The cervical orgasm is often described as the deepest, most full-body climax a woman can experience — and it's the one the fewest people know how to reach. First studied in depth by researchers mapping how different kinds of stimulation affect the brain, it turns out the cervix has its own distinct pleasure pathway, wired directly to the brain through the vagus nerve.

This is a complete educational guide to understanding it — including the safety essentials most videos leave out.

What you'll learn: 

✔ What a cervical orgasm is and why it feels different from every other kind ✔ The vagus-nerve science behind its full-body, rolling sensation 
✔ The safety essentials — who can enjoy it, who should be cautious, and how to avoid pain 
✔ How to build the arousal and use the positions that reach it safely

This is an educational sexual-wellness video intended for adult audiences.

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Every couple has them — the things they're curious about but have never said out loud. Today we're pulling them into the light.

Deborah Kat — certified tantric educator, relationship coach, and host of the Better Sex podcast — walks us through the three categories couples are most curious about right now, and the part that matters most: exactly how to bring them up with your partner without it landing weird or killing the mood.

In this episode:

• The three pillars of couple's play — and what each one really gives you
• The difference between a kink and a fetish
• Why the person in charge and the person letting go are both after the same thing: trust
• Simple, low-pressure ways to start tonight — using nothing but your own body
• The exact words to introduce something new (and what to do if you get shut down)

🔗 Find Deborah: https://www.deborahkat.com/ | Better Sex podcast | @deborahtantrakat

Deb's Free Gift! https://www.deborahkat.com/relationship-lab-opt

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The A-spot, or anterior fornix, is a deep erogenous zone on the front vaginal wall that many people have never learned about. First identified in clinical research in 1997, it's associated with increased natural lubrication, heightened arousal, and deeper, more full-body pleasure. This is a complete educational guide to understanding and locating it — whether you're exploring your own body or learning with a partner.

What you'll learn:
 ✔ What the A-spot is and where it's located, according to the research
 ✔ Why arousal is essential to accessing this zone comfortably
 ✔ How the clitoris, G-spot, and A-spot connect as a pathway
 ✔ Techniques, tools, and positions for exploring it safely

This is an educational sexual-wellness video intended for adult audiences.

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What if the woman you're with isn't "low libido" or "vanilla" at all?

What if she's spent her entire life being taught that wanting sex, enjoying pleasure, or expressing desire makes her a "bad woman"?

In this eye-opening conversation, I'm joined by sexologist and researcher Chanelle Jolly Marshall to unpack the hidden cultural conditioning that keeps so many women disconnected from their sexuality—and how it quietly impacts relationships, desire, intimacy, and pleasure.

We dive into:

• Why so many women struggle to access their desire
• The "Good Girl" trap and the shame surrounding female sexuality
• How generational messages about sex shape your relationships today
• Why some women feel guilty for wanting adventurous or passionate sex
• Practical tools to reconnect with your body, communicate with your partner, and reclaim pleasure

Whether you're a woman trying to understand your own relationship with desire or a partner wondering why intimacy feels difficult, this episode offers compassionate, research-backed insights that can change the way you think about sex forever.

💬 I'd love to hear from you: What's one message about sex you were taught growing up that you're still unlearning? Let me know in the comments.

❤️ If you enjoyed this episode, please Like, Subscribe, and Share. It helps more people find honest, shame-free conversations about sex and relationships.

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Almost every woman has a kinky side she's never shown you — not because she doesn't trust you, but because she's waiting to find out if it's safe. This is the cheat sheet for using your words to unlock her fantasies.

What you'll learn:
 ✔ The opener that gets her to share the fantasy she's never said out loud
 ✔ Why "what if" is the most powerful two-word phrase for unlocking her desires
 ✔ Why feeling understood — not the filthiest line — is what actually turns her on
 ✔ Exactly what to say once you're in bed so she feels it twice

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What if AI could actually help you heal your sex life — and have the best sex of your life on the other side?

Women recovering from sexual trauma, bad relationships, and years of performing instead of feeling are turning to AI sexual companions — and what's happening is not what anyone expected. Today's guest didn't just use one. She built one. Morgan Hewett — two-time founder, former Meta, Harvard Business School grad, and founder and CEO of Devin — joins me to break down what these companions actually are, why women are turning to them, and what it does for their real sex lives with real partners.

In this episode:

• What an AI sexual companion actually is — and how it's different from a toy
• Why removing performance, faking, and pressure is uniquely healing for trauma survivors
• What women discover about their own bodies with no one else in the room
• What changes when she goes back to a human partner knowing exactly what she wants
• The takeaway you can use tonight — with or without the tech

🔗 Find Morgan & Devin:
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 TikTok & Instagram: @experiencedevin
 Follow Morgan's founder journey: @morgan.pink.founder

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The harder you try to make it work, the worse it gets — and that's not in your head, it's how your body is wired. An erection runs on the calm half of your nervous system, so the second you start monitoring it, you kill it. This is the five-move reset that gets you out of your head and back into your body, tonight.

What you'll learn:
 ✔ How to crowd out the anxious thoughts instead of fighting them
 ✔ Where to aim your attention so arousal actually shows up
 ✔ The one sentence that drops the pressure in the room instantly
 ✔ How to take the goal — and the fear — off the table completely

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She starts avoiding sex. He takes it personally. Nobody says a word. That silence has a name — the Bedroom Gap — and the gynecologist who coined the term is here with the fix.

Dr. Maria Sophocles — board-certified gynecologist with 30 years in menopause and female sexual health, author of The Bedroom Gap, and TED speaker with 1.3M+ views — breaks down exactly what's happening in her body, why his fix (the pill) made her problem worse, and how to bring pleasure back at any age.

In this episode:

• What menopause actually does to the vagina — and why sex starts to hurt
• The signs she's suffering in silence (and how to open the conversation without blame)
• The estrogen cancer myth that's been disproven — and the 30% stat nobody's heard
• Vaginal estrogen, testosterone, and progesterone: what they do and who they're for
• The five M's: massage, media, masturbation, mindfulness, and medications
• Why sex is the fifth pillar of health

🔗 Find Dr. Sophocles:
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Book: The Bedroom Gap
TED Talk: "What Happens to Sex in Midlife"
Coming soon: HOT! — her documentary on sex, menopause, and gender equality

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Round two isn't just possible — it might be the best sex she's ever had. Even if you already finished, even if you finished before she did, the night isn't over. This episode is the full playbook for the second half: the real science of the recovery window, why it's more in your control than you think, what to do the moment you soften, and the one thing to do in round one that makes going again effortless.

What you'll learn: 
✔ Why you naturally last longer in round two — and how to use it 
✔ The 90-second mistake that sours the whole night 
✔ How to keep her climbing while you come back 
✔ What to do the moment you soften — so it's a switch, not a stop 
✔ The one thing to do in round one that makes round two effortless

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Mistress Marley — professional dominatrix, financial domination specialist, and founder of Haus of Dominance, where she's taught over 10,000 students — breaks down what men are actually paying for, what submission really means, and how to explore giving up control in your own bedroom.

In this episode:

• What a dominatrix actually does — and what a real session looks like
• Why the loudest "alpha males" online are her biggest clients
• The difference between submission and weakness
• How women can find their inner dominant (starting with yourself)
• How to bring power play into your bedroom — or find a professional the right way

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Anal is one of the most searched sex topics on the internet — and one of the least talked about in actual bedrooms. Everyone's curious. Almost nobody's saying it out loud.

This episode is for both of you: the woman who's curious and never said it, and the partner who wants to ask without making it weird. The conversation (including the ten seconds that decide everything), the safety rules nobody explains properly, why her body is genuinely wired to love this, and the five steps from curious to craving it — on her timeline, built around her pleasure.

What you'll learn: 
✔ How either of you brings it up — and how to handle a shamey response without shutting down 
✔ The safety rules that make or break it: lube, bases, one-direction, and what never to use 
✔ The two-muscle anatomy that makes patience the entire technique 
✔ The "wearing trick" most couples skip — and why it's the step that makes everything work

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You've felt it. That moment mid-sex when she goes somewhere you can't follow. She's still moving — but she's gone. It's called dissociation. It's not about you, it's not about attraction, and it's not permanent.

Vanessa Cushing — AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and founder of Cushing Counseling and Sex Therapy Pro — breaks down what's actually happening and how to bring her back. And this one took a turn I didn't expect: men dissociate too. It just looks completely different.

In this episode:

• The signs she's checked out — and the very different signs he has
• The five gears of touch: pinpoint exactly where she leaves
• The "safe trust position" every couple needs before they need it
• How to retrain your nervous system to stay present

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In this episode, we break down the 5-step Mouth & Hands technique for blended orgasms—a simple, intentional way to combine oral and manual stimulation so the experience feels more connected, more consistent, and more intense.

Most people switch between techniques instead of combining them. But when you learn how to coordinate your mouth and hands, everything changes in how her arousal builds and how her body responds.

I walk you through:

•  Why switching between techniques can interrupt pleasure 
•  How blended orgasms work in a practical, understandable way 
•  The 5-step method to bring mouth and hands into sync 
•  How to stay connected to her responses instead of guessing 

If you’ve ever felt like you were doing a lot but not getting the reaction you expected, this episode will shift how you approach foreplay entirely.

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 Two bi women. One podcast. A real guide to better sex built from the inside out. 

Bi women know something about pleasuring women that most people never figure out. Because they've been on both sides — they know what it feels like to receive, and they know what it takes to give it well. That combination is a cheat code. And today we're handing it over.

Samia Mounts — queer, non-binary writer, actor, and host of Happy Slut podcast — joins me to share what bi and pan women know about the female body, desire, and pleasure that most people spend a lifetime missing.

In this episode:

• The insider knowledge bi women carry that nobody else has access to
• What women actually need to feel pleasure — and what most people never stop doing wrong
• What she's not telling you during sex — and why
• The specific moves bi women use that most people have never even considered
• How to have better sex tonight using what we know from both sides

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Up to 60% of women have fantasized about being dominated — and almost none of them have said it out loud.

This one's for the men who want to deliver what she's been replaying in her head and never asked for. Five spanking fantasies, the psychology behind each, and exactly how to make them land sexy instead of awkward — including how to talk about it first, how to keep it safe, and the aftercare most men skip.

What you'll learn: 

✔ How to bring it up so she actually says yes — and why consent makes her let go 
✔ Where it's safe, where it's never safe, and how to build intensity the right way 
✔ The over-the-knee punishment-and-praise loop she craves most 
✔ The anticipation move nobody talks about — and why aftercare is non-negotiable

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He's googling it at 2 AM and erasing his search history. Because he still thinks wanting to be pegged means something about who he is. It doesn't. And tonight we're blowing that myth wide open.

Interest in pegging among straight men is up 200% according to Feeld's 2025 annual report. Not in some dark corner of the internet — on mainstream dating apps. Men are putting it on their sexual bucket lists, bringing it up on second dates, and still going silent when it matters most. Today I sat down with Luna Matatas — sex and pleasure educator with over two decades of experience and the creator of Peg the Patriarchy — to talk about what pegging actually is, what men are really asking for when they ask for it, and what women get out of strapping it on.

In this episode:

• What pegging is — and what it isn't
• Why wanting to be pegged says nothing about his sexuality
• The prostate: what it is, where it is, and why men are missing out
• What women actually get out of giving it — physically, emotionally, erotically
• How to have the conversation with your partner without killing the mood
• A step-by-step guide to the first time — positions, lube, pace, and what not to do
• Why men who've been pegged say it makes them better lovers

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82% of women don't reliably come from penetration alone. Here's what's actually missing — and the five moves that fix it.

If she's never finished while you're inside her, it's not her body and it's not yours. It's anatomy. And once you understand it, everything changes.

What you'll learn:
 ✔ Why the clitoris has to be fully aroused before penetration even starts
 ✔ How to change your angle so her clitoris gets contact on every stroke
 ✔ Why you keep losing her right when she's about to get there — and how to stop
 ✔ The one thing that's been missing from penetration her entire life

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She's not hiding her book because she's embarrassed. She's hiding it because what she's reading is giving her something her sex life isn't — and nobody's asking what that means for your relationship.

Romance is the fastest-growing category in print. 51 million units sold in the last year. One in four NYT hardcover fiction bestsellers was romantasy. Women aren't casually reading this stuff. They're consuming it. Today I sat down with Carolyn Hood — certified sex therapist, licensed clinical social worker, and author of Sex Begets Sex: Reclaiming Desire as an Act of Female Empowerment — to decode exactly what's going on.

In this episode:

• What dark romance, romantasy, and smut are actually giving her that real life isn't
• Who's reading it — and why the numbers point straight to moms and long-term partners
• The porn parallel nobody wants to say out loud (but we say it)
• How to use her book to open a conversation you've both been avoiding
• Why innuendo and anticipation are the low-effort moves with the highest return
• 3 things you can do tonight to bring the heat from the pages into your bedroom

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A listener wrote in: "I'm 47 years old and going through perimenopause. Previously I would orgasm with my husband 90-95% of the time. Now I only orgasm 5-10% of the time."

She's not alone. Roughly half of all women experience orgasm changes during perimenopause — and almost none are told why or what to do about it. This episode covers the physiology behind the shift, the medical options most women don't know exist (including why the FDA just reversed 20 years of warnings about hormone therapy), and the five moves that bring pleasure back.

What you'll learn:
 ✔ The three physical changes during perimenopause that directly affect orgasm
 ✔ Why the FDA removed the black box warning from HRT — and what that means for her
 ✔ How to find hormone therapy providers online, including estrogen and testosterone
 ✔ Why her foreplay timeline has shifted and how to adjust
 ✔ How to relearn her body together after decades of knowing what worked
 ✔ Why taking the orgasm off the table is paradoxically what brings it back

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97% of adults have sexual fantasies. Less than a third ever act on them. The fear is almost never accurate — and in this episode, we're closing the gap between what you want and what you actually do.

I'll be honest: role play has always given me the ick. So I brought in Emma Velicski — romance author and founder of Saturday Box, the company turning kink and role play into a game you can actually play with your partner — to figure out why so many of us freeze, and how to finally get started.

We get into:

• What role play actually is (it's broader than you think)
• The real reason couples who want to try it never do
• Why it feels like a performance — and how to turn it back into play
• The "cheap knockoff" fear nobody names out loud
• Exactly how to start tonight, no costume required

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Most men have tried to make this happen. Most have done it wrong. And almost none of them understand what's actually going on in her body when it does.

This episode covers the real anatomy behind this response, why the technique most men learned from the internet actually works against them, the one thing she's going to say in the moment that most men completely misread, and why relaxation — not force — is what makes this possible.

What you'll learn: 

✔ The anatomy behind this response that most men have never been taught ✔ Why the most common technique is the reason it's not working 
✔ The conversation you need to have before you try anything 
✔ The one sentence she'll say that changes everything — and what to do when you hear it 
✔ Why what you do after matters just as much as the technique itself

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You never signed a purity pledge. Maybe you never set foot in a church. But the rules got in anyway — through locker rooms, movies, the way women around you were talked about, the bodies that got shamed. And now they're in your bedroom, quietly wrecking everything.

Today I'm talking with Erika Smith — award-winning sexuality educator, 25 years in the field, and creator of the Purity Culture Dropout program — about the specific ways purity culture shows up in men who consider themselves good allies. Men who want their partners to have orgasms. Men who are still, without knowing it, making it impossible for her to ask for what she wants.

We get into:

• Why she can't tell you to stop — even when she wants to
• The "good girl/bad girl" split that's killing your sex life right now
• How penis-centered sex became the default (and what it's costing both of you)
• The porn conversation that's destroying otherwise healthy relationships
• Where to start if you want to actually change what's happening in your bedroom

This one's for the men who are trying. And the women who love them.

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You can take her to a regular orgasm. Or you can take her to one she'll be thinking about for weeks. Edging is the difference.

In this episode, I'm breaking down 5 moves for how to edge her with your hands until she begs you to let her finish. The four signs that tell you she's at the edge. How to pull her back without losing her. Why each climb gets faster. How many edges actually work. And how to let her finish in a way that triggers a rolling orgasm she's never had with anyone.

This episode also addresses something most edging content ignores: what to do with a partner who struggles to orgasm at all. I'm one of those women, and I'm walking through how to build toward edging when she can't easily get to the edge in the first place.

We're covering: 
→ The 4 science-backed signs she's about to come 
→ The pull back — and why stopping completely ruins everything → How to bring her back up faster each time 
→ The 3-edge rule and when to break it 
→ The release that triggers a rolling orgasm → How to use toys like the Womanizer Enhance, Womanizer Duo, and We-Vibe Rave 2 to extend the experience

Whether you're doing this with a partner who comes easily or one who's never been able to with you — this episode changes the game.

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Most men learned foreplay from porn. And porn doesn't do foreplay — it does a sped-up, skip-to-the-good-part performance that taught an entire generation that touching a woman is just a formality. She's lying there wondering why she isn't feeling it. It's not her. It's the script.

Today's guest has spent 17 years collecting real-world data on exactly what porn got wrong — and what women actually need. Cindy Gallop is the founder and CEO of MakeLoveNotPorn, the world's first real-world sex platform, former Advertising Woman of the Year, and one of the most talked-about TED speakers in history.

In this episode:

• Why porn turned foreplay into a formality — and what she actually needs instead
• The 3-word cheat sheet every woman wishes her partner had
• Why lube and toys aren't optional — they're the whole game
• How to talk about sex in bed without killing the mood
• What real-world sex actually looks like versus the porn performance
• Why good foreplay starts way before anyone gets naked

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Most partners use one move with their hands. There are dozens. And most men have never heard of the deeper spot that changes everything.

This episode is a complete guide — how to prep your hands so she actually wants them on her body, the five named techniques that produce completely different sensations, the two internal spots most partners don't know exist, and the combination move that gives her something she literally cannot give herself.

What you'll learn: 

✔ Why prepping your hands is foreplay (and most men skip it) 

✔ How to build her response before you ever go where she wants you 

✔ My top 5 techniques by name — circling, figure 8, broadening, cupping, the Hail Mary 

✔ The two internal spots and what each one responds to 

✔ The combination that gives her something no toy and no other body part can 

✔ The finishing rule — and when to throw it out because she told you to

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Alpha male culture is teaching men to dominate, never ask, never show need — and it is quietly destroying their sex lives. Today I'm joined by James Harris, licensed mental health therapist, US Army veteran, and founder of Men to Heal, who has spent a decade watching this play out in real relationships. He's not here to shame men — he's here to give them what the alpha podcasters never do: the actual truth about what makes women want you.

What you'll learn:

• What alpha culture is actually teaching men about sex — and why it backfires
• Why performing masculinity in bed kills pleasure for both people
• The difference between sex and intimacy — and why it matters for your orgasm
• What vulnerability in a man actually does to a woman's desire
• How to undo the conditioning — starting tonight

Whether you're the man in this dynamic, the woman watching him disappear into it, or the partner who's been waiting for him to wake up — this one's for you.

🔗 Find James:https://www.mentoheal.com/ 

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You went soft during sex. She felt it. And the next thing you did probably made it worse.

Every man loses his erection. Most panic, apologize, or shut down — and that reaction does more damage than the erection loss ever did. This episode gives you the five exact moves that keep the moment going, keep her turned on, and get your body back without the shame spiral. Plus: why your erection is one of the earliest warning signs of heart disease, diabetes, and hormonal imbalance — and the tool that actually tracks it.

What you'll learn: 

✔ The move that stops both your spiral and hers at the same time 
✔ How to redirect to her pleasure so she barely remembers you went soft 
✔ Three sentences that save the moment (and the one she actually needs to hear) 
✔ Why the erection that comes back is almost always stronger — and how to let it 
✔ The cock ring that keeps you firm during sex and tracks your health between sessions 
✔ Why your erection is a vital sign and when it's time to talk to your doctor

This episode features the FirmTech TechRing and RingMate — the tools I trust and would want my own partner using.

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Nobody told us what to do with them. Sex ed skipped them entirely. And somewhere along the way, women just... stopped thinking about them. Until now.

Three women sit down and go fully, honestly, hilariously there — what we actually find attractive, what we've been getting wrong, and the moves that will genuinely change what happens in your bedroom tonight.

We're getting into:

• Why so many women are low-key intimidated by them (and how to fix that)
• The grooming conversation nobody's having — including the Nair tip
• How to know he's close without asking a single question
• The cupping trick that speeds everything up
• What we actually want to call them (drop it in the comments👇)

This is the conversation your sex ed skipped. Men — take notes. Women — you're welcome.

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The Praise Kink episode was one of my biggest videos ever — and your comment section proved you're ready to go deeper.

I pulled five questions I kept seeing and I'm giving you the real answers. Research, specifics, and the stuff I didn't have room for the first time around.

✔ What to call her when "good girl" doesn't fit — honorifics, worship titles, and why they work 

✔ Can you flip the praise kink and use it on men — and what does that look like inside the kink 

✔ How to actually build a verbal vocabulary when you've been silent your whole sex life 

✔ Why praise kink might be the most powerful tool for women in menopause 

✔ How to introduce praise kink — whether you've been together two months or twenty years

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She Stopped Wanting You & The Orgasm Gap Is Why (Here's the Fix!)

She didn't lose interest in sex. She lost interest in sex that never worked for her. Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons — award-winning psychologist, Emory University professor, and author of Good Sex — breaks down the real data behind the orgasm gap, why it slowly kills a woman's desire, and exactly what closes it.

• Why 75% of women have faked it (and what that's really costing you)
• The script both men AND women buy into that kills her desire over time
• Why lesbians are finishing at 88% — and what straight couples can learn from it
• The mental load connection nobody talks about
• How mutual masturbation rewires the whole dynamic
• What to do tonight to start closing the gap for good

📖 Good Sex: Stories, Science & Strategies for Sexual Liberation — available now  Find Dr. Hargons: https://www.instagram.com/dr.candicenicole/ https://www.drcandicenicole.com/

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It's Masturbation May — and I'm giving you the practice that will upgrade your sex life more than any new position, any new toy, any new technique.

Mutual masturbation. Touching yourselves at the same time, in the same bed, watching each other.

It removes the pressure to deliver an orgasm. It builds the connection most couples are missing. It shows you exactly what works on each other's bodies. And it lets you both discover new pleasure together.

What you'll learn: 

✔ Why this practice fixes the orgasm pressure problem most couples have ✔ The exact words to suggest it without making it weird 
✔ The starting position that makes it feel intimate instead of exposing 
✔ The face-to-face position that builds connection most couples are missing ✔ The hand-on-hand technique that teaches your partner's exact pressure and rhythm 
✔ How to use this practice to discover new types of orgasms together

My Guide to Best Couple's Sex Toys For Mutual Masturbation: https://talksexwithannette.com/the-best-couples-sex-toys-for-mutual-masturbation/

Pair this with my 365 Days of Orgasms series for full tutorials on G-spot, A-spot, blended orgasms, and every other technique I reference: 

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Please stop fucking us hard. Seriously. That's the message — and if you heard it in Suzanne Noble's voice during this episode, you already know why it hit so hard.

Suzanne is the host of Sex Advice for Seniors — nearly 200K followers, 180+ episodes, and the most unfiltered voice on intimacy and aging out there. She and I got into everything: why your arousal pattern changes after 50 and what to do about it, what men in their sixties are getting wrong in bed (and the one thing they could change tonight), why women who spent decades having duty sex are now retiring from it entirely, the swinging scene from a queer woman's perspective, dating younger men, and why the women having the best sex of their lives right now are the ones who finally stopped performing.

If you're over 50, send this to a friend. If you're under 50, send it to yourself for later. Desire doesn't retire — unless you let it.

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Does she grab your hair like she forgot her own name? Does she text you at 2 AM the next day because her body won't stop replaying it? If not, the gap between what you're doing and what would make her lose her mind is just 7 moves nobody ever taught you.

This episode gives you 7 moves she's never felt before. Not because they're complicated — because nobody teaches past the basics.

What you'll learn: ✔ You're only hitting 20% of her nerve endings — the tongue fix that changes that ✔ Why your hands are either doing nothing or making it worse ✔ The counterintuitive pull-away that doubles her body's response ✔ A 30-second temperature trick with no toys and no planning ✔ The angle change she's never experienced in her entire life ✔ Why your silence is actively working against you ✔ One look — three seconds — that she'll remember longer than the orgasm itself

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There are one night stands you forget before you've brushed your teeth — and there are one night stands you're still thinking about years later. Today we're breaking down the difference.

Zachary Zane — author of Boy Slut, Men's Health sex columnist, and Grindr's official sex and relationship expert — joins me to map out exactly how to have a one night stand that actually lives up to the fantasy. From the mental prep most people skip, to where to find the right person, to what happens in the room that makes it unforgettable — we're covering every stage.

We get into: 

→ The honest conversation you need to have with yourself before you go out 
→ Where to find casual sex based on your gender, orientation, and vibe 
→ How to communicate what you want without killing the momentum 
→ Why one night stands can be MORE intimate than relationship sex 
→ The aftercare that turns a hookup into a core memory instead of a regret 
→ Safety tips every woman needs before leaving with a stranger

Plus — we both share our own one night stand stories, because we've been there. A lot.

🔗 Find Zachary: @zachary_zane_ on Instagram | Substack: Boy Slut | Book: Boy Slut: A Memoir and Manifesto

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You watched How to F*ck Slower. You tried it. Then you lost your erection and panicked. This is the fix.

Slowing down is the single best thing you can do for her pleasure — but nobody talks about what happens to you when you do it. Your brain speeds up, your body gets nervous, and you lose the one thing you need to stay in the game. This episode breaks down exactly how to stay hard, stay present, and become the man who can go slow without flinching.

What you'll learn: 
✔ Why slowing down triggers erection loss — and how to override it |
✔ The metronome technique that keeps you steady and hard 
✔ Why your erection is a vital sign and how to start treating it like one 
✔ The tech I personally use and recommend for erection quality

Use code ANNETTE15 on the Tech Ring and Ring Mate : https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti

🔗 Watch first: How to F*ck Slower — and Leave Them Craving You for Days https://youtu.be/5Wid_oqJPLk

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Most couples stumble into bed hoping their bodies will figure it out. They don't. Because nobody's talking about who's leading, who's surrendering — or whether you're both fighting for the same role.

Today's guest is Sarah Perry — certified somatic sex educator, sexological body worker, and founder of Haven Space Coaching. She holds a master's in psychology and a background in women, gender, and sexuality studies. Sarah works with people through the body to help them understand what they actually want in bed without the shame.

We're breaking down:

• What dominant and submissive energy actually means (hint: it's not what you think)
• How to figure out your default — and why it changes with different partners
• Why "feminine energy = submissive" is killing your sex life
• The 5-minute game that'll tell you exactly who you are in bed
• How to stop the awkward bedroom guessing game for good

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You've been misreading her in bed. The loudest sounds she makes? Those aren't for her. Research shows the majority of women vocalize to speed up his finish — not because they're in pleasure. Meanwhile, the sounds that actually mean she's deep in it? Most men miss them completely.

In this episode, I break down the five real sounds she makes during sex — what each one actually means and the exact move to make when you hear it. This isn't theory. This is a playbook.

🔥 What you'll learn: → The "sound" most men mistake for boredom (it's the opposite) → How to tell a real moan from a performance → The one gasp that means you found something — and how not to lose it → Why her going silent is the best sign, not the worst → The only sound you can't fake and can't force — and what to do when it happens

Drop LISTEN in the comments if you want the full sequence — how to take her from sound one to sound five.

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What is bimboification — and why are so many people hiding it? Sex and relationship coach Niki Davis-Fainbloom breaks down one of the most misunderstood fetishes out there, where it comes from, and how to explore it in your relationship without the shame spiral. Because the fetish isn't the problem. The shame is.

• What bimboification and cross-dressing fetishes actually are
• The real link between bimboification and drag
• How shame drives desire underground — and the damage it does
• How to tell your partner and actually have it go well
• Low-stakes ways to explore it together

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She's not withholding. She's not checked out. And it has nothing to do with how long you've been together.

Here's what's actually happening: every time you touch her, kiss her, pull her close — she can feel that it has a destination. And when desire always has a destination, she stops being in the moment and starts managing the arc. So she waits. Every time.

What she's craving is a partner who is just as hungry for the moments between sex as he is for sex itself. That shift — when she finally feels it — changes everything.

In this episode I'm giving you five specific moves that build her desire from the inside out. Before sex. During sex. After sex. All of them designed to do one thing: make her want to be the one who starts it.

✔ The kiss that makes her think about you all day — before 9am ✔ How to drop charged moments into your day that build heat without asking for anything ✔ What women who have sex with women know about pleasure that most men don't ✔ How to be her pleasure dom — and why the giving is the getting ✔ The 20-minute window after sex that determines whether she initiates next time

This is the episode she's going to send to you. And the one you're going to watch twice.

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You think you know what a fetish is — leather, feet, something you scroll past. But the cultural conversation leads with the weird and skips the why. Today we're flipping that.

Jessica Renard — licensed professional counselor, sex therapist at StorieBrook Associates, and a therapist who works directly within the kink communities in Georgia — breaks down the fetishes that actually show up in relationships and the therapist's office. What's happening in the brain, the body, and the relationship when someone has one? And what do you do when you or your partner has a fetish?

time stamps: 

0:00 Intro 
5:30 Difference between fetish, kink, & paraphilia 
6:20 How does a fetish form and who has them 
12:00 Foot Fetish 15:00 Age Play 18:14 Pet Play 
22:44 Attraction to Clowns 
28:00 Attraction to people with amputations 
33:00 Adult Baby Diaper Fetish 
36:00 Somnophilia & Dormaphilia 
42:00 Human Furniture 
48:00 Erotic Hypnosis

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Most men are completely silent during sex. And that silence is costing you more than you realize.

Surveys suggest that roughly 3 out of 4 women say verbal affirmation during sex increases their arousal and orgasm intensity. But it's not just about saying nice things — it's about pairing specific words with specific physical moves at exactly the right moment. That combination does something to her body that neither one can do alone.

In this episode, I'm giving you 5 praise kink moves — each one a phrase paired with a physical technique — that make sex better for both of you. And by move 5, you'll understand why she starts initiating.

What you'll learn: 
✔ Why "good girl" does more than an hour of thrusting 
✔ The word + touch combinations that trigger arousal she can't fake 
✔ How to use praise during edging to create the most intense experience she's ever had 
✔ The 60-second move after she finishes that makes her want you again

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Is he a sex addict — or does he just want it more than you? The term gets thrown around constantly, but most people have no idea what it actually means. In this episode, I sit down with marriage and family therapist Kate Logan — who specializes in compulsive sexual behavior at the Center for Healthy Sex in Los Angeles — to finally draw the line between high libido, kink, and genuine sexual compulsivity.

We get into:

• What separates a sex addict from someone who just really loves sex
• Why infidelity doesn't equal addiction — and why that label can do real damage
• How shame and secrecy fuel compulsive sexual patterns
• The kink vs. addiction confusion that's quietly destroying relationships
• What's actually underneath sex addiction (it's not what you think)
• What treatment looks like — and why the goal is never abstinence

If you've ever wondered whether your own patterns — or your partner's — cross a line, this episode gives you the framework to actually figure it out.

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She's thought about faking it. Statistically, she probably has.

Between 58–80% of women have faked an orgasm — not once, but regularly, with partners they actually cared about. Most of those men never knew. If you want to be the exception, this episode is for you.

This isn't about blame. It's about understanding what actually creates faking — and the specific things you can do to change it.

What you'll learn: 

✔ The 6 real reasons women fake it (none of them are what you think) 
✔ Why "just ask her what she wants" is not actually a solution 
✔ The specific moves that make honesty feel safe enough to happen 
✔ How to stop being the man she performs for and become the man she actually wants

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Men's sexual shame doesn't look like what you think. It's not about a secret kink. It's the guy jackhammering away thinking that's what success looks like. The one who won't make eye contact. The one who avoids dating entirely — not because he doesn't want connection, but because his nervous system won't let him get close.

I sit down with Alex Gear — men's intimacy anxiety coach who never experienced sober sex until he got sober three years ago — to unpack what sexual shame is actually doing to your sex life and what you can do about it starting tonight.

In this episode:

• Why "lasting longer" and "going harder" has nothing to do with her pleasure
• The porn script that's overriding what his partner actually tells him
• How shame shows up as shallow breathing, no eye contact, and mechanical sex
• Avoidance tactics in dating and relationships — how to spot them
• Mindful masturbation as a tool for rewiring shame
• What women can do in the moment when things stall
• 3 takeaways to start improving your intimate life tonight

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She's been waiting for you to figure this out.

For a huge number of women, watching a confident man willingly submit to her is one of the most erotic experiences that exists. Not a weak man — a man who is secure enough to give her complete control and trust her to lead.

This episode is about real submission. Not performing. Not topping from the bottom. Actually letting go.

What you'll learn:

• 5 specific ways to submit that she'll never forget
• Why real submission requires more confidence than dominance
• How to give her control without losing yourself
• The psychology behind why this creates intense desire
• Safety, consent, and nonverbal signals for power exchange

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