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    <itunes:title>THIS IS NOT GOODBYE...</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!!    Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! </p><p><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! </p><p><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Sexpisode Part 6: Staying Curious</itunes:title>
    <title>Sexpisode Part 6: Staying Curious</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Intimacy dwindling? Lacking spontaneity? This episode is for you! In this episode, Russell and Brandi discuss how they maintain their spark and connection outside the bedroom.  They dive into what it means for them to "stay curious", how seeing each other thrive in business/ministry fuels their spark, and how frequency does not necessarily reflect quality and so much more. Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Intimacy dwindling? Lacking spontaneity? This episode is for you!</p><p>In this episode, Russell and Brandi discuss how they maintain their spark and connection outside the bedroom.  They dive into what it means for them to &quot;stay curious&quot;, how seeing each other thrive in business/ministry fuels their spark, and how frequency does not necessarily reflect quality and so much more.</p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Intimacy dwindling? Lacking spontaneity? This episode is for you!</p><p>In this episode, Russell and Brandi discuss how they maintain their spark and connection outside the bedroom.  They dive into what it means for them to &quot;stay curious&quot;, how seeing each other thrive in business/ministry fuels their spark, and how frequency does not necessarily reflect quality and so much more.</p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>ASK R&amp;B (LIVE EDITION)</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!!    Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! </p><p><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! </p><p><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Ask R&amp;B: Real Relationship Advice for Couples, Singles, and Situationships</itunes:title>
    <title>Ask R&amp;B: Real Relationship Advice for Couples, Singles, and Situationships</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we bring back a fan favorite: Ask R&amp;B! We're answering your real relationship questions - from FaceTime etiquette and "bro code" to fizzling romance and the decision to stay or go. Whether you're single, married, in a situationship, or somewhere in between - this one's for you. No sugarcoating. Just real talk, real laughs, and honest advice from two people who've seen the highs, the lows, and all the mess in the middle.   Chapters: 0:00 – Intro + Netflix etiqu...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we bring back a fan favorite: Ask R&amp;B! We&apos;re answering your real relationship questions - from FaceTime etiquette and &quot;bro code&quot; to fizzling romance and the decision to stay or go.</p><p>Whether you&apos;re single, married, in a situationship, or somewhere in between - this one&apos;s for you. No sugarcoating. Just real talk, real laughs, and honest advice from two people who&apos;ve seen the highs, the lows, and all the mess in the middle.</p><p><br/></p><p>Chapters:</p><p>0:00 – Intro + Netflix etiquette for couples</p><p>5:30 – the pros and cons of having “couple friends” </p><p>9:00   – To FaceTime or not to FaceTime, is that even a question?</p><p>17:00 – Question #1 from a serial cheater </p><p>24:49 – Question #2 from someone who is dating someone who identified as homosexual in the “past”</p><p>33:38 – Question #3 from someone who’s spouse is having doubts about God</p><p>46:00 – Question #4 from someone who broke the “bro code”</p><p>55:17 - Question #5 from someone who feels like they are “just friends” with their spouse</p><p>1:06:48 – Final Thoughts + Join us on Thursday </p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new<br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we bring back a fan favorite: Ask R&amp;B! We&apos;re answering your real relationship questions - from FaceTime etiquette and &quot;bro code&quot; to fizzling romance and the decision to stay or go.</p><p>Whether you&apos;re single, married, in a situationship, or somewhere in between - this one&apos;s for you. No sugarcoating. Just real talk, real laughs, and honest advice from two people who&apos;ve seen the highs, the lows, and all the mess in the middle.</p><p><br/></p><p>Chapters:</p><p>0:00 – Intro + Netflix etiquette for couples</p><p>5:30 – the pros and cons of having “couple friends” </p><p>9:00   – To FaceTime or not to FaceTime, is that even a question?</p><p>17:00 – Question #1 from a serial cheater </p><p>24:49 – Question #2 from someone who is dating someone who identified as homosexual in the “past”</p><p>33:38 – Question #3 from someone who’s spouse is having doubts about God</p><p>46:00 – Question #4 from someone who broke the “bro code”</p><p>55:17 - Question #5 from someone who feels like they are “just friends” with their spouse</p><p>1:06:48 – Final Thoughts + Join us on Thursday </p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new<br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Trust the Process...God Had a Plan!</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode of What They Never Told Us, we're sharing the most personal parts of our journey - from first love to second chances, and the hard conversations in between.  We open with a real, vulnerable moment: Russell wants another baby, but Brandi isn't open to trying again. Her painful history with miscarriages and the emotional toll that come with pregnancy loss makes trying again a hard no!  We also walk through our full love story - how we met in middle school, fell in lo...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode of What They Never Told Us, we&apos;re sharing the most personal parts of our journey - from first love to second chances, and the hard conversations in between.<br/><br/>We open with a real, vulnerable moment: Russell wants another baby, but Brandi isn&apos;t open to trying again. Her painful history with miscarriages and the emotional toll that come with pregnancy loss makes trying again a hard no!<br/><br/>We also walk through our full love story - how we met in middle school, fell in love in high school, tried (and failed) to reconnect in college, and how God brought us back together 20 years later, more healed and more ready than we ever were before.<br/><br/>This episode is about more than just love. It&apos;s about grief, growth, timing, identity, and trusting God when your heart and healing aren&apos;t aligned.<br/><br/>Let&apos;s talk about it:<br/>Have you and your spouse ever been on opposite sides of a big decision? Or had a love story that didn&apos;t make sense until later?<br/>Drop your story in the comments - we&apos;re listening.<br/><br/>#marriagetalk #miscarriageawareness #relationshipjourney #loveafterloss #tryingagain #reallove #marriagepodcast #christianmarriage #healingtogether #whattheynevertoldus #secondchances  #podcast #faithandrelationships </p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode of What They Never Told Us, we&apos;re sharing the most personal parts of our journey - from first love to second chances, and the hard conversations in between.<br/><br/>We open with a real, vulnerable moment: Russell wants another baby, but Brandi isn&apos;t open to trying again. Her painful history with miscarriages and the emotional toll that come with pregnancy loss makes trying again a hard no!<br/><br/>We also walk through our full love story - how we met in middle school, fell in love in high school, tried (and failed) to reconnect in college, and how God brought us back together 20 years later, more healed and more ready than we ever were before.<br/><br/>This episode is about more than just love. It&apos;s about grief, growth, timing, identity, and trusting God when your heart and healing aren&apos;t aligned.<br/><br/>Let&apos;s talk about it:<br/>Have you and your spouse ever been on opposite sides of a big decision? Or had a love story that didn&apos;t make sense until later?<br/>Drop your story in the comments - we&apos;re listening.<br/><br/>#marriagetalk #miscarriageawareness #relationshipjourney #loveafterloss #tryingagain #reallove #marriagepodcast #christianmarriage #healingtogether #whattheynevertoldus #secondchances  #podcast #faithandrelationships </p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Dating after divorce is already complicated - now add baby mamas (and daddies), blended families, and red flags you wish you would've caught the first time around. In this episode of What They Never Told Us, we're talking all things post-divorce dating and we got the gang with us!  - How do you deal with someone who has kids and a co-parenting situation? - Red flags when dating and how to deal with them if they come up in your relationship - Which red flags are we ignoring in...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Dating after divorce is already complicated - now add baby mamas (and daddies), blended families, and red flags you wish you would&apos;ve caught the first time around.</p><p>In this episode of What They Never Told Us, we&apos;re talking all things post-divorce dating and we got the gang with us!</p><p> - How do you deal with someone who has kids and a co-parenting situation?</p><p>- Red flags when dating and how to deal with them if they come up in your relationship</p><p>- Which red flags are we ignoring in the name of love?</p><p>We&apos;re breaking it all down from real-life experience - with laughter, honesty, and a few uncomfortable truths.</p><p><br/></p><p>- </p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Dating after divorce is already complicated - now add baby mamas (and daddies), blended families, and red flags you wish you would&apos;ve caught the first time around.</p><p>In this episode of What They Never Told Us, we&apos;re talking all things post-divorce dating and we got the gang with us!</p><p> - How do you deal with someone who has kids and a co-parenting situation?</p><p>- Red flags when dating and how to deal with them if they come up in your relationship</p><p>- Which red flags are we ignoring in the name of love?</p><p>We&apos;re breaking it all down from real-life experience - with laughter, honesty, and a few uncomfortable truths.</p><p><br/></p><p>- </p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, Russell and Brandi discuss the ups and downs of dating while divorced. They delve into the challenges and the benefits, and how their experiences shaped their current relationship.  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspo...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, Russell and Brandi discuss the ups and downs of dating while divorced. They delve into the challenges and the benefits, and how their experiences shaped their current relationship.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new<br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, Russell and Brandi discuss the ups and downs of dating while divorced. They delve into the challenges and the benefits, and how their experiences shaped their current relationship.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new<br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>The Get Back Is Worse!</itunes:title>
    <title>The Get Back Is Worse!</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!!    Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! </p><p><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! </p><p><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Are There Different Levels of Cheating?</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this week's episode, Russell and Brandi discuss a topic that has weaved it's way into almost every episode this season...Cheating!  This is one you don't wan to miss.  And did we mention, there might be a confession in here too! Check us out! Don't forget to join us live on Facebook on Thursday at 8:30pm EST upport the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this week&apos;s episode, Russell and Brandi discuss a topic that has weaved it&apos;s way into almost every episode this season...Cheating!  This is one you don&apos;t wan to miss.  And did we mention, there might be a confession in here too! Check us out!</p><p>Don&apos;t forget to join us live on Facebook on Thursday at 8:30pm EST</p><p>upport the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this week&apos;s episode, Russell and Brandi discuss a topic that has weaved it&apos;s way into almost every episode this season...Cheating!  This is one you don&apos;t wan to miss.  And did we mention, there might be a confession in here too! Check us out!</p><p>Don&apos;t forget to join us live on Facebook on Thursday at 8:30pm EST</p><p>upport the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Blame It On R&amp;B (LIVE)</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!!    Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! </p><p><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! </p><p><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Why Can&#39;t You Just Apologize??</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!!    Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! </p><p><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! </p><p><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>The Power of Forgiveness</itunes:title>
    <title>The Power of Forgiveness</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text  In this deeply candid episode of 'What They Never Told Us,' we dive into the nuanced world of apologies and forgiveness. Join us as we unpack our own experiences around saying 'I'm sorry,' exploring different apology languages, and the essential role of forgiveness in relationships. Whether it's dealing with day-to-day marital conflicts, navigating co-parenting hurdles, or healing from past traumas, this episode is a heartfelt discussion on the importance of accountability and ge...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p><br/>In this deeply candid episode of &apos;What They Never Told Us,&apos; we dive into the nuanced world of apologies and forgiveness. Join us as we unpack our own experiences around saying &apos;I&apos;m sorry,&apos; exploring different apology languages, and the essential role of forgiveness in relationships. Whether it&apos;s dealing with day-to-day marital conflicts, navigating co-parenting hurdles, or healing from past traumas, this episode is a heartfelt discussion on the importance of accountability and genuine repentance. You don&apos;t want to miss the powerful prayers and the touch of vulnerability that make this episode a must-watch for anyone looking to build stronger, more compassionate relationships.<br/><br/>00:00 Introduction and Setting the Scene<br/>01:36 Discussing Daily Life and Busy Schedules<br/>03:36 The Art of Apologizing<br/>03:50 Role-Playing Apologies<br/>07:06 Personal Reflections on Apologies<br/>08:59 Conflict Resolution and Communication<br/>30:31 Exploring Apology Languages<br/>48:47 Communication Breakdown<br/>49:23 The Importance of Consistent Effort<br/>51:35 Addressing Petty Issues<br/>55:56 The Weight of Forgiveness<br/>56:38 Holding Records of Wrongdoing<br/>01:06:07 The Process of Forgiveness<br/>01:13:36 Forgiving Without an Apology<br/>01:26:09 Balancing Forgiveness and Trauma<br/>01:34:09 Prayer for Healing and Forgiveness<br/>01:37:30 Join Us Live!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p><br/>In this deeply candid episode of &apos;What They Never Told Us,&apos; we dive into the nuanced world of apologies and forgiveness. Join us as we unpack our own experiences around saying &apos;I&apos;m sorry,&apos; exploring different apology languages, and the essential role of forgiveness in relationships. Whether it&apos;s dealing with day-to-day marital conflicts, navigating co-parenting hurdles, or healing from past traumas, this episode is a heartfelt discussion on the importance of accountability and genuine repentance. You don&apos;t want to miss the powerful prayers and the touch of vulnerability that make this episode a must-watch for anyone looking to build stronger, more compassionate relationships.<br/><br/>00:00 Introduction and Setting the Scene<br/>01:36 Discussing Daily Life and Busy Schedules<br/>03:36 The Art of Apologizing<br/>03:50 Role-Playing Apologies<br/>07:06 Personal Reflections on Apologies<br/>08:59 Conflict Resolution and Communication<br/>30:31 Exploring Apology Languages<br/>48:47 Communication Breakdown<br/>49:23 The Importance of Consistent Effort<br/>51:35 Addressing Petty Issues<br/>55:56 The Weight of Forgiveness<br/>56:38 Holding Records of Wrongdoing<br/>01:06:07 The Process of Forgiveness<br/>01:13:36 Forgiving Without an Apology<br/>01:26:09 Balancing Forgiveness and Trauma<br/>01:34:09 Prayer for Healing and Forgiveness<br/>01:37:30 Join Us Live!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Pet Peeves &amp; Technical Difficulties (LIVE EPISODE)</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!!    Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! </p><p><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! </p><p><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>You Don&#39;t Respect My Boundaries!</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode of The What They Never Told Us Podcast, hosts Russell and Brandi discuss the importance of setting boundaries in relationships and marriages. They share personal stories and insights about the challenges they face in maintaining boundaries with friends and family, as well as with each other. From respecting personal space to navigating emotional triggers, the hosts provide a candid look at the complexities of establishing healthy limits. They also touch on the impo...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode of The What They Never Told Us Podcast, hosts Russell and Brandi discuss the importance of setting boundaries in relationships and marriages. They share personal stories and insights about the challenges they face in maintaining boundaries with friends and family, as well as with each other. From respecting personal space to navigating emotional triggers, the hosts provide a candid look at the complexities of establishing healthy limits. They also touch on the importance of communication and respect in upholding these boundaries, ultimately highlighting that setting boundaries is essential for maintaining healthy and loving relationships.<br/><br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode of The What They Never Told Us Podcast, hosts Russell and Brandi discuss the importance of setting boundaries in relationships and marriages. They share personal stories and insights about the challenges they face in maintaining boundaries with friends and family, as well as with each other. From respecting personal space to navigating emotional triggers, the hosts provide a candid look at the complexities of establishing healthy limits. They also touch on the importance of communication and respect in upholding these boundaries, ultimately highlighting that setting boundaries is essential for maintaining healthy and loving relationships.<br/><br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>What Are We Doing &quot;Here&quot;? (LIVE Episode)</itunes:title>
    <title>What Are We Doing &quot;Here&quot;? (LIVE Episode)</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!!    Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! </p><p><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! </p><p><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Blame It On R&amp;B</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text An episode unlike any other we've ever done!  We take a trip back to the 90's and the 2000's and discuss how music (specifically R&amp;B music) shaped the way we do relationships.  For this episode, we explore the toxic side of relationships through music!  You don't wanna miss this one! Check out our playlist inspired.by the episode here https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/blame-it-on-r-b/pl.u-11zB9EVU2G8m7j Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.c...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>An episode unlike any other we&apos;ve ever done!  We take a trip back to the 90&apos;s and the 2000&apos;s and discuss how music (specifically R&amp;B music) shaped the way we do relationships.  For this episode, we explore the toxic side of relationships through music!  You don&apos;t wanna miss this one!</p><p>Check out our playlist inspired.by the episode here https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/blame-it-on-r-b/pl.u-11zB9EVU2G8m7j</p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>An episode unlike any other we&apos;ve ever done!  We take a trip back to the 90&apos;s and the 2000&apos;s and discuss how music (specifically R&amp;B music) shaped the way we do relationships.  For this episode, we explore the toxic side of relationships through music!  You don&apos;t wanna miss this one!</p><p>Check out our playlist inspired.by the episode here https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/blame-it-on-r-b/pl.u-11zB9EVU2G8m7j</p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>When Is Enough, Enough?</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode of the 'What They Never Told Us' podcast, hosts Russell and Brandi celebrate their third wedding anniversary and reflect on their journey. They discuss the evolution of their relationship, the challenges they've faced, and how they've shared their lives publicly through the podcast. The conversation delves into the importance of addressing relationship issues, the need for space and understanding between partners, and the role of prayer and God's will in maintainin...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode of the &apos;What They Never Told Us&apos; podcast, hosts Russell and Brandi celebrate their third wedding anniversary and reflect on their journey. They discuss the evolution of their relationship, the challenges they&apos;ve faced, and how they&apos;ve shared their lives publicly through the podcast. The conversation delves into the importance of addressing relationship issues, the need for space and understanding between partners, and the role of prayer and God&apos;s will in maintaining a healthy marriage. They also highlight the importance of clear communication, navigating personal emotions, and the deeper commitment that comes with marriage. The episode serves as both a celebration of their personal milestone and an insightful discussion on maintaining a resilient and loving partnership.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode of the &apos;What They Never Told Us&apos; podcast, hosts Russell and Brandi celebrate their third wedding anniversary and reflect on their journey. They discuss the evolution of their relationship, the challenges they&apos;ve faced, and how they&apos;ve shared their lives publicly through the podcast. The conversation delves into the importance of addressing relationship issues, the need for space and understanding between partners, and the role of prayer and God&apos;s will in maintaining a healthy marriage. They also highlight the importance of clear communication, navigating personal emotions, and the deeper commitment that comes with marriage. The episode serves as both a celebration of their personal milestone and an insightful discussion on maintaining a resilient and loving partnership.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Don&#39;t Let Your Trauma Define What Intimacy Looks Like...(LIVE Episode)</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!!  On this episode they discuss:  - Their introduction to sex and how it shaped their views and behaviors  - How we carry trauma in our bodies  - And so much more!!!   Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curat...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! </p><p>On this episode they discuss:</p><p> - Their introduction to sex and how it shaped their views and behaviors</p><p> - How we carry trauma in our bodies</p><p> - And so much more!!!</p><p><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! </p><p>On this episode they discuss:</p><p> - Their introduction to sex and how it shaped their views and behaviors</p><p> - How we carry trauma in our bodies</p><p> - And so much more!!!</p><p><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text If you've ever struggled with keeping the spark alive, balancing expectations vs reality, or just want an honest conversation about love, sex, and connection -- this one's for you! In this candid episode of the 'What They Never Told Us Podcast,' hosts Brandi and Russell IV delve into the complexities of intimacy and communication within relationships. They candidly discuss their own experiences, reflecting on past marriages and the lessons learned about sexual intimacy, unmet expe...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>If you&apos;ve ever struggled with keeping the spark alive, balancing expectations vs reality, or just want an honest conversation about love, sex, and connection -- this one&apos;s for you!</p><p>In this candid episode of the &apos;What They Never Told Us Podcast,&apos; hosts Brandi and Russell IV delve into the complexities of intimacy and communication within relationships. They candidly discuss their own experiences, reflecting on past marriages and the lessons learned about sexual intimacy, unmet expectations, and emotional fulfillment. They emphasize the importance of open communication, setting realistic expectations, and understanding the role of sex in maintaining a healthy relationship. The episode addresses the stigma around men&apos;s sexual needs, debunking myths, and providing practical advice for couples struggling with intimacy issues. Listeners are encouraged to join the live community discussions for deeper engagement and support.<br/><br/><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>If you&apos;ve ever struggled with keeping the spark alive, balancing expectations vs reality, or just want an honest conversation about love, sex, and connection -- this one&apos;s for you!</p><p>In this candid episode of the &apos;What They Never Told Us Podcast,&apos; hosts Brandi and Russell IV delve into the complexities of intimacy and communication within relationships. They candidly discuss their own experiences, reflecting on past marriages and the lessons learned about sexual intimacy, unmet expectations, and emotional fulfillment. They emphasize the importance of open communication, setting realistic expectations, and understanding the role of sex in maintaining a healthy relationship. The episode addresses the stigma around men&apos;s sexual needs, debunking myths, and providing practical advice for couples struggling with intimacy issues. Listeners are encouraged to join the live community discussions for deeper engagement and support.<br/><br/><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>What You Demonstrate, They Will Imitate (LIVE Episode)</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!!  On this episode they discuss:  - Keeping the intimacy at the forefront of your relationship  - Modeling what healthy relationships look like for your children   Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playli...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! </p><p>On this episode they discuss:</p><p> - Keeping the intimacy at the forefront of your relationship</p><p> - Modeling what healthy relationships look like for your children</p><p><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers.  The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! </p><p>On this episode they discuss:</p><p> - Keeping the intimacy at the forefront of your relationship</p><p> - Modeling what healthy relationships look like for your children</p><p><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Shhh... The Kids Are Going to Hear Us!</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, Russell and Brandi discuss their return to their podcast after a lengthy break, sharing the challenges they've faced and growth they've experienced both personally and in their marriage. They delve into the difficulty of maintaining intimacy while children are home, particularly in a blended family situation. The conversation touches on the importance of keeping the spark alive. and how to navigate being "busted" by the kids. They candidly explore personal experie...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, Russell and Brandi discuss their return to their podcast after a lengthy break, sharing the challenges they&apos;ve faced and growth they&apos;ve experienced both personally and in their marriage. They delve into the difficulty of maintaining intimacy while children are home, particularly in a blended family situation. The conversation touches on the importance of keeping the spark alive. and how to navigate being &quot;busted&quot; by the kids. They candidly explore personal experiences, strategies for ensuring a healthy sexual relationship, and the balance between being parents and maintaining a loving marriage. Russell and Brandi also highlight the significance of open communication and the challenge of overcoming past relationship traumas to cultivate a healthier dynamic.</p><p><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, Russell and Brandi discuss their return to their podcast after a lengthy break, sharing the challenges they&apos;ve faced and growth they&apos;ve experienced both personally and in their marriage. They delve into the difficulty of maintaining intimacy while children are home, particularly in a blended family situation. The conversation touches on the importance of keeping the spark alive. and how to navigate being &quot;busted&quot; by the kids. They candidly explore personal experiences, strategies for ensuring a healthy sexual relationship, and the balance between being parents and maintaining a loving marriage. Russell and Brandi also highlight the significance of open communication and the challenge of overcoming past relationship traumas to cultivate a healthier dynamic.</p><p><br/></p><p>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook, Instagram and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook, Instagram and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/'><b>Transition Drill</b></a><br/>First responders and military members start planning today for tomorrow&apos;s transition</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/1OEAFbsTeBVmHIq5Rzfcad'>Spotify</a></p><p><a href='http://www.inspiremereads.com/'><b>Eye-Opening Moments Podcast</b></a><br/>Eye-Opening Moments are stories of adversity, encounters, and perspectives. They are...</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1610452105'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/2Ucof1lKFQl2nX4cFm3yUG'>Spotify</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a href='https://www.reasoningthroughthebible.com/'><b>Reasoning Through the Bible</b></a><br/>Reasoning Through the Bible is an expository style walk through the Bible</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1605660819'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/4MmIx7uBcdPjEVBOchJ9Yy'>Spotify</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook, Instagram and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/'><b>Transition Drill</b></a><br/>First responders and military members start planning today for tomorrow&apos;s transition</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/1OEAFbsTeBVmHIq5Rzfcad'>Spotify</a></p><p><a href='http://www.inspiremereads.com/'><b>Eye-Opening Moments Podcast</b></a><br/>Eye-Opening Moments are stories of adversity, encounters, and perspectives. They are...</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1610452105'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/2Ucof1lKFQl2nX4cFm3yUG'>Spotify</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a href='https://www.reasoningthroughthebible.com/'><b>Reasoning Through the Bible</b></a><br/>Reasoning Through the Bible is an expository style walk through the Bible</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1605660819'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/4MmIx7uBcdPjEVBOchJ9Yy'>Spotify</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>To Have and To Hold</itunes:title>
    <title>To Have and To Hold</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we bring back our Vow Series and discuss the vows "to have and to hold" and what that really means!  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv     &...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we bring back our Vow Series and discuss the vows &quot;to have and to hold&quot; and what that really means!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we bring back our Vow Series and discuss the vows &quot;to have and to hold&quot; and what that really means!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>LIVE Episode: Did Y&#39;all Miss Us?</itunes:title>
    <title>LIVE Episode: Did Y&#39;all Miss Us?</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook, Instagram and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook, Instagram and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/'><b>Transition Drill</b></a><br/>First responders and military members start planning today for tomorrow&apos;s transition</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/1OEAFbsTeBVmHIq5Rzfcad'>Spotify</a></p><p><a href='http://www.inspiremereads.com/'><b>Eye-Opening Moments Podcast</b></a><br/>Eye-Opening Moments are stories of adversity, encounters, and perspectives. They are...</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1610452105'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/2Ucof1lKFQl2nX4cFm3yUG'>Spotify</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a href='https://www.reasoningthroughthebible.com/'><b>Reasoning Through the Bible</b></a><br/>Reasoning Through the Bible is an expository style walk through the Bible</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1605660819'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/4MmIx7uBcdPjEVBOchJ9Yy'>Spotify</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook, Instagram and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/'><b>Transition Drill</b></a><br/>First responders and military members start planning today for tomorrow&apos;s transition</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/1OEAFbsTeBVmHIq5Rzfcad'>Spotify</a></p><p><a href='http://www.inspiremereads.com/'><b>Eye-Opening Moments Podcast</b></a><br/>Eye-Opening Moments are stories of adversity, encounters, and perspectives. They are...</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1610452105'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/2Ucof1lKFQl2nX4cFm3yUG'>Spotify</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a href='https://www.reasoningthroughthebible.com/'><b>Reasoning Through the Bible</b></a><br/>Reasoning Through the Bible is an expository style walk through the Bible</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1605660819'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/4MmIx7uBcdPjEVBOchJ9Yy'>Spotify</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Is He Flirting with My Wife?! The Law of Attraction Part 2</itunes:title>
    <title>Is He Flirting with My Wife?! The Law of Attraction Part 2</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text How would you handle it if someone was flirting with your spouse? In this episode, we discuss how we would and have handled someone being attracted to our significant others.  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast     &nb...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>How would you handle it if someone was flirting with your spouse? In this episode, we discuss how we would and have handled someone being attracted to our significant others.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new<br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>How would you handle it if someone was flirting with your spouse? In this episode, we discuss how we would and have handled someone being attracted to our significant others.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new<br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>The Dating Pool Has Piss in It!</itunes:title>
    <title>The Dating Pool Has Piss in It!</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we discuss the different dynamics in dating and that one incident that almost led to our relationship not happening!  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisi...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we discuss the different dynamics in dating and that one incident that almost led to our relationship not happening!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we discuss the different dynamics in dating and that one incident that almost led to our relationship not happening!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 30 Jan 2024 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>Group Text, Phone Sweeps, Sex Talk, Self Pleasure, and MORE! (LIVE)</itunes:title>
    <title>Group Text, Phone Sweeps, Sex Talk, Self Pleasure, and MORE! (LIVE)</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook, Instagram and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook, Instagram and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/'><b>Transition Drill</b></a><br/>First responders and military members start planning today for tomorrow&apos;s transition</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/1OEAFbsTeBVmHIq5Rzfcad'>Spotify</a></p><p><a href='http://www.inspiremereads.com/'><b>Eye-Opening Moments Podcast</b></a><br/>Eye-Opening Moments are stories of adversity, encounters, and perspectives. They are...</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1610452105'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/2Ucof1lKFQl2nX4cFm3yUG'>Spotify</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a href='https://www.reasoningthroughthebible.com/'><b>Reasoning Through the Bible</b></a><br/>Reasoning Through the Bible is an expository style walk through the Bible</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1605660819'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/4MmIx7uBcdPjEVBOchJ9Yy'>Spotify</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook, Instagram and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/'><b>Transition Drill</b></a><br/>First responders and military members start planning today for tomorrow&apos;s transition</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/1OEAFbsTeBVmHIq5Rzfcad'>Spotify</a></p><p><a href='http://www.inspiremereads.com/'><b>Eye-Opening Moments Podcast</b></a><br/>Eye-Opening Moments are stories of adversity, encounters, and perspectives. They are...</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1610452105'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/2Ucof1lKFQl2nX4cFm3yUG'>Spotify</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a href='https://www.reasoningthroughthebible.com/'><b>Reasoning Through the Bible</b></a><br/>Reasoning Through the Bible is an expository style walk through the Bible</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1605660819'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/4MmIx7uBcdPjEVBOchJ9Yy'>Spotify</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Thu, 25 Jan 2024 23:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>It&#39;s Better to Give... Or Is It?</itunes:title>
    <title>It&#39;s Better to Give... Or Is It?</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Another exciting new episode! Season 5 is the best yet!!!  In this episode, we discuss the vital moments before you say I do.  What should be accomplished, when/if it's okay to walk away, oh yeah... and who should be the one to propose.  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      ht...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Another exciting new episode! Season 5 is the best yet!!!<br/><br/>In this episode, we discuss the vital moments before you say I do.  What should be accomplished, when/if it&apos;s okay to walk away, oh yeah... and who should be the one to propose.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Another exciting new episode! Season 5 is the best yet!!!<br/><br/>In this episode, we discuss the vital moments before you say I do.  What should be accomplished, when/if it&apos;s okay to walk away, oh yeah... and who should be the one to propose.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Christians Cussing During Sex?? (LIVE)</itunes:title>
    <title>Christians Cussing During Sex?? (LIVE)</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook, Instagram and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook, Instagram and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/'><b>Transition Drill</b></a><br/>First responders and military members start planning today for tomorrow&apos;s transition</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/1OEAFbsTeBVmHIq5Rzfcad'>Spotify</a></p><p><a href='http://www.inspiremereads.com/'><b>Eye-Opening Moments Podcast</b></a><br/>Eye-Opening Moments are stories of adversity, encounters, and perspectives. They are...</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1610452105'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/2Ucof1lKFQl2nX4cFm3yUG'>Spotify</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook, Instagram and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/'><b>Transition Drill</b></a><br/>First responders and military members start planning today for tomorrow&apos;s transition</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/1OEAFbsTeBVmHIq5Rzfcad'>Spotify</a></p><p><a href='http://www.inspiremereads.com/'><b>Eye-Opening Moments Podcast</b></a><br/>Eye-Opening Moments are stories of adversity, encounters, and perspectives. They are...</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1610452105'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/2Ucof1lKFQl2nX4cFm3yUG'>Spotify</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <itunes:title>Let&#39;s Get Deep!  Sexpisode Part 4</itunes:title>
    <title>Let&#39;s Get Deep!  Sexpisode Part 4</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we use our "Let's Get Deep" conversation cards to guide us through this seasons "sexpisode".  We cover everything from sex playlist to reclaiming your sexual power.  In this episode, we discuss the vital moments before you say I do.  What should be accomplished, when/if it's okay to walk away, oh yeah... and who should be the one to propose.  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated p...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we use our &quot;Let&apos;s Get Deep&quot; conversation cards to guide us through this seasons &quot;sexpisode&quot;.  We cover everything from sex playlist to reclaiming your sexual power.<br/><br/>In this episode, we discuss the vital moments before you say I do.  What should be accomplished, when/if it&apos;s okay to walk away, oh yeah... and who should be the one to propose.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we use our &quot;Let&apos;s Get Deep&quot; conversation cards to guide us through this seasons &quot;sexpisode&quot;.  We cover everything from sex playlist to reclaiming your sexual power.<br/><br/>In this episode, we discuss the vital moments before you say I do.  What should be accomplished, when/if it&apos;s okay to walk away, oh yeah... and who should be the one to propose.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook, Instagram and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook, Instagram and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/'><b>Transition Drill</b></a><br/>First responders and military members start planning today for tomorrow&apos;s transition</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/1OEAFbsTeBVmHIq5Rzfcad'>Spotify</a></p><p><a href='http://www.inspiremereads.com/'><b>Eye-Opening Moments Podcast</b></a><br/>Eye-Opening Moments are stories of adversity, encounters, and perspectives. They are...</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1610452105'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/2Ucof1lKFQl2nX4cFm3yUG'>Spotify</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook, Instagram and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/'><b>Transition Drill</b></a><br/>First responders and military members start planning today for tomorrow&apos;s transition</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/1OEAFbsTeBVmHIq5Rzfcad'>Spotify</a></p><p><a href='http://www.inspiremereads.com/'><b>Eye-Opening Moments Podcast</b></a><br/>Eye-Opening Moments are stories of adversity, encounters, and perspectives. They are...</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1610452105'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/2Ucof1lKFQl2nX4cFm3yUG'>Spotify</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we discuss the vital moments before you say I do.  What should be accomplished, when/if it&apos;s okay to walk away, oh yeah... and who should be the one to propose.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg<br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we discuss the vital moments before you say I do.  What should be accomplished, when/if it&apos;s okay to walk away, oh yeah... and who should be the one to propose.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg<br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>BRANDI OPEN UP THE DOOR!!! (LIVE)</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook, Instagram and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook, Instagram and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/'><b>Transition Drill</b></a><br/>First responders and military members start planning today for tomorrow&apos;s transition</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/1OEAFbsTeBVmHIq5Rzfcad'>Spotify</a></p><p><a href='http://www.inspiremereads.com/'><b>Eye-Opening Moments Podcast</b></a><br/>Eye-Opening Moments are stories of adversity, encounters, and perspectives. They are...</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1610452105'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/2Ucof1lKFQl2nX4cFm3yUG'>Spotify</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook, Instagram and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/'><b>Transition Drill</b></a><br/>First responders and military members start planning today for tomorrow&apos;s transition</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/1OEAFbsTeBVmHIq5Rzfcad'>Spotify</a></p><p><a href='http://www.inspiremereads.com/'><b>Eye-Opening Moments Podcast</b></a><br/>Eye-Opening Moments are stories of adversity, encounters, and perspectives. They are...</p><p>Listen on: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1610452105'>Apple Podcasts</a>   <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/2Ucof1lKFQl2nX4cFm3yUG'>Spotify</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text This is it, the final episode of 2023! From us to you HAPPY NEW YEAR!  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae Insta...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>This is it, the final episode of 2023! From us to you HAPPY NEW YEAR!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>This is it, the final episode of 2023! From us to you HAPPY NEW YEAR!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>Ask Us Again! Ask R&amp;B Part II</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook, Instagram and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook, Instagram and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook, Instagram and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we take questions posed by our audience! We cover everything from finding love after heartbreak and kink levels.  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv &n...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we take questions posed by our audience! We cover everything from finding love after heartbreak and kink levels.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we take questions posed by our audience! We cover everything from finding love after heartbreak and kink levels.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Play Your Role Pt. 2 (LIVE)</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.face...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we discussed gender roles, which seems to be a hot topic on social media these days.    Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      htt...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we discussed gender roles, which seems to be a hot topic on social media these days.  <br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we discussed gender roles, which seems to be a hot topic on social media these days.  <br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text On this episode we discuss out journey blending families. We celebrate the wins and breakdown some of our losses (lessons).  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv   &...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>On this episode we discuss out journey blending families. We celebrate the wins and breakdown some of our losses (lessons).<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>On this episode we discuss out journey blending families. We celebrate the wins and breakdown some of our losses (lessons).<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Does the man handle 100% of the financial responsibility, or is it supposed to be 50/50? Listen in as we tackle this topic LIVE with our Facebook and Youtube family.  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https:...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Does the man handle 100% of the financial responsibility, or is it supposed to be 50/50? Listen in as we tackle this topic LIVE with our Facebook and Youtube family.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Does the man handle 100% of the financial responsibility, or is it supposed to be 50/50? Listen in as we tackle this topic LIVE with our Facebook and Youtube family.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>It&#39;s Just a Phase...</itunes:title>
    <title>It&#39;s Just a Phase...</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we walk through the different phases our relationship has experienced and what phase we currently find ourselves in.  Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl....]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we walk through the different phases our relationship has experienced and what phase we currently find ourselves in.<br/><br/>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we walk through the different phases our relationship has experienced and what phase we currently find ourselves in.<br/><br/>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Weak as Creek Water (Live Episode)</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.face...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Thu, 30 Nov 2023 23:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>For Better or For Worse</itunes:title>
    <title>For Better or For Worse</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text We're BAAAAAAAACK!!!!!!  Season 5 is finally here.  In our first episode we have our first discussion in our "VOWS" series.  We tackle the vows, for better or for worse, where we discuss commitment, divorce, cheating, and so much more.  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Follow Us on our Socia...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>We&apos;re BAAAAAAAACK!!!!!!  Season 5 is finally here.  In our first episode we have our first discussion in our &quot;VOWS&quot; series.  We tackle the vows, for better or for worse, where we discuss commitment, divorce, cheating, and so much more.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>We&apos;re BAAAAAAAACK!!!!!!  Season 5 is finally here.  In our first episode we have our first discussion in our &quot;VOWS&quot; series.  We tackle the vows, for better or for worse, where we discuss commitment, divorce, cheating, and so much more.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 28 Nov 2023 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kick-back: Fake It for Me</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kick-back: Fake It for Me</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.face...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <pubDate>Fri, 04 Aug 2023 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>Fake It for Me!</itunes:title>
    <title>Fake It for Me!</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In the final episode of Season 4, we have a very interesting conversation about faking it...  New setup. Who dis? In this episode we revisit an old "argument".    Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast &nbs...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In the final episode of Season 4, we have a very interesting conversation about faking it...<br/><br/>New setup. Who dis? In this episode we revisit an old &quot;argument&quot;. <br/><br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In the final episode of Season 4, we have a very interesting conversation about faking it...<br/><br/>New setup. Who dis? In this episode we revisit an old &quot;argument&quot;. <br/><br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.face...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text New setup. Who dis? In this episode we revisit an old "argument".    Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      https://www.facebo...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>New setup. Who dis? In this episode we revisit an old &quot;argument&quot;. <br/><br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>New setup. Who dis? In this episode we revisit an old &quot;argument&quot;. <br/><br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kick-Back: Couch Conversation in Columbus</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.face...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text We're out of town on a work/play trip in Columbus and we decided to just sit down and record our conversation.  From armed gunman in the Waffle House to how we would improve the educational system, this is one episode you don't wanna miss!  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Follow Us on our Socials  Fa...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>We&apos;re out of town on a work/play trip in Columbus and we decided to just sit down and record our conversation.  From armed gunman in the Waffle House to how we would improve the educational system, this is one episode you don&apos;t wanna miss!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>We&apos;re out of town on a work/play trip in Columbus and we decided to just sit down and record our conversation.  From armed gunman in the Waffle House to how we would improve the educational system, this is one episode you don&apos;t wanna miss!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.face...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Cry Me a River </itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we discuss managing our emotions and how the differences in how we process emotions play out in our relationships.  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.fa...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we discuss managing our emotions and how the differences in how we process emotions play out in our relationships.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we discuss managing our emotions and how the differences in how we process emotions play out in our relationships.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Time to Ask the Tough Questions</itunes:title>
    <title>Time to Ask the Tough Questions</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we took time out to ask each other some tough questions.  This is a method that we've used a few times in our relationship to just check in with each other and ask those questions that we may not think to ask each other any other time.  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Follow Us on ou...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we took time out to ask each other some tough questions.  This is a method that we&apos;ve used a few times in our relationship to just check in with each other and ask those questions that we may not think to ask each other any other time.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we took time out to ask each other some tough questions.  This is a method that we&apos;ve used a few times in our relationship to just check in with each other and ask those questions that we may not think to ask each other any other time.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 27 Jun 2023 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kick-Back: Battle of the Sexes</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kick-Back: Battle of the Sexes</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Shop with us: wtntu.myshopify.com  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast &...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Shop with us:<br/>wtntu.myshopify.com<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Shop with us:<br/>wtntu.myshopify.com<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Wed, 21 Jun 2023 22:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>Battle of the Sexes with Veronica Lynn Clark</itunes:title>
    <title>Battle of the Sexes with Veronica Lynn Clark</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text We would like you to meet The Love Coach. Veronica Lynn Clark is a life reinvention strategist and intimacy expert. She is the author of To Be Aligned: Getting Clear on Your Highest Purpose, and was recently featured on The Today Show. Her evocative approach to life and teaching encourages all in her presence to embrace the light and dark within themselves. Veronica candidly challenges cultural taboos, societal programming, and awkward sex talks during her workshops to create a fu...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>We would like you to meet The Love Coach. Veronica Lynn Clark is a life reinvention strategist and intimacy expert. She is the author of To Be Aligned: Getting Clear on Your Highest Purpose, and was recently featured on The Today Show. Her evocative approach to life and teaching encourages all in her presence to embrace the light and dark within themselves. Veronica candidly challenges cultural taboos, societal programming, and awkward sex talks during her workshops to create a future where people can deeply connect to themselves and embrace joy-filled lives. <br/><br/>Veronica is the host of the <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/0Jv9p0rW5k9yQUO3G97GYC'>Liberate Your Orgasm Podcast</a>. <br/><a href='http://www.veronicalynnclark.com/'>www.VeronicaLynnClark.com</a> to learn more about her offerings.</p><p><a href='https://insighttimer.com/ajaiprem'>Follow Veronica on Insight Timer</a> for inspiring meditations and visit </p><p>Purchase your copy of <a href='https://www.amazon.com/s?k=to+be+aligned&amp;crid=1M2Q2J2OS228J&amp;sprefix=%2Caps%2C213&amp;ref=nb_sb_ss_recent_1_0_recent'>To Be Aligned: Getting Clear on Your Higher Purpose</a> on Amazon today. <br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>We would like you to meet The Love Coach. Veronica Lynn Clark is a life reinvention strategist and intimacy expert. She is the author of To Be Aligned: Getting Clear on Your Highest Purpose, and was recently featured on The Today Show. Her evocative approach to life and teaching encourages all in her presence to embrace the light and dark within themselves. Veronica candidly challenges cultural taboos, societal programming, and awkward sex talks during her workshops to create a future where people can deeply connect to themselves and embrace joy-filled lives. <br/><br/>Veronica is the host of the <a href='https://open.spotify.com/show/0Jv9p0rW5k9yQUO3G97GYC'>Liberate Your Orgasm Podcast</a>. <br/><a href='http://www.veronicalynnclark.com/'>www.VeronicaLynnClark.com</a> to learn more about her offerings.</p><p><a href='https://insighttimer.com/ajaiprem'>Follow Veronica on Insight Timer</a> for inspiring meditations and visit </p><p>Purchase your copy of <a href='https://www.amazon.com/s?k=to+be+aligned&amp;crid=1M2Q2J2OS228J&amp;sprefix=%2Caps%2C213&amp;ref=nb_sb_ss_recent_1_0_recent'>To Be Aligned: Getting Clear on Your Higher Purpose</a> on Amazon today. <br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kick-Back: Is It Ever the Right Time?</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kick-Back: Is It Ever the Right Time?</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Shop with us: wtntu.myshopify.com  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast &...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Shop with us:<br/>wtntu.myshopify.com<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Shop with us:<br/>wtntu.myshopify.com<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>Is It Ever the Right Time?</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we discuss the concept of "right person, wrong time".  This expands into a deeper conversation on how time plays a huge part in relationships. Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast &n...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we discuss the concept of &quot;right person, wrong time&quot;.  This expands into a deeper conversation on how time plays a huge part in relationships.<br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we discuss the concept of &quot;right person, wrong time&quot;.  This expands into a deeper conversation on how time plays a huge part in relationships.<br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kick-Back: It All Comes Back to Communication</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kick-Back: It All Comes Back to Communication</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Shop with us: wtntu.myshopify.com  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast &...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Shop with us:<br/>wtntu.myshopify.com<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Shop with us:<br/>wtntu.myshopify.com<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>It All Comes Back to Communication</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Two years ago to the day, we were LIVE on Facebook talking about communication.  Now here we are again, different set of circumstances, but it all comes back to communication!  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheyneve...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Two years ago to the day, we were LIVE on Facebook talking about communication.  Now here we are again, different set of circumstances, but it all comes back to communication!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Two years ago to the day, we were LIVE on Facebook talking about communication.  Now here we are again, different set of circumstances, but it all comes back to communication!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>The Past vs The Present</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text "Those who cannot learn from history are doomed to repeat it" - George Santayana In this episode, we discuss how our past silently creeps into our present and how we use the power of communication to heal the scars of the past.  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook   &nb...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>&quot;Those who cannot learn from history are doomed to repeat it&quot; - George Santayana<br/>In this episode, we discuss how our past silently creeps into our present and how we use the power of communication to heal the scars of the past.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>&quot;Those who cannot learn from history are doomed to repeat it&quot; - George Santayana<br/>In this episode, we discuss how our past silently creeps into our present and how we use the power of communication to heal the scars of the past.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kick-Back: Lessons in Love</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kick-Back: Lessons in Love</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Shop with us: wtntu.myshopify.com  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast &...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Shop with us:<br/>wtntu.myshopify.com<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Fresh off an exciting weekend at the Ignite Marriage Retreat, we're excited to share our lessons in love!  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Fresh off an exciting weekend at the Ignite Marriage Retreat, we&apos;re excited to share our lessons in love!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Fresh off an exciting weekend at the Ignite Marriage Retreat, we&apos;re excited to share our lessons in love!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Shop with us: wtntu.myshopify.com  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast &...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Shop with us:<br/>wtntu.myshopify.com<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Shop with us:<br/>wtntu.myshopify.com<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Fresh off of Mother's Day, we have an open and honest conversation about parenting, the ups, the downs, and the God's grace through it all.  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https:...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Fresh off of Mother&apos;s Day, we have an open and honest conversation about parenting, the ups, the downs, and the God&apos;s grace through it all.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Fresh off of Mother&apos;s Day, we have an open and honest conversation about parenting, the ups, the downs, and the God&apos;s grace through it all.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kickback: Thou Shall Not Masturbate!</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kickback: Thou Shall Not Masturbate!</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Shop with us: wtntu.myshopify.com  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast &...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Shop with us:<br/>wtntu.myshopify.com<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Shop with us:<br/>wtntu.myshopify.com<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this week's episode we discuss a relationship first for us! Then the conversation evolves into a deeper discussion on managing our sexuality as Christians and how our experiences have changed our views...   Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://w...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this week&apos;s episode we discuss a relationship first for us! Then the conversation evolves into a deeper discussion on managing our sexuality as Christians and how our experiences have changed our views...<br/><br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this week&apos;s episode we discuss a relationship first for us! Then the conversation evolves into a deeper discussion on managing our sexuality as Christians and how our experiences have changed our views...<br/><br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kickback: Managing Family Dynamics</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Shop with us: wtntu.myshopify.com  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast &...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Shop with us:<br/>wtntu.myshopify.com<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Shop with us:<br/>wtntu.myshopify.com<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Managing Family Dynamics, with Special Guest Aaron Dale</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we kick-it with our brother Aaron Dale from London, UK!  We are so excited to introduce you guys to Aaron and his platform.  We discuss everything Erin affairs to co-parenting in the first WTNTU interview!   Aaron Dale has helped 1000s of coparents over the past year not only change their outlook on coparenting but improve their relationships.  He has managed to build a following of over 100k instagram followers and 90k tiktok in 1 year.  Aaron...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we kick-it with our brother Aaron Dale from London, UK!  We are so excited to introduce you guys to Aaron and his platform.  We discuss everything Erin affairs to co-parenting in the first WTNTU interview!<br/><br/><br/>Aaron Dale has helped 1000s of coparents over the past year not only change their outlook on coparenting but improve their relationships.  He has managed to build a following of over 100k instagram followers and 90k tiktok in 1 year.  Aaron was nominated for two fatherhood awards last year (father of the year and best instagram page)!<br/><br/>Aaron is  a father of two (Omari 15 and Tyler 9) and coparent with both their mums as they&apos;re from different relationships.  Aaron has  recently released a coparent app called &quot;the coparent support network&quot; which is a source of information and community for both mums and dads to engage, be empowered and support each other.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we kick-it with our brother Aaron Dale from London, UK!  We are so excited to introduce you guys to Aaron and his platform.  We discuss everything Erin affairs to co-parenting in the first WTNTU interview!<br/><br/><br/>Aaron Dale has helped 1000s of coparents over the past year not only change their outlook on coparenting but improve their relationships.  He has managed to build a following of over 100k instagram followers and 90k tiktok in 1 year.  Aaron was nominated for two fatherhood awards last year (father of the year and best instagram page)!<br/><br/>Aaron is  a father of two (Omari 15 and Tyler 9) and coparent with both their mums as they&apos;re from different relationships.  Aaron has  recently released a coparent app called &quot;the coparent support network&quot; which is a source of information and community for both mums and dads to engage, be empowered and support each other.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kickback: Whatever You Do, Just Don&#39;t Lie to Me!</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kickback: Whatever You Do, Just Don&#39;t Lie to Me!</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Shop with us: wtntu.myshopify.com  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast &...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Shop with us:<br/>wtntu.myshopify.com<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Shop with us:<br/>wtntu.myshopify.com<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Whatever You Do, Just Don&#39;t Lie to Me!</itunes:title>
    <title>Whatever You Do, Just Don&#39;t Lie to Me!</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Is it ever okay to lie to your partner?  In this episode, we discuss how lies affect our relationships and whether or not there's ever a justifiable reason to lie to your partner.  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whatthey...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Is it ever okay to lie to your partner?  In this episode, we discuss how lies affect our relationships and whether or not there&apos;s ever a justifiable reason to lie to your partner.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Is it ever okay to lie to your partner?  In this episode, we discuss how lies affect our relationships and whether or not there&apos;s ever a justifiable reason to lie to your partner.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kickback: You Haven&#39;t Changed!</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kickback: You Haven&#39;t Changed!</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Shop with us: wtntu.myshopify.com  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast &...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Shop with us:<br/>wtntu.myshopify.com<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Shop with us:<br/>wtntu.myshopify.com<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text This week's episode is about CHANGE! They say "your life doesn't get better by chance, it gets better by change".  In this episode, we talk about all the ways that we have changed and continue to change and why change is so important in maintaining a healthy relationship.  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDx...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>This week&apos;s episode is about CHANGE! They say &quot;your life doesn&apos;t get better by chance, it gets better by change&quot;.  In this episode, we talk about all the ways that we have changed and continue to change and why change is so important in maintaining a healthy relationship.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg<br/><br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>This week&apos;s episode is about CHANGE! They say &quot;your life doesn&apos;t get better by chance, it gets better by change&quot;.  In this episode, we talk about all the ways that we have changed and continue to change and why change is so important in maintaining a healthy relationship.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg<br/><br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Shop with us: wtntu.myshopify.com  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast &...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Shop with us:<br/>wtntu.myshopify.com<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Shop with us:<br/>wtntu.myshopify.com<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Have You Ever Been Catfished?</itunes:title>
    <title>Have You Ever Been Catfished?</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we discuss online dating, social media and relationships and one of reveals that they have been a catfish 👀!  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we discuss online dating, social media and relationships and one of reveals that they have been a catfish 👀!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we discuss online dating, social media and relationships and one of reveals that they have been a catfish 👀!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kick-Back: Marriage the First Year</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kick-Back: Marriage the First Year</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Shop with us: wtntu.myshopify.com  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast &...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Shop with us:<br/>wtntu.myshopify.com<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Shop with us:<br/>wtntu.myshopify.com<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Missed us?! Well we're back and we are kicking season 4 off discussing our first year of marriage!! In this episode, we discuss what we've learned in the first year, what we can do better, and our overall rating our marriage thus far.  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook &nb...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Missed us?! Well we&apos;re back and we are kicking season 4 off discussing our first year of marriage!! In this episode, we discuss what we&apos;ve learned in the first year, what we can do better, and our overall rating our marriage thus far.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Missed us?! Well we&apos;re back and we are kicking season 4 off discussing our first year of marriage!! In this episode, we discuss what we&apos;ve learned in the first year, what we can do better, and our overall rating our marriage thus far.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 04 Apr 2023 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kick-Back: It&#39;s So Hard to Say Goodbye</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kick-Back: It&#39;s So Hard to Say Goodbye</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.face...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text This is it y'all... The final episode of season 3.  In this episode, we discuss one of our favorite topics THE KIDS.  But not in the way that you'd expect LOL!  We hope y'all enjoyed Season 3, we can't wait to share what  we have in store for Season 4.  Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>This is it y&apos;all... The final episode of season 3.  In this episode, we discuss one of our favorite topics THE KIDS.  But not in the way that you&apos;d expect LOL!  We hope y&apos;all enjoyed Season 3, we can&apos;t wait to share what  we have in store for Season 4.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>This is it y&apos;all... The final episode of season 3.  In this episode, we discuss one of our favorite topics THE KIDS.  But not in the way that you&apos;d expect LOL!  We hope y&apos;all enjoyed Season 3, we can&apos;t wait to share what  we have in store for Season 4.<br/><br/>Support the show! Only $3/month!<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new</a><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>Episode Kick-Back: You Have Mommy/Daddy Issues</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!   Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae In...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
    <enclosure url="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/episodes/12027720-episode-kick-back-you-have-mommy-daddy-issues.mp3" length="39736375" type="audio/mpeg" />
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    <title>You Have Mommy/Daddy Issues</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we discuss how our relationships with our parents shape us as people.  We also dive into how those relationships influence who we chose to love, how we love, and why we desire to receive love in the way we do.  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast     &nbs...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we discuss how our relationships with our parents shape us as people.  We also dive into how those relationships influence who we chose to love, how we love, and why we desire to receive love in the way we do.<br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we discuss how our relationships with our parents shape us as people.  We also dive into how those relationships influence who we chose to love, how we love, and why we desire to receive love in the way we do.<br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>Episode Kick-Back: Ask R&amp;B</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!   Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae In...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Ask R&amp;B</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we take questions directly from you.  We answer questions directly from our viewers, giving our open and honest opinion on a variety of subject.    Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv     &n...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we take questions directly from you.  We answer questions directly from our viewers, giving our open and honest opinion on a variety of subject.  <br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we take questions directly from you.  We answer questions directly from our viewers, giving our open and honest opinion on a variety of subject.  <br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kick-Back: Come to Jesus Moment</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kick-Back: Come to Jesus Moment</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!   Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae In...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Come to Jesus Moment</itunes:title>
    <title>Come to Jesus Moment</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we talk about one of our favorite subjects, God!  We discuss our faith journey, as individuals and as a couple; church culture; church hurt, and so much more.  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv   &n...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we talk about one of our favorite subjects, God!  We discuss our faith journey, as individuals and as a couple; church culture; church hurt, and so much more.<br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we talk about one of our favorite subjects, God!  We discuss our faith journey, as individuals and as a couple; church culture; church hurt, and so much more.<br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kick-Back: Another Hot Topic</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kick-Back: Another Hot Topic</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!   Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae In...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Another Hot Topic</itunes:title>
    <title>Another Hot Topic</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Hot Topics was such a great episode that we had to run it back,  This time we discuss parenting styles, "fearing" your partner, and open relationships.  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      https://www.f...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Hot Topics was such a great episode that we had to run it back,  This time we discuss parenting styles, &quot;fearing&quot; your partner, and open relationships.<br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Hot Topics was such a great episode that we had to run it back,  This time we discuss parenting styles, &quot;fearing&quot; your partner, and open relationships.<br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kickback: The Law of Attraction</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kickback: The Law of Attraction</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!   Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae In...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>The Law Of Attraction</itunes:title>
    <title>The Law Of Attraction</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we discuss how to effectively manage your attraction to other people while in a relationship, maintaining friendships with your exes, and so much more!  Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      h...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we discuss how to effectively manage your attraction to other people while in a relationship, maintaining friendships with your exes, and so much more!<br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we discuss how to effectively manage your attraction to other people while in a relationship, maintaining friendships with your exes, and so much more!<br/><br/>Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music.<br/><a href='https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o'>https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o</a><br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
    <enclosure url="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/episodes/11861828-the-law-of-attraction.mp3" length="55942104" type="audio/mpeg" />
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kick-Back: Hot Topics</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kick-Back: Hot Topics</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details. https...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
    <enclosure url="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/episodes/11834847-episode-kick-back-hot-topics.mp3" length="64817379" type="audio/mpeg" />
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    <itunes:title>Hot Topics</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this week's episode, we switch it up a bit and tackle some hot topics that we've been waiting to get into!  Join us as we talk about "big" and "little" lies, prenups, bodily fluids, and as always so much more!  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae Instagram      https://www....]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this week&apos;s episode, we switch it up a bit and tackle some hot topics that we&apos;ve been waiting to get into!  Join us as we talk about &quot;big&quot; and &quot;little&quot; lies, prenups, bodily fluids, and as always so much more!<br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this week&apos;s episode, we switch it up a bit and tackle some hot topics that we&apos;ve been waiting to get into!  Join us as we talk about &quot;big&quot; and &quot;little&quot; lies, prenups, bodily fluids, and as always so much more!<br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kick-Back: I Am Not Where I Came From</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kick-Back: I Am Not Where I Came From</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details. https...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
    <enclosure url="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/episodes/11793833-episode-kick-back-i-am-not-where-i-came-from.mp3" length="45114920" type="audio/mpeg" />
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    <pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2022 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>I Am Not Where I Come From...</itunes:title>
    <title>I Am Not Where I Come From...</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this week's episode, we discuss the relationships we saw growing up and how they shaped our idea of  family structure.  We also discuss the dramatic differences in our upbringing and how we navigate through them to create a new, healthy, family dynamics.  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      https://www.facebook.com/bran...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this week&apos;s episode, we discuss the relationships we saw growing up and how they shaped our idea of  family structure.  We also discuss the dramatic differences in our upbringing and how we navigate through them to create a new, healthy, family dynamics.<br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p>  </p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this week&apos;s episode, we discuss the relationships we saw growing up and how they shaped our idea of  family structure.  We also discuss the dramatic differences in our upbringing and how we navigate through them to create a new, healthy, family dynamics.<br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p>  </p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>We Just Want to Give Thanks</itunes:title>
    <title>We Just Want to Give Thanks</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this special "episode" recorded on Thanksgiving, we just want to take the time to say THANK YOU!!!  We also spend some time just reflecting on the last year and what we are thankful for in our lives.    We wish you all a Happy Thanksgiving and encourage you to take some time and reflect on all the things you have to be thankful for.  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.fa...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this special &quot;episode&quot; recorded on Thanksgiving, we just want to take the time to say THANK YOU!!!<br/><br/>We also spend some time just reflecting on the last year and what we are thankful for in our lives.  <br/><br/>We wish you all a Happy Thanksgiving and encourage you to take some time and reflect on all the things you have to be thankful for.<br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this special &quot;episode&quot; recorded on Thanksgiving, we just want to take the time to say THANK YOU!!!<br/><br/>We also spend some time just reflecting on the last year and what we are thankful for in our lives.  <br/><br/>We wish you all a Happy Thanksgiving and encourage you to take some time and reflect on all the things you have to be thankful for.<br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <itunes:title>I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T, Do You Know What That Means?</itunes:title>
    <title>I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T, Do You Know What That Means?</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode,  we discuss what it truly mean to be independent?  Whether "most men" prefer to have an independent women and why this topic only seems to be relevant  in certain cultures.  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae Instagram      https://www.instagram.com...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode,  we discuss what it truly mean to be independent?  Whether &quot;most men&quot; prefer to have an independent women and why this topic only seems to be relevant  in certain cultures.<br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><br/><br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode,  we discuss what it truly mean to be independent?  Whether &quot;most men&quot; prefer to have an independent women and why this topic only seems to be relevant  in certain cultures.<br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><br/><br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 22 Nov 2022 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kick-Back: Your Energy is Just...Off!</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kick-Back: Your Energy is Just...Off!</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details. https...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
    <enclosure url="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/episodes/11711776-episode-kick-back-your-energy-is-just-off.mp3" length="45070682" type="audio/mpeg" />
    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2022 23:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>Your Energy is Just...Off!</itunes:title>
    <title>Your Energy is Just...Off!</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we talk about managing our energy within our relationship.  We discuss whether our happiness is the responsibility of our partner/spouse, how to we function when we are not happy, matching energies, and as always, so much more!  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae Instagram ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we talk about managing our energy within our relationship.  We discuss whether our happiness is the responsibility of our partner/spouse, how to we function when we are not happy, matching energies, and as always, so much more!<br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we talk about managing our energy within our relationship.  We discuss whether our happiness is the responsibility of our partner/spouse, how to we function when we are not happy, matching energies, and as always, so much more!<br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2022 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kick Back: 21 Questions</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kick Back: 21 Questions</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details. https...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
    <enclosure url="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/episodes/11667330-episode-kick-back-21-questions.mp3" length="54713286" type="audio/mpeg" />
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    <pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2022 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>21 Questions</itunes:title>
    <title>21 Questions</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text From the beginning of our relationship we've made a promise that we would never stray away from the hard questions.  So in this episode, we take you on a journey with us, taking turns answering guided questions from The And and Let's Get Deep.  We get REAL deep, and have an open, honest, and of course, fun time!  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelld...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>From the beginning of our relationship we&apos;ve made a promise that we would never stray away from the hard questions.  So in this episode, we take you on a journey with us, taking turns answering guided questions from The And and Let&apos;s Get Deep.  We get REAL deep, and have an open, honest, and of course, fun time!<br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>From the beginning of our relationship we&apos;ve made a promise that we would never stray away from the hard questions.  So in this episode, we take you on a journey with us, taking turns answering guided questions from The And and Let&apos;s Get Deep.  We get REAL deep, and have an open, honest, and of course, fun time!<br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
    <enclosure url="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/episodes/11651077-21-questions.mp3" length="52750302" type="audio/mpeg" />
    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kick Back: The Ass and The Ox</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kick Back: The Ass and The Ox</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details. https...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
    <enclosure url="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/episodes/11621742-episode-kick-back-the-ass-and-the-ox.mp3" length="39376181" type="audio/mpeg" />
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    <itunes:title>The Ass and the Ox</itunes:title>
    <title>The Ass and the Ox</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we give a little context to the term "unequally yoked".  We also discuss the delicate balance we are currently navigating when it comes to your differences as newlyweds, and as always, so much more!  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae Instagram      https://w...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we give a little context to the term &quot;unequally yoked&quot;.  We also discuss the delicate balance we are currently navigating when it comes to your differences as newlyweds, and as always, so much more!<br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we give a little context to the term &quot;unequally yoked&quot;.  We also discuss the delicate balance we are currently navigating when it comes to your differences as newlyweds, and as always, so much more!<br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 01 Nov 2022 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kick-Back: The Sexpisode Part 3</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kick-Back: The Sexpisode Part 3</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details. https...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
    <enclosure url="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/episodes/11577334-episode-kick-back-the-sexpisode-part-3.mp3" length="56230494" type="audio/mpeg" />
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    <pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2022 23:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>The Sexpisode - Part 3 (Meeting Sexpectations)</itunes:title>
    <title>The Sexpisode - Part 3 (Meeting Sexpectations)</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Its our favorite time of the season... The Sexpisode!! Part 3 takes us through the journey and evolution of the role sex plays in our relationship.  We talk about how our expectations of sex meet, or don't meet, our reality; what it means to commit your sexuality to your spouse; and as always so much more!  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv &nbs...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Its our favorite time of the season... The Sexpisode!! Part 3 takes us through the journey and evolution of the role sex plays in our relationship.  We talk about how our expectations of sex meet, or don&apos;t meet, our reality; what it means to commit your sexuality to your spouse; and as always so much more!<br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Its our favorite time of the season... The Sexpisode!! Part 3 takes us through the journey and evolution of the role sex plays in our relationship.  We talk about how our expectations of sex meet, or don&apos;t meet, our reality; what it means to commit your sexuality to your spouse; and as always so much more!<br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
    <enclosure url="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/episodes/11562610-the-sexpisode-part-3-meeting-sexpectations.mp3" length="45480702" type="audio/mpeg" />
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kick-Back: This is Just a Phase</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kick-Back: This is Just a Phase</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details. https...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
    <enclosure url="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/episodes/11533850-episode-kick-back-this-is-just-a-phase.mp3" length="35266915" type="audio/mpeg" />
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    <itunes:title>This is Just a Phase</itunes:title>
    <title>This is Just a Phase</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this week's episode, we delve into a top that was introduced by one of our listeners during a LIVE session.  We explore the different phases of a relationship and discuss whether or not its possible for the honeymoon phase to last forever.  Follow Us on our Socials  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae Instagram &n...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this week&apos;s episode, we delve into a top that was introduced by one of our listeners during a LIVE session.  We explore the different phases of a relationship and discuss whether or not its possible for the honeymoon phase to last forever.<br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this week&apos;s episode, we delve into a top that was introduced by one of our listeners during a LIVE session.  We explore the different phases of a relationship and discuss whether or not its possible for the honeymoon phase to last forever.<br/><br/>Follow Us on our Socials<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
    <enclosure url="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/episodes/11519745-this-is-just-a-phase.mp3" length="51160402" type="audio/mpeg" />
    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kick-Back: We Just Have a Difference of Opinion</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kick-Back: We Just Have a Difference of Opinion</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details. https...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>We Just Have a Difference of Opinion</itunes:title>
    <title>We Just Have a Difference of Opinion</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text From unexpected illnesses, equipment damage, and even one unexpected break in the middle of the episode... we're back! In this week's episode, we find out that we just have a difference of opinion when it comes to our individual philosophies on dating, taking breaks in your relationship, and when to just call it quits!    You can now watch the episode early on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, w...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>From unexpected illnesses, equipment damage, and even one unexpected break in the middle of the episode... we&apos;re back! In this week&apos;s episode, we find out that we just have a difference of opinion when it comes to our individual philosophies on dating, taking breaks in your relationship, and when to just call it quits!  <br/><br/>You can now watch the episode early on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>From unexpected illnesses, equipment damage, and even one unexpected break in the middle of the episode... we&apos;re back! In this week&apos;s episode, we find out that we just have a difference of opinion when it comes to our individual philosophies on dating, taking breaks in your relationship, and when to just call it quits!  <br/><br/>You can now watch the episode early on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Keep It &quot;Cute&quot;!</itunes:title>
    <title>Keep It &quot;Cute&quot;!</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text It's time to get personal...! In this episode, we let it all hang out, LITERALLY! We discuss how your body image can affect your relationship.  We dive into our personal experiences with weight management, eating disorders, bariatric surgery and more.  You can now watch the episode early on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, an...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>It&apos;s time to get personal...! In this episode, we let it all hang out, LITERALLY! We discuss how your body image can affect your relationship.  We dive into our personal experiences with weight management, eating disorders, bariatric surgery and more.<br/><br/>You can now watch the episode early on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>It&apos;s time to get personal...! In this episode, we let it all hang out, LITERALLY! We discuss how your body image can affect your relationship.  We dive into our personal experiences with weight management, eating disorders, bariatric surgery and more.<br/><br/>You can now watch the episode early on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kick-Back: Submission/Locker Room</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kick-Back: Submission/Locker Room</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details. https...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook and YouTube fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Locker Room Talk - Kickin It with the Homies</itunes:title>
    <title>Locker Room Talk - Kickin It with the Homies</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text This week we're doing something a little different!!! Brandi sits out this episode so Russell, IV can kick-it with the fellas!  They discuss everything from what attributes they find attractive, do they believe in the concept of "the one", how do we as men deal with/process our emotions, and so much more. You can now watch the episode early on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be of...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>This week we&apos;re doing something a little different!!! Brandi sits out this episode so Russell, IV can kick-it with the fellas!  They discuss everything from what attributes they find attractive, do they believe in the concept of &quot;the one&quot;, how do we as men deal with/process our emotions, and so much more.</p><p>You can now watch the episode early on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/><a href='https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus'>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     <a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast</a><br/>     <a href='https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv'>https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv</a><br/>     <a href='https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae'>https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae</a><br/>Instagram<br/>     <a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod</a><br/>     <a href='https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth'>https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth</a><br/>     <a href='https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae'>https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae</a><br/>YouTube<br/>     <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</a></p><p><br/><br/></p><p><br/><br/></p><p><br/><br/></p><p><br/><br/></p><p><br/><br/></p><p><br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>This week we&apos;re doing something a little different!!! Brandi sits out this episode so Russell, IV can kick-it with the fellas!  They discuss everything from what attributes they find attractive, do they believe in the concept of &quot;the one&quot;, how do we as men deal with/process our emotions, and so much more.</p><p>You can now watch the episode early on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/><a href='https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus'>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus</a><br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     <a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast</a><br/>     <a href='https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv'>https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv</a><br/>     <a href='https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae'>https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae</a><br/>Instagram<br/>     <a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod</a><br/>     <a href='https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth'>https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth</a><br/>     <a href='https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae'>https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae</a><br/>YouTube<br/>     <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</a></p><p><br/><br/></p><p><br/><br/></p><p><br/><br/></p><p><br/><br/></p><p><br/><br/></p><p><br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2022 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode>
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    <itunes:title>The Secret to Submission </itunes:title>
    <title>The Secret to Submission </title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode we discuss how submission plays out in our relationship.  We also discuss the key to making submission work in a marriage, dealing with an independent spouse, and overcoming barriers through compromise.  You can now watch the episode early on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode we discuss how submission plays out in our relationship.  We also discuss the key to making submission work in a marriage, dealing with an independent spouse, and overcoming barriers through compromise.<br/><br/>You can now watch the episode early on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/><br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode we discuss how submission plays out in our relationship.  We also discuss the key to making submission work in a marriage, dealing with an independent spouse, and overcoming barriers through compromise.<br/><br/>You can now watch the episode early on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/><br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kick-Back: Living Single</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kick-Back: Living Single</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!  You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details. https://www.patre...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Living Single</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, we talk about the single life!! All that it is and, well, all that it ain't.  From dating apps, ghosting, breakups, sex and everything in between.  You can now watch the episode early on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details. ht...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we talk about the single life!! All that it is and, well, all that it ain&apos;t.  From dating apps, ghosting, breakups, sex and everything in between.<br/><br/>You can now watch the episode early on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, we talk about the single life!! All that it is and, well, all that it ain&apos;t.  From dating apps, ghosting, breakups, sex and everything in between.<br/><br/>You can now watch the episode early on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 13 Sep 2022 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>Episode Kick-Back: Why Did I Get Married, Again?</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode Kick-Back: Why Did I Get Married, Again?</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text We're kicking Season 3 off with some new content! Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB LIVE!  You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the lin...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>We&apos;re kicking Season 3 off with some new content! Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB LIVE!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>We&apos;re kicking Season 3 off with some new content! Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook fam.  We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB LIVE!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Why Did I Get Married, Again?</itunes:title>
    <title>Why Did I Get Married, Again?</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text And we're back!!!!! Season 3 is there! In this episode, we discuss our decision to get married after divorce, what marriage has been like thus far, and how we are making intentional steps  to not ever get divorced again!  You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>And we&apos;re back!!!!! Season 3 is there! In this episode, we discuss our decision to get married after divorce, what marriage has been like thus far, and how we are making intentional steps  to not ever get divorced again!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>And we&apos;re back!!!!! Season 3 is there! In this episode, we discuss our decision to get married after divorce, what marriage has been like thus far, and how we are making intentional steps  to not ever get divorced again!<br/><br/>You can now watch us record our episodes live on Patreon by following the link below.  Not only will you be able to view the episodes before they are released, we will also be offering tons of exclusive content, Q&amp;A sessions, and the opportunity to meet with us one on one.  Click the link below for details.<br/>https://www.patreon.com/whattheynevertoldus<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Weekly Check-In: Session 6: Just a Lil Lie</itunes:title>
    <title>Weekly Check-In: Session 6: Just a Lil Lie</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text We've made it to week 6 and Season 3 is right on the horizon! In this week's weekly check-in we discuss if lying is ever justifiable?  Join us in the discussion and follow us on all of our socials:  Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae Instagram      https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod &nbs...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>We&apos;ve made it to week 6 and Season 3 is right on the horizon! In this week&apos;s weekly check-in we discuss if lying is ever justifiable?  Join us in the discussion and follow us on all of our socials:<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/><br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>We&apos;ve made it to week 6 and Season 3 is right on the horizon! In this week&apos;s weekly check-in we discuss if lying is ever justifiable?  Join us in the discussion and follow us on all of our socials:<br/><br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><br/><br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Wed, 20 Jul 2022 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <title>Weekly Check-in: Session 5</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text This week's check-in took a drastic turn when Russell discovers what Brandi has been up to when he's not at home!!  Hit us up on our socials and join the conversation.   Follow us on social media: Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae Instagram      https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod  ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>This week&apos;s check-in took a drastic turn when Russell discovers what Brandi has been up to when he&apos;s not at home!!<br/><br/>Hit us up on our socials and join the conversation. <br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>This week&apos;s check-in took a drastic turn when Russell discovers what Brandi has been up to when he&apos;s not at home!!<br/><br/>Hit us up on our socials and join the conversation. <br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <itunes:title>Weekly Check-in: Session 4</itunes:title>
    <title>Weekly Check-in: Session 4</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text We're back with another weekly check-in! And this time, we are discussing jealousy (insert dramatic music)!!  In this episode, we explore whether or not jealousy can be helpful in your relationship.  As always, we cannot wait to hear your thoughts!    Hit us up on our socials and join the conversation.   Follow us on social media: Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russel...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>We&apos;re back with another weekly check-in! And this time, we are discussing jealousy (insert dramatic music)!!  In this episode, we explore whether or not jealousy can be helpful in your relationship.  As always, we cannot wait to hear your thoughts!  <br/><br/>Hit us up on our socials and join the conversation. <br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>We&apos;re back with another weekly check-in! And this time, we are discussing jealousy (insert dramatic music)!!  In this episode, we explore whether or not jealousy can be helpful in your relationship.  As always, we cannot wait to hear your thoughts!  <br/><br/>Hit us up on our socials and join the conversation. <br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <pubDate>Wed, 06 Jul 2022 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
    <itunes:duration>963</itunes:duration>
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    <itunes:title>Weekly Check-In: Session 3</itunes:title>
    <title>Weekly Check-In: Session 3</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Back like we never left with another weekly check-in. Today we discuss "Is it OK to be friends with your ex?" A familiar conversation to the podcast, but this time we want to hear from you! Hit us up on our socials and join the conversation.   Follow us on social media: Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae Instagram &...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Back like we never left with another weekly check-in. Today we discuss &quot;Is it OK to be friends with your ex?&quot; A familiar conversation to the podcast, but this time we want to hear from you! Hit us up on our socials and join the conversation. <br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Back like we never left with another weekly check-in. Today we discuss &quot;Is it OK to be friends with your ex?&quot; A familiar conversation to the podcast, but this time we want to hear from you! Hit us up on our socials and join the conversation. <br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 21 Jun 2022 23:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
    <itunes:duration>1116</itunes:duration>
    <itunes:keywords>What They Never Told Us, Relationships, Marriage, Divorce, Black, Love, Advice, Christian</itunes:keywords>
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    <itunes:title>Weekly Check-In: Session 2</itunes:title>
    <title>Weekly Check-In: Session 2</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text We're back and session 2 is dedicated to toxic traits!   Let's be honest, we all have toxic traits that try to rear their ugly head in our relationships.  Listen as we discuss our toxic traits and then find us on our socials and share what your toxic trait is.  The goal here is to reveal so we can heal!  Follow us on social media: Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavi...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>We&apos;re back and session 2 is dedicated to toxic traits!   Let&apos;s be honest, we all have toxic traits that try to rear their ugly head in our relationships.  Listen as we discuss our toxic traits and then find us on our socials and share what your toxic trait is.  The goal here is to reveal so we can heal!<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>We&apos;re back and session 2 is dedicated to toxic traits!   Let&apos;s be honest, we all have toxic traits that try to rear their ugly head in our relationships.  Listen as we discuss our toxic traits and then find us on our socials and share what your toxic trait is.  The goal here is to reveal so we can heal!<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
    <enclosure url="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/episodes/10795550-weekly-check-in-session-2.mp3" length="5581967" type="audio/mpeg" />
    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <pubDate>Wed, 15 Jun 2022 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
    <itunes:duration>460</itunes:duration>
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    <itunes:title>Weekly Check-In: Session 1</itunes:title>
    <title>Weekly Check-In: Session 1</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Welcome to the Weekly Check-In! Y'all know we couldn't stay away for too long, so we're coming back with something we're calling the "Weekly Check-In".  In session 1 we discuss dating multiple people at the same time!  Follow us on social media: Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae Instagram      https:...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Welcome to the Weekly Check-In! Y&apos;all know we couldn&apos;t stay away for too long, so we&apos;re coming back with something we&apos;re calling the &quot;Weekly Check-In&quot;.  In session 1 we discuss dating multiple people at the same time!<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Welcome to the Weekly Check-In! Y&apos;all know we couldn&apos;t stay away for too long, so we&apos;re coming back with something we&apos;re calling the &quot;Weekly Check-In&quot;.  In session 1 we discuss dating multiple people at the same time!<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <pubDate>Wed, 08 Jun 2022 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
    <itunes:duration>515</itunes:duration>
    <itunes:keywords>What They Never Told Us, Divorce, marriage, relationship podcast, relationship advice, love, dating, communication, marriage advice</itunes:keywords>
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    <itunes:title>We LIVE!!</itunes:title>
    <title>We LIVE!!</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text For the season 2 finale, Russell IV and Brandi recorded a LIVE session on Facebook with "the fam".  Taking questions right on the spot, this "episode" was one of the best yet!! And you know, we had to go deep!!! When one of the fam asks, "what were the biggest challenges you faced in marriage counseling"?  The hosts open up and discuss a topic that's been off limits...until now!!!!  Follow us on social media: Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whatthey...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>For the season 2 finale, Russell IV and Brandi recorded a LIVE session on Facebook with &quot;the fam&quot;.  Taking questions right on the spot, this &quot;episode&quot; was one of the best yet!! And you know, we had to go deep!!! When one of the fam asks, &quot;what were the biggest challenges you faced in marriage counseling&quot;?  The hosts open up and discuss a topic that&apos;s been off limits...until now!!!!<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>For the season 2 finale, Russell IV and Brandi recorded a LIVE session on Facebook with &quot;the fam&quot;.  Taking questions right on the spot, this &quot;episode&quot; was one of the best yet!! And you know, we had to go deep!!! When one of the fam asks, &quot;what were the biggest challenges you faced in marriage counseling&quot;?  The hosts open up and discuss a topic that&apos;s been off limits...until now!!!!<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 07 Jun 2022 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:keywords>What They Never Told Us, Russell IV and Brandi, Relationships, Love, Marriage, Divorce, Relationship, Relationship Advice, Dating, Dating Advice </itunes:keywords>
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    <itunes:title>Respect My Independence</itunes:title>
    <title>Respect My Independence</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text This is it, the final episode of the season!  In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi discuss finding their independence inside of their relationship; exploring their personal interest and goals, while maintaining their relationship; and how to maintain balance.   Follow us on social media: Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      https://www.facebook.com/bra...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>This is it, the final episode of the season!  In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi discuss finding their independence inside of their relationship; exploring their personal interest and goals, while maintaining their relationship; and how to maintain balance.<br/><br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg<br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>This is it, the final episode of the season!  In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi discuss finding their independence inside of their relationship; exploring their personal interest and goals, while maintaining their relationship; and how to maintain balance.<br/><br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg<br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
    <enclosure url="https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/episodes/10627385-respect-my-independence.mp3" length="48504508" type="audio/mpeg" />
    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 17 May 2022 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
    <itunes:duration>4035</itunes:duration>
    <itunes:keywords>What They Never Told Us, Russell IV and Brandi, Relationships, Love, Marriage, Divorce, Relationship, Relationship Advice, Dating, Dating Advice </itunes:keywords>
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    <itunes:title>Blended Families Matter </itunes:title>
    <title>Blended Families Matter </title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Your kids + My kids = Our Kids, if only it was that simple!  Blending families, parenting styles, co-parenting and much more are the topic of this week's episode.  Russell IV and Brandi give a peek into their experiences, thus far, blending their two families.  The two discuss their successes, their failures, and how they plan to navigate managing their new family dynamics in the future.  Follow us on social media: Facebook      https://www.facebook.c...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Your kids + My kids = Our Kids, if only it was that simple!  Blending families, parenting styles, co-parenting and much more are the topic of this week&apos;s episode.  Russell IV and Brandi give a peek into their experiences, thus far, blending their two families.  The two discuss their successes, their failures, and how they plan to navigate managing their new family dynamics in the future.<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Your kids + My kids = Our Kids, if only it was that simple!  Blending families, parenting styles, co-parenting and much more are the topic of this week&apos;s episode.  Russell IV and Brandi give a peek into their experiences, thus far, blending their two families.  The two discuss their successes, their failures, and how they plan to navigate managing their new family dynamics in the future.<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 10 May 2022 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
    <itunes:duration>4116</itunes:duration>
    <itunes:keywords>What They Never Told Us, Divorce, marriage, relationship podcast, relationship advice, love, dating, communication, marriage advice</itunes:keywords>
    <itunes:season>2</itunes:season>
    <itunes:episode>11</itunes:episode>
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    <itunes:title>#Relationship Goals</itunes:title>
    <title>#Relationship Goals</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text #RelationshipGoals We've seen the hashtag on social media for the last several years but what does that really mean? In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi talk about being  #relationshipgoals.  You may be surprised to hear that neither one enjoy the term in reference to their relationship!  The host will discuss why they don't wanna  be #relationshipgoals for others; the pressure that term creates; and all the behind the scene relationship nuances you don't se...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>#RelationshipGoals We&apos;ve seen the hashtag on social media for the last several years but what does that really mean? In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi talk about being  #relationshipgoals.  You may be surprised to hear that neither one enjoy the term in reference to their relationship!  The host will discuss why they don&apos;t wanna  be #relationshipgoals for others; the pressure that term creates; and all the behind the scene relationship nuances you don&apos;t see on social media...<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>#RelationshipGoals We&apos;ve seen the hashtag on social media for the last several years but what does that really mean? In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi talk about being  #relationshipgoals.  You may be surprised to hear that neither one enjoy the term in reference to their relationship!  The host will discuss why they don&apos;t wanna  be #relationshipgoals for others; the pressure that term creates; and all the behind the scene relationship nuances you don&apos;t see on social media...<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 03 May 2022 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
    <itunes:duration>3695</itunes:duration>
    <itunes:keywords>What They Never Told Us, Divorce, marriage, relationship podcast, relationship advice, love, dating, communication, marriage advice</itunes:keywords>
    <itunes:season>2</itunes:season>
    <itunes:episode>10</itunes:episode>
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    <itunes:title>The Ultimatum</itunes:title>
    <title>The Ultimatum</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Have you even given your partner an ultimatum? Or maybe you've been the one forced to make a choice... In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi discuss whether or not giving your partner an ultimatum can yield positive results for your relationship.  The hosts also discuss whether or not there is a "right time" to get married; what to do if your partner isn't ready to commit; and as always, so much more!!!  Follow us on social media: Facebook      https://www.fac...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Have you even given your partner an ultimatum? Or maybe you&apos;ve been the one forced to make a choice... In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi discuss whether or not giving your partner an ultimatum can yield positive results for your relationship.  The hosts also discuss whether or not there is a &quot;right time&quot; to get married; what to do if your partner isn&apos;t ready to commit; and as always, so much more!!!<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Have you even given your partner an ultimatum? Or maybe you&apos;ve been the one forced to make a choice... In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi discuss whether or not giving your partner an ultimatum can yield positive results for your relationship.  The hosts also discuss whether or not there is a &quot;right time&quot; to get married; what to do if your partner isn&apos;t ready to commit; and as always, so much more!!!<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 26 Apr 2022 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
    <itunes:duration>3993</itunes:duration>
    <itunes:keywords>What They Never Told Us, Divorce, marriage, relationship podcast, relationship advice, love, dating, communication, marriage advice</itunes:keywords>
    <itunes:season>2</itunes:season>
    <itunes:episode>9</itunes:episode>
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    <itunes:title>Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater!</itunes:title>
    <title>Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater!</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, the hosts discuss cheating... and someone has a confession!  Russell IV and Brandi take turns discussing their experiences with cheating, the importance of defining what cheating is with your partner, and whether or not the old saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" is true,  Follow us on social media: Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv     &...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, the hosts discuss cheating... and someone has a confession!  Russell IV and Brandi take turns discussing their experiences with cheating, the importance of defining what cheating is with your partner, and whether or not the old saying &quot;once a cheater, always a cheater&quot; is true,<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg<br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, the hosts discuss cheating... and someone has a confession!  Russell IV and Brandi take turns discussing their experiences with cheating, the importance of defining what cheating is with your partner, and whether or not the old saying &quot;once a cheater, always a cheater&quot; is true,<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg<br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 19 Apr 2022 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
    <itunes:duration>4180</itunes:duration>
    <itunes:keywords>What They Never Told Us, Divorce, marriage, relationship podcast, relationship advice, love, dating, communication, marriage advice</itunes:keywords>
    <itunes:season>2</itunes:season>
    <itunes:episode>8</itunes:episode>
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    <itunes:title>Sexpisode Part II</itunes:title>
    <title>Sexpisode Part II</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Fresh off their honeymoon, newlyweds Russell IV and Brandi, jump right back in with a hot topic... SEX!  Its no secret that the two made the decision to abstain until marriage but now the flood gates are open and the host knew they had to tackle this topic once again.  Discussing everything from how to create intimacy to bringing toys into the bedroom, the Sexpisode Part II promises to be a good one!  Follow us on social media: Facebook      https://www.fa...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Fresh off their honeymoon, newlyweds Russell IV and Brandi, jump right back in with a hot topic... SEX!  Its no secret that the two made the decision to abstain until marriage but now the flood gates are open and the host knew they had to tackle this topic once again.  Discussing everything from how to create intimacy to bringing toys into the bedroom, the Sexpisode Part II promises to be a good one!<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Fresh off their honeymoon, newlyweds Russell IV and Brandi, jump right back in with a hot topic... SEX!  Its no secret that the two made the decision to abstain until marriage but now the flood gates are open and the host knew they had to tackle this topic once again.  Discussing everything from how to create intimacy to bringing toys into the bedroom, the Sexpisode Part II promises to be a good one!<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 12 Apr 2022 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
    <itunes:duration>4040</itunes:duration>
    <itunes:keywords>What They Never Told Us, Divorce, marriage, relationship podcast, relationship advice, love, dating, communication, marriage advice</itunes:keywords>
    <itunes:season>2</itunes:season>
    <itunes:episode>7</itunes:episode>
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    <itunes:title>Keep My Wife’s Name Out Your Mouth!</itunes:title>
    <title>Keep My Wife’s Name Out Your Mouth!</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Everyone is talking about the 2022 Oscar awards. Not because of the clothes or the winner of best picture but because of… the slap heard around the world. #WTNTU took a break from their regularly scheduled program to talk about the moment that has taken the internet by storm within the last 24hrs!!! Russell IV and Brandi give their opinions on the situation and then advance the conversation into a discussion about the importance of protection.   Follow us on social media: Fac...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Everyone is talking about the 2022 Oscar awards. Not because of the clothes or the winner of best picture but because of… the slap heard around the world. #WTNTU took a break from their regularly scheduled program to talk about the moment that has taken the internet by storm within the last 24hrs!!!<br/>Russell IV and Brandi give their opinions on the situation and then advance the conversation into a discussion about the importance of protection. <br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Everyone is talking about the 2022 Oscar awards. Not because of the clothes or the winner of best picture but because of… the slap heard around the world. #WTNTU took a break from their regularly scheduled program to talk about the moment that has taken the internet by storm within the last 24hrs!!!<br/>Russell IV and Brandi give their opinions on the situation and then advance the conversation into a discussion about the importance of protection. <br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 29 Mar 2022 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
    <itunes:duration>3657</itunes:duration>
    <itunes:keywords>What They Never Told Us, Divorce, marriage, relationship podcast, relationship advice, love, dating, communication, marriage advice</itunes:keywords>
    <itunes:season>2</itunes:season>
    <itunes:episode>6</itunes:episode>
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    <itunes:title>Who Wears the Pants in this Relationship?</itunes:title>
    <title>Who Wears the Pants in this Relationship?</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Who wears the pants in this relationship?  In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi discuss how they handle gender roles in their relationship.  The hosts break down how their relationship defies traditional gender roles and how their context shape the roles they desire to "play" in their relationship.  Follow us on social media: Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv &nbs...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Who wears the pants in this relationship?  In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi discuss how they handle gender roles in their relationship.  The hosts break down how their relationship defies traditional gender roles and how their context shape the roles they desire to &quot;play&quot; in their relationship.<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Who wears the pants in this relationship?  In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi discuss how they handle gender roles in their relationship.  The hosts break down how their relationship defies traditional gender roles and how their context shape the roles they desire to &quot;play&quot; in their relationship.<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:author>Russell IV &amp; Brandi</itunes:author>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 22 Mar 2022 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
    <itunes:duration>3839</itunes:duration>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text What happens when your preferences don't match up with your reality?  Can you be happy with someone who isn't your "type" or what you prefer?  In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi discuss how their preferences in a significant other align with what they found in each other; how important it is (or isn't) to be flexible; making lists; and much more!  Follow us on social media: Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast    ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>What happens when your preferences don&apos;t match up with your reality?  Can you be happy with someone who isn&apos;t your &quot;type&quot; or what you prefer?  In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi discuss how their preferences in a significant other align with what they found in each other; how important it is (or isn&apos;t) to be flexible; making lists; and much more!<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg<br/><br/><br/>Donate to the show at:<br/>http://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>What happens when your preferences don&apos;t match up with your reality?  Can you be happy with someone who isn&apos;t your &quot;type&quot; or what you prefer?  In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi discuss how their preferences in a significant other align with what they found in each other; how important it is (or isn&apos;t) to be flexible; making lists; and much more!<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg<br/><br/><br/>Donate to the show at:<br/>http://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Push The Button...</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Episode 3 kicks off with Russell IV and Brandi trying to settle a beef that's been brewing between the two.  Although they couldn't resolve their issue during this episode, the discussion opens the door, and in true #WTNTU fashion, the hosts "push the button" and walk on through!     Follow us on social media: Facebook      https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast      https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv      ht...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Episode 3 kicks off with Russell IV and Brandi trying to settle a beef that&apos;s been brewing between the two.  Although they couldn&apos;t resolve their issue during this episode, the discussion opens the door, and in true #WTNTU fashion, the hosts &quot;push the button&quot; and walk on through!  <br/><br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg<br/><br/><br/>Donate to the show at:<br/>http://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Episode 3 kicks off with Russell IV and Brandi trying to settle a beef that&apos;s been brewing between the two.  Although they couldn&apos;t resolve their issue during this episode, the discussion opens the door, and in true #WTNTU fashion, the hosts &quot;push the button&quot; and walk on through!  <br/><br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>Facebook<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>     https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>Instagram<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>     https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/>YouTube<br/>     https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg<br/><br/><br/>Donate to the show at:<br/>http://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 08 Mar 2022 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>Why Did I Get Divorced?</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi, navigate their most sensitive topic yet...DIVORCE.  In season 1, the host tackled why they decided to get married, the first time, and now it's time to discuss why they got divorced.  The two hold nothing back in this candid discussion, this is one episode you do not want to miss!!  Follow us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv https://www.facebook.com/brandis...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi, navigate their most sensitive topic yet...DIVORCE.  In season 1, the host tackled why they decided to get married, the first time, and now it&apos;s time to discuss why they got divorced.  The two hold nothing back in this candid discussion, this is one episode you do not want to miss!!<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/><br/>Donate to the show at:<br/>http://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi, navigate their most sensitive topic yet...DIVORCE.  In season 1, the host tackled why they decided to get married, the first time, and now it&apos;s time to discuss why they got divorced.  The two hold nothing back in this candid discussion, this is one episode you do not want to miss!!<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/>https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast<br/>https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv<br/>https://www.facebook.com/brandisyrae<br/>https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspod<br/>https://www.instagram.com/russelldafourth<br/>https://www.instagram.com/msbrandisyrae<br/><br/>Donate to the show at:<br/>http://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 01 Mar 2022 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text And they're back!!!! In the season 2 opener, Russell IV and Brandi discuss all that's been happening during their time off.  They give you the details on their engagement, wedding plans, and so much more.  Season 2 is going to be bigger than ever!!!! Get Ready!  Follow us on social media: Facebook Instagram YouTube   Cashapp: $whattheynevertoldus Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
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    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>And they&apos;re back!!!! In the season 2 opener, Russell IV and Brandi discuss all that&apos;s been happening during their time off.  They give you the details on their engagement, wedding plans, and so much more.<br/><br/>Season 2 is going to be bigger than ever!!!! Get Ready!<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube<br/></a><br/></p><p>Cashapp: $whattheynevertoldus</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 22 Feb 2022 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>Building Together</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this season's finale episode, Russell IV and Brandi,  take the time to reflect on all they have learned during their first season!  They discuss the following topics: Their goals What its been like working togetherWorking through conflictWhat happens when your vision doesn't line up with your partnersAnd as always, so much moreThe hosts would like to give a huge THANK YOU to everyone who has supported What They Never Told Us thus far! And we'll be back for season...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this season&apos;s finale episode, Russell IV and Brandi,  take the time to reflect on all they have learned during their first season!  They discuss the following topics:</p><ul><li>Their goals </li><li>What its been like working together</li><li>Working through conflict</li><li>What happens when your vision doesn&apos;t line up with your partners</li><li>And as always, so much more</li></ul><p>The hosts would like to give a huge THANK YOU to everyone who has supported What They Never Told Us thus far! And we&apos;ll be back for season 2 in 2022!!<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube<br/></a><br/></p><p>Cashapp: $whattheynevertoldus</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this season&apos;s finale episode, Russell IV and Brandi,  take the time to reflect on all they have learned during their first season!  They discuss the following topics:</p><ul><li>Their goals </li><li>What its been like working together</li><li>Working through conflict</li><li>What happens when your vision doesn&apos;t line up with your partners</li><li>And as always, so much more</li></ul><p>The hosts would like to give a huge THANK YOU to everyone who has supported What They Never Told Us thus far! And we&apos;ll be back for season 2 in 2022!!<br/><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube<br/></a><br/></p><p>Cashapp: $whattheynevertoldus</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>The Great Compromise (Understanding Love Languages)</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, hosts Russell IV and Brandi, discuss the New York Times Best Selling book by Gary Chapman, The Five Love Languages.  The couple start the conversation by telling the viewers about their primary and secondary love languages, then take a dive into the following topics: Understanding your partners love languageCompatibility and how that relates to love languagesWhat happens when you don't speak your partners love languageAre you willing to compromiseAnd as alway...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, hosts Russell IV and Brandi, discuss the New York Times Best Selling book by Gary Chapman, The Five Love Languages.  The couple start the conversation by telling the viewers about their primary and secondary love languages, then take a dive into the following topics:</p><ul><li>Understanding your partners love language</li><li>Compatibility and how that relates to love languages</li><li>What happens when you don&apos;t speak your partners love language</li><li>Are you willing to compromise</li><li>And as always, so much more...</li></ul><p>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube<br/></a><br/></p><p>Don&apos;t forget to join the LIVE discussion on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a> following each new episode on Wednesdays at 8:30p EST (ish)!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, hosts Russell IV and Brandi, discuss the New York Times Best Selling book by Gary Chapman, The Five Love Languages.  The couple start the conversation by telling the viewers about their primary and secondary love languages, then take a dive into the following topics:</p><ul><li>Understanding your partners love language</li><li>Compatibility and how that relates to love languages</li><li>What happens when you don&apos;t speak your partners love language</li><li>Are you willing to compromise</li><li>And as always, so much more...</li></ul><p>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube<br/></a><br/></p><p>Don&apos;t forget to join the LIVE discussion on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a> following each new episode on Wednesdays at 8:30p EST (ish)!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Social Media vs. Relationships</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi discuss the gift and the curse that is social media!  In a day and age that everything we do is "tweeted", "facebooked", "tiktoked" or "instagramed", they attempt to answer one important question, "what affect does social media have on your relationship"?  The host kick it off with a few questions from their viewers on social media and then jump right into it! In this episode, the host cover the following topics: How they balance so...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi discuss the gift and the curse that is social media!  In a day and age that everything we do is &quot;tweeted&quot;, &quot;facebooked&quot;, &quot;tiktoked&quot; or &quot;instagramed&quot;, they attempt to answer one important question, &quot;what affect does social media have on your relationship&quot;?  The host kick it off with a few questions from their viewers on social media and then jump right into it!<br/>In this episode, the host cover the following topics:</p><ul><li>How they balance social media in their relationship</li><li>The &quot;pressure&quot; social media adds to relationships</li><li>Using social media as a weapon</li><li>Setting the standard for social media in your relationship</li><li>And as always, so much more!!</li></ul><p>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube<br/></a><br/></p><p>Don&apos;t forget to join the LIVE discussion on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a> following each new episode on Wednesdays at 8:30p EST (ish)!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi discuss the gift and the curse that is social media!  In a day and age that everything we do is &quot;tweeted&quot;, &quot;facebooked&quot;, &quot;tiktoked&quot; or &quot;instagramed&quot;, they attempt to answer one important question, &quot;what affect does social media have on your relationship&quot;?  The host kick it off with a few questions from their viewers on social media and then jump right into it!<br/>In this episode, the host cover the following topics:</p><ul><li>How they balance social media in their relationship</li><li>The &quot;pressure&quot; social media adds to relationships</li><li>Using social media as a weapon</li><li>Setting the standard for social media in your relationship</li><li>And as always, so much more!!</li></ul><p>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube<br/></a><br/></p><p>Don&apos;t forget to join the LIVE discussion on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a> following each new episode on Wednesdays at 8:30p EST (ish)!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 09 Nov 2021 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>The &quot;Sexpisode&quot;</itunes:title>
    <title>The &quot;Sexpisode&quot;</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text The moment has finally come where the host tackle... SEX! Russell IV and Brandi have tiptoed around this subject long enough and now they are ready to dive in!  They start the episode off with an ice breaker,  recounting their most embarrassing moments and they share an unexpected funny moment before jumping right in.  They discuss the following topics: Abstinence and what drove them to that decisionThe "first time"Owning your sexualityGetting sex right 100% of the ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>The moment has finally come where the host tackle... SEX! Russell IV and Brandi have tiptoed around this subject long enough and now they are ready to dive in!  They start the episode off with an ice breaker,  recounting their most embarrassing moments and they share an unexpected funny moment before jumping right in.  They discuss the following topics:</p><ul><li>Abstinence and what drove them to that decision</li><li>The &quot;first time&quot;</li><li>Owning your sexuality</li><li>Getting sex right 100% of the time</li><li>Unhealthy sexual habits</li><li>And as always, so much more!</li></ul><p>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube<br/></a><br/></p><p>Don&apos;t forget to join the LIVE discussion on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a> following each new episode on Wednesdays at 8:30p EST (ish)!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>The moment has finally come where the host tackle... SEX! Russell IV and Brandi have tiptoed around this subject long enough and now they are ready to dive in!  They start the episode off with an ice breaker,  recounting their most embarrassing moments and they share an unexpected funny moment before jumping right in.  They discuss the following topics:</p><ul><li>Abstinence and what drove them to that decision</li><li>The &quot;first time&quot;</li><li>Owning your sexuality</li><li>Getting sex right 100% of the time</li><li>Unhealthy sexual habits</li><li>And as always, so much more!</li></ul><p>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube<br/></a><br/></p><p>Don&apos;t forget to join the LIVE discussion on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a> following each new episode on Wednesdays at 8:30p EST (ish)!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 02 Nov 2021 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>The Episode About Nothing</itunes:title>
    <title>The Episode About Nothing</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi take a break from the normal show format to just kick-it! They start off with a shout-out to all their international listeners! And then dive right in, of course some more serious topics slip their way in, but the hosts still manage to keep it light when discussing topics like: Russell's experience as a full time dad for a weekTheir differing opinions on what the term "single parent" means"Red Flags"The Black ExperienceAppropriate first date ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi take a break from the normal show format to just kick-it! They start off with a shout-out to all their international listeners! And then dive right in, of course some more serious topics slip their way in, but the hosts still manage to keep it light when discussing topics like:</p><ul><li>Russell&apos;s experience as a full time dad for a week</li><li>Their differing opinions on what the term &quot;single parent&quot; means</li><li>&quot;Red Flags&quot;</li><li>The Black Experience</li><li>Appropriate first date questions</li><li>A test to see who knows who better</li><li>And as always, so much more!</li></ul><p><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube<br/></a><br/></p><p>Don&apos;t forget to join the LIVE discussion on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a> following each new episode on Wednesdays at 8:30p EST (ish)!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi take a break from the normal show format to just kick-it! They start off with a shout-out to all their international listeners! And then dive right in, of course some more serious topics slip their way in, but the hosts still manage to keep it light when discussing topics like:</p><ul><li>Russell&apos;s experience as a full time dad for a week</li><li>Their differing opinions on what the term &quot;single parent&quot; means</li><li>&quot;Red Flags&quot;</li><li>The Black Experience</li><li>Appropriate first date questions</li><li>A test to see who knows who better</li><li>And as always, so much more!</li></ul><p><br/>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube<br/></a><br/></p><p>Don&apos;t forget to join the LIVE discussion on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a> following each new episode on Wednesdays at 8:30p EST (ish)!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Relationship Killers</itunes:title>
    <title>Relationship Killers</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, Brandi and Russell discuss the following "relationship killers": MoneyKidsPrideJealousyAnd as always, so much moreFollow us on social media: Facebook Instagram YouTube   Don't forget to join the LIVE discussion on Facebook and YouTube following each new episode on Wednesdays at 8:30p EST (ish)! Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, Brandi and Russell discuss the following &quot;relationship killers&quot;:</p><ul><li>Money</li><li>Kids</li><li>Pride</li><li>Jealousy</li><li>And as always, so much more</li></ul><p>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube<br/></a><br/></p><p>Don&apos;t forget to join the LIVE discussion on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a> following each new episode on Wednesdays at 8:30p EST (ish)!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, Brandi and Russell discuss the following &quot;relationship killers&quot;:</p><ul><li>Money</li><li>Kids</li><li>Pride</li><li>Jealousy</li><li>And as always, so much more</li></ul><p>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube<br/></a><br/></p><p>Don&apos;t forget to join the LIVE discussion on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a> following each new episode on Wednesdays at 8:30p EST (ish)!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 19 Oct 2021 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
    <itunes:duration>4039</itunes:duration>
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    <itunes:title>&quot;What We Have Here is a Failure to Communicate!&quot;</itunes:title>
    <title>&quot;What We Have Here is a Failure to Communicate!&quot;</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode,  Russell IV and Brandi,  discuss the importance of effective communication in relationships.  They take turns discussing each other's "bad" communication habits.  They also dive into the following topics: The power of a "truth" momentBeing open to feedback vs just wanting to be heardUsing "always" and "never"The importance of fighting fairAnd as always, so much more!Follow us on social media: Facebook Instagram YouTube   Don't forget to join th...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode,  Russell IV and Brandi,  discuss the importance of effective communication in relationships.  They take turns discussing each other&apos;s &quot;bad&quot; communication habits.  They also dive into the following topics:</p><ul><li>The power of a &quot;truth&quot; moment</li><li>Being open to feedback vs just wanting to be heard</li><li>Using &quot;always&quot; and &quot;never&quot;</li><li>The importance of fighting fair</li><li>And as always, so much more!</li></ul><p>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube<br/></a><br/></p><p>Don&apos;t forget to join the LIVE discussion on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a> following each new episode on Wednesdays at 8:30p EST (ish)!<br/><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode,  Russell IV and Brandi,  discuss the importance of effective communication in relationships.  They take turns discussing each other&apos;s &quot;bad&quot; communication habits.  They also dive into the following topics:</p><ul><li>The power of a &quot;truth&quot; moment</li><li>Being open to feedback vs just wanting to be heard</li><li>Using &quot;always&quot; and &quot;never&quot;</li><li>The importance of fighting fair</li><li>And as always, so much more!</li></ul><p>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube<br/></a><br/></p><p>Don&apos;t forget to join the LIVE discussion on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a> following each new episode on Wednesdays at 8:30p EST (ish)!<br/><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Help! I&#39;ve Fallen and I Can&#39;t Get Out!!</itunes:title>
    <title>Help! I&#39;ve Fallen and I Can&#39;t Get Out!!</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text How good are you at handling a break-up?  In this episode hosts, Russell IV and Brandi, take their personal experiences (good and bad) with breaking up to walk the audience through the following topics: Addressing issues in the relationshipThe importance of making the "right" choiceWhat it means to stay committedRecognizing when its time to break-up, andMuch more!Follow us on social media: Facebook Instagram YouTube   Don't forget to join the LIVE discussion on Facebook and Y...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>How good are you at handling a break-up?  In this episode hosts, Russell IV and Brandi, take their personal experiences (good and bad) with breaking up to walk the audience through the following topics:</p><ul><li>Addressing issues in the relationship</li><li>The importance of making the &quot;right&quot; choice</li><li>What it means to stay committed</li><li>Recognizing when its time to break-up, and</li><li>Much more!</li></ul><p>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube<br/></a><br/></p><p>Don&apos;t forget to join the LIVE discussion on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a> following each new episode on Wednesdays at 8:30p EST (ish)!<br/><br/></p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a> (https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus)<br/><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>How good are you at handling a break-up?  In this episode hosts, Russell IV and Brandi, take their personal experiences (good and bad) with breaking up to walk the audience through the following topics:</p><ul><li>Addressing issues in the relationship</li><li>The importance of making the &quot;right&quot; choice</li><li>What it means to stay committed</li><li>Recognizing when its time to break-up, and</li><li>Much more!</li></ul><p>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube<br/></a><br/></p><p>Don&apos;t forget to join the LIVE discussion on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a> following each new episode on Wednesdays at 8:30p EST (ish)!<br/><br/></p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a> (https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus)<br/><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Tue, 05 Oct 2021 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>What About Your Friends?</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi talk through the subject of friendships and the role that they play in relationships. The two take a deep dive and unpack a moment when they had to navigate those waters, and it gets a little tense.   The hosts will discuss the following: ·        The role friendships play in their lives, present day. ·        How new relationships can put a strain on friendships and vice versa. ·    &nbs...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi talk through the subject of friendships and the role that they play in relationships. The two take a deep dive and unpack a moment when they had to navigate those waters, and it gets a little tense.</p><p> </p><p>The hosts will discuss the following:</p><p>·        The role friendships play in their lives, present day.</p><p>·        How new relationships can put a strain on friendships and vice versa.</p><p>·        Setting up healthy boundaries.</p><p>·         What makes a true friendship?</p><p>·        Friendships with exes.</p><p>·        And so much more</p><p>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a></p><p>Don’t forget to join the LIVE discussion on Facebook following each new episode on Wednesday at 8:30pm EST!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi talk through the subject of friendships and the role that they play in relationships. The two take a deep dive and unpack a moment when they had to navigate those waters, and it gets a little tense.</p><p> </p><p>The hosts will discuss the following:</p><p>·        The role friendships play in their lives, present day.</p><p>·        How new relationships can put a strain on friendships and vice versa.</p><p>·        Setting up healthy boundaries.</p><p>·         What makes a true friendship?</p><p>·        Friendships with exes.</p><p>·        And so much more</p><p>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a></p><p>Don’t forget to join the LIVE discussion on Facebook following each new episode on Wednesday at 8:30pm EST!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi discuss their non-negotiables in a relationship, but not before giving you one of the most memorable moments of the season! (7:30 mark) Once they make it past this hilarious moment, the host share: Their non-negotiablesThe importance of being flexibleExposing "the real you" early in a relationshipAnd as always, so much moreFollow us on social media: Facebook Instagram YouTube Don't forget to join the LIVE discussion on Facebook and YouTube fo...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi discuss their non-negotiables in a relationship, but not before giving you one of the most memorable moments of the season! (7:30 mark)<br/>Once they make it past this hilarious moment, the host share:</p><ul><li>Their non-negotiables</li><li>The importance of being flexible</li><li>Exposing &quot;the real you&quot; early in a relationship</li><li>And as always, so much more</li></ul><p>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a></p><p>Don&apos;t forget to join the LIVE discussion on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a> following each new episode on Wednesdays at 8:30p EST (ish)!</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a> (https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus)</p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi discuss their non-negotiables in a relationship, but not before giving you one of the most memorable moments of the season! (7:30 mark)<br/>Once they make it past this hilarious moment, the host share:</p><ul><li>Their non-negotiables</li><li>The importance of being flexible</li><li>Exposing &quot;the real you&quot; early in a relationship</li><li>And as always, so much more</li></ul><p>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a></p><p>Don&apos;t forget to join the LIVE discussion on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a> following each new episode on Wednesdays at 8:30p EST (ish)!</p><p><a href='https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus'>Support the show</a> (https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus)</p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text "What do you think about....?" is a question that Russell IV and Brandi get very often.  In this episode the hosts take a moment to address two topics that were submitted by their listeners, polygamy and loyalty!  *Squirrel Alert* The conversation takes an interesting turn and the hosts dive into topics like gender roles; which gender is the better communicator; daddy issues, and as always so much more.   Follow us on social media: Facebook Instagram YouTube Don't forget...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>&quot;What do you think about....?&quot; is a question that Russell IV and Brandi get very often.  In this episode the hosts take a moment to address two topics that were submitted by their listeners, polygamy and loyalty!<br/><br/>*Squirrel Alert*<br/>The conversation takes an interesting turn and the hosts dive into topics like gender roles; which gender is the better communicator; daddy issues, and as always so much more.<br/><br/> Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a></p><p>Don&apos;t forget to join the LIVE discussion on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a> following each new episode on Wednesdays at 8:30p EST (ish)!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>&quot;What do you think about....?&quot; is a question that Russell IV and Brandi get very often.  In this episode the hosts take a moment to address two topics that were submitted by their listeners, polygamy and loyalty!<br/><br/>*Squirrel Alert*<br/>The conversation takes an interesting turn and the hosts dive into topics like gender roles; which gender is the better communicator; daddy issues, and as always so much more.<br/><br/> Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a></p><p>Don&apos;t forget to join the LIVE discussion on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a> following each new episode on Wednesdays at 8:30p EST (ish)!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi make their way through an in-depth discussion on marriage and explore how their experiences have shaped their view on the subject.      The hosts will tackle the following: The pressure that is placed on couples to get marriedIs the pressure different for men and women?The perception of marriage in today's societyIs marriage necessary?Lessons learned from their 1st marriages and previous relationshipsDid divorce change their views o...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi make their way through an in-depth discussion on marriage and explore how their experiences have shaped their view on the subject.  <br/><br/>  The hosts will tackle the following:</p><ul><li>The pressure that is placed on couples to get married<ul><li>Is the pressure different for men and women?</li></ul></li><li>The perception of marriage in today&apos;s society<ul><li>Is marriage necessary?</li></ul></li><li>Lessons learned from their 1st marriages and previous relationships<ul><li>Did divorce change their views on marriage?</li></ul></li><li>And so much more </li></ul><p>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a></p><p>Don&apos;t forget to join the LIVE discussion on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a> following each new episode on Wednesdays at 9pm (ish)!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode, Russell IV and Brandi make their way through an in-depth discussion on marriage and explore how their experiences have shaped their view on the subject.  <br/><br/>  The hosts will tackle the following:</p><ul><li>The pressure that is placed on couples to get married<ul><li>Is the pressure different for men and women?</li></ul></li><li>The perception of marriage in today&apos;s society<ul><li>Is marriage necessary?</li></ul></li><li>Lessons learned from their 1st marriages and previous relationships<ul><li>Did divorce change their views on marriage?</li></ul></li><li>And so much more </li></ul><p>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a></p><p>Don&apos;t forget to join the LIVE discussion on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a> and <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a> following each new episode on Wednesdays at 9pm (ish)!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In the episode, you get to meet the host of What They Never Told Us.  Russell IV and Brandi welcome you to their new podcast with this introductory episode.    This episode contains:    More information on the hostPodcast ScheduleExamples of the topics to be discussedAnd so much more!Follow us on social media: Facebook Instagram YouTube   Support the show ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In the episode, you get to meet the host of What They Never Told Us.  Russell IV and Brandi welcome you to their new podcast with this introductory episode.  <br/><br/>This episode contains:<br/><br/><br/></p><ul><li>More information on the host</li><li>Podcast Schedule</li><li>Examples of the topics to be discussed</li><li>And so much more!</li></ul><p>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a><br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1844371/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In the episode, you get to meet the host of What They Never Told Us.  Russell IV and Brandi welcome you to their new podcast with this introductory episode.  <br/><br/>This episode contains:<br/><br/><br/></p><ul><li>More information on the host</li><li>Podcast Schedule</li><li>Examples of the topics to be discussed</li><li>And so much more!</li></ul><p>Follow us on social media:<br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspod'>Facebook</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast'>Instagram</a><br/><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIe_S7q4KiPt9ntCgw5goGg'>YouTube</a><br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://cash.app/whattheynevertoldus">Support the show</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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