Old Ladies Know Stuff with Rhonda Stoppe & Friends

No Power, No Support, No Regrets: Rhonda Stoppe's Postpartum Story

Tue, 22 Sep 2026 02:00:00 -0700

Guest Cast: PostPartum Empowerment with host: Samantha Newman and Guest: Rhonda Stoppe. Before she was known as "The No Regrets Woman," Rhonda Stoppe was a young mom living in a one-room mountain cabin with no electricity, raising two small children on a generator — and unexpectedly pregnant with her third. In this candid conversation, Rhonda takes us back to 1990: a surprise pregnancy, a sofa-bed bedroom, a husband racing to finish a nursery that wasn't ready in time, and a postpartum fog so heavy she hid in a bunk bed to cry where her toddler couldn't see her.

Rhonda opens up about the isolation of struggling silently in Christian community, the doctor who offered no real help, and the moment her husband walked in and said, "I don't know who you are." She shares how she leaned on older, honest women for mentorship, wrestled with mom guilt, and slowly found her way back — while also carrying real regret over what those hard years cost her oldest daughter.

This is a story about the gap between the dream you're chasing and the reality you're living in, and how God can redeem even the seasons we wish we could take back. Come back next week for part two, where Rhonda shares how she found her way through.

Listen to the original Episode with Samantha Newman: PostPartum Empowerment Episode 105

This episode discusses postpartum anxiety and emotional overwhelm. If you're struggling, please know you don't have to walk through it alone — reach out to a trusted doctor, counselor, or someone in your life who can help.

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Family Glue: How to Stop the Estrangement Epidemic One Generation at a Time

Wed, 09 Sep 2026 16:00:00 -0700

Grandparent estrangement has jumped from 1 in 10 to 1 in 6 families — and Rhonda believes it doesn't have to be that way. In this episode, she sits down with author and family coach Lori Wildenberg (Grandparents Make Grand Partners) to talk honestly about the messy, tender work of staying connected across generations: navigating in-law relationships, setting boundaries without burning bridges, handling passive-aggressive family dynamics, and grieving well in front of your grandkids. Whether you're a new mom figuring out your in-laws or a grandparent longing for closeness with your grandchildren, this conversation offers real, faith-filled tools for building the kind of family glue that holds through the hard seasons.

Episode Highlights

Lori Wildenberg emphasizes that her guidance comes from real-life struggles and growth, not perfection, and discusses learning through hard family experiences 02:35.
Navigating in-law relationships requires grace, honest conversations, and a willingness to recognize shifting family roles 04:54.
Rhonda Stoppe and Lori Wildenberg talk about the increasing estrangement between grandparents and adult children, with Lori Wildenberg noting the statistic is now 1 in 6 families 09:08.
Addressing manipulation and passive-aggressive behaviors as the top causes of estrangement, they share the importance of being direct and striving for healthy communication 27:02.
Rhonda Stoppe shares personal stories of setting boundaries with her mother and modeling family honor, stressing the importance of letting adult children address issues with their own parents 21:08.
They explore the spiritual influence of grandparents, highlighting biblical examples like Timothy’s grandmother and Naomi’s legacy with Ruth 17:07.
The importance of processing grief openly as a family is discussed, with Lori Wildenberg sharing how their family honored her mother-in-law’s passing together 34:37.
Practical tips for honest family conversations include proactively apologizing for missteps and prefacing invitations or requests to prevent misunderstandings 41:05.

Resources Mentioned

Books by Lori Wildenberg:

Other People Mentioned:

Timothy’s mother and grandmother (Biblical figures)
Naomi and Ruth (Biblical figures)
Larry Fowler (referenced via Legacy Coalition/Grand Monday Nights)

Events & Tools:

Raising Disciples Conference, October 10th, Pompano Beach, Florida (Register at: raisingdisciplesconference.com)
Lori Wildenberg’s website with free resources and book links
Moms Together Facebook community

Next Step

Check out Lori Wildenberg’s books or join the upcoming Raising Disciples Conference to deepen your family connections and faith legacy.

🎙️ Remembering Dr. Dobson: A Conversation That Changed Everything — Moms Raising Sons to Be Men

Tue, 25 Aug 2026 02:00:00 -0700

One year ago today, the Christian world said goodbye to one of its most beloved voices.

Dr. James Dobson went home to be with Jesus — and left behind a legacy so vast, so deep, and so far-reaching that it is impossible to measure this side of eternity.

I am one of the countless women whose life and ministry was shaped by his work.

I remember reading Dare to Discipline as a young mom — exhausted, uncertain, and desperate for someone to hand me a biblical framework for raising my kids. Dr. Dobson's books did exactly that. They met me where I was, they pointed me to the Word, and they gave me the confidence to parent with purpose and without apology. I would not be the mom, the author, or the speaker I am today without the foundation his ministry laid in my life.

And I know I am not alone.

That is why today — on this one year anniversary of his blessed home-going — I wanted to share something very special with you.

This is a replay of my interview with Dr. James Dobson on Family Talk — one of the greatest honors of my speaking and writing ministry. In this conversation, Dr. Dobson interviewed me about my bestselling book Moms Raising Sons to Be Men: Guiding Them Toward Their Purpose and Passion — and what unfolded was one of the most honest, heartfelt, and hope-filled conversations I have ever had on any platform.

I share the story of my son Brandon — the severe seizure that left me crying out to God at the foot of my bed, ready to walk away from my faith. I share what God whispered to my broken heart in that desperate moment. And I was blessed to tell Dr. Dobson how his book, When God Doesn't Make Sense was what God used to get me through that difficult season.

This episode is for the mom of a son who is wondering —

Am I doing this right?
Is God paying attention?
Will my son become the man I'm praying for?

The answer — as Dr. Dobson so beautifully understood and devoted his entire life to declaring — is yes. God is for your family. He is for your son. And He will use every ordinary, imperfect, faith-filled moment of your motherhood to accomplish something far beyond what you can see right now.

This conversation is proof of that.

And it is also a reminder of something I believe with everything in me —

books matter.

The right book in the hands of a struggling mom at the right moment can change the entire trajectory of a family.

Dr. Dobson knew that. He built his ministry on that conviction. And I pray that Moms Raising Sons to Be Men — and every book I write — carries forward even a fraction of the impact that his words have had on this generation.

Dr. Dobson — we honor you today. We miss your voice. And we are grateful beyond words for the legacy you have left us to carry forward.

Well done, good and faithful servant.

Come listen, friend. And share this episode with every mom you know. 💛

📚 Book Featured: Moms Raising Sons to Be Men: Guiding Them Toward Their Purpose and Passion — Rhonda Stoppe

🎙️ Original Broadcast: Dr. James Dobson's Family Talk

🔗 Listen to Part 1 of the original broadcast: drjamesdobson.org

📩 Connect with Rhonda: NoRegretsWoman.com | @RhondaStoppe

🎧 Old Ladies Know Stuff Podcast — available wherever you listen to podcasts

Share this episode today in honor of Dr. Dobson's legacy — and in honor of every mom who is faithfully, imperfectly, courageously raising the next generation of men.

What if I get this Wrong? 7 C’s for Homeschooling Without Regrets

Tue, 11 Aug 2026 02:00:00 -0700

Ever catch yourself scrolling past another homeschool mom's picture-perfect morning — matching outfits, a spotless table, kids who actually finished their workbooks — and think, why can't I get it together like that?

You are not alone. And you are not failing.

In this episode, veteran homeschool mom, grandmother of 15, and author Rhonda Stoppe shares the wisdom that took her decades — and one honest mentor — to learn. Rhonda opens up about the moment she realized she was raising her kids for what other people thought of her, not for who God called her to be. From there, she walks us through the 7 C's of Homeschooling Without Regrets: a simple, soul-settling framework for moms who are weary, comparing themselves to everyone else, and terrified of getting this wrong.

This isn't a pep talk about doing more. It's permission to stop performing, let go of comparison, and trust that the God who called you to this is the same God who will equip you for it.

If you're heading into this school year exhausted before it even starts, or you're standing on the edge wondering if you even can do this — press play. Rhonda's going to remind you that the mess, the mismatched socks, and the days that don't go as planned aren't signs you're failing. They might just be exactly what God is using to raise kids who know Him.

In this episode:

Why "what will people think of me?" might be quietly running your homeschool
The difference between raising kids for your glory vs. God's glory
How to stop comparing your homeschool to everyone else's highlight reel
Why controlled freedom (not control) raises resilient kids
The one mentor relationship every homeschool mom needs

You can homeschool without regrets. Rhonda's here to show you how.

In this episode you'll hear an excerpt of the message Rhonda presented at Generation's Homeschooling Virtual Conference:

Stop Schooling Start Discipling 2026 Homeschool Kickoff Event

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The Journey to Becoming: Podcast Swap with Joy Johnson_And that Time I Almost got Stabbed to Death!

Tue, 26 May 2026 05:00:00 -0700

Podcast Swap: In this powerful and heartfelt episode of The Journey to Becoming Podcast, I sit down with Joy Johnson: Coach, Speaker, Host Of The Top 1.5% Globally Ranked Podcast “The Journey To Becoming” And The Founder Of The Joyful Fit Life Community.

Joy is a fellow California girl! She lives in California with her husband and her two wonderful children. She says, "Today, my life is better than I could ever imagine." Listen as Joy and Rhonda share some valuable insights regarding Mentorship, Motherhood and Faith.

Together, we dive deep into biblical motherhood, mentorship, healing, and the importance of learning from the women who have gone before us. Rooted in the wisdom of Titus 2, this conversation explores how God designed women to encourage, disciple, and strengthen one another through every season of life.
Rhonda shares wisdom from over 40 years of helping women build “no regrets” lives, offering practical encouragement for mothers, grandmothers, and women seeking to grow deeper in their walk with God. I also open up about my personal testimony, the healing journey that transformed my parenting, and how I learned to create biblical boundaries in motherhood.
We talk about:
•What it means to mother from healing instead of pain
•Why your children are not extensions of you
•Biblical motherhood and the Titus 2 woman
•Christian mentorship and generational wisdom
•Emotional, mental, and physical health for women
•Becoming an advocate for yourself as you get older
•Healing family patterns through Christ
•The importance of healthy boundaries in parenting
•Faith-filled encouragement for moms in every season
This episode is filled with biblical truth, encouragement, wisdom, and practical insight for Christian women, mothers, and grandmothers who desire to grow in faith, healing, and purpose.
If you’ve been longing for encouragement in your motherhood journey or wisdom from women who have walked before you, this conversation will remind you that God is still shaping your story — and your healing matters for generations to come.
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💛 When Mother's Day Is Complicated: Hope for Women Who Had a Hard Mom

Tue, 12 May 2026 18:00:00 -0700

Mother's Day is beautiful for many women.

But for some of you — it's complicated.

Maybe you grew up with a mom who was harsh. Critical. Absent. Selfish. Or just simply not what you needed her to be. And every Mother's Day, while the world celebrates with flowers and brunch and sentimental cards — something inside you quietly aches.

This episode is for you.

Rhonda Stoppe takes us straight to one of the most disturbing mother-daughter stories in all of Scripture.

Herodias.

You may know her as the woman who demanded John the Baptist's head on a platter.

But what you may not have considered is this —

She didn't carry that platter herself.

She sent her daughter to do it.

Herodias was so consumed by her own bitterness, her own need for revenge, her own undealt-with sin — that she used her daughter Salome as a weapon. And in doing so, she robbed that girl of half a kingdom — and trained her to become just as vile as she was.

It is one of the saddest mom stories in the entire Bible.

And Rhonda refuses to leave you there.

Because here is the truth that this episode builds to — the truth that Rhonda has watched transform women across decades of ministry:

Having a bad mom does not mean you have to become one.

In Christ — you can be the thread that changes everything in your family line. The one who says, the cycle ends with me.The one who chooses forgiveness — not because the pain wasn't real, not because what happened to you was okay — but because forgiveness is the first step to freedom.

And freedom, friend, is exactly what God has for you.

In this powerful episode you will discover:

The shocking story of Herodias and what her revenge truly cost her daughter
Why confronting sin in love is one of the most caring things you can do — and how to do it well
The truth about sexual immorality that every mom needs to speak boldly into her children's lives
Why walking in purity positions your children to make the most important decisions of their lives led by the Spirit of God
How to forgive a mother who was harsh, abusive, or negligent — and why your freedom depends on it
The liberating truth that in Christ you are a new creation — fully equipped to break free from whatever you were raised with

Whether you had a wonderful mom or a heartbreaking one — whether you are carrying wounds you have never spoken out loud or patterns you are terrified of repeating — this episode will meet you with grace, truth, and the hope that only comes from Jesus.

Because in Him — your story does not have to look like hers.

📚 Featured Book: Moms of the Bible: Life-Changing Lessons from the Fearless, Flawed and Faithful by Rhonda Stoppe

🎙️ Find all Moms of the Bible chapter teachings FREE on Rhonda's YouTube Channel

📩 Connect with Rhonda @RhondaStoppe

Share this episode with the woman in your life who needs to know — her past does not have to be her children's future. In Christ, the cycle can end today.

📖 People Over Possessions: Lot's Wife Teaches Us About What Really Matters

Wed, 29 Apr 2026 05:00:00 -0700

What would you grab if you had sixty seconds to leave your home forever?

It's a question most of us have never had to answer. We did during the California Wildfires. And Lot's wife did too. And her answer — told not in words but in one devastating backward glance — cost her everything.

Lot's wife had a home. A life. Possessions. A community she had built in Sodom. And when God said go — she couldn't resist one last look at everything she was leaving behind.

And in that one moment of looking back, she was gone.

Now before we shake our heads at Lot's wife — Rhonda wants us to look in the mirror first.

Because if we're honest?

We do it too.

We look back at the comfort we've lost. The life we planned. Things we thought we deserved. Stuff we accumulated can quietly become more important than our obedience to God.

And Rhonda's phrase for this episode will stay with you long after it's over —

"People over possessions."

IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL DISCOVER:

The sobering story of Lot's wife and the one backward glance that changed everything
Why God's command to not look back was about so much more than direction — it was about the condition of her heart
The powerful phrase Rhonda returns to again and again: "People over possessions"
How our attachment to comfort, stuff, and security quietly competes with our obedience to God
The liberating truth that when we choose people over possessions — we gain something no stuff could ever give us

KEY SCRIPTURE REFERENCES:

Genesis 19 — The story of Lot's wife
Luke 17:32 — "Remember Lot's wife"
Matthew 6:19-21 — "Store up treasures in heaven"
Luke 12:15 — "Life does not consist in an abundance of possessions"

RHONDA'S KEY PHRASE FOR THIS EPISODE: "People over possessions."

Write it on a sticky note. Let it be the filter through which you make decisions this week and always.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

📚 Moms of the Bible: Life-Changing Lessons from the Fearless, Flawed and Faithful — Rhonda Stoppe Available at NoRegretsWoman.com and wherever books are sold

🎙️ Watch all Moms of the Bible chapter teachings FREE on Rhonda's YouTube Channel Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman (Watch This episode Here)

📩 Sign up for Rhonda's monthly newsletter and receive a FREE download of Chapter 1 of Moms of the Bible at NoRegretsWoman.com

SHARE THIS EPISODE with the mom in your life who needs permission to let go — of the stuff, the plans, the backward glance — and run forward into everything God has for her.

Because the life God is calling you toward is always better than the one you're looking back at.

Pull Up a Chair: The Conversation Every Mom Needs to Hear — Rhonda Stoppe & Deb Weakly Get Real_A Podcast Takeover You Don't Want to Miss

Thu, 16 Apr 2026 05:00:00 -0700

EPISODE DESCRIPTION:

Pull Up a Chair: The Conversation Every Mom Needs to Hear —Rhonda Stoppe &

Deb Weakly Get Real_A Podcast Takeover You Don't Want to Miss

What happens when two women who have spent decades pouring into moms, marriages, and families sit down together and just talk?

You get this episode.

Rhonda Stoppe of Old Ladies Know Stuff and Deb Weakly of Help Club for Moms are taking over each other's podcasts — and the wisdom they serve up in this conversation is the kind you only get from women who have lived it, prayed through it, failed at it, repented of it, and come out the other side still standing — and still deeply in love with Jesus.

In this warm, honest, laugh-out-loud and occasionally tear-jerking conversation, Rhonda and Deb tackle the real stuff — the things moms and wives are thinking about at 2am when they can't sleep:

You'll hear Deb share the single piece of parenting advice that stopped her cold — one look at her daughter's tiny hands that changed everything about how she showed up as a mom.

And you'll both laugh and nod along as these two women remind you that the gray hairs are earned, the lessons are hard-won, and the best is absolutely still ahead.

Because here's what Rhonda and Deb both know to be true:

God chose you — in this moment in history — to raise this generation. And He will not leave you to figure it out alone.

This episode covers the best marriage advice nobody tells you, the danger of making your children your best friend, what Eve's "just a little bit more" moment has to do with your scrolling habits, why stepmoms matter more than they know, the power of Scripture memory at 2am when anxiety won't let you sleep, and why linking arms with other women isn't optional — it's obedience.

Come for the wisdom. Stay for the friendship. Share it with every mom and wife you know.

Because old ladies really do know stuff — and they want to share it with you.

FIND RHONDA: NoRegretsWoman.com | Moms of the Bible | Podcast: Old Ladies Know Stuff FIND DEB:HelpClubForMoms.com | Podcast: Help Club for Moms

Deb Weakly | Co-Founder | Executive Director | Content Creator | Mothering Kit Mentor

Deb Weakly is a co-founder of Help Club for Moms, a ministry that encourages women in their faith and offers practical resources to help them thrive. She is a contributing writer to the book of the same name, The Help Club for Moms: Inspirational and Practical Help for You, Your Home, and Your Family, and to its companion series of books titled The Wise Woman. Deb and her husband, Randy, have two grown children and one grandchild.

Tried Tested & Still Together: Marriage Wisdom from the Bible's Imperfect Couples_Dana Che

Thu, 26 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0700

What if the tension in your marriage isn't a sign you married the wrong person — but an invitation to know God more deeply? Dana Che, host of the popular: Rebuilding Us Podcast and author of Tried and True: Marriage Advice from 12 Imperfect Biblical Couples, joins Rhonda to talk about the "long middle" of marriage — that stuck, stalled, going-through-the-motions season so many couples quietly endure. You'll walk away with fresh eyes on why couples drift apart, how contempt silently kills a marriage, and how spiritual intimacy is the missing piece that holds everything else together. Real talk. Real scripture. Real hope.

Rebuilding Us Podcast

Get Dana's Free Resources: Here

Dana's Book: Tried and True: Marriage Advice from 12 Imperfect Biblical Couples

When Life Feels Unfair and People Are Mean: Hannah's Story of Hope

Tue, 10 Mar 2026 18:00:00 -0700

Are you dealing with someone who's mean-spirited, manipulative, or narcissistic? Have you been praying for something for YEARS and God still hasn't answered? Do you feel stuck, alone, and wondering if God even sees you?

Hannah gets it.

In this powerful episode of Old Ladies Know Stuff, Rhonda Stoppe unpacks the story of Hannah from 1 Samuel 1-2—a woman who faced infertility, a narcissistic rival wife, and years of unanswered prayers. But her story doesn't end in despair—it ends in influence that shaped generations.

In this episode, you'll discover:

✨ How to recognize narcissistic behavior (in family members, friends, spouses, or even yourself) and what to do about it

✨ What to do when spiritual leaders let you down—and why church hurt shouldn't drive you away from God's people

✨ The power of persistent prayer—Hannah never stopped asking God for a child, and her faithfulness changed history

✨ How to find joy even when circumstances are painful—Hannah's secret wasn't her situation; it was her satisfaction in God alone

✨ Why keeping your promises to God matters—even when it doesn't make sense (like Hannah giving Samuel back to Eli, who wasn't exactly father-of-the-year material)

✨ The difference between being a consumer of church and being part of the body—Rhonda gets real about why watching online isn't enough

This episode is for you if:

You're in a relationship with a narcissist and feel trapped
You've been praying for something and God keeps saying "not yet"
Someone in your life is mean, manipulative, or constantly making you feel small
You've been hurt by church leaders and are tempted to walk away
You're waiting for God to answer a prayer and wondering if He even hears you
You need a reminder that your identity isn't in your circumstances—it's in Christ alone

Rhonda gets vulnerable about her own experience living with a narcissistic sister, shares powerful insights about how to set boundaries, and reminds us that faithful motherhood isn't about what we DO for our children—it's about how we lean into God through the journey.

Hannah's story proves that what you're walking through right now isn't wasted. Someone is watching. And your faithfulness in the hard seasons will become a legacy that outlasts you.

Listen now and let Hannah's story of persistent prayer, unshakable joy, and patient waiting inspire you to keep trusting God—even when life feels unfair.

Shady Ladies with Fearless Faith: Why Your Past Doesn't Disqualify You: #MomsoftheBible Chapter 1

Tue, 24 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0800

Have you ever whispered to yourself at night, "I'll be a better mom tomorrow"—but tomorrow never comes?

Maybe you're carrying guilt from your past. Decisions you regret. Sins you're ashamed of. Things you wish you could go back and undo.

And you wonder: Can God really use someone like me?

In this powerful episode of Old Ladies Know Stuff, Rhonda Stoppe introduces Chapter 1 of her new book Moms of the Bible: Life-Changing Lessons from the Fearless, Flawed and Faithful by unpacking the incredible story of Rahab the prostitute—a woman with the shadiest past imaginable who became part of Jesus' family line.

In this episode, you'll discover:

✨ Why Rahab is called "the harlot" throughout Scripture—and what that means for moms who feel defined by their past

✨ How a prostitute became a hero of the faith mentioned in Hebrews 11 and the lineage of King David and Jesus

✨ The woman at the well's story—why Jesus went out of His way to meet her in her shame and how He turned her into the first evangelist

✨ What "though your sins are as scarlet, He will wash them white as snow" actually means for your motherhood today

✨ Why Satan wants you to stay stuck in shame—and how to break free from regrets that hold you back

✨ How God uses "shady ladies" to raise world-changers—proving that your past doesn't disqualify you from faithful motherhood

This episode is for you if:

You're carrying shame from past sins and wonder if God can still use you
You've made decisions you deeply regret and feel disqualified from being a "good mom"
You're struggling with the lie that you're not worthy of God's calling
You need to know that redemption is real—and available to YOU today

Rhonda vulnerably shares why she would have been the woman at the well without Jesus, and how studying these biblical "shady ladies" gave her hope that no matter what your past looks like, God's grace is bigger.

Here's the truth: Romans 5:8 says God showed His love for us while we were still sinners. You don't have to clean yourself up first. Jesus meets you in your mess and washes you clean.

Your past doesn't define you. Your Savior does.

Listen now and discover the fearless faith that cleanses all sin and shame.

For Moms Watching Their Kids Date and Singles Looking for Love: How to Choose Wisely

Tue, 10 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0800

Are you a single woman praying God will bring the right person? Or a mom watching your son or daughter date someone and thinking, "Please, Lord, don't let them marry that person"?

This episode is for BOTH of you.

In this powerful conversation, Rhonda Stoppe draws from 44 years of marriage, raising four married children, and mentoring countless couples to share the hard-won wisdom every single woman—and every worried mama—needs to hear about choosing a spouse.

For Singles: You've heard all the advice about "waiting on God" and "trusting His timing." But what does choosing wisely actually look like? How do you know if the guy you're dating is the man you should marry? And what red flags are you ignoring because you're tired of being alone?

For Moms: Your daughter is head-over-heels for a guy who gives you pause. Or your son is dating someone you're not sure about. How do you guide without controlling? When should you speak up? And how do you pray effectively when you see warning signs they don't?

In this episode, Rhonda tackles:

The difference between godly attraction and settling out of loneliness
Red flags that predict marital disaster (chemistry can't overcome these)
Green flags that actually matter (hint: it's not how romantic he is)
Why "equally yoked" means more than just both being Christians
The questions that MUST be asked before engagement—about faith, finances, family, and the future
What missionary dating is—and why it never works
How moms can guide their adult children without pushing them away
When to speak up about concerns—and how to do it with grace
What to do when your child won't listen to your warnings

Whether you're praying for your own future spouse or interceding for your child's relationship, this episode will equip you with biblical wisdom, practical discernment, and the courage to have hard conversations.

Because the choice made at the altar shapes everything that follows. Choose wisely, friend—or help the ones you love choose wisely. Eternity hangs in the balance.

CALL TO ACTION

📖 Want to go deeper?

Grab Rhonda's book Real Life Romance for more biblical wisdom on marriage
Check out Moms of the Bible for encouragement in your motherhood journey

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Got questions? Rhonda would love to hear from you!

Your marriage matters. Your child's marriage matters. Let's choose wisely—together.

From 'Should' to 'Want': Falling in Love with Your Bible Again with Keith Ferrin

Tue, 27 Jan 2026 05:00:00 -0800

Ever feel like reading the Bible is something you "should" do rather than something you genuinely want to do? You're not alone! In this engaging episode of Old Ladies Know Stuff, Rhonda Stoppe welcomes Keith Ferrin—author, speaker, and "Your Bible Coach"—for an inspiring conversation about transforming your Bible reading from duty to delight.

Keith shares his powerful personal journey of the exact moment (April 18, 1993!) when everything changed for him, taking him from feeling obligated to read Scripture to becoming passionate about God's Word. Discover the simple mindset shift that positions you to actually ENJOY the Bible, practical tools to understand and remember what you read, and the biggest mistake people make when approaching Scripture.

Whether you're a longtime Bible student who's lost your spark or someone just starting to explore God's Word, this conversation is packed with wisdom, humor, and actionable insights. Keith breaks down why reading the Bible relationally—not just informationally—changes everything, and shares his "simplest way to study any Bible passage" (it fits on one page!).

Get ready to laugh, learn, and rediscover that the Bible isn't just true and relevant—it's awesome! No matter your age or stage of life, this episode will inspire you to open your Bible with fresh eyes and a hungry heart.

Resources mentioned: Keith's books, courses, and the BibleLife Community™

Bio:

Keith Ferrin is an author, speaker, and word-for-word biblical storyteller. He is also "Your Bible Coach" on YouTube. He founded his ministry in 1996 and travels around the U.S. and internationally, speaking at conferences, churches, retreats, and universities. He utilizes humor, practical workshops, and word-for-word presentations of whole books of the Bible (we're not kidding!) to help people fall in love with God's Word and its Author.

After earning his undergraduate degree in Psychology, he spent six years as a youth and worship pastor at a church plant in Tacoma, WA. He earned his M.Ed. in Guidance & Counseling and spent a couple years counseling at a public elementary school. Since then, Keith has been speaking, writing and creating videos and resources full-time.

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Best of 2025 Episode: The Power of Imperfect Motherhood: Mandy Arioto on Raising Kids with Authenticity and Grace

Tue, 06 Jan 2026 02:00:00 -0800

Best of 2025 Episode: The Power of Imperfect Motherhood: Mandy Arioto on Raising Kids with Authenticity and Grace

In this deeply inspiring conversation, Rhonda Stoppe sits down with Mandy Arioto, CEO of Mom.Co (formerly MOPS), to discuss the profound spiritual calling of motherhood and why moms are some of the most underrated influencers on the planet.

Mandy shares her unexpected journey from turning down a job offer to packing a U-Haul eight days later after a divine wake-up call, reminding us that God's plans often don't make sense in the moment but become crystal clear in hindsight. From managing a ministry reaching over 10 million moms annually to launching the new podcast "The Mandy Show," Mandy brings wisdom, humor, and refreshing honesty to the conversation.

In this episode, you'll discover:

Why 93% of moms strive for perfection—and why our kids don't need perfect moms, they need real ones
How to stop raising your children for what people think of you (this perspective will set you free!)
The fascinating truth about why marketers call moms "the most powerful evangelists on the planet"
How to find redemption when you feel like you've failed as a mom
Why the mundane tasks of motherhood are actually profound acts of eternal significance
How God uses our trials not just to shape us, but to validate our testimony to those watching

Mandy vulnerably shares her own parenting failures—from catching three kids throwing up in her hands to telling her son "you deserve it" when he got sick from smoking pot—and how modeling authentic apologies shapes our children far more than projecting perfection.

Whether you're in the trenches of toddlerhood, navigating the teen years, or preparing for the empty nest, this conversation will remind you that your influence as a mom matters far more than you realize. Your everyday faithfulness is writing a legacy that will outlast any career achievement or social media following.

Resources mentioned:

Mom.Co groups and communities
MomCon 2025 (September 24-26, Orlando, Florida)
New YouVersion devotional on Motherhood in the Bible
"The Mandy Show" podcast (launching September 2025)
Mandy's books: Have More Fun, Starry Eyed, Wild Hope, and Breathing Room

Connect with Mandy at MandyArioto.co and find a Mom.Co community near you at TheMom.Co.

Old Ladies Know Stuff is where wisdom meets real life. Join Rhonda Stoppe as she interviews women who've charted the path ahead, sharing hard-won insights on faith, family, and following Jesus through every season of life.

Eve's Perfect Life Wasn't Enough: Why "Just a Little Bit More" Will Destroy You

Tue, 23 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0800

She had everything. A perfect marriage. A perfect body. Daily walks with God in paradise. Zero conflict, zero shame, zero struggle. So why did Eve reach for the one thing God said "no" to?

In this raw and convicting episode, Rhonda Stoppe unpacks the devastating moment when the perfect woman made the not-so-perfect choice—and every mom since has been fighting the same battle. Because here's the uncomfortable truth: Satan's strategy with Eve is the exact same strategy he's using on you today.

Rhonda reveals the five fatal steps that led to Eve's fall: she trusted herself, investigated the forbidden, questioned God's goodness, compromised truth, and isolated herself from protection. Sound familiar? Whether you're scrolling Instagram wondering why your life doesn't measure up, questioning whether God really has your best interests at heart, or thinking "just a little bit more" will finally make you happy—you're walking Eve's dangerous path.

But this episode isn't just about Eve's failure. It's about Parenting 101 straight from God Himself. Discover how God approached Adam and Eve after their sin (hint: He didn't bark "Go to your room!") and learn how to shepherd your child's heart toward genuine repentance instead of just regret-because-they-got-caught.

Rhonda vulnerably shares the story of a young man whose "harmless" root beer theft at age 5 became a life of crime by adulthood, and challenges moms to recognize their children's "bent" before sinful patterns become second nature. From lying to meanness to emotional manipulation, the habits you ignore today will define who your children become tomorrow.

Plus: Why that mean woman at church didn't just become mean yesterday (and what you need to teach your daughters about hormones, blame, and marriage). The J.D. Rockefeller quote that explains why "just a little bit more" never satisfies. And the daily practice that will keep you from falling for Satan's half-truths when life gets hard.

Godliness with contentment is great gain. Everything else is just chasing wind.

Watch this and other videos of Rhonda teaching on each chapter of her new book: Moms of the Bible: Life-Changing Lessons from the Fearless, Flawed and Faithful (Pre-Order Now - Releases: March 10, 2026).

Join the conversation at NoRegretsWoman.com—and please, don't isolate yourself!

Fearless Faith: What Mary's Story Teaches Us About Facing Rejection

Fri, 12 Dec 2025 03:00:00 -0800

Title: "Fearless Faith: What Mary's Story Teaches Us About Facing Rejection"

Description: Ever wondered how a teenage girl found the courage to say yes to God's impossible plan? In this powerful episode, Rhonda Stoppe unpacks Mary's remarkable story of fearless faith when the angel Gabriel appeared with life-changing news.

Discover how Mary navigated the terrifying possibility of rejection—from her fiancé Joseph, her parents, and her entire community. Rhonda shares the beautiful moment when Mary's cousin Elizabeth confirmed God's miraculous work, and explores why obedience to God doesn't always mean an easy path.

Through personal stories (including a hilarious wedding dress shopping tale) and biblical wisdom, Rhonda addresses the reality of rejection we all face as mothers and women. She tackles false prosperity gospel teachings head-on, reminding us that following Christ requires taking up our cross—even when it feels impossibly heavy.

If you're recovering from betrayal, abandonment, or the deep wounds of rejection, this episode offers hope. Learn how to trust God's plan even when you can't see the outcome, and discover that Jesus understands your sorrow intimately. Your tears don't go unnoticed—He gathers every single one.

Perfect for moms navigating difficult seasons, seeking courage for the unknown, or simply needing a reminder that fearless faith is possible even in our brokenness.

Read more about Mary's Fearless Faith in Rhonda's new book: Moms of the Bible: Life-Changing Lessons from the Fearless, Flawed and Faithful

Watch on Rhonda's YouTube Channel ALL of Rhonda's teaching videos on each chapter of the book on the Moms of the Bible PlaylistL Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman YouTube Channel

Faithful Moms with No Name: Your Legacy Matters More than Recognition

Thu, 20 Nov 2025 05:00:00 -0800

In this powerful finale to our "Moms of the Bible" series, author Rhonda Stoppe tackles one of motherhood's greatest paradoxes: pouring your heart into raising children who will one day live without you—often without others ever knowing your name.

Drawing from the unnamed mothers in Scripture, including David's mom and the mothers of Daniel, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, Rhonda reveals how the most influential cultural changers often come from quiet, faithful homes where moms prioritized biblical truth over public recognition.

Discover why helicopter parenting might be robbing your children of the very courage they need to face their giants, and learn how to raise kids who can fail and recover under your watchful eye before they face the world alone. Rhonda challenges moms to reject apathy, embrace urgency, and understand that your ministry isn't about earning applause—it's about equipping the next generation to stand strong when everyone else bows to cultural pressure.

Whether you're a fearless mom, a flawed mom, or a faithful mom still finding your way, this episode will ignite fresh passion for your God-ordained calling in this generation. Your name may never make headlines, but your influence will echo through eternity.

TO WATCH Rhonda presenting this content on her YouTube Channel click HERE.

Join the conversation at @RhondaStoppe and share in the comments how you're raising world-changers in your own home!

The New Loneliness: Finding Connection in an Isolated World with Cindi McMenamin

Tue, 04 Nov 2025 13:00:00 -0800

The New Loneliness: Finding Connection in an Isolated World

In this heartfelt conversation, Rhonda Stoppe welcomes her dear friend and mentor, award-winning author Cindi McMenamin, to discuss her timely new book The New Loneliness: Nurturing Meaningful Connections When You Feel Isolated.

Whether you're a pastor's wife feeling the unique isolation of ministry, someone navigating a failed friendship, or simply wondering why you feel so alone in our hyper-connected world, this episode offers profound hope and practical wisdom.

Cindi and Rhonda explore:

The loneliness epidemic and how post-COVID habits have isolated us without our realizing it
Why technology makes us feel more connected but leaves us lonelier than ever
How to heal from betrayed or failed friendships with biblical grace
Walking through health scares, diagnoses, and unanswered prayers while trusting God
The power of Titus 2 relationships and finding "your people"
Practical steps to sense God's presence when you feel He's far away
Why choosing faces over screens can transform your relationships

With vulnerability and authenticity, Cindi shares her own journey through a cancer scare, friendship struggles, and seasons of profound loneliness—revealing how God draws us closer in our most isolated moments. This conversation will minister to your heart whether you're in a difficult season right now or want to help someone who is.

Perfect for: Women in ministry, those feeling isolated, anyone recovering from broken relationships, or those seeking to build meaningful community in a distracted world.

Resources mentioned: "The New Loneliness" book and devotional by Cindi McMenamin, available on Amazon and wherever books are sold. Connect with Cindi at StrengthForTheSoul.com.

Finding Your Way Back to Christ with Rhonda Stoppe

Mon, 13 Oct 2025 17:00:00 -0700

Finding Your Way Back to Christ

Have you ever felt distant from God after a season of closeness? In this powerful episode, Rhonda shares seven practical steps to reignite your intimate relationship with Jesus. Drawing from the Apostle Peter's journey—from his bold declarations to his devastating denial and ultimate restoration—Rhonda reminds us that even our failures can humble us and prepare us for greater service.

Discover how to:

Seek God intentionally through daily prayer
Read Scripture with fresh eyes, focusing on God's character
Write and meditate on the Psalms
Learn the names of God and what they reveal about Him
Draw inspiration from biographies of faithful believers
Ask God for help without hesitation
Press on without giving up

Whether you're coming back from a season of wandering or simply longing to deepen your walk with Christ, this episode offers hope and practical guidance. Rhonda vulnerably shares her own struggles with falling short and reminds us that God's grace meets us in our humility.

As Peter discovered after his restoration, our greatest ministry often flows from the seasons where we've been broken and rebuilt by God's love.

Article Mentioned: Finding Your Way Back to Christ

Guest Cast: Dr. James Dobson's Family Talk with guest Rhonda Stoppe

Tue, 16 Sep 2025 20:00:00 -0700

On today’s Guest Cast episode we honor the memory of the late Dr. James Dobson. Please join Dr. Dobson's edition of Family Talk, with guest: Rhonda Stoppe, author of Moms Raising Sons to Be Men, where Rhonda offers help and hope for women to build a no regrets life. Listen as Rhonda shares practical and hope-filled encouragement for anyone who feels stuck in regret.

Mother's of adolescent sons, Rhonda warns “it is possible for a mother to deny a boy his manhood as he grows up.” And if she does, Stoppe says he’ll become a mama’s boy, and will still be sitting on the couch when he’s 40 years old. Especially as a boy enters puberty, he needs to answer to his father, or, if a dad is not in the picture, then a godly man who will affirm him in his masculinity.

The Hero's Journey of Motherhood: Embracing Imperfection_MomCo (MOPs) CEO Mandy Arioto

Tue, 22 Jul 2025 05:00:00 -0700

The Hero's Journey of Motherhood: Embracing Imperfection with Rhonda Stoppe and Mandy Arioto

Join us for an incredibly honest and refreshing conversation with parenting expert Rhonda Stoppe and MomCo's Mandy Arioto as they tackle one of motherhood's biggest myths: the need to be perfect.

In this vulnerable discussion, both moms share raw, real stories from their own parenting journeys—from postpartum meltdowns on freeways to forgotten baked beans that became family legends. You'll discover why 93% of moms feel pressure to be perfect, and more importantly, why our kids don't actually need perfect mothers.

What You'll Learn:

Why authenticity beats perfection in motherhood every time
How to model healthy apologies and humility for your children
The transformative power of viewing motherhood as a "hero's journey"
How God uses the everyday chaos of parenting to shape us into better people
Why your worst parenting moments might become your family's favorite stories

This episode will leave you feeling encouraged, understood, and ready to embrace the beautiful mess of real motherhood. Perfect for any mom who's ever felt like she's failing—spoiler alert: you're not.

Duration: 39 Minutes / Suitable for: Parents, especially mothers

As the host of Bloodline & Backbone and The Mandy Show, Mandy offers powerful insights and candid conversations that resonate with today’s moms, helping them navigate their unique journeys.

Under Mandy’s leadership, MomCo (formerly MOPS) expanded its reach to over 10 million people annually, making a profound impact on moms globally. Mandy is known for her deep empathy and practical solutions that empower women to grow in their roles as mothers and in their personal and spiritual lives.

When she’s not speaking on stages across the globe or writing books that challenge the status quo, you’ll find Mandy, her husband Joe, and their three kids scaling mountains and seeking

wild adventures in Denver, Colorado. Learn more about Mandy at www.mandyarioto.co.

WATCH this LIVE Stream interview on Rhonda's YouTube Channel:

Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman

ABOUT THE MOM CO

MomCo is a non-profit organization that encourages and equips moms of young children to realize their potential as mothers, women and leaders, in relationship with Jesus and in partnership with the local church. MomCo — then, simply known as MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers)—was founded in 1973 when seven women in Colorado invited moms to meet regularly to grow together as women, parents, and leaders, with the ultimate goal of reaching women with the hope of Jesus. Today, the small gathering they called MOPS now extends to

101+ countries, 25 languages, 72,000+ meetings a year and influences over a million moms annually.

For more information about Bloodline & Backbone and available Mother’s Day resources, visit themom.co. Follow The MomCo on social media: Instagram @themomco_ , Facebook @momcobymops, Pinterest themom_co, X @momcobymops, and YouTube @themomco_

How Divorce Effects Children & What You Can Do to Help

Tue, 03 Jun 2025 10:00:00 -0700

How Divorce Effects Children & What You Can Do to Help

Welcome to "Old Ladies Know Stuff," where wisdom meets real-life challenges. I’m your host, Rhonda Stoppe, and today we’re diving into a topic that’s close to many hearts: how divorce affects children and what you can do to help. There’s a common belief that kids will be happier if parents are happy—even if that means splitting up—but decades of research, and years of personal experience as a pastor’s wife and youth minister, show us the real impact divorce can have on young lives.

In this episode, we’ll unpack both the short-term and long-term effects of divorce on children, exploring feelings of insecurity, rejection, resentment, and even financial stress. We’ll talk about practical steps parents can take to support their kids, ways mentors and community can make a difference, and the spiritual implications that often go overlooked. Whether you’re already divorced, considering it, or searching for hope and healing for your family, this is a safe space to find encouragement, resources, and honest conversation—no shame, no judgment. Just heartfelt advice from someone who’s walked alongside countless families on this journey.

Let’s come together to learn, support one another, and discover how, even amid brokenness, there’s hope for joy, restoration, and a brighter future for our children.

This is a popular article Rhonda wrote for Crosswalk.com

Be encouraged as she reads the article with insights you may not have considered

Read the article here: https://www.crosswalk.com/family/marriage/divorce-and-remarriage/what-are-the-negative-effects-of-divorce-on-children.html

The Powerful Effect Divorce Has Upon Children by Rhonda Stoppe

Keywords: divorce effects on children, emotional impact of divorce, long term effects of divorce, short term effects of divorce, child insecurity after divorce, feelings of rejection in children, blended families, fatherlessness, children’s mental health, poverty after divorce, behavioral problems in children, parental conflict, ministry to divorced families, Christian perspective on divorce, remarriage effects on children, child resentment, coping with divorce, child responsibility for divorce, healing after divorce, spiritual implications of divorce, family structure impact, academic well-being of children, church support for divorced families, role models for children, financial difficulties after divorce, youth ministry and divorce, motherless children, counseling for divorce, support for custodial parents, grief and loss in children, hope after divorce

Untriggered - For Moms Who Struggle with Anger_with Amber Lia

Tue, 20 May 2025 20:00:00 -0700

In this incredibly uplifting and informative conversation, UnTriggered author Amber Lia shares encouragement for every mom longing for freedom from anger and the self-condemnation that often accompanies it. This sixty-day devotional touches on heart issues like releasing comparison with other moms, becoming a results-free mom, resisting comparison of children, gaining confidence in listening to the Holy Spirit, embracing the gift of motherhood, and more. Packed with spiritual encouragement, UnTriggered also includes easy "put it into practice" steps.

Quote:

There is so much opportunity for hope to move forward. I mean, my kids, they I don't think they remember those early days at all when I was so triggered. You know, they don't remember who that mom even is. And I know that for some of us, our kids are older, but but first we have to allow God to forgive us. He is so gracious. He says in Psalm one zero three, he talks about how he remembers that we are but dust.

And he looks he looks at us with compassion as a loving father, that our sins are as far as the east is from the west, he says. And so receiving that grace from the Lord and then being so full of that that it overflows for ourselves. The enemy's gonna want you to replay all of that. And that's when we just have to take those thoughts captive and say, nope. I'm clean. I'm forgiven. And all I can do now is the next right thing with my kids. I can make progress with them.

I can bring healing, and I can pray through that and trust the Lord. But don't give up on it. It's never too late. There's never too much damage. There's nothing beyond God's healing hand. So do not despair.Find Untriggered Book and all of

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Young Women_What I Wish I Knew Then_a Message with Rhonda Stoppe

Tue, 06 May 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Young Women_What I Wish I Knew Then_a message with Rhonda Stoppe.

Due to laryngitis I had to cancel my interview scheduled to air today. But I think this timely message will be a great substitute as I share from my heart all the insights to help young women step into adulthood with their eyes fixed on Jesus.

Quote: "May His Word stir in your heart a passion to become all that He has planned for you to be from before the foundations of this world!"

Rhonda taught this message at an intimate outdoor young women's tea party for her home church's young adult ladies.

Note: You'll hear a rooster crowing in the distance (repeatedly). But I feel like the rooster's crow only adds to the quaintness and intimacy of this event.

Books Mentioned: Real Life Romance by Rhonda Stoppe (Harvest House Publishers).

Please listen and SHARE with the young women in your life.

Empty Nest - How You Can Prepare NOW for THEN with Kate Battistelli

Thu, 17 Apr 2025 13:00:00 -0700

Kate Battistelli is the mother of the popular Christian Music Artist:

Francesca Battistelli. In this episode, Kate and I had fun sharing our experiences as moms of Christian Music Artists. While unpacking ways moms can prepare for the day when their kids will launch into the world.

Many of you have children who will soon graduate from high school and head out to college or on their own. Kate's insights will give you courage and inspiration to face this new season of life, the "Second Act" as Kate calls it.

And you will also learn how you can help your parents transition gently into their new roll as empty nesters. Give us a listen and comment or share with friends.

We'd love to hear from you!

the author of The After Party of the Empty Nest: Mom is Not Your Only Name, the bestseller, The God Dare: Will You Choose to Believe the Impossible, and Growing Great Kids: Partner with God to Cultivate His Purpose in Your Child’s Life. She's a contributing writer to the (In)courage Bible for Women and The Spirt-Led Woman's Bible, and her writing has appeared in Guideposts, The Joyful Life magazine, The Better Mom, Mici magazine, and more. She is one-third of the popular Mom to Mom Podcast. In addition, she is an honoree with She Leads Tennessee.

As a young actress in New York City, Kate had a life-changing experience, going from understudy to starring as Anna in the Broadway National Tour of The King and I opposite Yul Brynner for more than 1,000 performances. Kate and her husband laid down their careers in the Broadway theatre in answer to their first “God Dare”, moving out of New York City and into a life of homeschooling and home business. She lives in Franklin, TN, near her daughter Francesca and seven grandchildren. Kate serves women by encouraging them to step out of their safe space and into His irresistible future.

Books Mentioned:

The After Party of the Empty Nest by Kate Battistelli

How Far is Too Far? Dating Insights to Share with Your Daughter

Tue, 01 Apr 2025 15:00:00 -0700

How Far is Too Far? Dating Insights to Share with Your Daughter. Girls just wanna have fun, but how far is too far? Momma, it’s time to prepare yourself to have this talk with your daughter. And the timing to have this conversation is more urgent than you might think

“Choose Wisely” is a message taught by Rhonda Stoppe at a Choose Wisely Conference @ Big Valley Grace Church in Modesto California Single’s Conference.

Please consider sharing this episode with your teen daughter or single young adult friends.

Choosing wisely a godly spouse is the single most important decision your child can make- outside of their surrender to Christ. Mom, it’s your job to have these conversations with your daughter.

Momma- Don’t forsake this calling because you’re uncomfortable talking about s*x and purity with your kids. The world is more than happy to influence your daughters with their view. So ask God for courage and equip yourself to have this all important talk with your daughter.

Purity. True Love Waits

Book Mentioned

Real Life Romance by Rhonda Stoppe

To Know God is to Know HOPE - A Message with Rhonda Stoppe

Tue, 18 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0700

To Know God is to Know HOPE. In this message, Rhonda Stoppe unpacks practical insights to help you grow in your knowledge of God and HOPE in Christ. Using the acrostic from the word HOPE:

Hope in His Steadfast Love

Open His Word

Prioritize Time with Him

Enjoy Him Forever

Please share this message with a friend who needs HOPE. Or an unbelieving friend who needs Christ. Rhonda clearly lays out the plan of salvation in this talk.

How to Lose The Script in Your Head with Rhonda Stoppe

Tue, 04 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0800

How to Lose the Mental Script You Have in Your Head. Rhonda Stoppe shares insights from a popular article she wrote for Crosswalk.com

Rhonda Says, "You know that mantra that plays on repeat in the back of your brain. The one that might have been implanted from childhood? "You're not smart. They'll abandon you. You're fat. You'll never amount to anything." Yea. That one. Even when we grow up and know the Truth, it takes concerted effort to retrain your brain away from stinkin' thinkin' about who you are, and what is your worth."

In this episode of Old Ladies Know Stuff, Rhonda Stoppe shares insights to help you break free from regretful thoughts that might be holding you back in order to embrace the grace filled life God has for you.

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Article Mentioned:

How to Lose the Script Your Parents Gave You by Rhonda Stoppe for Crosswalk.com (June 28, 2023)

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Even if You're Scared - Facing the Culture War with Wisdom and Strength

Are You Sabotaging the Happiness in Your Marriage? with Monica Swanson

Tue, 18 Feb 2025 05:00:00 -0800

This is a special episode where Rhonda Stoppe @ Old Ladies Knows Stuff and Monica Swanson @ The Monica Swanson Podcast join forces to create a power packed one hour episode to air on both of their shows! How Cool is that?

Article: 7 Attitudes that Will Sabotage Your Marriage by Monica Swanson

Monicas's Bio:

BIO:
Monica Swanson is a popular blogger (monicaswanson.com),host of the Monica Swanson Podcast (formerly the Boy Mom
podcast), and author ofBoy Mom, Raising Amazing and her newest book, Becoming Homeschoolers.
Born and raised in the Pacific Northwest, Monica graduated from Pepperdine University and earned her teaching credential from Linfield College. Monica has a bachelor's degree in sports medicine and has spent much of her life as a personal coach and trainer. She and her doctor-husband, Dave, have one college graduate son, one son in college, another son surfing professionally and taking college classes online, and a 14-year-old son – all of whom were homeschooled by Monica. The Swanson family enjoys growing tropical fruit at their family home in the country on the North Shore of Oahu, Hawaii.

Monica's Books:

Boy Mom

Raising Amazing

Becoming Homeschoolers

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What S*X with You Means to Your Husband with Rhonda Stoppe

Tue, 11 Feb 2025 17:00:00 -0800

Rhonda Stoppe reads excerpts from her book: The Marriage Mentor Becoming the Couple You Long to Be. Grab the ebook for only $1.99 (Promo Price ends soon).

You can watch the LIVE Video Recording of this episode on the Old Ladies Know Stuff Play List found on Rhonda's YouTube Channel: Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman

Love Like You Mean it! with Marriage Expert Bob Lepine

Tue, 04 Feb 2025 05:00:00 -0800

Every year, millions of men and women stand before friends and family to pledge their lifelong love to each other. Do they know what they’re getting into?

Unfortunately, many people have a shallow, superficial idea of what marriage is. As a result, many marriages don’t last, and many more married couples are trudging along looking for something more.

Bob Lepine spent 30+ years as the co-host for the popular radio program: Family Life Today. He has interviewed countless marriage experts. As a pastor, author and speaker Bob is ready to share with you.

Bob says, "If you don't tend to your marriage it will drift." In this episode learn practical ways husbands and wives can resist the drift that is a natural part of married life. Learn to love like you mean it for a loving marriage that lasts a lifetime.

Bio:

Radio and podcast listeners know Bob Lepine as the co-host of FamilyLife Today®, FamilyLife’s nationally syndicated radio program. He is the author of LOVE LIKE YOU MEAN IT - The Heart of a Marriage That Honors God and “The Christian Husband” (1999). Bob is also the on air announcer for “Truth for Life” with Alistair Begg.

Bob also serves on the Board of Directors for National Religious Broadcasters. Since 2008 Bob has served as an elder and teaching pastor at Redeemer Community Church in Little Rock, Arkansas. Today he is the host of Mornings on Family Radio, heard on a network of more than 70 radio stations in the US. He is also the ost of The Bounce podcast for pastors and church planters.

Bob and his wife, Mary Ann have five children and nine grandchildren.

Book:
Love Like You Mean It gives husbands and wives a biblical understanding of what real love looks like in marriage by unpacking the ten attributes of genuine love listed in 1 Corinthians 13. Bob Lepine, marriage and family expert and host of the nationally syndicated radio program FamilyLife Today, helps husbands and wives discover that it’s not primarily emotions that define marital love, but actions and decisions that fuel emotions and cause marital love to grow.

Every person who is married, would like to be married one day, or wants to understand more about the biblical vision of marriage will find what they’re looking for as they dive deep into Love Like You Mean It.

Bob's books include: Build a Stronger Marriage, Twelve Things You (Probably) Didn't Know About Easter, The Four Emotions of Christmas, The Christian Husband, and the Book we are discussing today:
LOVE LIKE YOU MEAN IT - The Heart of a Marriage That Honors God

You can WATCH this LIVE on Rhonda's YouTube Channel Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman

A WOW GOD Story - Guest Cast with The Unfolding Podcast

Tue, 21 Jan 2025 05:00:00 -0800

On this Guest Cast Episode, Rhonda Stoppe was invited to share her WOW God Story where it first aired on: The Unfolding Podcast.
Listen to this and other amazing WOW God stories by subscribing to The Unfolding Podcast.
"In everything, give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you." These words from 1 Thessalonians 5:18 came to mind for Rhonda at her breaking point as her son battled severe epilepsy. Through heartbreak and surrender, she discovered how God brought purpose and beauty even in the hardest moments.

Books Mentioned:
Moms Raising Sons to Be Men

The Unfolding Podcast - WBGL

with Meridith Foster

God’s story has been unfolding since the beginning of time and he invites you to be a part of it. Join Meridith Foster each week to hear God’s unfolding story in the lives of His people. Follow along with us and gain encouragement and insight into how God is shaping your story.

Reframing Rejection with Jessica Van Roekel

Mon, 06 Jan 2025 15:00:00 -0800

Our Guest today is Jessica Van Roekel. She is the author of the book: Reframing Rejection -

Are you constantly twist yourself into knots trying to please everyone around you? It's time to break free from the chains of insecurity and embrace the life you were meant to live. Jessica Van Roekel offers a transformative journey from the suffocating grip of people pleasing to the exhilarating freedom of self acceptance. In this episode Jessica helps you identify the 4 categories of rejection that may be holding you back. And she will offer four powerful lenses to help you reframe your rejection experience, discover God's purpose for you even in the face of setbacks.

Listen as Jessica and Rhonda discuss practical ways you can shed the exhausting burden of seeking others approval and embrace the liberating sufficiency of Jesus in your life.

Jessica says, "Imagine waking up every day feeling confident, purposeful, and free from the fear of what others think. Reframing Rejection doesn't just offer temporary solutions. It provides a road map to lasting change, empowering you to live boldly as the person God created you to be. Don't let another day slip by in the shadow of rejection.

Jessica's Book: Reframing Rejection - How Looking Through a Different Lens Changes Everything
Get your copy of Reframing Rejection today and start your journey to becoming unapologetically you.

Website: WelcomeGrace.com
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7 Hebrew words of praise.
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3 day Reframing Rejection Challenge - Video Teaching and a Downloadable Worksheet to walk you through your past, present, and future.
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Holiday Hustle Help with Kathi Lipp author SabbathSoup

Tue, 03 Dec 2024 05:00:00 -0800

Join us for this incredibly insightful conversation with my friend and best selling author, Kathi Lipp. Just in time for the holiday hustle, Kathi's book Sabbath Soup is the resource you need to enjoy the holidays with family and friends - without regrets.

Bio:
Kathi Lipp is a Publisher's Weekly bestselling author of 20 books, including The Accidental Homesteader, Clutter Free, and The Husband Project; she has had articles published in national media, including Woman's World as part of their “Ask the Experts” feature, Today's Christian Woman, Proverbs 31 Ministries, Crosswalk.com, Discipleship Journal and many others. She is a
busy conference and retreat speaker, currently speaking each year to thousands of women throughout the United States. Kathi and her husband, Roger, live in California and are the parents of four young adults.
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Help My Troubled Teen with Crisis Expert: Trace Embry

Tue, 19 Nov 2024 01:00:00 -0800

"Help My Troubled Teen" with Crisis Expert, Trace Embry. Don't miss this incredibly practical conversation with teen with Expert_ Trace Embry.

BIO:

Trace Embry is the Co-founder & Director of Shepherd's Hill Academy (SHA), a Christian nature-based, therapeutic residential program, as well as a private accredited school for troubled teenagers. He has over 30 years experience working with families of troubled teens. All aspects of the ministry operate using solid biblical principles to address life’s issues.

Trace's previous background is in Law Enforcement, Entrepreneurship, and Christian Education. He is the radio program Host of “License to Parent with Trace Embry.” giving Insight for Today’s Culture and biblical guidance to parents of hurting families and struggling teenagers. "License to Parent with Trace Embry" is a member of the National Religious Broadcasters (NRB).

Trace is the Author of the book “The Miracles of Shepherd's Hill-An Extraordinary Odyssey of Divine Interventions” which is a true account of his divinely inspired vision and his family’s journey of radical faith during the founding of Shepherd’s Hill Academy.

RESOURCES & MENTIONS:
License to Parent Episode with Rhonda Stoppe - Moms Raising Men
Moms Raising Sons to Be Men

Common Teen Issues

4 Ways Shepherd's Hill Academy Helps Troubled Teens

Location:
2200 Price Road Martin, Georgia 30557 (706) 779-5766

QUICK LINKS
Program Overview

Should I Vote - When I Don't Like the Candidates?

Mon, 04 Nov 2024 18:00:00 -0800

Today's election is critical to the biblical values we hold dear. Yet, in a post by Focus on the Family it stated that 32 million Christian won't be voting this time around.
In this short but impactful episode, Rhonda Stoppe shares important insights for you to consider. Please don't be one of the 32 million who sits this one out. #govote #vote #2024election #voteyourvalues #biblicalvalues #oldladiesknowstuff

Article Mentioned:
Author: Ken Ham Blog, AnswersinGenesis.org
The Bible-Believing Christian’s Privilege to Vote & Pray

Practical Ways to Bless Your Pastor with Rhonda Stoppe

Tue, 15 Oct 2024 18:00:00 -0700

Rhonda Stoppe has been a pastor's wife for more than 30 years. She's learned a few things along the way. With October being "Pastor Appreciation Month" it is tempting to think signing a card, adding a little money to donate toward the annual appreciation gift, but really that's not what your pastor wants from you.

The sweetest way to encourage your pastor's shepherd heart is to live out your faith in a way that brings glory to Christ. To love him genuinely, consider how you might help support his family's financial needs, but more importantly, grow in the grace and knowledge of the Lord Jesus Christ.

With the sorrowful news of the moral failure of headline pastors, remember how much Satan wants to destroy the ministry of your minister. You can support him by diligently praying for him, for his marriage and for his children. Ask God to protect your pastor from Satan's schemes, and to guard his heart, mind and life.

And finally, SHOW UP! Go to church. Take notes. Listen. Learn. Adjust your life to what your pastor is teaching you. Join small groups. Serve others - don't expect the pastor to do all the work. Use your gifts in your local church to support your church family. And walk in the joy of the Lord. Because the Joy of the Lord is your strength!

You can buy a copy of Rhonda's ebook for Pastor's Wives and gift it to your pastor's wife as a devotional resource to help her in her unique ministry as Minister to the Minister. I Sleep With The Pastor - 52 Week Devotional for Pastor's Wives.

Comedian Bob Smiley_Learning to Laugh When Life Doesn't Turn Out Like You Had Planned

Tue, 01 Oct 2024 18:00:00 -0700

Bob Smiley - Your friend & Mine joins us today on this episode of Old Ladies Know Stuff.

Author/Podcast:
The Average Boy books, and Clubhouse Articles. And The Official Average Boy Podcast is aimed at making your kids laugh while encouraging them to be the best God created them to be.

In this episode, Bob tells stories from his Average Boy life, including some of his embarrassing dating moments. And the insights Bob shares from being a single dad to his sons are super encouraging. Bob never expected to be a single dad. But he and his sons found that The Joy of the Lord helped them find the humor in the most unexpected times - like when they realized they were finally allowed to use whatever towels in the house that they wanted! Join us as Bob shares super funny stories to help you LOL because the Joy of the Lord is your strength!

And watch for Bob's 3rd Dry Comedy Bar Special - Coming Soon!

Here is a link to watch his other Dry Comedy Bar Specials:

Bob's 2024 Tour Dates:

BIO:
Comedian Bob Smiley has been doing standup for over 25 years all over the United States and Arkansas. He’s written 4 books for Focus on the Family under the series he created called “The Adventure’s of Average Boy”. The books, as well as “The Average Boy Podcast” are aimed at making kids laugh while encouraging them to be the best God created them to be. Bob is also very good at mowing and has a massive hotel shampoo collection.

Book Bob for your next event!

Becoming the Mom You Meant to Be - Rhonda Stoppe Full Message

Tue, 03 Sep 2024 05:00:00 -0700

Becoming the Mom You Meant to Be. You know, the mom who was going to be super fun, patient and kind. Yes. Her. For most of us, that momma gets lost along the way somewhere between hormonal imbalances, sleepless nights, toddler tantrums and teenaged mood swings. But you are not alone, my friend. Rhonda Stoppe has been there - along with countless other mothers down through the ages.

With biblical insights, laugh out loud moments, and real stories from Rhonda's life, this episode will inspire, uplift, and encourage you.

Please listen and share this episode with your momma friends.

Rhonda's Books:
Moms Raising Sons to Be Men
The Marriage Mentor - Becoming the Couple You Long to Be
Real Life Romance
If My Husband Would Change I'd Be Happy & Other Myths Wives Believe

Discover Your Prayer Personality with Janet McHenry

Mon, 05 Aug 2024 18:00:00 -0700

What's your Prayer Personality? Janet McHenry unpacks incredible biblical insights and inspiration from the different prayer personalities of Bible characters.

Some say you should have a prayer closet and go there every day for an hour to pray. Some say you should write all your prayers out in a journal. And some say you should keep an organized notebook for all prayer requests others give you.

But none of this feels like you.

Perhaps it's time to step away from the shoulds and discover a praying lifestyle that syncs with your God-given personality.

In Praying Personalities Janet McHenry explores biblical praying styles, numerous personality assessments, learning styles, the spiritual differences of the generations, and spiritual gifts to help you find a praying lifestyle that makes sense for you and the life you lead.

Prayer personality survey:
Janet's Prayer School
Janet's Books

Bio:

Janet McHenry is a national speaker and the author of 27 books, including the bestselling PrayerWalk (WaterBrook) and The Complete Guide to the Prayers of Jesus (Bethany House). She directs the prayer ministries at The Bridge Church in Reno and serves on the California leadership team for the National Day of Prayer. The leader of the hundreds-strong Bible Girls and a long-time prayerwalker, Janet has helped others foster a hope-filled, purposeful lifestyle built on prayer and God's Word. Find out more and find all of Janet's resources at JanetMcHenry.com
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Sacred Scars with Dr. Michelle B

Tue, 02 Jul 2024 05:00:00 -0700

Sacred Scars. We all have them. Dr. Michelle Bengtson, Neuropsychologist with a biblical perspective has created an incredible resource to help you and I discover purpose in our pain.

Join us for this HOPE filled, encouraging, uplifting, and inspiring conversation to help you discover God's purpose in past pain, present suffering, loss and shame.

We all endure trials, pain and hardships in this life. Too often we believe these experiences disqualify us from being useful to God. But the truth is, your past pain and brokenness serves as preparation for what God wants to do in and through you if you will surrender to and trust him.

In this episode, neuropsychologist and fellow sufferer, Dr. Michelle Bengtson helps you:
-understand Suffering from a biblical perspective
-discover how trials of life serve a purpose
-reflect on healing that God has accomplished
-comfort others with the comfort God has given you

BIO:
Dr. Michelle Bengtson is an international speaker, a national and

international media resource on mental health, and the bestselling,

award-winning author of Hope Prevails, the Hope Prevails Bible

Study, Today Is Going to Be a Good Day, Breaking Anxiety's Grip, and The

Hem of His Garment. She is also the host of the award-winning

podcast Your Hope-Filled Perspective. A board-certified clinical

neuropsychologist in private practice for more than twenty years, Dr.

Bengtson blogs regularly and offers a wide variety of resources on her

website, DrMichelleB.com.

Your Hope Filled Perspective Podcast

Books Mentioned:
Sacred Scars
The Hem of His Garment

More Books By Dr. Michelle B

Invite Dr. Michelle to Speak

Connect with Dr Michell at DrMichelleB.com
FREE RESOURCE: THE HOPE VAULT

WATCH this Interview on Rhonda's YouTube Channel Here

Do it Scared! with Guest Susan Macias

Tue, 04 Jun 2024 05:00:00 -0700

Do it Scared! says my friend, Susan Macias. Host of the Amazing podcast:
We're Not Done Yet.

How do you know what God wants you to do next? Listen to this short but insightful conversation between Rhonda Stoppe & Susan Macias that took place at the Spark Media Conference 2024.

It was so fun to meet Susan in real life at the Spark Media Conference. She and I share the same desire to be God's vessel of influence in this season of our lives, because, Old Ladies Know Stuff and We're Not Done Yet!

And Don't Miss my conversation with Susan on her Podcast We're Not Done Yet:
Living without Regret Episode 60

Susan K Macias Bio

Susan Macias loves words, and employs them to make much of Jesus and point others to their loving Heavenly Father, whether in her books, her blog, or on her podcast. An award-winning author of three non-fiction books, her novel, Finding Home, reveals how deeply our Heavenly Father loves us.

Susan's Story

After I retired from twenty-seven years of homeschooling, I answered the next call God’s gave me. As a Christian writer and speaker, I use honesty, transparency, truth from the Word, and a little humor.

And I strive to exhort women to engage in their circumstances so that God is glorified and the Kingdom is expanded. Few things thrill me like sharing Jesus with my sisters.

Oh friend, the Lord calls us to His purposes. Let’s keep fighting the good fight, even when we feel we don’t have much fight left. Jesus will enable us because the hurting world needs us!

Moms Like Us Do Things Like This! with Guest Mona Corwin

Tue, 07 May 2024 05:00:00 -0700

10 MINUTES OF AWESOME! Please Don't miss this episode & SHARE it E'ry Where! Moms Like Us Do Things Like This host Mona Corwin is teaming up with Rhonda Stoppe on this special Guest Cast recorded together at the 2023 Spark Media Christian Podcasters Conference.

FAVORITE EXCERPT:
Mona Corwin: As Christian moms, we want to know the right way to raise our kids to be solid in their foundation of truth and biblical foundations of real faith to grow those virtues, to find character, gifts and talents, yes, of house. But the thing that I have found is that they wanna ask questions of real flesh and blood women which is why I love this podcast. Right? That Older women do know things. So the Moms Like Us Academy is a trusted online space where moms just like us, moms just like you, that they can learn skills and strategies and tools to crush it at motherhood instead of motherhood crushing the. Because you know what?

Rhonda Stoppe: Say that again!To learn how to crush it at motherhood because bud or before motherhood crushes you.

Mona Corwin [00:01:40]:
Oh, preach it, sister. The thing that I've noticed is that moms have to of their greatest fears is that their marriages won't last and that they'll screw up their very own kids. And so in that academy, we bring on experts. Old ladies like us, right? That teach truth. So when you think Moms Like Us Academy, you can think Titus to on have bought online and we're there to mentor you and guide you all the way through.

Rhonda Stoppe [00:02:05]:
Full access to moms just like us. Titus 2 moms have gone online. I love that. To hear for you. So how would they join the Moms Like Us Academy?

Mona Corwin [00:02:15]:
Easy. You're gonna go to momslikeus.org . I say that a lot. It's MomsLikeUs.org, and you can read about the academy, and you can read about woman, and you can sign up right there. And it's a monthly, a monthly woman, monthly academy. So it's like a monthly subscription and there's different prices at different times. And so if you email me at mona@momslikeus.org, then and tell me that you heard me on the radio and on the podcast, then I will give you a coupon to get the best price that you can get.

Rhonda Stoppe [00:02:54]:
Awesome. Because all of us know that moms like us are on a budget. We are. And I'm telling you what, with the gas prices I'm from California. The gas prices are over $5 a gallon now. And all those minivan moms that used to run around are now finding more fun things to do in their own communities, because it just costs a fortune to drive. So you can go to this event without leaving your house.

Ordinary Woman - Extraordinary Legacy

Tue, 16 Apr 2024 05:00:00 -0700

Ordinary Woman - Extraordinary Legacy (35 minutes)

Listen and be inspired as Rhonda shares this personal message of hope to leave an extraordinary legacy.

©OldLadiesKnowStuff 2023

Raising Kids to Follow Christ with Guest Lee Ann Mancini

Tue, 02 Apr 2024 05:00:00 -0700

Friends, you don't want to miss this important episode. Lee Ann is a wealth of help for parents who long to guide their child to follow Jesus. She is the host of the popular podcast: Raising Christian Kids. And the author of her #1 New Release:
Raising Kids to Follow Christ.

And a super fun fact about LeeAnn is that she is also the wonderful author of the children's book and tv series: Sea Kids.

Find all of LeeAnn's Resources and her full bio Here

An added bonus: Lee Ann Mancini, Dr. Michelle Watson and Rhonda Stoppe appear together on the Digging Deeper Episodes of Raising Christian Kids.
Catch our latest episode HERE

Godly Discipline Insights & Tips

Tue, 05 Mar 2024 17:00:00 -0800

Godly Discipline Insights & Tips -
Learning how to discipline your child in a godly way is not for the faint of heart. Can I get a witness? In this episode, Rhonda recalls her own time as a mom trying to figure it all out. Please join us to hear practical insights that may help you discern effective ways to train your child in the way they should go.

Please Like - Subscribe and SHARE this episode with your friends. You help means SO much to me, friend.

Zeal for Christ - Finding Your Way Back with Rhonda Stoppe

Tue, 20 Feb 2024 20:00:00 -0800

Zeal for Christ - Finding Your Way Back with Rhonda Stoppe
Remember when your zeal for Christ captivated your very existence? Life can pull you away and before you know it that passionate flame becomes but a distant memory. Do you ache to find your way back to a place of intimacy with Christ? This short and powerful workshop will show you how.

Why isn’t My Christian Marriage Working?

Tue, 06 Feb 2024 05:00:00 -0800

Why isn’t My Christian Marriage Working?

Books/Articles and Radio Mentioned:
The Marriage Mentor - Becoming the Couple You Long to Be

Focus on the Family - Creating a No Regrets Marriage - with Steve & Rhonda Stoppe

Read the Original Article Here

Free Gift:
TEXT: NOREGRETS to 55444
Receive the FREE video of Rhonda teaching:
“Your Marriage Can Survive Toddlers & Teens”

Guest Cast: Your Love Story Matters! Loving Well @FocusontheFamily

Tue, 16 Jan 2024 05:00:00 -0800

Loving Well Podcast is a popular show produced by Focus on the Family. In this episode Rhonda shares insights from her own love story along with love stories from Focus Hosts: John Fuller and Greg & Erin Smalley. Listen to the original episode here.

Sharing heartwarming love stories and discussing healthy boundaries for a romantic relationship.

Stand Firm in the New Year _ with Pastor Steve Stoppe (11:51)

Tue, 02 Jan 2024 16:00:00 -0800

How You Can Stand Firm in the New Year In this episode of Old Ladies Know Stuff we are joined by Pastor Steve Stoppe as he shares powerful insights and encouragement to stand firm in the new year. Pastor Steve emphasizes the importance of finding faithful firmness, even in the midst of life's battles and challenges. Through biblical references and personal reflections, Pastor Steve urges listeners to stay rooted in the Lord and warns against spiritual instability. Join us as we dive into the heart of true pastorship and the call to stand firm in the faith.

Bio: Steve Stoppe
Pastor Steve Stoppe has dedicated his life to sharing the grace of God and encouraging others to remain true to the Lord. Like the biblical figures Barnabas and Peter, he has a firmness in his faith and a passion for leading others towards spiritual stability. Pastor Steve Stoppe is dedicated to helping others avoid being carried away by the error of lawless people and remains a steadfast leader in his community.

Best Of 2023: What to Do When You Don’t Know What to Do

Tue, 19 Dec 2023 05:00:00 -0800

What to Do When You Don’t Know What to Do - This episode was the most popular download of 2023 ! So it is definitely worth a listen and share. Please join Rhonda as she shares insights from her own life story and 2 Chronicles 20:12 … “Lord, we don’t know what to do, but our eyes are on you.”

Please share this with your friends.

10 Steps to Enjoy the Holidays Without Regrets

Tue, 05 Dec 2023 05:00:00 -0800

10 Steps to Enjoying the Holidays without Regrets
Rhonda Stoppe [00:00:00]:

Today, we're gonna talk about an article that I wrote called 10 Steps to Enjoy the Holidays Without Regrets. Wow. How is it that the holidays are upon us? And they are. And not only the holidays, but I have 15 grandkids. Most of their birthdays are in the months of October, November, December. So we have so much fun over the next few months. Lots of family gatherings, lots of time together. Maybe you can relate.

Rhonda Stoppe [00:00:29]:

But sometimes, we can make decisions. We can interact in ways that When the family all goes home, we have some regrets. So today, we're gonna visit that topic, 10 steps to enjoy the holidays without regrets. Holidays with family can stir up all kinds of emotions. For some, it's a time of gift giving and thankful reflection. For others, It means stressful family gatherings or a grievous reminder that a loved one you have lost is no longer with you. As holidays approach, we can look at 10 steps that you can practice to help prepare to celebrate in ways that you will not have regrets. Number 1, realize the value of remembering God's faithfulness.

Rhonda Stoppe [00:01:13]:

In Joshua chapter 4, the Israelites were able to cross over the Jordan Because God stopped the waters. As they crossed, Joshua instructed leaders to pick up stones to build a monument to God's faithfulness. Although Israel had witnessed miracles, God knew their propensity to forget and yours and mine too. Right? So he instructed Joshua to pick up Stones from the very river that he'd stopped as a memorial to their children of his faithfulness. Not only was this monument To remind Israel of their descendants that they should fear the Lord forever, it would also serve as a Testimony to all the people of all the earth that he is the mighty one true god. Joshua 4:1 through 24 is where you'll find that story. God's works We're not only for Israel, they were also a way of making his name known to all the nations. Remember when the spies entered Jericho and Rahab the harlot hid them? She said this.

Rhonda Stoppe [00:02:16]:

I love this. I know the Lord has given you the land, That the terror of you has fallen on us and that all the inhabitants of the land are fainthearted because of you, For we have heard how the Lord dried up the water of the Red Sea for you. That's Joshua 29. I'm sorry. 29 through 11. When God shows up in mighty ways, it builds our faith. Right? We should learn from God's instructions to remind Selves, our children, our grandchildren, and the watching world that god is the one true god. This holiday season, do not forget the miraculous way that God intervened into the affairs of men to establish our great nation.

Rhonda Stoppe [00:03:01]:

This Christmas, remember how he gave his son to save us from our sins. Let's move on. Number 2, Expect something will not go as planned. For 1 holiday meal, I made the sweet potatoes that I make every year. And after I placed the marshmallows on the top of them and I popped them into the oven, I forgot. I got distracted, and, of course, the marshmallows burned to a crisp. I was disappointed myself For the blunder, but I laughed at my carelessness while carefully peeling off the layer of scorched marshmallows. We live in the country, so that means that we're not on City water or septic.

Rhonda Stoppe [00:03:36]:

In 1 year, when our whole family and extended family were here visiting, our septic tank decided not to work. That means it backs up into the house. I could go on to discuss these details of what in, what entails That experience, but suffice it to say that the whole family was forced to do their business outside in a makeshift outhouse for you City Slickers and Those the city slickers in our family, that type of roughing, it was almost too much for them to handle. Oh, I remember my mom. But we all laughed about the poor&

Inspiration from the Life of an Ordinary Woman

Tue, 21 Nov 2023 05:00:00 -0800

Inspiration from the life of an Ordinary Woman - Anna from the Bible

Rhonda Stoppe shares practical insights to help you live out the extraordinary life God has planned for you! (37 minute message)

©OldLadiesKnowStuff 2023

Help & Hope for the Burned Out Mom

Tue, 07 Nov 2023 05:00:00 -0800

Help & Hope for the Burned Out Mom
with Rhonda Stoppe

Rhonda first presented this message at MOPs Big Valley Grace Church in Modesto CA.
Please Subscribe, comment and SHARE the SHOW with your friends!

Creating a Climate for Conversation with Your Kids

Tue, 03 Oct 2023 05:00:00 -0700

How can moms create a climate for conversation with their kids. In this short episode Rhonda Stoppe shares practical steps you can take to build an environment for communication that will last a lifetime!

The Joy Factor: Unlocking the Secrets to Living a Fulfilling and Joyful Life with Pam Farrel

Tue, 19 Sep 2023 05:00:00 -0700

Bio: Pamela Farrel
Two phrases sum up Pam’s approach to life:

Choosing Joy!

One ordinary woman connected to the extra-ordinary God can make difference!

Pam Farrel is an author who has recently released an ebook called "Infectious Joy" during the pandemic. This ebook contains 30 verses about joy and offers a creative way to process them, along with worksheets for further reflection. In addition to this, she has also created a new resource called "Growing a Joyful Heart" which includes delightful distractions to incorporate more joy into our lives on a daily basis and reduce stress and sadness.

Copies of "Growing a Joyful Heart" can be found in various bookstores, with Amazon being the fastest option. For a more personalized copy with an autograph, it can be purchased directly from love-wise.com.
Read the rest of Pam's Bio Here:

Her writing career began shortly after she began attending church as a child. She wrote her first book under a tree on her family farm. As an adult, she has published more than 40 books including the best-seller Men Are Like Waffles, Women Are Like Spaghetti, 7 Simple Skills for Every Woman, Becoming a Brave New Woman, Devotions for Women on the Go!, Got Teens? 52 Ways to Wow Your Husband; Red Hot Romance Tips for Women, 10 Secrets for Living Smart, Savvy and Strong and Discovering Creative Bible Study Experience books: Discovering Hope in the Psalms, Discovering Joy in Philippians, Discovering Jesus in the Old Testament...

Pam is an engaging and energetic leader who has impacted women’s lives with her experience as an international speaker, Director of Women’s Ministry, radio co-host, newspaper columnist, pastor’s wife, youth leader and mentor.

Want more: You can WATCH in full ON YOUTUBE or FACEBOOK this one hour interview!

Bill & Pam's Website: Love-Wise.com
Mentions:
Seasoned Sisters Ministry
Discover Wisdom in the Proverbs GROUP
Get Pam's Free ebook HERE: Infectious Joy

A Few of Pam's Books:

Homeschooling Without Regrets for Well Rounded Children!

Tue, 05 Sep 2023 05:00:00 -0700

Rhonda Stoppe is a popular speaker at Homeschool Conventions. One of her favorite topics is HOMESCHOOLING WITHOUT REGRETS! Because she's homeschooled and has been around the homeschooling community for many years, Rhonda has learned a few things along the way. And that's what you'll discover in this podcast episode!

Welcome back to another episode of Old Ladies Know Stuff! I'm your host, Rhonda Stoppe, and today we have a topic that hits close to home for many of us - homeschooling without regrets.

Homeschooling can be a daunting task, filled with choices and uncertainties. But fear not! In this episode, we'll explore seven ways to homeschool this school year without regrets. From finding mentors to embracing social settings, we'll be covering all the bases. So grab a cup of tea, put on your thinking cap, and let's dive into the world of homeschooling with wisdom and grace. Let's get started!

Please take time to listen/subscribe and please SHARE this episode with your homeschooling friends.

Part 2_Making Love Your Legacy Part 2 - A Message of HOPE

Wed, 09 Aug 2023 05:00:00 -0700

Making Love Your Legacy is a message Rhonda shared at a MOPs when this was the theme for MOPs international. Listen to the love stories. I pray they inspire you to make true love your legacy too. May your marriage relationship be one marked by Christ's love that He can use to draw your children to Himself. And that one day your children, and grandchildren will want to emulate in their own marriages.

You can also watch our Meredith & Jake, and Kayla & Estevan telling their own love story here:
Meredith & Jake
Kayla & Stev

The Reluctant Homeschool Mom

Tue, 08 Aug 2023 05:00:00 -0700

The Reluctant Homeschool Mom.
I see you. And I totally get you. When we moved back to California from Texas I knew I was going to have to homeschool our youngest two kids - and I genuinely didn't want to!

Seriously, I loved having our kids in good schools. I loved having the days free to meet with friends, clean my house, go to Bible Studies, and go out to lunch with my husband. But, I also knew the Lord was calling me to this ministry of homeschooling our kids. So I asked Him for help. And guess what? He helped me - and our kids - every step of the way!

This message Rhonda taught at a homeschool convention. I hope it blesses and encourages you, my friend.

Part 1_Making Love Your Legacy - A Message of Hope

Tue, 25 Jul 2023 02:00:00 -0700

KIDS CAMP - God Says You’re Special! w/Rhonda Stoppe

Wed, 05 Jul 2023 05:00:00 -0700

Kids Camp! It’s the best to watch the Lord work in the hearts of young children while they’re away at camp!

This message from the book of Esther is one of my favorites to teach at children’s camp because God used a kids camp speaker named “Dave” to teach me the story of Esther and it changed the trajectory of my life!

Take some time to LISTEN WITH YOUR KIDS to this episode. And be ready to have a good discussion with them about what makes them special! Help them realize how God’s plan for their life far exceeds anything this world has to offer!

From Overwhelmed to Equipped: Homeschooling Tips for Reluctant Moms (Part 1)

Tue, 20 Jun 2023 05:00:00 -0700

From Overwhelmed to Equipped: Homeschooling Tips for Reluctant Moms

Welcome to another episode of "Old Ladies Know Stuff." I’m your host, Rhonda Stoppe, here to help women build "No Regrets" lives—and today, we’re diving into the world of homeschooling, especially for those who might not feel all-in about it. In this heartfelt and humorous conversation, I share honest stories from my own journey, offering encouragement and wisdom for moms who feel overwhelmed, anxious, or just plain reluctant about educating their kids at home.

We’ll talk about the real pressures that come with homeschooling—from fearing academic failure to battling the temptation to people-please. I’ll challenge you to keep your eyes on what truly matters: leading your kids to know Christ and making Him known. We’ll touch on the pitfalls of measuring success by accolades and remind you that humility, authenticity, and a strong marriage make a powerful impact on your children’s faith journey.

I draw on lessons from biblical figures like Moses, who was a reluctant leader before becoming a powerful one, and share some laugh-out-loud moments of my own mishaps, all to show you that God equips those He calls—even if you feel unqualified or unwilling. If you’ve ever worried that you “don’t want to” homeschool, or wonder if you can do it without regrets, this episode is filled with practical encouragement and spiritual perspective just for you.

So grab your coffee (and maybe your yoga pants), and let’s open our hearts to what God has for us in this calling—mess, moments of weakness, and all.

Books Mentioned:

Moms Raising Sons to Be Men

If My Husband Would Change I'd Be Happy

00:00 Homeschooling Pressure and Curriculum Overload

06:18 "God's Calling in Homeschooling"

08:46 "Living with a Missional Perspective"

11:03 Unexpected Parenthood Journey

14:16 "Honor Unbelieving Spouses"

16:37 Moses' Doubts and Worship Songs

19:27 Divine Timing and Humility

25:18 Revealing God's Grace and Guidance

27:03 "Moms Raising Sons: Bite-Sized Wisdom"

29:13 "Unexpected Hiking Revelation"

32:20 Strength in Weakness Through Faith

homeschooling, no regrets, Christian parenting, academic excellence, raising children, faith, people pleasing, pressure on parents, SATs, college admissions, humility, pride, ministry, marriage, youth pastor, salvation, evangelism, Titus 2 women, women's mentorship, anxieties of homeschooling, family relationships, spiritual leadership, God’s calling, gospel, personal growth, parental expectations, serving in church, hospitality, marriage advice, parental regrets

When You Don’t Know What to Do

Tue, 20 Jun 2023 05:00:00 -0700

When You Don’t Know What to Do - From her own life story - Rhonda Stoppe unpacks insights from 2 Chronicles 20:12 … “Lord, we don’t know what to do, but our eyes are on you.”

GuestCast: iWork4Him: How to Affair Proof Your Marriage

Tue, 06 Jun 2023 05:00:00 -0700

GUEST CAST EPISODE: Show notes iWork4Him
How to Affair proof your marriage

iWork4Him is a show solely focused on the intersection of our Faith in Jesus and our Work. When these two collide – fantastic things happen all around us. People start to benefit from you following Jesus whether they believe in Jesus or not. That’s when the enemy goes full on frontal attack. He wants to compromise your reputation at work so that your testimony is no longer attractive. What is one way he does this? An Affair with an office mate. Whether you are a man or a woman, A committed follower of Jesus or one just finding their way in being a Jesus Follower, the enemy wants to see you fail. How do we protect our reputation and the reputation of our savior? We need to affair proof our marriages. We need to have a solid ground to stand on at home so that our steadfastness isn’t compromised at work. Even if you are not married, an affair at work will significantly dismantle your witness as a Christian. Today joining Martha and Jim Brangenberg is Rhonda Stoppe with www.NoRegretsWoman.com

Rhonda Stoppe returns to iWork4Him for another great interview about marriage.

Rhonda and Steve have been married for 42 years and she knows that they continue to need to be transparent with each other and take their advice from scripture. When they were new parents Rhonda found herself dressing up for church on Sundays and appreciated the compliments of a gentleman there. After a few weeks of getting compliments she approached Steve and basically explained the situation and told him he needs to compliment her more, as she was looking forward to the compliments of the man at church. She knew this behaviour could have bad consequences and that is how most affairs get started.

Applying that story to the workplace is pretty easy. We need to set good boundaries and clearly protect our marriages. We can do this by strengthening our marriages and making them a priority. We shared the 72-hour intimacy rule with her and Rhonda is going to add that to her messaging. Rhonda encouraged women to pursue their husbands. This is a successful way to affair proof your marriage.

There is a road to recovery for an affair. God has forgiven us as far as the East is from the West. Don’t stop protecting your marriage. When the kids leave and our lives change we shouldn’t look elsewhere for attention. Rhonda encouraged marriages to be careful even in our virtual relationships while we work distantly. It can quickly get out of control.

Books:
The Marriage Mentor - Becoming the Couple You Long to Be
A Christian Woman's Guide to Great Sex in Marriage

Listen HERE to the original episode at iWork4Him

Motherhood Matters-YOU Matter! MOMcon_Stoppe_Part 1 (19:50)

Tue, 16 May 2023 05:00:00 -0700

MOPs MomCon Part 1

Motherhood Matters - YOU Matter!

Billy Graham’s mother

Luke Smallbone’s Mum

Sibling Rivalry the one secret that changed everything!

Quote:

“If we celebrate their differences, they become best friends, and they celebrate each other’s differences.”

Foster/Adopted Mom - The influence of a few years

SEX - DRUGS - ROCK n ROLL

Insights…

How to talk to your son about SEX

Always use the phrase: “Husband & Wife in the Marriage Bed”

(rather than man and woman/boy and girl.)

Word Picture: Pink Heart/Blue Heart

The Number One Mother/Son Communication Secret you don’t want to miss!
"Shoulder to Shoulder"

Pornography - How to equip your son to withstand the temptation/addiction

Thank you for joining this episode. Please take a moment to rate the podcast/write a review and SHARE this episode with a friend.

Your support means SO much in helping us mentor others.

TRANSCRIPT: Find complete transcript HERE

(00:00):

I'm gonna say that again. Motherhood matters. God has chosen us to influence this generation through motherhood because motherhood matters like really, really matters Down through history, the first teachers of men that God raised up in their generation were not scholars. They were their mothers. We are the makers of men, the architects of the next generation. Let that sit with you. Luke Smallbone of Fourth King and Country. Do you guys know them? Love the Smallbone family. He says this about his mom. I probably owe all that I am to my mom because when a man is loved by his mother, he can end up doing great things. And there's an amazing story of him and his mother in mom's raising sons to be men. And go to the next slide. Ruth Graham, who was the mother of Billy Graham, think of her influence on her culture. Every person who came to Jesus Christ because of Ruth Graham's influence on her son, Billy Graham, that's fruit of her work. Helen's Helen's Smallbone was Luke's mom. Every song you hear written, every worship note that he sings. Did you know she's also the mom of Rebecca St. James. Back in the olden days, there was a a singer hold Rebecca St. James that's their sister. We don't know how God's gonna use us to influence our kids, but God knows, and he handpicked you to do it. Ruth Graham said to me, motherhood is the nicest, most rewarding job in the world. The second, the, I'm sorry, second importance to none.

(01:52):

Inspiring, terrifying . Yes, but you're not alone. Everyone say with me, I am not alone. . And see, when we're looking at everybody on social media and they've got their Etsy store and they're making dresses outta pillow cases that they're selling and they're making meals that are all keto friendly, and you're in the same yoga pants and the messy bun that you've had for five days and, and they are like completely. And you're like, I feel completely alone that I'm the only one that can't wrap my arms around this mom thing. You're not alone. I'm gonna go through some practical boy mom stuff. Let's do that.

Read and Download the Show Transcript at

Mothers Day Song: It's All in a Mother's Love by Brandon Stoppe

Fri, 12 May 2023 05:00:00 -0700

Motherhood Matters Part 2_MOMcon_Rhonda Stoppe

Wed, 10 May 2023 05:00:00 -0700

Part 2

*Teachable Moments Come in Times of Disobedience. 20:26

Control Freaks Raise Freaks!

“Let me live my own life”

Men Learn from their Mistakes

Pick them up when they fall

Ask God for Discernment

Show them How to Recover from their mistake

I AM NOT ALONE

Isaiah 41:10

Quote:

If God calls us to this mission of motherhood - He will help us.

Mentors Matter

Titus 2 Older women teach the younger women how to love their husbands and love their children.

What I learned from Older Mentors:

How to Love God’s Word

Quote:

“You will never know yourself more clearly than through the lens of scripture.”

“Get in the word and you will see a reflection of yourself that God can transform”

Scripture “Do not be conformed to this world… be transformed by the renewing of your mind…”

-Social media conforms us to the world’s view

-Scripture transforms our minds to a biblical world view.

DAVID’S MOM:

Helicopter Moms - Don’t fight his battles for him

Quote:

“Sometimes God sends the giant and he sends the bear to equip your child to fight a giant that you know nothing about.”

Scripture:

“As high as the heavens are above the earth so My ways are higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts” (Isaiah 55:9).

Special Needs Child

Quote:

“Mom’s Kiss: He knows you kiss him while he’s sleeping”

Scripture:

“I have stored up Your word in my heart, that I might not sin against You”(Psalm 119:11).

“In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you”
(1 Thessalonians 5:18).

Quote:

“Sometimes your trial is not about you. Your trial is to show your children, to verify, that what you say you believe you really believe.”

Miscarriage:

Quote: “You will hold it in heaven”

Quote:

“We raised our children to direct each other to Christ in a crisis.”

“Your children will feel most secure when your love for each other is most genuine.”

“Your son will likely marry someone who is like you.”
APATHY is our Enemy.

Single Moms: God promises to be a father to the fatherless. (Psalm 68:5)
We see you. We are here for you.
Quote:

“No other calling influences our culture as powerful as motherhood.”

"It’s terrifying to raise our sons in this culture. And yet, God has called us to change the culture through the raising of our sons.”

I AM NOT ALONE

Motherhood Matters!

Mother’s Day Song… It's All in a Mother's Love (C)Music&Lyrics Brandon Stoppe

WATCH the slideshow on my YouTube channel
Link to LISTEN on the podcast: Old Ladies Know Stuff "Bonus Episode"

Abortion - What Does the Bible Say?

Tue, 02 May 2023 05:00:00 -0700

Abortion - What Does the Bible Say?

Oh wow, this was not an easy episode to upload. I know how controversial the subject of abortion can be. I get it. But, I also know how often women ask me, "What does the Bible Say about Abortion?"

So, I feel like it's a timely topic. And I also realize that posting this episode has the potential to make or break my podcast subscriber list. But with God's courage, I press on as I press: "Publish"

Prayers appreciated my friends. Please pray for the women who will listen. Pray that God stirs in us His compassion and longing to share the hope of the gospel with women who are looking for answers. Please pray that our love for Christ will spill over onto them and show them how Jesus is the one who washes us whiter than snow. And please pray that we will be like Naomi (an old lady who knows stuff) was to Ruth. May our love for God, and compassion for them draw women to trust Him too.

Resource Mentioned in this episode:
Crosswalk Article: What Does the Bible Say About Abortion?

Focus on the Family Resources:
by Rhonda Stoppe Lessons From a Teen Abortion Accomplice

by Kristie Piper: Abortion Survivors: Does God Forgive Abortion?

Post Abortion Emotional Struggles

Focus on the Family Counselors - Free Resource

GuestCast: PostPartum/PMS & Gods Kindness_with Postpartum Empowerment host Samantha Newman

Tue, 18 Apr 2023 05:00:00 -0700

GuestCast: PostPartum/PMS/Balancing Hormones and The Kindness of God with Samantha M Newman and Rhonda Stoppe.

BIO: Samantha NEWMAN helps ignite momentum for mothers going through postpartum depression and anxiety. She is a mother, wife and writer who passionately shares her heart while linking arms with those struggling.
SAMANTHA lives in QUEENSLAND, AUSTRALIA

To date, this is by far one of my favorite GuestCast Episodes, because it offers real hope to real women who find themselves wrestling with PostPartum and hormonal imbalances. If you are struggling, Samantha and Rhonda want you to know they have both been in your shoes and you are not alone. Listen to hear their insights that come from their own experiences.

ORIGINAL EPISODE: This interview first aired on the amazing podcast:
PostPartum Empowerment
with host Samantha Newman Episode 106

You can also listen HERE to Part 1 ( Episode 105 ) of my interview with Samantha Newman.

QUOTE: "Don't give up until you find what works for you."

MENTIONS:
Focus on the Family Article by Rhonda:
How to Deal with Hormonal Imbalances that Effect Your Marriage

If you're a woman in need of a community to understands your hormonal stuff, you'll find your tribe when you subscribe & follow the Postpartum Empowerment Podcast
Show Notes can be found at SamanthaMNewman.com

*NOTE: Samantha admits she is not a doctor or healthcare professional. Just a momma who has been there and who wants to link arms with those who are struggling. We advise (as you'll hear in this episode) that you find professional help by seeking out a doctor or nutritionist specializing in hormonal imbalances. And of course, connecting with an older woman who's been in your shoes can be of great support as well, because, "Old Ladies Know Stuff!"

Over-Parenting_Are You Driving Your Kids Away from Faith?

Tue, 04 Apr 2023 05:00:00 -0700

Is Over Parenting Turning Your Kids Away from Faith?

"Control Freaks Raise Freaks" but how can a parent know the difference between controlling and concern?

Resources Mentioned:
Crosswalk.com
Is Over Parenting Turning Your Kid Away from Faith?

Moms Raising Sons to Be Men

Over-parenting can feel like the right thing to do, but it's important to learn to parent in a way that helps your child mature away from dependence upon you and more upon faith In Christ.

NOTE: The Opportunity to virtually attend your book club (FREE) has expired. But valid through April 30, 2023 for podcast subscribers - If you start a book club with at least 10 friends who all order a copy of the 10th Anniversary Revised Edition of Moms Raising Sons to Be Men

We didn't get to this in the episode... but it's super important:
So, let’s break down Deuteronomy 6:4-9:

Verse 4-5: You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength. Your wholehearted commitment to God and His Word will demonstrate to your child how much you love God and value Scripture.

Verse 6: Think about, meditate on, and memorize Scripture, so your obedience to God will be a response based upon biblical precepts. When you transform your thinking with Scripture you will be prepared to teach your kids how to speak and act in God-honoring ways, without hypocrisy.

Verse 7-9: Relate your child’s everyday experiences to the Bible. This practice will make talking about spiritual matters a normal part of your conversations.

When you arm your children with godly knowledge, they will learn to recognize when others are attempting to deceive them.

God said, “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge (Hosea 4:6). So, to keep your children from being destroyed by worldly influences and deceptions, impart knowledge from the Bible as often as the opportunity arises. This will grow their faith more than the practice of over-parenting attempts to manipulate or control their actions.

The world would instruct your children to achieve their goals for their own pleasure and fame, rather than God’s glory. That is why it’s vital for you to train them to filter their opportunities and achievements through a biblical mindset.

One way to lay a biblical foundation in your child’s mind is through music. (And realize that ungodly music can also be the thing that woos your child’s heart away from a godly mindset.) For example, as a witness for the Lord, God told Moses to write a song for His people to teach to their children so it “will not be forgotten in the mouths of their descendants” (Deuteronomy 31:19-22).

Guest Cast with Dr James Dobson Family Talk

Tue, 21 Mar 2023 05:00:00 -0700

This amazing interview with Dr. James Dobson's Family Talk first aired July 6, 2021. You can catch the all of Rhonda's interviews with Dr. James Dobson's Family Institute HERE:*

Listen Here: Part 1
Read Part 1 Full Transcript Here:

Dr. James Dobson's book Mentioned:
Bringing Up Boys

Rhonda's Resources Mentioned:
Moms Raising Sons to Be Men

Listen Here: Part 2
Read Part 2 Full Transcript Here:
Dr. James Dobson's Books Mentioned:
When God Doesn't Make Sense
The New Dare to Discipline

Rhonda's Resources Mentioned:
Moms Raising Sons to Be Men
If My Husband Would Change I'd Be Happy
The Marriage Mentor
I Sleep with the Pastor

*Please consider making a donation to Dr. James Dobson Family Institute so they can continue their vital ministry to families in this generation.
Click Here to Donate to Dr. James Dobson Family Institute

Your Marriage Can Survive Toddlers & Teens!

Tue, 07 Mar 2023 05:00:00 -0800

Your Marriage Can Survive Toddlers & Teens - Guest Cast with Rhonda Stoppe presenting this message at the Awesome Marriage Online Marriage Retreat*

INTRO: (00:00-4:43)
-Postpartum
-Feeling like I had failed my husband and my children
-Temptation to run away and find my worth in my career
-Loneliness of motherhood
-"Trying to Keep the Love Alive in Marriage while Keeping your kids alive one more day" LOL
-Toddler Tantrums and Teen mood swings can make it feel like connecting with your spouse is impossible.
-Grin & Bear it... Fake it til you make it? Not the Best Course of Action.
-Imposter syndrome
-God loves when we cry out and admit we are at the end of our rope and don't have it all together

4 WAYS YOUR MARRIAGE CAN SURVIVE TODDLERS & TEENS (04:44)
1. Be Still
-God is for you building a better marriage
-Who can be against you?
-Stop Striving to Do Better
-Overly Committed

QUOTE: "Being Still may feel counter productive, but God will meet you in the quiet."

2. Be Real (07:02-09:19 )
-Honesty with gentle words
-Don't shame or blame your spouse
-Acknowledge the real difficulty of raising toddlers & teens
-Realize that you need help
-You GET ONE SHOT AT THIS marriage & parenting thing... ONE

3. BE GENUINE (07:50-09:19)

4. BE DETERMINED TO BE UNITED (09:19-12:20 )

QUOTE: "Decide together how you will respond when your kids attempt to create turmoil."

QUOTE: "Kids who can divide their parents are filled with insecurity"

Ecclesiastes 4:12 "Two are better than one..."

QUOTE: "God is your source of wisdom & strength"

TAKE AWAY: "If we want our kids to follow Christ they must see the testimony of His love in our marriages"

CONCLUSION:
One more story (12:23)

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

*To WATCH Rhonda giving this presentation and to register for the conference
Click Here: Awesome Marriage Virtual Retreat 2023
DISCOUNT Code: RHONDA10

Moms Raising Sons to Be Men - Rhonda Stoppe, Harvest House Publishers
The Marriage Mentor - Rhonda Stoppe, Harvest House Publishers

Moms Raising Sons Book Quote: "Your Son's Generation is longing to see..."

Sun, 05 Mar 2023 17:00:00 -0800

Moms Raising Sons Book Quote:
Your son's generation is longing to see what genuine Christianity looks like

#MomsRaisingSonstoBeMen - Available now!

How to Rekindle Intimacy in Your Marriage Bed

Thu, 16 Feb 2023 05:00:00 -0800

How to Rekindle Intimacy in Your Marriage Bed In this short episode (6:46) Rhonda offers practical insights to help you rekindle the romance in your marriage.

Steps to Build Intimacy in Marriage

1. A Close Warm Friendship
- Play together
2. Pursue Each Other
3. Ask God for Help
4. View s❤️x as a supernatural way God knits your souls together as one.
5. Connect on an emotional level
-Make her feel seen & heard
-Help her with the everyday chores
-Giver her time to unwind
6. Rhonda’s resource: Ebook “A Christian Woman’s Guide to Great
S❤️X in marriage
7. Building Trust is Crucial
- believe the best about each other
-love them for who they are
8. Affirming Words
9. Make time to make love

This episode is in no way a comprehensive resource. I am not a professional counselor, but as an older woman I offer these valuable insights. I pray the steps you learn here will help you reconnect and rekindle intimacy with your spouse.

For professional help please reach out to a free counselors at Focus on the Family.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Crosswalk Article: Are S❤️X and intimacy the Same thing?
-Article
-Video

ebook: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Great S❤️X in Marriage

The Marriage Mentor - Becoming the Couple You Long to Be

Real Life Romance

GuestCast: Our LOL True Love Story w/ Steve & Rhonda Stoppe

Wed, 08 Feb 2023 05:00:00 -0800

GUESTCast Episode with Steve Stoppe. Our LOL True Love Story - Listen and laugh as we try to recall our Real Life Romance Love Story that began over 40 years ago ❤️

Listening Time: (14:35)

Original Audio Interview :
Engaging Story - Strengthening Your Marriage One Story at a Time

YouTube Video Has over 34K Views!
You can WATCH Steve & Rhonda’s Love Story video here:

Watch Here - Other couples tell their love stories from Rhonda’s Book: RealLifeRomance

Guest Cast: THRIVE & REST with Marnie Swedberg - Mentor to Thousands! (12:48)

Tue, 24 Jan 2023 02:00:00 -0800

THRIVE & REST! DON’T MISS this power packed Conversation. An excerpt from the exciting Spiritual Growth Conference: Thrive with Me 2023

Join Rhonda and Marnie to hear insights and inspiration to help you discover how to Thrive while Learning to Rest.
Rhonda’s Acronym:
REST
Remember
Eliminate
Savor the Savior
Tell
(Listening Time: 12:48)

Marnie’s speaker profile: WomenSpeakers.com

Buy Marnie’s New Book:
Spiritual Growth
Experience self-awareness at a whole new level. Honestly assess your true feelings, beliefs, concerns, and spiritual options. Gain the clarity you need to get going in a clearly defined direction.
The book also includes a Relgion Comparison Guide to further convince you of your choice, and encourage you to fully invest. You'll explore the top 20 religions at your own pace, coming to your own conclusions, because nobody else's opinion about this really matters.

BIO:
Marnie Swedberg is an international leadership mentor, the author of 13 books, the host of her own radio talk show, a media expert, and a keynote speaker for organizations around the world.

Fun and fast-paced, yet peaceful and approachable, her history includes fires, floods, a tornado, car wrecks, business set-backs, a burglary, lightning strike, ambulance rides and more. She models come-back behavior, possibility thinking, and profound faith.

As the webhostess of www.WomenSpeakers.com, the largest online directory of Christian Women Speakers in the world, she connects event planners with speakers

Links Mentioned in this Episode:

Thrive With Me Conference Replay
Marnie’s Speaker Profile & Booking Info
Watch Rhonda & Marnie’s conversation here. (Forward to find Rhonda’s Interview 35:09)
Watch Rhonda’s Session at Thrive with Me 2023: Everyone Can Live an Extraordinary Life!

Rhonda’s Resources Mentioned:

The Marriage Mentor - Becoming the Couple You Long to Be - by Steve & Rhonda Stoppe (Harvest House Publishers)
Moms Raising Sons to Be Men (Harvest House 2023)
How to Have a Relationship with Jesus
YouTube Channel: Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman
Podcast: Old Ladies Know Stuff

10 Reasons to Go to Church - Even When You Don't Feel Like it!

Wed, 04 Jan 2023 05:00:00 -0800

10 Reasons to Go to Church - Even When You Don't Feel Like it

These 10 points are taken from a popular article I wrote for Crosswalk.com
For a more detailed breakdown of each point you can read the article here:

10 Reasons to Go to Church - Even When You Don't Feel Like it

Happy New Year Friends. I'll see you in church!

Soli Deo Gloria
Rhonda

GUEST CAST with Brandon Stoppe_Insights into Adolescence (Part 3 of 4)

Thu, 01 Dec 2022 19:00:00 -0800

Part 3 of 4 This conversation will blow your mind! Rhonda's son, Brandon Stoppe shares what is going on in the mind of your adolescent son!

Wow. Just wow! Don't miss this. And then please SHARE IT with your boy mom friends in the thick of adolescence.

QUOTE: "What do I do with him? Where do I send him?"

Men speak shoulder to shoulder. Learn new ways to communicate with your son.
Christian sons have an inner turmoil of the Holy Spirit's conviction amidst their fight to become a man.

QUOTE: "As sons, how we see God is how we see our parents."

STORY: The last straw. The Ditch Digger

ADVICE TO DADS: from Brandon.

The power struggle.
Parent's Unity made all the difference.
Hard work works.

QUOTE: "As I was digging it was a kind of natural type of moment. I'm getting better at this... It was something to be really proud of myself in...and I wanted to show my dad...
Work for my dad made all the difference for me."

STORY: Moses, Miriam and Aaron.

SINGLE MOMS: Mothers of sons without dads... Brandon shares great hope!

CONVERSATIONS THAT MATTER.

QUOTE: "Talk so he listens. And listen so he talks...Be willing to give him the reasons why..."

Please SUBSCRIBE & SHARE to catch the rest of the story in the next Episode. (I apologize for the abrupt ending of this episode! But please stay tuned for the Final Episode: Part 4 of 4 "Insights into Adolescence )

GUESTCast: Sons & Dating with BoyMom: Monica Swanson & Rhonda

Wed, 09 Nov 2022 02:00:00 -0800

GuestCast! BoyMom Podcast Host Monica Swanson & Rhonda Stoppe discuss Sons & Dating. Today's episode is packed with great insights where we talk about helping our sons navigate relationships, dating, s*x, and finding a spouse. This power packed episode first aired: BoyMom Podcast

Chapter Titles:

Having the Talk (10:37)
Help Them Discern (19:04)
To Date or Not to Date? (25:37)
Give Them The Why (26:47)
Hope for Single Moms (28:20)
Old Ladies Know Stuff (29:21)
Group Dating & High School Sweethearts (39:25)
How Far is Too Far? (41:59)
Help Them Set Boundaries (42:49)
Appeal to the Man He will Become (48:36)
Talk Openly with Them (52:30)
Conclusion

Monica Swanson

Monica and her husband Dave raise boys and tropical fruit on the North Shore of Oahu. Monica has homeschooled their four sons (two who are currently in college in Southern California.) Monica is the author of Boy Mom: What Your Son Needs Most from You, and host of the Boy Mom Podcast. Monica has been blogging for over 10 years and has encouraged over 10 million visitors to her website with articles on parenting and family, healthy living, and (mostly) healthy recipes. The Swanson boys are all surfers, (Luke, who is 17, surfs professionally) which keeps Monica on her knees. Monica loves good coffee, running trails with her husband and dog, Thor, the Word of God, and connecting with women all over the world through the crazy gift of the internet.

Monica's Books:
BoyMom - What Your Son Needs from You
Raising Amazing - Bringing up Kids Who Love God, Like their Family, and Do the Dishes - without being asked.

Rhonda's Books (mentioned in this episode):
Moms Raising Sons to Be Men - Guiding them Toward Their Purpose & Passion
Real Life Romance - Inspiring Stories to Help You Believe in True Love
The Marriage Mentor - Becoming the Couple You Long to Be

Learn more about Monica at: MonicaSwanson.com
Register for Monica's Character Training Course
Subscribe to The Boy Mom Podcast

"This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

Insights into Adolescence with Rhonda Stoppe (Part 1)

Thu, 06 Oct 2022 17:00:00 -0700

This is Part 1 of a 4 part message Rhonda taught at a Homeschool Convention. (I know I talk real fast in this but please remember, I was speaking at a convention in California. LOL. We talk fast out here on the West Coast. And I was trying to share a one hour message in 30 minutes to make time for Brandon to join me for a Q & A at the end (Part 4)
So please gear up to listen fast dear friends. 🥴 I promise I slow down as I get into my groove.

You can also watch me telling the story here on Focus on the Family.

STORY: When my 4 year old daughter said, "I know you can't wait til we are grown so you can do whatever you want, I knew I needed help.

I looked for mentors. The women who mentored me helped me become the woman I hoped to be, the mom I meant to be. They were real, genuine and honest. Their stories gave me hope and unfolded incredible wisdom.

That's why I am so passionate now about mentoring women. And that's why I am inviting you to become a faithful subscriber of Old Ladies Know Stuff.

Together we will laugh and cry and unpack incredible insights to guide you toward a no regrets life.

In this 4 Part Message you will discover the secret that changed the trajectory of my life. And I know it will do the same for you!

POINTS:

You're not alone
You're in good company
You can do this!

QUOTE: "Your children aren't an imposition on your ministry, they are your ministry"

I am SO EXCITED to start this new journey with you. Together let's build a tribe of NO REGRETS WOMEN! PLEASE SUBSCRIBE & SHARE with your friends ❤️

Resources Mentioned: Moms Raising Sons to Be Men

"This podcast is for the purpose of education only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

Insights into Adolescence - Part 2 of 4

Tue, 30 Aug 2022 18:00:00 -0700

This episode is Part 2 of a Four Part Message. Listen to discover the secret that changed the trajectory of my life. And I know it will do the same for you!

Note: I apologize for the abrupt intro/outro. This episode picks up in the midst of the story that began in Episode 1. I'm still learning the technical stuff. But if I wait until I'm dialed in I'd probably never actually publish a show 😊 Thanks for your patience, friends.

Listen to Part 1 in: Season 1 - Episode 1

Episode 1 Review:
POINTS:

You're not alone
You're in good company
You can do this!

QUOTE: "Your children aren't an imposition on your ministry, they are your ministry"

Episode 3
SHOW NOTES;
POINTS:

Hope for Prodigals
People Pleasing isn't Pleasing
Tools to Your Son's Autonomy
Secrets to Raising Adolescent Sons
Control Freaks Raise Freaks

Hope for Prodigals

STORY: The prodigal son Adonriam Judson. Listen to how God's miraculous providence brought about this young man's repentance. And became a missionary who led over 7,000 people to Christ.

People Pleasing isn't pleasing

QUOTE: "Never raise your kids for what people think of you or you will ruin them."
"Raising your kids for your own reputation makes us a glory stealer"

STORY: Luke Smallbone - For King & Country - his mother's response to his poor behavior.

Tools to autonomy
QUOTE: Godly mentors will help you discern your motives because: Old Ladies Know Stuff

STORY: God sent the lion and bear to prepare David to fight the giant. His mom wasn't fighting his battles for him.

Epilepsy.

STORY: Charles and James Spurgeon's mother.

QUOTE:My mother is strong, compassionate and caring all in one. I probably owe all I am and have achieved to my mom, because when a man is loved by his mom he can end up doing great things. LUKE SMALLBONE - For King & Country

Secrets to Raising Adolescent Sons
Men Crave Respect.
Coming of Man rituals.

Control Freaks Raise Freaks

PLEASE SUBSCRIBE to hear PART 3 in our next episode!

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