Marrying a man of godly character sounds amazing... but how can you know if he’s actually walking the walk — not just talking the talk? 

You need more than good vibes and sweet words. You need real answers to questions like:

“What kind of character does this guy really have?”
“Where does his heart stand when it comes to God’s Word?”
“Is his love for the Lord visible in his daily actions?”
“Does he truly live with Scripture as the highest authority in his life?”

In today’s episode, Kristen and Bethany get real about what it looks like to truly discern a man’s heart — so you can make wise, Christ-centered relationship decisions that stand the test of time.

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*This episode originally aired as EP 159. 

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Is it possible to pursue godly femininity without getting tangled in legalism, fear, or performance-driven faith? 

In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with best-selling author and speaker Leslie Ludy to unpack the subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) ways legalism can creep into conservative Christian womanhood.

We talk about the pressure to "look the part," the danger of equating holiness with a lifestyle checklist, and how to break free from rule-based faith and walk in true intimacy with Christ. 

Whether you’ve felt burdened by expectations or just want to cultivate a deeper, more authentic relationship with Jesus, this conversation will challenge, encourage, and refresh your soul.

Get ready for a grace-filled reset on what it really means to be a set-apart woman.

**We hope you enjoy this replay from episode from 181** 

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You’ve seen the headlines: “Her Wildest Night Yet!” or “10 Secrets to Epic Pleasure.” Cosmo and other mainstream magazines have been feeding women these so-called empowering stories for decades. But what if those stories aren’t even real? What if they're simply propaganda? 

In this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on the glossy lies and exposing how these narratives are shaping our view of sex, identity, and womanhood—and not for the better. God’s design for womanhood isn’t boring, outdated, or shame-filled—but actually freeing, fulfilling, and rooted in truth. 

Sister, you don’t have to chase culture’s version of empowerment. Let’s discover how to walk confidently in real freedom, defined by God—not Cosmo.

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We’re constantly told men and women are the same — just interchangeable parts in a genderless machine. But is that actually true…?

• What if gender roles aren’t sexist, but sacred?
• What if God meant for men to surge with testosterone and for women to overflow with estrogen?
• What if wombs and muscles weren’t random, but radically intentional?

According to Scripture, the differences between men and women aren’t outdated — they’re divine. And they hold the key to understanding who we really are. 

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We’re constantly told men and women are the same — just interchangeable parts in a genderless machine. But is that actually true… or just cultural noise?

What if gender roles aren’t sexist, but sacred?
 What if God meant for men to surge with testosterone and for women to overflow with estrogen?
What if wombs and muscles weren’t random, but radically intentional?

According to Scripture, the differences between men and women aren’t outdated — they’re divine. And they hold the key to understanding who we really are.

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Women struggle with porn too.

Have you ever experienced the fear and shame that follows the vortex of graphic movies, erotica, promiscuity, or porn sites? You may think you’re alone and feel like hiding. But you’re not alone—and there is hope and healing.

We are all sexually broken. And we are all invited to participate in the love, forgiveness, and healing of Jesus. The great joy and passion of Dr. Joy Skarka is calling women to God’s gracious power of redemption. 

Today we're chatting about her new book, Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy. 

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Let’s be honest—pursuing purity while dating someone you’re seriously into can feel next to impossible. 

The butterflies are real, the chemistry is strong, and suddenly you’re wondering... is kissing too far? What about cuddling on the couch? Holding hands? Where's the line?!

Navigating physical boundaries in a dating relationship isn’t always black and white—and it can be so confusing. But here’s the thing: honoring God and each other is totally possible, even when the sparks are flying.

In this episode, we’re getting real about the struggles, the questions, and the practical steps that helped us set Christ-honoring boundaries and actually stick to them. If you’ve ever wondered how to keep it holy while falling hard, this one’s for you.

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Can you be fully "crunchy" while staying fully committed to Christ? Is there such a thing as being too crunchy? How do we juggle our health goals without losing sight of our faith?

Elizabeth Parsons is here to help us navigate this balance. As a popular "crunchy" mom and passionate Christian, Elizabeth shares her wisdom on how to live out both wellness and faith without compromise.

If you're already following Elizabeth and her brand, Purely Parsons, you know her down-to-earth, relatable approach. If this is your first time hearing from her, get ready for an insightful, no-nonsense conversation that will leave you feeling inspired to pursue both health and faith with purpose.

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Is saving sex for marriage really worth it? Will the wedding night be totally awkward if we don’t "practice" first? And what about sexual compatibility—doesn’t that matter??

We’re two Christian sisters who made the choice to wait until marriage, and trust us—we’ve heard all the questions (and plenty of skeptical comments). So let’s have an open, honest, and totally unfiltered conversation about it.

After 6 and 14 years of marriage, do we regret waiting? If we could go back, would we do things differently? And were our wedding nights as awkward as everyone assumes? Let’s talk about it.

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It seems like everyone is sending nude photos these days...even Christians. So what's the big deal? Isn't it good for me to keep a little spice in my dating relationship? What about the fact that I'm engaged and going to marry this guy? What's the harm anyway? 

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On a scale of one to ten, how prepared do you think you are for marriage? Seriously. Most women who get marriage look back on their single years and WISH they had done more to prepare for being a wife. So...why not get prepared? Here are four things you can do right now to begin preparing for married life. 

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Ep. 197 - This is a replay. Let's be honest. Valentine's Day isn't always what it's cracked up to be. Regardless of what we see on the Hallmark Channel, rarely do things turn out that perfectly. In singleness, we often feel bummed because we don't have that special someone. Then in marriage, we often feel bummed because our special day isn't turning out to be as romantic as we'd imagined!

We can attest to feeling both of these ways. In today's episode, we're going to spill the beans and tell you about our worst and best Valentine's Days ever. Then, we're going to get honest about how we can all benefit from pursuing a more Christ-centered "Agape love" this Valentin'e Day and ditching the shallow version of "Hallmark Love."

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God created women be beautiful AND to posses the allure of feminine seduction. But beauty and seduction are not the same thing. In our celebrity society today, beauty and seduction have become synonymous. In this episode, Kristen and Bethany react LIVE to their 2016 video about this topic and share honestly where they stand today.

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Ep 195 - Many conservative Christian women saved sex for marriage only to wake up on the other side of their honeymoon feeling disappointed and disillusioned. What happened? Why is sex such a huge disappointment to many Christian women? 

Take a deep dive with us on all things sex, intimacy, orgasm and how to make it GREAT. 

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194 - Modesty used to be a foundational topic here at Girl Defined. We become known as the "modesty ministry." Looking back, here's what we got right and wrong about Christian modesty.

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Today is the release of our newest book, "Made to Be She: Reclaiming God's Plan for Fearless Femininity." Fighting men won't solve the deepest longings of a woman's heart. Turning to Christ and finding your complete identity in Him is the answer.

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Ep. 193 - Liberal women have been in full on panic mode since Donald Trump was elected President of the United States. Many of these women are refusing to date men, have sex with men, get pregnant or have babies. They are in full on strike against men.

What exactly will this plan accomplish? Let's find out. 

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Ep 192 - What's a good age to start dating? What is the purpose of a romantic relationship? These are some of the questions we answered in our 2016 YouTube video titled, "Answering Your Guy Questions About Dating, Bad Relationships, and Guy Friends." And today, we're looking back and reacting to this content for the FIRST time. How do we feel NOW about what we said THEN?

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Ep. 191 - The issue of gender has exploded over the past few years. Can a man become a woman? Can a woman become a man? Should we support the trans movement? In today's episode, the two of us are looking back at one of our first YouTube videos ever where we ask the question, "Is Gender a Personal Choice." Here's our reaction.   

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Ep. 190 - The two of us grew up at the height of the purity culture movement. We read the classic "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" and every other Christian book on courtship. We dated intentionally, wore our purity rings religiously and saved our kisses for marriage. 

Do we regret wearing our purity rings? 
What was the impact of purity culture in our lives? 
How are we going to raise our kids? 

Let's jump in. 

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Ep 189 - We’ve had other YouTube creators reacting to us since we posted our very first official vlog/YouTube video on May 25, 2016 titled “Is it okay to be Obsessed with Guys?”

I think it’s time for the two of us to react to that video ourselves. We’re going to be releasing two new YouTube videos every month where we react to our earliest / most controversial YouTube videos. We’re going to be brutally honest with ourselves (and you) and share what we still agree with and what we wish we’d never said. No video is off limits.

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After 3 miscarriages and 12 years of infertility, having a baby seemed like an impossible dream.

Then, to my complete astonishment, God answered our prayer! In the summer of 2024, I gave birth to our precious daughter, Caroline Marie. 

Holding my daughter for the first time was a moment I will never forget. Here’s my birth story.

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Ep 187 - Women have been told that men are the "standard of success" and we should do what they do. In the name of "equality" of course. Women have been pulled out of their homes, rejected their fertility, and are killing themselves to get accolades from their corporate bosses.

What if you've been lied to about womanhood?
What if you've been sold a bill of goods?

In todays' conversation, we're talking to Suzanne Venker about the TRUTH of womanhood and what actually makes for a satisfying life.

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Ep. 186 - Alex Clark has risen to fame through her daily pop culture show, Poplitics. She's a conservative Christian woman with a deep desire to get married and start a family. Sadly, that hasn't happened yet. Despite going on dates and putting herself out there.

I'm taking a deep dive into her life and asking questions like:

Do you think men struggle to commit?
Does singleness feel like a punishment from God?
How can a woman put herself out there?
Should women have higher physical boundaries when dating?

Let's get the scoop!

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Ep. 185 - You're single, but you don't want to be. You want a man. You want a leader. You want a protector. You want a LOVER. So why isn't it happening? Why hasn't God brought marriage into your life? 

The nagging question for many... "Is it my fault I'm still single?" 

In today's episode, the two of us share our own experiences and offer practical encouragement with ways you can trust God AND attract a man at the same time. 

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Ep. 184 - Modern women have been trained by culture to obsess over their bodies and everyone else's. We compare butts, boobs, curves, height and everything else. Many of us look in the mirror and cringe at what we see reflecting back. This is not okay for God's daughters. Let's discuss what it looks like to value the body God has given you and take care of it in a balanced way.

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Ep. 183 - Trusting God with the size of her family was something Catherine Segars NEVER imagined she would do. She was an actress pursuing a future of fame... not a SAHM. Get ready for a wild story of a woman who put radical trust in God. You are going to laugh, cry, and be convicted in ways you weren't prepared for. Let's jump in.

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182 - Have you every read a passage in the Old Testament and thought, "What?! Does God even care about women?" If so, you're not alone. As modern Christian women it's crucial that we dig deeper to understand the context, history, and culture of what is happening in ancient Israel. As we do, we'll see that God's laws are actually FOR women.

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Ep. 181 - Legalism seems to be a constant companion in many conservative Christian circles. The length of ones skirt can become more important than the character of ones heart. Leslie Ludy is joining us on The Girl Defined Show to cast a vision of what true biblical womanhood is all about.

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Ep. 180 - Dealing with the pain of unexplained infertility is something no woman wants to go through. Kristen and Zack have experienced thirteen years of this heartbreaking diagnosis. In an incredible turn of events God worked a miracle. Kristen and Zack are expecting a baby. This is a God story. Listen in if you want to hear about God's mighty faithfulness in their lives. 

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Ep. 179 - Kristen is pregnant and weeks away from maternity leave. Bethany is getting off of social media for the summer. The two of us want to inspire you to set some goals and make this summer count. Not in the "bucket list item" sort of way. We want to inspire you to grow as a Christian woman and pursue God with your whole heart. 

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Ep. 178 - Christian womanhood has been shoved to the ground and deemed harmful for modern women. Feminism has become the new definer of what's acceptable to embrace. In today's conversation, we're chatting with Anneliese from "Feminine Not Feminist" about God's true design for women and how to THRIVE in your femininity. 

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Ep. 177 - Marriage has been held up as the pinnacle of biblical womanhood. Get married. Have babies. Take care of your family. That all sounds great IF you're married. But, what if you're not married? What if you're single for a season or for a life time? Does that disqualify a woman from glorifying God in her womanhood and with her life?

Madison Rudkin of the popular account Dear Single Woman joins us to expose the lies and bring forward the truth.

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Ep 176 - Many Christian women have completely suppressed their sexuality and are pretending that they aren't sexual in any way.  This has created a generation of Christian women who believe their sexuality is more of a curse than a blessing. The switch didn't flip when they got married and sex within marriage is miserable as well.

We're going to unpack why God's design for sexuality is actually a BLESSING and how to embrace your sex drive in a good God-designed way.

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Ep 175 - Choosing to stay home with your kids isn't the most glamorous job. In fact, there aren't promotions, raises, or a paycheck. You won't get an annual company party with other employees celebrating your achievements and patting you on the back. Most often the opposite is true. You're left exhausted by the end of the day. The accolades are few. The rewards aren't always visible. So why do women choose homemaking and motherhood? Is it possible that this path is even MORE fulfilling than most other career choices? 

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Ep. 174 - Motherhood is one of the most beautiful and complicated callings in the world. You'd give your life for your babies and you feel like you're losing your mind at the very same time. That's when the lies enter your mind. It's crucial as Christian women to turn to God's Word for truth to guide our emotions.

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Ep 173 - Are women bound to a life of misery if they take on this role in the home. Cooking. Cleaning. Caretaking. Sleeping. Wake up. Repeat. Is this brainless work?  The home can be either a prison or a gospel flourishing environment. When you create a space for people to build relationships, nourish their bodies, learn, grow and build one another up, it's a life-giving gift.

Allow us to change your perspective in this conversation on the cooking, cleaning and the kitchen.

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Ep. 172 - At thirteen, after being abandoned by her mother one summer and left to take care of her younger brother, Harmon becomes susceptible to a relationship that turns out to be toxic, abusive, and ultimately exploitave. She eventually finds herself working in a strip club under the control of a pimp. Ultimately, she disposers the path to true freedom.

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Ep 171 - Imagine wanting to change your entire lifestyle because of what you see on social media. That is the reality for many women. We see. We want. We get anxious because we don't have. We do whatever we can to achieve that lifestyle. Repeat. Repeat. Repeat. 

The anxiety of trying to "measure up" on social media is too much. Let's discuss how we can be rooted in truth and have pease even when our lives are less than Instagram worthy. 

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Ep. 170 - Porn had a chokehold on Cortney's life. She longed for freedom and Christ brought that to her. Join us for this special episode brought to you by our friends at COMPELLED.

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Ep. 169 - Politics has many American Christian women crippled with anxiety. The stress of voting and the ramifications of that vote are weighty. In fact, a few years ago Kristen actually begged her husband to run for president because she was so stressed about the current political climate of the day.

How can we, as Christian women, find peace and rest in Christ during these unknown times? How can we put our TRUST in Him?

Let's dig in.

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Ep. 168 - Enjoy this replay. The whole idea of freezing your eggs is becoming more appealing to women each year.  

Instead of being bound by her (God-designed) biological clock, women can delay having children until their 40s, without the worry of having to produce healthy eggs. The basic idea is that you freeze your strong eggs when you’re in your 20s, and then use them when you’re in your 40s.

Women, young and old, are loving this new freezing technology because it frees them up from having to “settle down” too early. They can pursue their career, delay marriage, be independent, and still have a chance to be a mom – on their own timeframe.

As Christian women, we have to view everything, including this egg freezing technology, through a Biblical worldview.

Let's take a deep dive in today's episode.

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Ep 166 - Have you ever seen a Christian marriage where the man appears to be leading, but the wife is actually controlling everything from behind the scenes? Control has been the name of the game since Eve ate the fruit in the garden. Women over the centuries have wrestled with their controlling and manipulative nature. 

In todays episode, we're unpacking 5 ways women tend to control the man in their life. 

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Ep. 166 - Paul and Morgan have been braving the world of YouTube for most of their marriage. They've been proclaiming biblical truth and working to point others toward Jesus. It's not always easy though. The pressure to create and produce can be overwhelming. Not to mention the constant pushback and negativity that comes with being in the online space.

In today's episode, Paul and Morgan open up and show us a behind the scenes look at what it really takes to be a Christian youtube couple.

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Ep. 165 - Biblical submission has been misunderstood and abused by many throughout history. Should we toss the biblical term OR strive to understand it in the way God intended? Is biblical submission still relevant for modern women?

In today's conversation, we brought on Shannon Popkin to help us with this difficult topic. She's a Bible teacher, wife, mom and amazing mentor to many. She brings truth and light to the reality of biblical submission in marriage.

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Ep 164 - Have you ever wondered if marriage will cure your ongoing struggles with porn, masturbation, erotica and other sexual sins? Many women have believed the lie that getting married will CURE their sexual struggles.

In today's episode, we offer you a better way toward freedom. A way that is rooted in God's truth. Let's dive in.

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Ep 163 - The two of us used to be HUGE proponents of the
"praying  for your future husband" concept. I, Bethany, wrote letters and prayers for my future husband from age 14-30 when I got married. That's a lot of time spent thinking and dreaming about someone that might not have even existed.

Is it a good idea for single Christian women to focus on a future husband?

In today's episode, we're going to unpack the pros and cons of praying for your future husband.

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Ep 162 - We've seen thousands of Christian women ditch their faith over the past several years. Many came face to face with issues like gay marriage and decided that "hate-filled" Christianity wasn't for them.  Is it possible to be a KIND Christian and disagree with others? Does God's Word really stand the test of time?

In today's conversation, we unpack these hard questions with Alisa Childers. A woman who tore her faith down to the bottom and rebuilt it back up again. Let's figure out how to be women of conviction in an ever changing society.

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Ep 161 - The sourdough biblical womanhood aesthetic is in full force. It seems milking your cow, collecting fresh eggs and wearing a flowy dress are the new standards for biblical womanhood.

Is it though?

What does the Bible actually say about biblical womanhood? Does God require us to be barefoot and baking to be a Proverbs 31 woman?

Let's discuss.

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Ep. 160 - Colleen Hoover has exploded onto the scene over the past few years. She is a multi New York Times bestseller and has even outsold the BIBLE. This author has captivated women across the world. Much of the controversy amongst Christian women has been around the erotic scenes in her books. Many say they're pornagraphic and downright sinful.

If you've heard of or have read Colleen Hoover's books, this episode is for you!

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Ep. 159 - Marrying a man of godly character sounds great...but how can you know if he's ACTUALLY a godly man? 

You need answers to questions like,

“What kind of character does this guy have?”
“Where is his heart in regard to what God’s Word teaches?”
“Does he genuinely love the Lord, and is this evident in his actions?”
“Does he uphold God’s Word as the greatest authority in his life?”

In today's episode, Kristen and Bethany unpack what it takes to truly get to know a man so you can make a wise relationship decision. 

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Ep. 158 - It's easy to be a fearless Christian woman around people who agree with you. But, what about those settings where people disagree? Are you willing  to stand up for God's design at work, school, and on social media? Are you truly willing to live an unashamed life of the gospel of Jesus?

It's time to link arms and live bold and courageous lives for Jesus. Let's unpack exactly what it takes to be a fearless woman of God.

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Ep. 157 - Enjoy this important replay. Christian women are notorious for giving "feel good" encouragement. It might not be true. It might not be biblical. But, it makes us feel good in the moment.

"You're enough."
"Your turn is next!"
"You'll get that baby soon."
"Marriage is in your future."
"Good things are coming your way."

These all sound nice and great and make me feel good... but are they true? Are they biblical?

In today's episode, we're unpacking why this "fluffy feel good" advice is more damaging than helpful.

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Ep. 156 - We surveyed hundreds of single women for our book Sex, Purity and the Longings of a Girl's Heart. The answers were unanimous. Single women desperately need help, guidance and mentorship. They shared their struggles with porn, erotica, masturbation and said that they don't know who or where to turn for help.

Married Christian women should be the FIRST ones to reach out with Biblical hope and truth. Married Christian women need to proactively mentor single women in this area.

If we won't do it, the world will.

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Ep. 155 - Enjoy this replay. The word identity has become one of the biggest buzz words of our day. Our modern culture is passionate about spreading the message that our truest identity can be found within ourselves. We’re told that who we are has nothing to do with God, but everything to do with us. As we live in the midst of this popular narrative, we need to remind ourselves that our truest identity doesn’t come from within, but from within God’s design for us.

If we want to experience true freedom and confidence in who we are, we must look to our Creator to define us. He is a good and loving Father and has a beautiful design for our femininity. At the end of the day, our greatest joy and purpose doesn’t come from within, but from knowing who we are in Christ, and then living faithfully in that identity for God’s glory.

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Ep 154 - Is it okay to want to be married? Is there anything a single woman can do to make marriage happen? Candice Watters gives women permission to want Christian marriage and encourages them to believe it's possible.

In today's conversation, we're giving you practical steps you can take to make marriage a more likely part of your future.

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Ep. 153 -  We hope you enjoy this replay. Have you ever wondered anything like this: “How will I know when I meet my future husband?” Or, “How will I know if he’s the one I should marry?” Or, “What signs should I look for to figure out who the one is?!”

These are popular questions. Chances are, you’ve probably asked some of them yourself. Trying to “figure out the ONE” is something we’ve asked ourselves over the years too.

However, instead of looking for a magic sign or an overwhelming feeling, we’ve discovered a better way to go about this. We’ve come up with several practical and helpful questions for discerning “the one.”

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Ep. 152 - The booty pics. The cleavage pics. The showcasing the feminine form pics. We've all seen them. We may have even posted them. Some of us have even attached a Bible verse as the caption. The seductive selfie has become a staple for many women's social media feeds. These pics get the likes. They get the attention. It's no wonder many women love to post them. 

Should we as Christian women post seductive selfies? 

Let's dive into this question on today's episode. 

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Ep 151 - The surrogacy industry has boomed over the past decade. The rich and famous have started to rent out the wombs of other women in order to maintain their bodies and fast paced lifestyle. Why carry your own baby when another woman can do it for you? There are some serious concerns about this new way of bringing babies into the world. The dark side of "womb renting" isn't something many are willing to be honest about. But, women deserve to know the truth.

We brought on expert Ericka Andersen to share the truth about surrogacy.

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Ep. 150 - When Kristen heard that Zack drank a beer while they were dating her jaw hit the floor. She was a staunch "no alcohol" girl and thought Zack was too (only a staunch no guy). This brought up some intense conversations and forced both of them to take a deep dive on what the Bible actually says about this subject.

Let's discuss how we as Christian women should approach the topic of alcohol from a wise and balanced view point.

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Ep 149. - Do all men actually crave sex ALL of the time? Is a man UNHEALTHY if he doesn't want sex? Is it true that a woman's sex drive tanks after she gets married? The questions about sex and hormones are endless. That's why we brought on the "hormone whisperer" to help sort through all of the cultural stereotypes and assumptions about men and women.

In today's conversation, Dr Patrick Flynn is bringing mind blowing truths about men, women, sex and hormones. 

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Ep. 148 - Modesty put Girl Defined on the map way back in the day when we first launched this ministry. Girls went crazy for our posts and videos on this topic. We ended up creating an ebook "Project Modesty" and hundreds of you bought it.  Fast forward a few years and all of our old modesty content has been removed (by us) and we've ghosted you on the topic.

We're breaking the silence and sharing the honest truth about how and why we've changed.

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When it comes to LGBTQ people and conversations, how often do you engage as a Christian? The truth is, most of us have NO IDEA how to engage in these crucial conversations in a way that's loving, thoughtful, Biblical, and truthful.

And so we don't.

Our guest today is here to HELP US. Andrew T. Walker is the author of the book, "God and the Transgender Debate: What Does the Bible Actually Say about Gender Identity?"

He's the type of Christian who actually invites LGBTQ people out to coffee because he genuinely CARES about them. And he's going to show us how to do the same. 

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Ep. 146 - Enjoy this replay! Many Christian women wonder if being a virgin on their wedding night will be awkward. Saving sex for marriage sounds great, but is it really that great? OR is it mostly super awkward and weird? Is saving sex for marriage actually worth it? Does God really care that much?

In today's episode, Kristen and Bethany share their own stories of saving sex for marriage and dig into these questions from personal experience. They also share multiple resources that are helpful in mentally, emotionally, physical, and spiritually preparing you for your own honeymoon one day. Whether you're single, dating, engaged, or married, there's something for everyone in this conversation.

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Ep 145 - Do evil men exist? Yes. Are all men toxic? No. We live in a society that actually hates strong men. "Toxic manhood" has become a buzzword that now encompasses all forms of male strength, leadership, and masculinity. The feminist movement promoted this mindset by declaring men as the primary source of women's oppression and unhappiness. And the battle rages today.  

But is this what we want? A society without any masculine and strong men? Dr. Owen Strachan doesn't think so.  In fact, he believes a society without strong men will become a society dominated by evil men. 

In today's conversation, we unpack how we, as modern Christian women, can use our influence to promote and encourage godly masculinity in the lives of the men around us. 

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Ep 144 - Enjoy part two of this replay series. The history of "the birth control pill" is something most women are not familiar with. Most women simply listen to their Dr. (without question) when they're told to get on the pill for one reason or other.  Oral contraception has become the go-to for preventing pregnancy with little understanding of the potential negative health impacts to the woman taking it.

We've brought on expert, Dr. Leah Gordon to talk all things birth control, oral contraception and the history of the pill. This conversation will make you squirm and blow your mind all at the same time.

Let's jump in and learn the truth about the birth control pill.

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Ep. 143 - Enjoy this replay episode. It was so good we had to bring it back. Have safe sex. Don't get pregnant. And build your career. That's the mantra women have been told from the time they were teen girls. Birth control is the go-to prescription to assist in this process of raising career minded women who put family on the back burner.

This entire way of thinking needs to be tossed out and rebuilt.

That's where Candice Watters comes in. She brings a perspective to family planning that is sure to make you question everything you've though over the years. She takes you to Scripture and shows you why the world's way of doing things isn't best or God-honoring.

It's time to rethink birth control, family planning, and when to have babies.

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Not Part of the Plan: Trusting God with the Twists and Turns of Your Story

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Ep. 142 - Motherhood is a beautiful blessing and an incredible challenge all at the same time. Kristen opens up and shares about the past two years since adopting her boys from Ukraine.  She shares the practical things she does on a daily basis to disciple her boys in the Word and show them the love of Christ every single day.

Motherhood has its hard moments and having a deep relationship with Christ is the key to loving well during those moments.

Recommended Resource: Girl Defined: God's Radical Design for Beauty, Femininity and Identity 

Sex, Purity and the Longings of a Girl's Heart: Discover the Beauty and Freedom of God-Defined Sexuality

Personal Retreat Journal 

Not Part of the Plan: Trusting God with the Twists and Turns of Your Story

Love Defined: Embracing God's Vision for Lasting Love and Satisfying Relationships

Shine Bright Devotional

8-Week Girl Defined Mentorship Course

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Ep 141 - Sexual struggles are rampant amongst christian women. Sadly, women are often left to fend for themselves and figure it out with google. The shame and embarrassment of feeling like she is "the only one" is not helping either. Women need answers. They need help. They need freedom.

In today's episode, Kristen gets raw and real about her own past struggle with masturbation and shares the practical steps she used to find lasting freedom.

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Ep 140 - What does it mean to be a woman? Some have answered this question with a simple "an adult human female." Is that sufficient though? You were created to be uniquely different from a man. Every fiber in your body speaks to that reality.  You were made female on purpose and for a great purpose. Your gender speaks to God's beautiful calling in your life. Let's dig into the Word and discover exactly what that is.

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