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These retirees don't retire - they're more active than ever

Sun, 08 Mar 2026 13:00:00 +0000

The word “retire” means to rest, but in Germany, retirees have got it backwards: once they stop working, they’re busier than ever before

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Nostalgia for the pandemic

Mon, 02 Mar 2026 16:00:00 +0000

It has been six years since the world came to a standstill in the grip of the coronavirus. I wouldn’t want a repeat performance, but there were some positive aspects to it. One of them was how I no longer had to jostle for space. All at once, my American need for personal space – a lot more than what Germans need - had become the law.

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Rammed in a tram

Sun, 15 Feb 2026 09:00:00 +0000

The Munich public transport system has long since lost its good reputation. Even if you check the schedule, you may wind up standing for an hour on a platform when your train is canceled. But being stuck on a crowded tram offers a close-up view of a random sampling of its diverse inhabitants.

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Bad Bunny at the Superbowl? ¡Ay caramba!

Sun, 08 Feb 2026 14:00:00 +0000

What’s so strange about singing in Spanish? We all learned the lyrics to “Feliz Navidad” back when the only Spanish speaker around was José Feliciano. Foreign languages are fun, folks, and besides, it’s really about the music. Bad Bunny also sings in Puerto Rican slang, so it could very well be that Latinos don’t understand everything, either. A bit of a cultural adventure never hurt anyone.

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The one and only political doughnut

Sun, 01 Feb 2026 10:00:00 +0000

Germans are now confronting the fact that Christmas is over but winter is just getting underway. They console themselves by getting an early start celebrating carnival, which involves consuming large quantities of a special pastry, called Krapfen, to prepare for a period of fasting for Lent. True, hardly anybody fasts anymore, but no matter – Krapfen are delicious. Not only are these pastries popular, but their numbers also keep growing and more varieties are created every year.

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800 years of history found their way into my bike lock

Sat, 24 Jan 2026 18:00:00 +0000

You’re not supposed to use birthdates for passwords or combinations, so I used important historical dates. But as an American who lived in Spain and now lives in Germany, many dates stand out. Which led to a lot of problems when I tried to reconstruct the thought process behind my bike combination after returning from vacation…

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When life gives you lemons, it helps to recognize them

Sun, 18 Jan 2026 10:00:00 +0000

I was brimming with confidence that my French was good enough to navigate around southern France. But not only was my French not suffisant, my lack of botanical knowledge also got me into trouble. Merde!

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9 things you didn't know about Chicago

Sat, 10 Jan 2026 17:00:00 +0000

The windy city, indeed! But why windy? And who really caused the Great Fire - if you think it was a cow - then guess again!

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Blasting our way into the New Year

Sun, 28 Dec 2025 13:00:00 +0000

Germans are so careful about maintaining their cars and they build their houses so well that they are practically airtight. But on New Year’s Eve, their sense of caution quite literally vanishes into thin air in the form of fireworks.

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'Twas the Night Before Weihnachten

Sun, 21 Dec 2025 14:00:00 +0000

The Night Before Christmas by Clement Clarke Moore kicked off so many holiday trends, like the idea of a white Christmas (with a little help from Charles Dickens) and the idea (I mean revelation of course, for all of the six-year-olds reading this) that Santa brings toys at night in a sleigh.

I couldn’t resist rewriting it was a not-so-subtle Bavarian twist. I hope you enjoy it!

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Germany, Land of Christmas Markets

Sat, 13 Dec 2025 15:00:00 +0000

Nuremberg is world-famous for its Christmas market but every German town worth its gingerbread has one, too. It isn’t just tourists who flock there but locals, too, all hoping for a white Christmas to create the perfect mood. But this rarely happens. One contributor to the mystique of holiday snow is Charles Dickens’ The Pickwick Papers and the iconic classic, A Christmas Carol. Both featured harsh winters like those experienced by the author in his childhood in mid-19th century England.

Snow or not, after a few sips of holiday cheer it doesn’t make a difference. I visited a Christmas market in Regensburg, which has the perfect medieval setting to make you particularly nostalgic.

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The Several Santa Syndrome

Sat, 06 Dec 2025 18:00:00 +0000

Christmas is confusing enough with Santa, St. Nick, and Father Christmas. In Bavaria they also add the Christkind, the Christchild to the mix. Oh yes, and let’s not forget the three kings who arrive on Epiphany. It took me quite a while after arriving in Germany to figure out exactly which of these Christmas representatives would be bringing the presents. Of course, in the end it was me all along.

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The 37 Days of Christmas

Mon, 01 Dec 2025 11:00:00 +0000

Germans could never afford to celebrate a big holiday like Thanksgiving at the end of November the way Americans do. But there’s a good reason for this: They’re already getting all revved up for Christmas! Germans invented the car, truly a great achievement, but making Christmas last half the winter is at least on par with that.

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Thanksgiving - Not as traditional as you think

Wed, 26 Nov 2025 09:00:00 +0000

After moving to Germany, I was excited to recreate Thanksgiving the way I knew it from my childhood. But then I learned that the traditions I wanted to recreate were not as traditional as I thought.

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What happened to my pumpkin pie?

Sun, 16 Nov 2025 16:00:00 +0000

It's not a holiday without pumpkin pie, but what I bake is a far cry from my mother's version. I was shocked to discover that Germany didn’t have ready-made, canned pumpkin mix. This was followed by the equally shocking prospect of having to make pumpkin pie from scratch. Is that even possible? I was about to find out.

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Celebrating St. Martin - from the comfort of the couch

Sun, 09 Nov 2025 13:00:00 +0000

Americans celebrate fall with Halloween, but Germans have St. Martin. Children carry lit lanterns in processions through the dark, singing. It sounds so lovely, until you’re the one out there battling the cold wind to keep the lantern lit. After freezing to death a few times in icy November winds, I decided that this is a festival best enjoyed indoors.

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Warm and cozy? Time to open that window

Sun, 02 Nov 2025 16:00:00 +0000

If you’re just settling in on the couch, then don’t let any Germans into the room. They’ll open up all the windows to let in fresh air – regardless of the outside temperature.

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No Halloween? No way. My sneaky and successful plot

Sun, 26 Oct 2025 18:00:00 +0000

Some Germans celebrate Halloween, but not all of them. I was determined to find a way for my kids to enjoy it the way I did, spurring me to take some unusual action.

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Germans put the fun in fungi

Mon, 20 Oct 2025 16:00:00 +0100

My experience with mushrooms was confined to cans as a kid. In Germany, collecting them is a cherished hobby. But don’t bother asking anybody where to find them because they’d rather sacrifice their first-born before revealing their secret mushroom spot.

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The Nightmare of Motherhood in Germany

Thu, 25 Sep 2025 16:00:00 +0100

School has started, a good moment to consider the burden on mothers with children in German schools. The extra work required to support their children in German schools – or rather systems of schools - is so great that women from other countries literally do not believe it. Until reality hits.

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The tiniest stars of the Oktoberfest: Fleas

Sun, 21 Sep 2025 14:00:00 +0100

Oktoberfest may be famous for beer tents and oompah bands, but hidden among Munich’s festival rides and parades is a rare treasure: one of the world’s last flea circuses. From lederhosen and lively crowds to tiny insects pulling wagons, this unforgettable glimpse into Bavarian culture proves there’s more to Oktoberfest than a stein of beer.

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Linguistic sleight of hand - Bilingualism at any cost

Sun, 14 Sep 2025 17:00:00 +0100

Raising a family in Germany was a golden opportunity to raise my kids bilingually. I initially thought this meant just speaking to them in English, but reality proved to be a lot trickier. I discovered I had quite a few tricks up my sleeve.

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Kraut and about - The many Germans abroad

Sat, 06 Sep 2025 12:00:00 +0100

German immigrants used to flock to the U.S. They still go there in droves, but now they go back home again, as I discovered during my trip to New York. The Tenement Museum revealed how deep German history is woven into the fabric of the East Side of NYC

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Home sweet home - Only better

Sun, 24 Aug 2025 11:00:00 +0100

I fantasize about taking my kids back to where I grew up to show them the real America. Except when I arrive, it’s often to discover that many things have changed. Shops have disappeared, new restaurants have sprouted up. I may wax nostalgic, but were the old ways really better?

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The emotional baggage hidden in my giant suitcase

Mon, 11 Aug 2025 10:00:00 +0100

I used to feel sheepish whenever I took an overpacked suitcase home on a trip to the U.S. But when I thought about it more closely, I realized there was a very good reason for doing this.

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German overengineering takes helicopter mothering to new heights

Mon, 04 Aug 2025 18:00:00 +0100

Any foreigner in Germany knows all about the country’s love of overengineering. All it takes is trying to fill out a single form to get a residence permit. Less talked about is how German mothers also overengineer. Are they just responding to the system? I found out when my daughters started school.

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Getting lost the old-fashioned way

Mon, 28 Jul 2025 12:00:00 +0100

Those of us who predate GPS know how to get around without using technology. Knowing the points of the compass is helpful for navigating in an American city, but in Europe, the streets often date from the days of footpaths and donkey carts. These willy-nilly labyrinths can dead end, disappear or lead you in a circle. So how does a North American get around a European city?

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When life gives you lemons, it helps to recognize them

Mon, 21 Jul 2025 10:00:00 +0100

I thought my French was good enough to get me around southern France. But a one-letter mistake in a word sent me off on a wild goose chase – if that’s what you can call missing your stop on a bus.

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Hoodwinked by trusting naïvely in a native speaker

Sun, 13 Jul 2025 14:00:00 +0100

My trust in native speakers was boundless, and it caused me to maneuver myself into an excruciatingly embarrassing situation.

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Just ‘cause it’s American, Europeans ain’t buyin’ it

Sun, 06 Jul 2025 17:00:00 +0100

American companies have made serious inroads into the economies of Europe and elsewhere, but this has come at a cost. There have been some pretty big flops along the way as executives naively thought they could simply replicate the American marketing model in other countries without making any changes. Some of these misjudgments are rather entertaining, and with the introduction of a coffee/olive oil concoction by Starbucks in Italy, we witnessed yet another product derailment.

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Corn: Knee high on the 4th of July

Sun, 29 Jun 2025 14:00:00 +0100

It’s corn! I thought I had left that behind me in the Midwest. Nope. Right there, just a ten-minute walk from my suburban Munich apartment, the path goes straight through two cornfields. But the sight of these plants was not as familiar to everyone in my family, I learned.

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The strange cult of white asparagus

Sat, 14 Jun 2025 14:00:00 +0100

If you are in Munich and see people jostling for a spot in line at a produce stand, you can bet they’re queuing for white asparagus. Don’t bother telling them that the green kind is better, because the white stuff has cult status here.

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When a fight with your mom costs millions: acrimony at Aldi

Sat, 24 May 2025 15:00:00 +0100

There are grocery stores, and then there’s Aldi. In the decades since WWII, this discounter chain has not only won over the wallets of its customers but also their hearts. Faithful Aldi customers from all walks of life wouldn’t dream of shopping anywhere else. But behind the well-oiled Aldi machine, there is also plenty of intrigue in this family-owned empire.

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A fortune for footwear, or my kingdom for a sneaker

Sun, 18 May 2025 13:00:00 +0100

Imagine bending over to tie your shoe. Now imagine that this simple act would earn you millions of dollars. Yet this is just what Pelé did. The shoe: a Puma.

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How to get a stranger to show you their socks

Sat, 10 May 2025 00:00:00 +0100

Eyeglasses and watches used to be mundane utilitarian accessories until designers were invited to the table. The ordinary sock has now joined in on the game and is no longer a simple stocking, but a formidable fashion statement. And, as it turns out, an opportunity to have a little fun with a perfect stranger.

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A knack for snacks

Sat, 03 May 2025 16:00:00 +0100

When is a snack a meal? It depends on what country you’re in, as Germans discover when they go to America to find potato chips on their dinner plate. Europeans brought foods with them across the Atlantic but many of them were transformed into something new.

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German precision meets American vastness

Mon, 21 Apr 2025 11:00:00 +0100

Germans are usually so logical, it’s hard to believe how that can make misjudge distances so badly when they visit the U.S. But to be honest, it’s kind of gratifying.

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Bring out the Easter eggs – the girls are coming home

Sun, 13 Apr 2025 15:00:00 +0100

I first published this two years ago. COVID seems like a distant memory but reading this brings it all back.

Just as I was getting used to not being a mother, my COVID-harassed daughters came home - left - and came home - repeatedly. Now I'm trying to remember, what was it again that I always did for Easter?

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My cowboy boots didn’t fool the cowboy

Sun, 06 Apr 2025 09:00:00 +0100

I thought cowboy boots would help me develop my rodeo skills. An evening at the Grizzly Rose bar in Denver was enough to teach me otherwise.

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The French girl who wouldn't talk

Sun, 30 Mar 2025 12:00:00 +0100

Language class is where you learn to speak a language, but just memorizing vocabulary and practicing dictations won’t do the trick. I found a surprising way to get our exchange student to talk.

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How chicken legs, triangles and sphincters will make you laugh

Sun, 23 Mar 2025 11:00:00 +0000

The German language is very precise and detailed, sometimes to the extent that it goes well beyond being descriptive and descends into hilarity. Let’s take a closer look at some of the most outrageous examples.

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The 100 meters between fascism and democracy in Munich

Sun, 16 Mar 2025 12:00:00 +0000

On just a 10-minute walk through Munich, I passed by the places that witnessed three pivotal moments in the city’s history: the scene of the murder of the president of Bavaria’s first parliament just after the end of WWI, the site where the anti-Nazi White Rose movement came to an end, and finally, the site of Bavaria’s first parliament, which was obliterated in WWII.

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Land of the Free, Home of the Waste

Sat, 08 Mar 2025 21:00:00 +0000

The U.S. is not just a large country, everything in it seems bigger, too. This includes the huge piles of garbage created from every restaurant visit that are not recycled. For someone living in Germany, a country that prides itself on recycling, it takes all your willpower not to separate your garbage and instead put the whole pile straight into the garbage can. In the end, I found I just couldn’t do it.

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One foreigner is not like another - here's why

Sat, 01 Mar 2025 14:00:00 +0000

Germany has become a land of immigrants but is still grappling with this new identity. Munich’s population consisted of 30% foreigners in 2023 and has continued to grow. The perception and treatment of different nationalities is altered by what happens back in people’s home country. Little did I suspect that this would change how people see me, too.

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Not teaching foreign languages will make America more insular

Sun, 23 Feb 2025 15:00:00 +0000

Do you speak English? This question is often answered with “Yes” all around the world. Why bother learning another language if everyone speaks yours? Apparently, this is what many U.S. universities are thinking as they eliminate their foreign language programs. But this language hegemony leads to cultural ignorance, perhaps not an ideal state of affairs for a world power such as the U.S.

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Spicing up an e-mail is as easy as 1-2-3

Sat, 15 Feb 2025 14:00:00 +0000

Every language has its peculiarities, which should be respected. But when you translate into another language and aren’t careful, elements of the original one can remain. This can cause confusion or more often, simply make for a shoddy translation. To my horror, I recently spotted a peculiar strain of German called Beamtendeutsch creeping into English.

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Talk better - talk like a dog

Sun, 02 Feb 2025 18:00:00 +0000

We train dogs, but they have much to teach us. Babies are fluent in body language but over time it is sacrificed to verbal communication. Anyone with a pet pooch will confirm that our fluffy friends not only manage to express a myriad of emotions – but they can read ours, too. Time we learned a trick or two from them!

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What’s in a name? More than you think

Sun, 26 Jan 2025 15:00:00 +0000

People’s identities are tied up closely with their names. But even when you are careful to pronounce it correctly you can still get into trouble. In Germany, some people with doctoral degrees have two “doctors” in front of their names—a doctor to the second power, perhaps. And then some people have “baron” in their name but aren’t royalty, while other royals are six years old and wear sweatpants. But it was the guy with the perfect Italian name that did me in—it turned out to be German. Very German, in fact.

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Better than bread: Krapfen are the best excuse to fatten up

Sun, 19 Jan 2025 15:00:00 +0000

The Krapfen is the best thing since sliced bread - or in Bavaria, since the monks began brewing beer. During Carnival season or Fasching, the bakeries explode with these delicious pastries. But there's an interesting history behind them, too.

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Blasting our way into the New Year

Sun, 29 Dec 2024 13:00:00 +0000

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'Twas the Night Before Weihnachten

Sun, 22 Dec 2024 17:00:00 +0000

On a trip to the Christmas market in Munich, I was inspired by the holiday cheer and the number of foreign tourists and was especially impressed by their boisterous enthusiasm for holiday wares.

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Christmas cookies: Good, better, German

Sun, 15 Dec 2024 16:00:00 +0000

I loved Christmas cookies growing up and thought they were pretty good, but have since discovered that German holiday confectionary is in a league of its own – the premier league.

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The 37 Days of Christmas

Sun, 08 Dec 2024 18:00:00 +0000

Germans don’t celebrate Thanksgiving but they celebrate Christmas half the winter. Starting at the end of November with the first of Advent, it culminates on January 6th, Heilige Drei Könige, Three Kings’ Day, or Epiphany, which is the Eastern Orthodox Christmas, but Germans figured it’s another holiday—we’ll take it.

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What happened to my pumpkin pie?

Sun, 24 Nov 2024 15:00:00 +0000

I have cherished memories of holiday meals from my childhood. Certain foods were always on the table for Thanksgiving and Christmas, and it just wasn’t a festive spread without them. Pumpkin pie for dessert was a must. But that was many years ago and 8,000 kilometers across the Atlantic Ocean and the pie I bake today is quite different from the one my mother made.

Pumpkins originally come from America. Although first imported to Europe centuries ago, they were not always as popular as they are now, particularly in Germany. Also, Germany was not nearly as Americanized several decades ago as it is today. There were virtually no breakfast cereals on the shelves, hardly any American candy, fewer processed foods, and the basic ingredient for pumpkin pie was missing, too.

You might think that ingredient would be pumpkin, which is very wholesome of you and I encourage you to keep up your unprocessed diet principle of “no trash.” But when I was growing up, processed foods were all the rage. So in my family, we used what most people did to make pumpkin pie, lovingly referred to as “pumpkin stuff,” which was canned pumpkin. You just had to open the can (which we did with our automatic can opener, of course; wouldn’t want to exert too much effort for something we’re putting in our bodies), add spices, eggs, and condensed milk, pour it into a pie shell and bake it.

Welcome to 1970s American cuisine. It was a culinary Wild West of pre-packaged food, ready-made ingredients and unresearched chemicals. Yee-hah!

But not only did Germany have no pumpkin mix, they didn’t even have pumpkins. This is hard to fathom today, looking at the roadside tables here piled high with the giant orange fruit, just like in the U.S. It’s easy for me to wax nostalgic while standing at one of these tables, remembering the pumpkin patches at home—right up until a BMW or Mercedes roars up beside me, interrupting my reverie. This is Germany after all.

The large-scale cultivation of pumpkins became noticeable here at some point in the 1990s. But this was not to satisfy my craving for pumpkin pie but rather to bolster a growing Halloween tradition. There was money to be made. I quickly learned how to bake a pumpkin for a pie—and was embarrassed to discover how easy it was.

Feeling smug about this new expertise, during an October visit to my sister one year, I encouraged her to bake her Halloween pumpkin, too, instead of letting it rot on the front porch as usual. She thought I was out of my mind and told me so, inviting me with a sneer to do it myself.

“I’ll show her,” I thought. Not only did I bake it, I pureed it, divided it up into the cups of a muffin tin for freezing, then removed the frozen portions and stored them in a plastic bag. These would be perfect for use in pie or soup. Martha Stewart would have been proud. My 1970s-style-cooking mother would have been perplexed at all the effort.

But what I did not consider was my father, who was living with my sister at the time. Alone during the day, he would fix meals by scrounging around in the kitchen to see if there were any leftovers. After all, it’s a dad’s job to eat these leftovers—God forbid they learn how to cook mere decades after separating from their wives—and my father took that duty very seriously.

Now, what you must understand is that this was a man who insisted on eating burnt toast, which was fine, once you scraped off the ashes, even if what remained was only a third of the toast. He also made jumbo-sized bowls of popcorn that he would feed off of for a week, right down to the last stale kernel. In short, he was not the kind of person who questions food.

When my sister came home from work one day, he mentioned his latest culinary foray in her kitchen.“

Those muffins sure are funny tasting.”

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Germans put the fun in fungi

Sun, 17 Nov 2024 15:00:00 +0000

My experience with mushrooms was confined to cans as a kid. In Germany, collecting them is a cherished hobby – but don’t bother asking anybody where to find them because they aren’t telling.

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Celebrating St. Martin from the couch

Sun, 10 Nov 2024 12:00:00 +0000

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Halloween Goes Global

Wed, 30 Oct 2024 12:00:00 +0000

Halloween used to be unknown in Germany. That has changed and there are now pumpkins for sale on every street corner and sometimes kids go trick-or-treating too.

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Three cheers for the English language: Concise, neutral, to the point.

Sun, 20 Oct 2024 12:00:00 +0100

The English language has its downsides. But when you compare it to German, French and Spanish it suddenly looks surprisingly efficient and user-friendly.

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Noise in the modern world - from cacophonous to carefully controlled

Sun, 06 Oct 2024 15:00:00 +0100

It’s that time of year again: The leaf blowers are back! They add to an increasingly noisy world, but it’s also possible to create pleasant sounds or eliminate them altogether.

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When life gives you lemons, it helps to recognize them

Sun, 15 Sep 2024 16:00:00 +0100

I thought my French was good enough to get me around southern France. But language skills were not enough.

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Getting lost the old-fashioned way

Sun, 08 Sep 2024 11:00:00 +0100

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Emotional baggage - why I pack too much when I go home

Wed, 21 Aug 2024 15:00:00 +0100

I used to feel sheepish whenever I took an overpacked suitcase home on a trip to the U.S. But when I thought about it more closely, I realized there was a very good reason for doing this.

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Home sweet home - only better

Sun, 04 Aug 2024 10:00:00 +0100

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9 things you didn't know about Chicago

Sun, 28 Jul 2024 14:00:00 +0100

The real founding father
I just recently overcame my amazement that Alexander Hamilton was not Anglo-American but from the Caribbean island of Nevis, contrary to the lore of America’s Founding Fathers. Thanks to the musical, this has become common knowledge,.

But now I learn that Chicago was not founded by French fur traders but by Jean Baptiste Point du Sable, a black man from Haiti. Not until 2009 was a memorial erected for this pioneer, sponsored by another Haitian. Contemplating the bust of this man made me aware of how few memorials there are of non-whites. I was glad to see this one.

Windy City
Muttering at the cold wind while dragging a suitcase to my hotel, I kept telling myself not to be surprised. After all, Chicago is nicknamed “the Windy City.” But other cities in the U.S. are even breezier. “Windy” was an insult leveled at the city by its late 19th -century rival, Cincinnati, Ohio, particularly in reference to Chicago’s baseball team, the White Stockings, founded with the express purpose of defeating Cincinnati’s team, the Red Stockings. These names were later shortened to what we now know as the White Sox and Red Sox, to fit better into newspaper headlines.

The Great Chicago Fire
Every American schoolchild knows about the Great Chicago Fire of 1871 and what caused it: Mrs. O’Leary’s cow. This popular children’s song tells the story:

Late one night, when we were all in bed
Old Lady Leary lit a lantern in the shed
And when the cow kicked it over
She turned around and said
It’ll be a hot time in the old town tonight
FIRE! FIRE! FIRE!

Such a lovely little ditty. And so much fun to sing at summer camp, as I can attest to from personal experience. The only problem is that it is pure fiction, invented by a journalist desperate to deliver an interesting article, a tactic which has recently gained in popularity.

But seriously – all he could come up with was a cow?

If you’re going to make something up, you should plumb the depths of your creative well. I’d like to propose a few alternatives: Two teenagers dared each other to torch the house of the local oddball neighbor. Or: a train was running late and sped up so fast that its wheels caught on fire. Chicago was a rail hub then as now, so this version would track (heh- heh).

Another theory proposes that the fire was caused by meteorites that fell that night in Chicago and in other towns in neighboring states, where fires also occurred. The area was also suffering from a prolonged drought. Since everything –buildings, sidewalks, and bridges – was made of wood, the fire and a strong wind quickly burned through it all.

Who you callin’ Second City?
Chicago is called the “Second City.” This does not mean second to New York, and at this juncture, I wish to extend my most sincere apologies to New Yorkers; you have a great city and we all love it, but truly, it’s not the only one, and the fact that you refer to it as “the city” won’t make it so.

“Second City” refers to how Chicago rose from the ashes of the 1871 fire. Afterwards, Chicagoans did what German cities did after being bombed. They took out an old city map, gave it hard look, and said: “Eeehhh…we can do better.”

The architect Dankmar Adler then redesigned the city with a more generous layout, moving buildings back from the street and creating breathing room between them. This explains why I felt like I was in New York while walking around, but without the need to keep my elbows pinched against my ribs to prevent me from colliding with someone.

First a criminal, then a hero
Chicago’s architecture also profited from WWII in a surprising way. By banning the Bauhaus style of architecture, the Nazis sent the iconic architect Mies van der Rohe fleeing. Their loss was Chicago’s gain. His signature skyscrapers and those of his protégés now grace the banks of t

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The French Revolution you've never heard of - in the yard

Fri, 12 Jul 2024 15:00:00 +0100

France’s national holiday is Bastille Day, July 14th, which sparked a revolution that sent shock waves across Europe. But French culture had already been impacting many countries’ architecture, language, cuisine - and even your backyard – for centuries.

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Berlin - Lost and sometimes found

Fri, 12 Jul 2024 11:00:00 +0100

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The trillions of cicadas last seen by Thomas Jefferson

Thu, 09 May 2024 19:00:00 +0100

It’s been over 200 years since these two broods of cicadas hatched at the same time. Just by chance, I’ll be traveling right through the middle of the swarms.

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The strange cult of white asparagus

Sat, 27 Apr 2024 16:00:00 +0100

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Warm and cozy? Time to open that window

Sat, 30 Mar 2024 17:00:00 +0000

If you’re just settling in on the couch, then don’t let any Germans into the room. They’ll open up all the windows to let in fresh air – regardless of the outside temperature.

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How war shaped the Alter Südfriedhof, a historic cemetery in Munich

Thu, 15 Feb 2024 18:00:00 +0000

We are accustomed to seeing cemeteries full of tombstones honoring the dead from both world wars, but this cemetery stretches even farther back into the past. The French Revolution,

the ensuing Napoleonic Wars, and even the 30 years’ war left their mark on this historic cemetery. French generals have French Republican dates on their tombstones, now illegible to non-historians, and the woman who warned of Hitler’s evil intents—who went unheeded—is buried here, too.

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The Prussian rockstar in my wardrobe

Wed, 14 Feb 2024 18:00:00 +0000

An almost nostalgic story, written during the pandemic. Remember all those strange projects we took upon ourselves for lack of anything better to do? I discovered the strange parallels between my wardrobe and the methods of the famous German scientist and explorer, Alexander von Humboldt.

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Give us our daily bread, but please let it be German

Tue, 13 Feb 2024 18:00:00 +0000

You might think that Germans would mostly miss the beer when they go to the U.S. - but you'd be wrong. What they really pine after is German bread, which is so hearty you might want to refrain if you've just had dental work done. But foreigners living in German grow to love it, too, and woe to those who have to leave the country!

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The Superbowl is super in Germany, too

Sat, 10 Feb 2024 18:00:00 +0000

Germany is the land of soccer, especially in Munich, home of the world-famous FC Bayern. But American football has gain in popularity. Across the country, fans are gearing up for the Superbowl between the Kansas City Chiefs and the San Francisco 49ers.
I spoke with two Munich football fans, Stefan and his son Ben, to hear how they fell in love with this sport, despite the huge success of the local soccer team.

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Even better than bread: The best excuse to fatten up

Sat, 20 Jan 2024 16:00:00 +0000

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Talk better - talk like a dog

Tue, 09 Jan 2024 07:00:00 +0000

We train dogs, but they have much to teach us. Babies are fluent in body language but over time it is sacrificed to verbal communication. Studying the behavior of dogs gives clues to body language that will serve us well.

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Ring in the New Year and fire the firecrackers

Sun, 31 Dec 2023 13:00:00 +0000

The New Year means more than resolutions. All of Germany sets off firecrackers at midnight on December 31st. This has a huge negative impact on animals, people, and the environment. Calls for restricting or banning fireworks entirely are getting louder every year.

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'Twas the Night Before Weihnachten

Sat, 23 Dec 2023 16:00:00 +0000

On a trip to a Christmas market in Munich, I was inspired by The Night Before Christmas. Many parallels sprang to mind, but with throngs of last-minute shoppers, Christmas markets, and packed trains, I found myself wishing to be whisked away in a sleigh.

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Christmas cookies: Good, better, German

Sun, 17 Dec 2023 11:00:00 +0000

I loved Christmas cookies growing up and thought they were pretty good, but have since discovered that German holiday confectionary is in a league of its own – the premier league.

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What happened to Santa Claus?

Tue, 12 Dec 2023 09:00:00 +0000

Santa Claus, St. Nick, or the Christ child? The figure we associate with Christmas takes on many shapes and forms in different countries. In Germany, he also travels around with a partner who isn’t quite so nice named Knecht Ruprecht. The whole holiday is more complex than you’d think.

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Hot wine and cold toes

Sun, 03 Dec 2023 16:00:00 +0000

Christmas markets are popping up on every corner in Germany, including the medieval town of Regensburg and city of Munich, where they sell Christmas decorations and a few unexpected items like fake Fabergé eggs (somehow the Czar’s court got involved). The historic backdrop and mulled wine create a unique atmosphere that’s hard to beat.

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The 37 Days of Christmas

Sun, 26 Nov 2023 21:00:00 +0000

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If this is punctuality, my watch is broken

Sun, 19 Nov 2023 13:00:00 +0000

Germans have a reputation for being punctual, something which does not apply to its train system. During a recent train strike, it was striking (ahem) to note that many people felt there was not much difference to regular service. I’d say that’s a roundabout, polite way of saying that the trains just aren’t as reliable as they used to be. And that’s being overly polite, too.

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What happened to my pumpkin pie?

Sun, 12 Nov 2023 16:00:00 +0000

It's not a holiday without pumpkin pie, but what I bake is a far cry from what my mother's version. I was shocked to discover that Germany didn’t have ready-made, canned pumpkin mix. This was followed by the equally shocking prospect of having to make pumpkin pie from scratch. Quel horreur!

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Celebrating St. Martin from the comfort of the couch

Sun, 05 Nov 2023 11:00:00 +0000

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No Halloween? No way. My sneaky and successful plot

Sun, 29 Oct 2023 11:00:00 +0000

Some Germans celebrate Halloween, but not all of them. I was determined to find a way for my kids to enjoy it the way I did, spurring me to take some unusual action. I recreated the holiday faster than you can say “Boo!”

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The nightmare of motherhood in Germany

Fri, 20 Oct 2023 16:00:00 +0100

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Germans put the fun in fungi

Sun, 08 Oct 2023 11:00:00 +0100

My experience with mushrooms was confined to cans as a kid. In Germany, collecting them is a cherished hobby – but don’t bother asking anybody where to find them because they aren’t telling.

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‘Tis the season of the Wiesn: The Oktoberfest for locals and tourists

Sun, 01 Oct 2023 11:00:00 +0100

What some probably don’t realize is that, while the Oktoberfest is the biggest folk festival worldwide, it is very much still a local attraction as well as a draw for tourists. Even during the pandemic, without any assistance from people out of town, restaurants learned that people want to party whether the official event is on or not. This has become a permanent change.

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Spicing up an e-mail is as easy as 1-2-3

Sat, 23 Sep 2023 20:00:00 +0100

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The tiniest stars of the Oktoberfest live in a drawer

Sun, 17 Sep 2023 15:00:00 +0100

The Oktoberfest is synonymous with beer for most people. Yet half of the fairgrounds consists of roller coasters, kiddie cars, and shooting galleries—and what might possibly be the world’s last attraction of its kind: a flea circus.

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Get those escargots out of my lawnmower

Sun, 10 Sep 2023 11:00:00 +0100

You know Fall has arrived when the leaf blowers start blasting through the open window. But whose idea was it anyway to have lawns that need so much upkeep? French culture impacted many countries' languages and cuisine - and even the front yard.

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Protesting technology by battling bikes and coning cars

Sun, 03 Sep 2023 19:00:00 +0100

Munich had a run-in with e-bikes once a few years ago. They successfully battled the bikes—quite literally—and won, leaving mangled two-wheelers strewn all over the city. Some citizens in San Francisco are also unhappy with the city government’s decision to introduce self-driving taxis. They can’t throw them in the river, as residents of the Bavarian capital did with the bikes, but they found an intriguing and humorous way to tackle them all the same.

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Not teaching foreign languages will make America more insular

Sun, 27 Aug 2023 16:00:00 +0100

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What’s in a name? More than you think

Sun, 20 Aug 2023 10:00:00 +0100

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Getting lost the old-fashioned way

Sun, 13 Aug 2023 11:00:00 +0100

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Germans delight in overengineering, taking helicopter mothering to new heights

Sun, 06 Aug 2023 11:00:00 +0100

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Hitchhike to work? You bet – and in the most powerful city in the world

Sun, 30 Jul 2023 13:00:00 +0100

Gridlock is a word often used in connection with legislators in the U.S. Congress, but for people who work in the Washington, DC area it brings something else to mind: the terrible traffic situation. But Yankee ingenuity has carried far south enough to inspire commuters to a brilliant solution to allow more cars into the carpool lane.

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Munich comes full circle: From putsch to rabbi conference

Sun, 23 Jul 2023 11:00:00 +0100

The hand of history has done its work on the city of Munich. Named after the monks that founded it, it was disgraced by its role in vaulting the Nazis to power. Many decades later, it has just been chosen as the training site for European rabbis. Munich has not only redeemed itself but become an important center for Jewish culture.

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The Berlin Airlift: Reflecting on 75 Years of Historical Significance

Sat, 15 Jul 2023 11:00:00 +0100

It is astounding how places can change over time, sometimes transforming from sites of great trauma into parks where people take walks, barbecue, or fly kites in peaceful skies. Berlin is full of such spots, and the old Tempelhof airport is one of the most fraught locations of WWII and intricately interwoven with the start of the Cold War.

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Landshuter Hochzeit: The most theatrical wedding this side of the 15th century

Sat, 08 Jul 2023 14:00:00 +0100

Imagine if your wedding were so spectacular that people would want not just to reenact it, but turn it into a month-long spectacle. Introducing: the Landshuter Hochzeit, the recreation of a wedding that took place in the 15th century, complete with a bridal couple in a gilded carriage pulled by noble steeds. But don’t bother getting dressed up – costumes are reserved for the knaves, damsels and knights. You can console yourself with a mug of the beer that is specially brewed for this event.

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Knee-high on the 4th of July

Sat, 01 Jul 2023 15:00:00 +0100

I fully expected a lot of cultural differences when I moved to Germany. They speak with lots of umlauts and guttural noises, their cake is superior and the coffee twice as strong. Make that three times as strong. They also have the supreme luxury of public transport and some people don’t even own cars. But I never thought that as an American suburbanite, I would be considered a country girl. A series of unrelated incidents showed me why.

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To Bavaria with love, infused with dialect for language nerds

Sun, 25 Jun 2023 14:00:00 +0100

It is best to learn the standard version of a language, but what if you can’t differentiate between what is dialect and standard? In a bizarre twist of events, I speak more German dialect than my daughters even though they were born here. A close look at Munich’s and Germany’s history reveals how this could happen.

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Quit the tomfoolery - I'm sure I don't know you

Sun, 18 Jun 2023 16:00:00 +0100

The pandemic is over, but its effects continue - sometimes in strange ways. I got used to wearing a mask and seeing others wear them but didn’t realize that taking them off would have some unexpected consequences.

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A fortune for footwear, or my kingdom for a sneaker

Sun, 11 Jun 2023 16:00:00 +0100

There was a lot of hullabaloo when Adidas dropped its sponsorship of the rapper Ye for his antisemitic and racist remarks, a deal worth hundreds of millions of euros. But people might not realize that such sponsorships have a colorful history.

On this episode of www.expatchatter.net, we delve deep into the fascinating backstory of two of the biggest sports brands in the world - Adidas and Puma. Join us as we explore how a family feud caused the split of the two companies, leading to a bitter rivalry that lasted for decades. We'll also discuss how the town where they are both based became divided, with people using shoes to determine which company they supported. From sponsorship deals with famous athletes to ties with Nazi Germany, this is a complicated story of family politics, business acumen, and the power of branding.

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Watch out! Augsburg joined forces with the Swedes

Sat, 03 Jun 2023 17:00:00 +0100

Companies sometimes use shady tactics to gain the upper hand in a market. But this is nothing new. In the past, one city even went so far as to burn down their competitors’ town. Cutthroat competition doesn’t get any worse than that.

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One foreigner is not like another - here's why

Sat, 27 May 2023 16:00:00 +0100

Germany has become a land of immigrants but is still grappling with this new identity. Munich’s population consisted of 28% foreigners in 2021 and has continued to grow. The perception and treatment of different nationalities is altered by what happens back in people’s home country. Little did I suspect that this would change how people see me, too.

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Munching my way to Munich, one chaotic airport at a time

Sun, 21 May 2023 10:00:00 +0100

There’s a lot to be said for approaching challenging situations with the right attitude, which is called reframing. On a recent trip across the Atlantic, I had my reframing capabilities put to a serious test, but I passed with flying colors. Although I’m not 100% sure of this, because by the time I got home, I was no longer able to think straight.

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Are you sure that’s what that sign means?

Sun, 14 May 2023 11:00:00 +0100

Signs are there for the express purpose of helping you find your way. They tell you where you are or which direction to take. But signs in a foreign country, even or especially when you think you understand them, can get you into a lot of trouble.

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Don't look now, but there's a shark at your feet

Sun, 07 May 2023 09:00:00 +0100

Everybody has their idea of a perfect vacation. I enjoy the ocean, but I don’t have any particular need to get down into it and rub elbows with the creatures of the deep – or fins, as the case may be. So how did I wind up snorkeling in the Atlantic Ocean, looking for sharks, of all things?

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This cheap ticket is amazing, but I missed my connection

Mon, 01 May 2023 14:00:00 +0100

Germany already experimented with a cheap train ticket last summer. People loved it so much that as soon as summer ended, they started clamoring for a repeat performance. So now we’re getting another one, but a cheap ticket doesn’t compensate for the real problem with the rail system.

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Land of the free, home of the waste

Sun, 23 Apr 2023 14:00:00 +0100

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How to get a stranger to voluntarily show you their socks

Sat, 15 Apr 2023 18:00:00 +0100

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Bring out the Easter eggs – the girls are coming home

Sat, 08 Apr 2023 17:00:00 +0100

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9 things you didn't know about Chicago

Sun, 02 Apr 2023 13:00:00 +0100

Chicago was named by French fur traders who founded the city, which was destroyed by a big fire started by a cow. It is the windiest city in the country and is called Second City, trailing behind New York. So goes popular wisdom; but popular is not the same as true. All of these things are wrong.

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Home sweet home - only better

Sat, 01 Apr 2023 14:00:00 +0100

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A knack for snacks

Sat, 01 Apr 2023 08:00:00 +0100

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If an alien landed in New York

Thu, 30 Mar 2023 20:00:00 +0100

New York feels like another world compared to Munich. Many elements are obvious and in plain sight, but the essence of the city is more elusive. New Yorkers are different from Munich residents in so many ways. We discovered a few hidden gems on a recent visit.

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Just ‘cause it’s American, Europeans ain’t buyin’ it

Mon, 06 Mar 2023 01:00:00 +0000

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When a fight with your mom costs millions: acrimony at Aldi

Sat, 25 Feb 2023 16:00:00 +0000

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The Super Bowl and other American sports make a touchdown in Germany

Sun, 12 Feb 2023 11:00:00 +0000

Many Americans think their sports are “all American” but football and baseball have long been a popular export. Millions of people across the world watch the Super Bowl. As an American raising my kids in Germany, I did my best to include basic sports knowledge and felt I had succeeded, at least until my daughter actually attended a baseball game and experienced the real thing.

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The Nightmare of Motherhood in Germany

Fri, 10 Feb 2023 16:00:00 +0000

Germany has the reputation of having generous social programs, with vivid descriptions such as "cradle-to-grave" care. This makes it sound as if the state holds your hand and guides you gently through a carefree life. At the very latest when you try to navigate the German school system, comes a much different, sobering reality. At its core, the school system dates to the late 19th century and it shows.

Mothers are tasked with filling in the many gaps left by the schools to try to shepherd their children through the system.

This constitutes hidden discrimination against women, as the burden is so great that many are forced to reduce to part-time work or quit altogether. Children from lower-income families whose mothers cannot afford to stop working usually fare much worse in school than classmates who are better off.

Until Germany modernizes its school system, there is no hope of creating real equal opportunity for women.

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Look here, U.S. election deniers – Berlin bungled it big time

Sun, 05 Feb 2023 11:00:00 +0000

The press and social media are still abuzz with deniers of the U.S. elections in 2020, despite the lack of proof. Yet across the ocean – in Germany of all places, that paragon of efficiency – Berlin stands out as the shining star of inefficiency, corruption, and slothful administration. Enjoying favored status since WWII, it was deluged with subsidies to keep it a viable city. Over 30 years later, it still has not overcome a mentality of handouts and graft. Its new airport will forever serve as a monolith to ineptitude, and in a few days it must repeat elections in 2021 that were botched so badly they were declared invalid.

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Even better than bread: the best excuse to fatten up, complete with cream filling

Sun, 29 Jan 2023 11:00:00 +0000

January is when Germans confront the fact that Christmas is over but winter is just getting underway. They console themselves by getting an early start celebrating carnival, which involves consuming large quantities of a special pastry, called Krapfen, to prepare for a period of fasting for Lent. True, hardly anybody fasts anymore, but no matter – Krapfen are delicious. Not only are these pastries popular, but their numbers also keep growing and more varieties are created every year.

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The new, improved me – courtesy of the EU-conform driver's license

Fri, 20 Jan 2023 12:00:00 +0000

For years, I suffered from the lousy picture I had taken for my German license, not knowing I would have this document for decades. Trying to rent a car, get into a night club or bar, or even just have breakfast in a government building in Washington turned into an embarrassing experience when I had to show my picture ID. But in the end, this old-fashioned, pink cardboard license had some unexpected positive side effects.

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Catapulting the plague into Europe and other viral tales

Sun, 15 Jan 2023 08:00:00 +0000

The coronavirus isn’t the first disease that jumped from animals to humans. This is historically the way that many of the communicable diseases that plague humankind have spread, beginning with the plague. It was when humans became sedentary and first figured out how to domesticate animals, confining them to small spaces – and often living with them in the same quarters – that veritable breeding grounds for germs were created. The Wuhan market is just one in a long line of such incidents.

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Belt out “Walk the Line” all you want, but walking in the U.S. is not an option

Sun, 08 Jan 2023 16:00:00 +0000

Long gone are the days when you could walk down to the local five-and-dime store to buy anything. These days, no matter what you want to buy, you’re going to have to drive.

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Blasting our way into the New Year

Sat, 31 Dec 2022 16:00:00 +0000

Germans are so careful about maintaining their cars and build their houses so well that they are practically airtight. But on New Year’s Eve, their sense of caution quite literally vanishes into thin air.

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Christmas cookies: good, better, and German

Sun, 18 Dec 2022 18:00:00 +0000

I loved Christmas cookies growing up and thought they were pretty good, but have since discovered that German holiday confectionary is in a league of its own – the premier league.

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The best show the World Cup has to offer is outside the stadiums

Sun, 11 Dec 2022 19:00:00 +0000

The news is all abuzz about the World Cup games in Qatar, but the coolest action is taking place outside the stadiums.

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What happened to my pumpkin pie?

Sun, 04 Dec 2022 11:00:00 +0000

It wouldn’t be a holiday without pumpkin pie, but what I bake today is a far cry from what my mother used to put in the oven.

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The 100 meters between fascism and democracy in Munich

Sun, 27 Nov 2022 09:00:00 +0000

On just a 10-minute walk through Munich, I passed a murder scene leading to the end of Bavaria’s first parliament, an infamous chapter of WWII and the rebirth of Bavaria’s democracy.

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Led astray by my naïve trust in a native speaker, but I should have known better

Sat, 19 Nov 2022 14:00:00 +0000

My trust in native speakers was boundless, and it caused me to maneuver myself into an excruciatingly embarrassing situation

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In not-so-hot pursuit of the Way of St. James

Sun, 13 Nov 2022 16:00:00 +0000

Somehow I keep coming across the camino or Way of St. James, leading to surprising encounters on rural country roads in Spain and urban squares in Munich.

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What is the Inquisition doing in 21st-century America?

Sun, 06 Nov 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Looking at U.S. politics over the past few years, Germans recognize many patterns from the Third Reich. One of these is the banning of books.

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No Halloween? No way. My sneaky plot

Sun, 30 Oct 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Some Germans celebrate Halloween, but not all of them. I was determined to find a way for my kids to enjoy it the way I did, spurring me to take some unusual action.

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Noise in the modern world—from cacophonous to carefully controlled

Sun, 23 Oct 2022 18:00:00 +0100

It’s that time of year again: The leaf blowers are back! They add to an increasingly noisy world, but it’s also possible to create pleasant sounds or eliminate them altogether.

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Three cheers for English: Concise, neutral, to the point.

Sun, 16 Oct 2022 19:00:00 +0100

English has its downsides. But when you compare it to German, French, and Spanish it suddenly looks surprisingly efficient and user-friendly.

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Welcome back, fleas! The Oktoberfest is on

Sat, 08 Oct 2022 15:00:00 +0100

Following a three-year hiatus, Munich’s favorite party returned. Corona didn’t dampen people’s spirits, but I wondered if the fleas survived the long stretch.

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When life gives you lemons, it helps to recognize them

Mon, 03 Oct 2022 13:00:00 +0100

I thought my French was good enough to get me around southern France. But language skills were not enough.

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Germans put the fun in fungi

Sat, 24 Sep 2022 15:00:00 +0100

My experience with mushrooms was confined to cans as a kid. In Germany, collecting them is a cherished hobby – but don’t bother asking anybody where to find them because they aren’t telling.

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50 years later – Triumph and tragedy of the Munich Olympics Part II: Tragedy

Sat, 17 Sep 2022 15:00:00 +0100

The 1972 Munich Olympic Games brought many long-lasting improvements to the city, but they were overshadowed by a tragic terrorist attack.

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50 years later: The triumph and tragedy of the Munich Olympics Part one: Triumph

Thu, 08 Sep 2022 18:00:00 +0100

It’s been 50 years since the Munich Olympics were held, but their impact lives on in both triumph and tragedy. Part I – Triumph.

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How chicken legs, triangles and sphincters will make you laugh

Sun, 04 Sep 2022 18:00:00 +0100

The German language is very precise and detailed, sometimes to the extent that it goes well beyond being descriptive and descends into hilarity.

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The French girl who wouldn't talk

Sat, 27 Aug 2022 08:00:00 +0100

Language class is where you learn to speak a language, but just memorizing vocabulary and practicing dictations won’t do the trick. I found a surprising way to get our exchange student to talk.

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Linguistic sleight of hand - bilingualism at any cost

Sat, 20 Aug 2022 13:00:00 +0100

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The Ukraine invasion made it dangerous to be a Russian abroad

Mon, 15 Aug 2022 13:00:00 +0100

It’s funny, but when you go abroad, you are suddenly expected to be fully informed about activities in your home country. Worse still, you are often held responsible for their shenanigans, especially abroad.

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On the train to everywhere - Germany's €9 ticket and the surprising consequences

Sun, 07 Aug 2022 15:00:00 +0100

The next best thing to free is Germany’s €9 ticket. Apart from motivating even motorheads to hop on the train, it has inspired a few surprising insights and may even have a permanent impact on Germany’s urban transport.

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Bombs away! The WWII gift that keeps on giving

Sat, 30 Jul 2022 10:00:00 +0100

The same things that make mothers worry often provide the most valuable lessons to their children. Leftover bombs from WWII provided just such a harrowing but valuable learning opportunity.

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If this is punctuality, my watch is broken

Sat, 23 Jul 2022 12:00:00 +0100

Germany has the reputation of being punctual and reliable. But recent snafus in city planning are putting a big dent into that image.

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Trainin' the Ukrainians - Refugees in the classroom

Mon, 18 Jul 2022 14:00:00 +0100

There are millions of Ukrainian refugees in Germany, and I decide to help out by teaching a German class. It was nothing like teaching English and demanded more of my creativity than I had imagined.

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Emotional baggage: why I pack too much on trips home

Sat, 09 Jul 2022 08:00:00 +0100

I used to feel sheepish whenever I took an overpacked suitcase home on a trip to the U.S. But when I thought about it more closely, I realized there was a very good reason for doing this.

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My cowboy boots didn't fool the cowboy

Wed, 06 Jul 2022 20:00:00 +0100

I thought cowboy boots would help me develop my rodeo skills. An evening at the Grizzly Rose bar in Denver was enough to teach me otherwise.

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Kraut and about – what are all those Germans doing abroad?

Tue, 05 Jul 2022 21:00:00 +0100

German immigrants used to flock to the U.S. They still go there in droves, but now they go back home again, as I discovered during my trip to New York.

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On the (Same) Road Again

Mon, 04 Jul 2022 13:00:00 +0100

I used to get lost all the time, but that all changed when GPS technology came along. At least, that was the expectation. Reality proved to be a different story.

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The Great Resignation is leading to great consternation

Sun, 03 Jul 2022 11:00:00 +0100

The staffing shortage in the U.S. and Europe was visible everywhere during my recent trip and culminated in an arduous trip home with an unintentionally long stay at Heathrow Airport. But it also afforded the opportunity to observe some colorful aspects of human behavior.

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In awe of Colorado's awesome athletes

Sat, 02 Jul 2022 16:00:00 +0100

Hiking and biking regularly might lead you to believe you’re in good shape. If you wish to test that hypothesis, just come and pit yourself against the Coloradans who tackle fourteeners every weekend.

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The travails of travel, from Mozart to the moon

Thu, 02 Jun 2022 21:00:00 +0100

I was tempted to feel sorry for myself when my plane was delayed by a storm. And then I remembered the travails of the Mozart family during their European travels.

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Follow the Narrow Brick Road - and hope for the best

Sat, 21 May 2022 15:00:00 +0100

A man was recently caught on camera driving a Maserati down the famous Spanish steps in Rome. It seemed so silly to me that someone would drive a car down an old cobblestone street, until I remembered a recent escapade of my own in an old Spanish town.

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Think digital technology is a cure-all? Don't bet your life on it

Wed, 18 May 2022 18:00:00 +0100

A WWII air raid siren startled me once while I waited for a train. Such an old technology could certainly be replaced with something better. At least that’s what I thought until a real emergency cropped up.

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What's that schmuck doing in the jewelry store?

Wed, 11 May 2022 15:00:00 +0100

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Karl Marx’s penguin and Richard Wagner’s design for Madonna’s corset

Tue, 03 May 2022 08:00:00 +0100

A Berlin museum juxtaposes Karl Marx and Richard Wagner. The exhibition is supposed to highlight their differences. Instead, I found many intriguing similarities.

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Ukraine on the train - from a military to a cultural conflict

Sun, 24 Apr 2022 20:00:00 +0100

Taking the train home from Berlin, some Ukrainians boarded the train. Watching their interactions with the conductor reminded me of my first experience taking German trains and other cultural mishaps

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Juggling work and family, German minister drops the ball

Mon, 18 Apr 2022 19:00:00 +0100

German minister for the family Anne Spiegel recently resigned after major errors of judgment. Did her family responsibilities overwhelm her, like they do so many women - still?

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Bring out the Easter eggs, the kids are coming home

Sun, 10 Apr 2022 16:00:00 +0100

Just as I was getting used to not being a mother, my COVID-harassed daughters came home - left - and came home repeatedly. Their pre-Easter visit has made me once again resurrect my mother persona.

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The ladies, the rest home, and the bombs

Sat, 02 Apr 2022 15:00:00 +0100

The oldest residents of a rest home suddenly developed mild illnesses. They all shared a trauma from the distant past that had suddenly been revived overnight.

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Aren't you glad you bought that orange car after all?

Mon, 28 Mar 2022 15:00:00 +0100

The sky was suddenly a muddy orange, but what was causing it. I had an idea, but the thought was too scary to consider.

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That map might just quash your travel plans - so focus on fun instead

Sat, 19 Mar 2022 13:00:00 +0000

Germans are usually so logical, it’s hard to believe how that can make such planning errors when they visit the U.S. Kind of gratifying, though.

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The distant agony of past wars is suddenly revived by the attack on Ukraine

Sun, 13 Mar 2022 11:00:00 +0000

The five German cities I visited on a college tour with my daughter were all steeped in the history from WWII or the Cold War – or both. Russia’s invasion of Ukraine has triggered the largest influx of refugees in Europe since WWII into these same cities.

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The two dots that will make or break you

Wed, 09 Mar 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Speaking a foreign language can be tricky. Sometimes it can also get you into trouble - serious trouble. German umlauts - those two dots on some vowels. are often the culprit

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You think your vacation was spectacular. Don't make me yawn

Wed, 02 Mar 2022 14:00:00 +0000

Germans, the travel experts. If you want to know something about your own country, just ask a German. They probably know it better than you.

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Canada oh Canada, what have you done?

Sun, 20 Feb 2022 20:00:00 +0000

Canada and New Zealand were bastions of rationality until the trucker protests broke out. Should we turn to bonobo monkeys for better behavior advice?

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Get that rotten banana peel out of the plastic recycling

Tue, 15 Feb 2022 17:00:00 +0000

California may have Silicon Valley, Hollywood and even Arnold Schwarzenegger, but Germany is way ahead of them in the recycling game. Being the land of engineers, they have taken recycling to a higher form of science.

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AI may be cutting edge but it still ain't perfect

Sun, 13 Feb 2022 19:00:00 +0000

AI has come a long way in helping make work easier, but it still makes mistakes. Sometimes some very funny mistakes.

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The queen turns out to be a football

Sun, 30 Jan 2022 15:00:00 +0000

The strangest things happen when words make the transition from one language to another. They might retain their original meaning, but often enough they take on entirely new lives of their own, sometimes with odd consequences indeed.

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800 years of history found their way into my bike lock

Fri, 21 Jan 2022 19:00:00 +0000

I thought using historic dates to remember my lock combinations was a great idea. But if you're a history buff, this can go seriously awry. Which is more important, the Magna Carta or the Spanish Armada? Or was it the Declaration of Independence? All the while, there I stand, twirling the numbers on my combination lock, unable to ride my bike.

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The 10 kilometers that triggered Acute License Plate Trauma

Sat, 15 Jan 2022 13:00:00 +0000

Moving just 10 km beyond the Munich city borders put us in the suburbs, but the small town of Zorneding has some surprising secrets, even for big city dwellers.

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Can your dog help you improve communication? Yip!

Thu, 06 Jan 2022 17:00:00 +0000

One-third of women indicated in a survey cited by Adam Grant that they thought their pets were better listeners than their partners. A good reason to take a look at what dogs are doing better!

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How to beat the virus in 2022

Fri, 31 Dec 2021 12:00:00 +0000

There is probably a whole slew of new virus variants in 2022. So let's just do what Sleeping Beauty did and sleep through it.

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Four child-rearing tricks for four ages - Fun, simple and powerful

Wed, 10 Nov 2021 09:00:00 +0000

The only consistent thing about raising children is that it is constantly changing. As soon as you think you have it figured out, they’re a year older and you’re back at square one. A little creativity can go a long way while making things fun at the same time. Here are four hacks taken from four different mothers and children of four different ages. They can help you, too.

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I tried to escape the Oktoberfest. I failed.

Fri, 15 Oct 2021 20:00:00 +0100

Munich cancelled the Oktoberfest for the second year in a row, but people celebrated anyway. Little did I suspect that on a trip to Berlin, I would find people getting in on the fun - but not exactly in an authentic way...

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The Library, the Monk and the Sandals

Tue, 14 Sep 2021 19:00:00 +0100

This stunning Baroque library tucked away in a monastery in a Bavarian village is the unlikely site of any kind of drama. That is, until the year 1802. Napoleon’s conquest of Europe had profound effects that reached all the way to this quiet place. But what does the Corsican general have to do with libraries?

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The 400-year-old Marketing Flop You've Never Heard Of

Thu, 26 Aug 2021 17:00:00 +0100

Marketing is considered to be an American invention. There have also been a few spectacular marketing flops by American companies, such as GM's Nova in Puerto Rico (the car that "doesn't go"). Then there's the fizzy drink that was introduced in China as "Bite the wax tadpole," commonly known as Coca-Cola. But there is one astonishing marketing ploy that flopped in Germany, hundreds of years ago, that few people are aware of.

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Get those escargots out of my lawnmower

Sun, 22 Aug 2021 11:00:00 +0100

The French have given us many beautiful things, from language to architecture. Little did the English know what was ahead when William the Conqueror crossed the Channel in 1066. France's influence didn't stop there. The impact on culture was felt throughout the European continent. Explorers and settlers packed it in their bags to the New World. But there is one cultural norm from the French that may come as a surprise.

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