How I F*ck Thu, 05 Mar 2026 11:50:02 -0500 https://howifck.buzzsprout.com en-us © 2026 How I F*ck yes 9ec1aca8-8e33-54ea-adff-05680fac1a7c How I F*ck episodic true Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com) How I F*ck https://storage.buzzsprout.com/pcwpcjw5wl7a4q4git58m8wzfqfn?.jpg How I F*ck How I F*ck with Cannabis How I F*ck with Cannabis Lizzy Jeff is many things: A medicine woman, rap priestess, entrepreneur. But most importantly she is a proponent of spirituality and sensuality. She credits cannabis for helping her get where she is now in her spiritual and sexual journey and has made it her mission to help others reach their own "sex magic" using the power of cannabis.

So how can cannabis give you the kind of orgasms Lizzy lushes about in this episode? We'll you're just going to have to roll a joint and listen to this episode to find out. 


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]]> Lizzy Jeff is many things: A medicine woman, rap priestess, entrepreneur. But most importantly she is a proponent of spirituality and sensuality. She credits cannabis for helping her get where she is now in her spiritual and sexual journey and has made it her mission to help others reach their own "sex magic" using the power of cannabis.

So how can cannabis give you the kind of orgasms Lizzy lushes about in this episode? We'll you're just going to have to roll a joint and listen to this episode to find out. 


Follow Lizzy's Instagram and learn more about how you can combine cannabis and sex. And don't forget to check out if there's an upcoming Zen and Kush event near you.

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]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-10127696 Wed, 23 Feb 2022 00:00:00 -0800 2330 3 10 full true BONUS: How I F*ck as a Sex Podcaster BONUS: How I F*ck as a Sex Podcaster Host and creator Natalie Rivera sits down with Ana Dee of Slutrepenur, and Nikki and Cami of Double Teamed to talk about what it's like having a sex podcast and what their sex lives looked like before and after starting their shows.

Listen to Doubled Teamed here and follow Nikki and Cami's adventures on their Insta.
Check out The Slutrepreneur Podcasthere and get slutty money tips from Ana on her Insta. 


]]> Host and creator Natalie Rivera sits down with Ana Dee of Slutrepenur, and Nikki and Cami of Double Teamed to talk about what it's like having a sex podcast and what their sex lives looked like before and after starting their shows.

Listen to Doubled Teamed here and follow Nikki and Cami's adventures on their Insta.
Check out The Slutrepreneur Podcasthere and get slutty money tips from Ana on her Insta. 


]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-10084827 Wed, 16 Feb 2022 00:00:00 -0800 5865 bonus true How I F*ck as a Woman with Dwarfism How I F*ck as a Woman with Dwarfism Jade has spent most of her life either being fetishized or not being taken seriously because of her height and disabilities. She’s a little person who started her sexual journey early in life, yet she still comes across people who are either surprised she can have sex at all or see her as something else to cross off their bucket list. Now a mother and wife with hardly any job opportunities, Jade is expressing her sexuality and teaching others what dwarfism is really like with her successful Only Fans account. So what kind of content do Jade's fans request? Well...the possibilities are endless. 


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]]> Jade has spent most of her life either being fetishized or not being taken seriously because of her height and disabilities. She’s a little person who started her sexual journey early in life, yet she still comes across people who are either surprised she can have sex at all or see her as something else to cross off their bucket list. Now a mother and wife with hardly any job opportunities, Jade is expressing her sexuality and teaching others what dwarfism is really like with her successful Only Fans account. So what kind of content do Jade's fans request? Well...the possibilities are endless. 


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]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-10041286 Wed, 09 Feb 2022 01:00:00 -0800 2131 3 9 full true How I F*ck as a Professional Male Dominant How I F*ck as a Professional Male Dominant A self-taught pro-domme, Joshua Rodriguez, or Master Joshua, first got into BDSM because he was looking for connection. Not just with other people, but with himself. He's helped a lot of people in his decade of working as a pro domme. From flogging to peeing, Joshua’s clients get more than pleasure out of their session with him—they get therapy.

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]]> A self-taught pro-domme, Joshua Rodriguez, or Master Joshua, first got into BDSM because he was looking for connection. Not just with other people, but with himself. He's helped a lot of people in his decade of working as a pro domme. From flogging to peeing, Joshua’s clients get more than pleasure out of their session with him—they get therapy.

Check out Master Joshua's website to find out more about his services.

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]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-9954788 Wed, 26 Jan 2022 01:00:00 -0800 1968 3 8 full true How I F*ck as a Transgender Man How I F*ck as a Transgender Man Nathaniel's cl*t grew after he started taking testosterone, resulting in something called “bottom growth.” For him, a trans man, it felt like he had a small penis, which made for some great orgasms but also resulted in some dysphoria. So what’s it like sleeping with Nathaniel? Well, he needs a safe space and for his partner to touch him the right way.

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]]> Nathaniel's cl*t grew after he started taking testosterone, resulting in something called “bottom growth.” For him, a trans man, it felt like he had a small penis, which made for some great orgasms but also resulted in some dysphoria. So what’s it like sleeping with Nathaniel? Well, he needs a safe space and for his partner to touch him the right way.

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]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-9872650 Wed, 12 Jan 2022 01:00:00 -0800 2610 3 7 full true How I F*ck with Erectile Dysfunction How I F*ck with Erectile Dysfunction Getting it up was a challenge. Keeping it up was an even bigger challenge. These are just some of the struggles Aaron Canada has experienced in the last 20 years of his life as a man living with erectile dysfunction. But having ED doesn't mean you don't have a sex life...it just means you need to know some workarounds. Thankfully, Aaron has some pointers.


You can watch Aaron's short documentary and support his upcoming doc with his fiancé here. If you like what you see, then make sure to give Aaron a follow on Twitter and Instagram.

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]]> Getting it up was a challenge. Keeping it up was an even bigger challenge. These are just some of the struggles Aaron Canada has experienced in the last 20 years of his life as a man living with erectile dysfunction. But having ED doesn't mean you don't have a sex life...it just means you need to know some workarounds. Thankfully, Aaron has some pointers.


You can watch Aaron's short documentary and support his upcoming doc with his fiancé here. If you like what you see, then make sure to give Aaron a follow on Twitter and Instagram.

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]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-9723946 Wed, 15 Dec 2021 01:00:00 -0800 1991 3 6 full true How I F*ck as a Polyamorous Muslim How I F*ck as a Polyamorous Muslim Laila (not their real name) is Muslim, kinky, polyamorous, immunocompromised, and nonbinary. She married her cousin at 18 with little sexual experience and zero sexual education. After some trial and error and kink classes, Laila discovered that not only are they hungry for pleasure, but they’re also a dom who can love more than one person.

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]]> Laila (not their real name) is Muslim, kinky, polyamorous, immunocompromised, and nonbinary. She married her cousin at 18 with little sexual experience and zero sexual education. After some trial and error and kink classes, Laila discovered that not only are they hungry for pleasure, but they’re also a dom who can love more than one person.

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]]> Buzzsprout-9642958 Wed, 01 Dec 2021 02:00:00 -0800 2298 3 5 full true How I F*ck as a Sex Party Planner How I F*ck as a Sex Party Planner Maria Stavrou has enjoyed group sex since she was in her early twenties, so it made sense that she would answer a job listing for a hostess gig at a sex party company. At first, it was greeting guests, then it was being the event’s opening act, and then hit was planning the party itself. Here’s what Maria has arranged, what she’s seen, and what she thinks everyone should know before signing up for a sex party.

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]]> Maria Stavrou has enjoyed group sex since she was in her early twenties, so it made sense that she would answer a job listing for a hostess gig at a sex party company. At first, it was greeting guests, then it was being the event’s opening act, and then hit was planning the party itself. Here’s what Maria has arranged, what she’s seen, and what she thinks everyone should know before signing up for a sex party.

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]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-9563166 Wed, 17 Nov 2021 01:00:00 -0800 1902 3 4 full true How I F*ck with a Micropenis How I F*ck with a Micropenis Michael (not his real name) still remembers being made fun of for his size back in high school. And by size, we mean his size down there. Michael has a micropenis, and while reactions to it have varied, his penis size has inspired him to try new things in the bedroom and with himself. One of these new adventures involves something he never thought would turn him on: humiliation. So what does it mean when the thing that got you picked on in school is now the thing you're the most aroused by?

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]]> Michael (not his real name) still remembers being made fun of for his size back in high school. And by size, we mean his size down there. Michael has a micropenis, and while reactions to it have varied, his penis size has inspired him to try new things in the bedroom and with himself. One of these new adventures involves something he never thought would turn him on: humiliation. So what does it mean when the thing that got you picked on in school is now the thing you're the most aroused by?

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]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-9481848 Wed, 03 Nov 2021 00:00:00 -0700 1755 3 3 full true How I F*ck with Bipolar Disorder How I F*ck with Bipolar Disorder For a lot of people, the last thing on their minds when they're going through a depressive episode is sex.  That rings true for writer Kiana Fitzgerald, but when it comes to her bipolar I disorder, well, that's where things get a little more complicated. What does it feel like to have sex during a manic episode, and how can you really tell the difference between when you're feeling hypersexual (a likely symptom of bipolar) or when you're just feeling horny? Kiana walks us through her experience with bipolar disorder, pleasure, and love...something she had a taste of during probably one of the most defining moments in her life: her first manic episode.


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]]> For a lot of people, the last thing on their minds when they're going through a depressive episode is sex.  That rings true for writer Kiana Fitzgerald, but when it comes to her bipolar I disorder, well, that's where things get a little more complicated. What does it feel like to have sex during a manic episode, and how can you really tell the difference between when you're feeling hypersexual (a likely symptom of bipolar) or when you're just feeling horny? Kiana walks us through her experience with bipolar disorder, pleasure, and love...something she had a taste of during probably one of the most defining moments in her life: her first manic episode.


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]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-9400228 Wed, 20 Oct 2021 00:00:00 -0700 1818 3 2 full true How I F*ck as a Professional MILF How I F*ck as a Professional MILF Rachel Steele was a single mother working at a nail salon when she met a dancer who was making a lot more money than she was at that time. She realized she was in the wrong business, and within a couple of years went from dancer to cam girl to full-on producer. Her most popular content? MILF videos, including mother-son, mother-daughter, and even family orgy videos. These sexy age gaps and taboo role-playing dominate Rachel’s career… and her personal life. For Rachel, being a professional MILF is more than just cute cardigans and incestual storylines— it’s about getting inside the minds of her fans.

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]]> Rachel Steele was a single mother working at a nail salon when she met a dancer who was making a lot more money than she was at that time. She realized she was in the wrong business, and within a couple of years went from dancer to cam girl to full-on producer. Her most popular content? MILF videos, including mother-son, mother-daughter, and even family orgy videos. These sexy age gaps and taboo role-playing dominate Rachel’s career… and her personal life. For Rachel, being a professional MILF is more than just cute cardigans and incestual storylines— it’s about getting inside the minds of her fans.

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]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-9320457 Wed, 06 Oct 2021 00:00:00 -0700 2454 3 1 full true How I F*ck is Back October 6 How I F*ck is Back October 6 How I F*ck is back for a third season October 6, and we've got a tiny surprise for you.

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]]> How I F*ck is back for a third season October 6, and we've got a tiny surprise for you.

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]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-9198153 Wed, 15 Sep 2021 00:00:00 -0700 42 3 trailer true How I F*ck as a Polyamorous Woman with Herpes How I F*ck as a Polyamorous Woman with Herpes Carolyn was recovering from a broken heart when she realized an ingrown hair in her bikini area wasn’t what she thought it was. Herpes-positive, bisexual, and poly, Carolyn refused to let her diagnosis stop her from having sex with multiple partners at a time. Having found a community of equally promiscuous people like herself, Carolyn decided that the best way to celebrate her sexuality was to attend sex parties. But how exactly does someone with an incurable STD navigate sex parties and sleeping with multiple partners? Thankfully, the self-published author sat down with us to share what she’s learned.

Where to buy Carolyn's book:  https://carolyntoney.com/

]]> Carolyn was recovering from a broken heart when she realized an ingrown hair in her bikini area wasn’t what she thought it was. Herpes-positive, bisexual, and poly, Carolyn refused to let her diagnosis stop her from having sex with multiple partners at a time. Having found a community of equally promiscuous people like herself, Carolyn decided that the best way to celebrate her sexuality was to attend sex parties. But how exactly does someone with an incurable STD navigate sex parties and sleeping with multiple partners? Thankfully, the self-published author sat down with us to share what she’s learned.

Where to buy Carolyn's book:  https://carolyntoney.com/

]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-8629322 Wed, 02 Jun 2021 00:00:00 -0700 1877 2 9 full true How I F*ck with Two Vaginas How I F*ck with Two Vaginas Katie and her husband were fooling around when they realized that there was something wrong with her vagina. Fast forward to some years later, and Katie is now a mother who skips pool days, invests in lube, and dreams of one day using a menstrual cup. She spoke with How I F*ck about what it’s like to live with Uterus Didelphys, a rare anomaly that can result in two uteruses, two cervixes, and two vaginas—which is what Katie has— and why it’s important that doctors not only listen to women’s pain but also their pleasure…or lack of. 

]]> Katie and her husband were fooling around when they realized that there was something wrong with her vagina. Fast forward to some years later, and Katie is now a mother who skips pool days, invests in lube, and dreams of one day using a menstrual cup. She spoke with How I F*ck about what it’s like to live with Uterus Didelphys, a rare anomaly that can result in two uteruses, two cervixes, and two vaginas—which is what Katie has— and why it’s important that doctors not only listen to women’s pain but also their pleasure…or lack of. 

]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-8539713 Wed, 19 May 2021 00:00:00 -0700 1428 2 8 full true How I F*ck with Blood and Vampires How I F*ck with Blood and Vampires Raven Belasco always knew vampires and monsters turned her on, but it wasn’t until she met a nurse that she felt comfortable enough to bring those dark fantasies into the bedroom. From blood play to BDSM, Raven’s sexual adventures have involved hypodermic needles, fountains of menstrual blood, and even role-playing satanic rituals. 

Now, Raven is bringing her sensual dark fantasies to life with her vampire books. In her writing, she answers the question many writers and vampire fanatics have asked themselves for decades: How do vampires f***?

Where to buy Raven's book:
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https://books2read.com/bxl

]]> Raven Belasco always knew vampires and monsters turned her on, but it wasn’t until she met a nurse that she felt comfortable enough to bring those dark fantasies into the bedroom. From blood play to BDSM, Raven’s sexual adventures have involved hypodermic needles, fountains of menstrual blood, and even role-playing satanic rituals. 

Now, Raven is bringing her sensual dark fantasies to life with her vampire books. In her writing, she answers the question many writers and vampire fanatics have asked themselves for decades: How do vampires f***?

Where to buy Raven's book:
https://bookshop.org/lists/blood-ancient-scrolls
https://books2read.com/bxl

]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-8462265 Wed, 05 May 2021 00:00:00 -0700 1370 2 7 full true How I F*ck in a Swinger Relationship How I F*ck in a Swinger Relationship Brian and Brenna never imagined they'd find love and kink on Craigslist, but that's exactly what happened when a newly divorced Brenna posted an ad for a kinky dominant person interested in a play relationship. Fast forward to some years later and Brenna and Brian are sharing their experiences as a nonmonogamous couple with their listeners on their podcast, Front Porch Swingers. From pansexuality to hotwife experiences, Brenna and Brian are here to share their swinging love story with HIF listeners.

]]> Brian and Brenna never imagined they'd find love and kink on Craigslist, but that's exactly what happened when a newly divorced Brenna posted an ad for a kinky dominant person interested in a play relationship. Fast forward to some years later and Brenna and Brian are sharing their experiences as a nonmonogamous couple with their listeners on their podcast, Front Porch Swingers. From pansexuality to hotwife experiences, Brenna and Brian are here to share their swinging love story with HIF listeners.

]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-8374125 Wed, 21 Apr 2021 00:00:00 -0700 1820 2 6 full true How I F*ck as a Trans Porn Star with Buck Angel How I F*ck as a Trans Porn Star with Buck Angel Buck Angel was walking the streets of West Hollywood as a man in a woman’s body when he almost lost his life to a sexual transaction gone wrong. An addict for several years, Buck decided it was time to quit the alcohol and drugs and to finally transition from female to male. Now known as the “man with the vagina,” Buck Angel spoke with HIF about how keeping his vagina has influenced his sexuality and why he felt compelled to create a line of sex toys for trans men like himself.

]]> Buck Angel was walking the streets of West Hollywood as a man in a woman’s body when he almost lost his life to a sexual transaction gone wrong. An addict for several years, Buck decided it was time to quit the alcohol and drugs and to finally transition from female to male. Now known as the “man with the vagina,” Buck Angel spoke with HIF about how keeping his vagina has influenced his sexuality and why he felt compelled to create a line of sex toys for trans men like himself.

]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-8286478 Wed, 07 Apr 2021 00:00:00 -0700 1979 2 5 full true How I F*ck as a Burn Survivor How I F*ck as a Burn Survivor Sandy Jackman was living her best life as an openly gay woman in her home country of Guyana when she had acid thrown at her by a jealous ex-lover. Living with third-degree burns on the left side of her face, arms, and legs, Sandy had to go through extensive physical therapy to help ease her pain. But that wasn't the only physical activity that helped Sandy stretch her scars and muscles: There was also sex. 

]]> Sandy Jackman was living her best life as an openly gay woman in her home country of Guyana when she had acid thrown at her by a jealous ex-lover. Living with third-degree burns on the left side of her face, arms, and legs, Sandy had to go through extensive physical therapy to help ease her pain. But that wasn't the only physical activity that helped Sandy stretch her scars and muscles: There was also sex. 

]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-8200718 Wed, 24 Mar 2021 00:00:00 -0700 1597 2 4 full true How I F*ck After a Double Mastectomy How I F*ck After a Double Mastectomy Kelly loves her breasts...or at least she did.  At just 25, she decided to have both of her breasts removed after testing positive for a gene mutation that could potentially give her breast cancer later in life.  Losing one of her biggest sexual stimulators, Kelly, who has implants, has had to learn how to find pleasure in other ways.  She sat down with HIF about how much her breasts impacted her sex life, and how life post-mastectomy has taught her to finally love her body.

]]> Kelly loves her breasts...or at least she did.  At just 25, she decided to have both of her breasts removed after testing positive for a gene mutation that could potentially give her breast cancer later in life.  Losing one of her biggest sexual stimulators, Kelly, who has implants, has had to learn how to find pleasure in other ways.  She sat down with HIF about how much her breasts impacted her sex life, and how life post-mastectomy has taught her to finally love her body.

]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-8112382 Wed, 10 Mar 2021 00:00:00 -0800 1661 2 3 full true How I F*ck in a Throuple How I F*ck in a Throuple While most of us were baking bread during the pandemic, Johnisha, Destiny, and Jeron were falling in love... with each other.  Their love story actually goes back years and involves a devastating breakup, a Zoom wedding, and a boat metaphor that still has some of them confused to this day.

The trio talks to HIF about what it was like moving in together during a pandemic, and what someone's sex routine can be like when you have two partners.

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]]> While most of us were baking bread during the pandemic, Johnisha, Destiny, and Jeron were falling in love... with each other.  Their love story actually goes back years and involves a devastating breakup, a Zoom wedding, and a boat metaphor that still has some of them confused to this day.

The trio talks to HIF about what it was like moving in together during a pandemic, and what someone's sex routine can be like when you have two partners.

Divinity Trinity Instagram

]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-8018705 Wed, 24 Feb 2021 00:00:00 -0800 1900 2 2 full true How I F*ck as a Blind Woman How I F*ck as a Blind Woman Taylor Ellis doesn’t want to be remembered as just the “blind girl.” Her love of sex and her desire to break taboos motivated her to have sex at a young age despite her family and classmates’ judgment. Having slept with both blind and sighted people, Taylor talks to us about what she wishes sighted men would stop asking her during sex, and what an active movement against sexual assault in the blind community is teaching her about her own experiences.

]]> Taylor Ellis doesn’t want to be remembered as just the “blind girl.” Her love of sex and her desire to break taboos motivated her to have sex at a young age despite her family and classmates’ judgment. Having slept with both blind and sighted people, Taylor talks to us about what she wishes sighted men would stop asking her during sex, and what an active movement against sexual assault in the blind community is teaching her about her own experiences.

]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-7779823 Wed, 10 Feb 2021 00:00:00 -0800 1694 2 1 full true We're back!— How I F*ck Season 2 Trailer We're back!— How I F*ck Season 2 Trailer How I F*ck season 2 is coming your way, January, 27! Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts. 

]]> How I F*ck season 2 is coming your way, January, 27! Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts. 

]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-7303945 Fri, 15 Jan 2021 00:00:00 -0800 59 2 trailer true How I F*ck as an Autistic Woman How I F*ck as an Autistic Woman From erotic fan-fiction to her sexual intercourse comment card, Amy Gravino has always had a unique view of romance and sex. Amy, who is on the autism spectrum, is a public speaker and autism sexuality advocate who allowed herself to feel sexual pleasure and love when the rest of the world told her not to. 

Now Amy is educating other people on the spectrum on why it’s important for autistic people to talk openly about sex, and how they too can find pleasure.

]]> From erotic fan-fiction to her sexual intercourse comment card, Amy Gravino has always had a unique view of romance and sex. Amy, who is on the autism spectrum, is a public speaker and autism sexuality advocate who allowed herself to feel sexual pleasure and love when the rest of the world told her not to. 

Now Amy is educating other people on the spectrum on why it’s important for autistic people to talk openly about sex, and how they too can find pleasure.

]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-5993899 Wed, 21 Oct 2020 00:00:00 -0700 1351 1 10 full true How I F*ck while HIV-Positive How I F*ck while HIV-Positive Mark S. King was living out his dream in 1980 when he moved from Louisiana to West Hollywood to pursue acting. Openly gay, Mark indulged in the West Hollywood scene where gay sexual expression was celebrated. 

Fast forward to five years later and Mark and most of his social circle are diagnosed with HIV. Understandably scared for his life and the lives of his friends, Mark still refused to let HIV stop him from having a sex life. Here’s how Mark managed to still have pleasurable sex during the AIDS pandemic while HIV-positive.

]]> Mark S. King was living out his dream in 1980 when he moved from Louisiana to West Hollywood to pursue acting. Openly gay, Mark indulged in the West Hollywood scene where gay sexual expression was celebrated. 

Fast forward to five years later and Mark and most of his social circle are diagnosed with HIV. Understandably scared for his life and the lives of his friends, Mark still refused to let HIV stop him from having a sex life. Here’s how Mark managed to still have pleasurable sex during the AIDS pandemic while HIV-positive.

]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-5780866 Wed, 07 Oct 2020 00:00:00 -0700 1820 1 9 full true How I F*ck as a Fat Porn Star How I F*ck as a Fat Porn Star Adult performer April Flores was in her early twenties when she unexpectedly became a muse to photographer and director Carlos Batts. Together they made it their mission to change the porn industry by proving to the world that yes, fat girls like April do have sex… good sex. Now, a porn legend in her own right, April talks to HIF about what it’s like navigating the porn industry as a fat woman who would “rather be f*cking.”

]]> Adult performer April Flores was in her early twenties when she unexpectedly became a muse to photographer and director Carlos Batts. Together they made it their mission to change the porn industry by proving to the world that yes, fat girls like April do have sex… good sex. Now, a porn legend in her own right, April talks to HIF about what it’s like navigating the porn industry as a fat woman who would “rather be f*cking.”

]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-5566423 Wed, 23 Sep 2020 01:00:00 -0700 1345 1 8 full true How I F*ck as an Intersex Person How I F*ck as an Intersex Person Sean Saifa Wall was only a teenager when he was tricked into having a surgery he didn’t need. Born with intersex traits, doctors assigned Saifa female at birth even though his sexual anatomy didn’t match that of what is considered traditionally female. Still, his genitalia hasn’t stopped him from having some of the best sex of his life, nor has it prevented him from being an activist working to end intersex surgery once and for all.

]]> Sean Saifa Wall was only a teenager when he was tricked into having a surgery he didn’t need. Born with intersex traits, doctors assigned Saifa female at birth even though his sexual anatomy didn’t match that of what is considered traditionally female. Still, his genitalia hasn’t stopped him from having some of the best sex of his life, nor has it prevented him from being an activist working to end intersex surgery once and for all.

]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-5360347 Wed, 09 Sep 2020 00:00:00 -0700 1954 1 7 full true How I (Don't) F*ck as an Asexual Woman How I (Don't) F*ck as an Asexual Woman Yasmin Benoit is used to making heads turn with her lingerie modeling and her asexual and aromantic activism. While Yasmin's modeling career and her lack of sexual and romantic desire for other people might be hard for some people to comprehend, Yasmin assures us that these details are actually the least "weird" things about her. Get to know Yasmin and learn about asexuality in our special "How I Don't F*ck" episode.

]]> Yasmin Benoit is used to making heads turn with her lingerie modeling and her asexual and aromantic activism. While Yasmin's modeling career and her lack of sexual and romantic desire for other people might be hard for some people to comprehend, Yasmin assures us that these details are actually the least "weird" things about her. Get to know Yasmin and learn about asexuality in our special "How I Don't F*ck" episode.

]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-5154787 Wed, 26 Aug 2020 00:00:00 -0700 841 1 6 full true How I F*ck as a Professional Dominatrix How I F*ck as a Professional Dominatrix Mistress Maia McQueen was in her late twenties when she first started training to be a professional dominatrix. Before discovering her kinky side, Maia was a "bossy" young woman looking to be empowered after coming out of an abusive relationship. Now a pro domme with years of experience and a clientele, Maia describes the many different types of kinks she and her partner enjoy and the type of services her clients request. 

]]> Mistress Maia McQueen was in her late twenties when she first started training to be a professional dominatrix. Before discovering her kinky side, Maia was a "bossy" young woman looking to be empowered after coming out of an abusive relationship. Now a pro domme with years of experience and a clientele, Maia describes the many different types of kinks she and her partner enjoy and the type of services her clients request. 

]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-4961171 Wed, 12 Aug 2020 00:00:00 -0700 2107 1 5 full true How I F*ck as a Sexual Assault Survivor How I F*ck as a Sexual Assault Survivor Ashley Manta is a sex and relationship coach known to many as the Cannasexual. While Ashley combines sex and cannabis to enhance intimacy, she first started using cannabis to help her cope with the multiple sexual assaults she experienced throughout her life. But before discovering cannabis's effects on her, Ashley had to figure out on her own how to navigate sex as someone who felt pain during penetrative intercourse and who experienced PTSD as a result of her assaults.



]]> Ashley Manta is a sex and relationship coach known to many as the Cannasexual. While Ashley combines sex and cannabis to enhance intimacy, she first started using cannabis to help her cope with the multiple sexual assaults she experienced throughout her life. But before discovering cannabis's effects on her, Ashley had to figure out on her own how to navigate sex as someone who felt pain during penetrative intercourse and who experienced PTSD as a result of her assaults.



]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-4740824 Wed, 29 Jul 2020 00:00:00 -0700 1556 1 4 full true How I F*ck as a Black Pansexual Woman How I F*ck as a Black Pansexual Woman Non-black people across the U.S. are responding to the recent Black Lives Matter protests by taking time to reflect on their own internalized prejudices. But what about dating and sex? Should we also be taking time to reflect on our dating and sex habits, whether that be porn or our dating bios?

In this episode of How I F*ck, we speak with Ekelle, a black pansexual woman who's experienced othering and discrimination on dating apps and in real life. Ekelle also describes to us why sexual liberation is especially important for black women and how seeing black people killed frequently on the news affects her dating life.


]]> Non-black people across the U.S. are responding to the recent Black Lives Matter protests by taking time to reflect on their own internalized prejudices. But what about dating and sex? Should we also be taking time to reflect on our dating and sex habits, whether that be porn or our dating bios?

In this episode of How I F*ck, we speak with Ekelle, a black pansexual woman who's experienced othering and discrimination on dating apps and in real life. Ekelle also describes to us why sexual liberation is especially important for black women and how seeing black people killed frequently on the news affects her dating life.


]]> How I F*ck Buzzsprout-4572500 Wed, 15 Jul 2020 00:00:00 -0700 1374 1 3 full true How I F*ck as a Trans Woman How I F*ck as a Trans Woman Noelle came out as trans just weeks before her wedding. For some, that may seem like bad timing, but for Noelle, it was the perfect opportunity to finally present as the woman she always knew she was. Noelle sat down with How I F*ck to talk about how masturbation helped her cope with not being able to present as a woman and how transitioning inspired her to explore her sexuality more.

]]> Noelle came out as trans just weeks before her wedding. For some, that may seem like bad timing, but for Noelle, it was the perfect opportunity to finally present as the woman she always knew she was. Noelle sat down with How I F*ck to talk about how masturbation helped her cope with not being able to present as a woman and how transitioning inspired her to explore her sexuality more.

]]> How I F*ck podcast Buzzsprout-4385408 Wed, 01 Jul 2020 00:00:00 -0700 1474 1 2 full true How I F*ck with Cerebral Palsy How I F*ck with Cerebral Palsy Andrew Gurza is a disability awareness consultant and the creator and host of the award-winning podcast, Disability After Dark. Andrew, who lives with cerebral palsy, was in college when he realized that traditional dating wasn’t for him and that bringing himself to orgasm would mean rethinking his relationship with sex entirely. From representation in porn and sex education to hiring sex workers, Andrew tells HIF everything about what it’s like for him to have sex as a person with cerebral palsy. 

]]> Andrew Gurza is a disability awareness consultant and the creator and host of the award-winning podcast, Disability After Dark. Andrew, who lives with cerebral palsy, was in college when he realized that traditional dating wasn’t for him and that bringing himself to orgasm would mean rethinking his relationship with sex entirely. From representation in porn and sex education to hiring sex workers, Andrew tells HIF everything about what it’s like for him to have sex as a person with cerebral palsy. 

]]> How I F*ck podcast Buzzsprout-4204922 Wed, 17 Jun 2020 00:00:00 -0700 1499 1 1 full true How I F*ck Season 1 Trailer How I F*ck Season 1 Trailer New episodes every other Wednesday starting June 17.

]]> New episodes every other Wednesday starting June 17.

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