Havin' the Chats Podcast

Behind Closed Doors - Infertility

Sat, 31 Dec 2022 09:00:00 +0000

This weeks episode is a little bit different. After taking a break for a few weeks, we chose this time to chat about a personal journey for Maeve that deals with infertility.

We feel this is an important episode as it highlights that we really don't know what goes on behind closed doors.

As this is the last episode in Season 3, I want to take this opportunity to thank my co-host Dave for joining me on this season, it's been great fun! and a big thanks to all of you for listening.

We hope you have a safe, healthy and happy Christmas and New Year

Relationship Breakdowns & Blending Families

Mon, 17 Oct 2022 07:00:00 +0100

In this weeks episode we remember the tragic loss of three young lives in the Tallaght murder, we mark the passing of Queen Elizabeth and we learn a few tips and tricks along the way.

We focus our chat in this episode on relationship breakdowns, the causes and how people deal with it and how lives can change when a relationship ends.

We also discuss the inevitable blending of families when one or both partners move on and how to approach that dynamic.

We hope you enjoy.

Phobias, Tattoos & Guilty Pleasures

Mon, 10 Oct 2022 07:00:00 +0100

On this weeks episode we had great fun chatting about phobias, tattoos and guilty pleasures. We also had our usual check-ins and discovered some new and interesting things - we hope you enjoy!

Influencing Social Media

Mon, 03 Oct 2022 07:00:00 +0100

Welcome to episode 5 where we regroup on all things social media; the good, the bad and the things we learn from it. We talk about the benefits of taking time away from it but understanding it's benefits too. We discuss the emergence of the Karen culture which has increased significantly since covid lockdowns and spread like wildfire on social media. The ups, downs and in-between of all it has to offer - we hope you enjoy!

Anxiety & Finding Mindful Moments

Mon, 26 Sep 2022 07:00:00 +0100

On episode 4 we shared our own journeys of anxiety, social anxiety, panic attacks and all that they entail. We also shared our own thoughts on mindfulness and how we incorporate it into our daily lives and how the love of the sea can really help ease stress and anxiety...as you navigate the cold waters of Ireland! We hope you enjoy!

Are you still you when you become a parent?

Mon, 19 Sep 2022 07:00:00 +0100

Welcome to episode three of season three! We had a fantastic chat this week about all things parenting from discussing how we felt as we became parents and if we changed and lost some of our old self in that new role.

We also have a great laugh chatting about just how important it is to embarrass our kids and allow them to do the same to us - as well as reminiscing about the childhood games we played - we hope you enjoy!

Is Age Just a Number?

Mon, 12 Sep 2022 07:00:00 +0100

On this weeks episode we delve into the wonderful aging process and discuss whether in fact age really is just a number or something we should dread? We also chat about exercising as we age and ask if it changes as we age or why we should do it. Our usual check ins and lots of laughs - we hope you enjoy!

Jobs for Life or Just for Now

Mon, 05 Sep 2022 07:00:00 +0100

We're back and this season we've teamed up with Dave who's the CEO of From Lads to Dads. We're delighted to join forces for Season 3 and really have the chats about anything and everything we can think of!

On this weeks episode we talk about jobs, how society used to dictate that 'jobs for life' mantra and how that has changed significantly over the past number of years.

We also chat about job interviews and how we keep our brains active. Oh and not forgetting our regular check in slot - we hope you enjoy!

Find Another Door: you have the choice to change things

Mon, 18 Oct 2021 07:00:00 +0100

This weeks episode is the last of Season 2. It sees me chatting to Tony - someone I worked with many years ago and I actually got to record this one in the studio and not in my linen closet, amazing! So today we chat about how life can change in an instant and how we all have that bounce-back-ability. Tony really embodies a positive mindset and the can do attitude of just do it, what IT may be.

A Random Act of Violence - Part 2

Mon, 11 Oct 2021 08:00:00 +0100

A Random Act of Violence - Part 1

Mon, 11 Oct 2021 07:00:00 +0100

Living with MS - Denise's Story

Mon, 04 Oct 2021 07:00:00 +0100

An Exploration into Grief and Bereavement with Niamh

Mon, 27 Sep 2021 07:00:00 +0100

On this weeks episode I chat with Niamh who is a coordinator of social work and bereavement services for St. Francis Hospice. There are not many things that are certain in life but unfortunately experiencing the death of a loved one is inevitable. Niamh talks to us today about grief and bereavement; how it effects us and how we should be comforted by the fact that how we all grieve is different, there is not right or wrong way and there is an ebb and flow that helps us navigate our way through these difficult times.

Gillian's Story - A Fertility Journey

Mon, 20 Sep 2021 07:00:00 +0100

On this weeks episode I chat with Gillian as she talks to us about her journey with fertility; the highs and lows and everything in between. It's a very open and honest conversation as she gives us a deep insight into her experience. For anyone trying to navigate their way through fertility struggles, IVF, IUI and even the sadness of miscarriage, we hope this will give you some hope and a connection to know that you're not alone on this journey.

From Lads to Dads

Mon, 13 Sep 2021 07:00:00 +0100

On this weeks episode I talk to Dave. After becoming a teen Dad himself many years ago, Dave felt that although he had a village of support behind him, many others are not so lucky – he wanted to find a way to bridge that gap for teen and young parents to give them that confidence in themselves to be the best Dads that they can be. With the help of his now grown up children, and with a great team behind him, in 2019 they setup a fantastic support group, From lads to Dads, to do just that. To walk with teen and young Dads and their families as they navigate the early stages of fatherhood. We hope you enjoy listening.

Donna Reilly Wellness

Mon, 06 Sep 2021 07:00:00 +0100

On this weeks episode I talk to Donna...after many years working in HR Donna found herself gravitating towards the world of wellness and as we went into lockdown in early 2020 she found herself starting a new journey with her own business venture, Donna Reilly Wellness. At a time when mindfulness and wellness have never been more needed, Donna chats to us today about how we can start to navigate our emergence from the past 18 months in a more positive way, armed with tools to help us manage our thoughts to ensure we stay strong when we face the uncontrollables. We hope you enjoy listening.

And that's a wrap!

Sat, 06 Mar 2021 16:00:00 +0000

Just a quick few words to wrap up Season 1 of our Havin the Chats Podcast.

A few thoughts looking back over season one and lots of thank you's!

We'll take a short break for now but don't worry Season 2 is already in planning.

Don't forget you can subscribe for updates or follow us on Instagram @havinthechatspodcast

If you or anyone you know has a story to share please do reach out to me, I'd absolutely love to hear from you. Chat to you soon!

Loss of a Mother & Becoming a Mother: Shiona's Story

Mon, 01 Mar 2021 07:00:00 +0000

On this weeks episode I talk to my cousin Shiona – in 2009 Shiona went through what should be one of the best moment's of your life, finding out your pregnant but in stark contrast the joy was shortlived and overshadowed by the dreaded news that her Mam's cancer had returned. Today, Shiona chats to us about the highs and lows of becoming a mother and losing her own mother in the same year.

Sepsis - Ronan's Story

Mon, 22 Feb 2021 07:00:00 +0000

On this weeks episode, we talk to Ronan – you may remember we had the chats with his partner Alex back in episode 1 where she unexpectedly found herself caring for him as he battled Sepsis. Today, Ronan chats to us about his experience with Sepsis, how it has affected him and just how life can change in an instant.

My Own Story - part 2: Bels Palsy

Mon, 15 Feb 2021 07:00:00 +0000

On this weeks episode, I chat about my journey with Bels Palsy, which is the second part of my health journey of the past two years. I chat about the signs and symptoms, coming to terms with the psychological impact and the humour you find along the way, even when laughing is the last thing on your mind. I hope you enjoy it.

My Own Story - part 1: Chronic Urticaria

Mon, 08 Feb 2021 07:00:00 +0000

On this weeks episode I'm chatting to you about Chronic urticaria, the first of a two part episode about my own health journey over the past two years. Both of my stories are what really formed the basis of me creating this podcast – allowing people to share their story in the hope that someone listening, who may be going through something similar, will realise they're not alone and have that connection through a shared experience.

Living with a Catastrophic Brain Injury - Una's Story

Mon, 01 Feb 2021 07:00:00 +0000

On this weeks episode I talk to Una – with a real passion for horses from an early age, Una spent many years learning all about them, from caring for them, to training them and even taking part in amateur competition. However, in 2009, she suffered a catastrophic brain injury after falling from a horse. Today, Una chats to us about life before and after the accident and how it has impacted her life.

My pre-term baby & I

Mon, 25 Jan 2021 20:00:00 +0000

On this weeks episode I talk to Natalie – in 2018 the wonderful news came that Natalie was expecting her first baby, all the usual plans were being made in preparation for the impending arrival, but his unexpected early arrival changed everything. Today, Natalie chats to us about the arrival of her son Liam at 27 weeks and her journey over the past two years with a pre-term baby.

Sepsis - a carer's perspective

Mon, 25 Jan 2021 19:00:00 +0000

On this weeks episode I talk to Alex. In 2017, when on a Christmas trip home to her family in Poland, Alex’s partner Ronan suddenly became very sick and was hospitalised with a life threatening illness. Today, Alex chats to us about her unexpected journey as a carer and as a helpless onlooker as her partner fought for his life against Sepsis.

Havin' the Chats - an introduction

Mon, 25 Jan 2021 18:00:00 +0000

This is an introduction to our Havin' the Chats Podcast - what we're doing and why...enjoy!

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