Relationship Goals? Tue, 24 Mar 2026 21:31:39 -0400 https://www.buzzsprout.com/1335742 en-us © 2026 Relationship Goals? yes Support this Podcast 628fb216-5297-5f9f-a2bc-6c66b546285f Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem episodic true A podcast told by two millennials navigating the world of marriage, relationships, and what it means to be relationship goals. Amber and Danny Zakem have been dating since 2012 and have been married since 2015. They are what some may refer to as "relationship goals". Through this podcast you will learn about the ups and downs of relationships, the instagram vs. reality complex, and how a good relationship just takes good old fashion work. 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-14788190 Thu, 28 Mar 2024 14:00:00 -0500 1323 3 107 full true Fatherhood Fatherhood As a counter to the Motherhood episode, Danny answers your burning questions about his journey into fatherhood. Tune in to hear about how he navigates the ups and downs of year one with a baby! 

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]]> As a counter to the Motherhood episode, Danny answers your burning questions about his journey into fatherhood. Tune in to hear about how he navigates the ups and downs of year one with a baby! 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-14697440 Fri, 15 Mar 2024 13:00:00 -0500 1460 3 106 full true Gender Disappointment Gender Disappointment In this emotionally resonant episode of "Relationship Goals?", hosts Danny and Amber Zakem candidly share their personal experience with gender disappointment during pregnancy. Delving into the complexities of this widely felt yet often undiscussed emotion, the couple opens up about how this unexpected feeling shaped their journey to parenthood. Despite not having a strong preference for their baby's gender, they explore the societal expectations and stereotypes that contribute to these sentiments. Through their heartfelt conversation, Danny and Amber emphasize the significance of breaking the silence surrounding gender disappointment, fostering a supportive space for others to acknowledge and navigate their own emotions on this often-overlooked aspect of the parenting journey. Tune in to discover the depth of this shared human experience and the importance of embracing one's feelings on the path to becoming a parent.

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]]> In this emotionally resonant episode of "Relationship Goals?", hosts Danny and Amber Zakem candidly share their personal experience with gender disappointment during pregnancy. Delving into the complexities of this widely felt yet often undiscussed emotion, the couple opens up about how this unexpected feeling shaped their journey to parenthood. Despite not having a strong preference for their baby's gender, they explore the societal expectations and stereotypes that contribute to these sentiments. Through their heartfelt conversation, Danny and Amber emphasize the significance of breaking the silence surrounding gender disappointment, fostering a supportive space for others to acknowledge and navigate their own emotions on this often-overlooked aspect of the parenting journey. Tune in to discover the depth of this shared human experience and the importance of embracing one's feelings on the path to becoming a parent.

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-14598263 Thu, 29 Feb 2024 00:00:00 -0600 1681 3 105 full true Relationships Post Baby Relationships Post Baby No one talks about how hard relationships can be after having a baby. This week Amber and Danny Zakem dive into postpartum relationship struggles and how they are focused on getting through the hard times. 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-14551274 Wed, 21 Feb 2024 21:00:00 -0600 2056 3 104 full true Valentine's Day Valentine's Day Welcome to "Relationship Goals?" – the podcast that explores the intricacies of love, connection, and everything in between. In Season 3, Episode 12, join your hosts, Amber and Danny Zakem, for a heartfelt journey into the world of romance in their special annual Valentine's Day episode.

In this episode, Amber and Danny share their personal reasons for cherishing Valentine's Day, offering insights into why this holiday holds a special place in their hearts. From cherished traditions to unique celebrations, they delve into the various ways to make Valentine's Day meaningful, regardless of your relationship style or background.

Discover the secrets to making this day extraordinary, as Amber and Danny discuss how small surprises can have a big impact. Whether you're a hopeless romantic or someone who prefers a more low-key approach, they provide valuable tips on creating memorable moments and expressing love in your own way.

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]]> Welcome to "Relationship Goals?" – the podcast that explores the intricacies of love, connection, and everything in between. In Season 3, Episode 12, join your hosts, Amber and Danny Zakem, for a heartfelt journey into the world of romance in their special annual Valentine's Day episode.

In this episode, Amber and Danny share their personal reasons for cherishing Valentine's Day, offering insights into why this holiday holds a special place in their hearts. From cherished traditions to unique celebrations, they delve into the various ways to make Valentine's Day meaningful, regardless of your relationship style or background.

Discover the secrets to making this day extraordinary, as Amber and Danny discuss how small surprises can have a big impact. Whether you're a hopeless romantic or someone who prefers a more low-key approach, they provide valuable tips on creating memorable moments and expressing love in your own way.

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-14492024 Mon, 12 Feb 2024 20:00:00 -0600 1811 3 103 full true Motherhood Motherhood Amber answers your burning questions about her journey into motherhood. Tune in to hear about how she navigates the ups and downs of postpartum and the first year with a baby. 

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]]> Amber answers your burning questions about her journey into motherhood. Tune in to hear about how she navigates the ups and downs of postpartum and the first year with a baby. 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-14417787 Thu, 01 Feb 2024 00:00:00 -0600 1840 3 102 full true Babymoon Babymoon Embark on a picturesque journey through Ireland with our latest podcast episode, where we explore the enchanting concept of a Babymoon in the Emerald Isle. Join us as we guide you through the charming city of Galway, where cobblestone streets and lively pubs create the perfect backdrop for a romantic getaway before the arrival of your little one.

Our adventure then takes us to the majestic Ashford Castle, a fairy-tale fortress surrounded by lush landscapes. Immerse yourself in the rich history of this iconic landmark and discover the regal allure that makes it a dreamy destination for Babymooners.

As we venture into the heart of Dublin, experience the vibrant energy of the capital city. Explore historic sites, embrace the lively culture, and delve into the essence of Ireland. We'll also discuss the significance of connecting to your Irish roots, exploring ancestral ties, and creating lasting memories with your growing family.

Throughout the podcast, we'll share heartwarming stories of spending quality time with family, creating precious moments that will be cherished for a lifetime. From exploring historic sites to savoring delicious Irish cuisine, our Babymoon in Ireland is a celebration of love, family, and the anticipation of a new chapter.

Tune in for an inspiring blend of travel, heritage, and the joy of savoring delectable Irish flavors, making this podcast episode a delightful companion for those dreaming of a Babymoon filled with love and adventure in the Emerald Isle.

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]]> Embark on a picturesque journey through Ireland with our latest podcast episode, where we explore the enchanting concept of a Babymoon in the Emerald Isle. Join us as we guide you through the charming city of Galway, where cobblestone streets and lively pubs create the perfect backdrop for a romantic getaway before the arrival of your little one.

Our adventure then takes us to the majestic Ashford Castle, a fairy-tale fortress surrounded by lush landscapes. Immerse yourself in the rich history of this iconic landmark and discover the regal allure that makes it a dreamy destination for Babymooners.

As we venture into the heart of Dublin, experience the vibrant energy of the capital city. Explore historic sites, embrace the lively culture, and delve into the essence of Ireland. We'll also discuss the significance of connecting to your Irish roots, exploring ancestral ties, and creating lasting memories with your growing family.

Throughout the podcast, we'll share heartwarming stories of spending quality time with family, creating precious moments that will be cherished for a lifetime. From exploring historic sites to savoring delicious Irish cuisine, our Babymoon in Ireland is a celebration of love, family, and the anticipation of a new chapter.

Tune in for an inspiring blend of travel, heritage, and the joy of savoring delectable Irish flavors, making this podcast episode a delightful companion for those dreaming of a Babymoon filled with love and adventure in the Emerald Isle.

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-14373541 Thu, 25 Jan 2024 00:00:00 -0600 2110 3 101 full true Our Birth Story Our Birth Story Everyone's birth story is dramatic, find out how we had a scheduled c-section two days early, our journey to the NICU, and the ups and downs of the first hours of parenthood! 

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]]> Buzzsprout-14331575 Thu, 18 Jan 2024 00:00:00 -0600 1879 3 100 full true Resolution Revolution: Embracing Change in the New Year Resolution Revolution: Embracing Change in the New Year In this podcast, we embark on a transformative journey into the heart of New Year's resolutions, exploring the intersections of mental health, family dynamics, business growth, and the art of setting boundaries. Whether you're aiming to strengthen your mental resilience, foster healthier family connections, fuel your professional ambitions, or establish mindful boundaries, this podcast is your compass for a balanced and purposeful new chapter. Tune in and empower yourself to create positive change across all facets of your life. Let's embrace the possibilities together and make this year a canvas for growth, connection, and fulfillment

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]]> In this podcast, we embark on a transformative journey into the heart of New Year's resolutions, exploring the intersections of mental health, family dynamics, business growth, and the art of setting boundaries. Whether you're aiming to strengthen your mental resilience, foster healthier family connections, fuel your professional ambitions, or establish mindful boundaries, this podcast is your compass for a balanced and purposeful new chapter. Tune in and empower yourself to create positive change across all facets of your life. Let's embrace the possibilities together and make this year a canvas for growth, connection, and fulfillment

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]]> Buzzsprout-14244830 Thu, 04 Jan 2024 00:00:00 -0600 1997 3 99 full true Windy City Wonders: Your Ultimate Chicago Winter Guide Windy City Wonders: Your Ultimate Chicago Winter Guide 🎙️ Welcome to "Windy City Wonders: Your Ultimate Chicago Winter Guide" podcast! 🌨️❄️

Get ready to discover the magic of Chicago's winter wonderland with hosts Amber and Danny Zakem as they navigate the city's coolest season. From family-friendly activities to romantic date night spots, we've got the inside scoop on making the most of the chilly months in the Windy City.

🍽️ Hungry for adventure? Join us as we dish out recommendations for the coziest restaurants serving up hearty winter fare. Whether you're craving comfort food or looking to explore the city's diverse culinary scene, we've got your taste buds covered.

🍻 Thirsty for some fun? Dive into our favorite bars and hotspots, where the drinks are warm and the vibes are cool. Discover hidden gems and iconic establishments perfect for a night out with friends or a cozy evening for two.

⛸️ Looking for activities to keep the whole family entertained? Our podcast guides you through kid-friendly winter wonders, from ice skating rinks to indoor adventures that make the season merry and bright for the little ones.

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Families, couples, and everyone in between – we've got something for everyone. Uncover the secrets to a perfect winter day in Chicago, creating memories that will last a lifetime.

Tune in to "Windy City Wonders" and let us be your audio guide through the enchanting winter landscape of Chicago. Subscribe now for the inside scoop on the best winter experiences the city has to offer! 🎧🌆 #WindyCityWonders #ChicagoWinterGuide #ExploreChicago #WinterFun

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]]> 🎙️ Welcome to "Windy City Wonders: Your Ultimate Chicago Winter Guide" podcast! 🌨️❄️

Get ready to discover the magic of Chicago's winter wonderland with hosts Amber and Danny Zakem as they navigate the city's coolest season. From family-friendly activities to romantic date night spots, we've got the inside scoop on making the most of the chilly months in the Windy City.

🍽️ Hungry for adventure? Join us as we dish out recommendations for the coziest restaurants serving up hearty winter fare. Whether you're craving comfort food or looking to explore the city's diverse culinary scene, we've got your taste buds covered.

🍻 Thirsty for some fun? Dive into our favorite bars and hotspots, where the drinks are warm and the vibes are cool. Discover hidden gems and iconic establishments perfect for a night out with friends or a cozy evening for two.

⛸️ Looking for activities to keep the whole family entertained? Our podcast guides you through kid-friendly winter wonders, from ice skating rinks to indoor adventures that make the season merry and bright for the little ones.

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Families, couples, and everyone in between – we've got something for everyone. Uncover the secrets to a perfect winter day in Chicago, creating memories that will last a lifetime.

Tune in to "Windy City Wonders" and let us be your audio guide through the enchanting winter landscape of Chicago. Subscribe now for the inside scoop on the best winter experiences the city has to offer! 🎧🌆 #WindyCityWonders #ChicagoWinterGuide #ExploreChicago #WinterFun

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]]> Buzzsprout-14174213 Thu, 28 Dec 2023 00:00:00 -0600 1721 3 98 full true Gifts of Tradition: Embracing the Four-Gift Rule for a Meaningful Christmas Gifts of Tradition: Embracing the Four-Gift Rule for a Meaningful Christmas This holiday season, join us for a heartwarming episode that goes beyond the presents and unwraps the true magic of Christmas traditions. In "Gifts of Tradition," we explore the concept of the Four-Gift Rule, where the focus shifts from quantity to quality, making each gift a cherished memory.

🎁 Discover the Four-Gift Rule: Learn how this simple yet powerful idea – something they want, something they need, something to wear, and something to read – transforms the gift-giving experience into a thoughtful and intentional celebration of the season.

🕰️ Rediscover Timeless Traditions: Dive into the enchanting world of Christmas traditions that stand the test of time. From cozy evenings by the fireplace to baking cookies with loved ones, we explore the traditions that create lasting bonds and bring joy to the heart.

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Creating Memories Over Gifts: Hear heartwarming stories and experiences from families who have embraced the art of creating memories over accumulating material gifts. Explore how these traditions not only strengthen family ties but also instill the true spirit of the holiday season.

🎄 Tips for a Meaningful Christmas: Our hosts share practical tips on incorporating the Four-Gift Rule and weaving traditions into your holiday celebrations. Whether you're a seasoned tradition enthusiast or a newcomer, there's something for everyone in this festive episode.

Tune in to "Gifts of Tradition" and let the spirit of Christmas warmth and joy fill your ears. Subscribe now for a podcast episode that will inspire you to unwrap the true magic of the season! 🎧🎄 #GiftsOfTradition #ChristmasMemories #FourGiftRule #HolidayTraditions

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]]> This holiday season, join us for a heartwarming episode that goes beyond the presents and unwraps the true magic of Christmas traditions. In "Gifts of Tradition," we explore the concept of the Four-Gift Rule, where the focus shifts from quantity to quality, making each gift a cherished memory.

🎁 Discover the Four-Gift Rule: Learn how this simple yet powerful idea – something they want, something they need, something to wear, and something to read – transforms the gift-giving experience into a thoughtful and intentional celebration of the season.

🕰️ Rediscover Timeless Traditions: Dive into the enchanting world of Christmas traditions that stand the test of time. From cozy evenings by the fireplace to baking cookies with loved ones, we explore the traditions that create lasting bonds and bring joy to the heart.

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Creating Memories Over Gifts: Hear heartwarming stories and experiences from families who have embraced the art of creating memories over accumulating material gifts. Explore how these traditions not only strengthen family ties but also instill the true spirit of the holiday season.

🎄 Tips for a Meaningful Christmas: Our hosts share practical tips on incorporating the Four-Gift Rule and weaving traditions into your holiday celebrations. Whether you're a seasoned tradition enthusiast or a newcomer, there's something for everyone in this festive episode.

Tune in to "Gifts of Tradition" and let the spirit of Christmas warmth and joy fill your ears. Subscribe now for a podcast episode that will inspire you to unwrap the true magic of the season! 🎧🎄 #GiftsOfTradition #ChristmasMemories #FourGiftRule #HolidayTraditions

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]]> Buzzsprout-14174232 Thu, 21 Dec 2023 00:00:00 -0600 1422 3 97 full true Pregnancy Style Pregnancy Style We are chatting Amber's pregnancy style in this week's episode. The number one thing she loved about pregnancy was dressing her bump. Listen to us chat about what went into curating a pregnancy wardrobe. 

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]]> We are chatting Amber's pregnancy style in this week's episode. The number one thing she loved about pregnancy was dressing her bump. Listen to us chat about what went into curating a pregnancy wardrobe. 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-14110367 Thu, 14 Dec 2023 00:00:00 -0600 1846 3 96 full true Everything Amber Hated About Being Pregnant Everything Amber Hated About Being Pregnant Although pregnancy comes with a lot of positives, hello a sweet angel baby, but what no one talks about is all the hard shit. We are blowing big pregnancy wide open with these top things Amber hated about her pregnancy.

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]]> Although pregnancy comes with a lot of positives, hello a sweet angel baby, but what no one talks about is all the hard shit. We are blowing big pregnancy wide open with these top things Amber hated about her pregnancy.

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]]> Buzzsprout-14014524 Thu, 07 Dec 2023 00:00:00 -0600 1686 3 94 full true Thanksgiving 2023 Thanksgiving 2023 Amber's favorite holiday is here! We recap our Thanksgiving holiday and why we enjoy this time of year so much. Tune in for our schedule, menu, and what we are most thankful for this year! 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-14058010 Thu, 30 Nov 2023 00:00:00 -0600 1739 3 95 full true Damberversary Eight Damberversary Eight You're invited to our annual Anniversary -- Damberversary! We are chatting about the yearly party and how we rang in year 8! 

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]]> Buzzsprout-14013691 Thu, 23 Nov 2023 00:00:00 -0600 1218 3 93 full true Season Three Season Three We're back and better than ever! Listen as Amber and Danny Zakem recap the last year of their life and kick off season 3 of Relationship Goals? 

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]]> We're back and better than ever! Listen as Amber and Danny Zakem recap the last year of their life and kick off season 3 of Relationship Goals? 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-13972413 Thu, 16 Nov 2023 00:00:00 -0600 1702 3 92 full true Season 2 Finale Season 2 Finale We have made it through another year and are wrapping up season 2 with our highlights, takeaways, and what we are looking forward to in season 3. Thank you all again for another great season! 

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]]> We have made it through another year and are wrapping up season 2 with our highlights, takeaways, and what we are looking forward to in season 3. Thank you all again for another great season! 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-11394259 Thu, 29 Sep 2022 00:00:00 -0500 1781 2 91 full true Friends with Kids Part 2 Friends with Kids Part 2 After a nine month hiatus Amber and Danny Zakem are welcoming Derrick and Alexa Welton back to the podcast. Last time the Weltons were on they discussed their journey to becoming parents. In part 2, they are discussing the ups and downs of parenthood and what that looks like for their relationship. Strap in for an emotional and informative ride with a great set of guests! 

Alexa recommends @biglittlefeelings on Instagram 

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]]> After a nine month hiatus Amber and Danny Zakem are welcoming Derrick and Alexa Welton back to the podcast. Last time the Weltons were on they discussed their journey to becoming parents. In part 2, they are discussing the ups and downs of parenthood and what that looks like for their relationship. Strap in for an emotional and informative ride with a great set of guests! 

Alexa recommends @biglittlefeelings on Instagram 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-11296273 Thu, 15 Sep 2022 00:00:00 -0500 2970 2 90 full true 7th Wedding Anniversary 7th Wedding Anniversary This week Damber celebrates their 7th wedding anniversary! In this episode Danny and Amber Zakem discuss some of the highlights from the last 7 years of marriage and what they are looking forward to in year 8! 

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]]> This week Damber celebrates their 7th wedding anniversary! In this episode Danny and Amber Zakem discuss some of the highlights from the last 7 years of marriage and what they are looking forward to in year 8! 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-11263095 Thu, 08 Sep 2022 00:00:00 -0500 1911 2 89 full true What I've Learned From My Partner What I've Learned From My Partner In this week's episode Danny and Amber list all of the things their partner has taught them. Some silly, some serious, it makes a great way to connect with your partner in a new way! 

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]]> In this week's episode Danny and Amber list all of the things their partner has taught them. Some silly, some serious, it makes a great way to connect with your partner in a new way! 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-11228626 Thu, 01 Sep 2022 00:00:00 -0500 1661 2 88 full true 7 Questions to Strengthen Your Relationship 7 Questions to Strengthen Your Relationship There was an article written for the New York Times entitled, "7 questions to strengthen your relationship" Danny and Amber Zakem are taking on these questions to help better strengthen their relationship and see if they can get on or stay on the same page. Check out the article here: https://www.nytimes.com/2022/07/01/well/family/relationship-questions.html

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]]> There was an article written for the New York Times entitled, "7 questions to strengthen your relationship" Danny and Amber Zakem are taking on these questions to help better strengthen their relationship and see if they can get on or stay on the same page. Check out the article here: https://www.nytimes.com/2022/07/01/well/family/relationship-questions.html

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]]> Buzzsprout-11182963 Thu, 25 Aug 2022 00:00:00 -0500 1701 2 87 full true Amber's 32nd Birthday Amber's 32nd Birthday It's your favorite podcast hosts birthday! Amber turns 32 on August 18th and in this week's episode she details all her love for her birthday and Danny's memory fails majorly. Send her a bday wish! 

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]]> It's your favorite podcast hosts birthday! Amber turns 32 on August 18th and in this week's episode she details all her love for her birthday and Danny's memory fails majorly. Send her a bday wish! 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-11143077 Thu, 18 Aug 2022 00:00:00 -0500 1470 2 86 full true Inspiration Inspiration In this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem discuss what is inspiring them right now. Between their relationship, work, and their personal lives, it is great to reflect on the things that are contributing to your happiness and making you feel motivated. It is important to reflect on what is inspiring you to refocus and center yourself which will ultimately lead to achievement of goals! 

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]]> In this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem discuss what is inspiring them right now. Between their relationship, work, and their personal lives, it is great to reflect on the things that are contributing to your happiness and making you feel motivated. It is important to reflect on what is inspiring you to refocus and center yourself which will ultimately lead to achievement of goals! 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-11088494 Thu, 11 Aug 2022 00:00:00 -0500 1508 2 85 full true Back From Vacation Back From Vacation In this episode, Danny and Amber Zakem discuss their recent trip to Europe. They detail their time onboard Uniworld's S.S. Antoinette, and talk about relationship issues that arise while traveling -- especially with family. 

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]]> In this episode, Danny and Amber Zakem discuss their recent trip to Europe. They detail their time onboard Uniworld's S.S. Antoinette, and talk about relationship issues that arise while traveling -- especially with family. 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-11039889 Thu, 04 Aug 2022 00:00:00 -0500 1856 2 84 full true Night Before the Wedding Night Before the Wedding Back with another wedding episode! Amber and Danny Zakem discuss their dos and don'ts the night before your wedding. They discuss the things they did, what they would do all over again, and the things they would change. With a couple major PSAs. Tune in! 

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]]> Back with another wedding episode! Amber and Danny Zakem discuss their dos and don'ts the night before your wedding. They discuss the things they did, what they would do all over again, and the things they would change. With a couple major PSAs. Tune in! 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-10964812 Thu, 28 Jul 2022 00:00:00 -0500 1914 2 83 full true Marriage is not End Game Marriage is not End Game Amber and Danny discuss how marriage does not create the start of your life. Live now and if you find someone along the way that you mesh with, then great. Marriage is a lot of work and isn't riding off into the sunset at the end of a movie. 

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]]> Amber and Danny discuss how marriage does not create the start of your life. Live now and if you find someone along the way that you mesh with, then great. Marriage is a lot of work and isn't riding off into the sunset at the end of a movie. 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-10951975 Thu, 21 Jul 2022 00:00:00 -0500 1508 2 82 full true Amber's Style Amber's Style Find out where Amber shops, how she feels about her style, and how she puts outfits together. Hear from Danny and Amber about Amber's best "looks" and enjoy this fun episode that exactly 3 people asked for! 

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]]> Find out where Amber shops, how she feels about her style, and how she puts outfits together. Hear from Danny and Amber about Amber's best "looks" and enjoy this fun episode that exactly 3 people asked for! 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-10936216 Thu, 14 Jul 2022 00:00:00 -0500 2123 2 81 full true F*ck SCOTUS F*ck SCOTUS We were going to give you a nice little 4th of July episode where we detailed the flag cake that Amber makes every year, renting boats and enjoying the lake here in Chicago, and watching fireworks at our tennis club. But instead, the Supreme Court of the United States decided to take rights away from every woman in this country, so we changed things up. Listen is as we yell about how terrible the decision to overturn Roe V. Wade is for 20 minutes and get mad with us! 

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]]> We were going to give you a nice little 4th of July episode where we detailed the flag cake that Amber makes every year, renting boats and enjoying the lake here in Chicago, and watching fireworks at our tennis club. But instead, the Supreme Court of the United States decided to take rights away from every woman in this country, so we changed things up. Listen is as we yell about how terrible the decision to overturn Roe V. Wade is for 20 minutes and get mad with us! 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-10873347 Thu, 30 Jun 2022 00:00:00 -0500 1693 2 80 full true Staycation Staycation After a lot of highs and lows over the last few months, Amber and Danny Zakem took advantage of a free weekend and had a staycation. Check out what they have to say about what it did for their relationship and how you can make staying home or staying in your city a fun filled, recharging, weekend! 

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]]> After a lot of highs and lows over the last few months, Amber and Danny Zakem took advantage of a free weekend and had a staycation. Check out what they have to say about what it did for their relationship and how you can make staying home or staying in your city a fun filled, recharging, weekend! 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-10812305 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 00:00:00 -0500 1833 2 79 full true Le Dollar Beans Le Dollar Beans Happy Pride Month! We are welcoming Amber's sister, Tilli Evans and her girlfriend Della Ferguson to the podcast! Tilli and Della have been dating for just over a year and they are talking coming out, their love story, what Gen Z does differently when it comes to LGBTQ+ as well as what they think is Relationship Goals! 


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]]> Happy Pride Month! We are welcoming Amber's sister, Tilli Evans and her girlfriend Della Ferguson to the podcast! Tilli and Della have been dating for just over a year and they are talking coming out, their love story, what Gen Z does differently when it comes to LGBTQ+ as well as what they think is Relationship Goals! 


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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-10760990 Thu, 16 Jun 2022 00:00:00 -0500 1640 2 78 full true Relationships are Hard Relationships are Hard If you haven't been able to tell we have been going through a hard time lately. We finally discuss the ins and outs of where we have been mentally in our relationship and why relationships are so hard. Thank you to everyone for tuning in and helping us along our journey, that is this podcast. 

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]]> If you haven't been able to tell we have been going through a hard time lately. We finally discuss the ins and outs of where we have been mentally in our relationship and why relationships are so hard. Thank you to everyone for tuning in and helping us along our journey, that is this podcast. 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-10749093 Thu, 09 Jun 2022 00:00:00 -0500 1897 2 77 full true Getting a Pet with a Significant Other Getting a Pet with a Significant Other So you are in a relationship, and now you want to expand your family, but wait, not children!! --Pets!! Congratulations, there is nothing better than loving on a fur baby, but wait, have you thought about all that comes with getting a dog, cat, or other pet with your sig o?! Danny and Amber, in this week's episode, detail some of the things you should think about before diving in on the pet parent train! 

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]]> So you are in a relationship, and now you want to expand your family, but wait, not children!! --Pets!! Congratulations, there is nothing better than loving on a fur baby, but wait, have you thought about all that comes with getting a dog, cat, or other pet with your sig o?! Danny and Amber, in this week's episode, detail some of the things you should think about before diving in on the pet parent train! 

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]]> Buzzsprout-10713432 Thu, 02 Jun 2022 00:00:00 -0500 1884 2 76 full true Summer Should be Fun Summer Should be Fun The episodes have been a little heavy, as of late, so Damber is giving you some fun. Whether you live in Chicago, are in a relationship, need some Inspo for a Bumble date, or are going to be visiting the Windy City here are a ton of fun options for things to do this summer! 

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]]> The episodes have been a little heavy, as of late, so Damber is giving you some fun. Whether you live in Chicago, are in a relationship, need some Inspo for a Bumble date, or are going to be visiting the Windy City here are a ton of fun options for things to do this summer! 

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]]> Buzzsprout-10670243 Thu, 26 May 2022 00:00:00 -0500 1850 2 75 full true Life Rut Life Rut Danny Zakem takes on this week's episode solo. He gets very vulnerable about things he has been going through, and how relying on the people in your life is so essential to meet your goals. Sometimes we just need to talk through where our heads are at and Danny leads the charge. 

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]]> Danny Zakem takes on this week's episode solo. He gets very vulnerable about things he has been going through, and how relying on the people in your life is so essential to meet your goals. Sometimes we just need to talk through where our heads are at and Danny leads the charge. 

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]]> Buzzsprout-10593763 Thu, 12 May 2022 00:00:00 -0500 1039 2 74 full true Shifting Priorities Shifting Priorities Have you ever found yourself in a transition period in your life? Do you find that things that used to be your main source of fun, entertainment, or joy, are suddenly not giving you the same shine? In this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem discuss how they can feel their priorities shifting as they start the mental journey to starting a family. There are a lot of isolating feelings when you can feel your priorities shifting, whether it is in your job, with your family, or just to a new stage of life. Join the conversation today! 

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]]> Have you ever found yourself in a transition period in your life? Do you find that things that used to be your main source of fun, entertainment, or joy, are suddenly not giving you the same shine? In this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem discuss how they can feel their priorities shifting as they start the mental journey to starting a family. There are a lot of isolating feelings when you can feel your priorities shifting, whether it is in your job, with your family, or just to a new stage of life. Join the conversation today! 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-10546870 Thu, 05 May 2022 00:00:00 -0500 2236 2 73 full true Inspiration Inspiration You're the meaning in my life, you're the inspiration. In this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem discuss the real life couples, peoples, places, and tv characters who have played a part in the people they are and relationship that they have. 

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]]> You're the meaning in my life, you're the inspiration. In this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem discuss the real life couples, peoples, places, and tv characters who have played a part in the people they are and relationship that they have. 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-10503243 Thu, 28 Apr 2022 00:00:00 -0500 1716 2 72 full true Breakups Breakups You are getting a solo Amberol Spritz episode this week. As Danny has never truly experienced a real breakup, Amber is here to reflect on what the major breakups in her life have had her reflecting on. If you have ever gone through a breakup in the past or are going through one right now, know that it changes you in ways that you can't even imagine, but it also opens the door for so much more of life. Breakups suck, grab a cocktail and enjoy this week's episode! 

*correction* in the podcast I say that I dated someone from 2016-2021, I meant 2006-2011 hahah just 10 years off! 

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]]> You are getting a solo Amberol Spritz episode this week. As Danny has never truly experienced a real breakup, Amber is here to reflect on what the major breakups in her life have had her reflecting on. If you have ever gone through a breakup in the past or are going through one right now, know that it changes you in ways that you can't even imagine, but it also opens the door for so much more of life. Breakups suck, grab a cocktail and enjoy this week's episode! 

*correction* in the podcast I say that I dated someone from 2016-2021, I meant 2006-2011 hahah just 10 years off! 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-10465733 Thu, 21 Apr 2022 00:00:00 -0500 1824 2 71 full true Best Days Best Days When you think back on your life, what are the best days that come to mind? In this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem discuss how sometimes it's not the days that are the biggest milestones, but often the quiet unassuming ones that tend to have the most impact. Listen while they unpack the best moments from the last 31+ years. 

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]]> When you think back on your life, what are the best days that come to mind? In this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem discuss how sometimes it's not the days that are the biggest milestones, but often the quiet unassuming ones that tend to have the most impact. Listen while they unpack the best moments from the last 31+ years. 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-10421244 Thu, 14 Apr 2022 00:00:00 -0500 2628 2 70 full true Post Pandemic Relationship Realizations Post Pandemic Relationship Realizations The pandemic shone a light on a lot of the negative traits that our relationship, or person lives, and our work lives had instilled in us since we were born. In this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem discuss how the pandemic changed the way they communicate, how they look at social issues, and the importance of mental health. 

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]]> The pandemic shone a light on a lot of the negative traits that our relationship, or person lives, and our work lives had instilled in us since we were born. In this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem discuss how the pandemic changed the way they communicate, how they look at social issues, and the importance of mental health. 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-10378931 Thu, 07 Apr 2022 00:00:00 -0500 1890 2 69 full true Attachment Styles Attachment Styles In this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem are exploring their attachment styles and how they affect their relationship. The four attachment styles are: anxious, avoidant, disorganized, and secure. You can visit attachmentproject.com to take the quiz and learn more about your own attachment style or read about the other 3. 


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]]> In this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem are exploring their attachment styles and how they affect their relationship. The four attachment styles are: anxious, avoidant, disorganized, and secure. You can visit attachmentproject.com to take the quiz and learn more about your own attachment style or read about the other 3. 


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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-10335881 Wed, 30 Mar 2022 00:00:00 -0500 1785 2 68 full true Same Book, Different Page Same Book, Different Page Relationship Goals? is back after a few weeks hiatus. Kicking off this week's episode with a common fight Amber and Danny Zakem are having. If you can relate not being on the same page as your partner, you will resonate with this episode. Working through this common fight on the podcast helps these two sort out their issues and realize that being on the same page is the goal, but knowing they are in the same book helps them come together. 

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]]> Relationship Goals? is back after a few weeks hiatus. Kicking off this week's episode with a common fight Amber and Danny Zakem are having. If you can relate not being on the same page as your partner, you will resonate with this episode. Working through this common fight on the podcast helps these two sort out their issues and realize that being on the same page is the goal, but knowing they are in the same book helps them come together. 

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]]> Buzzsprout-10312151 Thu, 24 Mar 2022 13:00:00 -0500 1757 2 67 full true Changing Vs. Growing Changing Vs. Growing People never change, but they can grow. Amber and Danny Zakem take a look at how dangerous wanting to change a partner can be, and how it more often than not doesn't result in said change. On the flip side, they talk how growing as individuals and in your relationship is necessary to become Relationship Goals? 

Sources: 

https://possibilitychange.com/the-difference-between-change-and-growth-and-knowing-which-you-need/

https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/why-you-shouldnt-try-to-change-your-partner/ 

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]]> People never change, but they can grow. Amber and Danny Zakem take a look at how dangerous wanting to change a partner can be, and how it more often than not doesn't result in said change. On the flip side, they talk how growing as individuals and in your relationship is necessary to become Relationship Goals? 

Sources: 

https://possibilitychange.com/the-difference-between-change-and-growth-and-knowing-which-you-need/

https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/why-you-shouldnt-try-to-change-your-partner/ 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-10163274 Thu, 03 Mar 2022 00:00:00 -0600 1758 2 66 full true Friendship Goals? Friendship Goals? In this week's episode Danny and Amber detail why friendship is so important as both an indicator and as part of romantic relationships. Listen as they describe how their friendships have played key roles in their lives and in the relationship of damber. 

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]]> Buzzsprout-10118630 Thu, 24 Feb 2022 00:00:00 -0600 2079 2 65 full true Valentine's Day Valentine's Day Happy Valentine's Day everyone. We hope you have a love filled day. Enjoy an episode filled with a "how well do we know each other" quiz questions and some historical Valentine's Day fun facts. We love you all!! 

sources: 
quiz questions: https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a32160810/couples-quiz-questions/

fun facts: https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/holidays/valentines-day-ideas/a26863/valentines-day-facts/

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]]> Happy Valentine's Day everyone. We hope you have a love filled day. Enjoy an episode filled with a "how well do we know each other" quiz questions and some historical Valentine's Day fun facts. We love you all!! 

sources: 
quiz questions: https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a32160810/couples-quiz-questions/

fun facts: https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/holidays/valentines-day-ideas/a26863/valentines-day-facts/

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]]> Buzzsprout-10031825 Thu, 10 Feb 2022 00:00:00 -0600 1907 2 64 full true Chicago Date Guide Chicago Date Guide We LOVE Chicago and we are bestowing you some ideas for the perfect date, or day with friends. Whether you like something low-key, fancy, or active, Danny and Amber Zakem are giving you their favorite neighborhoods, bars, restaurants, and activities to do throughout the Windy City! 

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]]> We LOVE Chicago and we are bestowing you some ideas for the perfect date, or day with friends. Whether you like something low-key, fancy, or active, Danny and Amber Zakem are giving you their favorite neighborhoods, bars, restaurants, and activities to do throughout the Windy City! 

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]]> Buzzsprout-9989234 Thu, 03 Feb 2022 00:00:00 -0600 1798 2 63 full true Relationships + Body Image Relationships + Body Image Body image is such a personal journey, and how it relates to dating and relationships is something that everyone experiences. Listen as Amber and Danny Zakem discuss their individual journeys with their own body image and how it affected their relationships in both past and present. 

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]]> Buzzsprout-9950008 Thu, 27 Jan 2022 00:00:00 -0600 1944 2 62 full true Work | Life | Relationship Balance Work | Life | Relationship Balance As we get older our priorities shift. One major thing many of us learned during the pandemic is what is truly important to us. On this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem discuss how they manage work, life, and relationship balance, what they could do better and how they see this shifting in the future. 

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]]> As we get older our priorities shift. One major thing many of us learned during the pandemic is what is truly important to us. On this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem discuss how they manage work, life, and relationship balance, what they could do better and how they see this shifting in the future. 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-9908128 Thu, 20 Jan 2022 00:00:00 -0600 1691 2 61 full true Relationship Health Check Relationship Health Check I big part of growing in yourself and in your relationship is reflection. Taking the time to understand how you are contributing in a negative and positive way to your relationships will help you find balance in your life. Find out what Danny and Amber are working on in 2022. 

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]]> I big part of growing in yourself and in your relationship is reflection. Taking the time to understand how you are contributing in a negative and positive way to your relationships will help you find balance in your life. Find out what Danny and Amber are working on in 2022. 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-9868708 Thu, 13 Jan 2022 00:00:00 -0600 1900 2 60 full true Friends with Kids part 1 Friends with Kids part 1 We welcome our first guests of season 2 -- Derrick and Alexa Welton! These two have been friends of ours since college, and have since welcomed two beautiful children. Derrick and Alexa are some of our first friends to have kids and are detailing their struggles with IVF and how that impacted their relationship. 

Stay tuned for the next episode where we explore parenting roles, how their relationship has changed, and what they find to be relationship goals! 

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]]> We welcome our first guests of season 2 -- Derrick and Alexa Welton! These two have been friends of ours since college, and have since welcomed two beautiful children. Derrick and Alexa are some of our first friends to have kids and are detailing their struggles with IVF and how that impacted their relationship. 

Stay tuned for the next episode where we explore parenting roles, how their relationship has changed, and what they find to be relationship goals! 

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]]> Buzzsprout-9827588 Thu, 06 Jan 2022 00:00:00 -0600 3702 2 59 full true New Year's Aspirations New Year's Aspirations Take some time this week to write out all of the great things that you have achieved this year. All the small things you've add up to a really great year! In this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem talk about all the things they felt like they achieved this year and look forward to 2022! 

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]]> Take some time this week to write out all of the great things that you have achieved this year. All the small things you've add up to a really great year! In this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem talk about all the things they felt like they achieved this year and look forward to 2022! 

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]]> Buzzsprout-9791588 Tue, 28 Dec 2021 00:00:00 -0600 2671 2 58 full true Holiday traditions Holiday traditions We're having a holly jolly Christmas over at the Zakem house. Hear how we celebrate the holidays. *We apologize for the audio, we are trying to figure somethings out, we're so sorry!*

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-9758272 Thu, 23 Dec 2021 00:00:00 -0600 1914 2 57 full true Relationships + Homeownership Relationships + Homeownership Thinking about entering escrow together? Listen as Amber and Danny Zakem discuss the ups and downs as well as their tips and tricks on buying a house with a significant other. 

Mark Kowalik: @Markkowalik on IG

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Mark Kowalik: @Markkowalik on IG

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]]> Buzzsprout-9715696 Thu, 16 Dec 2021 00:00:00 -0600 2049 2 56 full true Relationships + Technology Relationships + Technology Technology plays a huge role in our lives, and thus a large role in our relationships. Whether you are in a new relationship, something long-term, or are in platonic relationships there are good and bad ways technology can contribute to your relationships. 

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]]> Buzzsprout-9675389 Thu, 09 Dec 2021 00:00:00 -0600 1722 2 55 full true Happy Thanksgiving 2021 Happy Thanksgiving 2021 In today's episode Danny and Amber Zakem detail all they are thankful for in 2021. They challenge all of the listeners to think about all the good things that happened to you this year and reflect on what you are thankful for this year! 

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]]> In today's episode Danny and Amber Zakem detail all they are thankful for in 2021. They challenge all of the listeners to think about all the good things that happened to you this year and reflect on what you are thankful for this year! 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-9596923 Thu, 25 Nov 2021 00:00:00 -0600 2490 2 54 full true Balancing Your Sig O's Goals Balancing Your Sig O's Goals Welcome to episode 3 of season 2! We are loving season 2 so far and we hope you are too! In this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem discuss how they, as a couple, have balanced each other's life and career goals! This is something that anyone in a relationship can probably provide advice on, but is it something we think about before getting into a relationship? See what Damber thinks! 

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]]> Welcome to episode 3 of season 2! We are loving season 2 so far and we hope you are too! In this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem discuss how they, as a couple, have balanced each other's life and career goals! This is something that anyone in a relationship can probably provide advice on, but is it something we think about before getting into a relationship? See what Damber thinks! 

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]]> Buzzsprout-9554936 Thu, 18 Nov 2021 00:00:00 -0600 1925 2 53 full true Learning how to Fight Learning how to Fight Learning how to fight is a major component to a successful relationship. Whether that is romantic or otherwise. In this week's episode Amber and Danny detail the tools they have found that work over the years and dive into to some great articles sharing their findings with everyone! 


Sources: 

https://time.com/5402188/how-to-fight-healthy-partner/

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/8-things-successful-couples-do-differently-during-arguments_n_569fd4f0e4b0875553c2a5e0

https://www.oprahdaily.com/life/relationships-love/a28124713/relationship-fights/


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]]> Learning how to fight is a major component to a successful relationship. Whether that is romantic or otherwise. In this week's episode Amber and Danny detail the tools they have found that work over the years and dive into to some great articles sharing their findings with everyone! 


Sources: 

https://time.com/5402188/how-to-fight-healthy-partner/

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/8-things-successful-couples-do-differently-during-arguments_n_569fd4f0e4b0875553c2a5e0

https://www.oprahdaily.com/life/relationships-love/a28124713/relationship-fights/


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]]> Buzzsprout-9515483 Thu, 11 Nov 2021 00:00:00 -0600 1879 2 52 full true Keeping it Spicy Keeping it Spicy SEASON 2 BITCHES!!! We are officially back and better than ever (except we had a microphone malfunction so Danny sounds far far away). In this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem discuss how they keep it spicy after a decade together. Want to turn up the heat this week? Check out the first episode of season 2! 

sources: 

https://nypost.com/2015/02/09/just-how-much-sex-are-people-having-on-vacation/

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]]> SEASON 2 BITCHES!!! We are officially back and better than ever (except we had a microphone malfunction so Danny sounds far far away). In this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem discuss how they keep it spicy after a decade together. Want to turn up the heat this week? Check out the first episode of season 2! 

sources: 

https://nypost.com/2015/02/09/just-how-much-sex-are-people-having-on-vacation/

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]]> Buzzsprout-9473277 Thu, 04 Nov 2021 00:00:00 -0500 1626 2 51 full true Season 1 Finale Season 1 Finale In the final episode of season 1 Amber and Danny Zakem reflect on and wrap up season 1 of Relationship Goals? This has been an incredible ride and we can't wait to come back better than ever in Season 2! 

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]]> Buzzsprout-9270944 Thu, 30 Sep 2021 00:00:00 -0500 1941 1 50 full true Normalize Having Needs Met Outside the Relationship Normalize Having Needs Met Outside the Relationship Having our emotional needs met is essential to mental health, however you can't get all of your emotional needs met by just one person -- your significant other. It's time to normalize getting some of your needs met outside of your relationship and understanding what relationships in your life tend to your needs to build a better relationship with yourself and your sig o. 

Sources: 

verywellmind.com

https://www.healthline.com/health/emotional-needs

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]]> Having our emotional needs met is essential to mental health, however you can't get all of your emotional needs met by just one person -- your significant other. It's time to normalize getting some of your needs met outside of your relationship and understanding what relationships in your life tend to your needs to build a better relationship with yourself and your sig o. 

Sources: 

verywellmind.com

https://www.healthline.com/health/emotional-needs

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]]> Buzzsprout-9231434 Thu, 23 Sep 2021 00:00:00 -0500 2308 1 49 full true Getting Married Young Getting Married Young Danny and Amber Zakem discuss the pros and cons of getting married young. They started dating at 22, engaged at 24, and married at 25. There are plenty of reasons why getting married at 25 is a bad idea, but there are also some great reasons. It might not be right, or even possible, for you, but it seems to be working for Damber! 



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https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/ 

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]]> Danny and Amber Zakem discuss the pros and cons of getting married young. They started dating at 22, engaged at 24, and married at 25. There are plenty of reasons why getting married at 25 is a bad idea, but there are also some great reasons. It might not be right, or even possible, for you, but it seems to be working for Damber! 



sources:

https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/ 

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]]> Buzzsprout-9190350 Thu, 16 Sep 2021 00:00:00 -0500 2037 1 48 full true Relationship Imposter Syndrome Relationship Imposter Syndrome Do you ever feel like a fraud in your relationship, job, or anything else you are successful at? That's a common feeling known as imposter syndrome. Although Danny and Amber are fairly transparent on this podcast, sometimes they don't let you guys all the way into their relationship. Today is a hard day, and we are discussing feeling like a fraud in our relationship sometimes. But they are here to tell you that you can have bad days and still be very successful at anything you do! 

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]]> Do you ever feel like a fraud in your relationship, job, or anything else you are successful at? That's a common feeling known as imposter syndrome. Although Danny and Amber are fairly transparent on this podcast, sometimes they don't let you guys all the way into their relationship. Today is a hard day, and we are discussing feeling like a fraud in our relationship sometimes. But they are here to tell you that you can have bad days and still be very successful at anything you do! 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-9154033 Thu, 09 Sep 2021 00:00:00 -0500 2275 1 47 full false To Prenup or not to Prenup To Prenup or not to Prenup In this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem make the case for all couples creating and signing prenups before entering in marriage. Listen as they detail why a prenup is romantic, sexy, and about a marriage not about divorce. 


Sources: 

https://hekmatfamilylaw.com/prenups/5-prenup-truths/

https://www.moneyunder30.com/should-you-get-a-prenup

https://helmersomerslaw.com/can-a-prenuptial-or-postnuptial-agreement-be-modified-or-revoked/

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]]> In this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem make the case for all couples creating and signing prenups before entering in marriage. Listen as they detail why a prenup is romantic, sexy, and about a marriage not about divorce. 


Sources: 

https://hekmatfamilylaw.com/prenups/5-prenup-truths/

https://www.moneyunder30.com/should-you-get-a-prenup

https://helmersomerslaw.com/can-a-prenuptial-or-postnuptial-agreement-be-modified-or-revoked/

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]]> Buzzsprout-9110739 Thu, 02 Sep 2021 06:00:00 -0500 1838 1 46 full true Gift Giving Gift Giving Do you love or loath receiving gifts? In today's episode Amber and Danny Zakem discuss how they handle giving gifts as a couple, what they do with their families, and gift giving with friends. Whether you are a giver or receiver this episode is for you! 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-9082283 Thu, 26 Aug 2021 00:00:00 -0500 1537 1 45 full true Dealing with your Partner's Family Dealing with your Partner's Family Love or loathe your in-laws, they are going to be around for life! Whether you are in a long term relationship, married, newly dating, or ready to find a relationship, your partner's family will pay a roll in your life. Danny and Amber Zakem discuss the ins and outs of what has worked for them over the years and give their best advice on the topic. 

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]]> Buzzsprout-9040908 Thu, 19 Aug 2021 06:00:00 -0500 1737 1 44 full true Getting to Know your Host: Danny Zakem Getting to Know your Host: Danny Zakem Welcome to the Getting to know your Host episode, this time with Danny Zakem! Laugh, cry, and enjoy the unique experience of learning more about your favorite male co-host. Danny gives us an in-depth look into his life, and an outpouring of love to his co-host Amber Zakem. Tune in for a fun filled episode that will leave you wanting more. 


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Gmail: relationshipgoalsqmpod@gmail.com 

Patreon: patreon.com/relationshipgoalsqm


















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]]> Welcome to the Getting to know your Host episode, this time with Danny Zakem! Laugh, cry, and enjoy the unique experience of learning more about your favorite male co-host. Danny gives us an in-depth look into his life, and an outpouring of love to his co-host Amber Zakem. Tune in for a fun filled episode that will leave you wanting more. 


Donate to: 

PAWs Chicago: https://www.pawschicago.org/how-to-help/donate

Planned Parenthood: https://www.plannedparenthood.org/get-involved/other-ways-give


Facebook page: Relationship Goals? Podcast 

Instagram page: @relationshipgoalsqm 

Gmail: relationshipgoalsqmpod@gmail.com 

Patreon: patreon.com/relationshipgoalsqm


















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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-9019993 Thu, 12 Aug 2021 12:00:00 -0500 1311 1 43 full true Check In With Yourself Check In With Yourself One key component to any/every relationship is communication. But before you can communicate effectively with your partner, you need to check in with yourself. In this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem check in with themselves, they talk about the struggles they have and how they affect their relationship. Are you checking in with number one? 

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]]> One key component to any/every relationship is communication. But before you can communicate effectively with your partner, you need to check in with yourself. In this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem check in with themselves, they talk about the struggles they have and how they affect their relationship. Are you checking in with number one? 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-8965028 Thu, 05 Aug 2021 00:00:00 -0500 2123 1 42 full true Cheating Cheating If your significant other cheated on you would you immediately break up? Danny and Amber Zakem explore the multi-faceted world of what it means to be cheated on and how they believe they would respond.

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-8927336 Thu, 29 Jul 2021 00:00:00 -0500 2134 1 41 full true Bachelor/Bachelorette Parties Bachelor/Bachelorette Parties So you're engaged, congratulations! Now it's time to start planning your bachelor/bachelorette parties. Today Amber and Danny talk about why communication and setting expectations is the number one way to have a great day/weekend/week. See what they think about combo bachelor/bachelorette parties and hear about what they did for their own parties! 

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]]> Buzzsprout-8890431 Thu, 22 Jul 2021 06:00:00 -0500 1694 1 40 full true Getting to Know your Host: Amber Zakem Getting to Know your Host: Amber Zakem A fun twist on the traditional Relationship Goals? episodes this week, will be a deep dive with your favorite hostess -- Amber Zakem. Learn a little bit more about Amber, allow her to answer some random questions about herself, and fall even more in love with her.

They say you can't be someone's other half until you are a whole on your own.
xoxo Amberol Spritz

Questions:
https://www.quizbreaker.com/get-to-know-you-questions

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]]> A fun twist on the traditional Relationship Goals? episodes this week, will be a deep dive with your favorite hostess -- Amber Zakem. Learn a little bit more about Amber, allow her to answer some random questions about herself, and fall even more in love with her.

They say you can't be someone's other half until you are a whole on your own.
xoxo Amberol Spritz

Questions:
https://www.quizbreaker.com/get-to-know-you-questions

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-8854087 Thu, 15 Jul 2021 00:00:00 -0500 1955 1 39 full true Setbacks in Relationships Setbacks in Relationships Expect the unexpected! When life hands you lemons, add vodka! In this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem are talking about derailments in relationships. The setbacks in life can't be avoided, so Damber discusses how to handle that as a couple, ways to change your mindset, and how to enjoy relationship journeys in whatever way they happen. 


Quote: 

“Mouthful of Diamonds.” One Tree Hill, contributor role by Austin Nichols, season 8, episode 8, Warner Bros. Studio, 2010.

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]]> Expect the unexpected! When life hands you lemons, add vodka! In this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem are talking about derailments in relationships. The setbacks in life can't be avoided, so Damber discusses how to handle that as a couple, ways to change your mindset, and how to enjoy relationship journeys in whatever way they happen. 


Quote: 

“Mouthful of Diamonds.” One Tree Hill, contributor role by Austin Nichols, season 8, episode 8, Warner Bros. Studio, 2010.

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-8817842 Thu, 08 Jul 2021 00:00:00 -0500 1915 1 38 full true Relationships + Travel Relationships + Travel Welcome Back!! This week's episode is talking all things travel. Danny and Amber are chatting about how different travel experiences have helped their relationship and how other experiences can bring out the worst in you and/or your partner. They discuss traveling together vs. traveling without  significant others and how both can strengthen your relationship. 

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]]> Welcome Back!! This week's episode is talking all things travel. Danny and Amber are chatting about how different travel experiences have helped their relationship and how other experiences can bring out the worst in you and/or your partner. They discuss traveling together vs. traveling without  significant others and how both can strengthen your relationship. 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-8779578 Wed, 30 Jun 2021 00:00:00 -0500 1939 1 37 full true Making your Partner Feel Loved Making your Partner Feel Loved Danny and Amber are in their feels after a family wedding and want to express how important it is to tell your partner when and how they make you feel loved. Often times we focus on the reality that is spending your life with someone and forget the true reason for relationships and that is simply love. Get inspired to tell your partner or someone special in your life, how they make you feel loved and why that is important! 

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]]> Danny and Amber are in their feels after a family wedding and want to express how important it is to tell your partner when and how they make you feel loved. Often times we focus on the reality that is spending your life with someone and forget the true reason for relationships and that is simply love. Get inspired to tell your partner or someone special in your life, how they make you feel loved and why that is important! 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-8620837 Thu, 03 Jun 2021 00:00:00 -0500 1201 1 36 full true Do the Clothes Make the Man? Do the Clothes Make the Man? Don't think clothes have anything to do with relationships? Think again! In this week's episode Amber and Danny discuss what our clothes tells the world about us, and what it tells our partners about ourselves as well. Plus, if you've ever had an argument over clothes with a significant other you'll understand the struggle. Tune in for Danny's revelation! 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-8582337 Thu, 27 May 2021 00:00:00 -0500 1410 1 35 full true Wedding Trends Part 3 Wedding Trends Part 3 Back again again by popular demand is Wedding Trends part 3! In this episode Amber and Danny Zakem  tackle the trends that COVID has blessed all the current weddings with. Micro weddings, virtual events, to-go cocktails. Find out what we are loving and hating about these trends and more!

Articles Consulted:

https://www.theknot.com/content/new-wedding-trends


https://www.brides.com/wedding-trends-to-expect-in-2021-5094228

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]]> Back again again by popular demand is Wedding Trends part 3! In this episode Amber and Danny Zakem  tackle the trends that COVID has blessed all the current weddings with. Micro weddings, virtual events, to-go cocktails. Find out what we are loving and hating about these trends and more!

Articles Consulted:

https://www.theknot.com/content/new-wedding-trends


https://www.brides.com/wedding-trends-to-expect-in-2021-5094228

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-8538896 Thu, 20 May 2021 00:00:00 -0500 2507 1 34 full true Date Night Blunder Date Night Blunder Danny invites Amber to a date night and doesn't show up. A fight ensues, Amber leaves, what went wrong? Let Amber and Danny Zakem detail their most recent fight for you and work their way through it on this week's episode of Relationship Goals? 

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]]> Danny invites Amber to a date night and doesn't show up. A fight ensues, Amber leaves, what went wrong? Let Amber and Danny Zakem detail their most recent fight for you and work their way through it on this week's episode of Relationship Goals? 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-8495767 Thu, 13 May 2021 00:00:00 -0500 1995 1 33 full true The Evolution of Sex The Evolution of Sex Let's talk about sex baby! In this week's episode Danny and Amber discuss how sex has changed for them as individuals and as a couple since they both began having sex. Through telling the story of losing their virginities to how sex is after 9 years together, they get into the nitty gritty of how your mindset, goals, and comfortability change over time. 

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]]> Let's talk about sex baby! In this week's episode Danny and Amber discuss how sex has changed for them as individuals and as a couple since they both began having sex. Through telling the story of losing their virginities to how sex is after 9 years together, they get into the nitty gritty of how your mindset, goals, and comfortability change over time. 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-8454667 Thu, 06 May 2021 00:00:00 -0500 2082 1 32 full true Communication in Relationships Communication in Relationships Let's Talk! In episode 31 Amber and Danny discuss communication within relationships. Why it's so important, knowing how you best communicate, and learning what our partner needs in terms of communication. Tune in to hear their hot take on chatting. 



Resources:

https://www.tonyrobbins.com/ultimate-relationship-guide/key-communication-relationships/

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]]> Let's Talk! In episode 31 Amber and Danny discuss communication within relationships. Why it's so important, knowing how you best communicate, and learning what our partner needs in terms of communication. Tune in to hear their hot take on chatting. 



Resources:

https://www.tonyrobbins.com/ultimate-relationship-guide/key-communication-relationships/

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-8411093 Thu, 29 Apr 2021 00:00:00 -0500 2226 1 31 full true Red Flags Red Flags Episode 30! Tonight we are talking about red flags in relationships. The good, the bad, the hilarious. What are your red flags? Amber and Danny dive into red flags that they have, ones that they embody, and ones that are complete deal breakers. 

Sources: 

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-flux/201407/10-relationship-red-flags

https://www.boredpanda.com/people-share-red-flags-relationships/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=organic

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]]> Episode 30! Tonight we are talking about red flags in relationships. The good, the bad, the hilarious. What are your red flags? Amber and Danny dive into red flags that they have, ones that they embody, and ones that are complete deal breakers. 

Sources: 

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-flux/201407/10-relationship-red-flags

https://www.boredpanda.com/people-share-red-flags-relationships/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=organic

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]]> Buzzsprout-8367188 Thu, 22 Apr 2021 06:00:00 -0500 2357 1 30 full true Relationships + Finances Relationships + Finances It may be taboo to talk about money, but it could save your relationship. In this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem discuss the ins and outs of the hot button topics surrounding money and making a lifelong commitment. 

Sources: 

marketwatch.com
Investopedia.com “Top 6 Marriage Killing Money Issues”
thebalance.com “3 Ways to Handle Your Finances when you get married”

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]]> It may be taboo to talk about money, but it could save your relationship. In this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem discuss the ins and outs of the hot button topics surrounding money and making a lifelong commitment. 

Sources: 

marketwatch.com
Investopedia.com “Top 6 Marriage Killing Money Issues”
thebalance.com “3 Ways to Handle Your Finances when you get married”

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-8323568 Thu, 15 Apr 2021 00:00:00 -0500 1868 1 29 full true Dating Your Spouse Dating Your Spouse Welcome to Episode 28! Sit down and join Amber and Danny for date night! Tonight we are talking the benefits of dating your spouse/significant other! Danny and Amber detail the types of things they do to date one another, and describe their perfect dates. 

Drinks: Smooj

https://drinksmooj.com 

Resources: 

Pew Research 

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]]> Welcome to Episode 28! Sit down and join Amber and Danny for date night! Tonight we are talking the benefits of dating your spouse/significant other! Danny and Amber detail the types of things they do to date one another, and describe their perfect dates. 

Drinks: Smooj

https://drinksmooj.com 

Resources: 

Pew Research 

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]]> Buzzsprout-8278359 Thu, 08 Apr 2021 00:00:00 -0500 1836 1 28 full true Pre-Baby Pre-Nup Pre-Baby Pre-Nup In Episode 27 Amber and Danny Zakem discuss what they are dubbing as a "Pre-Baby Pre-Nup". This is a sort of before kids agreement on decisions that would need to be made about the kids in the event of a divorce. Find out how Amber and Danny are ordering their pre-baby pre-nup and why they think this is a genius invention! 


Resources:

https://www.expertise.com/divorce-attorney/divorce-and-child-custody-everything-you-need-to-know

Wikepidia.com 

My own life 

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]]> In Episode 27 Amber and Danny Zakem discuss what they are dubbing as a "Pre-Baby Pre-Nup". This is a sort of before kids agreement on decisions that would need to be made about the kids in the event of a divorce. Find out how Amber and Danny are ordering their pre-baby pre-nup and why they think this is a genius invention! 


Resources:

https://www.expertise.com/divorce-attorney/divorce-and-child-custody-everything-you-need-to-know

Wikepidia.com 

My own life 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-8242064 Wed, 31 Mar 2021 00:00:00 -0500 2766 1 27 full true Compatibility Compatibility We're back (like we never left) talking about compatibility this week. We use the online site Gottman.com and their quiz, "How well do you know your Partner".  We take the compatibility test, after almost 9 years together, see how well we do! 

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]]> We're back (like we never left) talking about compatibility this week. We use the online site Gottman.com and their quiz, "How well do you know your Partner".  We take the compatibility test, after almost 9 years together, see how well we do! 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-8195154 Thu, 25 Mar 2021 00:00:00 -0500 1564 1 26 full true Our Love Story Our Love Story Amber and Danny Zakem discuss how they met, their first kiss, what they remember about the early years of dating, engagement, and getting/being married. Reminisce along with them in this week's episode. 

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]]> Amber and Danny Zakem discuss how they met, their first kiss, what they remember about the early years of dating, engagement, and getting/being married. Reminisce along with them in this week's episode. 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-8055620 Thu, 04 Mar 2021 00:00:00 -0600 1668 1 25 full true Long Distance Relationships Part 2 Long Distance Relationships Part 2 In part 2 of Long Distance Relationships we continue discussing the highs and lows of living separately from your partner for extended periods of time. Our resident experts, Libby and Saville divulge their inside experiences of long distance dating for the majority of 11 years. 

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]]> In part 2 of Long Distance Relationships we continue discussing the highs and lows of living separately from your partner for extended periods of time. Our resident experts, Libby and Saville divulge their inside experiences of long distance dating for the majority of 11 years. 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-8008509 Thu, 25 Feb 2021 00:00:00 -0600 2113 1 24 full false Long Distance Relationships Part 1 Long Distance Relationships Part 1 Amber and Danny dive in with their second set of guests to discuss long distance relationships. In this two part series, they interview Amber's sister Libby and her boyfriend Saville. Libby and Saville have been dating for about 11 years, and have never spent an entire year consecutively living in the same place. Tune in for their experiences and how the ups and downs have shaped how they work as a couple today. 

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]]> Amber and Danny dive in with their second set of guests to discuss long distance relationships. In this two part series, they interview Amber's sister Libby and her boyfriend Saville. Libby and Saville have been dating for about 11 years, and have never spent an entire year consecutively living in the same place. Tune in for their experiences and how the ups and downs have shaped how they work as a couple today. 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-7880347 Thu, 18 Feb 2021 00:00:00 -0600 2495 1 23 full false Things I Don't Like About My Spouse Things I Don't Like About My Spouse You read that right, Amber and Danny are making a list and checking it twice about they things they don't like about each other! Listen while they discuss a current issue and wrap things up in a cute little bow by talking about what they love most about each other. Come on, we all have things we don't like about our Sig O, right?! 

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]]> You read that right, Amber and Danny are making a list and checking it twice about they things they don't like about each other! Listen while they discuss a current issue and wrap things up in a cute little bow by talking about what they love most about each other. Come on, we all have things we don't like about our Sig O, right?! 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-7755214 Thu, 11 Feb 2021 00:00:00 -0600 1729 1 22 full false Things to Normalize in a Relationship Things to Normalize in a Relationship Episode 21 explores the ideas that not everything you've been told about relationships is true. Amber and Danny debunk relationship myths, and let you know its ok to "normalize" certain human behaviors inside of the relationship. Want to have a friend of the the opposite sex? Occasionally like to sleep alone? Find out what Amber and Danny think about these common relationship no-nos. Inspiration and research for this episode is cited in the courses below! 

Sources: 

Instagram : @justgirlproject

https://www.bustle.com/p/8-common-relationship-goals-to-ignore-if-you-want-a-healthy-partnership-15724194

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]]> Episode 21 explores the ideas that not everything you've been told about relationships is true. Amber and Danny debunk relationship myths, and let you know its ok to "normalize" certain human behaviors inside of the relationship. Want to have a friend of the the opposite sex? Occasionally like to sleep alone? Find out what Amber and Danny think about these common relationship no-nos. Inspiration and research for this episode is cited in the courses below! 

Sources: 

Instagram : @justgirlproject

https://www.bustle.com/p/8-common-relationship-goals-to-ignore-if-you-want-a-healthy-partnership-15724194

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-7623511 Thu, 04 Feb 2021 00:00:00 -0600 2016 1 21 full true Damber Update Damber Update Welcome to Episode 20! Amber and Danny are giving you an update on all things Damber; things they've said on the pod, promises they've made to one another, resolution tracking, it's all part of it. Coming to you today from bed, these two spill the tea on what is going on in their world, how they are feeling with the state of the pandemic, and how that is hitting them in their relationship. 



Sweatshirt discussed in the podcast from Phenomenal Woman: https://phenomenalwoman.us/collections/crewnecks/products/ambitious 

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]]> Welcome to Episode 20! Amber and Danny are giving you an update on all things Damber; things they've said on the pod, promises they've made to one another, resolution tracking, it's all part of it. Coming to you today from bed, these two spill the tea on what is going on in their world, how they are feeling with the state of the pandemic, and how that is hitting them in their relationship. 



Sweatshirt discussed in the podcast from Phenomenal Woman: https://phenomenalwoman.us/collections/crewnecks/products/ambitious 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-7484662 Thu, 28 Jan 2021 00:00:00 -0600 1482 1 20 full true Never Have I Ever Never Have I Ever In episode 19 Amber and Danny play "Never Have I Ever" revealing tid-bits about their relationship, as well as untold stories, that the two of them have never even shared with each other. Grab a drink and play along, or strap in for an episode full of laughter and embarrassment. To continue playing along join their patreon page for the xxx-version of Never Have I Ever. 

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]]> In episode 19 Amber and Danny play "Never Have I Ever" revealing tid-bits about their relationship, as well as untold stories, that the two of them have never even shared with each other. Grab a drink and play along, or strap in for an episode full of laughter and embarrassment. To continue playing along join their patreon page for the xxx-version of Never Have I Ever. 

www.patreon.com/relationshipgoalsqm

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-7356403 Thu, 21 Jan 2021 00:00:00 -0600 2034 1 19 full true How to Fall in Love Part 3 How to Fall in Love Part 3 In episode 18 Amber and Danny continue to use the New York Times Article, "The 36 Questions that lead to love" by Daniel Jones to discuss getting to know you questions. This article is based on Mandy Len Catron's essay "To fall in love anyone, do this" where she discusses a study by psychologist Arthur Aron and his associates which notes that intimacy can be accelerated by a specific series of questions. Amber and Danny break down the 36 questions continuing with part 3 here. See if true love really comes after just 36 questions. 

New York Times article: https://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/09/style/no-37-big-wedding-or-small.html?smid=fb-nytimes&smtyp=cur&fbclid=IwAR3nLFUleVc34bj6shIjXtCWG_U5wgKrxm8upEcEcqYIXsaJv4m42IzyjRM

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]]> In episode 18 Amber and Danny continue to use the New York Times Article, "The 36 Questions that lead to love" by Daniel Jones to discuss getting to know you questions. This article is based on Mandy Len Catron's essay "To fall in love anyone, do this" where she discusses a study by psychologist Arthur Aron and his associates which notes that intimacy can be accelerated by a specific series of questions. Amber and Danny break down the 36 questions continuing with part 3 here. See if true love really comes after just 36 questions. 

New York Times article: https://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/09/style/no-37-big-wedding-or-small.html?smid=fb-nytimes&smtyp=cur&fbclid=IwAR3nLFUleVc34bj6shIjXtCWG_U5wgKrxm8upEcEcqYIXsaJv4m42IzyjRM

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-7152919 Thu, 14 Jan 2021 00:00:00 -0600 1804 1 18 full true How to Fall in Love Part 2 How to Fall in Love Part 2 In episode 17 Amber and Danny continue to use the New York Times Article, "The 36 Questions that lead to love" by Daniel Jones to discuss getting to know you questions. This article is based on Mandy Len Catron's essay "To fall in love anyone, do this" where she discusses a study by psychologist Arthur Aron and his associates which notes that intimacy can be accelerated by a specific series of questions. Amber and Danny break down the 36 questions continuing with part 2 here. See if they fall in love all over again in section 2! 

New York Times article: https://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/09/style/no-37-big-wedding-or-small.html?smid=fb-nytimes&smtyp=cur&fbclid=IwAR3nLFUleVc34bj6shIjXtCWG_U5wgKrxm8upEcEcqYIXsaJv4m42IzyjRM

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]]> In episode 17 Amber and Danny continue to use the New York Times Article, "The 36 Questions that lead to love" by Daniel Jones to discuss getting to know you questions. This article is based on Mandy Len Catron's essay "To fall in love anyone, do this" where she discusses a study by psychologist Arthur Aron and his associates which notes that intimacy can be accelerated by a specific series of questions. Amber and Danny break down the 36 questions continuing with part 2 here. See if they fall in love all over again in section 2! 

New York Times article: https://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/09/style/no-37-big-wedding-or-small.html?smid=fb-nytimes&smtyp=cur&fbclid=IwAR3nLFUleVc34bj6shIjXtCWG_U5wgKrxm8upEcEcqYIXsaJv4m42IzyjRM

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-7144531 Thu, 07 Jan 2021 00:00:00 -0600 2033 1 17 full true How to Fall in Love How to Fall in Love In episode 16 Amber and Danny use the New York Times Article, "The 36 Questions that lead to love" by Daniel Jones to discuss getting to know you questions. This article is based on Mandy Len Catron's essay "To fall in love anyone, do this" where she discusses a study by psychologist Arthur Aron and his associates which notes that intimacy can be accelerated by a specific series of questions. Amber and Danny break down the 36 episodes, beginning with part 1 here. 



New York Times article: https://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/09/style/no-37-big-wedding-or-small.html?smid=fb-nytimes&smtyp=cur&fbclid=IwAR3nLFUleVc34bj6shIjXtCWG_U5wgKrxm8upEcEcqYIXsaJv4m42IzyjRM

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]]> In episode 16 Amber and Danny use the New York Times Article, "The 36 Questions that lead to love" by Daniel Jones to discuss getting to know you questions. This article is based on Mandy Len Catron's essay "To fall in love anyone, do this" where she discusses a study by psychologist Arthur Aron and his associates which notes that intimacy can be accelerated by a specific series of questions. Amber and Danny break down the 36 episodes, beginning with part 1 here. 



New York Times article: https://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/09/style/no-37-big-wedding-or-small.html?smid=fb-nytimes&smtyp=cur&fbclid=IwAR3nLFUleVc34bj6shIjXtCWG_U5wgKrxm8upEcEcqYIXsaJv4m42IzyjRM

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-7041622 Thu, 31 Dec 2020 00:00:00 -0600 2085 1 16 full true Wedding Trends Part 2 Wedding Trends Part 2 Back by popular demand is wedding trends part 2!  Amber and Danny dive back into some classic, some trendy, wedding trends and give their, sometimes, brutally honest opinions on what they love and hate about your wedding days. 



sources: 

brides.com 

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]]> Back by popular demand is wedding trends part 2!  Amber and Danny dive back into some classic, some trendy, wedding trends and give their, sometimes, brutally honest opinions on what they love and hate about your wedding days. 



sources: 

brides.com 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-6950825 Thu, 24 Dec 2020 00:00:00 -0600 3819 1 15 full true New Year's Resolutions New Year's Resolutions In Episode 14 Danny and Amber talk New Years resolutions! Some they've kept, others they haven't. They look back on all the good that has happened in their lives in 2020 and make predictions about what is about to happen in 2021. Will they be right? Only time will tell. 

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]]> In Episode 14 Danny and Amber talk New Years resolutions! Some they've kept, others they haven't. They look back on all the good that has happened in their lives in 2020 and make predictions about what is about to happen in 2021. Will they be right? Only time will tell. 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-6853219 Thu, 17 Dec 2020 00:00:00 -0600 1964 1 14 full true Relationship Advice Relationship Advice In un-lucky episode 13 Amber and Danny Zakem debunk commonly give  relationship advice, plus share their experiences on the best and worst relationship advice they've ever been given. Think the first kiss matters, should you never go to bed angry? Find out what Damber has to say on this week's episode! 

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]]> In un-lucky episode 13 Amber and Danny Zakem debunk commonly give  relationship advice, plus share their experiences on the best and worst relationship advice they've ever been given. Think the first kiss matters, should you never go to bed angry? Find out what Damber has to say on this week's episode! 

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]]> Buzzsprout-6739090 Thu, 10 Dec 2020 00:00:00 -0600 2311 1 13 full true Wedding Trends Wedding Trends In episode 12 "Wedding Trends" Amber and Danny talk their own wedding, what they did, what they wished they did, and what they would not do looking back. They then take a deep dive into traditional and modern wedding trends and controversially remark if they love or loath said trend. Whether you agree or disagree this episode is sure to give you some wedding Inspo! 

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]]> In episode 12 "Wedding Trends" Amber and Danny talk their own wedding, what they did, what they wished they did, and what they would not do looking back. They then take a deep dive into traditional and modern wedding trends and controversially remark if they love or loath said trend. Whether you agree or disagree this episode is sure to give you some wedding Inspo! 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-6615544 Thu, 03 Dec 2020 00:00:00 -0600 2963 1 12 full true Core Group of Friends Part 2 Core Group of Friends Part 2 In the second part of the "Core Group of Friends" Episode Danny and Amber are still joined by Emma Schremp and Caina Weiner. In this part, the group switches gears from discussing Relationship Goals in the romantic sense, to talking about Relationship Goals in the friendship sense.  Amber, Caina, and Emma have been friends for over a decade and have gone through breakups, moves, family hardships, and talk about what they value in long term friendships as well as looking to the future in making new friends. The episode ends with an unfiltered "Ask Damber" segment where our hosts Danny and Amber answer all of Caina and Emma's burning questions. 

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]]> In the second part of the "Core Group of Friends" Episode Danny and Amber are still joined by Emma Schremp and Caina Weiner. In this part, the group switches gears from discussing Relationship Goals in the romantic sense, to talking about Relationship Goals in the friendship sense.  Amber, Caina, and Emma have been friends for over a decade and have gone through breakups, moves, family hardships, and talk about what they value in long term friendships as well as looking to the future in making new friends. The episode ends with an unfiltered "Ask Damber" segment where our hosts Danny and Amber answer all of Caina and Emma's burning questions. 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-6384790 Thu, 26 Nov 2020 00:00:00 -0600 3002 1 11 full true Core Group of Friends Part 1 Core Group of Friends Part 1 In part 1 of the two part episode titled "Core Group of Friends" Danny and Amber welcome their first guests, Emma Schremp and Caina Weiner. Emma and Caina have been Amber's closest friends for over a decade, and are on the podcast talking about what they find to be relationship goals, as well as giving us all a sneak peak into their own relationships. Emma is newly engaged to her boyfriend of approximately 15 years (on and off, don't worry she explains). And Caina is newly dating her high school boyfriend, who she hasn't been with in over 12 years. This episode gives great insight into two unique relationships all on their own. 

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]]> In part 1 of the two part episode titled "Core Group of Friends" Danny and Amber welcome their first guests, Emma Schremp and Caina Weiner. Emma and Caina have been Amber's closest friends for over a decade, and are on the podcast talking about what they find to be relationship goals, as well as giving us all a sneak peak into their own relationships. Emma is newly engaged to her boyfriend of approximately 15 years (on and off, don't worry she explains). And Caina is newly dating her high school boyfriend, who she hasn't been with in over 12 years. This episode gives great insight into two unique relationships all on their own. 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-6384697 Thu, 19 Nov 2020 00:00:00 -0600 2541 1 10 full true Kids Kids In this week's episode Danny and Amber discuss the rollercoaster of life that has brought them at their current decision to have kids. Danny makes a PSA, Amber discusses her dream of being the cool drunk aunt, however will these two eventually pull the plug? Find out on this week's episode of Relatinship Goals? 

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]]> In this week's episode Danny and Amber discuss the rollercoaster of life that has brought them at their current decision to have kids. Danny makes a PSA, Amber discusses her dream of being the cool drunk aunt, however will these two eventually pull the plug? Find out on this week's episode of Relatinship Goals? 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-6293695 Thu, 12 Nov 2020 01:00:00 -0600 2004 1 9 full true The Hinge Experience The Hinge Experience Amber and Danny, a married couple, individually download the dating app Hinge and spend a week experiencing the app to the fullest. Find out how spending a week living as a pseudo-single person in the world of internet dating went for this long term (8 years) coupled up duo. 

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]]> Amber and Danny, a married couple, individually download the dating app Hinge and spend a week experiencing the app to the fullest. Find out how spending a week living as a pseudo-single person in the world of internet dating went for this long term (8 years) coupled up duo. 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-6196573 Thu, 05 Nov 2020 00:00:00 -0600 1811 1 8 full true Social Media Social Media Episode 7 was inspired by an Instagram poll by one of Amber's friends. In the poll, followers were asked, "Is posting a sexy selfie the same as liking a sexy selfie". Amber and Danny give their take on this poll question and expand further on establishing a line in a relationship and understanding your significant other's intentions. Tell us what you think of this episode on any of our social media pages or by rating/reviewing us on Apple Podcasts! 

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]]> Episode 7 was inspired by an Instagram poll by one of Amber's friends. In the poll, followers were asked, "Is posting a sexy selfie the same as liking a sexy selfie". Amber and Danny give their take on this poll question and expand further on establishing a line in a relationship and understanding your significant other's intentions. Tell us what you think of this episode on any of our social media pages or by rating/reviewing us on Apple Podcasts! 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-6053377 Thu, 29 Oct 2020 00:00:00 -0500 1775 1 7 full true Holidays Holidays Bring on the Christmas cheer mother fuckers! In Episode 6 Danny and Amber Zakem talk about how they have made the holidays their own. Sick of the family drama? Constant travel? Well sit back and enjoy a cup of holiday cheer with your new favorite couple #RelationshipGoalsQM

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]]> Bring on the Christmas cheer mother fuckers! In Episode 6 Danny and Amber Zakem talk about how they have made the holidays their own. Sick of the family drama? Constant travel? Well sit back and enjoy a cup of holiday cheer with your new favorite couple #RelationshipGoalsQM

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-5971219 Thu, 22 Oct 2020 00:00:00 -0500 2209 1 6 full true The One The One In Episode 5 Amber and Danny discuss how they knew that each other was "the one". They talk about the significant moments in their relationship that solidified their feelings about one another and how choosing each other over and over again plays a crucial role in going the distance. The Zakems also discuss ways to know if the person you are dating is "the one". 

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]]> In Episode 5 Amber and Danny discuss how they knew that each other was "the one". They talk about the significant moments in their relationship that solidified their feelings about one another and how choosing each other over and over again plays a crucial role in going the distance. The Zakems also discuss ways to know if the person you are dating is "the one". 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-5882026 Thu, 15 Oct 2020 00:00:00 -0500 2202 1 5 full true Love Languages Love Languages In episode 4 Amber and Danny Zakem talk the 5 love languages. Why knowing these languages about yourself is important, but also for your romantic and platonic relationships. Enjoy this light hearted take on the concept developed in the 1992 book by Gary Chapman. 

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]]> In episode 4 Amber and Danny Zakem talk the 5 love languages. Why knowing these languages about yourself is important, but also for your romantic and platonic relationships. Enjoy this light hearted take on the concept developed in the 1992 book by Gary Chapman. 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-5801107 Thu, 08 Oct 2020 09:00:00 -0500 1845 1 4 full true Shared Responsibilities Shared Responsibilities In Episode 3 Danny and Amber Zakem discuss the task of splitting responsibilities in their lives and how this has led to one of their biggest, and longest fights. From handling household duties, taking care of pets, and paying bills, this is one relationship fight that many couples can related to! 

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]]> In Episode 3 Danny and Amber Zakem discuss the task of splitting responsibilities in their lives and how this has led to one of their biggest, and longest fights. From handling household duties, taking care of pets, and paying bills, this is one relationship fight that many couples can related to! 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-5681266 Wed, 30 Sep 2020 15:00:00 -0500 1781 1 3 full true Surviving 2020 Surviving 2020 In episode 2 Amber and Danny do a deep dive into how 2020 affected their relationship as a couple. They look at the good and the bad times, and as 2020 continues, they both take a step back to re-evaluate some of their feelings during this very unknown, yet telling year. 

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]]> In episode 2 Amber and Danny do a deep dive into how 2020 affected their relationship as a couple. They look at the good and the bad times, and as 2020 continues, they both take a step back to re-evaluate some of their feelings during this very unknown, yet telling year. 

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]]> Amber Zakem and Danny Zakem Buzzsprout-5459059 Tue, 15 Sep 2020 18:00:00 -0500 1806 1 2 full true Relationship Goals? Relationship Goals? In the first episode of the podcast, Amber and Danny discuss what relationship goals really means to them, what factors contribute to being relationships goals, and what the future of this podcast holds. Meet your favorite new couple known as "Damber". 

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]]> In the first episode of the podcast, Amber and Danny discuss what relationship goals really means to them, what factors contribute to being relationships goals, and what the future of this podcast holds. Meet your favorite new couple known as "Damber". 

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