond are you a cougar or sugar mama...  Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast Edited by @theintconn Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>The joy and challenge of dating a younger man at 50 &amp; Beyond are you a cougar or sugar mama...<br/><br/>Follow us <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a><br/>Edited by <a href='https://www.instagram.com/theintconn/'>@theintconn</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>The joy and challenge of dating a younger man at 50 &amp; Beyond are you a cougar or sugar mama...<br/><br/>Follow us <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a><br/>Edited by <a href='https://www.instagram.com/theintconn/'>@theintconn</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>E27: Couples &amp; Relationships ft. Magix</itunes:title>
    <title>E27: Couples &amp; Relationships ft. Magix</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Tune in for an interesting conversation with our guest Magic, where we talk about couples and relationships. Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Tune in for an interesting conversation with our guest Magic, where we talk about couples and relationships.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Tune in for an interesting conversation with our guest Magic, where we talk about couples and relationships.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>E26: Toxic Women</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text The truth about some women living their love life in their head. In this episode, we’ll be discussing relationship deal breakers, disrespect, and red flags. Prior to getting into a relationship, it’s important to acknowledge certain habits that you like and dislike in your partner.   Listen in   Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>The truth about some women living their love life in their head. In this episode, we’ll be discussing relationship deal breakers, disrespect, and red flags. Prior to getting into a relationship, it’s important to acknowledge certain habits that you like and dislike in your partner. <br/><br/>Listen in<br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>The truth about some women living their love life in their head. In this episode, we’ll be discussing relationship deal breakers, disrespect, and red flags. Prior to getting into a relationship, it’s important to acknowledge certain habits that you like and dislike in your partner. <br/><br/>Listen in<br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>E025: Sweet, Sweet Jamaica</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Chill with us while we take you on a tour of our Jamaican culture, food, and music.  Follow us on Instagram: berealwithlavpodcast  SONGS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Shabba Ranks - Trailer Load A GirlsShabba Ranks - Ting-A-lingSTYLO G FT SPICE &amp; SEAN PAUL - DUMPLING REMIX (OFFICIAL VIDEO)Koffee - Toast (Official Video)Tony Matterhorn Dancing InstructionsSupport the show ]]></itunes:summary>
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    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Are you brave enough to talk about it...<br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Are you brave enough to talk about it...<br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>E23: My Life As A Teenage Mom</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Tune in to listen to my struggles of being a teenage mom. Are you a teenage mom?  Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Tune in to listen to my struggles of being a teenage mom. Are you a teenage mom? </p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Tune in to listen to my struggles of being a teenage mom. Are you a teenage mom? </p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Sun, 03 Jul 2022 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <title>E22: How to Look &amp; Feel Attractive @ 50 &amp; Beyond</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text The golden years of feeling and looking attractive. How do you feel? Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>The golden years of feeling and looking attractive. How do you feel?</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>The golden years of feeling and looking attractive. How do you feel?</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>E21: Toxic Relationship &amp; Culture ft. Magix</itunes:title>
    <title>E21: Toxic Relationship &amp; Culture ft. Magix</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text If you are a girlfriend, fiancé, or wife you are an embarrassment? Follow us here @berealwithlavpodcast Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>If you are a girlfriend, fiancé, or wife you are an embarrassment?</p><p>Follow us here <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>If you are a girlfriend, fiancé, or wife you are an embarrassment?</p><p>Follow us here <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>E20: Should I tell?</itunes:title>
    <title>E20: Should I tell?</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we will discuss if you should tell your partner how many partners you have been with.  Should you tell?  Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we will discuss if you should tell your partner how many partners you have been with.  Should you tell?<br/><br/>Follow us <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we will discuss if you should tell your partner how many partners you have been with.  Should you tell?<br/><br/>Follow us <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>E19: Only God Knows</itunes:title>
    <title>E19: Only God Knows</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode we share the sadness of the massacre in Texas of 19 children and 2 teachers.  Only God knows...  Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode we share the sadness of the massacre in Texas of 19 children and 2 teachers.  Only God knows...<br/><br/>Follow us <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode we share the sadness of the massacre in Texas of 19 children and 2 teachers.  Only God knows...<br/><br/>Follow us <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>E18: Motivation</itunes:title>
    <title>E18: Motivation</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Finding your purpose and loving yourself is the beginning of something beautiful in your journey God will remove people from your life for a reason.  Follow us here: @berealwithlavpodcast Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Finding your purpose and loving yourself is the beginning of something beautiful in your journey God will remove people from your life for a reason.<br/><br/>Follow us here: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Finding your purpose and loving yourself is the beginning of something beautiful in your journey God will remove people from your life for a reason.<br/><br/>Follow us here: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>EP17: Is It Over?</itunes:title>
    <title>EP17: Is It Over?</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text They say age is just a number is that the same when you think about men and women having sex at a later age. Is it over?  The video mentioned in this podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BgZD32bq284   Follow Us here: @berealwithlavpodcast Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>They say age is just a number is that the same when you think about men and women having sex at a later age. Is it over?<br/><br/>The video mentioned in this podcast: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BgZD32bq284'>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BgZD32bq284 </a><br/><br/>Follow Us here: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>They say age is just a number is that the same when you think about men and women having sex at a later age. Is it over?<br/><br/>The video mentioned in this podcast: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BgZD32bq284'>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BgZD32bq284 </a><br/><br/>Follow Us here: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>E16: Getting Over Mom&#39;s Guilt</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text I never told you I was a perfect mom. My mom's guilt is loving too much, we are all guilty of helicoptering our son/daughter. In this episode, we will discuss our weaknesses and strength as mothers.  Follow us here https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/ Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>I never told you I was a perfect mom. My mom&apos;s guilt is loving too much, we are all guilty of helicoptering our son/daughter. In this episode, we will discuss our weaknesses and strength as mothers.<br/><br/>Follow us here <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>I never told you I was a perfect mom. My mom&apos;s guilt is loving too much, we are all guilty of helicoptering our son/daughter. In this episode, we will discuss our weaknesses and strength as mothers.<br/><br/>Follow us here <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>E15: Why Do Men Cheat? An Interview with Magix</itunes:title>
    <title>E15: Why Do Men Cheat? An Interview with Magix</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode of Be Real with Lav, we have a special guest named Magix who shares his male perspective as to why men cheat.  We both discuss the emotional side of cheating, resentment, and one-night stand cheaters and the causes as to why men cheat.    Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode of Be Real with Lav, we have a special guest named Magix who shares his male perspective as to why men cheat.  We both discuss the emotional side of cheating, resentment, and one-night stand cheaters and the causes as to why men cheat.<br/><br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode of Be Real with Lav, we have a special guest named Magix who shares his male perspective as to why men cheat.  We both discuss the emotional side of cheating, resentment, and one-night stand cheaters and the causes as to why men cheat.<br/><br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Sun, 08 May 2022 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text  Many abusive relationships develop over time and when it starts, most of the time the behavior is seen as harmless. Join me in discussing the fears and anger in dealing with an abuser.    This is the hotline for those who are experiencing abuse. (Provincial Crisis Hotline 1-877-330-3213)   Edited by Jag Sandhu (@theintconn)  Follow us here Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
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    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p> Many abusive relationships develop over time and when it starts, most of the time the behavior is seen as harmless. Join me in discussing the fears and anger in dealing with an abuser. <br/><br/> This is the hotline for those who are experiencing abuse. (Provincial Crisis Hotline 1-877-330-3213) <br/><br/>Edited by Jag Sandhu (@theintconn)<br/><br/>Follow us here</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>E13: Why Some Women Don&#39;t Support</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Growing up into womanhood I always preferred to keep more male friends than women, why do some women always have a need to want to hear your personal business.  Why the competition? In this episode, we will discuss the dark reasons behind this... Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Growing up into womanhood I always preferred to keep more male friends than women, why do some women always have a need to want to hear your personal business.  Why the competition? In this episode, we will discuss the dark reasons behind this...</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Growing up into womanhood I always preferred to keep more male friends than women, why do some women always have a need to want to hear your personal business.  Why the competition? In this episode, we will discuss the dark reasons behind this...</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2022 20:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>E12: Single Mother Owning Property</itunes:title>
    <title>E12: Single Mother Owning Property</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we will share and discuss how powerful single mothers are in achieving one of their biggest goals... Buying property  Realtor Info: Frank Covello Reality Executives Instagram: realityexec.priorityone Email: Frankcovello@realtyexecutives.com PH: 416-579-7355   Ralph Covello The Mortgage Centre Instagram: mortgagebyralph Email: Covello.r@mortagagecentre.com PH: 905-660-5120   Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we will share and discuss how powerful single mothers are in achieving one of their biggest goals... Buying property<br/><br/>Realtor Info:<br/>Frank Covello</p><p>Reality Executives</p><p>Instagram: realityexec.priorityone</p><p>Email: <a href='mailto:Frankcovello@realtyexecutives.com'>Frankcovello@realtyexecutives.com</a></p><p>PH: <a href='tel:416-579-7355'>416-579-7355</a></p><p><br/></p><p>Ralph Covello</p><p>The Mortgage Centre</p><p>Instagram: mortgagebyralph</p><p>Email: <a href='mailto:Covello.r@mortagagecentre.com'>Covello.r@mortagagecentre.com</a></p><p>PH: <a href='tel:905-660-5120'>905-660-5120</a><br/><br/><br/>Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we will share and discuss how powerful single mothers are in achieving one of their biggest goals... Buying property<br/><br/>Realtor Info:<br/>Frank Covello</p><p>Reality Executives</p><p>Instagram: realityexec.priorityone</p><p>Email: <a href='mailto:Frankcovello@realtyexecutives.com'>Frankcovello@realtyexecutives.com</a></p><p>PH: <a href='tel:416-579-7355'>416-579-7355</a></p><p><br/></p><p>Ralph Covello</p><p>The Mortgage Centre</p><p>Instagram: mortgagebyralph</p><p>Email: <a href='mailto:Covello.r@mortagagecentre.com'>Covello.r@mortagagecentre.com</a></p><p>PH: <a href='tel:905-660-5120'>905-660-5120</a><br/><br/><br/>Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Sun, 17 Apr 2022 18:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text When you are 50 and beyond those are your golden years. This is our time ladies where you reflect on your life on earth with all the good and bad experiences. Let's talk...  Follow us here  Edited by @theintconn Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>When you are 50 and beyond those are your golden years. This is our time ladies where you reflect on your life on earth with all the good and bad experiences. Let&apos;s talk...<br/><br/>Follow us <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>here</a><br/><br/>Edited by <a href='https://www.instagram.com/theintconn/'>@theintconn</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>When you are 50 and beyond those are your golden years. This is our time ladies where you reflect on your life on earth with all the good and bad experiences. Let&apos;s talk...<br/><br/>Follow us <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>here</a><br/><br/>Edited by <a href='https://www.instagram.com/theintconn/'>@theintconn</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Mental health in our society has become one of the biggest giants to face how are you coping?   Follow us here @berealwithlavpodcast       Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Mental health in our society has become one of the biggest giants to face how are you coping? <br/><br/>Follow us here<a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'> @berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Mental health in our society has become one of the biggest giants to face how are you coping? <br/><br/>Follow us here<a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'> @berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Sun, 03 Apr 2022 18:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <title>E09: Woman to Woman</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Our imperfections are what give us the ability to grow and appreciate ourselves. Are you the kind of woman that loves who you are and who you have become… The feeling of loneliness at times can either strengthen you or define you.  Follow us @berealwithlavpodcast Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Our imperfections are what give us the ability to grow and appreciate ourselves. Are you the kind of woman that loves who you are and who you have become…</p><p>The feeling of loneliness at times can either strengthen you or define you.<br/><br/>Follow us <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Our imperfections are what give us the ability to grow and appreciate ourselves. Are you the kind of woman that loves who you are and who you have become…</p><p>The feeling of loneliness at times can either strengthen you or define you.<br/><br/>Follow us <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text When our bodies start to change, its time to go through another chapter of our journey taking on the fight with our body accepting the changes, and learning new things about our body what are your challenges?  Let’s discuss…  Follow Be Real With Podcast @berealwithlavpodcast Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>When our bodies start to change, its time to go through another chapter of our journey taking on the fight with our body accepting the changes, and learning new things about our body what are your challenges?  Let’s discuss…<br/><br/>Follow Be Real With Podcast <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>When our bodies start to change, its time to go through another chapter of our journey taking on the fight with our body accepting the changes, and learning new things about our body what are your challenges?  Let’s discuss…<br/><br/>Follow Be Real With Podcast <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Sun, 20 Mar 2022 18:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
    <itunes:duration>2044</itunes:duration>
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    <title>E07: 30 &amp; Beyond What&#39;s Next?</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text 30 and beyond what’s next?  Some young people feel when they reach 30 they're getting old, life is over, marriage, kids, etc. In my 30’s I’ve had my challenges and positives. Join us where I discuss embracing 30 and beyond. Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>30 and beyond what’s next?<br/><br/>Some young people feel when they reach 30 they&apos;re getting old, life is over, marriage, kids, etc. In my 30’s I’ve had my challenges and positives. Join us where I discuss embracing 30 and beyond.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>30 and beyond what’s next?<br/><br/>Some young people feel when they reach 30 they&apos;re getting old, life is over, marriage, kids, etc. In my 30’s I’ve had my challenges and positives. Join us where I discuss embracing 30 and beyond.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Sun, 13 Mar 2022 18:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:episode>7</itunes:episode>
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    <title>E06: Our Nightmare COVID - 19</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In 2019, Canada was hit with a forever life-changing virus that took lives and shattered a lot of Canadian families.  Jobs were lost because of the virus,Covid-19 mental health was on the rise and still is.  How did you cope.  In this episode we will discuss surviving Covid-19.    Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In 2019, Canada was hit with a forever life-changing virus that took lives and shattered a lot of Canadian families.  Jobs were lost because of the virus,Covid-19 mental health was on the rise and still is.  How did you cope.  In this episode we will discuss surviving Covid-19.</p><p><br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In 2019, Canada was hit with a forever life-changing virus that took lives and shattered a lot of Canadian families.  Jobs were lost because of the virus,Covid-19 mental health was on the rise and still is.  How did you cope.  In this episode we will discuss surviving Covid-19.</p><p><br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Sun, 06 Mar 2022 22:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Show me your secret and I tell you no lies... Does size matter in the bedroom?  This is a sensitive topic but it is the reality of everyday life.  Don’t pretend it doesn’t matter In this episode we will discuss what most women will discuss with their friends does size really matters.   Follow for more @berealwithlavpodcast Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Show me your secret and I tell you no lies...</p><p>Does size matter in the bedroom? </p><p>This is a sensitive topic but it is the reality of everyday life.  Don’t pretend it doesn’t matter</p><p>In this episode we will discuss what most women will discuss with their friends does size really matters. <br/><br/>Follow for more <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Show me your secret and I tell you no lies...</p><p>Does size matter in the bedroom? </p><p>This is a sensitive topic but it is the reality of everyday life.  Don’t pretend it doesn’t matter</p><p>In this episode we will discuss what most women will discuss with their friends does size really matters. <br/><br/>Follow for more <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Sun, 27 Feb 2022 17:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Moving on up, walk away from disrespect, verbal and physical abuse.  Were you told that you have to validate yourself to everyone? In this episode, we will discuss how the ones you love can push you to the brink of no return. Follow Be Real with Lav Podcast on @berealwithlavpodcast Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text They say 50 is the new 40 that's because you are as old as you feel.  They're so many beautiful women and men that are fifty and beyond and it's all about how you take care of yourself and most of all love yourself.  In this episode let's bring it on and show how we are beautiful and appreciative of 50 and Beyond...  Follow Be Real with Lav Podcast @berealwithlavpodcast Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>They say 50 is the new 40 that&apos;s because you are as old as you feel.  They&apos;re so many beautiful women and men that are fifty and beyond and it&apos;s all about how you take care of yourself and most of all love yourself.  In this episode let&apos;s bring it on and show how we are beautiful and appreciative of 50 and Beyond...<br/><br/>Follow Be Real with Lav Podcast <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>They say 50 is the new 40 that&apos;s because you are as old as you feel.  They&apos;re so many beautiful women and men that are fifty and beyond and it&apos;s all about how you take care of yourself and most of all love yourself.  In this episode let&apos;s bring it on and show how we are beautiful and appreciative of 50 and Beyond...<br/><br/>Follow Be Real with Lav Podcast <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Mon, 14 Feb 2022 17:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Single and don't mingle.  Looking at the life of single mothers is such an important and powerful topic.  In this episode, we will discuss the struggles and the amazing strength of single mothers and their perseverance in raising their children.  Follow Be Real With Lav @berealwithlavpodcast Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Single and don&apos;t mingle.  Looking at the life of single mothers is such an important and powerful topic.  In this episode, we will discuss the struggles and the amazing strength of single mothers and their perseverance in raising their children.<br/><br/>Follow Be Real With Lav <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1890539/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Single and don&apos;t mingle.  Looking at the life of single mothers is such an important and powerful topic.  In this episode, we will discuss the struggles and the amazing strength of single mothers and their perseverance in raising their children.<br/><br/>Follow Be Real With Lav <a href='https://www.instagram.com/berealwithlavpodcast/'>@berealwithlavpodcast</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1890539/monetization/support_link/edit">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Mon, 14 Feb 2022 17:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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