Akiona Law Podcast Sun, 08 Mar 2026 16:19:32 -0400 https://www.buzzsprout.com/1829199 en-us © 2026 Akiona Law Podcast yes 0e8a0da5-5409-5b5f-9c00-7db581473e86 Ululani Akiona, Esq. episodic false Join us as founding attorney Lani Akiona interviews industry experts on everything you need to know about Family Law and Divorce in Seattle Washington. Akiona Law: Caring for You in Your Time of Crisis.https://www.akionalaw.com/**The information in this podcast is general information only and should not, in any respect, be relied on as specific legal advice.

]]> Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com) Ululani Akiona, Esq. https://storage.buzzsprout.com/xrfsagwjzyyqgtysu60ueuewjrlb?.jpg Akiona Law Podcast The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Beth Hirnle The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Beth Hirnle In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Ululani “Lani“ Akiona, speaks with Emotion-Focused Trained Counselor and Collaborative Divorce Coach, Beth Hirnle. Beth is a board member of King County Collaborative Law (KCCL), and a member of Collaborative Professionals of WA (CPW), International Academy of Collaborative Professionals (IACP), and Association of Family and Conciliation Courts (AFCC).  

Beth and Lani dive into the transformative role of a collaborative divorce coach. Beth explains how collaborative divorce coaches manage the emotional dynamics and communications between couples. When children are involved, a collaborative divorce coach supports the transition from spouses to co-parents. She describes how coaches work alongside legal and financial professionals to create comprehensive divorce solutions that focus on the parties' long-term well-being. Beth emphasizes collaborative divorce coaches are not therapists. Instead, a collaborative divorce coach provides tools and strategies for effective communication during the divorce process, helping couples make informed decisions while maintaining respect and dignity. Lani’s conversation with Beth highlights how divorce coaches add value by making the process more efficient and cost-effective, while also providing support to the parties through individual meetings separate from the main collaborative team sessions. 

Website: https://www.bethhirnlecoaching.com/

]]> In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Ululani “Lani“ Akiona, speaks with Emotion-Focused Trained Counselor and Collaborative Divorce Coach, Beth Hirnle. Beth is a board member of King County Collaborative Law (KCCL), and a member of Collaborative Professionals of WA (CPW), International Academy of Collaborative Professionals (IACP), and Association of Family and Conciliation Courts (AFCC).  

Beth and Lani dive into the transformative role of a collaborative divorce coach. Beth explains how collaborative divorce coaches manage the emotional dynamics and communications between couples. When children are involved, a collaborative divorce coach supports the transition from spouses to co-parents. She describes how coaches work alongside legal and financial professionals to create comprehensive divorce solutions that focus on the parties' long-term well-being. Beth emphasizes collaborative divorce coaches are not therapists. Instead, a collaborative divorce coach provides tools and strategies for effective communication during the divorce process, helping couples make informed decisions while maintaining respect and dignity. Lani’s conversation with Beth highlights how divorce coaches add value by making the process more efficient and cost-effective, while also providing support to the parties through individual meetings separate from the main collaborative team sessions. 

Website: https://www.bethhirnlecoaching.com/

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-18624826 Thu, 05 Feb 2026 08:00:00 -0800 2615 39 full false The Akiona Law Podcast: Parenting Plan Series with Meg Gluckman Part 4 The Akiona Law Podcast: Parenting Plan Series with Meg Gluckman Part 4 In the final installment of our four-part series on parenting plans, Akiona Law Podcast host Ululani "Lani" Akiona and co-parenting coach and host of “Welcome to the Other Side” podcast, Meg Gluckman explore crucial aspects like child safety, effective communication strategies between parents and children, and maintaining open dialogue about family values. Lani and Meg provide practical advice for managing school and medical appointments, introducing new partners, and customizing plans to fit your family's unique traditions. 

Update 8/19/2025: Since the recording of that podcast, Washington courts have released a new parenting plan form.

Specifically, the section we referred to as "Section 14. Other" in the podcast is now designated as “Section 10. Other” in the court’s new parenting plan form.

]]> In the final installment of our four-part series on parenting plans, Akiona Law Podcast host Ululani "Lani" Akiona and co-parenting coach and host of “Welcome to the Other Side” podcast, Meg Gluckman explore crucial aspects like child safety, effective communication strategies between parents and children, and maintaining open dialogue about family values. Lani and Meg provide practical advice for managing school and medical appointments, introducing new partners, and customizing plans to fit your family's unique traditions. 

Update 8/19/2025: Since the recording of that podcast, Washington courts have released a new parenting plan form.

Specifically, the section we referred to as "Section 14. Other" in the podcast is now designated as “Section 10. Other” in the court’s new parenting plan form.

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-17636214 Tue, 12 Aug 2025 07:00:00 -0700 2973 38 full false The Akiona Law Podcast: Parenting Plan Series with Meg Gluckman Part 3 The Akiona Law Podcast: Parenting Plan Series with Meg Gluckman Part 3 In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast,  host Ululani "Lani" Akiona is joined once again by Meg Gluckman, divorce and co-parenting coach and host of "Welcome to the Other Side" podcast. In this third episode of the parenting plan series, Lani and Meg dive deep into dispute resolution within your parenting plan. They'll explore both informal and formal conflict resolution methods you can specify to navigate disagreements. Tune in as they break down key approaches like mediation, arbitration, and counseling, providing valuable insights on how to foster effective co-parenting.

 Update 8/19/2025: Since the recording of that podcast, Washington courts have released a new parenting plan form.

Specifically, the section we referred to as "Section 14. Other" in the podcast is now designated as “Section 10. Other” in the court’s new parenting plan form.

]]> In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast,  host Ululani "Lani" Akiona is joined once again by Meg Gluckman, divorce and co-parenting coach and host of "Welcome to the Other Side" podcast. In this third episode of the parenting plan series, Lani and Meg dive deep into dispute resolution within your parenting plan. They'll explore both informal and formal conflict resolution methods you can specify to navigate disagreements. Tune in as they break down key approaches like mediation, arbitration, and counseling, providing valuable insights on how to foster effective co-parenting.

 Update 8/19/2025: Since the recording of that podcast, Washington courts have released a new parenting plan form.

Specifically, the section we referred to as "Section 14. Other" in the podcast is now designated as “Section 10. Other” in the court’s new parenting plan form.

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-17191196 Sun, 01 Jun 2025 00:00:00 -0700 2737 37 full false The Akiona Law Podcast: Parenting Plan Series with Meg Gluckman Part 2 The Akiona Law Podcast: Parenting Plan Series with Meg Gluckman Part 2 In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Ululani "Lani" Akiona continues part 2 of a 4 part series on parenting plans with Meg Gluckman, divorce and co-parenting coach and host of "Welcome to the Other Side" podcast. In this second episode, Lani and Meg break down decision making, they discuss the fundamental difference between joint decision-making and sole decision-making and how it applies to two of the most significant decision making area: education and health care.

Update 8/19/2025: Since the recording of that podcast, Washington courts have released a new parenting plan form.

Specifically, the section we referred to as "Section 14. Other" in the podcast is now designated as “Section 10. Other” in the court’s new parenting plan form.


]]> In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Ululani "Lani" Akiona continues part 2 of a 4 part series on parenting plans with Meg Gluckman, divorce and co-parenting coach and host of "Welcome to the Other Side" podcast. In this second episode, Lani and Meg break down decision making, they discuss the fundamental difference between joint decision-making and sole decision-making and how it applies to two of the most significant decision making area: education and health care.

Update 8/19/2025: Since the recording of that podcast, Washington courts have released a new parenting plan form.

Specifically, the section we referred to as "Section 14. Other" in the podcast is now designated as “Section 10. Other” in the court’s new parenting plan form.


]]> Buzzsprout-17003033 Thu, 01 May 2025 00:00:00 -0700 2202 36 full false The Akiona Law Podcast: Parenting Plan Series with Meg Gluckman Part 1 The Akiona Law Podcast: Parenting Plan Series with Meg Gluckman Part 1 In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast,  join Ululani “Lani” Akiona, as she kicks off a 4-part series on parenting plans with Meg Gluckman, divorce and co-parenting coach and host of “Welcome to the Other Side” podcast. In this first episode, we break down residential schedules: what influences them, how they're built, and how to create stability for your children.

Update 8/19/2025: Since the recording of that podcast, Washington courts have released a new parenting plan form.

Specifically, the section we referred to as "Section 14. Other" in the podcast is now designated as “Section 10. Other” in the court’s new parenting plan form.

]]> In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast,  join Ululani “Lani” Akiona, as she kicks off a 4-part series on parenting plans with Meg Gluckman, divorce and co-parenting coach and host of “Welcome to the Other Side” podcast. In this first episode, we break down residential schedules: what influences them, how they're built, and how to create stability for your children.

Update 8/19/2025: Since the recording of that podcast, Washington courts have released a new parenting plan form.

Specifically, the section we referred to as "Section 14. Other" in the podcast is now designated as “Section 10. Other” in the court’s new parenting plan form.

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-16911779 Sat, 05 Apr 2025 00:00:00 -0700 3584 35 full false The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Meg Gluckman The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Meg Gluckman In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Ululani "Lani" Akiona welcomes Meg Gluckman, a seasoned divorce and co-parenting coach and host of the "Welcome to the Other Side" podcast. Meg shares invaluable insights on how coaching can equip you with the tools to communicate effectively, manage stress, and clearly identify your needs and wants as you move forward. Learn how coaching can transform your co-parenting dynamic.


 

]]> In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Ululani "Lani" Akiona welcomes Meg Gluckman, a seasoned divorce and co-parenting coach and host of the "Welcome to the Other Side" podcast. Meg shares invaluable insights on how coaching can equip you with the tools to communicate effectively, manage stress, and clearly identify your needs and wants as you move forward. Learn how coaching can transform your co-parenting dynamic.


 

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-16690383 Wed, 26 Feb 2025 00:00:00 -0800 2666 34 full false The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Jennifer Lee The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Jennifer Lee In this episode, of the Akiona Law Podcast, Ululani “Lani” Akiona speaks with Jennifer Lee, AWMA, AIF, founding partner of Modern Wealth and author of "Squeeze the Juice: Live with Purpose, then Leave a Legacy." Jennifer's book is an anecdotal, approachable, and thought-provoking guide to tackling life and financial preparedness with ease. Jennifer and Lani discuss the benefits of using a financial advisor when facing life’s upsets such as divorce.  It's about understanding what you're entitled to, what your resources can do for you, and what your life is going to look like. You can purchase Jennifer’s book here. https://squeezethejuicebook.com/ .Click here to schedule a no cost, no obligation call with Jennifer. https://calendly.com/Jennifermodernwealth/20min?back=1&month=2025-01 

]]> In this episode, of the Akiona Law Podcast, Ululani “Lani” Akiona speaks with Jennifer Lee, AWMA, AIF, founding partner of Modern Wealth and author of "Squeeze the Juice: Live with Purpose, then Leave a Legacy." Jennifer's book is an anecdotal, approachable, and thought-provoking guide to tackling life and financial preparedness with ease. Jennifer and Lani discuss the benefits of using a financial advisor when facing life’s upsets such as divorce.  It's about understanding what you're entitled to, what your resources can do for you, and what your life is going to look like. You can purchase Jennifer’s book here. https://squeezethejuicebook.com/ .Click here to schedule a no cost, no obligation call with Jennifer. https://calendly.com/Jennifermodernwealth/20min?back=1&month=2025-01 

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-16575468 Wed, 12 Feb 2025 07:00:00 -0800 2885 33 full false The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Jacinta Gallant The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Jacinta Gallant In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Ululani “Lani” Akiona speaks with Jacinta Gallant, Canadian collaborative lawyer, mediator, and educator. We discuss insight meditation and how it offers a powerful alternative to traditional negotiation or litigation. Insight mediation is focused on managing the defensiveness that gets in the way of productive dialogue, so that people can understand and articulate their needs and concerns, clear up communication challenges and collaborate to discover possibilities that will help them make a healthy shift in their relationships.

]]> In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Ululani “Lani” Akiona speaks with Jacinta Gallant, Canadian collaborative lawyer, mediator, and educator. We discuss insight meditation and how it offers a powerful alternative to traditional negotiation or litigation. Insight mediation is focused on managing the defensiveness that gets in the way of productive dialogue, so that people can understand and articulate their needs and concerns, clear up communication challenges and collaborate to discover possibilities that will help them make a healthy shift in their relationships.

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-15481007 Thu, 01 Aug 2024 00:00:00 -0700 3761 32 full false The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Caroline Plummer The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Caroline Plummer In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Ululani “Lani” Akiona speaks with Parenting Coordinator, Caroline Plummer. Caroline is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) and serves on the board of the Washington Chapter of the AFCC (Association of Family and Conciliation Courts). She has a specialty in parent coaching, where she focuses on increasing the parent-child bond, improving child's self-esteem and decreasing behavioral issues using therapeutic methods, such as, Trauma-focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT), Alternatives for Families-CBT (AF-CBT), or Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT). Caroline is an expert in “resist and refuse” child dynamics or in cases involving “parent child contact problems” (PCCP). Lani and Caroline discuss how to set these cases up for success and create healing for the rejected parent and child. 

]]> In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Ululani “Lani” Akiona speaks with Parenting Coordinator, Caroline Plummer. Caroline is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) and serves on the board of the Washington Chapter of the AFCC (Association of Family and Conciliation Courts). She has a specialty in parent coaching, where she focuses on increasing the parent-child bond, improving child's self-esteem and decreasing behavioral issues using therapeutic methods, such as, Trauma-focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT), Alternatives for Families-CBT (AF-CBT), or Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT). Caroline is an expert in “resist and refuse” child dynamics or in cases involving “parent child contact problems” (PCCP). Lani and Caroline discuss how to set these cases up for success and create healing for the rejected parent and child. 

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-15329461 Mon, 01 Jul 2024 00:00:00 -0700 3888 31 full false The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Gwen Mathewson The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Gwen Mathewson In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Ululani “Lani” Akiona speaks to collaborative divorce attorney and mediator, Gwen Mathewson. Gwen is a past president of King County Collaborative Law and member of Collaborative Professionals of Washington. She is also a member of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals and she recently completed a yearlong leadership academy with them. Lani and Gwen discuss Collaborative Divorce, a process built on compromise and creativity to help you heal and move forward. They explore the power of compromise, emotional relief, and healing for the future. 

]]> In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Ululani “Lani” Akiona speaks to collaborative divorce attorney and mediator, Gwen Mathewson. Gwen is a past president of King County Collaborative Law and member of Collaborative Professionals of Washington. She is also a member of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals and she recently completed a yearlong leadership academy with them. Lani and Gwen discuss Collaborative Divorce, a process built on compromise and creativity to help you heal and move forward. They explore the power of compromise, emotional relief, and healing for the future. 

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-15102456 Fri, 31 May 2024 00:00:00 -0700 4070 30 full false The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Marques Lang The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Marques Lang In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Ululani “Lani” Akiona speaks with lawyer, book author, certified financial planner, certified divorce financial analyst, and certified QDRO specialist Marques Lang of Pacific Northwest QDRO, LLC. Lani and Marques cut through the legal jargon of a QDRO (qualified domestic relation order), explaining what it is, the type of retirement accounts or pension it applies to, why you may need one in your divorce, and the importance of bringing a QDRO person into your divorce before your final orders are entered. 

]]> In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Ululani “Lani” Akiona speaks with lawyer, book author, certified financial planner, certified divorce financial analyst, and certified QDRO specialist Marques Lang of Pacific Northwest QDRO, LLC. Lani and Marques cut through the legal jargon of a QDRO (qualified domestic relation order), explaining what it is, the type of retirement accounts or pension it applies to, why you may need one in your divorce, and the importance of bringing a QDRO person into your divorce before your final orders are entered. 

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-14990804 Wed, 01 May 2024 08:00:00 -0700 5355 29 full false The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Leigh Noffsinger The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Leigh Noffsinger In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Lani speaks with collaborative divorce attorney Leigh Noffsinger. In 2022 Leigh launched a training curriculum -- complete with comprehensive templates, checklists, and client handouts -- to support collaborative divorce cases from start to finish. She is passionate about making collaborative divorce as efficient as possible by scaling the process to meet each family’s unique needs.  Leigh previously served as the president of the Collaborative Professionals of Washington and has been involved in various collaborative organizations and practice groups over the last 14 years. This episode dives into collaborative law, a powerful alternative to traditional ligation, offering a high-powered toolbox for navigating divorce. 

]]> In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Lani speaks with collaborative divorce attorney Leigh Noffsinger. In 2022 Leigh launched a training curriculum -- complete with comprehensive templates, checklists, and client handouts -- to support collaborative divorce cases from start to finish. She is passionate about making collaborative divorce as efficient as possible by scaling the process to meet each family’s unique needs.  Leigh previously served as the president of the Collaborative Professionals of Washington and has been involved in various collaborative organizations and practice groups over the last 14 years. This episode dives into collaborative law, a powerful alternative to traditional ligation, offering a high-powered toolbox for navigating divorce. 

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-14625031 Tue, 05 Mar 2024 00:00:00 -0800 3779 28 full false The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Kristyna Larch The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Kristyna Larch In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Lani speaks with certified divorce financial analyst, former president of King County Collaborative Law, attorney Kristyna Larch. We untangle the threads of two major mediation styles: shuttle and facilitative. We also explored the diverse team that can support a successful mediation journey.

 

]]> In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Lani speaks with certified divorce financial analyst, former president of King County Collaborative Law, attorney Kristyna Larch. We untangle the threads of two major mediation styles: shuttle and facilitative. We also explored the diverse team that can support a successful mediation journey.

 

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-14450181 Thu, 15 Feb 2024 00:00:00 -0800 3654 27 full false The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Elisa Kisselburg The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Elisa Kisselburg In this episode of the Akiona Law podcast, Lani speaks with family mediator, co-parenting specialist and Certified Legal Specialist in Family Law, attorney Elisa Kisselburg. We delve into the world of conflict resolution in family law matters such as divorce, separation and unmarried parents(aka paternity matters), exploring the two main pathways: litigation and mediation. What are the key difference between these approaches? When is one preferable to the other? And how can you determine which path is right for your needs and the needs of you and and/or your family? 

]]> In this episode of the Akiona Law podcast, Lani speaks with family mediator, co-parenting specialist and Certified Legal Specialist in Family Law, attorney Elisa Kisselburg. We delve into the world of conflict resolution in family law matters such as divorce, separation and unmarried parents(aka paternity matters), exploring the two main pathways: litigation and mediation. What are the key difference between these approaches? When is one preferable to the other? And how can you determine which path is right for your needs and the needs of you and and/or your family? 

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-14362038 Tue, 23 Jan 2024 08:00:00 -0800 3499 26 full false The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Susan Guthrie The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Susan Guthrie  In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Lani chats with former family law litigator Susan Guthrie, a nationally recognized mediator/divorce lawyer. She's teamed up with mediation legend Woody Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy. Susan and Lani believe in finding a way to settle things without going to court. They discuss how a mediated agreement is much better for families in the long run. 

]]>  In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Lani chats with former family law litigator Susan Guthrie, a nationally recognized mediator/divorce lawyer. She's teamed up with mediation legend Woody Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy. Susan and Lani believe in finding a way to settle things without going to court. They discuss how a mediated agreement is much better for families in the long run. 

]]> Buzzsprout-14018850 Fri, 24 Nov 2023 08:00:00 -0800 3614 25 full false The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Caroline Pak The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Caroline Pak In this episode, Lani speaks with Caroline Pak, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Divorce and Transitions Coach, who helps people going through divorce navigate the financial and emotional challenges of the process.

]]> In this episode, Lani speaks with Caroline Pak, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Divorce and Transitions Coach, who helps people going through divorce navigate the financial and emotional challenges of the process.

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-14013550 Tue, 21 Nov 2023 12:00:00 -0800 3018 24 full false The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Kate Mageau | Part 2 The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Kate Mageau | Part 2 In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Lani speaks with mental health counselor, author, and domestic violence survivor, Kate Mageau about how she used her own experience with domestic violence to help others.
 Find Kate Mageau here : www.katemageau.com

 

National Domestic Violence 1-800-799-SAFE 

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention Violence Prevention https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/intimatepartnerviolence/fastfact.html


]]> In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Lani speaks with mental health counselor, author, and domestic violence survivor, Kate Mageau about how she used her own experience with domestic violence to help others.
 Find Kate Mageau here : www.katemageau.com

 

National Domestic Violence 1-800-799-SAFE 

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention Violence Prevention https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/intimatepartnerviolence/fastfact.html


]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-12983413 Wed, 07 Jun 2023 00:00:00 -0700 3944 full false 023 - The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Kate Mageau | Part 1 023 - The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Kate Mageau | Part 1 In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Lani speaks with mental health counselor, author, and domestic violence survivor, Kate Mageau about how she used her own experience with domestic violence to help others.
Find Kate Mageau here : www.katemageau.com

 

National Domestic Violence 1-800-799-SAFE 

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention Violence Prevention https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/intimatepartnerviolence/fastfact.html

]]> In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Lani speaks with mental health counselor, author, and domestic violence survivor, Kate Mageau about how she used her own experience with domestic violence to help others.
Find Kate Mageau here : www.katemageau.com

 

National Domestic Violence 1-800-799-SAFE 

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention Violence Prevention https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/intimatepartnerviolence/fastfact.html

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-12983287 Mon, 05 Jun 2023 12:00:00 -0700 3195 full false 022 - The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Mihaella Bayla 022 - The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Mihaella Bayla In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Lani speaks with Certified Divorce Lending Professional ("CDLP") and former tax attorney, Mihaella Bayla about how involving a CDLP during the divorce process helps divorcing homeowners make informed decisions and avoid costly pitfalls regarding their mortgage financing options during and after divorce.

]]> In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Lani speaks with Certified Divorce Lending Professional ("CDLP") and former tax attorney, Mihaella Bayla about how involving a CDLP during the divorce process helps divorcing homeowners make informed decisions and avoid costly pitfalls regarding their mortgage financing options during and after divorce.

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-12763335 Mon, 01 May 2023 15:00:00 -0700 3814 full false 021 - The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Kathleen Royer 021 - The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Kathleen Royer In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Lani speaks with divorce mediator, Kathleen Royer. She speaks about the need for divorcing couples especially those who have children, to engage in problem-solving rather than being adversaries. Lani and Kathleen discuss the importance of good communication and planning to create an effective coparenting team.

]]> In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Lani speaks with divorce mediator, Kathleen Royer. She speaks about the need for divorcing couples especially those who have children, to engage in problem-solving rather than being adversaries. Lani and Kathleen discuss the importance of good communication and planning to create an effective coparenting team.

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-12403577 Wed, 08 Mar 2023 14:00:00 -0800 3550 full false 020 - The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter 020 - The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter Co-parenting is hard in any circumstance, and co-parenting with someone who chooses to pursue conflict over resolution may seem downright impossible. In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Lani speaks with Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter of the High Conflict Institute about how to use BIFF (brief, informative, friendly, firm) in communications with a high-conflict co-parent.

]]> Co-parenting is hard in any circumstance, and co-parenting with someone who chooses to pursue conflict over resolution may seem downright impossible. In this episode of the Akiona Law Podcast, Lani speaks with Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter of the High Conflict Institute about how to use BIFF (brief, informative, friendly, firm) in communications with a high-conflict co-parent.

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-12179185 Fri, 03 Feb 2023 12:00:00 -0800 3662 full false 019 - The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Sara Wahl 019 - The Akiona Law Podcast: Featuring Sara Wahl How my parent’s divorce influenced my career path into Collaborative Divorce.

]]> How my parent’s divorce influenced my career path into Collaborative Divorce.

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-12015352 Tue, 10 Jan 2023 06:00:00 -0800 4025 full false 018 - Discussing The Three Coaching Buckets With Former Divorce/Co-Parent Coach and Author, Karen Bonnell 018 - Discussing The Three Coaching Buckets With Former Divorce/Co-Parent Coach and Author, Karen Bonnell Consultant, writer, and mentor Karen S. Bonnell returns to the Akiona Law Podcast! Karen discusses her three Coaching Buckets for parents and dives into her most recent book, which she co-wrote with Patricia Papernow, Ph.D.: The Stepfamily Handbook: From Dating, to Getting Serious, to Forming a "Blended Family."  

]]> Consultant, writer, and mentor Karen S. Bonnell returns to the Akiona Law Podcast! Karen discusses her three Coaching Buckets for parents and dives into her most recent book, which she co-wrote with Patricia Papernow, Ph.D.: The Stepfamily Handbook: From Dating, to Getting Serious, to Forming a "Blended Family."  

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-11367799 Thu, 22 Sep 2022 11:00:00 -0700 3484 1 18 full false 017 - What Is A Collaborative Divorce? With Attorney Roy Martin 017 - What Is A Collaborative Divorce? With Attorney Roy Martin In today's episode I talk to attorney, Roy Martin about one of the best benefits of collaborative divorce - maintaining trust and goodwill between both parties.

]]> In today's episode I talk to attorney, Roy Martin about one of the best benefits of collaborative divorce - maintaining trust and goodwill between both parties.

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-11236913 Wed, 31 Aug 2022 09:00:00 -0700 4274 1 17 full false 016 - The Challenges Of Divorce And Co-Parenting 016 - The Challenges Of Divorce And Co-Parenting In today’s episode, I talk with former Marine and divorced father, Eddie Dzialo. We discuss how putting your child first can lay the groundwork for being a successful co-parent.

]]> In today’s episode, I talk with former Marine and divorced father, Eddie Dzialo. We discuss how putting your child first can lay the groundwork for being a successful co-parent.

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-11010947 Fri, 22 Jul 2022 07:00:00 -0700 3580 1 16 full false 015 - The Value Of Having an Estate Planning Attorney with Kanoa Ostrem 015 - The Value Of Having an Estate Planning Attorney with Kanoa Ostrem Estate Planning attorney, Kanoa Ostrem, discusses the importance of managing your estate. He outlines why you should know where your assets are going, whether they will pass through probate, and who will be in charge of carrying out your wishes.

]]> Estate Planning attorney, Kanoa Ostrem, discusses the importance of managing your estate. He outlines why you should know where your assets are going, whether they will pass through probate, and who will be in charge of carrying out your wishes.

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-10915325 Wed, 06 Jul 2022 09:00:00 -0700 2052 1 15 full false 014 - Recovery and Family Law with Divorce & Family Law Attorney, Jules Butler 014 - Recovery and Family Law with Divorce & Family Law Attorney, Jules Butler In today’s episode, I talked to family law attorney, Jules Butler about addiction and how it can affect your divorce proceedings.

]]> In today’s episode, I talked to family law attorney, Jules Butler about addiction and how it can affect your divorce proceedings.

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-10804261 Thu, 16 Jun 2022 07:00:00 -0700 3650 1 14 full false 013 - How Being a Child of Divorce, Shaped My Approach to Family Law with Divorce & Family Law Attorney, Nathan Cliber 013 - How Being a Child of Divorce, Shaped My Approach to Family Law with Divorce & Family Law Attorney, Nathan Cliber In today’s episode, I welcome back family law attorney, Nathan Cliber. He shares how his parents’ divorce when he was a teenager impacts the way he approaches divorce & family law and his clients. 

]]> In today’s episode, I welcome back family law attorney, Nathan Cliber. He shares how his parents’ divorce when he was a teenager impacts the way he approaches divorce & family law and his clients. 

]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-10587478 Mon, 09 May 2022 12:00:00 -0700 3520 1 13 full false 012 - Co-parenting advice from the successful coach, mediator, and author, Karen Bonnell 012 - Co-parenting advice from the successful coach, mediator, and author, Karen Bonnell Discover why you need to create a child-centered parenting plan. The established co-parenting coach and author Karen Bonnell sat with us to explain why this is essential for you, your former spouse, and your children.
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]]> Discover why you need to create a child-centered parenting plan. The established co-parenting coach and author Karen Bonnell sat with us to explain why this is essential for you, your former spouse, and your children.
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]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-10354488 Thu, 31 Mar 2022 09:00:00 -0700 3528 1 12 full false 011 - Helping nontraditional families navigate the legal process with Family Law Attorney Nathan Cliber – Part 2 011 - Helping nontraditional families navigate the legal process with Family Law Attorney Nathan Cliber – Part 2 How to create structures or legal structures in terms of polyamorous couples, especially when there’s children involved.

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]]> How to create structures or legal structures in terms of polyamorous couples, especially when there’s children involved.

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]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-10205676 Mon, 07 Mar 2022 12:00:00 -0800 2372 1 11 full false 010 – Helping nontraditional families navigate the legal process with Family Law Attorney Nathan Cliber – Part 1 010 – Helping nontraditional families navigate the legal process with Family Law Attorney Nathan Cliber – Part 1 Helping polyamorous families or more than two people in a committed relationship navigate divorce and family law issues.

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]]> Helping polyamorous families or more than two people in a committed relationship navigate divorce and family law issues.

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]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-10205645 Mon, 07 Mar 2022 12:00:00 -0800 1407 1 10 full false 009 - What I Would Have Done Differently in My Family Law Case 009 - What I Would Have Done Differently in My Family Law Case In today's episode, I talk with a former client about what he would have done differently in his family law case knowing what he knows now.

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]]> In today's episode, I talk with a former client about what he would have done differently in his family law case knowing what he knows now.

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]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-10028528 Mon, 07 Feb 2022 09:00:00 -0800 3256 1 9 full false 008 - Discussing the Role of a Parent Coordinator With Family Law Attorney, Elise Buie - Part 2 008 - Discussing the Role of a Parent Coordinator With Family Law Attorney, Elise Buie - Part 2 In today’s episode I continue my conversation with family law attorney, Elise Buie. We discuss the role of the parenting coordinator and what the difference is between the parenting coordinator and a Guardian ad Litem.

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]]> In today’s episode I continue my conversation with family law attorney, Elise Buie. We discuss the role of the parenting coordinator and what the difference is between the parenting coordinator and a Guardian ad Litem.

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]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-9888353 Fri, 14 Jan 2022 13:00:00 -0800 2541 1 8 full false 007 - Discussing the Role of a Guardian Ad Litem With Family Law Attorney, Elise Buie - Part 1 007 - Discussing the Role of a Guardian Ad Litem With Family Law Attorney, Elise Buie - Part 1 In today’s episode I talked to family law attorney, Elise Buie, about the role of the Guardian ad Litem (GAL) and why someone would need one. Or, why a court appoints a Guardian ad Litem in a family law or divorce case.

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]]> In today’s episode I talked to family law attorney, Elise Buie, about the role of the Guardian ad Litem (GAL) and why someone would need one. Or, why a court appoints a Guardian ad Litem in a family law or divorce case.

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]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-9888341 Fri, 14 Jan 2022 13:00:00 -0800 2458 1 7 full false 006 - Immigration Law with Attorney Brandon Gillin - Part 2 006 - Immigration Law with Attorney Brandon Gillin - Part 2 In today’s episode I continue my conversation with immigration lawyer, Brandon Gillin and the Affidavit of Support. We discuss how divorce does not terminate the US citizen’s Affidavit of Support obligation.

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]]> In today’s episode I continue my conversation with immigration lawyer, Brandon Gillin and the Affidavit of Support. We discuss how divorce does not terminate the US citizen’s Affidavit of Support obligation.

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]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-9775305 Wed, 22 Dec 2021 09:00:00 -0800 1333 full false 005 - Immigration Law with Attorney Brandon Gillin - Part 1 005 - Immigration Law with Attorney Brandon Gillin - Part 1 In today’s episode I talked to immigration lawyer, Brandon Gillin.  We discuss the Affidavit of Support, form I-864 which in most cases is required when seeking lawful permanent residency, a green card.

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]]> In today’s episode I talked to immigration lawyer, Brandon Gillin.  We discuss the Affidavit of Support, form I-864 which in most cases is required when seeking lawful permanent residency, a green card.

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]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-9775291 Wed, 22 Dec 2021 09:00:00 -0800 1431 1 5 full false 004 - What is the LLLT program? With LLLT Jeanne Barrans - Part 2 004 - What is the LLLT program? With LLLT Jeanne Barrans - Part 2 In today’s episode I continue my conversation with Limited License Legal Technician (LLLT), Jeanne Barrans. We focus on the LLLT program and what it is.

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]]> In today’s episode I continue my conversation with Limited License Legal Technician (LLLT), Jeanne Barrans. We focus on the LLLT program and what it is.

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]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-9551171 Mon, 15 Nov 2021 07:00:00 -0800 2055 1 4 full false 003 - What is a Limited License Legal Technician? With LLLT Jeanne Barrans - Part 1 003 - What is a Limited License Legal Technician? With LLLT Jeanne Barrans - Part 1 In today’s episode I talked to Limited License Legal Technician (LLLT), Jeanne Barrans, about what a LLLT is and what they do. We also discussed how these professionals can help in a family law or divorce case and how that differs with what attorneys and paralegals can do.

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]]> In today’s episode I talked to Limited License Legal Technician (LLLT), Jeanne Barrans, about what a LLLT is and what they do. We also discussed how these professionals can help in a family law or divorce case and how that differs with what attorneys and paralegals can do.

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]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-9551164 Mon, 15 Nov 2021 07:00:00 -0800 2128 1 3 full false 002 - Remedies if Your Spouse Isn’t Paying Spousal Maintenance with Attorney Kati Peterson - Part 2 002 - Remedies if Your Spouse Isn’t Paying Spousal Maintenance with Attorney Kati Peterson - Part 2 Lani continues her conversation with Attorney Kati Peterson on spousal maintenance. In this episode, Lani and Kati focus on remedies in the event your spouse isn't paying spousal maintenance.
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]]> Lani continues her conversation with Attorney Kati Peterson on spousal maintenance. In this episode, Lani and Kati focus on remedies in the event your spouse isn't paying spousal maintenance.
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]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-9080946 Tue, 24 Aug 2021 12:00:00 -0700 1178 1 2 full false 001 - Factors of Awarding Spousal Maintenance with Attorney Kati Peterson - Part 1 001 - Factors of Awarding Spousal Maintenance with Attorney Kati Peterson - Part 1 Lani sits down with Attorney Kati Peterson to discuss the factors of awarding spousal maintenance. 

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]]> Lani sits down with Attorney Kati Peterson to discuss the factors of awarding spousal maintenance. 

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]]> Ululani Akiona, Esq. Buzzsprout-9080849 Tue, 24 Aug 2021 12:00:00 -0700 1249 1 1 full false