We are Deadmen Talking Wed, 11 Mar 2026 19:34:08 -0400 https://www.buzzsprout.com/1791398 en-us © 2026 We are Deadmen Talking yes fd1bbf88-e0b5-5619-b930-26f9f1fdc540 Frank Wiseman and Bill Guandolo episodic false Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com) Frank Wiseman and Bill Guandolo https://storage.buzzsprout.com/jdqbh4gxzd8tx0ktloux6ibyoxy0?.jpg We are Deadmen Talking Depression: AKA The Covid Hangover Depression: AKA The Covid Hangover During the pandemic, depression cases tripled by volume.   Bill and Frank discuss the different types of depression and how the disease has affected both of them in their lives.   If you are a person that is having dramatic mood swings, feeling like the world is against you, not being able to get the energy to get out of bed (I think I am going to watch Netflix again all day), or having trouble controlling your temper check with your doctor, you could have clinical depression and it can be treated.

All resources from this episode are available at:
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By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this Podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition for your or other.   Consult a Physician for any conditions you may be having.   

]]> During the pandemic, depression cases tripled by volume.   Bill and Frank discuss the different types of depression and how the disease has affected both of them in their lives.   If you are a person that is having dramatic mood swings, feeling like the world is against you, not being able to get the energy to get out of bed (I think I am going to watch Netflix again all day), or having trouble controlling your temper check with your doctor, you could have clinical depression and it can be treated.

All resources from this episode are available at:
www.wearedeadmentalking.com/resources

By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this Podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition for your or other.   Consult a Physician for any conditions you may be having.   

]]> Frank Wiseman and Bill Guandolo Buzzsprout-9942062 Mon, 11 Apr 2022 08:00:00 -0400 2340 2 2 full false Fear: What do you do when you are scared of dying? Fear: What do you do when you are scared of dying? Frank realizes he under estimated how easy it is to breathe through and to become positive when someone tells you that you are are dying.   This episode is an eye opening example of Frank dealing with the fear that he told us that we should overcome in Season One.   If you listen to any episode it should be this one, Fear is is excitement without breathing

]]> Frank realizes he under estimated how easy it is to breathe through and to become positive when someone tells you that you are are dying.   This episode is an eye opening example of Frank dealing with the fear that he told us that we should overcome in Season One.   If you listen to any episode it should be this one, Fear is is excitement without breathing

]]> Frank Wiseman and Bill Guandolo Buzzsprout-10014930 Mon, 21 Mar 2022 00:00:00 -0400 2312 2 1 full false Episode 11: Season 1 Finale...Creating a plan to heal Episode 11: Season 1 Finale...Creating a plan to heal Season 1 comes to an end for DMT with an episode that puts it all together into a step by step plan of attack to heal.   The HEALIX program is a methodology that allows people to develop a process that promotes healing but more importantly fits into their lifestyle.

H   Hope
E    Explore
A    Analyze
L     Learn
I      Improve
X    Execute Consistently

Executing consistently is the key to any program.

Resources:
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]]> Season 1 comes to an end for DMT with an episode that puts it all together into a step by step plan of attack to heal.   The HEALIX program is a methodology that allows people to develop a process that promotes healing but more importantly fits into their lifestyle.

H   Hope
E    Explore
A    Analyze
L     Learn
I      Improve
X    Execute Consistently

Executing consistently is the key to any program.

Resources:
www.wearedeadmentalking.com/resources

By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this Podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition for your or other.   Consult a Physician for any conditions you may be having. 

]]> Frank Wiseman and Bill Guandolo Buzzsprout-9625954 Mon, 31 Jan 2022 00:00:00 -0500 2397 1 11 full false Episode 10: Happiness...will the Chappelle Show heal you? Episode 10: Happiness...will the Chappelle Show heal you? Bill and Frank discuss how finding what makes you happy in life will give your body the energy to help it heal.  Can laughter heal your soul?  Tune in and listen how it changed Bill’s life. 

Resources:

 www.wearedeadmentalking.com/resources

By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this Podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition for your or other.   Consult a Physician for any conditions you may be having. 

]]> Bill and Frank discuss how finding what makes you happy in life will give your body the energy to help it heal.  Can laughter heal your soul?  Tune in and listen how it changed Bill’s life. 

Resources:

 www.wearedeadmentalking.com/resources

By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this Podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition for your or other.   Consult a Physician for any conditions you may be having. 

]]> Frank Wiseman and Bill Guandolo Buzzsprout-9539363 Mon, 10 Jan 2022 00:00:00 -0500 2424 1 10 full false Episode 9: SLEEP - THERE IS NO SLEEP WHEN YOU’RE DEAD Episode 9: SLEEP - THERE IS NO SLEEP WHEN YOU’RE DEAD Bill discusses the critical role that sleep plays during chemotherapy. Creating great sleeping habits is as vital, if not more important, than any other facet of recovery. 

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]]> Bill discusses the critical role that sleep plays during chemotherapy. Creating great sleeping habits is as vital, if not more important, than any other facet of recovery. 

Resources:
www.wearedeadmentalking.com/resources

By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this Podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition for your or other.   Consult a Physician for any conditions you may be having. 


]]> Frank Wiseman and Bill Guandolo Buzzsprout-8917988 Mon, 20 Dec 2021 00:00:00 -0500 2078 1 9 full false Episode 8: How to Exercise During Chemo Episode 8: How to Exercise During Chemo As a former college football player, Bill was always strong and able-bodied. To say that cancer affected his physical strength is an understatement. How can anyone be expected to keep up their strength to exercise when chemo is killing not only the cancer cells, but muscle cells as well? Bill discusses his challenges with exercise and how he built a plan that worked. 

Resources:

www.wearedeadmentalking.com/resources

By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this Podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition for your or other.   Consult a Physician for any conditions you may be having. 

]]> As a former college football player, Bill was always strong and able-bodied. To say that cancer affected his physical strength is an understatement. How can anyone be expected to keep up their strength to exercise when chemo is killing not only the cancer cells, but muscle cells as well? Bill discusses his challenges with exercise and how he built a plan that worked. 

Resources:

www.wearedeadmentalking.com/resources

By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this Podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition for your or other.   Consult a Physician for any conditions you may be having. 

]]> Frank Wiseman and Bill Guandolo Buzzsprout-8917984 Mon, 06 Dec 2021 00:00:00 -0500 2031 1 8 full true Episode 7: SUPPLEMENTS - UNICORN TEARS, POWDERS, AND POTIONS Episode 7: SUPPLEMENTS - UNICORN TEARS, POWDERS, AND POTIONS With snake oil salesmen at every turn, you can spend thousands of dollars on supplements that do absolutely nothing for you. Bill discusses how he cut through this nonsense and discovered supplements that actually helped his healing through chemo.

Resources:  
www.wearedeadmentalking.com/resources

By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this Podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition for your or other.   Consult a Physician for any conditions you may be having. 

]]> With snake oil salesmen at every turn, you can spend thousands of dollars on supplements that do absolutely nothing for you. Bill discusses how he cut through this nonsense and discovered supplements that actually helped his healing through chemo.

Resources:  
www.wearedeadmentalking.com/resources

By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this Podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition for your or other.   Consult a Physician for any conditions you may be having. 

]]> Frank Wiseman and Bill Guandolo Buzzsprout-8917940 Mon, 15 Nov 2021 08:00:00 -0500 2684 1 7 full true Episode 6: You Are What You Eat (E6, S1) Episode 6: You Are What You Eat (E6, S1) With so many fad diets and quick-fix cleanses out there, it’s tough to know what’s right for you. Especially when you’re battling cancer. Bill discusses his dietary routines, the challenges of making changes, and how all of this affected him mentally during his chemotherapy treatments. 

Resources:
www.wearedeadmentalking.com/resources

By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this Podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition for your or other.   Consult a Physician for any conditions you may be having. 

]]> With so many fad diets and quick-fix cleanses out there, it’s tough to know what’s right for you. Especially when you’re battling cancer. Bill discusses his dietary routines, the challenges of making changes, and how all of this affected him mentally during his chemotherapy treatments. 

Resources:
www.wearedeadmentalking.com/resources

By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this Podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition for your or other.   Consult a Physician for any conditions you may be having. 

]]> Frank Wiseman and Bill Guandolo Buzzsprout-8725727 Mon, 01 Nov 2021 00:00:00 -0400 3164 1 6 full true Episode 5: Detox and Your Immune System (E5, S1) Episode 5: Detox and Your Immune System (E5, S1) When Bill left the hospital he was told to eat anything he wanted. “Weight gain is what you need to stay healthy,” he was told. Had Bill followed that suggestion, he would be dead today. Bill discusses how he strengthened his body for the cancer fight he embarked on in 2017. 

Resources:
www.wearedeadmentalking.com/resources

By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this Podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition for your or other.   Consult a Physician for any conditions you may be having. 

]]> When Bill left the hospital he was told to eat anything he wanted. “Weight gain is what you need to stay healthy,” he was told. Had Bill followed that suggestion, he would be dead today. Bill discusses how he strengthened his body for the cancer fight he embarked on in 2017. 

Resources:
www.wearedeadmentalking.com/resources

By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this Podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition for your or other.   Consult a Physician for any conditions you may be having. 

]]> Frank Wiseman and Bill Guandolo Buzzsprout-8725561 Mon, 18 Oct 2021 08:00:00 -0400 2854 full false Episode 4: Advocacy - The things your friend can do to help when you are diagnosed with Cancer Episode 4: Advocacy - The things your friend can do to help when you are diagnosed with Cancer Dana was Bill’s advocate--his best friend and wife during his fight with cancer. Bill discusses the importance of a partner during the cancer treatment process particularly as information is flying at you and you need someone to help manage it and process it to make the best decisions. He also shares resources available so that you do not have to face this battle alone.

Resources for Patients:

www.wearedeadmentalking.com/resources

https://www.lls.org/patient-support?ds_rl=1278572&ds_rl=1278572&gclid=Cj0KCQjw1ouKBhC5ARIsAHXNMI_8247-3Y2MRLQBTh4gkP98lljLmien7Peq37bj2Kxn4GVjTH5mZp8aAi-YEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds

Support groups:
 https://www.yourcancerstory.com/?gclid=Cj0KCQjw1ouKBhC5ARIsAHXNMI-QrlURl6QM1iPW7C7VP-D4OrpgV4gro4zEUs-abUd-KHedF1adhqkaAl9ZEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds

Questions to Ask:
https://www.cancer.org/treatment/finding-and-paying-for-treatment/choosing-your-treatment-team/questions-to-ask-your-doctor.html

Some responsibilities of the caregiver and questions to ask: 

 

·       #1 piece of advice. Journal. Journal. Journal. From DAY ONE! I didn’t start detailed with a notebook until transplant and I wish I would have started from the beginning. Yes, there is “My Chart” and other things doctors use, but that’s full of test results and medication names. It doesn’t include information from your perspective – how the patient is doing…how they felt on certain meds….how high was their fever on certain days, etc. Every time we went to an appointment, the journal went with me. Everything was dated and every conversation with every nurse and doctor documented. Believe it or not, all the dates, names, diagnosis, etc all start to run together. It’s overwhelming!!! WRITE IT DOWN!

·       Helping with oral medications – a pill case with the days of the week and planning ahead is how I kept up with this. 

·       Recording/documenting the medications that are being taken (and how are they feeling on the medications). 

·       Monitoring/documenting intravenous fluids 

·       Keeping a journal of patients changes in condition daily

·       Reporting symptoms to the health care team

·       Food preparation (this could change by the hour if you’re dealing with a patient on chemo!)

·       Maintain a clean home environment

·       Providing transportation to and from the hospital and doctors appointments

 

Hospital stay recommendations:

·       Journal - Taking Notes – start as soon as possible – DAY 1. Everything starts to run together. 

·       Noise cancellation headphones  - if you’re going in the hospital, so hard to sleep with all the noise at night in the hospital and sleep is KEY to recovering!

·       Weighted blanket – hospitals can be cold, with few to limited blankets. Weighted blankets can help with anxiety, ease stress, calms the nervous system.

·       Thick, warm socks! – hospitals can be cold, with blood flow being limited and feet getting cold

·       Comforts from home – favorite cup/coffee mug, special blanket, healthy snacks with easy access. If there’s no fridge, small cooler with drink options that are some fav’s from home. Depends on the hospital..some have good/great food and drink options, and others don’t. 

·       Diffuser – essential oils with diffusers are key to optimal relaxation and sleep when in the hospital. (oils we like to diffuse…frankincense , lavender, we use the Young Living Brand of essential oils)

·       Lotion – skin gets dry in&

]]> Dana was Bill’s advocate--his best friend and wife during his fight with cancer. Bill discusses the importance of a partner during the cancer treatment process particularly as information is flying at you and you need someone to help manage it and process it to make the best decisions. He also shares resources available so that you do not have to face this battle alone.

Resources for Patients:

www.wearedeadmentalking.com/resources

https://www.lls.org/patient-support?ds_rl=1278572&ds_rl=1278572&gclid=Cj0KCQjw1ouKBhC5ARIsAHXNMI_8247-3Y2MRLQBTh4gkP98lljLmien7Peq37bj2Kxn4GVjTH5mZp8aAi-YEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds

Support groups:
 https://www.yourcancerstory.com/?gclid=Cj0KCQjw1ouKBhC5ARIsAHXNMI-QrlURl6QM1iPW7C7VP-D4OrpgV4gro4zEUs-abUd-KHedF1adhqkaAl9ZEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds

Questions to Ask:
https://www.cancer.org/treatment/finding-and-paying-for-treatment/choosing-your-treatment-team/questions-to-ask-your-doctor.html

Some responsibilities of the caregiver and questions to ask: 

 

·       #1 piece of advice. Journal. Journal. Journal. From DAY ONE! I didn’t start detailed with a notebook until transplant and I wish I would have started from the beginning. Yes, there is “My Chart” and other things doctors use, but that’s full of test results and medication names. It doesn’t include information from your perspective – how the patient is doing…how they felt on certain meds….how high was their fever on certain days, etc. Every time we went to an appointment, the journal went with me. Everything was dated and every conversation with every nurse and doctor documented. Believe it or not, all the dates, names, diagnosis, etc all start to run together. It’s overwhelming!!! WRITE IT DOWN!

·       Helping with oral medications – a pill case with the days of the week and planning ahead is how I kept up with this. 

·       Recording/documenting the medications that are being taken (and how are they feeling on the medications). 

·       Monitoring/documenting intravenous fluids 

·       Keeping a journal of patients changes in condition daily

·       Reporting symptoms to the health care team

·       Food preparation (this could change by the hour if you’re dealing with a patient on chemo!)

·       Maintain a clean home environment

·       Providing transportation to and from the hospital and doctors appointments

 

Hospital stay recommendations:

·       Journal - Taking Notes – start as soon as possible – DAY 1. Everything starts to run together. 

·       Noise cancellation headphones  - if you’re going in the hospital, so hard to sleep with all the noise at night in the hospital and sleep is KEY to recovering!

·       Weighted blanket – hospitals can be cold, with few to limited blankets. Weighted blankets can help with anxiety, ease stress, calms the nervous system.

·       Thick, warm socks! – hospitals can be cold, with blood flow being limited and feet getting cold

·       Comforts from home – favorite cup/coffee mug, special blanket, healthy snacks with easy access. If there’s no fridge, small cooler with drink options that are some fav’s from home. Depends on the hospital..some have good/great food and drink options, and others don’t. 

·       Diffuser – essential oils with diffusers are key to optimal relaxation and sleep when in the hospital. (oils we like to diffuse…frankincense , lavender, we use the Young Living Brand of essential oils)

·       Lotion – skin gets dry in&

]]> Frank Wiseman and Bill Guandolo Buzzsprout-8725537 Mon, 04 Oct 2021 07:00:00 -0400 2556 1 4 full false Episode 1: Deadmen Tell No Lies Episode 1: Deadmen Tell No Lies Bill Guandolo had everything in life.  A successful career, a beautiful wife, a young son, and not a care in the world. That is until cancer entered his life and handed him a 7-month death sentence. Join us for the inaugural episode of Deadmen Talking to hear Bill explain the reason he is still with his family and recording this podcast four years later.

resources:
www.wearedeadmentalking.com/resources

 

 By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this Podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition for your or other.   Consult a Physician for any conditions you may be having. 

 

]]> Bill Guandolo had everything in life.  A successful career, a beautiful wife, a young son, and not a care in the world. That is until cancer entered his life and handed him a 7-month death sentence. Join us for the inaugural episode of Deadmen Talking to hear Bill explain the reason he is still with his family and recording this podcast four years later.

resources:
www.wearedeadmentalking.com/resources

 

 By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this Podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition for your or other.   Consult a Physician for any conditions you may be having. 

 

]]> Frank Wiseman and Bill Guandolo Buzzsprout-8917918 Sun, 25 Jul 2021 08:00:00 -0400 2884 1 1 full false Episode 3: Change and the Subconscious Mind (E3, S1) Episode 3: Change and the Subconscious Mind (E3, S1) The first step in fighting a disease that is slowly killing your body is to get your mind right. In this episode Bill discusses the steps he took to strengthen his mind so that his body was prepared to fight the toughest battle of his life. And so while the chemo was busy destroying his cells, Bill’s mind provided the strength necessary to endure the poison, the cancer, and the kidney failure he was experiencing.

Scott Schmaren - From the Howard Stern Show -
https://ultimatevisionarymind.com/

Charlotte Meditation :  Guru Ranjit
https://www.charlottemeditation.com/programs/meditation-teacher-training?gclid=CjwKCAjwhOyJBhA4EiwAEcJdcZjy9T30lHvaNUFtUw_Mmomgz21W3LbxPDbCXCbCgPbXj39OUTb6eRoCWSwQAvD_BwE

Train your mind , Change your brain  By :  Sharon Begley
https://www.amazon.com/Train-Your-Mind-Change-Brain/dp/0345479890

resources:
www.wearedeadmentalking.com/resources

By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this Podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition for your or other.   Consult a Physician for any conditions you may be having.


]]> The first step in fighting a disease that is slowly killing your body is to get your mind right. In this episode Bill discusses the steps he took to strengthen his mind so that his body was prepared to fight the toughest battle of his life. And so while the chemo was busy destroying his cells, Bill’s mind provided the strength necessary to endure the poison, the cancer, and the kidney failure he was experiencing.

Scott Schmaren - From the Howard Stern Show -
https://ultimatevisionarymind.com/

Charlotte Meditation :  Guru Ranjit
https://www.charlottemeditation.com/programs/meditation-teacher-training?gclid=CjwKCAjwhOyJBhA4EiwAEcJdcZjy9T30lHvaNUFtUw_Mmomgz21W3LbxPDbCXCbCgPbXj39OUTb6eRoCWSwQAvD_BwE

Train your mind , Change your brain  By :  Sharon Begley
https://www.amazon.com/Train-Your-Mind-Change-Brain/dp/0345479890

resources:
www.wearedeadmentalking.com/resources

By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this Podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition for your or other.   Consult a Physician for any conditions you may be having.


]]> Frank Wiseman and Bill Guandolo Buzzsprout-8725517 Sun, 25 Jul 2021 08:00:00 -0400 2676 1 3 full false Episode 2: Breathe, There Is Hope (E2, S1) Episode 2: Breathe, There Is Hope (E2, S1) The day you're told that you are dying may be the most shocking experience of your entire life. Your mind becomes chaos, your heart shatters, and your spirit is crushed. You think about your family and want to be there for them, but the doctor says you will be dead soon. How do you do to find hope and stay alive?

References from the episode:

www.wearedeadmentalking.com/resources

By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this Podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition for your or other.   Consult a Physician for any conditions you may be having. 

]]> The day you're told that you are dying may be the most shocking experience of your entire life. Your mind becomes chaos, your heart shatters, and your spirit is crushed. You think about your family and want to be there for them, but the doctor says you will be dead soon. How do you do to find hope and stay alive?

References from the episode:

www.wearedeadmentalking.com/resources

By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this Podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition for your or other.   Consult a Physician for any conditions you may be having. 

]]> Frank Wiseman and Bill Guandolo Buzzsprout-8725501 Sun, 25 Jul 2021 08:00:00 -0400 2665 1 2 full false