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    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you&apos;ve ever felt anxious around someone because you&apos;re constantly trying to keep the peace, this episode is for you.<br/><br/>Maybe you&apos;re choosing your words carefully. Replaying conversations afterward. Walking on eggshells because you&apos;re worried they&apos;ll take something the wrong way. The harder you try to keep the peace, the more anxious you become.</p><p>In this episode, friendship coach Zoe Asher shares the mindset shift that helped her break free from years of people-pleasing, peacekeeping, and relational anxiety. Through a powerful story, biblical wisdom from Romans 12:18 and 1 Peter 3:16, and practical insights on integrity, boundaries, and self-control, you&apos;ll learn the difference between keeping the peace and living at peace.</p><p>Get your &quot;12 Questions to Ask Before You End the Friendship&quot; <a href='https://subscribepage.io/Kg2hJV'>Guide for FREE here!</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Proof That Your Fear Of Rejection Is Lying To You</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[If your fear of rejection has ever stopped you from reaching out, starting a conversation, or putting yourself out there… this episode is going to challenge everything you think you know.  In this episode, I break down the science behind rejection and why you’re actually not getting rejected nearly as much as you think. Using research from Stanford, insights from the Gottman Institute, and the work of friendship expert Marisa Franco, you’ll see how your brain is exaggerating the risk of rejec...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you’ve ever walked into a room and had the thought, “I don’t think they like me,” this episode is for you.  Most people assume their friendships struggle because of what they say or how they act. But the real issue is happening underneath the surface—your thought patterns. The quiet beliefs you carry into conversations can shape how you show up, how you interpret others, and ultimately, the kinds of relationships you build. Get your "12 Questions to Ask Before You End the Friendship" Guide...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <description><![CDATA[<p>Get your &quot;12 Questions to Ask Before You End the Friendship&quot; <a href='https://subscribepage.io/Kg2hJV'>Guide for FREE here!</a></p><p>Most people think being likable means being impressive. So they try harder. They perform more. They overthink every interaction.<br/><br/>And ironically… that’s exactly what makes people feel disconnected from them.<br/><br/>In this video, I’m breaking down what actually makes someone likable, and it has nothing to do with being the loudest, funniest, or most interesting person in the room.</p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[This year, you deserve to feel connected at the holiday table instead of bracing for awkward moments, family drama, or political side quests that derail the whole night. In this episode, I’m giving you a simple, repeatable plan for creating meaningful conversations around your holiday dinner table. You’ll learn how to set the emotional tone before anyone sits down, how to lead with connection instead of control, and the exact questions that can take your family deeper without stepping into la...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>This year, you deserve to feel connected at the holiday table instead of bracing for awkward moments, family drama, or political side quests that derail the whole night. In this episode, I’m giving you a simple, repeatable plan for creating meaningful conversations around your holiday dinner table. You’ll learn how to set the emotional tone before anyone sits down, how to lead with connection instead of control, and the exact questions that can take your family deeper without stepping into landmines. I’m also showing you how to de-escalate tough moments, keep the peace, and walk away proud of how you showed up, even if someone else decides to bring the chaos.</p><p>Special thanks to <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/conversation-starter-card-game'>Party Q&apos;s</a> for sponsoring this episode! Party Q&apos;s is my go-to tool for deeper conversations. You can download the app FOR FREE right now in the <a href='https://apps.apple.com/us/app/party-qs-questions-app/id1149500660'>App Store</a>/<a href='https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.partyqs'>Google Play</a>, or grab their brand new 400-question card game to bring straight to the table this holiday season! <b>Use discount code ZOE at the checkout link below for $10 off!</b> Get your <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/conversation-starter-card-game'>Party Q&apos;s card game HERE!</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This year, you deserve to feel connected at the holiday table instead of bracing for awkward moments, family drama, or political side quests that derail the whole night. In this episode, I’m giving you a simple, repeatable plan for creating meaningful conversations around your holiday dinner table. You’ll learn how to set the emotional tone before anyone sits down, how to lead with connection instead of control, and the exact questions that can take your family deeper without stepping into landmines. I’m also showing you how to de-escalate tough moments, keep the peace, and walk away proud of how you showed up, even if someone else decides to bring the chaos.</p><p>Special thanks to <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/conversation-starter-card-game'>Party Q&apos;s</a> for sponsoring this episode! Party Q&apos;s is my go-to tool for deeper conversations. You can download the app FOR FREE right now in the <a href='https://apps.apple.com/us/app/party-qs-questions-app/id1149500660'>App Store</a>/<a href='https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.partyqs'>Google Play</a>, or grab their brand new 400-question card game to bring straight to the table this holiday season! <b>Use discount code ZOE at the checkout link below for $10 off!</b> Get your <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/conversation-starter-card-game'>Party Q&apos;s card game HERE!</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Well this is just chilling! I’m reacting to the Wall Street Journal piece “I Loved Being Social… Then I Started Talking to a Chatbot” by Alexandra Samuel and unpacking how daily AI chats can quietly crowd out real friendships. We’ll talk about why conversations with chatbots feel easier than talking to humans, how that “comfort” can dull our listening skills, and what guardrails help us keep tech as a tool rather than a substitute for community. I share practical habits to rebuild your people...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Well this is just chilling! I’m reacting to the <a href='https://www.wsj.com/tech/ai/ai-friends-socialization-chatbot-acb4dbf5?gaa_at=eafs&amp;gaa_n=AWEtsqdyzOf-dmEjwSkOigE7B9vHKlcW9FtwQxHnaG43v7XiJ2RWfO6McijRSqygHi0%3D&amp;gaa_ts=6914caa4&amp;gaa_sig=qXaG3gp_VW3XS_UW5BTutgxedpqGfg5OBxW1ca0u18D5qhF2lyl4ceMeRjtRII6j52PMp3eLgE5K6bkNxm6lcQ%3D%3D'>Wall Street Journal piece “I Loved Being Social… Then I Started Talking to a Chatbot”</a> by Alexandra Samuel and unpacking how daily AI chats can quietly crowd out real friendships. We’ll talk about why conversations with chatbots feel easier than talking to humans, how that “comfort” can dull our listening skills, and what guardrails help us keep tech as a tool rather than a substitute for community. I share practical habits to rebuild your people-first life, plus a simple prompt you can give your AI to nudge you back toward human connection. If you want to protect your attention, deepen your friendships, and avoid the slow slide into isolation, this one’s for you.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well this is just chilling! I’m reacting to the <a href='https://www.wsj.com/tech/ai/ai-friends-socialization-chatbot-acb4dbf5?gaa_at=eafs&amp;gaa_n=AWEtsqdyzOf-dmEjwSkOigE7B9vHKlcW9FtwQxHnaG43v7XiJ2RWfO6McijRSqygHi0%3D&amp;gaa_ts=6914caa4&amp;gaa_sig=qXaG3gp_VW3XS_UW5BTutgxedpqGfg5OBxW1ca0u18D5qhF2lyl4ceMeRjtRII6j52PMp3eLgE5K6bkNxm6lcQ%3D%3D'>Wall Street Journal piece “I Loved Being Social… Then I Started Talking to a Chatbot”</a> by Alexandra Samuel and unpacking how daily AI chats can quietly crowd out real friendships. We’ll talk about why conversations with chatbots feel easier than talking to humans, how that “comfort” can dull our listening skills, and what guardrails help us keep tech as a tool rather than a substitute for community. I share practical habits to rebuild your people-first life, plus a simple prompt you can give your AI to nudge you back toward human connection. If you want to protect your attention, deepen your friendships, and avoid the slow slide into isolation, this one’s for you.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>The AI &quot;Friend&quot; Necklace Is Here, &amp; I’m Not Holding Back Anymore (Reaction)</itunes:title>
    <title>The AI &quot;Friend&quot; Necklace Is Here, &amp; I’m Not Holding Back Anymore (Reaction)</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[I cannot believe we are actually here. We’ve created an AI “friend” necklace...a device that listens to your conversations all day long and claims to make you feel less lonely. In this episode, I react to the viral Friend AI Pendant, the controversial million-dollar ad campaign, and why New Yorkers are literally vandalizing the subway ads in protest. But most importantly, I explain why this kind of technology isn’t the answer to loneliness, and how it’s about to make it worse. If you want to ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>I cannot believe we are actually here. We’ve created an AI “friend” necklace...a device that listens to your conversations all day long and claims to make you feel less lonely. In this episode, I react to the viral Friend AI Pendant, the controversial million-dollar ad campaign, and why New Yorkers are literally vandalizing the subway ads in protest. But most importantly, I explain why this kind of technology isn’t the answer to loneliness, and how it’s about to make it worse.</p><p>If you want to work with Zoe for 1-on-1 friendship coaching for a special rate, email subject line REAL FRIEND to <a href='mailto: contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com'>contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com</a></p><p>Read the article referenced in this episode <a href='https://futurism.com/artificial-intelligence/million-dollar-ai-campaign-defaced'>HERE</a>.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I cannot believe we are actually here. We’ve created an AI “friend” necklace...a device that listens to your conversations all day long and claims to make you feel less lonely. In this episode, I react to the viral Friend AI Pendant, the controversial million-dollar ad campaign, and why New Yorkers are literally vandalizing the subway ads in protest. But most importantly, I explain why this kind of technology isn’t the answer to loneliness, and how it’s about to make it worse.</p><p>If you want to work with Zoe for 1-on-1 friendship coaching for a special rate, email subject line REAL FRIEND to <a href='mailto: contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com'>contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com</a></p><p>Read the article referenced in this episode <a href='https://futurism.com/artificial-intelligence/million-dollar-ai-campaign-defaced'>HERE</a>.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[When I first heard Taylor Swift’s new album, “The Life of a Showgirl,” I expected glitter, heartbreak, and spectacle, but what I didn’t expect were the friendship themes hiding in plain sight. In this episode, I’m breaking down the hidden emotional truths in two of her songs, “Ruin the Friendship” and “Cancelled”, and how they reveal what so many of us wrestle with as adults: fear of rejection, vulnerability, and being truly known. Special thank you to this episode's sponsor: The Party Q's Ap...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>When I first heard <em>Taylor Swift’s new album, “The Life of a Showgirl,”</em> I expected glitter, heartbreak, and spectacle, but what I didn’t expect were the <em>friendship themes</em> hiding in plain sight.</p><p>In this episode, I’m breaking down the <b>hidden emotional truths</b> in two of her songs, “<b>Ruin the Friendship</b>” and “<b>Cancelled</b>”, and how they reveal what so many of us wrestle with as adults: <b>fear of rejection, vulnerability, and being truly known.</b></p><p>Special thank you to this episode&apos;s sponsor: <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/'>The Party Q&apos;s App,</a> the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. Party Q&apos;s is the ultimate wingman for your social life. Available on the App Store and Google Play. Download Party Qs today - You will love it! Web-version for you to play right now: https://app.partyqs.com/</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I first heard <em>Taylor Swift’s new album, “The Life of a Showgirl,”</em> I expected glitter, heartbreak, and spectacle, but what I didn’t expect were the <em>friendship themes</em> hiding in plain sight.</p><p>In this episode, I’m breaking down the <b>hidden emotional truths</b> in two of her songs, “<b>Ruin the Friendship</b>” and “<b>Cancelled</b>”, and how they reveal what so many of us wrestle with as adults: <b>fear of rejection, vulnerability, and being truly known.</b></p><p>Special thank you to this episode&apos;s sponsor: <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/'>The Party Q&apos;s App,</a> the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. Party Q&apos;s is the ultimate wingman for your social life. Available on the App Store and Google Play. Download Party Qs today - You will love it! Web-version for you to play right now: https://app.partyqs.com/</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[This is what feels like unprecedented levels of division, and something has to change, or all of our friendships and relationships will get destroyed. But what exactly can WE do? How can we craft friendships that can survive such division? In this emergency episode, I'm breaking down exactly what it will take.  The Beyond Small Talk Cohort is coming. Here’s where to learn what it’s about and join the waitlist: https://shorturl.at/dKQRd Support the show Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for persona...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you're "the fixer" in your relationships, you NEED to watch this episode, because I wish I had learned what I'm about to share with you much earlier in life. Being the “fixer” in your friend group can feel like a badge of honor! People come to you for advice, solutions, and insight. But what if your eagerness to help is actually pushing friends away? In this episode, I share how to shift your approach so you can be a better friend. Support the show Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personal...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>If you&apos;re &quot;the fixer&quot; in your relationships, you NEED to watch this episode, because I wish I had learned what I&apos;m about to share with you much earlier in life. Being the “fixer” in your friend group can feel like a badge of honor! People come to you for advice, solutions, and insight. But what if your eagerness to help is actually pushing friends away? In this episode, I share how to shift your approach so you can be a better friend.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why is it so hard to find real community as an adult?! In this episode, I’m joined by my real-life friend and actual community legend Mackenzie T'eo, founder of Bag + Barre gym, and someone I literally call the “Mayor of Sewickley” (where she lives) to talk about what it really takes to build meaningful friendships and lasting community when you move to a new town, and open a brick and mortar business that is dependent on human connection!   If you're in the Pittsburgh area, check out Mackenz...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:title>How To Support A Struggling Friend (5 Steps That Are Guaranteed To Help)</itunes:title>
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    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Adult friendships are hard. With all the buzzwords flying around like toxic friendships, cutting people off, and protecting your peace, it’s no wonder so many of us are silently wondering when it&apos;s time to end a friendship, how to know if it&apos;s actually over, and what to do if you want to keep the friendship alive.<br/><br/>In this episode, I’m breaking down 5 clarity-building questions that will help you figure out whether a friendship is worth rebuilding or releasing. These aren’t surface-level tips; these are the real, vulnerable questions I ask in my own life when I&apos;m unsure where I stand with someone.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <description><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever thought about someone from your past and wondered if you should reach out and reconnect with them… but then stopped yourself because you didn’t want it to feel awkward, forced, or flat-out rejected? Then this episode is for you.<br/><br/>Whether it’s an old friend, someone who meant a lot to you years ago, or a relationship that just faded with time, I’m breaking down exactly how to reach out in a way that’s honest, intentional, and not weird.</p><p>Special thank you to this episode&apos;s sponsor: <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/'>The Party Q&apos;s App</a>, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. Party Q&apos;s is the ultimate wingman for your social life. Available on the App Store and Google Play. <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/'>Download Party Qs today</a> - You will love it! Plus, use the <a href='https://app.partyqs.com/'>web version to play right now!w</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever thought about someone from your past and wondered if you should reach out and reconnect with them… but then stopped yourself because you didn’t want it to feel awkward, forced, or flat-out rejected? Then this episode is for you.<br/><br/>Whether it’s an old friend, someone who meant a lot to you years ago, or a relationship that just faded with time, I’m breaking down exactly how to reach out in a way that’s honest, intentional, and not weird.</p><p>Special thank you to this episode&apos;s sponsor: <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/'>The Party Q&apos;s App</a>, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. Party Q&apos;s is the ultimate wingman for your social life. Available on the App Store and Google Play. <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/'>Download Party Qs today</a> - You will love it! Plus, use the <a href='https://app.partyqs.com/'>web version to play right now!w</a></p><p><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[I'll be honest, I did NOT hold back in this episode. Let me ask you a question: would you replace your best friend with AI? Mark Zuckerberg thinks you will. In this reaction episode, I'm breaking down the Wall Street Journal article, “Zuckerberg’s Grand Vision: Most of Your Friends Will Be AI.” As a creator on a mission to rebuild human connection, I unpack the unsettling trend of artificial friendships and Meta’s push to make AI therapists, AI agents, and AI "companions" the new normal. Help...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>I&apos;ll be honest, I did NOT hold back in this episode. Let me ask you a question: would you replace your best friend with AI? Mark Zuckerberg thinks you will. In this reaction episode, I&apos;m breaking down the Wall Street Journal article, “Zuckerberg’s Grand Vision: Most of Your Friends Will Be AI.” As a creator on a mission to rebuild human connection, I unpack the unsettling trend of artificial friendships and Meta’s push to make AI therapists, AI agents, and AI &quot;companions&quot; the new normal.</p><p>Help me (Zoe) get to know YOU (yes, you, the person behind this screen) with this quick 👉 <a href='https://shorturl.at/b0gmy '>2-minute form</a> 👈 As a thank you, I’ll email you my &quot;Asking Better Questions&quot; guide with my 15 favorite conversation starters!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&apos;ll be honest, I did NOT hold back in this episode. Let me ask you a question: would you replace your best friend with AI? Mark Zuckerberg thinks you will. In this reaction episode, I&apos;m breaking down the Wall Street Journal article, “Zuckerberg’s Grand Vision: Most of Your Friends Will Be AI.” As a creator on a mission to rebuild human connection, I unpack the unsettling trend of artificial friendships and Meta’s push to make AI therapists, AI agents, and AI &quot;companions&quot; the new normal.</p><p>Help me (Zoe) get to know YOU (yes, you, the person behind this screen) with this quick 👉 <a href='https://shorturl.at/b0gmy '>2-minute form</a> 👈 As a thank you, I’ll email you my &quot;Asking Better Questions&quot; guide with my 15 favorite conversation starters!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[It happens to the best of us, but that doesn't make it any less uncomfortable. Forgetting someone's name feels quite embarrassing, and, here's how to fix it. In this episode, we are breaking down 7 different phrases you can choose from, and use when you forget someone's name! Support the show Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfr...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>It happens to the best of us, but that doesn&apos;t make it any less uncomfortable. Forgetting someone&apos;s name feels quite embarrassing, and, here&apos;s how to fix it. In this episode, we are breaking down 7 different phrases you can choose from, and use when you forget someone&apos;s name!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It happens to the best of us, but that doesn&apos;t make it any less uncomfortable. Forgetting someone&apos;s name feels quite embarrassing, and, here&apos;s how to fix it. In this episode, we are breaking down 7 different phrases you can choose from, and use when you forget someone&apos;s name!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[As adults, finding time for friendships can feel impossible. Between work, family, responsibilities, and personal commitments, maintaining social connections often takes a backseat. But research shows that strong friendships are not just a luxury—they’re essential for mental and physical health. In fact, studies suggest that loneliness can be as harmful as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. So how do you prioritize friendships when your schedule already feels overwhelming? Support the show Want to ...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[It's the worst. We put ourselves out there, only to get so anxious, paranoid, and ultimately risk feeling rejected by someone else. So, when it happens, how do we overcome the fear? And, how can we think about rejection differently so that it doesn't stop us from building meaningful friendships? Let's go! Support the show Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so pl...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[It sucks so bad. AND, it doesn't need to continue sucking. 2025 is a wild ride so far...the last thing we need is more complexities in friendship. I'm breaking down the 3 steps you need to build meaningful adult friendships this year, and if followed, these steps will not only help you make true friends, but build your confidence and courage too! (And yes, I am also an introvert :) Support the show Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and sourc...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[This is the exact method I used to execute my New Year's resolution to stop being lonely. If you watch this video, you will not only leave feeling encouraged but will be able to steal the exact same method I used and implement it in your own life this year. You're worth it! Support the show Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfrie...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Houston, we have a problem. A New York Times article recently revealed some alarming new research about the drastic shift in how and where Americans are spending their time...and the impact its going to have on us in the next decade. I'm doing a live-time reaction to the article, and figuring out how we can destroy our loneliness in spite of the obstacles in front of us.  Special thank you to this episode's sponsor: The Party Q's App, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoki...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Houston, we have a problem. A <a href='https://www.nytimes.com/2024/10/05/upshot/americans-homebodies-alone-census.html'>New York Times article</a> recently revealed some alarming new research about the drastic shift in how and where Americans are spending their time...and the impact its going to have on us in the next decade. I&apos;m doing a live-time reaction to the article, and figuring out how we can destroy our loneliness in spite of the obstacles in front of us.<br/><br/>Special thank you to this episode&apos;s sponsor: The <a href='https://www.partyqs.com'>Party Q&apos;s App</a>, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. <a href='https://www.partyqs.com'>Party Q&apos;s</a> is the ultimate wingman for your social life. Available on the App Store and Google Play. <a href='https://www.partyqs.com'>Download Party Qs today</a> - You will love it!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Houston, we have a problem. A <a href='https://www.nytimes.com/2024/10/05/upshot/americans-homebodies-alone-census.html'>New York Times article</a> recently revealed some alarming new research about the drastic shift in how and where Americans are spending their time...and the impact its going to have on us in the next decade. I&apos;m doing a live-time reaction to the article, and figuring out how we can destroy our loneliness in spite of the obstacles in front of us.<br/><br/>Special thank you to this episode&apos;s sponsor: The <a href='https://www.partyqs.com'>Party Q&apos;s App</a>, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. <a href='https://www.partyqs.com'>Party Q&apos;s</a> is the ultimate wingman for your social life. Available on the App Store and Google Play. <a href='https://www.partyqs.com'>Download Party Qs today</a> - You will love it!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>The Biggest Friendship Turn Offs (Beware Of These Red Flags!)</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Hopefully we all have figured out our "green flags" in friendship, but the red flags can be a little bit sneakier. We are unpacking 8 absolute EW'S (friendship turnoffs) that are red flags to look out for when you're forming a new friendship. And, we discuss what to do if you do experience one of these red flags, and how you can navigate it through conversation. Let's go. Support the show Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accou...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hopefully we all have figured out our &quot;green flags&quot; in friendship, but the red flags can be a little bit sneakier. We are unpacking 8 absolute EW&apos;S (friendship turnoffs) that are red flags to look out for when you&apos;re forming a new friendship. And, we discuss what to do if you do experience one of these red flags, and how you can navigate it through conversation. Let&apos;s go.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How on earth can we discuss politics when we disagree? When everything feels so divisive, is there a way to talk about political differences without ending a relationship over it, and keeping your friends? Good news - YES there is, and we will discuss the best ways to navigate these conversations, including how to start them, redirect them if it gets heated, and keep the friendships intact! Special thank you to this episode's sponsor: The Party Q's App, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>How on earth can we discuss politics when we disagree? When everything feels so divisive, is there a way to talk about political differences without ending a relationship over it, and keeping your friends? Good news - YES there is, and we will discuss the best ways to navigate these conversations, including how to start them, redirect them if it gets heated, and keep the friendships intact!</p><p>Special thank you to this episode&apos;s sponsor: The <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/'>Party Q&apos;s App</a>, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/'>Party Q&apos;s</a> is the ultimate wingman for your social life. Available on the App Store and Google Play. <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/'>Download Party Qs today</a> - You will love it!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How on earth can we discuss politics when we disagree? When everything feels so divisive, is there a way to talk about political differences without ending a relationship over it, and keeping your friends? Good news - YES there is, and we will discuss the best ways to navigate these conversations, including how to start them, redirect them if it gets heated, and keep the friendships intact!</p><p>Special thank you to this episode&apos;s sponsor: The <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/'>Party Q&apos;s App</a>, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/'>Party Q&apos;s</a> is the ultimate wingman for your social life. Available on the App Store and Google Play. <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/'>Download Party Qs today</a> - You will love it!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>9 Lies We&#39;ve Been Believing About Friendship &amp; The TRUTH You Need To Hear!</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Adult friendships are hard. It's not nearly as easy as it used to be when we were in school. And yet, with the different friendship landscape, we easily fall into the trap of believing lies about friendship that are ultimately holding us back from having the RICH friendships we desire! So, no more. We are taking those lies and replacing them with the truth we need to hear in this video. Support the show Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Adult friendships are hard. It&apos;s not nearly as easy as it used to be when we were in school. And yet, with the different friendship landscape, we easily fall into the trap of believing lies about friendship that are ultimately holding us back from having the RICH friendships we desire! So, no more. We are taking those lies and replacing them with the truth we need to hear in this video.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Adult friendships are hard. It&apos;s not nearly as easy as it used to be when we were in school. And yet, with the different friendship landscape, we easily fall into the trap of believing lies about friendship that are ultimately holding us back from having the RICH friendships we desire! So, no more. We are taking those lies and replacing them with the truth we need to hear in this video.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[No, this is not an exaggeration. I'm giving you the exact 5 steps I used to go from zero friends to more adult friendships than I could handle in just 90 days...and teaching you how you can replicate these steps and get the same results!  You're worth having incredible friendships - so let's begin! Support the show Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so plea...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>No, this is not an exaggeration. I&apos;m giving you the exact 5 steps I used to go from zero friends to more adult friendships than I could handle in just 90 days...and teaching you how you can replicate these steps and get the same results!  You&apos;re worth having incredible friendships - so let&apos;s begin!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No, this is not an exaggeration. I&apos;m giving you the exact 5 steps I used to go from zero friends to more adult friendships than I could handle in just 90 days...and teaching you how you can replicate these steps and get the same results!  You&apos;re worth having incredible friendships - so let&apos;s begin!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>What I learned from eating 250 meals with strangers! If you&#39;re secretly lonely &amp; seeking connection...this is for you.</itunes:title>
    <title>What I learned from eating 250 meals with strangers! If you&#39;re secretly lonely &amp; seeking connection...this is for you.</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, I open up about hitting rock bottom and feeling incredibly lonely, which pushed me to make one of the most uncomfortable decisions of my life—eating 250 meals with strangers. That experience transformed everything for me. Come along as I share what I learned and how it ultimately helped me build deeper, more meaningful friendships...and how you can do the same...without needing to eat 250 meals (haha)! Support the show Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship ...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How can we actually tell who is a real friend nowadays? Well, real friends are those who truly know us and make our lives more meaningful and fun. In this video, we'll discuss eight signs of a good friend and how to build these qualities within ourselves, enriching our social lives and the lives of others. Ready for a masterclass in friendship? Let's dive in! Support the show Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zo...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Is AI coming for our friendships? Well, just wait until you see what has already arrived. Over the past year, we've seen AI evolve so quickly, and it's equally mind-blowing as it is concerning. We are unpacking all the potential upsides AND downsides, so that you'll know exactly what you need to do as AI continues to progress right alongside our friendships this year.  Special thank you to this episode's sponsor: The Party Q's App, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking ...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Maybe you feel like you don't have any dreams, or that your dreams are "too small" or "simple". Or maybe you have tons of dreams and goals and are absolutely obsessed with this concept! Either way - this episode is for you because we are diving into how dreams can build rich relationships with Fraser Grut, who's on a mission to film 10,000 dreams worldwide. He literally goes up to strangers and asks them "what's your dream?" We chat about the magic of sharing dreams, finding the courage to ch...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Maybe you feel like you don&apos;t have any dreams, or that your dreams are &quot;too small&quot; or &quot;simple&quot;. Or maybe you have tons of dreams and goals and are absolutely obsessed with this concept! Either way - this episode is for you because we are diving into how dreams can build rich relationships with Fraser Grut, who&apos;s on a mission to film 10,000 dreams worldwide. He literally goes up to strangers and asks them &quot;what&apos;s your dream?&quot; We chat about the magic of sharing dreams, finding the courage to chase them, and ways to support friends&apos; aspirations, showing that every dream, no matter the size, brings us together and adds value to our lives.<br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maybe you feel like you don&apos;t have any dreams, or that your dreams are &quot;too small&quot; or &quot;simple&quot;. Or maybe you have tons of dreams and goals and are absolutely obsessed with this concept! Either way - this episode is for you because we are diving into how dreams can build rich relationships with Fraser Grut, who&apos;s on a mission to film 10,000 dreams worldwide. He literally goes up to strangers and asks them &quot;what&apos;s your dream?&quot; We chat about the magic of sharing dreams, finding the courage to chase them, and ways to support friends&apos; aspirations, showing that every dream, no matter the size, brings us together and adds value to our lives.<br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Quiet quitting. "The great resignation." Layoffs left and right. Let's face it - many of us are feeling lost and struggling with our relationship with our careers. And in this episode, Ken Coleman, who has been dubbed "America's Career Coach" is on a mission to help us all find the work that we are intrinsically WIRED to do - where we find purpose AND passion!   Purchase Ken's new book + the career assessment bundle here! Support the show Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendsh...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Quiet quitting. &quot;The great resignation.&quot; Layoffs left and right. Let&apos;s face it - many of us are feeling lost and struggling with our relationship with our careers. And in this episode, Ken Coleman, who has been dubbed &quot;America&apos;s Career Coach&quot; is on a mission to help us all find the work that we are intrinsically WIRED to do - where we find purpose AND passion! <br/><br/>Purchase Ken&apos;s new book + the career assessment bundle <a href='https://shorturl.at/62Bue'>here!</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Quiet quitting. &quot;The great resignation.&quot; Layoffs left and right. Let&apos;s face it - many of us are feeling lost and struggling with our relationship with our careers. And in this episode, Ken Coleman, who has been dubbed &quot;America&apos;s Career Coach&quot; is on a mission to help us all find the work that we are intrinsically WIRED to do - where we find purpose AND passion! <br/><br/>Purchase Ken&apos;s new book + the career assessment bundle <a href='https://shorturl.at/62Bue'>here!</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <description><![CDATA[<p>An absolute sucker punch. That&apos;s what finding out you&apos;re now unemployed feels like. In this economy, chances are high that you or someone you care about has or is currently experiencing a season of unemployment, and perhaps is even suffering from &quot;unemployment depression.&quot; So how can you best support them? We&apos;re answering that in this episode.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
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    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&apos;s time to finally fix it! So, where exactly do we start? I sit down with George Kamel to explore our relationship with money and how we can improve it once and for all, and no longer become a statistic! George, a Ramsey personality and millionaire before 40, shares his journey from being deep in debt to achieving financial independence, offering invaluable insights for anyone looking to transform their financial mindset and break free from their limiting beliefs about money. Are you ready?<br/><br/>Grab George&apos;s new book <a href='https://www.amazon.com/Breaking-Free-Broke-Ultimate-Stress/dp/1942121784'>&quot;Breaking Free From Broke!&quot;</a><br/><br/>To enter the contest to win 6-months free for the EveryDollar Budgeting app, be sure to leave a 5-star written review to the Accidentally Intentional podcast on either Spotify or Apple Podcasts, take a screenshot and DM it to the <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional'> @AccidentallyIntentional </a>Instagram account in order to be eligible to win!<br/><br/>To listen to the Iced Coffe Hour conversation between Graham Stephan and George Kamel mentioned in this episode, click <a href='https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lEDylDvcTkM&amp;ab_channel=TheIcedCoffeeHour'>here.</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[I've been thinking long and hard, and it's time for something to change. But as I'm processing this...I sure hope I didn't say too much. Support the show Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps! Subscribe to the Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel! ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>I&apos;ve been thinking long and hard, and it&apos;s time for something to change. But as I&apos;m processing this...I sure hope I didn&apos;t say too much.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Let's say you or your close friend is moving. Now, one of your fears begins to creep in - how am I going to keep this long-distance friendship alive? Will it be the same when we aren't in physical proximity anymore? Is there any hope? How can I maintain this one, while also making friends in a new city? What if we drift apart? We are discussing and answering all of these questions and more in today's episode - from someone who has become an expert on this very topic - moving WHILE maintaining...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Let&apos;s say you or your close friend is moving. Now, one of your fears begins to creep in - how am I going to keep this long-distance friendship alive? Will it be the same when we aren&apos;t in physical proximity anymore? Is there any hope? How can I maintain this one, while also making friends in a new city? What if we drift apart? We are discussing and answering all of these questions and more in today&apos;s episode - from someone who has become an expert on this very topic - moving WHILE maintaining, and making room for even more friends!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let&apos;s say you or your close friend is moving. Now, one of your fears begins to creep in - how am I going to keep this long-distance friendship alive? Will it be the same when we aren&apos;t in physical proximity anymore? Is there any hope? How can I maintain this one, while also making friends in a new city? What if we drift apart? We are discussing and answering all of these questions and more in today&apos;s episode - from someone who has become an expert on this very topic - moving WHILE maintaining, and making room for even more friends!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Feel socially awkward in conversations, and when meeting new people? Here's how you can put that behind you once and for all! In this episode, we are diving into how mastering body language and social cues can turn that around, making you instantly more likable in any social setting. It's all about realizing that our words are just the tip of the iceberg; the real magic happens in the non-verbal vibes we give off, paving the way for genuine, deep connections.   Support the show Want to work w...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Feel socially awkward in conversations, and when meeting new people? Here&apos;s how you can put that behind you once and for all! In this episode, we are diving into how mastering body language and social cues can turn that around, making you instantly more likable in any social setting. It&apos;s all about realizing that our words are just the tip of the iceberg; the real magic happens in the non-verbal vibes we give off, paving the way for genuine, deep connections.<br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
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    <description><![CDATA[<p>Never thought I&apos;d be making a reaction video, yet here we are. America is in a &apos;loneliness epidemic,&apos; and this now-viral Atlantic article floored me with its new findings, as well as the implications for our social health. My goal is to destroy loneliness by teaching you how to build RICH relationships, so in this episode, we are walking through this article, and unpacking the necessary steps we ALL need to take to change direction. <br/><br/>Read this shocking article for yourself <a href='https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2024/02/america-decline-hanging-out/677451/'>here.</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Let's be real - I know how frustrating it is to struggle with constantly getting defensive and having absolutely no idea how to fix it. I've watched so many videos on this topic to help my own defensiveness...and none of them give you actual tools and scenarios that you can apply and work through! This video is different. Using hundreds of hours of therapy, research, and practice in my own life, I've condensed it down to 9 steps that actually work to help us remain calm, and not jump to defen...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Let&apos;s be real - I know how frustrating it is to struggle with constantly getting defensive and having absolutely no idea how to fix it. I&apos;ve watched so many videos on this topic to help my own defensiveness...and none of them give you actual tools and scenarios that you can apply and work through! This video is different. Using hundreds of hours of therapy, research, and practice in my own life, I&apos;ve condensed it down to 9 steps that actually work to help us remain calm, and not jump to defense mode every time we&apos;re triggered. It&apos;s just you and me here, working on getting better at this whole relationship thing, step by step. I&apos;ve been there (and find myself back here again very often), and if I can make these changes 2 degrees at a time, so can you. Let&apos;s tackle this together.<br/><br/>The book mentioned in this episode that has been a great help when it comes to communicating through defensive postures is <a href='https://a.co/d/37qeFsD'><em>Never Split the Difference</em></a> by Chris Voss</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let&apos;s be real - I know how frustrating it is to struggle with constantly getting defensive and having absolutely no idea how to fix it. I&apos;ve watched so many videos on this topic to help my own defensiveness...and none of them give you actual tools and scenarios that you can apply and work through! This video is different. Using hundreds of hours of therapy, research, and practice in my own life, I&apos;ve condensed it down to 9 steps that actually work to help us remain calm, and not jump to defense mode every time we&apos;re triggered. It&apos;s just you and me here, working on getting better at this whole relationship thing, step by step. I&apos;ve been there (and find myself back here again very often), and if I can make these changes 2 degrees at a time, so can you. Let&apos;s tackle this together.<br/><br/>The book mentioned in this episode that has been a great help when it comes to communicating through defensive postures is <a href='https://a.co/d/37qeFsD'><em>Never Split the Difference</em></a> by Chris Voss</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How To Have Happy Relationships (&amp; Become Happier Yourself) in 2024 | 3 EASY Steps To Take!</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[You found this video because the thing you want most is to find happiness in your relationships, and also in your own life. And maybe that's because you are currently NOT happy. Or want to be happier. You're not alone. In fact...this is me too. Here's the good news. In this video, we are discussing the 3 key ingredients to becoming happier, and also the 4 necessary goals one needs to have in their pursuit of happiness - straight from the research and science of happiness directly! Let's go.  ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>You found this video because the thing you want most is to find happiness in your relationships, and also in your own life. And maybe that&apos;s because you are currently NOT happy. Or want to be happier. You&apos;re not alone. In fact...this is me too. Here&apos;s the good news. In this video, we are discussing the 3 key ingredients to becoming happier, and also the 4 necessary goals one needs to have in their pursuit of happiness - straight from the research and science of happiness directly! Let&apos;s go.<br/><br/>A lot of what was discussed in this episode is from the work and research of <a href='https://arthurbrooks.com/'>Dr. Arthur Brooks</a>, the Harvard Happiness Professor who has spent decades of his life researching happiness, and also wrote the NYT Best-Selling book &quot;<a href='https://arthurbrooks.com/books#strength-to-strength'> From Strength To Strength</a>&quot; and now just recently co-authored a book with Oprah: &quot;<a href='https://arthurbrooks.com/build-the-life-you-want'>Build The Life You Want</a>.&quot;<br/><br/>If you want to hear more from Dr. Arthur Brooks, I recommend his <a href='https://youtu.be/qRY-foz-ZAw?si=EK5-twwM2RkO3lhx'>Diary Of A CEO podcast episode</a> and his interview on the <a href='https://youtu.be/C1gDbrOmwvo?si=0SNXWJrfIpO7CiR1'>Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast.</a> </p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You found this video because the thing you want most is to find happiness in your relationships, and also in your own life. And maybe that&apos;s because you are currently NOT happy. Or want to be happier. You&apos;re not alone. In fact...this is me too. Here&apos;s the good news. In this video, we are discussing the 3 key ingredients to becoming happier, and also the 4 necessary goals one needs to have in their pursuit of happiness - straight from the research and science of happiness directly! Let&apos;s go.<br/><br/>A lot of what was discussed in this episode is from the work and research of <a href='https://arthurbrooks.com/'>Dr. Arthur Brooks</a>, the Harvard Happiness Professor who has spent decades of his life researching happiness, and also wrote the NYT Best-Selling book &quot;<a href='https://arthurbrooks.com/books#strength-to-strength'> From Strength To Strength</a>&quot; and now just recently co-authored a book with Oprah: &quot;<a href='https://arthurbrooks.com/build-the-life-you-want'>Build The Life You Want</a>.&quot;<br/><br/>If you want to hear more from Dr. Arthur Brooks, I recommend his <a href='https://youtu.be/qRY-foz-ZAw?si=EK5-twwM2RkO3lhx'>Diary Of A CEO podcast episode</a> and his interview on the <a href='https://youtu.be/C1gDbrOmwvo?si=0SNXWJrfIpO7CiR1'>Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast.</a> </p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Feel awkward in conversations and/or hate small talk? Then this video is for you. In this episode, Zoe shares her personal experience on how she learned to ask better questions, revealing 5 killer techniques that you can use today! We are exploring open-ended questions, emotional intelligence, the power of "what" and "how" oriented questions, and more, all to help to create meaningful connections.  Special thank you to this episode's sponsor: The Party Q's App, the FREE app that offers a HUGE...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Feel awkward in conversations and/or hate small talk? Then this video is for you. In this episode, Zoe shares her personal experience on how she learned to ask better questions, revealing 5 killer techniques that you can use today! We are exploring open-ended questions, emotional intelligence, the power of &quot;what&quot; and &quot;how&quot; oriented questions, and more, all to help to create meaningful connections.<br/><br/>Special thank you to this episode&apos;s sponsor: <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/'>The Party Q&apos;s App</a>, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. Party Q&apos;s is the ultimate wingman for your social life.<br/> Available on the <a href='https://apps.apple.com/us/app/party-qs-questions-app/id1149500660'>App Store</a> and <a href='https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.partyqs&amp;hl=en_US&amp;gl=US&amp;pli=1'>Google Play</a>, as well as a web version for you to <a href='https://app.partyqs.com/'>play right now</a>! Download Party Qs today - You will love it!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Feel awkward in conversations and/or hate small talk? Then this video is for you. In this episode, Zoe shares her personal experience on how she learned to ask better questions, revealing 5 killer techniques that you can use today! We are exploring open-ended questions, emotional intelligence, the power of &quot;what&quot; and &quot;how&quot; oriented questions, and more, all to help to create meaningful connections.<br/><br/>Special thank you to this episode&apos;s sponsor: <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/'>The Party Q&apos;s App</a>, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. Party Q&apos;s is the ultimate wingman for your social life.<br/> Available on the <a href='https://apps.apple.com/us/app/party-qs-questions-app/id1149500660'>App Store</a> and <a href='https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.partyqs&amp;hl=en_US&amp;gl=US&amp;pli=1'>Google Play</a>, as well as a web version for you to <a href='https://app.partyqs.com/'>play right now</a>! Download Party Qs today - You will love it!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[The opposite of anxiety is peace, and in today's episode with Dr. John Delony, we are talking through exactly how to build a non-anxious life and ultimately find peace, in ALL of your relationships. We're discussing the complexities of vulnerability in relationships, plus the difference between trust-building and oversharing. We're then exploring the consequences of the 'I don't want to bother people' mentality, the overuse of the term "toxic," and the importance of setting healthy boundaries...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>The opposite of anxiety is peace, and in today&apos;s episode with Dr. John Delony, we are talking through exactly how to build a non-anxious life and ultimately find peace, in ALL of your relationships. We&apos;re discussing the complexities of vulnerability in relationships, plus the difference between trust-building and oversharing. We&apos;re then exploring the consequences of the &apos;I don&apos;t want to bother people&apos; mentality, the overuse of the term &quot;toxic,&quot; and the importance of setting healthy boundaries. Then, we are discussing how and where to find peace-filled safe connections, and Zoe gets called out on her anxiety, and what can be done to turn the anxiety alarms down in our life.<br/><br/>You can connect with Dr. John Delony on IG <a href='https://www.instagram.com/johndelony'>here</a>, and snag his new best-selling book <a href='https://store.ramseysolutions.com/personal-growth/books/building-a-non-anxious-life-by-dr-john-delony/?gad_source=1&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQiAr8eqBhD3ARIsAIe-buMHanBFXSvUrpco2mJsB4z34mnebXh46coZpGohaj3OYxm--Ze8fCgaAiHIEALw_wcB'>&quot;Building A Non Anxious Life&quot;</a> wherever books are sold!<br/><br/>Special thank you to this episode&apos;s sponsor: <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/'>The Party Q&apos;s App</a>, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. Party Q&apos;s is the ultimate wingman for your social life. Available on the <a href='https://apps.apple.com/us/app/party-qs-questions-app/id1149500660'>App Store</a> and <a href='https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.partyqs&amp;hl=en_US&amp;gl=US&amp;pli=1'>Google Play</a>, as well as a web version for you to <a href='https://app.partyqs.com/'>play right now</a>! Download Party Qs today - You will love it!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The opposite of anxiety is peace, and in today&apos;s episode with Dr. John Delony, we are talking through exactly how to build a non-anxious life and ultimately find peace, in ALL of your relationships. We&apos;re discussing the complexities of vulnerability in relationships, plus the difference between trust-building and oversharing. We&apos;re then exploring the consequences of the &apos;I don&apos;t want to bother people&apos; mentality, the overuse of the term &quot;toxic,&quot; and the importance of setting healthy boundaries. Then, we are discussing how and where to find peace-filled safe connections, and Zoe gets called out on her anxiety, and what can be done to turn the anxiety alarms down in our life.<br/><br/>You can connect with Dr. John Delony on IG <a href='https://www.instagram.com/johndelony'>here</a>, and snag his new best-selling book <a href='https://store.ramseysolutions.com/personal-growth/books/building-a-non-anxious-life-by-dr-john-delony/?gad_source=1&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQiAr8eqBhD3ARIsAIe-buMHanBFXSvUrpco2mJsB4z34mnebXh46coZpGohaj3OYxm--Ze8fCgaAiHIEALw_wcB'>&quot;Building A Non Anxious Life&quot;</a> wherever books are sold!<br/><br/>Special thank you to this episode&apos;s sponsor: <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/'>The Party Q&apos;s App</a>, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. Party Q&apos;s is the ultimate wingman for your social life. Available on the <a href='https://apps.apple.com/us/app/party-qs-questions-app/id1149500660'>App Store</a> and <a href='https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.partyqs&amp;hl=en_US&amp;gl=US&amp;pli=1'>Google Play</a>, as well as a web version for you to <a href='https://app.partyqs.com/'>play right now</a>! Download Party Qs today - You will love it!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>Our Relationship With Our Phones (Screen Time, Social Media, Isolation &amp; More) with Gen-Z Flip Phone User &amp; Reconnect Movement Founder, Sean Killingsworth </title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Imagine heading into college anxious to have some awesome conversations to make new friends, only to realize...nobody is talking. At all. At least not to your face. It's a digital wasteland. All other eyes glued to a screen. Scrolling endlessly hoping to find a replacement for the human connection you're trying to offer. Conversation and communication as you know it screeches to a halt, and is replaced with social connection on Snapchat. This is the reality for Gen Z today.   In this engaging...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you get overwhelmed and feel that you nearly have social anxiety in group settings? ME TOO. I had so much trouble with it that I had to create a system and technique to help me navigate building relationships in a group setting. Now, I am able to thrive, and make friends and build great relationships while being in a crowd, and in this episode, I'm showing you how you can too!  Special thank you to this episode's sponsor: The Party Q's App, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of though...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Do you get overwhelmed and feel that you nearly have social anxiety in group settings? ME TOO. I had so much trouble with it that I had to create a system and technique to help me navigate building relationships in a group setting. Now, I am able to thrive, and make friends and build great relationships while being in a crowd, and in this episode, I&apos;m showing you how you can too!<br/><br/>Special thank you to this episode&apos;s sponsor: <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/'>The Party Q&apos;s App</a>, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. Party Q&apos;s is the ultimate wingman for your social life. Available on the <a href='https://apps.apple.com/us/app/party-qs-questions-app/id1149500660'>App Store</a> and <a href='https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.partyqs&amp;hl=en_US&amp;gl=US&amp;pli=1'>Google Play</a>, as well as a web version for you to <a href='https://app.partyqs.com/'>play right now</a>! Download Party Qs today - You will love it!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you get overwhelmed and feel that you nearly have social anxiety in group settings? ME TOO. I had so much trouble with it that I had to create a system and technique to help me navigate building relationships in a group setting. Now, I am able to thrive, and make friends and build great relationships while being in a crowd, and in this episode, I&apos;m showing you how you can too!<br/><br/>Special thank you to this episode&apos;s sponsor: <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/'>The Party Q&apos;s App</a>, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. Party Q&apos;s is the ultimate wingman for your social life. Available on the <a href='https://apps.apple.com/us/app/party-qs-questions-app/id1149500660'>App Store</a> and <a href='https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.partyqs&amp;hl=en_US&amp;gl=US&amp;pli=1'>Google Play</a>, as well as a web version for you to <a href='https://app.partyqs.com/'>play right now</a>! Download Party Qs today - You will love it!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Our Relationship With Imposter Syndrome (And Launching The Business You’ve Been Dreaming Of) with Christy Wright</itunes:title>
    <title>Our Relationship With Imposter Syndrome (And Launching The Business You’ve Been Dreaming Of) with Christy Wright</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA["Any day now...someone is going to figure it out. They'll discover I'm not who they thought I was. I'm a total fraud." This is your imposter syndrome talking, and you're certainly not alone. In this episode, we are talking with National Best-Selling Author &amp; Speaker Christy Wright on how to demolish Imposter Syndrome so that it no longer holds back, so that you can do the dang thing (whatever said "thing" is for you). We then deep dive into how to launch a business post-covid, and how doi...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>&quot;Any day now...someone is going to figure it out. They&apos;ll discover I&apos;m not who they thought I was. I&apos;m a total fraud.&quot; This is your imposter syndrome talking, and you&apos;re certainly not alone. In this episode, we are talking with National Best-Selling Author &amp; Speaker <a href='https://www.christywright.com/'>Christy Wright</a> on how to demolish Imposter Syndrome so that it no longer holds back, so that you can do the dang thing (whatever said &quot;thing&quot; is for you). We then deep dive into how to launch a business post-covid, and how doing it scared is the absolute best thing you can do! You will feel encouraged and energize to take action after this episode!<br/><br/>To learn more about Christy&apos;s speaking courses, and get the free downloadable resource, click <a href='https://www.christywright.com/ '>HERE.</a><br/>Check out her podcast <a href='https://www.getyourhopesup.com/'>HERE.</a> <br/>Follow <a href='https://www.instagram.com/christybwright/'>Christy on IG</a> and thank her for being on the show! </p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&quot;Any day now...someone is going to figure it out. They&apos;ll discover I&apos;m not who they thought I was. I&apos;m a total fraud.&quot; This is your imposter syndrome talking, and you&apos;re certainly not alone. In this episode, we are talking with National Best-Selling Author &amp; Speaker <a href='https://www.christywright.com/'>Christy Wright</a> on how to demolish Imposter Syndrome so that it no longer holds back, so that you can do the dang thing (whatever said &quot;thing&quot; is for you). We then deep dive into how to launch a business post-covid, and how doing it scared is the absolute best thing you can do! You will feel encouraged and energize to take action after this episode!<br/><br/>To learn more about Christy&apos;s speaking courses, and get the free downloadable resource, click <a href='https://www.christywright.com/ '>HERE.</a><br/>Check out her podcast <a href='https://www.getyourhopesup.com/'>HERE.</a> <br/>Follow <a href='https://www.instagram.com/christybwright/'>Christy on IG</a> and thank her for being on the show! </p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Special Episode: A Letter To High School Me...What I WISH I Knew Sooner (Share With All High School Students!)</itunes:title>
    <title>Special Episode: A Letter To High School Me...What I WISH I Knew Sooner (Share With All High School Students!)</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[High school is NO JOKE. If you are in or about to enter high school this year, this video is for YOU. (And if not, please share this with a high schooler!) This is a virtual letter to high school me (sharing EVERYTHING I wish I knew, or had been told in high school). Why? Because, quite frankly you're worth it. And I'm so proud of how far you've already come.  You can hear my full bullying story here. Feel awkward when meeting new people? This episode will help! Support the show Want to work ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>High school is NO JOKE. If you are in or about to enter high school this year, this video is for YOU. (And if not, please share this with a high schooler!) This is a virtual letter to high school me (sharing EVERYTHING I wish I knew, or had been told in high school). Why? Because, quite frankly you&apos;re worth it. And I&apos;m so proud of how far you&apos;ve already come.<br/><br/>You can hear my full bullying story <a href='https://www.accidentallyintentional.life/1395811/8867243'>here</a>.<br/>Feel awkward when meeting new people? <a href='https://www.accidentallyintentional.life/1395811/11322478'>This episode</a> will help!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>High school is NO JOKE. If you are in or about to enter high school this year, this video is for YOU. (And if not, please share this with a high schooler!) This is a virtual letter to high school me (sharing EVERYTHING I wish I knew, or had been told in high school). Why? Because, quite frankly you&apos;re worth it. And I&apos;m so proud of how far you&apos;ve already come.<br/><br/>You can hear my full bullying story <a href='https://www.accidentallyintentional.life/1395811/8867243'>here</a>.<br/>Feel awkward when meeting new people? <a href='https://www.accidentallyintentional.life/1395811/11322478'>This episode</a> will help!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>11 Relationship Tips That 22 Million People Wished They Learned Earlier In Life</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Crowdsourced from over 22 million people, we are discussing some really profound life tips of sort. The sooner we learn and apply these pieces of relationship advice in our own lives, the richer and deeper we will find all of our relationships to be! Support the show Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject lin...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Crowdsourced from over 22 million people, we are discussing some really profound life tips of sort. The sooner we learn and apply these pieces of relationship advice in our own lives, the richer and deeper we will find all of our relationships to be!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Crowdsourced from over 22 million people, we are discussing some really profound life tips of sort. The sooner we learn and apply these pieces of relationship advice in our own lives, the richer and deeper we will find all of our relationships to be!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>My Friend Started Dating Someone - I Feel Abandoned &amp; Forgotten. What Do I Do? | (HELP! Series)</itunes:title>
    <title>My Friend Started Dating Someone - I Feel Abandoned &amp; Forgotten. What Do I Do? | (HELP! Series)</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[You may find yourself in this exact situation right now. Feeling ignored, abandoned, forgotten, and more. You're frustrated because you didn't do anything wrong, and want to know why its happening and what you can do next. In this episode, we cover what science actually reveals about this phenomena, as well as action steps you can take to preserve your friendship, and not let this current feeling have the final word. Support the show Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship co...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>You may find yourself in this exact situation right now. Feeling ignored, abandoned, forgotten, and more. You&apos;re frustrated because you didn&apos;t do anything wrong, and want to know why its happening and what you can do next. In this episode, we cover what science actually reveals about this phenomena, as well as action steps you can take to preserve your friendship, and not let this current feeling have the final word.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You may find yourself in this exact situation right now. Feeling ignored, abandoned, forgotten, and more. You&apos;re frustrated because you didn&apos;t do anything wrong, and want to know why its happening and what you can do next. In this episode, we cover what science actually reveals about this phenomena, as well as action steps you can take to preserve your friendship, and not let this current feeling have the final word.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>7 Thoughts That Are Holding Us Back From Incredible Relationships (And The Mindset Shifts Needed To Change This)</itunes:title>
    <title>7 Thoughts That Are Holding Us Back From Incredible Relationships (And The Mindset Shifts Needed To Change This)</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[I think it's safe to say that we honestly ALL want amazing relationships. The problem is, so often, we are the ones standing in our own way. So in this episode, speaking from personal experience and SO so many conversations with others in my life, I've gathered up 7 major assumptions/excuses/negative thoughts/limiting beliefs that we tend to believe and hold onto as truth, and then share 7 mindset shifts we NEED in order to unlock these awesome relationships we've been searching for.   Previo...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>I think it&apos;s safe to say that we honestly ALL want amazing relationships. The problem is, so often, we are the ones standing in our own way. So in this episode, speaking from personal experience and SO so many conversations with others in my life, I&apos;ve gathered up 7 major assumptions/excuses/negative thoughts/limiting beliefs that we tend to believe and hold onto as truth, and then share 7 mindset shifts we NEED in order to unlock these awesome relationships we&apos;ve been searching for. <br/><br/>Previous Accidentally Intentional episodes that were referenced in this one:<br/><a href='https://www.accidentallyintentional.life/1395811/11322478'>How To Be Less Awkward When Meeting Someone</a><br/><a href='https://www.accidentallyintentional.life/1395811/12699319'>10 Ways &amp; Activities To Meet New People And Make New Friends</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it&apos;s safe to say that we honestly ALL want amazing relationships. The problem is, so often, we are the ones standing in our own way. So in this episode, speaking from personal experience and SO so many conversations with others in my life, I&apos;ve gathered up 7 major assumptions/excuses/negative thoughts/limiting beliefs that we tend to believe and hold onto as truth, and then share 7 mindset shifts we NEED in order to unlock these awesome relationships we&apos;ve been searching for. <br/><br/>Previous Accidentally Intentional episodes that were referenced in this one:<br/><a href='https://www.accidentallyintentional.life/1395811/11322478'>How To Be Less Awkward When Meeting Someone</a><br/><a href='https://www.accidentallyintentional.life/1395811/12699319'>10 Ways &amp; Activities To Meet New People And Make New Friends</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:duration>1043</itunes:duration>
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    <itunes:title>How AI Will Impact All Our Relationships (What You NEED To Know + How To Prepare) | Special Episode: Relational Wealth State Of The Union Adddress</itunes:title>
    <title>How AI Will Impact All Our Relationships (What You NEED To Know + How To Prepare) | Special Episode: Relational Wealth State Of The Union Adddress</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[No matter how much or how little you know about AI, and regardless of how you feel about it...AI is here to stay. Will it take over our lives? What will it replace? Is the state of humanity and all of our relationships and connections doomed forever? We discuss all of it in this special edition episode, or more appropriately called a Relational Wealth State Of The Union address.  The A.I. podcast episode referenced in this video is from the Diary Of A CEO,  "E252: EMERGENCY EPISODE: Ex-G...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>No matter how much or how little you know about AI, and regardless of how you feel about it...AI is here to stay. Will it take over our lives? What will it replace? Is the state of humanity and all of our relationships and connections doomed forever? We discuss all of it in this special edition episode, or more appropriately called a Relational Wealth State Of The Union address.<br/><br/>The A.I. podcast episode referenced in this video is from the <a href='https://stevenbartlett.com/the-diary-of-a-ceo-podcast/'>Diary Of A CEO</a>,  &quot;E252: EMERGENCY EPISODE: Ex-Google Officer Finally Speaks Out On The Dangers Of AI! - Mo Gawdat&quot; You can find it on <a href='https://youtu.be/bk-nQ7HF6k4'>YouTube</a> wherever your listen to podcasts.<br/><br/>Special thank you to this episode&apos;s sponsor: <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/'>The Party Q&apos;s App</a>, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. Party Q&apos;s is the ultimate wingman for your social life. Available on the <a href='https://apps.apple.com/us/app/party-qs-questions-app/id1149500660'>App Store</a> and <a href='https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.partyqs&amp;hl=en_US&amp;gl=US&amp;pli=1'>Google Play</a>, as well as a web version for you to <a href='https://app.partyqs.com/'>play right now</a>! Download Party Qs today - You will love it!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No matter how much or how little you know about AI, and regardless of how you feel about it...AI is here to stay. Will it take over our lives? What will it replace? Is the state of humanity and all of our relationships and connections doomed forever? We discuss all of it in this special edition episode, or more appropriately called a Relational Wealth State Of The Union address.<br/><br/>The A.I. podcast episode referenced in this video is from the <a href='https://stevenbartlett.com/the-diary-of-a-ceo-podcast/'>Diary Of A CEO</a>,  &quot;E252: EMERGENCY EPISODE: Ex-Google Officer Finally Speaks Out On The Dangers Of AI! - Mo Gawdat&quot; You can find it on <a href='https://youtu.be/bk-nQ7HF6k4'>YouTube</a> wherever your listen to podcasts.<br/><br/>Special thank you to this episode&apos;s sponsor: <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/'>The Party Q&apos;s App</a>, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. Party Q&apos;s is the ultimate wingman for your social life. Available on the <a href='https://apps.apple.com/us/app/party-qs-questions-app/id1149500660'>App Store</a> and <a href='https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.partyqs&amp;hl=en_US&amp;gl=US&amp;pli=1'>Google Play</a>, as well as a web version for you to <a href='https://app.partyqs.com/'>play right now</a>! Download Party Qs today - You will love it!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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  <psc:chapter start="2:37" title="the story of the social media influencer who created an AI version of herself as an income source and the impacts of this" />
  <psc:chapter start="5:11" title="studies pointing to the loneliness epidemic" />
  <psc:chapter start="6:12" title="Apple VisionPro&#39;s way of keeping us connected" />
  <psc:chapter start="8:55" title="the &quot;Emergency Podcast Episode&quot; that reveals the darkside of AI and the chilling call to action" />
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  <psc:chapter start="14:02" title="what covid showed us about the importance of connection" />
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  <psc:chapter start="18:17" title="some of the top regrets of the dying" />
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    <itunes:title>Our Relationship With Boldness &amp; Being Misunderstood, with Social Media Influencer + Cultural Commentator, Chris Durso</itunes:title>
    <title>Our Relationship With Boldness &amp; Being Misunderstood, with Social Media Influencer + Cultural Commentator, Chris Durso</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[As a cultural commentator and social media influencer, Chris Durso often takes to social platforms to not just share his mind, but share what he believes are important truths with the masses, in effort to challenge and provoke thought in a new way. As you can imagine, this approach comes with constant backlash from many. In this episode, Chris shares how he became so bold, how he deals with being misunderstood, and so much more!  To follow Chris and see what he's culturally weighing in on, se...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>As a cultural commentator and social media influencer, Chris Durso often takes to social platforms to not just share his mind, but share what he believes are important truths with the masses, in effort to challenge and provoke thought in a new way. As you can imagine, this approach comes with constant backlash from many. In this episode, Chris shares how he became so bold, how he deals with being misunderstood, and so much more!<br/><br/>To follow Chris and see what he&apos;s culturally weighing in on, search <a href='https://www.instagram.com/chrisdurso/'>@chrisdurso</a> on IG.<br/>To purchase his book &quot;The Heist&quot; click <a href='https://a.co/d/60hBCZG'>here</a>.<br/>To purchase his book &quot;Misfit&quot; click <a href='https://a.co/d/c8rt8GD'>here</a>.<br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a cultural commentator and social media influencer, Chris Durso often takes to social platforms to not just share his mind, but share what he believes are important truths with the masses, in effort to challenge and provoke thought in a new way. As you can imagine, this approach comes with constant backlash from many. In this episode, Chris shares how he became so bold, how he deals with being misunderstood, and so much more!<br/><br/>To follow Chris and see what he&apos;s culturally weighing in on, search <a href='https://www.instagram.com/chrisdurso/'>@chrisdurso</a> on IG.<br/>To purchase his book &quot;The Heist&quot; click <a href='https://a.co/d/60hBCZG'>here</a>.<br/>To purchase his book &quot;Misfit&quot; click <a href='https://a.co/d/c8rt8GD'>here</a>.<br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Our Relationship With Grief: How To Heal &amp; &quot;Graduate&quot; The Grieving Process (PLUS Walk Alongside A Grieving Friend), with Grief Coach Sherrie Dunlevy</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Grief is a hard topic, but unfortunately a necessary topic as well, since we will all experience grief in our lifetime, and probably can think of someone who currently is grieving as well. Our relationship with grief impacts how we show up in all of our other relationships, so I have brought Grief Coach Sherrie Dunlevy onto the podcast today to help improve our relationship with grief,  and how to best show up and support others who are grieving as well.   To learn more about Sherrie's w...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this short episode, Zoe discusses 10 of the best ways to meet new people and make new friends this. year, in a list curated by...you, the listeners! Support the show Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps! Subscribe to the Leveled Up Friendships...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:title>How LONG Does It Take To Make Friends? (Amount of Hours Revealed + What Type of Interactions Need to Happen) | What It Takes Series</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Did you know that scientific research has actually proven the amount of hours it takes to make friends? But that's not the entire story. Separate research shows 3 types of interactions that are necessary to create meaningful relationships, and in this episode, we are covering it all! The amount of hours, the types of interactions necessary, and all that is necessary in order for you to commit to building deep relationships this year! Support the show Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personali...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:title>What Types of Friendships Do I Need? (These 4 Types Maximize Happiness) | What It Takes Series</itunes:title>
    <title>What Types of Friendships Do I Need? (These 4 Types Maximize Happiness) | What It Takes Series</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[According to an 80 year study (the longest study in recorded history), we now have scientific data to point towards what 4 types of friendships one needs in order to be happiest in life! So in this podcast episode, we outline what the 4 types are, the philosopher Aristotle's thoughts on friendship categories, and also where you can find these types of friendship in your life! Support the show Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of a...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:title>How Many Friends Should I Have &amp; Do I Actually Need? (Science Reveals The Answer) | What It Takes Series</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Maybe you're seeing all of the recent studies on loneliness and thinking to yourself: "this is me, and dang, I need to make some friends." If this IS you, you're not alone. Not even close. But it begs the question...what will it take to make genuine friends this year? This is the beginning of a 3 part series where we answer some of the biggest questions people have today around the idea of friendship.   Would you believe that a conclusive number has been scientifically revealed as to the heal...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maybe you&apos;re seeing all of the recent studies on loneliness and thinking to yourself: &quot;this is me, and dang, I need to make some friends.&quot; If this IS you, you&apos;re not alone. Not even close. But it begs the question...what will it take to make genuine friends this year? This is the beginning of a 3 part series where we answer some of the biggest questions people have today around the idea of friendship. <br/><br/>Would you believe that a conclusive number has been scientifically revealed as to the healthy amount of friends we should have. We unpack the science and the results, as well as what you can do about it in this episode!<br/><br/>Chapter Markers<br/>0:35 - Intro<br/>1:47 - The 2 Types of People Asking This Question<br/>2:41 - Introduction to the Dunbar Principle<br/>3:35 - The &quot;Core&quot; Explained<br/>6:01 - Close Friends Circle Explained<br/>7:17 - Meaningful Contacts Circle Explained<br/>7:52 - Acquaintance Circle Defined<br/>9:17 - How Many People Do We Have the Capacity to Recognize?<br/>9:43 - Signs of A Good Friend, According to BetterHelp<br/>12:31 - Signs of A Bad Friend<br/>14:25 - 2 Challenge Questions<br/><br/>Special thank you to this episode&apos;s sponsor: <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/'>The Party Q&apos;s App</a>, the FREE #1 Questions App for conversation starters! With over 2,000 curated questions, Party Q&apos;s is the ultimate wingman for your social life, and helps you PUNCH awkward silences in the face! Available on the <a href='https://apps.apple.com/us/app/party-qs-questions-app/id1149500660'>App Store</a> and <a href='https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.partyqs&amp;hl=en_US&amp;gl=US&amp;pli=1'>Google Play</a>, as well as a web version for you to <a href='https://app.partyqs.com/'>play right now</a>! Download Party Qs today - You will love it!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Nobody seems to be talking about this...and I think it's time we stop sweeping it under the rug. In this episode, we discuss what separates healthy relationships for all the rest, and how you are capable from building and keeping these healthy relationships in your own life moving forward. But...there's a catch.   Special thank you to this episode's sponsor: The Party Q's App, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nobody seems to be talking about this...and I think it&apos;s time we stop sweeping it under the rug. In this episode, we discuss what separates healthy relationships for all the rest, and how you are capable from building and keeping these healthy relationships in your own life moving forward. But...there&apos;s a catch. <br/><br/>Special thank you to this episode&apos;s sponsor: <a href='https://www.partyqs.com/'>The Party Q&apos;s App</a>, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. Party Q&apos;s is the ultimate wingman for your social life. Available on the App Store and Google Play. Download Party Qs today - You will love it!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[A new era is upon us, and the future is here. This 2 minute trailer shares exactly what this podcast is all about, the troubling statistic we are on a mission to reverse, and exactly how we are going to do it. Subscribe to get every new episode automatically downloaded. It's time to be Accidentally Intentional, together. Support the show Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a roll...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A new era is upon us, and the future is here. This 2 minute trailer shares exactly what this podcast is all about, the troubling statistic we are on a mission to reverse, and exactly how we are going to do it. Subscribe to get every new episode automatically downloaded. It&apos;s time to be Accidentally Intentional, together.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[The mission has to start right now. We can't sit back and watch this any longer. It's time to do something. Something drastic. Something risky. Something that will take massive amounts of investment...of time, heart, emotions, and putting it ALL on the line. And I'm willing to do it because of what is possible on the other side. What about you? Are you in? I fully believe We can end this once and for all. The loneliness epidemic WILL NOT WIN. It's time to build relational WEALTH, and become a...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, Zoe discusses trends and data she is seeing around "community" (and the lack thereof), and also 7 body language cues that can change the game for you when it comes to feeling more confidence meeting new people!  Check out behavioral scientist Vanessa Van Edwards YouTube channel HERE.   And you can snag her fascinating new book CUES, which is packed with nearly 100 body language cues in it, right HERE.  Did you know we also have a YouTube channel?! It's all true, for all of yo...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[I had a phone call with a friend a couple weeks ago that was QUITE tricky to navigate. It was tricky because this friend feels as though they walk on eggshells around this certain family member all the time,  and the family member seemingly drains all their energy (energy vampire). That friend knows that that relational dynamic isn't right, and wanted to know how to fix it! If you have found yourself here before...OR are experiencing this right now, then you'll want to listen in to this ...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <title>Warning: This May Offend You 😅 (Minisode)</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[I'm offended. Maybe you're offended too. What can we learn from it? Why do we feel this way? Let's discuss, in today's episode.  Did you know we also have a YouTube channel?! It's all true, for all of you lovers of visual formats! For the video version of this episode, head to the Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel!  Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM's! Let's converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I'm all ears! @accidentallyintentional or @...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>I&apos;m offended. Maybe you&apos;re offended too. What can we learn from it? Why do we feel this way? Let&apos;s discuss, in today&apos;s episode.<br/><br/>Did you know we also have a YouTube channel?! It&apos;s all true, for all of you lovers of visual formats! For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&apos;m offended. Maybe you&apos;re offended too. What can we learn from it? Why do we feel this way? Let&apos;s discuss, in today&apos;s episode.<br/><br/>Did you know we also have a YouTube channel?! It&apos;s all true, for all of you lovers of visual formats! For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How Do I Determine If A Friendship Is Still Worth Fighting For? Part 2 (HELP! Series)</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Building on last week's topic "Help, I Feel Like A Friendship Is Growing Apart", today's conversation centers around how to determine what makes a friendship worth fighting for, and whether it should continue, pause, or end altogether. Sharing many stories about my own experiences, I'm here to encourage you and give you important techniques that will enable you to strengthen your relationships and ultimately build relational wealth!  In this episode, we discuss important questions to ask your...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Building on last week&apos;s topic &quot;Help, I Feel Like A Friendship Is Growing Apart&quot;, today&apos;s conversation centers around how to determine what makes a friendship worth fighting for, and whether it should continue, pause, or end altogether. Sharing many stories about my own experiences, I&apos;m here to encourage you and give you important techniques that will enable you to strengthen your relationships and ultimately build relational wealth!<br/><br/>In this episode, we discuss important questions to ask yourself in order to figure out what bucket this friendship should fall in, as well as why communicating expectations, and hearing theirs is crucial, and so much more!<br/><br/>Did you know we also have a YouTube channel?! It&apos;s all true, for all of you lovers of visual formats! For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Building on last week&apos;s topic &quot;Help, I Feel Like A Friendship Is Growing Apart&quot;, today&apos;s conversation centers around how to determine what makes a friendship worth fighting for, and whether it should continue, pause, or end altogether. Sharing many stories about my own experiences, I&apos;m here to encourage you and give you important techniques that will enable you to strengthen your relationships and ultimately build relational wealth!<br/><br/>In this episode, we discuss important questions to ask yourself in order to figure out what bucket this friendship should fall in, as well as why communicating expectations, and hearing theirs is crucial, and so much more!<br/><br/>Did you know we also have a YouTube channel?! It&apos;s all true, for all of you lovers of visual formats! For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>I Feel Like A Friendship Is Growing Apart - What Do I Do? Part 1 (HELP! Series)</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this new "HELP!" Series, we are going to take a look at nuanced friendship issues that seem to not get much airtime in our day-to-day conversations, though this issue is prevalent enough that it deserves a discussion! Today's topic is "What to do when you feel like you have a friendship that is growing apart." (Could also be said as a "friendship that is falling apart/drifting away etc.)"  I've found myself here many times before, and want to share openly what I've learned through it, the ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>In this new &quot;HELP!&quot; Series, we are going to take a look at nuanced friendship issues that seem to not get much airtime in our day-to-day conversations, though this issue is prevalent enough that it deserves a discussion! Today&apos;s topic is &quot;What to do when you feel like you have a friendship that is growing apart.&quot; (Could also be said as a &quot;friendship that is falling apart/drifting away etc.)&quot;<br/><br/>I&apos;ve found myself here many times before, and want to share openly what I&apos;ve learned through it, the consistent pattern that seems to arise, and what decisions I needed to make in those moments, so that we can all in turn, build relational wealth together!<br/><br/>Did you know we also have a YouTube channel?! It&apos;s all true, for all of you lovers of visual formats! For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this new &quot;HELP!&quot; Series, we are going to take a look at nuanced friendship issues that seem to not get much airtime in our day-to-day conversations, though this issue is prevalent enough that it deserves a discussion! Today&apos;s topic is &quot;What to do when you feel like you have a friendship that is growing apart.&quot; (Could also be said as a &quot;friendship that is falling apart/drifting away etc.)&quot;<br/><br/>I&apos;ve found myself here many times before, and want to share openly what I&apos;ve learned through it, the consistent pattern that seems to arise, and what decisions I needed to make in those moments, so that we can all in turn, build relational wealth together!<br/><br/>Did you know we also have a YouTube channel?! It&apos;s all true, for all of you lovers of visual formats! For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How and Why I Changed My Mind About Generosity + Life Update</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Generosity...it's an awkward topic to talk about. Everyone has thoughts on it, and I've found it to be incredibly touchy for most of us. And then, to throw another wrench into things is the whole concept of tithing. In today's episode, I speak from my own experience about 3 transformative stories that led me to rethink and completely change my mind about how I saw the topic of generosity, and whether it's something I want to put into practice or not.  In this episode we discuss:  -What i...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Generosity...it&apos;s an awkward topic to talk about. Everyone has thoughts on it, and I&apos;ve found it to be incredibly touchy for most of us. And then, to throw another wrench into things is the whole concept of tithing. In today&apos;s episode, I speak from my own experience about 3 transformative stories that led me to rethink and completely change my mind about how I saw the topic of generosity, and whether it&apos;s something I want to put into practice or not.<br/><br/>In this episode we discuss:<br/> -What it means to tithe, if it is still relevant/important<br/>-Why I&apos;ve been so skeptical and resistant to the concept and idea of giving/generosity/tithing<br/>-can people and organizations we give to be trusted?<br/>-a crazy moment I witnessed between my brother and a homeless man<br/>-how the book &quot;Circle Maker&quot; by Mark Batterson challenged me in a way I was not prepare for, and more!<br/><br/>Did you know we also have a YouTube channel?! It&apos;s all true, for all of you lovers of visual formats! For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Generosity...it&apos;s an awkward topic to talk about. Everyone has thoughts on it, and I&apos;ve found it to be incredibly touchy for most of us. And then, to throw another wrench into things is the whole concept of tithing. In today&apos;s episode, I speak from my own experience about 3 transformative stories that led me to rethink and completely change my mind about how I saw the topic of generosity, and whether it&apos;s something I want to put into practice or not.<br/><br/>In this episode we discuss:<br/> -What it means to tithe, if it is still relevant/important<br/>-Why I&apos;ve been so skeptical and resistant to the concept and idea of giving/generosity/tithing<br/>-can people and organizations we give to be trusted?<br/>-a crazy moment I witnessed between my brother and a homeless man<br/>-how the book &quot;Circle Maker&quot; by Mark Batterson challenged me in a way I was not prepare for, and more!<br/><br/>Did you know we also have a YouTube channel?! It&apos;s all true, for all of you lovers of visual formats! For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How To Have A Healthier Relationship With The News &amp; Media We Consume | Convo With Former News Anchor &amp; Ramsey Personality, Courtney Dyksterhouse</itunes:title>
    <title>How To Have A Healthier Relationship With The News &amp; Media We Consume | Convo With Former News Anchor &amp; Ramsey Personality, Courtney Dyksterhouse</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[As a former news anchor, journalist, and now a Ramsey Personality at Ramsey Solutions, Courtney Dyksterhouse is by all means an expert on this subject! In this conversation, Courtney first shares about her experience working as a news anchor, and the unhealthy relationship she had with the amount of news she consumed. We then go all over the map, and discuss fear-mongering, media bias, the "your truth" movement and so much more! Buckle up because this conversation will leave us all inspired t...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>As a former news anchor, journalist, and now a Ramsey Personality at Ramsey Solutions, Courtney Dyksterhouse is by all means an expert on this subject! In this conversation, Courtney first shares about her experience working as a news anchor, and the unhealthy relationship she had with the amount of news she consumed. We then go all over the map, and discuss fear-mongering, media bias, the &quot;your truth&quot; movement and so much more! Buckle up because this conversation will leave us all inspired to pursue a healthier relationship with all media that we consume!<br/><br/>Give Courtney a shout out <a href='https://www.instagram.com/courtneydyksterhouse/'>@courtneydyksterhouse</a> on IG, and thank her for being part of this episode!<br/><br/>Did you know we also have a YouTube channel?! It&apos;s all true, for all of you lovers of visual formats! For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a former news anchor, journalist, and now a Ramsey Personality at Ramsey Solutions, Courtney Dyksterhouse is by all means an expert on this subject! In this conversation, Courtney first shares about her experience working as a news anchor, and the unhealthy relationship she had with the amount of news she consumed. We then go all over the map, and discuss fear-mongering, media bias, the &quot;your truth&quot; movement and so much more! Buckle up because this conversation will leave us all inspired to pursue a healthier relationship with all media that we consume!<br/><br/>Give Courtney a shout out <a href='https://www.instagram.com/courtneydyksterhouse/'>@courtneydyksterhouse</a> on IG, and thank her for being part of this episode!<br/><br/>Did you know we also have a YouTube channel?! It&apos;s all true, for all of you lovers of visual formats! For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How to Achieve Olympic-Sized Dreams, Make A Comeback + Stay Rooted In Your True Identity | Convo with Olympic Silver Medalist: Diver, Steele Johnson</itunes:title>
    <title>How to Achieve Olympic-Sized Dreams, Make A Comeback + Stay Rooted In Your True Identity | Convo with Olympic Silver Medalist: Diver, Steele Johnson</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[We "dive" into A LOT in this conversation with Olympic Silver Medalist, Steele Johnson! After winning at the 2016 Olympic Games in Rio De Janeiro, he was poised to return in 2020...except things didn't go according to plan. In this episode, Steele discusses how he got his big break, what happened after the 2016 Olympics, how he came to grips with his identity being labeled as an "olympian", and also his new goal and dream of making a comeback diving at the 2024 Olympic Games...hopeful to retu...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>We &quot;dive&quot; into A LOT in this conversation with Olympic Silver Medalist, Steele Johnson! After winning at the 2016 Olympic Games in Rio De Janeiro, he was poised to return in 2020...except things didn&apos;t go according to plan. In this episode, Steele discusses how he got his big break, what happened after the 2016 Olympics, how he came to grips with his identity being labeled as an &quot;olympian&quot;, and also his new goal and dream of making a comeback diving at the 2024 Olympic Games...hopeful to return as a new Steele that we have never seen before! It is a wide-ranging conversation and one that will no doubt leave you inspired to dream big! <br/><br/>Follow Steele&apos;s Olympic comeback <a href='https://www.instagram.com/steele_johnson/'>@steele_johnson</a> on Instagram! He&apos;s such a fun follow!<br/>Thank you so much for being a part of this episode! LOVE YOU!<br/><br/>Did you know we also have a YouTube channel?! It&apos;s all true, for all of you lovers of visual formats! For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We &quot;dive&quot; into A LOT in this conversation with Olympic Silver Medalist, Steele Johnson! After winning at the 2016 Olympic Games in Rio De Janeiro, he was poised to return in 2020...except things didn&apos;t go according to plan. In this episode, Steele discusses how he got his big break, what happened after the 2016 Olympics, how he came to grips with his identity being labeled as an &quot;olympian&quot;, and also his new goal and dream of making a comeback diving at the 2024 Olympic Games...hopeful to return as a new Steele that we have never seen before! It is a wide-ranging conversation and one that will no doubt leave you inspired to dream big! <br/><br/>Follow Steele&apos;s Olympic comeback <a href='https://www.instagram.com/steele_johnson/'>@steele_johnson</a> on Instagram! He&apos;s such a fun follow!<br/>Thank you so much for being a part of this episode! LOVE YOU!<br/><br/>Did you know we also have a YouTube channel?! It&apos;s all true, for all of you lovers of visual formats! For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How To Become Friends With Your Parents (As An Adult) | Convo with Child Psychologist, Dr. Andrea Mata</itunes:title>
    <title>How To Become Friends With Your Parents (As An Adult) | Convo with Child Psychologist, Dr. Andrea Mata</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Adulting is hard. Old news. But this specific topic is one I've heard many people (millennials) discuss...yet no one seems to have the answer! I decided to ask the best person I could think of! My friend and also a clinical child psychologist Dr. Andrea Mata is here to give us the FULL truth and nothing but the truth! We sit down and discuss how adult children can become friends with their parents, if it's actually even possible at all, what boundaries should look like, when boundaries are ne...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Adulting is hard. Old news. But this specific topic is one I&apos;ve heard many people (millennials) discuss...yet no one seems to have the answer! I decided to ask the best person I could think of! My friend and also a clinical child psychologist Dr. Andrea Mata is here to give us the FULL truth and nothing but the truth! We sit down and discuss how adult children can become friends with their parents, if it&apos;s actually even possible at all, what boundaries should look like, when boundaries are necessary, and so much more! Whether you yourself are a parent, or are an adult child yourself looking to navigate these uncharted waters, this episode is for you!<br/><br/>Thank Dr. Mata for being on the show, and give her a follow on IG <a href='https://www.instagram.com/drdremata/'>@drdremata</a><br/><br/>Check out her own podcast <a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1192547'>HERE</a>, or just search &quot;The Brightspot Podcast&quot; wherever you listen to podcasts!<br/><br/>To scoop the book &quot;Boundaries&quot; by Dr. Henry Cloud that was discussed in this episode, <a href='https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-When-Take-Control-Your/dp/B072C64V1L/ref=sr_1_1?crid=39PZMK6Y7TMO1&amp;keywords=boundaries&amp;qid=1646894818&amp;sprefix=boundaries%2Caps%2C435&amp;sr=8-1'>click here</a>!<br/><br/>Thank you so much for being a part of this episode! LOVE YOU!<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Adulting is hard. Old news. But this specific topic is one I&apos;ve heard many people (millennials) discuss...yet no one seems to have the answer! I decided to ask the best person I could think of! My friend and also a clinical child psychologist Dr. Andrea Mata is here to give us the FULL truth and nothing but the truth! We sit down and discuss how adult children can become friends with their parents, if it&apos;s actually even possible at all, what boundaries should look like, when boundaries are necessary, and so much more! Whether you yourself are a parent, or are an adult child yourself looking to navigate these uncharted waters, this episode is for you!<br/><br/>Thank Dr. Mata for being on the show, and give her a follow on IG <a href='https://www.instagram.com/drdremata/'>@drdremata</a><br/><br/>Check out her own podcast <a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1192547'>HERE</a>, or just search &quot;The Brightspot Podcast&quot; wherever you listen to podcasts!<br/><br/>To scoop the book &quot;Boundaries&quot; by Dr. Henry Cloud that was discussed in this episode, <a href='https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-When-Take-Control-Your/dp/B072C64V1L/ref=sr_1_1?crid=39PZMK6Y7TMO1&amp;keywords=boundaries&amp;qid=1646894818&amp;sprefix=boundaries%2Caps%2C435&amp;sr=8-1'>click here</a>!<br/><br/>Thank you so much for being a part of this episode! LOVE YOU!<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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  <psc:chapter start="6:32" title="Why is there so much friction in the parental relationship when children turn into adults?" />
  <psc:chapter start="9:42" title="What can parents of youngsters do now to help prepare their kids for adulthood?" />
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  <psc:chapter start="18:01" title="How to make the &quot;boundaries&quot; conversation with your parents a productive one" />
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  <psc:chapter start="26:44" title="What does a healthy adult child and parent relationship look like?" />
  <psc:chapter start="30:41" title="What can parents do to fix an unhealthy relationship with their children?" />
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    <itunes:title>How To Be More Present In All Of Your Relationships (Even In This Distracted World) | Convo with Performance Coach, James Quandahl</itunes:title>
    <title>How To Be More Present In All Of Your Relationships (Even In This Distracted World) | Convo with Performance Coach, James Quandahl</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Friendships are hard to begin with. Friendships in 2022 are even harder, with approximately 7135879724 distractions that can pull us away from what is most important-the people in our lives! In today's episode, I sit down with my friend James Quandahl, as we discuss what meaningful relationships can look like, how you can be a more present friend, the pros and cons of being vulnerable, and more!   Check out The James Quandahl podcast and listen to my guest episode on his show (Our part 1 conv...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Friendships are hard to begin with. Friendships in 2022 are even harder, with approximately 7135879724 distractions that can pull us away from what is most important-the people in our lives! In today&apos;s episode, I sit down with my friend James Quandahl, as we discuss what meaningful relationships can look like, how you can be a more present friend, the pros and cons of being vulnerable, and more! <br/><br/>Check out The James Quandahl podcast and listen to my guest episode on his show (Our part 1 conversation on friendships) <a href='https://quandahl.com/blog/podcast/zoe-simek'>HERE</a>.<br/><br/>Connect with James on Instagram <a href='https://www.instagram.com/jamesquandahl/'>HERE</a>. <br/><br/>The 2 books mentioned in this episode: &quot;Ruthless Elimination of Hurry&quot; by John Mark Comer<br/>&quot;Deep Work&quot; by Cal Newport<br/><br/>Thank you so much for being a part of this episode! LOVE YOU!<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Friendships are hard to begin with. Friendships in 2022 are even harder, with approximately 7135879724 distractions that can pull us away from what is most important-the people in our lives! In today&apos;s episode, I sit down with my friend James Quandahl, as we discuss what meaningful relationships can look like, how you can be a more present friend, the pros and cons of being vulnerable, and more! <br/><br/>Check out The James Quandahl podcast and listen to my guest episode on his show (Our part 1 conversation on friendships) <a href='https://quandahl.com/blog/podcast/zoe-simek'>HERE</a>.<br/><br/>Connect with James on Instagram <a href='https://www.instagram.com/jamesquandahl/'>HERE</a>. <br/><br/>The 2 books mentioned in this episode: &quot;Ruthless Elimination of Hurry&quot; by John Mark Comer<br/>&quot;Deep Work&quot; by Cal Newport<br/><br/>Thank you so much for being a part of this episode! LOVE YOU!<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Name one thing we don't need more of...another conversation about being more confident. Yes, we seem to know everyone has struggled with self-esteem at some point or another, but it clearly isn't as simple as just "believing in yourself". (Cue eye roll). Enough talking about it...let's find some ways to take action and change it FAST!  In reality, I have focused on trying to build my own confidence this past year, and found 3 little tricks that work for me, that legitimately take no more than...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Name one thing we don&apos;t need more of...another conversation about being more confident. Yes, we seem to know everyone has struggled with self-esteem at some point or another, but it clearly isn&apos;t as simple as just &quot;believing in yourself&quot;. (Cue eye roll). Enough talking about it...let&apos;s find some ways to take action and change it FAST!<br/><br/>In reality, I have focused on trying to build my own confidence this past year, and found 3 little tricks that work for me, that legitimately take no more than 5 minutes a day TOTAL. I&apos;m hoping you may find one of these will help you regain/build/boost/unlock your own confidence too! AND, better yet, helping you find your God-confidence!<br/><br/>For Dr. Amy Cuddy&apos;s TED Talk on Confidence, <a href='https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ks-_Mh1QhMc&amp;vl=en'>click HERE</a>.<br/>To learn more about Mel Robbins High-5 Habit book, <a href='https://www.high5habit.com/'>click HERE</a>. <br/>To purchase Jon Acuff&apos;s &quot;Soundtracks, The Surprising Solution to Overthinking&quot; book, <a href='https://www.amazon.com/Soundtracks-Surprising-Overthinking-Jon-Acuff/dp/1540900800'>click HERE</a>.  (Seriously, this was one of my favorite books of 2021, I have purchased copies for over 15 people, and can&apos;t recommend it highly enough!<br/><br/>Thank you so much for being a part of this episode! LOVE YOU!<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Name one thing we don&apos;t need more of...another conversation about being more confident. Yes, we seem to know everyone has struggled with self-esteem at some point or another, but it clearly isn&apos;t as simple as just &quot;believing in yourself&quot;. (Cue eye roll). Enough talking about it...let&apos;s find some ways to take action and change it FAST!<br/><br/>In reality, I have focused on trying to build my own confidence this past year, and found 3 little tricks that work for me, that legitimately take no more than 5 minutes a day TOTAL. I&apos;m hoping you may find one of these will help you regain/build/boost/unlock your own confidence too! AND, better yet, helping you find your God-confidence!<br/><br/>For Dr. Amy Cuddy&apos;s TED Talk on Confidence, <a href='https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ks-_Mh1QhMc&amp;vl=en'>click HERE</a>.<br/>To learn more about Mel Robbins High-5 Habit book, <a href='https://www.high5habit.com/'>click HERE</a>. <br/>To purchase Jon Acuff&apos;s &quot;Soundtracks, The Surprising Solution to Overthinking&quot; book, <a href='https://www.amazon.com/Soundtracks-Surprising-Overthinking-Jon-Acuff/dp/1540900800'>click HERE</a>.  (Seriously, this was one of my favorite books of 2021, I have purchased copies for over 15 people, and can&apos;t recommend it highly enough!<br/><br/>Thank you so much for being a part of this episode! LOVE YOU!<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How to Help A Friend Struggling with Anxiety or Depression | Conversation with Dr. John Delony, Mental Health Expert + Ramsey Personality</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Whether you personally are struggling with anxiety or depression, or happen to be a friend/family member to someone else that is anxious or depressed....this episode is for you. How can we be the greatest type of friends to those struggling with anxiety? Or what about those who are in depression? How do I manage my anxious thoughts? Does depression just mean that I'm sad, or is there more to it? Do I need therapy? How do I know if I do? We address this and SO much more in today's episode.  WA...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Whether you personally are struggling with anxiety or depression, or happen to be a friend/family member to someone else that is anxious or depressed....this episode is for you. How can we be the greatest type of friends to those struggling with anxiety? Or what about those who are in depression? How do I manage my anxious thoughts? Does depression just mean that I&apos;m sad, or is there more to it? Do I need therapy? How do I know if I do? We address this and SO much more in today&apos;s episode.<br/><br/>WARNING: In the second half of this episode, we discuss suicidal ideation, which may be triggering to some. Also, parents, please use discretion as this part in the second half may not be suitable for little ears!<br/><br/>This is the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline...because, as Dr. John says- &quot;You DESERVE to be well&quot;, and reminded that you&apos;re not alone.<br/>800-273-8255<br/><br/>I&apos;m thrilled to have my friend, (mental health expert and Ramsey Personality) Dr. John Delony join us on the podcast today. Not only is he brilliant (with 2 PhD&apos;s) and hilarious, he is also so wise and is here to help us learn how to build relational wealth...by coming alongside others in their mental health and emotional wellness journeys.<br/><br/>To begin your emotional wellness journey, click <a href='https://www.psychologytoday.com/us'>HERE</a> to be directed to the PsychologyToday website, where you can find a therapist or counselor near you! <br/><br/>Give Dr. John Delony a follow on the socials and thank him for being part of this episode! @johndelony on <a href='https://www.instagram.com/johndelony/'>Instagram</a> and <a href='https://twitter.com/johndelony'>Twitter</a>. Also,  be sure to subscribe to Dr. John&apos;s <a href='https://www.youtube.com/c/JohnDelony'>Youtube Channel</a> and podcast: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-dr-john-delony-show/id1527609854'>The Dr. John Delony Show!</a> <br/><br/>You can find Dr. John Delony&apos;s &quot;<a href='https://www.ramseysolutions.com/store'>Redefining Anxiety</a>&quot; quickbook on Amazon! And finally, you can find ALL things John Delony at <a href='https://www.johndelony.com'>www.johndelony.com</a><br/><br/>Thank you so much for being a part of this episode! LOVE YOU!<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whether you personally are struggling with anxiety or depression, or happen to be a friend/family member to someone else that is anxious or depressed....this episode is for you. How can we be the greatest type of friends to those struggling with anxiety? Or what about those who are in depression? How do I manage my anxious thoughts? Does depression just mean that I&apos;m sad, or is there more to it? Do I need therapy? How do I know if I do? We address this and SO much more in today&apos;s episode.<br/><br/>WARNING: In the second half of this episode, we discuss suicidal ideation, which may be triggering to some. Also, parents, please use discretion as this part in the second half may not be suitable for little ears!<br/><br/>This is the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline...because, as Dr. John says- &quot;You DESERVE to be well&quot;, and reminded that you&apos;re not alone.<br/>800-273-8255<br/><br/>I&apos;m thrilled to have my friend, (mental health expert and Ramsey Personality) Dr. John Delony join us on the podcast today. Not only is he brilliant (with 2 PhD&apos;s) and hilarious, he is also so wise and is here to help us learn how to build relational wealth...by coming alongside others in their mental health and emotional wellness journeys.<br/><br/>To begin your emotional wellness journey, click <a href='https://www.psychologytoday.com/us'>HERE</a> to be directed to the PsychologyToday website, where you can find a therapist or counselor near you! <br/><br/>Give Dr. John Delony a follow on the socials and thank him for being part of this episode! @johndelony on <a href='https://www.instagram.com/johndelony/'>Instagram</a> and <a href='https://twitter.com/johndelony'>Twitter</a>. Also,  be sure to subscribe to Dr. John&apos;s <a href='https://www.youtube.com/c/JohnDelony'>Youtube Channel</a> and podcast: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-dr-john-delony-show/id1527609854'>The Dr. John Delony Show!</a> <br/><br/>You can find Dr. John Delony&apos;s &quot;<a href='https://www.ramseysolutions.com/store'>Redefining Anxiety</a>&quot; quickbook on Amazon! And finally, you can find ALL things John Delony at <a href='https://www.johndelony.com'>www.johndelony.com</a><br/><br/>Thank you so much for being a part of this episode! LOVE YOU!<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[My biggest passion in life is relationship building - finding meaningful connection with others...which I describe as the term "relational wealth". In this bonus episode, I share about how one audition went wrong for me earlier this year and how a second opportunity for redemption came my way. You will also get to be one of the first to hear my new mini-talk on the topic of relational wealth, and learning how to become this different type of rich. I share why I'm so passionate about helping a...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>My biggest passion in life is relationship building - finding meaningful connection with others...which I describe as the term &quot;relational wealth&quot;. In this bonus episode, I share about how one audition went wrong for me earlier this year and how a second opportunity for redemption came my way. You will also get to be one of the first to hear my new mini-talk on the topic of relational wealth, and learning how to become this different type of rich. I share why I&apos;m so passionate about helping adults find deep connections and friendship, along with 3 steps I&apos;ve learned to take to find those friends! I&apos;m here to pass these steps on to you so that you build your own relational wealth today! Thanks for being a part of the conversation!<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My biggest passion in life is relationship building - finding meaningful connection with others...which I describe as the term &quot;relational wealth&quot;. In this bonus episode, I share about how one audition went wrong for me earlier this year and how a second opportunity for redemption came my way. You will also get to be one of the first to hear my new mini-talk on the topic of relational wealth, and learning how to become this different type of rich. I share why I&apos;m so passionate about helping adults find deep connections and friendship, along with 3 steps I&apos;ve learned to take to find those friends! I&apos;m here to pass these steps on to you so that you build your own relational wealth today! Thanks for being a part of the conversation!<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How My Roommate Completely Changed Her Mind About Faith | Convo with My Roomie, Audrey</itunes:title>
    <title>How My Roommate Completely Changed Her Mind About Faith | Convo with My Roomie, Audrey</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[This conversation got real deep, real quick. You see, my roommate and I were in the middle of a heart-to-heart, and brought to tears reflecting on our own faith journeys. At that moment, I realized that we wanted to let YOU in on this conversation too! We all need encouraged in our own faith journeys from time to time, and in this episode, Audrey and I get candid, discussing how we learned to actually grow in our faith, what we've changed our minds on with regards to Christianity, and what "l...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>This conversation got real deep, real quick. You see, my roommate and I were in the middle of a heart-to-heart, and brought to tears reflecting on our own faith journeys. At that moment, I realized that we wanted to let YOU in on this conversation too! We all need encouraged in our own faith journeys from time to time, and in this episode, Audrey and I get candid, discussing how we learned to actually grow in our faith, what we&apos;ve changed our minds on with regards to Christianity, and what &quot;living out your faith&quot; tangibly looks like.<br/><br/>In this episode, we cover: misconceptions about Christianity, why obedience is actually important and not just a stupid rule, what the point of having a faith is, how we&apos;ve gotten it wrong, and what we are committed to doing moving forward!<br/><br/>2 other episodes that were mentioned in this convo:<br/>~<a href='https://www.accidentallyintentional.life/1395811/9164291'>A Non-Intimidating Way to Learn How To Read the Bible + Actually Enjoy it</a><br/>~<a href='https://www.accidentallyintentional.life/1395811/7042831'>How to Talk About Your Faith With Someone That Doesn&apos;t Agree</a><br/><br/>Source for the statistic about what percentage of believers actively read the bible can be found <a href='https://www.christianitytoday.com/news/2020/july/state-of-bible-reading-coronavirus-barna-abs.html'>HERE.</a><br/><br/>Thank you so much for being a part of this episode! LOVE YOU!<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This conversation got real deep, real quick. You see, my roommate and I were in the middle of a heart-to-heart, and brought to tears reflecting on our own faith journeys. At that moment, I realized that we wanted to let YOU in on this conversation too! We all need encouraged in our own faith journeys from time to time, and in this episode, Audrey and I get candid, discussing how we learned to actually grow in our faith, what we&apos;ve changed our minds on with regards to Christianity, and what &quot;living out your faith&quot; tangibly looks like.<br/><br/>In this episode, we cover: misconceptions about Christianity, why obedience is actually important and not just a stupid rule, what the point of having a faith is, how we&apos;ve gotten it wrong, and what we are committed to doing moving forward!<br/><br/>2 other episodes that were mentioned in this convo:<br/>~<a href='https://www.accidentallyintentional.life/1395811/9164291'>A Non-Intimidating Way to Learn How To Read the Bible + Actually Enjoy it</a><br/>~<a href='https://www.accidentallyintentional.life/1395811/7042831'>How to Talk About Your Faith With Someone That Doesn&apos;t Agree</a><br/><br/>Source for the statistic about what percentage of believers actively read the bible can be found <a href='https://www.christianitytoday.com/news/2020/july/state-of-bible-reading-coronavirus-barna-abs.html'>HERE.</a><br/><br/>Thank you so much for being a part of this episode! LOVE YOU!<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>1 Year Podaversary + Life Update: I&#39;m Going THROUGH It</itunes:title>
    <title>1 Year Podaversary + Life Update: I&#39;m Going THROUGH It</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[It's our 1 year Podcast Anniversary! And I just want to gush about how much I love YOU. But also, it's time for me to let you in on what's been going on in my life behind the scenes the past couple months. You guys have been with me for a whole year, and now, it's time to take our friendship to the next level...so I'm sharing what I've been going through, and perhaps you can relate. In fact, statistically speaking, I know that 55% of you WILL.  I MAY discuss a new relationship in my life (win...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>It&apos;s our 1 year Podcast Anniversary! And I just want to gush about how much I love YOU. But also, it&apos;s time for me to let you in on what&apos;s been going on in my life behind the scenes the past couple months. You guys have been with me for a whole year, and now, it&apos;s time to take our friendship to the next level...so I&apos;m sharing what I&apos;ve been going through, and perhaps you can relate. In fact, statistically speaking, I know that 55% of you WILL.<br/><br/>I MAY discuss a new relationship in my life (wink), as well as work woes. You know exactly what I&apos;m talking about if you&apos;ve been experiencing them too. I share about my thoughts on work/career/jobs, why I think so many in the workforce are facing anxiety, depression, burnout and more. If you are struggling with your job...I&apos;m believing that this episode will help. ❤<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>If you can relate to today&apos;s episode, we&apos;d be honored to chat with you! I&apos;m serious! Please don&apos;t hesitate to DM  <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a> OR (if you don&apos;t have instagram), email accidentallyintentionalpodcast@gmail.com !</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&apos;s our 1 year Podcast Anniversary! And I just want to gush about how much I love YOU. But also, it&apos;s time for me to let you in on what&apos;s been going on in my life behind the scenes the past couple months. You guys have been with me for a whole year, and now, it&apos;s time to take our friendship to the next level...so I&apos;m sharing what I&apos;ve been going through, and perhaps you can relate. In fact, statistically speaking, I know that 55% of you WILL.<br/><br/>I MAY discuss a new relationship in my life (wink), as well as work woes. You know exactly what I&apos;m talking about if you&apos;ve been experiencing them too. I share about my thoughts on work/career/jobs, why I think so many in the workforce are facing anxiety, depression, burnout and more. If you are struggling with your job...I&apos;m believing that this episode will help. ❤<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>If you can relate to today&apos;s episode, we&apos;d be honored to chat with you! I&apos;m serious! Please don&apos;t hesitate to DM  <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a> OR (if you don&apos;t have instagram), email accidentallyintentionalpodcast@gmail.com !</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How to Be FEARLESS | Conversation with Professional Stunt Double, Meredith Richardson</itunes:title>
    <title>How to Be FEARLESS | Conversation with Professional Stunt Double, Meredith Richardson</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What an absolute treat to have the badass Meredith Richardson on the pod! She is the stunt double for Amy Schumer, Rebel Wilson, Kate McKinnon and Jillian Bell...and let me tell you...this girl is fearless.  We have an awesome conversation about how to be fearless, as well as hear about some crazy stories from the past 10 years of her life as a stunt double!  Buckle up and hold on tight...this is going to be a wild one!  Hope this episode inspires you to start punching fear in the face.....]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>What an absolute treat to have the badass Meredith Richardson on the pod! She is the stunt double for Amy Schumer, Rebel Wilson, Kate McKinnon and Jillian Bell...and let me tell you...this girl is fearless.<br/><br/>We have an awesome conversation about how to be fearless, as well as hear about some crazy stories from the past 10 years of her life as a stunt double!  Buckle up and hold on tight...this is going to be a wild one!<br/><br/>Hope this episode inspires you to start punching fear in the face...by fearing a little bit less. :)<br/><br/>At the beginning of the episode, I mention another podcast episode Meredith did on The Stunt Pod! For the Apple Podcasts version of that episode, <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stunt-pod/id1384930630?i=1000431555858'>click here!</a> For Spotify, <a href='https://open.spotify.com/episode/5SP1ay61cPEaONNOgG8NtC?si=9bO7zYIGQmiWwWY2hD4q1w&amp;dl_branch=1'>click here!</a><br/><br/>Want to see how nuts Meredith is??? Check out her <a href='https://www.imdb.com/video/vi295745817'>stunt reel!</a><br/>You can also check out Meredith&apos;s IMdb page <a href='https://www.imdb.com/name/nm4928398/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_0'>here! <br/></a>Head to her IG to see some of the crazy stuff she has done, as well as stay updated on what films to catch her in next <a href='https://www.instagram.com/bamastunts/'>@bamastunts</a><br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What an absolute treat to have the badass Meredith Richardson on the pod! She is the stunt double for Amy Schumer, Rebel Wilson, Kate McKinnon and Jillian Bell...and let me tell you...this girl is fearless.<br/><br/>We have an awesome conversation about how to be fearless, as well as hear about some crazy stories from the past 10 years of her life as a stunt double!  Buckle up and hold on tight...this is going to be a wild one!<br/><br/>Hope this episode inspires you to start punching fear in the face...by fearing a little bit less. :)<br/><br/>At the beginning of the episode, I mention another podcast episode Meredith did on The Stunt Pod! For the Apple Podcasts version of that episode, <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stunt-pod/id1384930630?i=1000431555858'>click here!</a> For Spotify, <a href='https://open.spotify.com/episode/5SP1ay61cPEaONNOgG8NtC?si=9bO7zYIGQmiWwWY2hD4q1w&amp;dl_branch=1'>click here!</a><br/><br/>Want to see how nuts Meredith is??? Check out her <a href='https://www.imdb.com/video/vi295745817'>stunt reel!</a><br/>You can also check out Meredith&apos;s IMdb page <a href='https://www.imdb.com/name/nm4928398/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_0'>here! <br/></a>Head to her IG to see some of the crazy stuff she has done, as well as stay updated on what films to catch her in next <a href='https://www.instagram.com/bamastunts/'>@bamastunts</a><br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How to Know If I&#39;m Hearing From God, or Just My Own Thoughts | Convo with Pastor Kels Johnson</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[The struggle IS real. How am I supposed to understand if I’m hearing from God, or if it’s my own brain making it up and my thoughts getting in the way? I brought in the best person I know to discuss this topic of understanding how to hear from God and KNOW that it’s Him talking and not just you.  Kels Johnson is a dynamic communicator, pastor, worship leader, and just an all-around amazing human, and I'm thrilled to have him on the pod!  In this episode, we discuss how Kels hears from God fre...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>The struggle IS real. How am I supposed to understand if I’m hearing from God, or if it’s my own brain making it up and my thoughts getting in the way? I brought in the best person I know to discuss this topic of understanding how to hear from God and KNOW that it’s Him talking and not just you.<br/><br/>Kels Johnson is a dynamic communicator, pastor, worship leader, and just an all-around amazing human, and I&apos;m thrilled to have him on the pod!<br/><br/>In this episode, we discuss how Kels hears from God frequently, and how he is able to discern whether it&apos;s just good or whether it&apos;s God, what to do if you feel like you can&apos;t hear from God at all, what could potentially happen if you don&apos;t obey when God says GO, and so much more!<br/><br/>Connect with Kels via <a href='https://www.youtube.com/c/UNAPOLOGETICTV/featured'>YouTube! </a><br/>Or tell him how much you loved this episode on IG <a href='https://www.instagram.com/thekelsjohnson/'>@thekelsjohnson</a> <br/>And if you want to follow his new church plant and or live in the Philly area, <a href='https://www.instagram.com/weareamplifyphilly/'>click here!</a><br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The struggle IS real. How am I supposed to understand if I’m hearing from God, or if it’s my own brain making it up and my thoughts getting in the way? I brought in the best person I know to discuss this topic of understanding how to hear from God and KNOW that it’s Him talking and not just you.<br/><br/>Kels Johnson is a dynamic communicator, pastor, worship leader, and just an all-around amazing human, and I&apos;m thrilled to have him on the pod!<br/><br/>In this episode, we discuss how Kels hears from God frequently, and how he is able to discern whether it&apos;s just good or whether it&apos;s God, what to do if you feel like you can&apos;t hear from God at all, what could potentially happen if you don&apos;t obey when God says GO, and so much more!<br/><br/>Connect with Kels via <a href='https://www.youtube.com/c/UNAPOLOGETICTV/featured'>YouTube! </a><br/>Or tell him how much you loved this episode on IG <a href='https://www.instagram.com/thekelsjohnson/'>@thekelsjohnson</a> <br/>And if you want to follow his new church plant and or live in the Philly area, <a href='https://www.instagram.com/weareamplifyphilly/'>click here!</a><br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you’ve ever felt intimidated, burdened, frustrated or just straight up avoided reading the bible because it was boring or felt like a chore...you are not alone. I have felt all of those things for a long time in life before I found something that made it all click for me, and then made me EXCITED to read the Bible!   The problem is, learning how to read the bible isn't something I've observed many churches talking about. So, I'm here to share everything from my own journey and experience, ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>If you’ve ever felt intimidated, burdened, frustrated or just straight up avoided reading the bible because it was boring or felt like a chore...you are not alone. I have felt all of those things for a long time in life before I found something that made it all click for me, and then made me EXCITED to read the Bible! <br/><br/>The problem is, learning how to read the bible isn&apos;t something I&apos;ve observed many churches talking about. So, I&apos;m here to share everything from my own journey and experience, to give you as many hyper practical steps and tips that I can so that you can take your understanding of the bible to the next level!<br/><br/>We cover a lot of ground in this 25 minute episode, so buckle up, and let&apos;s go!<br/><br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1395811/episodes/9164291#'>3:23</a> - What&apos;s the point of reading the Bible?<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1395811/episodes/9164291#'>7:14</a> - Why should I trust the Bible?<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1395811/episodes/9164291#'>8:30</a> - First step to take when preparing to read the Bible?<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1395811/episodes/9164291#'>11:35</a> - Where should I start reading if the Bible is new to me?<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1395811/episodes/9164291#'>12:53</a> - Why should I read the Old Testament at all?<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1395811/episodes/9164291#'>13:51</a> - Is the Bible still relevant today? Or just a history book?<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1395811/episodes/9164291#'>14:02</a> - What Biblical rules am I still supposed to obey today?<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1395811/episodes/9164291#'>16:53</a> - When did Zoe start reading the Bible?<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1395811/episodes/9164291#'>20:49</a> - When should I use a Bible commentary?<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1395811/episodes/9164291#'>22:10</a> - Which translation of the Bible should I read?</p><p>~Links to all biblical resources mentioned in this episode BELOW~<br/><a href='https://amzn.to/2X4YBzf'>Chronological Bible</a><br/><a href='https://bibleproject.com/explore/'>BibleProject App and Videos</a><br/><a href='https://prsi.org/audio-bible/'>Public Reading of Scripture App</a><br/><a href='https://amzn.to/2VpECeg'>SheReadsTruth CSB Bible</a><br/><a href='https://amzn.to/3jTrKX9'>HeReadsTruth CSB Bible</a><br/><a href='https://amzn.to/3yQrfBy'>ESV Study Bible</a><br/><a href='https://youversion.com/the-bible-app/'>The Bible App</a><br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you’ve ever felt intimidated, burdened, frustrated or just straight up avoided reading the bible because it was boring or felt like a chore...you are not alone. I have felt all of those things for a long time in life before I found something that made it all click for me, and then made me EXCITED to read the Bible! <br/><br/>The problem is, learning how to read the bible isn&apos;t something I&apos;ve observed many churches talking about. So, I&apos;m here to share everything from my own journey and experience, to give you as many hyper practical steps and tips that I can so that you can take your understanding of the bible to the next level!<br/><br/>We cover a lot of ground in this 25 minute episode, so buckle up, and let&apos;s go!<br/><br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1395811/episodes/9164291#'>3:23</a> - What&apos;s the point of reading the Bible?<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1395811/episodes/9164291#'>7:14</a> - Why should I trust the Bible?<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1395811/episodes/9164291#'>8:30</a> - First step to take when preparing to read the Bible?<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1395811/episodes/9164291#'>11:35</a> - Where should I start reading if the Bible is new to me?<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1395811/episodes/9164291#'>12:53</a> - Why should I read the Old Testament at all?<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1395811/episodes/9164291#'>13:51</a> - Is the Bible still relevant today? Or just a history book?<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1395811/episodes/9164291#'>14:02</a> - What Biblical rules am I still supposed to obey today?<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1395811/episodes/9164291#'>16:53</a> - When did Zoe start reading the Bible?<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1395811/episodes/9164291#'>20:49</a> - When should I use a Bible commentary?<br/><a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/1395811/episodes/9164291#'>22:10</a> - Which translation of the Bible should I read?</p><p>~Links to all biblical resources mentioned in this episode BELOW~<br/><a href='https://amzn.to/2X4YBzf'>Chronological Bible</a><br/><a href='https://bibleproject.com/explore/'>BibleProject App and Videos</a><br/><a href='https://prsi.org/audio-bible/'>Public Reading of Scripture App</a><br/><a href='https://amzn.to/2VpECeg'>SheReadsTruth CSB Bible</a><br/><a href='https://amzn.to/3jTrKX9'>HeReadsTruth CSB Bible</a><br/><a href='https://amzn.to/3yQrfBy'>ESV Study Bible</a><br/><a href='https://youversion.com/the-bible-app/'>The Bible App</a><br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Summer Stories with Zoe | How I Became A Stuntwoman</itunes:title>
    <title>Summer Stories with Zoe | How I Became A Stuntwoman</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[I started working on film sets in 2010...but in 2016, my career in the Hollywood film industry took a very unexpected twist, when I became a professional stuntwoman. Though an extremely unconventional approach - chasing my actual dream of working for Disney in any capacity - I share how that pursuit led me to something so much wilder than I could have EVER imagined! Join me on this final Summer Story with Zoe for 2021, and let me tell you what God did!  For the video version of this episode, ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>I started working on film sets in 2010...but in 2016, my career in the Hollywood film industry took a very unexpected twist, when I became a professional stuntwoman. Though an extremely unconventional approach - chasing my actual dream of working for Disney in any capacity - I share how that pursuit led me to something so much wilder than I could have EVER imagined! Join me on this final Summer Story with Zoe for 2021, and let me tell you what God did!<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I started working on film sets in 2010...but in 2016, my career in the Hollywood film industry took a very unexpected twist, when I became a professional stuntwoman. Though an extremely unconventional approach - chasing my actual dream of working for Disney in any capacity - I share how that pursuit led me to something so much wilder than I could have EVER imagined! Join me on this final Summer Story with Zoe for 2021, and let me tell you what God did!<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Summer Stories with Zoe | How I Broke Into the Hollywood Film Industry with ZERO Connections</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[I can't even lie...this story is WI. LD. So wild I needed to split the word in two. 2010 became a pivotal year for me, and today I'm recanting the very unconventional path I took to becoming part of the film industry...and how the proximity principle can assist in making your dreams a reality!  For the video version of this episode, head to the Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel!  Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to uplifting DM's! Let's converse! Say hi, o...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can&apos;t even lie...this story is WI. LD. So wild I needed to split the word in two. 2010 became a pivotal year for me, and today I&apos;m recanting the very unconventional path I took to becoming part of the film industry...and how the proximity principle can assist in making your dreams a reality!<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to uplifting DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Summer Stories With Zoe | One of the Most Influential People in My Life - The Friend Who Left a Permanent Mark On My Heart</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[On episode 2 of the Summer Stories with Zoe series, I share about the man who became one of the most influential people in my life, James Guy - how our bond began, and how his life has transformed my life and heart.   For the video version of this episode, head to the Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel!  Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to uplifting DM's! Let's converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I'm all ears! @accidentallyintentional or @zoe...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>On episode 2 of the Summer Stories with Zoe series, I share about the man who became one of the most influential people in my life, James Guy - how our bond began, and how his life has transformed my life and heart. <br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to uplifting DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On episode 2 of the Summer Stories with Zoe series, I share about the man who became one of the most influential people in my life, James Guy - how our bond began, and how his life has transformed my life and heart. <br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to uplifting DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Summer Stories with Zoe | That Time I Was Bullied in High School for 1.5 Years Straight</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Decided to switch things up for the summer, with a new series called "Summer Stories with Zoe!" Per the request of some listeners who wanted to know more about ME, I [Zoe, the podcast host] am getting really candid and sharing about some of the experiences that have made me who I am today. In each story, I share a major life lesson learned, so that we can continue to have conversations that BUILD us! Grab a coffee, or your favorite drink, and sit down with me as I open up and let you in on so...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Decided to switch things up for the summer, with a new series called &quot;Summer Stories with Zoe!&quot; Per the request of some listeners who wanted to know more about ME, I [Zoe, the podcast host] am getting really candid and sharing about some of the experiences that have made me who I am today. In each story, I share a major life lesson learned, so that we can continue to have conversations that BUILD us! Grab a coffee, or your favorite drink, and sit down with me as I open up and let you in on some of the biggest moments of my life.</p><p>In todays&apos; episode, I share about the traumatic bullying experience I faced in high school, and why looking back on it, I can say that I am so unbelievably grateful that I went through it, because it changed my life forever.<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to uplifting DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Decided to switch things up for the summer, with a new series called &quot;Summer Stories with Zoe!&quot; Per the request of some listeners who wanted to know more about ME, I [Zoe, the podcast host] am getting really candid and sharing about some of the experiences that have made me who I am today. In each story, I share a major life lesson learned, so that we can continue to have conversations that BUILD us! Grab a coffee, or your favorite drink, and sit down with me as I open up and let you in on some of the biggest moments of my life.</p><p>In todays&apos; episode, I share about the traumatic bullying experience I faced in high school, and why looking back on it, I can say that I am so unbelievably grateful that I went through it, because it changed my life forever.<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to uplifting DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How to Become More Focused &amp; Disciplined | Convo with Leadership + Personal Finance Coach, Jay Ly</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[To be honest...this episode was for me LOL. I am having the hardest time focusing and being disciplined lately, but maybe you're in the same boat! I invite my friend Jay Ly onto the pod and we have a conversation that goes from focus, to discipline, to leadership, to what bosses can do to help their employees focus, and much more. I think everyone will be able to relate to at least one aspect of this conversation, so we are thrilled to have you be a part of it!   The book Jay mentions mid way...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>To be honest...this episode was for me LOL. I am having the hardest time focusing and being disciplined lately, but maybe you&apos;re in the same boat! I invite my friend Jay Ly onto the pod and we have a conversation that goes from focus, to discipline, to leadership, to what bosses can do to help their employees focus, and much more. I think everyone will be able to relate to at least one aspect of this conversation, so we are thrilled to have you be a part of it! <br/><br/>The book Jay mentions mid way through the episode is called <a href='https://www.amazon.com/Attributes-Hidden-Drivers-Optimal-Performance/dp/0593133943/ref=sr_1_3?dchild=1&amp;keywords=rich+diviney&amp;qid=1625111358&amp;sr=8-3'>&quot;Attributes: 25 Hidden Drivers of Optimal Performance.&quot;</a><br/><br/>Give Jay a follow on Instagram <a href='https://www.instagram.com/gcfinancialfreedom/'>@gcfinancialfreedom</a>, and thank him for being a part of this episode! He is a leadership coach, a personal finance coach...and honestly...he is practically a life coach too. I can attest from firsthand experience! He&apos;s an unbelievable encourager and if you&apos;re looking for some sort of coach to help take you to the next level...I give Jay my highest recommendation!<br/> <br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To be honest...this episode was for me LOL. I am having the hardest time focusing and being disciplined lately, but maybe you&apos;re in the same boat! I invite my friend Jay Ly onto the pod and we have a conversation that goes from focus, to discipline, to leadership, to what bosses can do to help their employees focus, and much more. I think everyone will be able to relate to at least one aspect of this conversation, so we are thrilled to have you be a part of it! <br/><br/>The book Jay mentions mid way through the episode is called <a href='https://www.amazon.com/Attributes-Hidden-Drivers-Optimal-Performance/dp/0593133943/ref=sr_1_3?dchild=1&amp;keywords=rich+diviney&amp;qid=1625111358&amp;sr=8-3'>&quot;Attributes: 25 Hidden Drivers of Optimal Performance.&quot;</a><br/><br/>Give Jay a follow on Instagram <a href='https://www.instagram.com/gcfinancialfreedom/'>@gcfinancialfreedom</a>, and thank him for being a part of this episode! He is a leadership coach, a personal finance coach...and honestly...he is practically a life coach too. I can attest from firsthand experience! He&apos;s an unbelievable encourager and if you&apos;re looking for some sort of coach to help take you to the next level...I give Jay my highest recommendation!<br/> <br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How to Turn Your Physical Limitations Into A Surprising Strength | Conversation with Fitness Instructor, Deanna Dicesere</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Surely I'm not the only person who has ever counted myself out due to a physical limitation I'm experiencing. Whether it's an injury, not feeling capable, needing to modify an exercise etc, we ALL let some sort of physical limitation stop us from time to time. But, what if those physical limitations can actually become a surprising strength?   I chat with my good friend and personal trainer, Deanna Dicesere about her own experience with amniotic band syndrome, living her whole life with what ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Surely I&apos;m not the only person who has ever counted myself out due to a physical limitation I&apos;m experiencing. Whether it&apos;s an injury, not feeling capable, needing to modify an exercise etc, we ALL let some sort of physical limitation stop us from time to time. But, what if those physical limitations can actually become a surprising strength? <br/><br/>I chat with my good friend and personal trainer, Deanna Dicesere about her own experience with amniotic band syndrome, living her whole life with what many perceive to be a &quot;disability&quot; or a physical limitation, and how that very &quot;limit&quot; has actually propelled her forward into becoming the fitness instructor she is today. It is an inspiring story, and one that will surely FIRE YOU UP. <br/><br/>It&apos;s time to stop letting physical limitations hold you back. Whether you are a new mom, an injured athlete, someone that has a physical handicap of sorts, or just hasn’t wanted to make physical health and fitness a priority lately, this episode is really for everyone, so let&apos;s dive in!<br/><br/>Give Deanna a big shoutout and thank her for wisdom, and for being part of this episode! You can find her on Instagram, and see where she&apos;s teaching next: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/deanna_dicesere/'>@deanna_dicesere</a> .<br/>Her workout platform can be found <a href='https://www.empowerdfitness.com/'>HERE!</a><br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Surely I&apos;m not the only person who has ever counted myself out due to a physical limitation I&apos;m experiencing. Whether it&apos;s an injury, not feeling capable, needing to modify an exercise etc, we ALL let some sort of physical limitation stop us from time to time. But, what if those physical limitations can actually become a surprising strength? <br/><br/>I chat with my good friend and personal trainer, Deanna Dicesere about her own experience with amniotic band syndrome, living her whole life with what many perceive to be a &quot;disability&quot; or a physical limitation, and how that very &quot;limit&quot; has actually propelled her forward into becoming the fitness instructor she is today. It is an inspiring story, and one that will surely FIRE YOU UP. <br/><br/>It&apos;s time to stop letting physical limitations hold you back. Whether you are a new mom, an injured athlete, someone that has a physical handicap of sorts, or just hasn’t wanted to make physical health and fitness a priority lately, this episode is really for everyone, so let&apos;s dive in!<br/><br/>Give Deanna a big shoutout and thank her for wisdom, and for being part of this episode! You can find her on Instagram, and see where she&apos;s teaching next: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/deanna_dicesere/'>@deanna_dicesere</a> .<br/>Her workout platform can be found <a href='https://www.empowerdfitness.com/'>HERE!</a><br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How to Build Wealth at Any Age | Conversation with Author, Jordan Hall</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Most millennials I've talked to have said they feel like they had zero education on how to handle finances, and especially no direction when it comes to understanding wealth building. Today, I'm here to help us solve that problem so we can LEARN together! Good news, it's not too late. Even better news...it's not too early to start! I bring my friend Jordan Hall onto the podcast, and he is passionate about teaching people how to build wealth!   This is an episode you will definitely want to ta...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Most millennials I&apos;ve talked to have said they feel like they had zero education on how to handle finances, and especially no direction when it comes to understanding wealth building. Today, I&apos;m here to help us solve that problem so we can LEARN together! Good news, it&apos;s not too late. Even better news...it&apos;s not too early to start! I bring my friend Jordan Hall onto the podcast, and he is passionate about teaching people how to build wealth! <br/><br/>This is an episode you will definitely want to take notes on, with some highly practical steps you can implement immediately following the episode!<br/><br/>In this episode we cover best tips on:<br/>-what to invest in when it comes to the stock market<br/>-what mutual funds are and how you can benefit<br/>-how to retire a millionaire<br/>-principles to remember when buying a car<br/>-best practices for buying a house<br/>...and more!<br/><br/>If you&apos;d like to connect with Jordan, reach out to him at his website: www.jordanthall.com<br/><br/>The 3 books mentioned in this episode (that can be purchased on Amazon) are:<br/>1. <a href='https://www.amazon.com/Automatic-Millionaire-Expanded-Updated-Powerful/dp/0451499085/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&amp;keywords=automatic+millionaire&amp;qid=1622691486&amp;sr=8-2'>Automatic Millionaire</a> by David Bach<br/>2. <a href='https://www.amazon.com/Total-Money-Makeover-Classic-Financial/dp/1595555277/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&amp;keywords=total+money+makeover&amp;qid=1622691511&amp;sr=8-1'>Total Money Makeover</a> by Dave Ramsey<br/>3. Jordan Hall’s very own book, <a href='https://www.amazon.com/Every-Degree-Debt-Free-Graduate/dp/1985833646/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&amp;keywords=every+degree+debt+free&amp;qid=1622691538&amp;sr=8-2'>Every Degree Debt-Free</a><br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Most millennials I&apos;ve talked to have said they feel like they had zero education on how to handle finances, and especially no direction when it comes to understanding wealth building. Today, I&apos;m here to help us solve that problem so we can LEARN together! Good news, it&apos;s not too late. Even better news...it&apos;s not too early to start! I bring my friend Jordan Hall onto the podcast, and he is passionate about teaching people how to build wealth! <br/><br/>This is an episode you will definitely want to take notes on, with some highly practical steps you can implement immediately following the episode!<br/><br/>In this episode we cover best tips on:<br/>-what to invest in when it comes to the stock market<br/>-what mutual funds are and how you can benefit<br/>-how to retire a millionaire<br/>-principles to remember when buying a car<br/>-best practices for buying a house<br/>...and more!<br/><br/>If you&apos;d like to connect with Jordan, reach out to him at his website: www.jordanthall.com<br/><br/>The 3 books mentioned in this episode (that can be purchased on Amazon) are:<br/>1. <a href='https://www.amazon.com/Automatic-Millionaire-Expanded-Updated-Powerful/dp/0451499085/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&amp;keywords=automatic+millionaire&amp;qid=1622691486&amp;sr=8-2'>Automatic Millionaire</a> by David Bach<br/>2. <a href='https://www.amazon.com/Total-Money-Makeover-Classic-Financial/dp/1595555277/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&amp;keywords=total+money+makeover&amp;qid=1622691511&amp;sr=8-1'>Total Money Makeover</a> by Dave Ramsey<br/>3. Jordan Hall’s very own book, <a href='https://www.amazon.com/Every-Degree-Debt-Free-Graduate/dp/1985833646/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&amp;keywords=every+degree+debt+free&amp;qid=1622691538&amp;sr=8-2'>Every Degree Debt-Free</a><br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How to Support the Friends You&#39;re Competing Against | Conversation with Writer + Speaker, Candace Collins</itunes:title>
    <title>How to Support the Friends You&#39;re Competing Against | Conversation with Writer + Speaker, Candace Collins</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Have you ever watched a friend get something that you so badly wanted yourself? Worse yet, have you competed against a friend, and end up being put in the awkward position of wanting to celebrate their success and achievement, while grieving the fact that you cannot celebrate for yourself? A tricky situation indeed, and one that I was thrilled to unpack with my firsthand experience with my new friend Candace Collins (@cannace on IG) ! We literally met and became friends the day we both auditi...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever watched a friend get something that you so badly wanted yourself? Worse yet, have you competed against a friend, and end up being put in the awkward position of wanting to celebrate their success and achievement, while grieving the fact that you cannot celebrate for yourself? A tricky situation indeed, and one that I was thrilled to unpack with my firsthand experience with my new friend <a href='https://www.instagram.com/cannace/'>Candace Collins (@cannace on IG)</a> ! We literally met and became friends the day we both auditioned and competed against one another for a gig!<br/><br/>I think you will find this conversation intriguing, and uplifting as well, as we challenge one another to have the hard conversation, grieve AND celebrate at the same time, and never let someone else&apos;s success deter us from chasing down our own. <br/><br/>Go give Candace a follow on instagram <a href='https://www.instagram.com/cannace/'>@cannace</a> , where you will find her speaking candidly about Jesus, mental health, finances, and the ups and downs of motherhood (which include insanely adorable videos and pics of her daughter Lincoln!)<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever watched a friend get something that you so badly wanted yourself? Worse yet, have you competed against a friend, and end up being put in the awkward position of wanting to celebrate their success and achievement, while grieving the fact that you cannot celebrate for yourself? A tricky situation indeed, and one that I was thrilled to unpack with my firsthand experience with my new friend <a href='https://www.instagram.com/cannace/'>Candace Collins (@cannace on IG)</a> ! We literally met and became friends the day we both auditioned and competed against one another for a gig!<br/><br/>I think you will find this conversation intriguing, and uplifting as well, as we challenge one another to have the hard conversation, grieve AND celebrate at the same time, and never let someone else&apos;s success deter us from chasing down our own. <br/><br/>Go give Candace a follow on instagram <a href='https://www.instagram.com/cannace/'>@cannace</a> , where you will find her speaking candidly about Jesus, mental health, finances, and the ups and downs of motherhood (which include insanely adorable videos and pics of her daughter Lincoln!)<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How to Become More Self-Aware + Know Yourself Better | Convo with Licensed Professional Counselor, Shannon Golden</itunes:title>
    <title>How to Become More Self-Aware + Know Yourself Better | Convo with Licensed Professional Counselor, Shannon Golden</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Did you know that 95% of people believe that they are self-aware, but studies have revealed that only 10-15% of people ACTUALLY are self-aware?! What on Earth happened? How did we get here? How do we fix it!?  In today's episode, Shannon Golden (LPC, mental health + drug &amp; alcohol therapist) is here to help us understand how we all can learn to become more self aware and get to know ourselves better. I believe this episode will help improve ALL of your relationships, as Shannon shares som...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Did you know that 95% of people believe that they are self-aware, but studies have revealed that only 10-15% of people ACTUALLY are self-aware?! What on Earth happened? How did we get here? How do we fix it!?<br/><br/>In today&apos;s episode, Shannon Golden (LPC, mental health + drug &amp; alcohol therapist) is here to help us understand how we all can learn to become more self aware and get to know ourselves better. I believe this episode will help improve ALL of your relationships, as Shannon shares some tips and tricks for how you can improve your self-awareness! Get ready to take notes, this episode is jam packed! <br/><br/>You can follow Shannon on IG <a href='https://www.instagram.com/takecareshanny/'>@takecareshanny </a>! Give her a follow to get pro-tips on how to live your most mentally healthy life :) <br/><br/>Visit <a href='https://www.psychologytoday.com/us'>www.psychologytoday.com</a> to find a local counselor/therapist that meets your desired criteria (you can literally filter by anything)!<br/><br/>Shannon and Zoe&apos;s book recommendations:<br/>1. Insight by Tasha Eurich (all about self-awareness)<br/>2. Soundtracks by Jon Acuff (covers overthinking)<br/>3. Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman<br/>4. The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz<br/>5. 90 Seconds to a Life You Love by Joan L Rosenberg, PhD (How to turn difficult feelings into rock-solid confidence)</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Did you know that 95% of people believe that they are self-aware, but studies have revealed that only 10-15% of people ACTUALLY are self-aware?! What on Earth happened? How did we get here? How do we fix it!?<br/><br/>In today&apos;s episode, Shannon Golden (LPC, mental health + drug &amp; alcohol therapist) is here to help us understand how we all can learn to become more self aware and get to know ourselves better. I believe this episode will help improve ALL of your relationships, as Shannon shares some tips and tricks for how you can improve your self-awareness! Get ready to take notes, this episode is jam packed! <br/><br/>You can follow Shannon on IG <a href='https://www.instagram.com/takecareshanny/'>@takecareshanny </a>! Give her a follow to get pro-tips on how to live your most mentally healthy life :) <br/><br/>Visit <a href='https://www.psychologytoday.com/us'>www.psychologytoday.com</a> to find a local counselor/therapist that meets your desired criteria (you can literally filter by anything)!<br/><br/>Shannon and Zoe&apos;s book recommendations:<br/>1. Insight by Tasha Eurich (all about self-awareness)<br/>2. Soundtracks by Jon Acuff (covers overthinking)<br/>3. Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman<br/>4. The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz<br/>5. 90 Seconds to a Life You Love by Joan L Rosenberg, PhD (How to turn difficult feelings into rock-solid confidence)</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How To Find And Build Genuine Community In Your Life | Conversation with Matt Leach</itunes:title>
    <title>How To Find And Build Genuine Community In Your Life | Conversation with Matt Leach</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[The whole "find your tribe and community" part of adulting is hard. We know! In fact, in today's episode, I brought in one of my good pals Matt Leach to join me, as we share our own personal and collective experiences! From finding friends in college individually, to teaming up to lead our own small group two years ago focused on building deep relationships...we are here to share ALL that we know and all that we have learned to get us to where we are in our own friendships today, in hopes it ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>The whole &quot;find your tribe and community&quot; part of adulting is hard. We know! In fact, in today&apos;s episode, I brought in one of my good pals Matt Leach to join me, as we share our own personal and collective experiences! From finding friends in college individually, to teaming up to lead our own small group two years ago focused on building deep relationships...we are here to share ALL that we know and all that we have learned to get us to where we are in our own friendships today, in hopes it will help you as well!<br/><br/>Matt and I want to hear about your own experiences and other scenarios you&apos;ve encountered on your journey to adult friendships and navigating the weirdness of it all! Hit Matt up at mp.leach95@gmail.com (he hath no instagram), and you can find me at accidentallyintentionalpodcast@gmail.com OR on instagram @zoeasher / @accidentallyintentional<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The whole &quot;find your tribe and community&quot; part of adulting is hard. We know! In fact, in today&apos;s episode, I brought in one of my good pals Matt Leach to join me, as we share our own personal and collective experiences! From finding friends in college individually, to teaming up to lead our own small group two years ago focused on building deep relationships...we are here to share ALL that we know and all that we have learned to get us to where we are in our own friendships today, in hopes it will help you as well!<br/><br/>Matt and I want to hear about your own experiences and other scenarios you&apos;ve encountered on your journey to adult friendships and navigating the weirdness of it all! Hit Matt up at mp.leach95@gmail.com (he hath no instagram), and you can find me at accidentallyintentionalpodcast@gmail.com OR on instagram @zoeasher / @accidentallyintentional<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>This Brain HACK Helped Me Reach My Goals 50% Faster! Will It Help You Do The Same?</itunes:title>
    <title>This Brain HACK Helped Me Reach My Goals 50% Faster! Will It Help You Do The Same?</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[This brain hack is NO JOKE! I can't believe it continues to work! I'm here to share how the results of this one collegiate study gave me what feels like a Jedi mind trick...that continues to help me reach and achieve my goals faster than ever before! I even tried it on my friends...it worked on them too! Will it work for you? Can't wait to find out!  For the video version of this episode, head to the Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel!  Join the conversation and follow along on Instagra...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>This brain hack is NO JOKE! I can&apos;t believe it continues to work! I&apos;m here to share how the results of this one collegiate study gave me what feels like a Jedi mind trick...that continues to help me reach and achieve my goals faster than ever before! I even tried it on my friends...it worked on them too! Will it work for you? Can&apos;t wait to find out!<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This brain hack is NO JOKE! I can&apos;t believe it continues to work! I&apos;m here to share how the results of this one collegiate study gave me what feels like a Jedi mind trick...that continues to help me reach and achieve my goals faster than ever before! I even tried it on my friends...it worked on them too! Will it work for you? Can&apos;t wait to find out!<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How to Move Forward When the Door Slams Shut on Your Dream | Amy Maggio&#39;s Untold Story</itunes:title>
    <title>How to Move Forward When the Door Slams Shut on Your Dream | Amy Maggio&#39;s Untold Story</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you were a fan of youtube music covers back in 2008, then this name will surely ring a bell. The artist formerly known as Amy Colalella, (now her married name is Amy Maggio), joins me today to share her absolutely wild story about how her little Youtube experiment nearly shot her to superstardom, only to come all the way back down.  We get the honor and privilege of being the first to hear her full, untold story of what changed her life nearly a decade ago, and how she has been able to pic...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>If you were a fan of youtube music covers back in 2008, then this name will surely ring a bell. The artist formerly known as Amy Colalella, (now her married name is Amy Maggio), joins me today to share her absolutely wild story about how her little Youtube experiment nearly shot her to superstardom, only to come all the way back down.<br/><br/>We get the honor and privilege of being the first to hear her full, untold story of what changed her life nearly a decade ago, and how she has been able to pick up the pieces and move forward, after the door slammed shut on her biggest dream.<br/><br/>If you&apos;ve been grieving a dream that&apos;s been dashed...this episode is absolutely for you. <br/><br/>Head to YouTube to watch some of the videos that jumpstarted this crazy journey in Amy&apos;s life! <a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/amycolalella'>Click here</a>, or just type in Amy Colalella on youtube! (Amy M is her channel name...the one with 70k followers!)<br/><br/>You can also follow her and send her some love on Instagram: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/_amymaggio/'>@_amymaggio</a><br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you were a fan of youtube music covers back in 2008, then this name will surely ring a bell. The artist formerly known as Amy Colalella, (now her married name is Amy Maggio), joins me today to share her absolutely wild story about how her little Youtube experiment nearly shot her to superstardom, only to come all the way back down.<br/><br/>We get the honor and privilege of being the first to hear her full, untold story of what changed her life nearly a decade ago, and how she has been able to pick up the pieces and move forward, after the door slammed shut on her biggest dream.<br/><br/>If you&apos;ve been grieving a dream that&apos;s been dashed...this episode is absolutely for you. <br/><br/>Head to YouTube to watch some of the videos that jumpstarted this crazy journey in Amy&apos;s life! <a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/amycolalella'>Click here</a>, or just type in Amy Colalella on youtube! (Amy M is her channel name...the one with 70k followers!)<br/><br/>You can also follow her and send her some love on Instagram: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/_amymaggio/'>@_amymaggio</a><br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How to Battle Cancer with a Victorious Mindset | Conversation with Angie Good</itunes:title>
    <title>How to Battle Cancer with a Victorious Mindset | Conversation with Angie Good</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[*UPDATE: Angie Good passed away on December 8, 2021. It is all the more reason that you should listen to this podcast as a result. The life she lived, the tenacity and bravery that she fought with, will impact my life forever. I love her so much, and I can't wait to see her again someday in Eternity. *  I'm willing to bet you have never met anyone quite like Angie before. Though she is currently battling stage 4 cancer, you would NEVER know it...based upon the amount of energy, joy, positivit...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>*UPDATE: Angie Good passed away on December 8, 2021. It is all the more reason that you should listen to this podcast as a result. The life she lived, the tenacity and bravery that she fought with, will impact my life forever. I love her so much, and I can&apos;t wait to see her again someday in Eternity. *<br/><br/>I&apos;m willing to bet you have never met anyone quite like Angie before. Though she is currently battling stage 4 cancer, you would NEVER know it...based upon the amount of energy, joy, positivity and peace she exudes! This woman is FIGHTING with everything in her, and shares her inspiring story, teaching us all how to hope when you have cancer.<br/><br/>This episode is for anyone that feels like they are fighting and battling a monster of a war, whether it be mentally, physically, or emotionally. Angie is proof that we have so much to be grateful for, and that, no matter what the circumstance or obstacle, it is possible to live a life filled with HOPE! If you know any other cancer warriors who would be encouraged by this episode, please share it!<br/><br/>Let Angie know you&apos;re praying for her and cheering her on as she fights this cancer like an absolute boss! You can find her on IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/angiegood17/'>@angiegood17</a> or &quot;<a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/1058477734547999'>Angie&apos;s Army</a>&quot; on Facebook!<br/><br/>To see photos of what happened at the Amplify Church service on January 24, 2021 (which Angie referenced in the episode), click <a href='https://amplifychurch.smugmug.com/Pittsburgh-City-Campus/Weekend-Photos/2021/12421/Healing/'>HERE</a> and type in the password &quot; healed &quot;:<br/> <br/>The dvd/book series Angie mentions in this episode is called: &quot;God&apos;s Will to Heal: 30 Reasons We Are Sure It&apos;s God&apos;s Will for All to Be Healed&quot; by Keith Moore.<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>*UPDATE: Angie Good passed away on December 8, 2021. It is all the more reason that you should listen to this podcast as a result. The life she lived, the tenacity and bravery that she fought with, will impact my life forever. I love her so much, and I can&apos;t wait to see her again someday in Eternity. *<br/><br/>I&apos;m willing to bet you have never met anyone quite like Angie before. Though she is currently battling stage 4 cancer, you would NEVER know it...based upon the amount of energy, joy, positivity and peace she exudes! This woman is FIGHTING with everything in her, and shares her inspiring story, teaching us all how to hope when you have cancer.<br/><br/>This episode is for anyone that feels like they are fighting and battling a monster of a war, whether it be mentally, physically, or emotionally. Angie is proof that we have so much to be grateful for, and that, no matter what the circumstance or obstacle, it is possible to live a life filled with HOPE! If you know any other cancer warriors who would be encouraged by this episode, please share it!<br/><br/>Let Angie know you&apos;re praying for her and cheering her on as she fights this cancer like an absolute boss! You can find her on IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/angiegood17/'>@angiegood17</a> or &quot;<a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/1058477734547999'>Angie&apos;s Army</a>&quot; on Facebook!<br/><br/>To see photos of what happened at the Amplify Church service on January 24, 2021 (which Angie referenced in the episode), click <a href='https://amplifychurch.smugmug.com/Pittsburgh-City-Campus/Weekend-Photos/2021/12421/Healing/'>HERE</a> and type in the password &quot; healed &quot;:<br/> <br/>The dvd/book series Angie mentions in this episode is called: &quot;God&apos;s Will to Heal: 30 Reasons We Are Sure It&apos;s God&apos;s Will for All to Be Healed&quot; by Keith Moore.<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How to Handle Being Ghosted, and What YOU Can Do About It! | Conversation with Kristen Clary</itunes:title>
    <title>How to Handle Being Ghosted, and What YOU Can Do About It! | Conversation with Kristen Clary</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[It's a spooky time to be alive folks! Oh, wrong ghosting pun...my bad. But honestly, ghosting culture is pretty much the NORM nowadays...and it isn't just reserved for people who are on dating apps. This happens in all forms of relationships! Today, I brought in one of the most bubbly people I know -- Delta Flight Attendant Kristen Clary -- to discuss our own personal experiences ghosting others, and being ghosted ourselves. We unpack some unmet expectations, hurt feelings, hilarious stories,...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>It&apos;s a spooky time to be alive folks! Oh, wrong ghosting pun...my bad. But honestly, ghosting culture is pretty much the NORM nowadays...and it isn&apos;t just reserved for people who are on dating apps. This happens in all forms of relationships! Today, I brought in one of the most bubbly people I know -- Delta Flight Attendant Kristen Clary -- to discuss our own personal experiences ghosting others, and being ghosted ourselves. We unpack some unmet expectations, hurt feelings, hilarious stories, and lessons learned to help us moving forward! <br/><br/>This will be a conversation that hopefully keeps you smiling and laughing along with us as we discuss and navigate these experiences for the first time on the mic! <br/><br/>Give Kristen a follow to see all her travel adventures from high in the skies, and also her drool-worthy cake creations (One of her secret talents!) IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/kristen.kathryn/'>@kristen.kathryn</a><br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&apos;s a spooky time to be alive folks! Oh, wrong ghosting pun...my bad. But honestly, ghosting culture is pretty much the NORM nowadays...and it isn&apos;t just reserved for people who are on dating apps. This happens in all forms of relationships! Today, I brought in one of the most bubbly people I know -- Delta Flight Attendant Kristen Clary -- to discuss our own personal experiences ghosting others, and being ghosted ourselves. We unpack some unmet expectations, hurt feelings, hilarious stories, and lessons learned to help us moving forward! <br/><br/>This will be a conversation that hopefully keeps you smiling and laughing along with us as we discuss and navigate these experiences for the first time on the mic! <br/><br/>Give Kristen a follow to see all her travel adventures from high in the skies, and also her drool-worthy cake creations (One of her secret talents!) IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/kristen.kathryn/'>@kristen.kathryn</a><br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How To Completely Transform Your Life | Conversation with Former Addict Turned National Speaker &amp; Artist, Spencer Te&#39;o </itunes:title>
    <title>How To Completely Transform Your Life | Conversation with Former Addict Turned National Speaker &amp; Artist, Spencer Te&#39;o </title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How does one go from being a drug addict, to a national speaker and mentor for high school students on a counter-cultural national tour? Well, something massive had to happen. Spencer Te'o decided that he needed to take action, actively fight to change the direction he was headed in, and transform his life and future. As a result of consistent actions and decisions, he has in-turn been able to impact thousands of teens across the country through his story!  In this episode, Spencer opens up a...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>How does one go from being a drug addict, to a national speaker and mentor for high school students on a counter-cultural national tour? Well, something massive had to happen. Spencer Te&apos;o decided that he needed to take action, actively fight to change the direction he was headed in, and transform his life and future. As a result of consistent actions and decisions, he has in-turn been able to impact thousands of teens across the country through his story!<br/><br/>In this episode, Spencer opens up and shares what his life used to look like as a drug addict; the struggles, the loss, and his journey away from it. He gives tangible and practical ways in which the listener can take steps to change direction in their own life (no matter the situation) and watch it be transformed as a result!<br/><br/>Give Spencer a follow to see all of his awesome projects, his adventures, his production company and more! IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/iamspencerteo/'>@iamspencerteo</a><br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How does one go from being a drug addict, to a national speaker and mentor for high school students on a counter-cultural national tour? Well, something massive had to happen. Spencer Te&apos;o decided that he needed to take action, actively fight to change the direction he was headed in, and transform his life and future. As a result of consistent actions and decisions, he has in-turn been able to impact thousands of teens across the country through his story!<br/><br/>In this episode, Spencer opens up and shares what his life used to look like as a drug addict; the struggles, the loss, and his journey away from it. He gives tangible and practical ways in which the listener can take steps to change direction in their own life (no matter the situation) and watch it be transformed as a result!<br/><br/>Give Spencer a follow to see all of his awesome projects, his adventures, his production company and more! IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/iamspencerteo/'>@iamspencerteo</a><br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>The Podcast’s First 1-Star Rating Arrived: This Was My Reaction...</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[It was bound to happen at some point, but I wasn't prepared for how it would feel. If you are struggling with negativity, or perhaps trying to fully protect yourself from any negative criticism at all, give this a listen! It's bound to encourage you today!  For the video version of this episode, head to the Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel!  Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM's! Let's converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I'm all ears! @a...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>It was bound to happen at some point, but I wasn&apos;t prepared for how it would feel. If you are struggling with negativity, or perhaps trying to fully protect yourself from any negative criticism at all, give this a listen! It&apos;s bound to encourage you today!<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It was bound to happen at some point, but I wasn&apos;t prepared for how it would feel. If you are struggling with negativity, or perhaps trying to fully protect yourself from any negative criticism at all, give this a listen! It&apos;s bound to encourage you today!<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/><br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! Say hi, or share your biggest takeaways! I&apos;m all ears! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How to Find and Become an Intentional Friend | Conversation with my BFF, Brooke Hiott</itunes:title>
    <title>How to Find and Become an Intentional Friend | Conversation with my BFF, Brooke Hiott</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[To find an amazing friend is one thing, but to actively work to become an intentional friend yourself is another thing entirely. So, today I recruited the best person I could think of to discuss this with...my best friend Brooke (aka the world's greatest)! We dig into the best and worst moments of our own friendship, the time where it almost ended, how we came back stronger, and the exact steps we took to build the unbreakable and incredibly intentional friendship we have today. May have crie...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>To find an amazing friend is one thing, but to actively work to become an intentional friend yourself is another thing entirely. So, today I recruited the best person I could think of to discuss this with...my best friend Brooke (aka the world&apos;s greatest)! We dig into the best and worst moments of our own friendship, the time where it almost ended, how we came back stronger, and the exact steps we took to build the unbreakable and incredibly intentional friendship we have today. May have cried in this episode. Guess you&apos;ll have to listen to know for sure.<br/><br/>Tell my bestie Brooke that she is the most fabulous/coolest pregnant woman you&apos;ve ever seen on IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/brookehiott/'>@brookehiott</a><br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to all DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To find an amazing friend is one thing, but to actively work to become an intentional friend yourself is another thing entirely. So, today I recruited the best person I could think of to discuss this with...my best friend Brooke (aka the world&apos;s greatest)! We dig into the best and worst moments of our own friendship, the time where it almost ended, how we came back stronger, and the exact steps we took to build the unbreakable and incredibly intentional friendship we have today. May have cried in this episode. Guess you&apos;ll have to listen to know for sure.<br/><br/>Tell my bestie Brooke that she is the most fabulous/coolest pregnant woman you&apos;ve ever seen on IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/brookehiott/'>@brookehiott</a><br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! I respond to all DM&apos;s! Let&apos;s converse! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How to Go From Dreamer to Doer &amp; Take Action This Year | Conversation with Therapist Turned Stylist, Rachel Wallick</itunes:title>
    <title>How to Go From Dreamer to Doer &amp; Take Action This Year | Conversation with Therapist Turned Stylist, Rachel Wallick</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[The hardest part about chasing a dream is...well, just starting, and taking that first step. This past year, my friend Rachel started at zero and since taken SO MANY steps to move the needle forward on her dreams,  refusing to let a global pandemic stand in her way. We have an inspiring conversation about the progress she's made going from a therapist to pursuing her dream of becoming part of the Mosaic Church in LA, along with launching her own styling company, The Golden Ray Collective...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>The hardest part about chasing a dream is...well, just starting, and taking that first step. This past year, my friend Rachel started at zero and since taken SO MANY steps to move the needle forward on her dreams,  refusing to let a global pandemic stand in her way. We have an inspiring conversation about the progress she&apos;s made going from a therapist to pursuing her dream of becoming part of the Mosaic Church in LA, along with launching her own styling company, The Golden Ray Collective!<br/><br/>In this episode we discuss:<br/>-the dream that was in her heart<br/>-the first step she took to pursue it<br/>-the biggest hurdle to date she has had to face<br/>-trauma&apos;s impact on creativity in the brain<br/>-whether you should wait until you are confident or move forward afraid when it comes to pursuing dreams<br/>-how to stand out in your niche and market<br/>-what you can actually do today to start pursuing your own dreams<br/>...AND MORE<br/><br/>Get in touch with Rachel Wallick on IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/ray_walll/'>@ray_walll </a>, or her business IG, where you can book a styling consult: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/thegoldenraycollective/'>@thegoldenraycollective<br/></a><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a><br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The hardest part about chasing a dream is...well, just starting, and taking that first step. This past year, my friend Rachel started at zero and since taken SO MANY steps to move the needle forward on her dreams,  refusing to let a global pandemic stand in her way. We have an inspiring conversation about the progress she&apos;s made going from a therapist to pursuing her dream of becoming part of the Mosaic Church in LA, along with launching her own styling company, The Golden Ray Collective!<br/><br/>In this episode we discuss:<br/>-the dream that was in her heart<br/>-the first step she took to pursue it<br/>-the biggest hurdle to date she has had to face<br/>-trauma&apos;s impact on creativity in the brain<br/>-whether you should wait until you are confident or move forward afraid when it comes to pursuing dreams<br/>-how to stand out in your niche and market<br/>-what you can actually do today to start pursuing your own dreams<br/>...AND MORE<br/><br/>Get in touch with Rachel Wallick on IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/ray_walll/'>@ray_walll </a>, or her business IG, where you can book a styling consult: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/thegoldenraycollective/'>@thegoldenraycollective<br/></a><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>!<br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a><br/><br/></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How to Talk About Your Faith with Someone Who Doesn&#39;t Agree | Conversation with a Christian Apologist</itunes:title>
    <title>How to Talk About Your Faith with Someone Who Doesn&#39;t Agree | Conversation with a Christian Apologist</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How exactly can we navigate a conversation about our faith with someone who vehemently disagrees, or has a very different opinion? Kind of intimidating right? Today I brought in truly one of the best, and it's my very own brother! As a Christian apologist, he has literally traveled the world doing this exact thing -- having incredible conversations about Christianity/Jesus with people of different faith backgrounds (or no faith backgrounds at all). In this episode, he is here to give you hype...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>How exactly can we navigate a conversation about our faith with someone who vehemently disagrees, or has a very different opinion? Kind of intimidating right? Today I brought in truly one of the best, and it&apos;s my very own brother! As a Christian apologist, he has literally traveled the world doing this exact thing -- having incredible conversations about Christianity/Jesus with people of different faith backgrounds (or no faith backgrounds at all). In this episode, he is here to give you hyper-practical ways in which you can discuss your faith with someone who doesn&apos;t agree, and have an amazing conversation as a result! These are actionable steps that you can take and use TODAY in your own life!<br/><br/>What is discussed in this episode:<br/>-What is Christian Apologetics?<br/>-Is God real?<br/>-Is Christianity true?<br/>-What evidence is there for God&apos;s existence?<br/>-How can I talk about faith with someone who doesn&apos;t believe in God or agree with me?<br/>-How can I have a conversation about faith if I don&apos;t know much about the bible?<br/>-Bonus Q&amp;A speed round between my mom and brother<br/>...and much more! <br/><br/>If you want to get the book that is discussed in this episode, Tactics by Greg Koukl, click <a href='https://amzn.to/3hqKb2C'>HERE</a>! <br/>*Shameless plug....this book was absolutely transformative in my life, so helpful, and my inspiration for bringing my brother on this podcast!*<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>! <br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How exactly can we navigate a conversation about our faith with someone who vehemently disagrees, or has a very different opinion? Kind of intimidating right? Today I brought in truly one of the best, and it&apos;s my very own brother! As a Christian apologist, he has literally traveled the world doing this exact thing -- having incredible conversations about Christianity/Jesus with people of different faith backgrounds (or no faith backgrounds at all). In this episode, he is here to give you hyper-practical ways in which you can discuss your faith with someone who doesn&apos;t agree, and have an amazing conversation as a result! These are actionable steps that you can take and use TODAY in your own life!<br/><br/>What is discussed in this episode:<br/>-What is Christian Apologetics?<br/>-Is God real?<br/>-Is Christianity true?<br/>-What evidence is there for God&apos;s existence?<br/>-How can I talk about faith with someone who doesn&apos;t believe in God or agree with me?<br/>-How can I have a conversation about faith if I don&apos;t know much about the bible?<br/>-Bonus Q&amp;A speed round between my mom and brother<br/>...and much more! <br/><br/>If you want to get the book that is discussed in this episode, Tactics by Greg Koukl, click <a href='https://amzn.to/3hqKb2C'>HERE</a>! <br/>*Shameless plug....this book was absolutely transformative in my life, so helpful, and my inspiration for bringing my brother on this podcast!*<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>! <br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[We are back with PART 2! Continuing our conversation on "How to Be Content and Happy While Single," Lou and I now dive even deeper in this second part to more nuanced facets of singleness. We discuss shame, regret, temptation, how married/dating friends can best support their single friends, and what the gospel actually means for us. Oh, AND Lou answers questions YOU asked! Sit back, relax and enjoy, as Lou and I try and address every possible angle of this "singleness" conversation.  Lou Phi...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>We are back with PART 2! Continuing our conversation on &quot;How to Be Content and Happy While Single,&quot; Lou and I now dive even deeper in this second part to more nuanced facets of singleness. We discuss shame, regret, temptation, how married/dating friends can best support their single friends, and what the gospel actually means for us. Oh, AND Lou answers questions YOU asked! Sit back, relax and enjoy, as Lou and I try and address every possible angle of this &quot;singleness&quot; conversation.<br/><br/>Lou Phillips is a global speaker, and he also has been single for these past 29 years of his life, which is why he is the absolutely perfect friend to have this important conversation with! <br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>! <br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We are back with PART 2! Continuing our conversation on &quot;How to Be Content and Happy While Single,&quot; Lou and I now dive even deeper in this second part to more nuanced facets of singleness. We discuss shame, regret, temptation, how married/dating friends can best support their single friends, and what the gospel actually means for us. Oh, AND Lou answers questions YOU asked! Sit back, relax and enjoy, as Lou and I try and address every possible angle of this &quot;singleness&quot; conversation.<br/><br/>Lou Phillips is a global speaker, and he also has been single for these past 29 years of his life, which is why he is the absolutely perfect friend to have this important conversation with! <br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>! <br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How to Be Content &amp; Happy When You&#39;re Single + The Meaning of Marriage | Conversation with Global Speaker Lou Phillips, Part 1</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[He's a global speaker, and he also has been single for these past 29 years of his life. I couldn't think of a better person to sit down with and discuss practical ways in which people can learn to be not only content, but joyful and happy in their "singleness"...for however long that is, whether it be temporary, or for a lifetime. My friend Lou Phillips and I get extremely candid about our experiences being single for so long, and in this episode (Part 1 of a 2 part series), we try and addres...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>He&apos;s a global speaker, and he also has been single for these past 29 years of his life. I couldn&apos;t think of a better person to sit down with and discuss practical ways in which people can learn to be not only content, but joyful and happy in their &quot;singleness&quot;...for however long that is, whether it be temporary, or for a lifetime. My friend Lou Phillips and I get extremely candid about our experiences being single for so long, and in this episode (Part 1 of a 2 part series), we try and address every possible angle of the &quot;singleness&quot; conversation.<br/><br/>If you&apos;re married, this conversation is also for you, as we address ways in which not only married couples/dating couples can improve, but also what the church can do better to help the single people out there. HINT: It&apos;s NOT to try and set us up.<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>! <br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>He&apos;s a global speaker, and he also has been single for these past 29 years of his life. I couldn&apos;t think of a better person to sit down with and discuss practical ways in which people can learn to be not only content, but joyful and happy in their &quot;singleness&quot;...for however long that is, whether it be temporary, or for a lifetime. My friend Lou Phillips and I get extremely candid about our experiences being single for so long, and in this episode (Part 1 of a 2 part series), we try and address every possible angle of the &quot;singleness&quot; conversation.<br/><br/>If you&apos;re married, this conversation is also for you, as we address ways in which not only married couples/dating couples can improve, but also what the church can do better to help the single people out there. HINT: It&apos;s NOT to try and set us up.<br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>! <br/>Join the conversation and follow along on Instagram! <a href='https://www.instagram.com/accidentallyintentional/'>@accidentallyintentional</a> or <a href='https://www.instagram.com/zoeasher/'>@zoeasher</a></p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Church Hurt: How to Navigate and Heal | A Conversation Between 2 Friends Who Hurt Each Other, with Mackenzie Te&#39;o and Zoe Asher</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you've ever been to, or even associated with a church before, there is a high chance you have experienced "church hurt." It's the act of being hurt by someone in a church. It's an important conversation to have, and in this episode, Mackenzie and I (Zoe) are going to share our own personal experiences navigating church hurt, between one another, and how we have learned to heal from deep wounds we caused, and wounds that were given to us as well.  Special thanks to @mackenziearyn for being ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>If you&apos;ve ever been to, or even associated with a church before, there is a high chance you have experienced &quot;church hurt.&quot; It&apos;s the act of being hurt by someone in a church. It&apos;s an important conversation to have, and in this episode, Mackenzie and I (Zoe) are going to share our own personal experiences navigating church hurt, between one another, and how we have learned to heal from deep wounds we caused, and wounds that were given to us as well.<br/><br/>Special thanks to <a href='https://www.instagram.com/mackenziearyn/'>@mackenziearyn</a> for being part of this episode!<br/>For the video version, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel!</a><br/><br/>To purchase Lysa TerKeurst new book &quot;Forgiving What You Can&apos;t Forget&quot;, <a href='https://amzn.to/2ID5Est'>click here</a>. (Affiliate link).</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you&apos;ve ever been to, or even associated with a church before, there is a high chance you have experienced &quot;church hurt.&quot; It&apos;s the act of being hurt by someone in a church. It&apos;s an important conversation to have, and in this episode, Mackenzie and I (Zoe) are going to share our own personal experiences navigating church hurt, between one another, and how we have learned to heal from deep wounds we caused, and wounds that were given to us as well.<br/><br/>Special thanks to <a href='https://www.instagram.com/mackenziearyn/'>@mackenziearyn</a> for being part of this episode!<br/>For the video version, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel!</a><br/><br/>To purchase Lysa TerKeurst new book &quot;Forgiving What You Can&apos;t Forget&quot;, <a href='https://amzn.to/2ID5Est'>click here</a>. (Affiliate link).</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How Someone &quot;Stole My Idea&quot;...and What Our Brains Are Really Trying to Tell Us</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Someone "stole my idea". Well, technically I let them. It's confusing, I know. In this short bonus episode, I share what happened, and how a recent conversation with a friend brought this moment back to my memory. I have since learned what the brain is trying to tell us when we are afraid, and how we should handle it.  Support the show Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a r...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Someone &quot;stole my idea&quot;. Well, technically I let them. It&apos;s confusing, I know. In this short bonus episode, I share what happened, and how a recent conversation with a friend brought this moment back to my memory. I have since learned what the brain is trying to tell us when we are afraid, and how we should handle it. </p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Someone &quot;stole my idea&quot;. Well, technically I let them. It&apos;s confusing, I know. In this short bonus episode, I share what happened, and how a recent conversation with a friend brought this moment back to my memory. I have since learned what the brain is trying to tell us when we are afraid, and how we should handle it. </p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How To Find Someone&#39;s Strengths and Unleash Their Full Potential | Conversation with Molyneaux Flooring COO, Melissa Molyneaux-McFarland</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Have you ever met someone that just has the gift of being able to spot potential strengths in a person before they may even see it in themselves? My great friend Melissa Molyneaux-McFarland is the MASTER at doing this, and today she is going to teach us how! She is always encouraging the people around her, helping them find their strengths, and learning how to unlock their potential!  Connect with Melissa Molyneaux-McFarland on instagram: @melmeaux24 If you happen to live in Pittsburgh and ar...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever met someone that just has the gift of being able to spot potential strengths in a person before they may even see it in themselves? My great friend Melissa Molyneaux-McFarland is the MASTER at doing this, and today she is going to teach us how! She is always encouraging the people around her, helping them find their strengths, and learning how to unlock their potential!<br/><br/>Connect with Melissa Molyneaux-McFarland on instagram: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/melmeaux24/'>@melmeaux24</a><br/>If you happen to live in Pittsburgh and are in the market for new carpet, flooring or even an entire kitchen refresh...take this as my raving review and choose Molyneaux Tile Carpet Wood, and tell them Zoe sent you via this podcast! You can check out the company&apos;s website: <a href='https://beautifulfloors.com'>beautifulfloors.com</a><br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>! </p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever met someone that just has the gift of being able to spot potential strengths in a person before they may even see it in themselves? My great friend Melissa Molyneaux-McFarland is the MASTER at doing this, and today she is going to teach us how! She is always encouraging the people around her, helping them find their strengths, and learning how to unlock their potential!<br/><br/>Connect with Melissa Molyneaux-McFarland on instagram: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/melmeaux24/'>@melmeaux24</a><br/>If you happen to live in Pittsburgh and are in the market for new carpet, flooring or even an entire kitchen refresh...take this as my raving review and choose Molyneaux Tile Carpet Wood, and tell them Zoe sent you via this podcast! You can check out the company&apos;s website: <a href='https://beautifulfloors.com'>beautifulfloors.com</a><br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>! </p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>How He Became A Millionaire - From Quitting a 6-Figure Job, to Building a Company with 10,000+ Clients, &amp; Everything In-Between | Convo with Entrepreneur, Taylor Hiott</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why in the world would someone quit their very comfortable 6-figure salary to take a huge risk and start a company?! In this conversation, which is more of an interview style, I sit down with one of my friends Taylor Hiott, who quit his job as a computer salesman 3 years ago, to create what is now a massive consulting company teaching people how to sell products on Amazon.   You may have seen him acting like a goofball with a pink towel on his head in a (now viral) video advertisement for his...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Why in the world would someone quit their very comfortable 6-figure salary to take a huge risk and start a company?! In this conversation, which is more of an interview style, I sit down with one of my friends Taylor Hiott, who quit his job as a computer salesman 3 years ago, to create what is now a massive consulting company teaching people how to sell products on Amazon. <br/><br/>You may have seen him acting like a goofball with a pink towel on his head in a (now viral) video advertisement for his company, but today we pull back the curtain and see a side of Taylor that few have ever seen before. We get personal and discuss what drives him, what frustrates him most, what his dreams and goals actually entail, and the type of person he believes can achieve their own definition of &quot;success.&quot; He has so much wisdom for those who are currently trying to pursue a dream and enter uncharted waters along the way. <br/><br/>Sorry for the echoed audio at the beginning! <br/><br/>For the video version of this episode, head to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPCXRHrgunEZzATff8SEPYA'>Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel</a>! <br/><br/>Connect with Taylor Hiott on instagram or twitter: <a href='https://twitter.com/tmhiott'>@tmhiott</a> or <a href='https://taylorhiott.home.blog/'>taylorhiott.com</a><br/>Be on the look out for his book &quot;Launch Then Build&quot; coming soon!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
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    <title>3 Ways To Make Sure The Phrase &quot;I Don&#39;t Know How To Do It&quot; Does NOT Stop You From Moving Forward!</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[One of my New Year's Resolutions for 2020  was to launch this very podcast. It could have been launched 10 months ago, but why wasn't it? Well, in today's short episode, I get brutally honest about how one singular question that held me back for so long, and why I do not want that same question to stop you! If there is a dream or an opportunity you have just been sitting on...I hope this episode compels you make today be the day you draw the line in the sand and begin to take action!&nbs...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>One of my New Year&apos;s Resolutions for 2020  was to launch this very podcast. It could have been launched 10 months ago, but why wasn&apos;t it? Well, in today&apos;s short episode, I get brutally honest about how one singular question that held me back for so long, and why I do not want that same question to stop you! If there is a dream or an opportunity you have just been sitting on...I hope this episode compels you make today be the day you draw the line in the sand and begin to take action!  We believe in you and are cheering you on!<br/><br/>Please share this episode with someone who you think needs to hear it!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of my New Year&apos;s Resolutions for 2020  was to launch this very podcast. It could have been launched 10 months ago, but why wasn&apos;t it? Well, in today&apos;s short episode, I get brutally honest about how one singular question that held me back for so long, and why I do not want that same question to stop you! If there is a dream or an opportunity you have just been sitting on...I hope this episode compels you make today be the day you draw the line in the sand and begin to take action!  We believe in you and are cheering you on!<br/><br/>Please share this episode with someone who you think needs to hear it!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How to Thrive in Hollywood Without Losing Your Soul | Conversation with Film Director Spencer Folmar</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[I think we've all heard it before: "Hollywood is so ___ (fill in the blank with a negative phrase or connotation somehow relating to people having no soul, no moral compass etc.)" So, how then, is it possible to stay grounded in such an cut-throat environment?  In this conversation I had with Film Director and Producer Spencer Folmar, we cover a myriad of topics, such as: how he got his break into Hollywood, imposter syndrome, how coronavirus is changing the landscape of the entertainment ind...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>I think we&apos;ve all heard it before: &quot;Hollywood is so ___ (fill in the blank with a negative phrase or connotation somehow relating to people having no soul, no moral compass etc.)&quot; So, how then, is it possible to stay grounded in such an cut-throat environment?<br/><br/>In this conversation I had with Film Director and Producer Spencer Folmar, we cover a myriad of topics, such as: how he got his break into Hollywood, imposter syndrome, how coronavirus is changing the landscape of the entertainment industry and his plans to pivot, and what he believes is MOST important at the end of the day. <br/><br/>To follow Spencer Folmar, see his films and latest projects, head to: <a href='https://www.spencerfolmar.com/'>www.spencerfolmar.com</a> or <a href='https://www.hardfaith.com/'>www.hardfaith.com <br/></a>You can follow him on Instagram: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/spencerfolmar/'>@spencerfolmar</a><br/><br/>If you are one of those people that reads the description...you&apos;ve been rewarded because I&apos;m giving you early access to what Spencer&apos;s upcoming film project will be. Let&apos;s just say you can find the deets @bonhoeffermovie on Instagram :)<br/><br/>The book Spencer mentions in this episode is titled &quot;How to Win Friends and Influence People&quot; by Dale Carnegie. <a href='https://amzn.to/2I51AAy'>Click here</a> (affiliate link) to buy the book on Amazon!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think we&apos;ve all heard it before: &quot;Hollywood is so ___ (fill in the blank with a negative phrase or connotation somehow relating to people having no soul, no moral compass etc.)&quot; So, how then, is it possible to stay grounded in such an cut-throat environment?<br/><br/>In this conversation I had with Film Director and Producer Spencer Folmar, we cover a myriad of topics, such as: how he got his break into Hollywood, imposter syndrome, how coronavirus is changing the landscape of the entertainment industry and his plans to pivot, and what he believes is MOST important at the end of the day. <br/><br/>To follow Spencer Folmar, see his films and latest projects, head to: <a href='https://www.spencerfolmar.com/'>www.spencerfolmar.com</a> or <a href='https://www.hardfaith.com/'>www.hardfaith.com <br/></a>You can follow him on Instagram: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/spencerfolmar/'>@spencerfolmar</a><br/><br/>If you are one of those people that reads the description...you&apos;ve been rewarded because I&apos;m giving you early access to what Spencer&apos;s upcoming film project will be. Let&apos;s just say you can find the deets @bonhoeffermovie on Instagram :)<br/><br/>The book Spencer mentions in this episode is titled &quot;How to Win Friends and Influence People&quot; by Dale Carnegie. <a href='https://amzn.to/2I51AAy'>Click here</a> (affiliate link) to buy the book on Amazon!</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this short intro episode, I share how the podcast name came to be, how I used to not have any idea how to talk to people, why I'm now committed to dropping a new episode every other week, and what my goal is for you, the listener, with each episode from here on out! LET'S DO THIS THING. Support the show Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email conta...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>In this short intro episode, I share how the podcast name came to be, how I used to not have any idea how to talk to people, why I&apos;m now committed to dropping a new episode every other week, and what my goal is for you, the listener, with each episode from here on out! LET&apos;S DO THIS THING.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this short intro episode, I share how the podcast name came to be, how I used to not have any idea how to talk to people, why I&apos;m now committed to dropping a new episode every other week, and what my goal is for you, the listener, with each episode from here on out! LET&apos;S DO THIS THING.</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://venmo.com/zoeasher">Support the show</a></p><p>Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@leveledupfriendships.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!</p><p>Subscribe to the <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@leveledupfriendships'>Leveled Up Friendships YouTube channel</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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