A soft knot in the shower. A mammogram full of white clusters. A phone call that split life in two. Sherry takes us inside a harrowing, courageous fight with stage three triple-negative breast cancer—and everything that followed: months of chemo, a bilateral mastectomy, radiation, sudden heart failure, and a stroke. What begins as a warning about small, easy-to-ignore signals becomes a masterclass in self-advocacy, medical literacy, and the kind of support that actually helps.

We talk plainly about what chemo feels like—cold caps, ports, taste vanishing, and the slow arithmetic of calories when food turns to dust. Sherry explains why she chose to remove both breasts, how reconstruction unfolds over multiple surgeries, and why she cut alcohol, fried foods, and red meat to protect her heart and healing. Her cardiology team helped raise her ejection fraction from 15 percent to 50 percent, and she details the daily habits that made recovery real: water over everything, low-salt meals, short walks that became longer hills, and rest without guilt.

This conversation also names what doesn’t get said enough. Triple-negative breast cancer disproportionately affects Black women, and delayed screening costs lives. We lay out practical, step-by-step guidance: schedule mammograms, request an ultrasound for dense breasts, check underarms and tissue after showers, track sudden weight changes, pay attention to balance and urination, and call your doctor when something feels off. For Black men, the message is just as urgent—stop avoiding the clinic, get baseline labs by your mid-30s, and follow through.

Above all, this is a love letter to real support: the friends who show up without questions, the partners who carry the load, and the family who keep the light on. If this story moves you, share it with someone who needs courage today. Subscribe for more honest conversations about health and healing, and leave a review with the one screening you’ll book this week.

Three voices wrestle with loyalty, trust, and the shifting rules of modern love, from cheating and open relationships to phone privacy and whether friends should intervene. We share real stories, hard lines, and softer edges—and invite you to decide where you stand.

• summer recaps and social media’s emotional whiplash
• texting tone, misreads, and why calling still matters
• infidelity nuances, double standards, and repair vs exit
• open relationships, swinging, and fallout risks
• side pieces and the difference between convenience and commitment
• dating after 40, aggressive approaches, and effort over flash
• first date expectations, money signals, and authenticity
• attraction, caregiving, and what marriage-worthy love looks like
• should you tell a friend about cheating or stay out
• phone privacy, trust thresholds, and when transparency helps or harms
• set boundaries, notice patterns, and choose growth over surveillance

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Rickey Rivers' basketball journey weaves through the hallways of Erasmus Hall High School to pioneering youth basketball tournaments that transformed NYC's basketball culture. This candid conversation reveals the making of a Brooklyn basketball legend whose impact extends far beyond the scoreboard.

At the heart of Rivers' story is the powerful influence of coach Gil Reynolds, whose tough-love approach included unforgettable moments like slapping players across the face during timeouts and demanding "elbows high" basketball. These formative experiences shaped not only Rivers' game—where he averaged 30 points his senior year—but his understanding of discipline and excellence that would define his later work.

Rivers shares the remarkable sacrifices he made as a young father while pursuing college basketball, commuting hours daily from Brooklyn to New Rochelle for Iona College while raising two children with his wife. Despite the challenges, Rivers transformed these experiences into fuel for his true calling: creating opportunities for young athletes through FunSport tournaments.

The conversation travels through the evolution of Rivers' programs from middle school tournaments at Madison Square Garden to high school showcases featuring future NBA stars like Kemba Walker. His innovative approach—giving players personalized posters that many still treasure decades later—shows how small gestures can leave lasting impressions on young lives.

Today, as a financial literacy teacher and high school coach, Rivers continues his impact while celebrating his greatest achievement: raising two successful daughters while maintaining a 33-year marriage. His story reminds us that basketball excellence isn't just measured in points scored, but in lives touched and communities strengthened.

Ready to debate basketball legends or life lessons? Grab your copy of the Your Opinion Doesn't Matter game at www.yodm.com and see if you can match wits with your family and friends just like Rivers does with his accomplished daughters.

Two old friends reconnect after the New Year, diving into the complex realities of midlife with refreshing honesty and occasional humor. Black Jesus and Mr. Lamont navigate topics that many avoid but everyone eventually confronts—mortality, purposeful living, and the physical realities of aging.

When Lamont shares his frustration with others' defeatist attitudes about mortality, it sparks a thoughtful exchange about different approaches to life's inevitable conclusion. Rather than dwelling on what can't be controlled, Lamont focuses on building something meaningful that will outlast him. Black Jesus counters with practical wisdom about preparing for the future while still embracing the present.

The conversation shifts to relationships as Lamont discusses his upcoming wedding and experience with couples counseling. Drawing from 13 years of marriage, Black Jesus offers invaluable insights about the transformation that occurs after saying "I do"—describing it as crossing "over to a more spiritual realm" where independence gives way to true partnership. His revelation that finances—not infidelity—represent the leading cause of divorce provides a sobering reminder of marriage's practical dimensions.

Perhaps most compelling is their candid discussion about alcohol. Lamont shares his three years of sobriety, calculating how drinking robbed him of productivity and memories. Black Jesus admits to still enjoying occasional drinks while acknowledging the increasingly difficult recoveries that come with age. Their unfiltered conversation about "liquor shits" and forgotten nights demonstrates the uncomfortable physical realities of heavy drinking that often go undiscussed.

The episode concludes with powerful words about taking chances: "You can't lose if you don't try" and "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." Join these authentic voices as they navigate life's complexities with wisdom earned through decades of friendship and experience.

Embrace the journey from sunshine to Wall Street insights with us as we welcome Emile back on the podcast! Fresh from a family reunion in the Bahamas and now braving New York's winter chill, Emile opens up about the experiences that have shaped his positive outlook on life. In this episode, we promise you'll gain a deeper understanding of financial empowerment through Emile's expert lens as an Assistant Vice President of Global Wealth Management at GoBullion International. He takes us through the fascinating world of precious metals investment and shares actionable tips for overcoming the skepticism often associated with stock market investments.

Do you find the stock market intimidating or perhaps even a bit of a scam? We tackle these misconceptions head-on by contrasting intangible stocks with the very real potential for fraud in the real estate world. By likening investment journeys to long-term relationships, we stress the importance of research and education. With resources as accessible as YouTube and the possibility of starting small with $500, we urge everyone to consider investing in ETFs and index funds as a viable path to a secure retirement. This discussion extends into the cultural and educational barriers within the Black community, emphasizing how financial literacy can break down these walls and lead to true empowerment and wealth building.

Crypto enthusiasts and lifelong learners, this one's for you! Emile draws parallels between his personal entry into finance and iconic films like Wall Street. We explore the allure and risks of cryptocurrency, demystifying its decentralized nature while acknowledging its potential pitfalls. The episode crescendos with a powerful call to embrace learning with intent, illustrated by Emile's own encounters with giants like billionaire Robert Smith. This isn't just about amassing wealth—it's about enriching your mind and investing in knowledge that fuels personal and professional growth. Join us for this enlightening journey and walk away feeling equipped and inspired to take control of your financial future.

Can a single conversation redefine your understanding of family? We unravel this question by diving into personal stories and complex family dynamics that shape our lives. From childhood trauma to sibling relationships, we uncover how past experiences can influence present interactions. Discover the importance of communication and accountability in healing these old wounds and learn how to foster stronger familial bonds, as we challenge traditional notions of what it means to be family.

Have you ever wondered how sports can teach life-changing lessons? We take a closer look at youth sports ethics and coaching, exploring how leadership and sportsmanship can impact young athletes beyond the game. With stories from the court, we highlight the delicate balance between immediate performance and long-term potential. Join us as we share teachable moments that prioritize teamwork over personal achievement and explore the role of parents and coaches in guiding children toward a more holistic understanding of success.

Friendships and personal growth often go hand in hand, but what happens when paths diverge? Reflecting on long-term relationships, we examine how time and evolving interests can affect bonds. Through candid discussions, we delve into the concept of growing apart and the significance of addressing unresolved issues. By sharing personal experiences, we stress the critical role of communication and managing expectations, not just in friendships but in all relationships, to maintain harmony and personal peace.

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What happens when love evolves and relationships are put to the test during the festive season? This episode of "Your Opinion Doesn't Matter" takes a heartfelt journey through the highs and lows of family dynamics and personal connections as we share personal stories that resonate with listeners facing similar struggles. From Sherri-Berry's poignant reflections on recent family losses to Mr. Lamont's inspiring visit to an assisted living facility, we share the bittersweet moments of the holidays, emphasizing the importance of community support and gratitude in times of sorrow.

Join us as we uncover the complexities of love—how it can sometimes blind us to imbalances in relationships and how self-love acts as a compass guiding us toward healthier connections. Explore the delicate balance of maintaining attraction and communication in long-term partnerships, and the ever-important role of open dialogue. We discuss the impact of societal expectations and the dangers of superficial connections, urging you to cherish genuine affection and value those who truly care.

As we brace for a new year, this episode leaves no stone unturned in discussing the importance of authenticity in relationships and the pitfalls of financial dependency and superficial standards. We celebrate the power of teamwork in achieving shared health goals and underscore the importance of mutual support. With a hopeful gaze towards 2025, we express gratitude for the lessons learned and the community that binds us, inviting you to reflect on the blessings of health, strength, and love as we venture into a promising future together.

What if a simple pencil could forge a lifelong friendship and inspire a community? Join us as we reminisce about our childhood days and the unique bond that grew between us, Mr. Lamont and Lem, starting from a shared pencil in third grade. We discuss how this friendship evolved as we became fathers and mentors through our non-profit, Working Wonder. The power of positive mentorship and dedication is central to our story, highlighting the significant impact we can have on young lives and the importance of stepping up as role models in our community.

Reflecting on the emotional rollercoaster of losing over ten loved ones in a single year, we confront the harsh realities of grief and the urgency of prioritizing health. Our personal anecdotes bring to light the unexpected nature of loss and the critical importance of regular health check-ups. By sharing how we've drawn strength from our families, we hope to inspire listeners to embrace their health journeys and encourage open dialogues about their fears and medical evaluations.

With humor and honesty, we explore the complexities of relationships, legal challenges, and the role of finances in personal dynamics. From the intricacies of male-female friendships to the impact of sudden wealth on relationships, our discussions weave through themes of loyalty, empowerment, and communication. We touch on the legal system's racial biases and the effects of media portrayal, always stressing the importance of due process. Wrapping up with health and wellness advice, we emphasize the value of mental, physical, and emotional well-being, wishing everyone peace and blessings for the year ahead.

Growing up Haitian in America during the late 70s and early 80s was a journey filled with resilience, cultural challenges, and eventual acceptance. Sherl and Emile, our insightful guests, share their personal stories of navigating their Haitian heritage amidst a predominantly American landscape. From the teasing faced in New York schools to the unique dynamics of being one of the few Haitian families in Crown Heights and Flatbush, their experiences reflect the complexities of cultural identity and adaptation. These narratives invite listeners to explore the strength and adaptability required to thrive in environments often filled with stereotypes and misconceptions.

The episode extends its focus to the broader Caribbean community, highlighting the varied experiences of other Caribbean immigrants and their descendants. Through the lens of Grenadian and Trinidadian stories, we examine the shifting cultural dynamics and the journey towards greater inclusivity and pride in one's heritage. Our conversation sheds light on the once Jamaican-dominated identity, now evolving into a celebration of diverse Caribbean cultures, and underscores the importance of education in fostering understanding and acceptance among young people today. Despite past hardships, the discussion reveals an enduring spirit of unity and resilience within these communities.

Finally, we delve into the significant contributions of Haitian immigrants, particularly in New York. The entrepreneurial spirit is exemplified by initiatives like the dollar cab service, while the strong support systems within Haitian families showcase the communal bonds that help individuals navigate new lives. We discuss the responsibilities of leaders and public figures in combating stereotypes and misinformation, stressing the need for active voices against derogatory narratives. Ultimately, the episode is a testament to the pride, perseverance, and community strength that define the Haitian immigrant journey, resonating with anyone interested in cultural identity and community unity.

What does it take to stay true to your unique sound in a world that often pushes conformity? Meet AJay, a talented young artist who’s been crafting his own musical path since 13. We hear from AJay himself about how he turned his passion into a safe haven and his upcoming project, "Make It Last Longer." From mastering cameras to vocals, AJ shares how he learned every facet of music production, while simultaneously building his audience on platforms like Instagram and YouTube.

Our conversation takes an intriguing turn as we explore the parallels between music and sports, two worlds where perseverance and risk-taking are key. Through personal stories of creating a YouTube series in Vegas and basketball adventures, we uncover the trials of pursuing dreams and the necessity of a solid support system. The discipline required in both spheres is daunting, with the odds of making it professionally in music or basketball being slim. Maturity and self-awareness emerge as vital to personal and professional growth, urging everyone to have a backup plan and trust their instincts.

Relationships and family dynamics add another layer to our engaging discussion. As adulthood reshapes our social circles, we ponder the significance of true, lasting friendships and the impact of adult responsibilities on family bonds. A lively debate-style game, "Your Opinion Doesn't Matter," spices things up, encouraging diverse opinions on hot-button topics like hiring songwriters for rap. AJay wraps up with wisdom on embracing change and trusting the process, reminding us that positivity and the right timing can unlock unexpected opportunities. Join us and celebrate AJay’s dedication and passion as he stands on the brink of stardom.

Looking back at our Labor Day celebrations, Lamont, Sterling and Sherryann share personal reflections that contrast sharply—the calm of age versus the thrill of non-stop party-hopping. Sterling finds himself reminiscing about the energetic parties of his youth, while Sherry recounts her vibrant weekend filled with soca performances and endless celebrations. Together, we explore the changing landscape of these festivities, marred by increased police presence and restrictive parade changes, and emphasize the need to preserve cultural events despite challenges like recent safety concerns.

Blending families brings its own set of complexities, and this episode dives deep into the dynamics of relationships where children from previous partnerships are involved. We discuss the initial territorial feelings, the vital role of patience in building bonds with stepchildren, and the balancing act between discipline and respecting the biological parent’s role. Personal stories shed light on the struggles and successes, highlighting the importance of communication, understanding, and boundary-setting to create a harmonious family unit.

Navigating relationships and parenting challenges also means addressing societal expectations and personal independence. We take a candid look at the difficulties faced by independent women in the dating world, cultural differences in work ethics, and the controversial choice of staying in an unhappy relationship for the children's sake. Our conversation underscores the significance of continuous effort, mutual understanding, and maintaining attraction and loyalty in relationships. As we wrap up, we express heartfelt gratitude to our listeners, promising exciting future interactions and more enriching discussions to come.

Is it ever okay for parents to have favorite children? This week on "Your Opinion Doesn't Matter," we sit down with the delightful Sherry Berry from Carriacou, West Indies, to unravel the complexities of family dynamics and favoritism. We begin with a light-hearted discussion about our summer highlights, from Sherry's love for the West Indian Culture and enjoying a good "fete". We also exchange some fun compliments on our summer styles and hairstyles, bringing a burst of seasonal joy to the episode.

As the conversation deepens, Sterling confronts the thorny issue of favoritism within families. One host opens up about the freedom felt due to less parental pressure compared to a sibling, while Sherry shares her experience of raising three children without favoritism. She gives us a glimpse into her childhood in Grenada, contrasting it with her siblings' upbringing in the United States, shedding light on cultural nuances that shape parental expectations and sibling bonds.

In our final chapters, we tackle the sensitive topic of favoritism based on skin color and its impact on family dynamics. We share heartfelt personal stories, including one host's experience with a father's overt favoritism towards lighter-skinned siblings. The episode concludes with reflections on relationship regrets, interracial dating, and the cultural expectations that come with it. We underscore the universal desire for mutual respect and commitment in relationships, leaving listeners with thoughtful insights on love, communication, and personal growth. Tune in for a compelling conversation that promises to resonate on multiple levels.

Have you ever wondered what it feels like to question societal norms from your childhood? This week, Mr. Lamont and Big Sterling kick off with some summertime nostalgia, reminiscing about celebration traditions during school and the Pledge of Allegiance. We then shift gears to a timely critique of the current political scene, questioning the capabilities of aged leaders like Trump and Biden and advocating for fresher, younger faces in politics. The conversation takes an intriguing turn as we examine a recent political assassination attempt and its murky impact on public perception and forthcoming elections.

In relationships, can financial imbalance coexist with mutual respect and love? We tackle this complex topic head-on, discussing whether men should accept financial help from wealthier women and how societal expectations shape these dynamics. We also stress the importance of mutual support and respect, regardless of who holds the purse strings. Through this lens, we explore the balance of traditional gender roles and the wisdom gained from past relationship experiences, emphasizing the necessity of clear boundaries to ensure both partners feel valued.

From the NBA draft's touchy subject of familial nepotism to the personal challenges of navigating social gatherings without alcohol, we cover it all. Bronny James' entry into the NBA under the shadow of his father, LeBron James, sparks a heated debate on readiness and influence. We then shift to personal stories about resisting the social pressure to drink and dealing with anxiety in social settings. Wrapping up, we extend our heartfelt support to the resilient people of Carriacou, a small Caribbean island ravaged by Hurricane Baryl. Join us for a dynamic discussion filled with insights, reflections, and a message of solidarity.

What happens when a young kid from a musically inclined household in Brooklyn gets captivated by DJs in Philadelphia? You get DJ Scratchator, a legendary figure in hip-hop and the longtime DJ for Busta Rhymes. Join us on "Your Opinion Doesn't Matter" as Scratchator recounts his early inspirations, his transformative experiences with local Brooklyn DJs, and the mentorships that have shaped his illustrious career. It's a nostalgic trip through the chaos and passion of early hip-hop events that evolved into the cultural phenomenon we know today.

Our conversation takes a deep dive into the evolution of hip-hop culture, from its gritty early days to its current influence on parties and gatherings. DJ Scratchator shares personal anecdotes about the chaotic nature of early hip-hop events and the ongoing need to blend old and new styles to connect with younger audiences. With insights into how veteran artists like Method Man continue to shape the genre and the crucial role that radio plays in popularizing hip-hop, we offer a nuanced look at how this vibrant culture has evolved over the decades. Additionally, we explore the technical evolution of DJing, contrasting the manual precision of the early days with the convenience of today's digital tools.

In a heartfelt moment, we remember our friend Clinton, whose enthusiasm for hip-hop brought so much joy to our lives. This tribute underscores the importance of celebrating those we've lost while also looking at the future of hip-hop, including the rise of female artists like Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion. We discuss the role of competition in driving the genre forward and share personal stories that capture the spirit of hip-hop culture. Tune in for an episode filled with nostalgia, insights, and heartfelt memories, celebrating 30 years of hip-hop inspiration.

Have you ever crossed paths with a stranger and wondered about the proper way to acknowledge them, or whether your friendly smile might be misinterpreted? Join Lamont, Shirley, and Big Sterling as we unravel the nuanced fabric of social etiquette and the unspoken codes that shape our daily interactions. From the tightrope men walk in public spaces to avoid being seen as threatening, to the debate over whether black women are perceived to have different standards of etiquette, we're not holding back in this candid and lively discussion on respect and generational shifts in manners.

Navigating family life can feel like trying to solve a Rubik's Cube blindfolded, and we're here to share the cheat codes. Listen as we dissect the intricate dance of step-parenting, from disciplining children in blended families to being a 'bonus dad'. Hear our personal stories filled with vulnerability as we discuss the do's and don'ts of introducing new partners to your children and the emotional juggle of giving non-resident kids the attention they crave. It's about striking that delicate balance between family harmony and ensuring every member feels valued.

But wait, there's more! We're peeling back the curtain on those ever-tricky dating waters, especially when kids are in the picture. Our hosts reveal their personal rules and break down the financial expectations when you're seeing someone with children from previous relationships. And for the sports fans, we've got a treat: our raw take on the NBA playoffs, Knicks glory, and the endearing moments spent connecting with absentee parents. Buckle up for a ride through the complexities of life's relational dynamics on the Your Opinion Doesn't Matter podcast.

Imagine the pulsating energy of city streets transformed into an artist's canvas, the spray can his brush, and anonymity his shield. That's the world renowned graffiti artist Stem introduces us to as he peels back the veil on the golden age of street culture. With a nod to the past, we traverse the evolution of graffiti from clandestine scribbles to the bold murals that now color urban landscapes worldwide. Stem's narrative not only celebrates the influential figures who shaped his artistry but also sparks a wave of nostalgia for the classic arcade games and the echoes of breakdancing battles that defined a generation.

Step into a realm where the underground meets the mainstream, where the anonymity once crucial for a graffiti artist becomes a choice rather than a necessity. We delve into the heart of graffiti subculture, unpacking the essence of camaraderie and rivalry that fuels the fire of this vibrant community. Stem shares tales of crews like YNN and the delicate dance between legality and creative expression. Join us as we reconnect with childhood through the flickering screens of Atari and Nintendo, and find out how these experiences left an indelible mark on the artists and the art they create.

Finally, we shift gears, venturing into the sentimental world of comic book collecting, where the worth of a collection transcends monetary value. Stem recounts the near loss of his precious compilation, a close call that many avid collectors can empathize with. As we close this chapter, we reveal how you can follow Stem's continuing legacy and why his story resonates so deeply with fans of art, culture, and the tales that bind us. Tune in for an episode that's as much about the vibrant strokes of graffiti as it is about the personal histories we all strive to safeguard.

As the candles on the cake flicker for Sterling's 50th birthday, we sit together unpacking the layers of life that often go unspoken. Our conversation weaves through the joys and sorrows of hitting personal milestones, with Sterling divulging the poignant shift from child to caregiver as his parents age. The dialogue becomes an intimate mosaic of stories about the delicate dance of managing family, finances, and the ticking clock of business, resonating with anyone who's faced the tender role reversal with their own loved ones.

This episode isn't just a walk down memory lane; it's a deep reflection on the rugged terrain of life's journey. Together, Sterling and I grapple with the raw realities of loss and the sting of mortality, sharing tales that shaped our understanding of life's fleeting nature. We address the heavy cloak of grief that occasionally settles on our shoulders, the way it intertwines with our professional lives, and how we've learned to wade through the murky waters of emotional resilience—a topic that will leave you contemplating the depth of your own fortitude.

And as we chart the course of our personal victories, you'll hear us lay bare our battles with alcohol dependency. The triumphant moment Sterling decided to make a 2 year plan to become sober.  We confront the challenges and celebrate the milestones, from weight loss to newfound clarity. This episode is a toast to the power of transformation and personal accountability, a testament to the strength found in vulnerability, and a nod to the continuous quest for growth. Join us on this heartfelt episode that's as much about honoring the past as it is about inspiring a future of deliberate and meaningful change.

Join us on Episode 77 of "Your Opinion Doesn't Matter" as we dive into the vibrant world of hip hop with the incredible Chaniqua! 🎤🎧 Discover Chaniqua's unique perspective growing up in the hip hop scene, as we explore the beats, rhymes, and culture that shaped her journey. Get ready for a candid and insightful conversation that goes beyond the lyrics. Tune in for an unforgettable exploration of hip hop through Chaniqua's eyes. 🚀✨ #YODMPodcast #HipHopChronicles #SpecialGuestChaniqu

In episode 76 of the YODM podcast, we had the pleasure of hosting a special guest, Stephen Corbie, famously known as Prance. The focus of our conversation centered on the profound value of hip hop in our lives as individuals raised in Brooklyn. Throughout the episode, we delved into the significance of hip hop culture during our formative years, highlighting its impact on our personal growth and development.

Our dialogue with Prance allowed us to reminisce about the pivotal role that hip hop played in shaping our identities and perspectives, particularly within the vibrant cultural landscape of Brooklyn. We explored the cultural influences, the power of lyrics, and the beats that resonated with us, shaping our understanding of artistry and self-expression.

Moreover, we paid homage to the key figures and influencers who significantly contributed to our journey within the realm of hip hop. Through anecdotes and reflections, we celebrated the important individuals who not only shaped the genre but also influenced our personal experiences and love for the culture.

Overall, episode 76 was a heartfelt exploration of the profound impact of hip hop in our lives, featuring engaging discussions with Prance as we unraveled the cultural significance and nostalgic memories tied to our upbringing in Brooklyn.

In Episode 75 of the YODM Podcast, we dive into the intriguing world of food critiques as we discuss an African American food critic giving not-so-great reviews to fellow African American business owners. Join us for a candid conversation about this dynamic.

We'll also stroll down memory lane, reminiscing about the fashion choices that defined our youth. From stylish trends to bargain shopping for clothes, we explore the styles that left a mark on our hearts.

And don't miss our lively debate on whether it's okay to engage in a casual conversation with someone of the opposite sex while you're out with your friends and in a committed relationship.

Tune in for a mix of opinions, laughter, and some good old-fashioned debate. #YODMPodcast #Episode75 #FoodReviews #FashionNostalgia #RelationshipTalk

In Episode 74 of YODM Podcast, we're delving into some thought-provoking relationship dynamics and dining dilemmas!

🏡💰 Should women contribute 50/50 to the household when living together in a relationship? We explore the concept of equal financial contributions and the impact it has on partnerships.

🍽️🌟 We also venture into the world of dating and discuss whether dining preferences can make or break a potential relationship. What happens when someone prefers 5-star restaurants over chain eateries, and how do they judge a man who takes them to a more casual spot?

Join the conversation and share your thoughts on these intriguing topics. Tune in to the episode for engaging discussions that will keep you thinking long after the podcast ends! 🎙️💬 #YODMPodcast #RelationshipDynamics #DiningPreferences #DatingDilemmas

Welcome to YODM Podcast Episode 73, where we dive into some captivating conversations that will make you ponder, reflect, and maybe even challenge your perspectives!

In this episode, we explore the age-old question: If you could sit down with a person of power for wisdom and knowledge, who would it be? Our discussions bring forth intriguing choices and the valuable lessons we'd hope to gain.

Next, we navigate the sensitive waters of friendships in committed relationships. Is it okay to have friends of the opposite sex? We share our thoughts and experiences, shedding light on this common dilemma.

And finally, we tackle an intimate topic - the myths and realities of men being deprived of sex once they tie the knot. Our candid conversation opens the door to understanding and navigating the dynamics of marital intimacy.

Tune in for a dose of thought-provoking dialogue and engaging insights that are sure to spark your curiosity. Join the discussion, share your thoughts, and let the conversations continue! 🎙️💬 #YODMPodcast #WisdomandKnowledge #OppositeSexFriendships #IntimacyDebate

In YODM Podcast #72, we explore a spectrum of topics that will leave you pondering and entertained. Join us as we discuss the impact of educators who uplift students and those who fall short. Dive into the intriguing world of entertainers with rich people problems, and learn about the trials and tribulations of relationship bootcamps. Plus, we let our imaginations run wild as we explore the fascinating 'what if' scenario of winning the lotto. It's a rollercoaster of thoughts and insights you won't want to miss!

• Championing Good Men vs. Critiquing Bad Fathers:
  • Explore the balance between highlighting the positive qualities of men and addressing the shortcomings of fathers who fall short of their responsibilities.
• Modern Dating Dynamics:
  • Discuss the ways in which dating and courtship have evolved in contemporary society, and how they differ from traditional norms.
• The Impact of Sexual Choices on Women:
  • Consider the idea that women may feel they lose a part of themselves through their sexual experiences, and the nuances of this sentiment.
• Seeking Ideal Partners at Different Life Stages:
  • Examine the complexities of individuals pursuing the 'perfect' partner in youth and then reevaluating their preferences as they age.
• Balancing Personal Feelings with Parenting:
  • Delve into the emotional struggles of individuals who suppress their feelings for the sake of their children's well-being.
• Unrealistic Expectations in Relationships:
  • Investigate the unrealistic standards people often set when seeking partners, especially when they themselves may not meet these high criteria.

On this episode we discuss:

• Holding your tongue in a relationship when your not the bread winner
• How many sexual partners a person has to be calle a hoe?
• Should you have a child when you have a medical condition that can be past to your newborn child?

Plus, more!!

On this episode we discuss:

• Would you date you friends ex?
• Would you bet someone that your partner would do anything outside of this relationship?
• Shaming men for what we won't in a women and women say what the wont all the time.

Plus, more!!!

On this episode we discus:

• The things we normalize that we shouldn't.
• Why don't we champion the smart kids, but we praise the jogs?
• What is the biggest misconception of love?

On this episode we discuss:

• The cure for a good relationship
• What are your parameters for cheating?
• Right outside there's someone for you
• The shoulder to cry on type of guy who just wants to sleep with you

Plus, more!!

On this episode we discus:

• Accepting your child's sexual preference
• Younger men wonting older women
• Are men becoming more feminine 

Plus, more!!

On this episode we discuss:

• Nothing new under the sun 
• A draw full of condoms
• Natural look or makeup

Plus, more!!

On this episode we discuss:

• Gold diggers
• Honesty in a relationship
• Dating tips
• Can an older person keep up with a younger person in a relationship

Plus, more!!

On this episode we discuss:

• Kids having lack of respect for their elders 
• What is love?
• Should men stay in a bad relationship for the sack of the kids?

Plus, more!

On this episode we discuss:

• What is snitching
• Should you sing like a bird?
• Wearing tights in public and the gym
• No new friends 

Plus, more!

On this episode we discus:

• Empowering women
• Expectations of submitting in a relationship
• Is it natural for a man to be with one woman?

Plus, more!

On this episode we discuss:

• Respecting people's boundaries
• What makes good vagina
• Moring breath in a relationship

Plus, more!!

On this episode we discuss:

• Should you celebrate a divorce
• Is experience the best teacher?
• If you had to choose to hear from your partner, he/she cheated with one person 3 times or he/she slept with 3 different people one time each?

Plus, more!!

On this episode we discuss:

• Imperfect people wanting a perfect relationship
• Playing lotto and who really wins the lotto????
• Eating dinner in the nude with your partner to spice up the relationship

Plus, more!!!

On this episode we discuss:

• Friend or foe
• Affirm your action
• Letting go going through

Plus, more!!

• Freakiness in the bedroom can it save a relationship?
• Trust and cheating
• Would you have a relationship with someone with a prosthetic limb 

Plus, more!!

On this episode we discuss:

• Allowing your partner to hang with their EX when you're not around
• Should their be any attachment with an Ex when there's no children involved
• What's love got to do with it

Plus, more!

On this episode we discuss:

• The almighty vagina 
• Small, minded people
• Oral sex and the sneaky finger smell
• Riming

Plus, more!!!

On this episode we discuss:

• Sex has to be the bomb
• Are you qualified to talk?
• What is trash sex?
• Are men shallow?

Plus, more!!

On this episode we discuss:

• Boston Celtics Head Coach job misconduct 
• For every good-looking woman there's a man tired of her
• Weaponizing sex
• Knife & Fork looking for groceries

Plus, more!! 

On this episode we discuss:

• PNB Rock rest in peace
• Sticking out like a saw thumb
• Hanging with single friends
• Settling 
• dating someone who was incarcerated 
• What matters more looks or being happy?

Plus, more!  

On this episode we discuss:

• What does being submissive looks like to you
• Toxic relationships
• Older men dating younger women 

Plus, more!

• Class is in session
• Friend zone
• A gentleman is a patient wolf
• Settling in a relationship

On this episode we discuss:

• Nick Cannon fathering some many kids
• Finding out you're not the biological father
• Minding other people's business
• Dog trainers 

Plus, more!!!

On this episode we discuss:

• Sentenced to 9 years, will people learn from this
• Can the power of the "D" lead a person to kill?
• What legacy will you leave for your child

Plus, more!

On this episode we discuss:

• Women having children with me they know isn't good
• Would you go back to an old relationship
• Should you forgiver or forget
• Black love 

Plus, more!

On this episode we discus:

• Having a best friend of the opposite sex, while in relationship is that a bad or good
• Background checks on potential partners
• Being submissive

Plus, more! 

On this episode we discuss:

• Backpedaling into old relationships
• Who's a better cheater?
• Older men dating younger women

Plus, more!

On this episode we discuss:

• Can a man change for the right women? 
• Should women win a man over
• Who usually gains more in a relationship a man or women?

Plus, more!!!

On this episode we discuss:

• Certain traditions when it comes to eating foods with your hands
• Relationships 
• Would you enter a relationship if your partner doesn't perform oral sex

Plus, more!!

On this episode we discuss:

• Gun control
• Social media being abused
• Common law wife rights
• Is it really love

Plus, more!!

On this episode we discuss:

• The shooting at a school in Buffalo 
• Would you defend your partner's honor
• fight or flight
• it takes two

Plus, more!!

On this episode we discuss:

• Racism
• Would you defend your partners honor when there wrong?
• Sacrifices made for a relationship
• Can a relationship survive after a partner cheated?

Plus, more!!!

On this episode we discuss:

• Prices on snacks doubling 
• Secret bank accounts while being married
• If your partner cheats on you would you ask why?

Plus, more!!

On this episode we discuss:

• Are women over 35 leaf overs
• Dating years younger than you
• Is being more mature a win
• Being submissive 
• Welcome back

Plus, more!!!!!

On this episode we discuss:

• Men can't handle women expressing their selves 
• Women needing to be more submissive
• Necessary things you need to keep your partner

Plus, more!  

On this episode we discuss:

• Places you frequent in hopes of meeting someone
• High expectations 
• Dating Vs, Seeing someone

Plus, more!

On this episode we discuss:

• Shedding pounds of negative energy
• We're to old to argue
• What black people won't do 
• Gallon of love Vs a pint of love

Pus, more! 

On this episode we discuss:

• The almighty slap 
• War
• Build a bear
• Defending your women
• One true love

Plus, more!!

On this episode we discuss:

• Children education 
• Being to prideful
• Relationship goals
• Some women turning problems into issues

Plus, more!!

On this episode we discuss:

• How much should you spend on your first date
• Relationship Starter Kit
• Defining love
• Business support

Plus, more!

On this episode we discuss:

• National Women's Month 
• Relationship starter kits
• Leveraging the VJ
• Negotiation 
• Mental Health

Plus, more!!

On this episode we talk about:

• Parents choices 
• Cheating
• Submission
• Polygamy  

Plus, more!

On this episode we discuss: 

• Disgusting people
• If you have time to ask for credit "You're Not Doing Enough" 
• Would you tell on your child?

Plus, more!

On this episode we discuss:

• Relationships
• Drill music
• Whos mission

Plus, more!

On this episode of Your Opinion Doesn't Matter we discus:

• Black History Month
• Relationship goals
• Boundaries
• Intention Vs Opportunity

On this episode we discuss:

• Pastors 
• Faith Vs Churches
• Parental rights

Plus more

On this episode we discuss:

• Covid
• Let's cancel
• Should men cry
• Women should screen men there interested in

And more

On this episode we discuss:

• The need to strive for financial freedom
• Condition your kids mind to be  a boss not only a worker
• Hard work beats talent when talent is hardly working

On this episode we discuss: 

• Fathers who don't take care of thier kids
• Brown nosing co workers

On this episode we discuss the Pro's Vs Cons of interracial dating.

On this episode we talk discuss:

• Dangers at the job
• Fraud
• Are women selfish?

Plus more!

On this episode we disuss:

• Travis Scott concert incident
• Restaurants
• Unsanitary people and places
• Young Dolph

On this episode we take a deep dive into relationships, the good the bad and the ugly.

Welcome back! On this episode we discuss:

• My opinion
• What type of punishment is good for kids
• A fathers revenge
• The unjust conviction of a innocent man

On this episode we discuss:

• "Jon" the new bisexual Superman
• 61 year old man marry his 18 year old God daughter
• Community & Culture

And more!

On this episode we talk about:

• Losing one's virginity 
• Girls dating older men
• Would you turn your child in for a crime he/she commited
• Vacination

And more

On this episode we discuss:

• Being catfished
• Waist trainer
• Toxic people Vs Toxic conversations
• Cleaning that rock
• Competitive edge

On this episode we talk about:

• Teaching our kids to cook
• Saving money
• Dating
• Basketball life lesson
• A mothers love

And more

Welcome back on this episode we talk about: 

• Aches and pains
• Eating healthy
• Technology
• Porn

And more lol

Season 2 Episode 11

On this episode we discus:

• Insecurity
• Clidren and expensive clothing
• Treat yourself
• To much attention

This week we discuss:

• Wedding ring nightmares
• Should you allow your child to quit a sport after years of dedication 
• Mediocracy
• Love

Welcome back on this episode we discuss these topics and more.

• Do you believe a college education is essential for getting a good job?
• Should obesity be labeled as a disease?
• Wedding rings Vs Student loans
• Relationships Vs Social Networks
• Sexual harassment Vs flirting

On this episode we touch on:

•  Womens ambition- looking for married men
• 2 minute brothers
• Integrity in the work place 
• Sex workers- health care & 401k plans

This episode we talk about the lost of  love ones and are our childhood super hero's sacred and plenty more. 

This episode we discuss hiphop, current events and how we feel about the use of the "N" word.

This episode we talk about Black- on -Black crime. We also talk about the importance of mens health.

In this episode we discuss womens concerns in regards to why men do the things they do.
We take a deep dive into the mind of men and hear the raw truth from the intial thought followed by action.

This episode we talked about Autism, relationships, YODM game questions and more.

This is our third episode on zoom i hope you enjoy it!

This episode we touch on different topics with our special guest the ladies from "Girls Talk".