Chores at home can feel like the least spiritual part of our week, but they might be one of the clearest mirrors for what is in our hearts. For our children, doing chores is a very practical way for them to learn to serve at home and in church. See it as a teaching opportunity in discipling your children.  Don't let chores become a battleground or drudgery. Consider serving at home as an important lesson for raising our children to have a servant heart as adults.

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We talk about the kind of legacy that actually lasts and how everyday life at home shapes what our kids carry into adulthood. We share practical ways to keep Christ at the center through prayer, Scripture, and simple habits that build trust and leave a spiritual inheritance. 
• Why legacy matters at every age and season of life 
• Faith lived at home through visible habits like open Bibles and regular prayer 
• How busy parenting seasons still produce long-term spiritual fruit 
• Reshaping grades and performance into identity and gifting in Christ 
• Winning our kids’ hearts so they will listen to truth 
• Simple legacy practices like blessings, devotions, stories, and traditions 
• Why spiritual inheritance outlasts money, records, and achievements 

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We share why dating your spouse matters in a busy home, how small rhythms build a strong marriage, and how kids benefit when parents choose each other with intention. Theology meets practice as we talk phones down, curiosity up, and service as everyday romance.

• marrying pursuit with faith and the Christ–church model
• setting phones aside to be present
• using small windows for spontaneous, low-cost dates
• modeling healthy conflict, repair and affection for kids
• balancing kid talk with big-picture marriage conversations
• serving each other to lower stress before dates
• creating consistent rhythms like Friday lunches or walks
• navigating newborn logistics and trusting sitters
• celebrating milestones beyond anniversaries

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We trade fear-based parenting for love, swap screens for presence, and build a simple family mission that kids can repeat and live. We also share practical ways to read more, talk about money, and tithe in view so generosity becomes normal.

• choosing calm, explained discipline over fear
• setting no-phone zones and nightly charging spots
• using a “phone cage” 4:30–7:30 for dinner and homework
• starting a short family mission, tagline, and four values
• adding Scripture and fun to guide daily choices
• building reading habits to grow thinking and empathy
• teaching compensation, give-save-spend, and visible tithing
• encouraging teen work to build responsibility and confidence

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Change doesn’t ask permission—it just arrives. Holidays shift, kids hit new phases, marriages absorb pressure, and sometimes grief walks through the door uninvited. We sat down as a team to map a path through these seasons that keeps families grounded, honest, and hopeful, drawing on Scripture and lived experience to help you guide your kids with wisdom and grace.

You have read the title, now you have to listen to find out about the scary things to say at Chic-fil-a!  You are hooked!

On a more serious note, we will also explore practical ways to help children move from head knowledge to a lived, resilient faith through service, work ethic, mentorship, and honest discipleship at home. Stories, simple habits, and courageous modeling turn quiet belief into action that lasts.

• linking James’s “faith without works” to everyday family life
• mission trips and local service as growth accelerators
• age-appropriate serving: backpacks, hygiene kits, PB&J
• writing a family mission statement and bigger story goals
• letting kids invest their own money to feel sacrifice
• the power of witnessing gratitude up close
• everyday witness through kindness and brave words
• school and jobs as discipleship labs for diligence and respect
• connecting gifts and callings to God’s work in every sphere
• placing kids near faithful adults and real responsibility
• balancing discomfort with support to build resilience
• inner life practices: Scripture, prayer, confession, repentance

The toast that made the room cry wasn’t about achievements; it was about eternity. That moment at Jaden and Priscilla’s wedding sparked a bigger conversation about how talents, character, and steady choices shape a life that actually changes people. We open season four by connecting those dots—how small habits, wise mentors, and a clear purpose turn raw ability into a calling that serves others and honors God.

In this heart-to-heart conversation, we dig into six powerful practices that naturally guard against anxiety in family life. These aren't complicated strategies requiring special training, but simple rhythms you can begin implementing today.

Everyone, including our children, are constantly being bombarded with ideas and worldviews that compete to capture our minds and hearts so how do we evaluate and defend against those worldviews that are contrary to the Bible?  Tune in as we are joined by Foundation Worldview founder Elizabeth Urbanowicz to discuss biblical worldview and how to equip your kids with tools to measure every idea against truth.

• Foundation Worldview Curriculum: 00:00:34
• The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt:  00:11:07
• iGen by Jean M. Twenge:  "00:11:07
• Bad Therapy by Abigail Shier:  00:11:07
• Foundation Worldview (website): 00:25:12
• Acts 17 (Bible Passage):  00:33:48

How do you decide what's most important when everything feels equally important and urgent?  The team shares strategies to develop priorities and make time for the things that really matter.
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Interview with Steve Parr, author of “Why They Stay”.  Steve shares from his research and personal journey about the investments needed to help keep kids connected to the church for a lifetime.  Steve also discusses how to stay connected with kids that have already strayed.

Ann Carlino joins the team this month as they discuss how to manage family with aging parents.  They also tackle some tips to help younger parents know a few things to do early to help their families later in life.

The team shares about new opportunities this year and discusses the small habits that build into big change.

Time is one of the most valuable gifts you can give.  Paul and Daniel discuss the value of time together and time with Jesus.

God created animals for lots of reasons, and - believe it or not - animals can be a big part of building disciples at home.  Tune in for insight on that loveable family pet that is making a difference in discipleship!

Enjoying More Time in the Word 
A short episode with tips and encouragement to help you spend more time in the Word of God.  Pastor Paul shares from his journey.  

The powerful truths of the gospel are woven into our everyday lives.  We have the privilege of leading our children to a fuller understanding of the gospel each day as we walk in the Spirit and parent with wisdom. 

The team discusses some basic truths you can begin to explain to your kids to help them answer big questions about God and the Bible.

We’ve talked recently about manners and friends - but how do we deal with people who lack manners and aren’t friendly!  

(Season 2, Episode 44)

James Spencer shares more about his journey to become the newest member of the podcast team.  

There are only a few things that really matter in the long run. This is why making disciples at home is so very important. The team discusses what it takes to get the process going and how to stay on course.  

Your kids will be significantly influenced by their friends.  Great friends can have a transformational impact on the discipleship process.  The team shares keys steps to helping your kids find and keep great friends.

It’s hard to lead our kids, if we’re not growing ourselves. Enjoy some hints, hacks, and resource suggestions to help you jump start your own discipleship journey! And a new member of the podcast joins the team - welcome James, our new student pastor!!

Do you ever wonder if others have the same struggles as you?  The chances are, they do.  Giving ourselves room to be honest about struggles - even failures - is a vital part of the discipleship journey.  Our God is full of amazing grace and we don’t have to hide our sins in shame!

Returning guest Eric Williams joins Paul and Daniel in a fun discussion focused on basic life skills that guys (and girls) need to thrive.  Definitely a “dude” episode, with lots of talk of food, the Roman Empire, and tools!  A good listen for anyone raising boys.

It doesn’t take long to realize that manners matter!  Polite behavior isn’t the end goal, though.  Teaching our kids the principles behind manners and the higher goal of loving others is vital to the discipling process.  Dawson Romines joins the team as we unpack the impact of manners.  

All the way back to the beginning!  Our very first topic was “how to get your kids to church”.  Good stuff.  Hope you enjoy a throw-back!

What did you want to be when you “grow up”?  How do we best guide our kids to use their gifts and skills in the most powerful way possible?  Listen in and enjoy.  

The words we use can easily build others up or tear them down.  Learning to speak truth and love is a fine line.  God gives us a Helper in this daunting task!  Listen in to learn practical ways to praise your kids and build their identity. 

God’s Word has a lot to say about money.  It’s a great tool, but a poor master.  When, what, and how do we teach our kids about money - including the tithe and generosity.

Jennifer, Paul, and Daniel discuss the impact of new seasons and different stages for our families - some that come unexpectedly and others that sneak up on us.  In both, we have a steady God who never changes and never fails us.

An episode dedicated to the importance of clear communication.  When and where is best to communicate?  What blocks good communication?  How does the Lord communicate to us?

Disagreements and tension are a part of all relationships and families. Healthy conflict is the goal.  As followers of Christ, we have a unique call to peace and restoration in our relationships.  The team unpacks how that plays out in the daily walk of life!

Daniel and Dawson dive into some apologetics.  If your kids aren’t asking questions about God, they soon will be…so get ready!

A fun episode where we discover that good destinations are more about who you’re with than where you’re going.  Make the most of your time together and enjoy the destination!

Paul and Jaden enjoy some Q & A about challenges, failures, and growing up.

God has a wonderful record of helping all who cry out to Him.  We know He is our refuge, but how does that play out in practical terms?  The team shares personal testimony of breakthroughs and freedom.  

  The team talks about seasons of spiritual growth and breakthroughs.  There are things you can do to seek daily growth in your relationship with Christ - and then other times, a small act of obedience can jump start a season of growth and revival when least expected.  

Jennifer gets with her female interns to talk a little more on social media.  Kara, Savannah, and Taylor (parents had a lot to do with freedom).

Daniel and Paul continue the social media conversation with three young men. Jaden, Barak, and JJ each share helpful insights on how they were introduced to technology and social media.  We discuss limits, boundaries, and dangers - as well as the positive elements of social media and technology.

Tune in as Jennifer and Paul interview two young adults, home from college for the summer, as they share their thoughts on growing up with social media, growing up in general, and even some perspective on dating.  Returning guests, Kayla and Jaden, offer helpful advice for raising disciples at home.  

One thing that currently makes parenting more daunting is the rise of social media.  If you feel like you can’t keep up and you’re concerned about what your kids may be exposed to, then listen in as we start the discussion on technology and social media.  We talk about the good, the bad, and some wise options for protection.

Pastor Chris fills in for Paul this week as we talk about the epidemic of loneliness that is plaguing our current world. We were created to be in community not only with God but also with each other. But even in moments surrounded by friends and family still we can find ourselves feeling socially isolated. How do we combat and guard against this for ourselves and our children when they feel like they are all by themselves?

Paul and Daniel discuss the value of a growing faith in the promises of God. Jesus was always excited to find faith among people during his ministry, and as parents, nothing should make us more proud than seeing our kids trust in the powerful promises of God.

Who are the people that have had the biggest & best influence on you? There are “giants” who can pour into you and your kids, if we slow down and listen…most are just waiting to be asked. 

Helping our kids foster the right ambitions.  Hard work and motivation can be successfully passed to the next generation - especially as the Spirit gives guidance.

Pastor Chris is back to share some of his personal struggles with anxiety, along with practical tips on discipling at home. The team discusses the value of previous generations. 

 Jennifer, Cynthia, and Becky talk about the value of friendships for moms.  They discuss how to help each other's kids grow, how they deal with unique mom-stress, and where they find encouragement. 

 Paul, Eric, and Tim discuss the value of friendships for dads and how we can help in discipling each other's kids.  We also look at unique stressors and encouragements for dads.

Enjoy some insightful discussions on work/life balance and the value of deep relationships as the team hears from Chris Watson about life as a pastor.

When the hustle and bustle gets overwhelming, it’s time to figure out a better way!  Hear some honest discussion on schedules, priorities, and slowing down.

 How you end the day makes a big impact on the next day.  Don’t let this valuable time go to waste!  The team discusses getting the most out of your bedtime routines.

 Vision is that thing that drives you on and guides dreams to become reality.  The team discusses how to build vision into your kids through conversations, questions, and encouragement.

One of the most powerful tools in the disciple-building journey is prayer - and it may also be one of the most underutilized tools!  The team discusses the mighty impact of prayer.

Tim joins the podcast to set the record straight!  Just kidding…Tim & Jennifer make an awesome team and share a little about what makes Tim awesome! We also explore the value of christian friendship for parents - a vital part of raising disciples.  

 Paul and Daniel discuss tried and true methods of overcoming fear and worry.  Our kids need to know the Truth that will set them free!

 There are a lot of creative ways to make devotional times more interesting as you involve your kids in the Word.  Paul, Jennifer, and Daniel discuss who they relate to most in the Bible.

 A simple thank-you note can go a long way in teaching your kids to develop a heart of gratitude.  Expressing thanks will help you become a person of influence and encouragement!

Cultivating respect in our children is a lot of work - but it’s worth it!  Learning respect is key to living in a proper relationship with God.  

 This week our two podcasters, Jennifer and Daniel, tackle the topic of resiliency.  Come listen in as we talk about how you can use these moments of adversity in your child’s life, and even your own, to produce in them a strength of character that will serve them all of their days!

Getting more than one-word answers can be a fine art, especially as your kids get older. The group discusses the “whys &  hows” of encouraging your kids to connect and communicate.  

With a new year, new goals, and new challenges we discuss the real reason why we organize and seek clarity.  Let’s embrace rest!

A huge THANK YOU to everyone who’s made this podcast a part of your spiritual growth journey!  Enjoy a short episode about our favorite discipling moments as we head into 2023.

Take a minute to enjoy the wonder of the most precious Gift ever given - God’s own Son.  Ponder anew the birth of Jesus - Savior, King, Prince of Peace. 

 Christmas traditions, memories and some funny stories!  Plus an exclusive to “the Dooley’s 25 Days of Christmas”.  Enjoy, learn, and laugh!

This husband and wife team leads a vibrant marriage ministry and tackles a big question: How do healthy marriages help to make disciples at home?

17 year-old, Rachel Allen, helps lead worship at her church…and she happens to be Paul’s daughter as well!  Hear two music-minded people (Rachel & Daniel) as they share how worship has helped them grow in the discipleship process.  Good stuff!  

The ins and out of raising grateful kids.  The fine art of growing a life of gratitude in yourself and others.  Enjoy!

What are some practical things to do - or not do - to help your kids transition into adulthood with a vibrant faith in tact?  The college years can be a time of tremendous spiritual growth for you kids…and we want to help you build that vision now!

The team discusses theological concerns for this young generation.  Don’t be scared away by this topic!  Truth is, if you have thoughts on God, you’re already a theologian yourself.

As we approach the holidays, gifts are on our minds.  Is it really more blessed to give than receive?  Hear the team share their thoughts on the best gifts you can give.

 This week Jennifer interviews Daniel and Jake asking questions on the topic of building emotionally strong boys and raising them to be emotionally strong adults.

 Sherrill Hill and Les Epps join us for a conversation about the importance of facing, feeling, and moving through grief and loss.  

We are each responsible for 24 hours in a day - and our priorities will determine how we use our time.  Paul, Jennifer, and Jake share insights on making the most of your time!

 If we desire love in our homes, then forgiveness will play a big role!  Forgiveness is a core component of the Gospel and a crucial part of making disciples at home.  

The guys attempt to answer the age old question, “What could he be thinking?”  No doubt…raising male disciples comes with unique challenges and blessings!  Gain a little insight here on what’s going on inside a guy's head.

 How to help your kids find their “God-designed” calling.  While a career is important, a mission is even more valuable!

We all want to protect our kids, but when does protection cross over into helicopter parenting?  The team discussed when to guard, what to guard, and how to find a healthy balance between holding on and letting go.

 The group shares some of their favorites books, why reading matters, and how to help kids embrace a lifetime of learning.

  Emir Caner, President of Truett McConnell University, joins the team to talk about work & family balance.

 Social interaction is key to a healthy, vibrant life.  With modern technology more of us are finding a need for intentional face-to-face interaction.  The team discusses the difference “in-person” makes and how to help kids excel in the fine art of interpersonal communication.

Scott wears a lot of hats - and he wears them well!  A dad of 3 girls, a husband, a minister, missionary, preacher, writer, artist and more…Scott shares some fun and very valuable wisdom on building disciples at home and loving the teenage heart.

Jennifer is joined by Tami Jordan this week and they talk about a parents favorite time of year…back to school!  The ladies discuss being intentional during the school year in praying for, spending time with, and discipling your children.  This is also a great time to start new habits and get back into routines.

First-born, middle-child, “the baby”...or somewhere in between.  How does birth order impact personality?  Hear the pros and cons from folks that are living it…with special guests Jaden Allen and Kayla Jordan.

It seems like we are always trying to create a new habit or stop a bad habit.  The team investigates a variety of ways to practically stop doing what you don’t want to do…and how to find the motivation to start doing what you do want to do!

What to do when doubts and questions confront your faith.  All of us encounter opposing views in our daily life - our kids included - so where do you turn for answers?  The team offers some great practical steps and resources. 

 Paul, Daniel, and Jennifer discuss tactics for dealing with the struggles we will all face in this life.  From minor downers to full on despair, God’s word speaks loudly to the hope we have in Christ.  Plenty of practical ideas are discussed. 

The team welcomes Student Pastor, Jake Farrell, to the podcast.  Be encouraged as Jake shares about his journey to ministry and how his parents played a vital role.  Plenty of good book and movie recommendations as well.  Welcome Jake!  

 Recorded in the middle of VBS, the team interviews 4 kids about their favorite parts of VBS.  Seems like food was on everyone's mind!  Also, some good insight on helping your kids memorize & love God’s word.  

 Daniel and Jennifer interview two of our summer interns! Jaden Allen and Kayla Jordan talk about transitioning from high school (and home) to college (and away).  Tune in to hear their advice on friendships, what they wish they did in high school, and how they’re engaging the challenges in life as adults.

Looking back over the last two years, many of us experienced unusual times of solitude, quiet and potential boredom that led to breakthroughs and unexpected joy.  What was it about slowing down in the midst of a pandemic that created the time and space we didn’t even know we needed!

Discussions on salvation and the testimony that follows.  Talking to your kids about salvation can be daunting!  It’s normal for most of us to struggle with doubt, including our kids.  The team talks about ways to help affirm and bring clarity to life’s biggest decision.

Summer offers great opportunities to build lasting memories.  What is it about summer that everyone loves?  The team shares thoughts and ideas about making the most of your summer time together.

How do you mix money and discipleship?  (Answer…in every way you can!) The Bible has a lot to say about money.  It’s a great tool to help us and our children learn how to serve others well and discover much about our hearts.  You’re never too young (or old) to gather wisdom and discipline regarding ways to save, give, and spend.

The team discusses what they are currently learning…and probably relearning.  Should you get out of a rut or stay in a rut?  How to say no to the right things.  Dealing with change - and much more.

Time spent in the word is one of the most valuable things you can do in the disciple-making process - not to mention, your own spiritual growth.  The team takes an in-depth look at tools, habits, and tips for digging deeper into God’s word. 

Are you getting much alone time?  When was the last time you had a date night?  As much as we want to enjoy our kids and protect them from everything, there are times to back away.  The team discusses when and when not to intentionally pull away to give you…and your kids some space

We’ve probably all succumbed to fads and trends that we can look back on and laugh at now. The team discusses how to handle it when your kids start to think for themselves and encounter the peer pressure to be cool. What is actually cool, anyway!?

We look to our moms for unconditional love. Moms are superheroes, gifted with discernment - a major part of the discipling process.  Yet, in all this moms often give and give... and give to the point of exhaustion.  Listen in to hear some helpful reminders and insights to what it means to be a mom on mission!

 In this episode we begin to touch on just how important a dad's time and words are!  Most dads feel ill-equipped and unprepared for the challenge of building disciples at home - and yet we see it’s not only possible but perhaps one of the best challenges a man can take on!

This week the crew talks about how to explain your reasoning to your children so they know and understand why you are saying "yes" to some things and "no" or "not now" to others and how this changes overtime with little kiddos to young adults.

Enjoy hearing this sweet couple share their adoption story and how they strive to build disciples with 4 kids under 11 years old!  Nick is in concert at Harp’s Crossing on Sunday, 

How do you bring scripture into parenting?  The trio discusses the benefits of consistent Christ-like leadership in the home.  Listen & enjoy!

The trio brings Lakyn Hager to the hot seat.  An exceptional young lady, now navigating her faith as a young adult.  Be encouraged as she shares how she’s become who she is!

The team tackles three great questions from some of the teens at their church.  How to approach God when you’re stressed; How to live for Jesus in all situations; Why are Christians (at times) hateful.  Please submit more questions to: anchored@harpscrossing.com

Paul, Daniel, and Jennifer just returned from a youth retreat so they dive into the unique benefits of time spent away from home with the goal of spiritual growth.  Retreats can be very powerful…and provide some great memories as well!

Daniel found his way to the podcast last week, so this week we invited him back!  Here’s a little more of Daniel’s story - how he began his relationship with Jesus and how the doors have opened for him to serve others.

Paul, Jennifer…and special guest Daniel (!) provide insight on getting things done!  Do you struggle with never-ending projects that seem to grow bigger every day??  This episode will help you navigate a path to “finished”!

What helps to jump start spiritual growth in your life?  The trio shares various activities and habits that seem to precede times of personal spiritual revival!

The trio shares what has helped them to spend more time in the Word.  It’s a new year with new challenges and opportunities.  When it comes to building disciples, consistent time spent in the Word may be one of the most important things we can do!

Well, the word is out!  William is heading to Nashville to begin a new job…not to mention another BIG announcement he shares with us.  We laugh…and cry (just Jennifer, really!)...and talk about the future. 

All too often stress robs us of the best parts of life…and all too often it’s self imposed stress!  The team talks about how they handle stress and what helps them de-stress.

More than ever before, we see anxiety on the rise.  Whether it’s parents or children, our families are constantly faced with worry, fear, and anxiety.  God’s word has many powerful promises to help us learn to trust rather than fear.

What makes a great friend?  Do great friendships just happen?  The trio discusses friendships, past and present, to help discover the impact friendship can have on building disciples.

All things Christmas!  Favorite songs, favorite memories, and the greatest story of all time from Luke 2.  Merry Christmas! 

What were the things your parents or grandparents did that left a lasting memory for you as a child.  The trio spends time reminiscing about some sweet (and funny) childhood memories.

It may seem impossible to balance all that comes with this life, but with God’s help we can gain powerful insight into what really matters.  The trio looks at priorities, goals, and healthy perspectives to help us seek a more balanced life.

 It may not seem like it has much to do with building disciples, but sleep has a huge impact on how we live our lives.  The bible has a lot to say about sleep...and so does our podcast team!

The team answers a question about Lazarus...and then shares their personal self-discipline struggles and victories.  Great insight into what really matters!

Paul, Jennifer, and William tackle discipline.

 When it comes to media, what do you avoid?  What do you allow?  The team tackles the topic of media limits...movies, music, social media, and more!

Tough times will come - do we protect our kids from them or allow them??  We want to fight our kids' battles, but could adversity be the very thing God is using to shape their character?

How to get into your God designed vocation.  Paul, William, and Jennifer share about their own journeys into their calling and discuss what helps your kids become employable

William and Jennifer put Paul and his son, Jaden, on the hot seat.

The trio takes on questions from a bunch of kids!  This live episode provides great insight into the brilliant minds of children…and how they can stump William, Paul, and Jennifer!

Technology surrounds us and provides great tools for connections, information, entertainment, along with potential dangers/distractions.  What apps we love, avoid, and dislike.

 In this episode the crew tackles the impact of technology.  What have we gained, what have we lost, and how does it help us build disciples.

Special guests Parker Dooley and Maci Allen talk about VBS, using your gifts and Williams lack of dancing skill.

In this episode the crew discusses discipleship opportunities that arise
during drive time.

In this episode the trio takes a look at Meal time discipleship opportunities.

In this episode the topic of discussion is discipleship in everyday life

In this episode we get to know more about the hosts. Hilarity ensues as they
each take turns answering questions about themselves.

In this episode the trio discusses strategies for getting older children to not
only attend but to become more involved in the worship experience.

The very first episode of the Harp's Crossing Family Ministry.